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Tuesday, 15 November 2016

Between The Wife And The Side Chick...

Is it right for a wife to confront her man's side chick?I mean wouldnt it be better to confront the man at home than the woman outside?what is your take on this?















234 comments:

  1. Confront the man, 90% of the time they do the asking.

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    1. If you spread ur grains in the sun & chickens come to feed & shit on them, do you ignore them & go searching for the owner? C'mon address the impending chaos striaght up b4 anythg else.... Choose ur weapon, Grenade, acid, potassium chloride, AK47, midnight thugs, 9mm, watch war room, divorce, one bucket of coconut oil.... Etc.

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    2. That's a loose end that needs attention quickly, HIV & co can leak into ur household thru that channel, so do watever it takes to stitch it on time & save 99.

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    3. I don't do married men but hey if any woman mistakenly confront me without her horseband honouring their vows and making her proud by telling me he's married..I will so rubbish her!!why come down so low

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    4. The wife don't have any business with the side chick.
      Face your husband

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    5. Hmm side chick accepting to be low.

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    6. Confront your husband and confront the girl. I would totally confront any lady that tries to break my home.

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  2. It's kinda complicated,maybe the man didn't tell the lady he's married.You don't call other women to order,you should confront your husband.I really love the lady's response,so matured.

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    1. It's obvious the side chic was painted.
      Why say *alright/thank you*?
      She's supposed to be apologizing.

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    2. Yu must b a real dullard, wat did yu want her to say,, she Jus found out her bf is married and yu dnt expect her to n pained, yu r a fool aswear

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    3. Yu must b a real dullard, wat did yu want her to say,, she Jus found out her bf is married and yu dnt expect her to n pained, yu r a fool aswear

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    4. Fan Emmanuel, food don come o.

      The way u r running ur mouth here, don't go and pour a witch acid and watch her deal with you o

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  3. I Want to believe confronting side chicks is a personal decision
    I'm Not married yet but my take on this is, wives should confront their cheating husbands instead
    From the narrative above, the lady didn't even know the man was married till she found

    The Wife should be more bothered about her randy husband forming single

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  4. Side chickens if any married woman calls you out, insult her and even tell her you will beat shege from her.

    She better go and caged her wandering community prick HORSEBAND.

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    1. Yes ooooo. Call thugs and pay them to deal with her if she comes dirty

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    2. Runs girl alertπŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜•πŸ˜•

      Why think of harming the wife when you are the one doing wrong by chasing her husband. God will torment you in return

      All the idea to chics I know are wayward

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    3. Akiko!
      You never jam crazy women.
      Say fim an watch her disgrace you..

      Ideato supporters club of Nigeria.
      Keep taking peoples husbands to the cinema until they visit you with an acid bath.
      Ashawo staff bus

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    4. @ loveme jeje.. it's glaring u r a high class.. lowlife ashi

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    5. What makes u think she hasn't confronted her husband? Continue talking shit! When you get married, a single girl will insult you over your own husband. I don't see anything wrong in this woman confronting this girl, I'm just glad it ended well and on a mature note. That's the way it should be. And side bitches, when a woman tells u to leave her husband, pls do! Don't even argue or talk shit

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  5. That is a polite approach and response but the response was quite matured. It could have triggered her and cause more havoc. Men should stop creating controversies over their insatiable needs.

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  6. Useless ashewo men, prostituting themselves and sleeping around like dogs.

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  7. To me confronting the side chic will only lead to insults and humiliation!

    So i think the better person to confront is the shameless husband. If he hadn't looked at the girl, asked her out, slept with her and all that crap. There wouldn't have been any problems at all.. so the man is the main culprit not the side chic.

    But the side chicks too Should try and have mercy on their fellow women na, even if you never knew he is married and later find out.. kindly do the needful and dump his cheating ass! By dating him, you are hurting your fellow woman, so have a heart and let him go!!!

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  8. I need to read some cheating husband stories today ooohh.... please can you people get in here? ☕️☕️

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  9. Caution your husband first
    Girls will be on their own jejely and the married men will come calling

    I'm not a snitch if not I would have called out some that added me up on S&M.

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    1. But some of this desperate girls target some of this married man.
      They see them as pay master.
      What goes around comes around.

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    2. Some girls are desperados,once they see a successful young business man they start making green lights.
      Some will even go to the extent of disturbing his Facebook page.

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    3. Bus conductor/ attendant for graduates(Ambode is working)15 November 2016 at 15:47

      Shut up!!!! Itinpacha akpu umu anufia @portable vagabond & nkucha idiot

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    4. Married women caution your husbands please. That was how one got my number from a colleague; he began calling and sending naughty text messages . me. I warned him seriously. Only for the wife to call my number telling me to stay away from her husband. I just had to call the stupid man minutes later and war him again. 2 days later, the wife called me later to apologize.. imagine. I just told her to caution her husband..

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    5. Chi exotic you're so right. Me the two occasions that people's wives have come for me I abuse them right back. When I finish, I abuse her husband to her face. And proceed Send long email and cuss his life out (you know that's my speciality πŸ˜‰) Married men with wandering penis looking for who's life to complicate allover Lagos. They pretend to be single. I just don't know how they do it. Very useless things. Tufia!

      Then the wives would stay there and be firing arrow. Not knowing the arrow is 'chooking' the husband on the nyash. Cos he's the betrayer. This generation of men ehn...

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    6. Yea but single girls encourage the affair too. So it's not just the married men. The girls opening leg have a role that they are playing in the deterioration of another woman's marriage

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  10. I am a side chick. If u dare call me, I will insult u.

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    1. And shame no dey catch you? Oniranu oloshi

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    2. Not to worry,your own day will come..except you want to remain unmarried all ur life,you will surely reap what you sow.

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    3. Your days are numbered. Both on earth and on his prick

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    4. And you'll remain a side chic 4eva. AMEN.

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    5. Aunty gwegz like you flaunting that your big nyash since Igbariam days. I pity ph men

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    6. Bus conductor/ attendant for graduates(Ambode is working)15 November 2016 at 15:49

      See them idiots....always helping girls to calculate their sins...lie say u never chop person husband money b4.

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    7. Yup! Don't u ever call ur husband's side chick when u get married too. Cos guess what! It's going to happen to u , ur husband will be a cheat

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  11. Hello Stella and my fellow bvs, a friend of mine really needs ur advice and cusses before he loses his sanity.. He met a girl at a club about a month ago and they talked but it ended there, about 2 days later he had issues with his wife got upset and left d house to his friends place only to meet d same girl he met at d club there.he later found out she's a friend to his friend's fiance,he had sex with her that night without condom and now she's pregnant.she wants to keep it and he doesn't have a problem with that but the ish is she wants him to divorce his wife and marry her or she would tell d wife about the pregnancy knowing fully well that his wife might kill him.. This is a guy that's been married for over nine years and has never cheated on his wife.. He's married to a white woman with 2 kids,d babe pregnant for him is Rwandan and he's Nigerian.. Stella and my fellow bvs please help a brother with ur words of wisdom ...stella thanks for dis awesome platform..

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    1. Na wa oo. He has never cheated and when he did, he did it without condom. It's alright

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    2. He should tell his wife.

      Who will cry in labor room? Who will become a single mother?

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    3. Since he couldn't keep his rod inside his pants, he should face the rot of his wife and the desperate pregnant girl.
      He should be go clean to his wife and report everything that happened to her so he can be on the safer side.

      I don't know why some Nigerian men are so foolish! You went for a one night stand without condoms, he didn't even considered his wife and children at home. What about if he had contracted incurable disease?

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    4. That's his business. When he was pounding the ashewo and pouring his something deep inside her something were we there? Radarada

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    5. Yes he shud call her bluff, wat nonsense, selfish creature. Imagine her wanting him to divorce his wife of nine years becos of her mistake of a pregnancy. Ok wat of d oda woman's kids??

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    6. Ntuo to him. May his white wife kill him. Amen! Next time he will tie his dick. Who told you he has never cheated on his wife?
      #birdsofthesamefeather

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    7. He loves his wife so much but he didn't have a problem cheating on her and he doesn't mind the side chick keeping th baby. Pls my advise is for the wife. Dump his ass and get better spousal and child support. The fucking idiot cld have brought home a disease. It's bad enough that you are cheating. Why won't you just use protection?

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    8. Its simple the man should threatened her too that if she ever tells his wife he will kill her. I think it's just empty threat from the lady because she wants him but that says it all about the kind of girl she is but why should he sleep with her without condom in the first place. Why do people still take such risk? How much does condom cost that you can't afford to have it?

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    9. Girls eeeh....he should divorce his wife n marry her?
      😯

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    10. Hohohoho good for him!! No mercy

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    11. Hohohoho good for him!! No mercy

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    12. D blog of make-believe stories

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    13. He shld open up to his wife. Therefore the chick will have nothing to threaten him with.

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    14. Bus conductor/ attendant for graduates(Ambode is working)15 November 2016 at 15:51

      Good for him useless men everywhere

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    15. How is it the girls fault if a man decided to cheat without a condom?

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    16. No comment! But the day my husband gets another woman pregnant , that will be the end of the marriage

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  12. I think it's degrading to go after the side chick. You have no business with her. You fight her or insult her, she may go back to your husband for comfort. Even worse he may defend her. Pretend like she doesn't exist to you. If you meet her outside play the fool. Don't embarrass yourself cos of one man. Remember that someone of them knew he was married it didn't stop them while some have been deceived by the stupid man.

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    1. I'm sure you are dating a married man that's why

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    2. Robyna I agree. When I get married I would never EVER degrade myself to exchange words with a side chic if it comes up. I don't know how these women think.
      Last year, One came for my colleague. She's been a baby mama to one island guy for like 5 years. She's Lord of the rings. Everyday the wedding is tommorow. Story! Dude now started chasing my colleague oh. That's how this pompous structure showed up at our office with her sister to act drama. She has a rich father so she thinks that her face that's like vegetable salad go scare us. From the receptionist to the female Fiannce Manager, we returned her share of sense back into her head. she just stormed out. Yeye guy stopped by the office the next day and dashed my colleague 250k and Samsung Edge (it was new in the market then) telling her he's sorry. The baby mama hit my colleagues phone off her hand when my colleague was texting as she was ranting.
      Okay now, who lose?

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  13. *yawns* abeg talk another thing biko, wife and side chick all the time.

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  14. Please it depends, some girls are bend on destroying people's home (home wreckers/agents of devil). These kinds of girls should be confronted; they're even the ones that confronts the wives because they think they're bold and nothing can happen to them.

    Then there are also the ones that are being disturbed and haunted by those evil husbands that can't do away with anything on wigs and makeup. You don't confront such girls, you confronts your he-goat husband, who is glutton.
    I don't pray to experience anything that has to do with cheating husband because I might not know how I will react; even though am good at keeping my cool.

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    1. Mrs Romas may God bless you.....some girls have mind ooo I remembered a month before we got married a lady started leaving missed calls on my line but and if I pick she will drop the line after we got married she started to threaten hubby that she will destroy our home because we were leaving apart as I started a new job months to our wedding.... I can't forget the day she called me at work early one morning and spoilt my day I cried my eyes out and then went to my manager and told her I need few days na so I carried myself go face hubby.....long story short 6months later I resigned and moved to the state where hubby is as I no want story I work for myself now and hubby has been in check since then I can't shout

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    2. You did good by going to save your home. May God continue to blessed and keep your home. @olami4eva

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    3. Bus conductor/ attendant for graduates(Ambode is working)15 November 2016 at 15:53

      Bia Mrs romas or whatever u are called...if u like don't hold u husband ooo...go up see what someone wrote about a stupid man getting another girl preggy.shine your eyes not only to be displaying your food on SDK.

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    4. This your English ehh, Mrs Romans.

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    5. Mrs Romas,it is"wrath" not rot.and "bent on" not bend on.

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    1. Bus conductor/ attendant for graduates(Ambode is working)15 November 2016 at 15:54

      Don't mind them sin calculators

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  16. Most time its d wayward men dat go chasing dis girls with enticing gifts and money.God forbid but i won't av any confrontation with her as such bcos it may become a bigger embarrassment.I will rather sort it out with my hubby infact,d girl won't even know that i know she exist.But like i said,God forbid. Amen

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  17. Hmmm. I think dealing with the cheat husband is better. What do I know sef. Lemme read comments

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  18. First off i dnt see any reason y my hubby wud keep a side chick.
    As a wife i kno hw to take care of my man in everyway.
    If eventually hes greedy n goes out,I wud NEVER confront d side chick or even my hubby.
    Na e go enter house by eself just like dt.

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    1. It is in their DNA. Even if you care like a nanny that u IS

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    2. Bus conductor/ attendant for graduates(Ambode is working)15 November 2016 at 15:58

      U never see something just pray they don't get him,if not if u like be like Kim k set like chyna...man na man

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    3. If you keep ignoring his philandering, it might come back to bite you ie, the side chic might become the Madam

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  19. Mmm pays o don't keep waiting for it to crash cos we r making good money big time.Drop ur contacts if u r interested am going to show u ow to make cool money.

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    1. Its paying so enjoy the money naaaa, why de harassment?

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    2. Bus conductor/ attendant for graduates(Ambode is working)15 November 2016 at 15:59

      Anon shut up did she / he harass u????

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  20. This woman is very stupid, why do d men always have to go free, confronting a side cheat could even make her date ur husband, women should learn how to deal with their cheating spouse not the side cheat.

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    1. @ Anelray4sdk you are the one that is stupid. Olosho side chic like u. They will soon bath u with acid. Idiot

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    2. She may be dealing with the husband and at the same time trying to deal with the intruder.
      Please stop calling her stupid,she's trying to protect what she has.

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    3. WTF??? Why call her stupid? Haba that is not cool. Put urself in her shoes. Even if u are not married now, u will one day. It is ur type that will use jazz on the side hoe. This woman is not stupid. You are the stupid one for following other women husbands.....pls don't say you don't coz u sound like u do. women hating on each other since the days of eve.

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    4. Protect what you have? πŸ˜‚. A container? Maybe this is why I'm still single oh. So them dey protect men?πŸ™„ Burglary proof

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  21. No time or energy for sidechick mehn! There may be several sidechicks but hubby is just one.so focus on hubby.

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    1. Thank you very plenty@ fresh rose..you have said it all#teamconfrontyourhubbynot thesidechic#

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  22. Again? Another sidechick and married women wahala?
    Oh chim! On to the next post.

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    1. Shantelle na recycling plant we dey so

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    2. Stella, always trying to please married women since time immemorial.

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  23. The comments will be divided into the married and the single. Smh

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  24. Idioto! U called me a broke ass nigga? Bet y?😭😒 is it bcos I didn't buy u lunch dat day? Oya wipe ur tears, so will u have Pap with me? 😁😍😘

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. You know I love you, and your callouts can't stop it.

      It is ideato and not idioto. Let's do dinner November 26. Protea Hotel Maryland,Ikeja.

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    2. Speaking through your anus as usual.

      Atulu muru ebuli gba aka nwa!

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    3. Will I lash otele and pyess? If yes den no lele, it's gon be liiiiiit! Hit Cousin Stellz up for my contact.😘

      Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    4. Don't i just love this my blog boo ide like kilode?!lool

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    5. Bus conductor/ attendant for graduates(Ambode is working)15 November 2016 at 16:01

      Kelvin don't ever talk to ideato like that???? Dirty blacky smelly small prick orobo kibo....

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    6. Ashawo Oshi @kelvin

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  25. Women of these days are very bitter and intolerant. In d good old days of our forefathers, a man will marry many wives and they will all live together as one big family.

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    1. Se oro niyen....mschewww

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    2. D'vine Smarta15 November 2016 at 14:11

      Ode!!! That is why ancestral curse is worrying you!!!

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    3. Hahaha... Not any more bro,not any more!

      #Team one man one wife#

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    4. I will give my dibia your address soon😈😈😈😈

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    5. That's why your step mother made you unreasonable.

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  26. Focus on your husband that made vows to you and not on unrepentant hos looking for whom to devour.

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  27. A straying man is a loose canon, go after d side chick n put d fear of.... In her

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  28. Why should a wife leave her almighty Thorne to confront a side chick.
    Wives have been disgracing themselves since 1900.

    No wife should confront a side chick, if you cannot share or watch war room and pray, kindly leave the marriage.

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    1. Bus conductor/ attendant for graduates(Ambode is working)15 November 2016 at 16:02

      Gbam!!!

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  29. To me I feel it's better to confornt your husband at home than confornting the lady in question because the husband's is the one who asked this ladies out and like the case up there most of them always claim they are single and what do you expect when the lady never knew this man is married so for the wife's that is gotten a cheating husband, always confornt your husband, just talk sense into him in a very polite way that way things might be fine.

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  30. The word "confrontation" should never come in; it always ends badly no matter who is confronted. The person who "sinned" against this woman is the "man" she married but he should not be confronted.

    I as a woman had had a "dream" one first January about a lady in my husband's company who had gone to a medium to "take him". I fasted and prayed and knew every move of this lady without confronting my husband. She ended up reporting herself..

    If you do not know the Lord and to pray as a lady, sorry, you will likely lose your home over things "beyond natural control". Most men are rendered puppets; they just act along.

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    1. Osheyyyyy prayer warrior. Its obvious marriage is ur greatest achievement!!!

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    2. Osheyyyyy prayer warrior. Its obvious marriage is ur greatest achievement!!!

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    3. Anon 14:34 you are the greatest fool of all time

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  31. The wife has no business with the side chick, she should face her husband.

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  32. Any married woman that leave his husband and start running after side chick is a fool.
    Deal with your husband and side chick will get the message.

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    1. Leave her husband.
      Mumu, if u nor sabi English den write in broken nah

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  33. Women should confront their hubby

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  34. If you spread ur grains in the sun & chickens come to feed & shit on them, do you ignore them & go searching for the owner? C'mon address the impending chaos striaght up b4 anythg else.... Choose ur weapon, Grenade, acid, potassium chloride, AK47, midnight thugs, 9mm, watch war room, divorce, one bucket of coconut oil.... Etc.

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  35. Wives should confronting side hens, they end up embarrassing themselves every time they do,they main problem is with their husbands that refused to their selves.

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  36. Please don't not confront any woman, some of them are not even aware that the men are married. If your hubby is cheating, pls confront him.

    Married women should focus on boys, most of these married men roaming around are GAY. I've met so many of them, it's rampant in the gay community. Even some of these married men na dem dey bottom for the single ones, how can a man fucking a woman, turn his behind to be fucked by another man. If I be woman I no go gree

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  37. This is somfin I hate with passion....why will u confront ur hubby's side chick...

    Woman,u gat deal with ur man at home,..

    My point..pls learn from this little write up

    As a woman,if u r over-conscious of ur man then it will lead u to under-action.

    HOW?

    When u notice ur man is receiving calls or love text and all u do is shout,fight,ask questions or u were lucky to be with his fone n a love text came in and all u do is "come ooo,who is this girl texting u,didn't u tell her u r married,call her now...blablablabla"... I love men,his response will be,

    Wait let me kal her then he picks up the fone and move forward as if he is calling, off he goes to the bedroom.

    But

    When u notice such text or call..or u were lucky to have his fone with u and a text came in,after reading,just give him back the fone by telling him so.fin like " I k ow some girls are disturbing u,just don't kill ursef and be careful"then mute,don't say a word again..no nagging...he will be moody for the rest of the day cuz he does not know ur plans..with that u keep ur home in peace and ur husband can turn a good live.


    Thunder fire side chick
    Mc pinky

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    1. Na u that thunder engorged lash instead of the side chick

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    2. Meanwhile some condemned spinster be stealing wives' phone numbers from their hubbies' phones to harass d wives

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  38. No! I think it would be wrong to confront the side whore.
    If a man chests on you, it is entirely the man's fault. It is home you are married to. It is him who made a vow to remain faithful to you.
    The side whore owes you nothing. Posterity might judge her.

    I had a situation where a girl, a corps member who served in my husband's office used to call him at home at anytime she pleased. She didnt care if it was past midnight. She calls, he picks. Tell me who is to blame?
    I once read their whatsapp chat and that was the last time I felt anything for my husband. Modafucker changed his password the following day.

    I used to hand the phone over to him sometimes when he wasn't close when she called. She used to hear my voice in the background when they spoke. I overheard him telling her his wife is cool like that.

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    1. Ur husband is a fool, sorry to say. He doesn't av respect for u.


      And for the stupid girl? Lol. She's just useleess

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  39. i am a side chick,yes,but not by choice.i have always ran away from married men but this one just happened.i have fallen in luv with him and he also is in luv with me.the reason is because we started communicating very well which i feel he didn't get at home and boom before i knew it we got attached to each other.wives before ur husband leaves u for another woman there is something he actually craves that he is missing at home.madam should handle her hubby ,i didn't tie him to me he choose out of his free will to be with me,so any issue she will solve should b with him and not me,i have no business with her. jugdeinaas are welcome.they will claim dey never slept with anyone hizzzzzz.

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    1. Ekwensu
      Aunty gwegwegwe. You claim there's something he's missing at home? I wonder what you think you have.
      He is not missing anything ooo,he's simply wasting your time.banging you like a prostitute that you are. Dustbin,your mates are busy building their careers and getting married to the men of their dreams but look at you,spare tire,destroying your future.
      Akwunakwuna nwayi
      Wait until his wife catches you and redesign you with acid. Shameless whore!

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    2. Shut up biko.....You want to use judgeinaas to cover up your wicked act. That is how your husband will put of his free will call in love with another girl....then you will begin to wonder what you didn't do right. Ekwensu

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    3. Side chic just ask that man to leave his wife for you and see the number of excuses that will come out of his mouth. What I am saying is that men lie and they do it very well. So, Chica be good and do not be the reason why that woman and her children are suffering emotionally. Instead, take yourself off the hook he has been using to reel you in. God bless you love.

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  40. I know most women will say wives should confront their husbands...it's not always the men's fault...is it my fault that this light-skinned,long-legged(just the way I like it),mini dress-wearing chick ignored the ushers' instructions n found her way to sit beside me 3 services in a row,initiated conversations n took my number?...if not for the grace of God, I for fall....she sent her picture after fixing her hair for me to assess, I saw more cleavage than hair....would u call that a man's fault if anything happened? if it means confronting the side chick without being ratchet or violent about it to save your marriage, then so be it

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    1. SMH@ you

      Your wife should wear bullet proof sha!

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    2. Exactly the point,they initiates a useless conversation.
      Ndi ori ndi ori

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    3. Bitchplis, what stops u from giving her ur number? Must u give her? Rubbish excuse.

      Fan Emmanuel, be supporting rubbish o.

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  41. I am suprised that most of u women here say that it's d men dat go after d ladies. Yes sometimes. But in dis age and time, 90 percent go after the men. It is now shameful dat most single gals wud tell u dat dia spec is a married man, becos d married men take care of women better. Some wud even tell d men, i know u are married, i'd respect myself and my boundries, i won't disturb ur wife, i just want to be with you. They keep pushing and pushing, sometimes to the point of using jazz. Anyway my take on this is women should not stoop so low to the level of d gal. Confirm ur suspicion and deal with ur man, but b4 u deal with him mk sure u tell God. Pray to God first bcos u don't know wat d evil gal has done, dat simple confrontation might break ur home. Pray pray pray and tell God wat u want, naturally their relationship wud fizzle out, n she'd be wondering wat happened not knowing u went to the best of planners. But if u confront her n she insults you she already knows d stuff u r made of. N dat z it worst still d man may even support her. Jst pray.

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    1. 90%???? when did you take this survey? Keep lying to yourself okay?

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    2. Christianatee378@gmail. com15 November 2016 at 17:44

      100% nothing more

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    3. @robyna yes 90 percent n i mean it. It doesnt matter wen i did my survey, if u dnt agree wt me u r free to do ur own survey n come up wt a superior n more convincing argument. Untill den... its 90

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  42. If u fighting a side chick then u r wrong



    Check ursef
    Check ursef again
    If there is nothing u r doing wrong,

    Face ur man
    Talk with him
    Pray with him
    Beat him up (if possible)

    If he is still adamant (n clings to d side chick) n u can't take it anymore kindly ask for divorce.


    I can't bear d thots of Sharing my man wt any scallywag.

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  43. Am the kind of side chick you will wish your husband has sef lmao. Kai Steffy is so badt mhen.
    But on a more serious note ehn it ain't easy to be fucking just one woman or man for the rest of ones life, It can be very boring ooooh. Heheheheehehhehehe *side eyes at all the cheating horsebands* I totally understand una plight.
    Women seems to think that having a man kinda makes them complete, well honey you don't need a man to make you feel complete. The key to ya happiness lies within you. Find it
    Women and men wahala i still don't understand why women fight over a Cock oooh. Can you finish a whole cock? If you are too unfortunate to marry a serial player buy him condoms and pray for him. If you can't then get a side boo and if that is so hard WALK THE HELL AWAY. HAba una too dey carry men matter for head abeg. Stop giving men such stupid attention abeg. Get a job, build a career, raise ya kids and forget bout the mother fucker. No man is worth the time biko.
    Let me use the loo will be back shortly.








    *runs to the loo*

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    1. Wait until you get married.

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    2. See this one blabbing.....as if you can stay without a man....You can't even do the things you just mentioned..... feeling like one hard-core.......na your type men dey use clean shoe. Ewu

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    3. Mumu anon, yes I can stay without a man, you know why coz I ain't a stupid Lady with zero self-esteem. I don't need a man to make me happy especially a cheating one like ya horseband or boyfriend. I would rather remain single and happy than be chasing side chicks upandan bcoz of a randy man. Now get lost jare ewu.







      *hangs leg on the cupboard*

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  44. Idioto why do you like hotels like this, everything about your life is hotel. You are a regular and are familiar with every hotel in Lagos and your village. Are you sure you're not an ashy.

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    1. Na your Mama be Ashy.

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    2. Of course she's an ash nau,do you need a soothsayer?
      By their fruits you shall know them.

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    3. I will kill both of them. Rubbish

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  45. I am a married man but I think it's terribly wrong for a wife to encroach into her hubby's privacy and "disgrace" as such....there are alot of reasons why a man could just want to be friends with a single lady, in this particular case it could be that the man is just being nice, it could also be that the particular married man needs the singles girls boss favor and he might just trying to be friendly do he could have a 3rd ear in that office.

    There is every possibility that it wasn't going to get to dating, at best the wife can have a chat with her husband, will the wife be chasing every single girl her husband greet or smiles at???

    I believe married women who do such have personality cum emotional issues,
    When a man really wants to cheat on his wife, the truth is their is noting the wife can do to stop it, most married women are busy destroying their marriagesthese days.

    Pls focus on your husband with respect

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    1. So it's okay if your wife has single guys as friends with the silly reasons u put down .... otolo gbachanie gi Ike enu. Idiot!

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    2. Na from clap e dey enter dance

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    3. Secondly, if you have nothing to hide introduce them to your wife or tell her about them upfront. If she had a lot of male single friends would you not be suspicious. Please put yourself in her shoes before concluding.

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    4. Fan Emmanuel, come and see another useless married man giving stupid excuses.


      Blame ur wandering dick husband's!!!

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  46. And this happen this morning outside my lounge... A married woman came kneeling, begging( with a 3 or 4 months old baby) her hubby's sidechick to leave her hubby alone or she'll curse her. They start exchanging words, the woman eventually cursed her saying she ain't gonna experience childbirth. Girl said she'll beat the hell outta her. when asked if she's actually sleeping with the said man, she said she only helped him with money. metewwww i just sighed and went inside. Drama everywhere.
    IVY*

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  47. It is easy for single girls and those who have not experienced a cheating hubby to talk. Wait until you marry and then seat quietly and let someone else destroy your home bcos you want to respect yourself. If self respect is so important, y won't the side chick respect Herself? All is fair in love and war. A lady going after another person's husband has lost self respect and drawn the battle line. Whatever she sees is her own fault. If any woman tries such with me, all he'll will be let loose. Yes, I will deal mercilessly with the cheating hubby, but the girl will not go scot free,never.you can't cause me pain and go like that. I may not come and fight you physically, but I will investigate you, gather as much details as I can, and then strike and hurt you in the worst way possible. You can't go free, Lailai. I can have you beaten up, raped, bathed with acid, get boys to strip you naked, snap you and post your naked pictures all over social media, print your pictures and send to your office and boyfriend. I will never confront you, but I will deal with you, when you see man, you go run. All these side chick's making mouth are obviously fucking the wrong woman's husband. Anyway, thank God I have a God fearing hubby who fears God and has self respect.

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    1. Hahaha, I hope you will carry ur threat when u catch hubby cheating

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    2. Oh, yu think he does not cheat? Wait yul soon hear the bomb, God fearing man Gini,dey fool yourself, madam tough woman, yu never jam, yu go soon knw the meaning of do me, I do yu,

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  48. That's how that stupid grace Olusanya will not cage her horseband! And u Tayo Olusanya stop it already! We don't care if ur wife is beating u or not, you are happily married stop the lies and deceit.
    The next time that woman will confront me, aswear she will goan commit sucide. Stupid man and silly wife!

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    1. This is new, u want to commit suicide ontop another person. This change is really bringing out the worst in people

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    2. Abandoned side chick ranting.

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  49. That is how one of my colleagues wanted to drive one woman out of her home. She was crying and begging the man to divorce his wife and marry her, bcos the man and his wife were having issues at that point. It was not a small thing. She was busy fuelling the issues between them, until the woman faced her and started sending warnings to her. She even threatened to come and fight my colleague in the office, being a Banker, that frightened my colleague seriously. Eventually, it was the man who called it off and said he wants to face his marriage and make it work. This is a man that told her to get pregnant oooo, and she was even considering it, thank God she didn't go through with it. She would have been a single mother today. The man has gone back to his wife and my colleague was seriously heart broken, she had to take sick leave. All those people following other people's hubby, the curses on your head is grave,you may not know it now but karma is a batch. You will definitely get it in future. One way or the other. My big cousin was busy following married men all over Abuja, today she is over forty five and still single. She got married at forty, but did not last a year. She does not even have a child to call her own.

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  50. You cant always blame the supposed side-chick, she may not even know the guy is married.
    I once dated a guy who I asked several times if he was married before even agreeing to date him. He always said no. I even snooped, checked his facebook,no family pictures. Maybe he has 2facebook who knows. I wld spend wkend in his house, didn't see anything.
    But he wasn't based in my state fully and wld travel down to Abuja once in a while. That period I cld hardly get him to call me at nite, always forming busy and tired. Inside me I knew smthn wasn't right bcos I hadn't met his family in Abuja. I wld ask again are u married. he will form vex sef. I will say when will u take me to Abj he will stay silent on meeting his ppl.
    I was just observing, till I received a call from his wife one day. He was married with 4kids.
    Will you blame me in dis instance? I thot I had snopped on facebook. I asked him several times. He denied being married.
    After the phone call from his wife, dis guy still kept denying. I just blocked him till today.

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  51. It is not the side chick hurting the wife. It is the husband that is hurting his wife. No matter how wives want to defend, protect and sugarcoat their husbands and their cheating, the bottom line is when a man cheats on his wife, it is his fault period.

    Stop making silly excuses for your husbands saying he was jazzed. Why is it only in Nigeria that cheating husbands are jazzed. Why are cheating husbands not jazzed anywhere else in the world. Women are so gullible and have been made to look stupid and foolish by their husbands. When a man gets caught cheating on his wife, he comes up with the pathetic excuse that he was jazzed by the woman he had the affair with and the wife who is in denial or is used to making excuses for her husband believes the bull crap and also helps him spread the rubbish by telling people her husband was jazzed.

    All those people talking about women constantly chasing their husbands, women going out of their way to break other women's marriages need to get it into their thick skulls that if their husbands do not participate or have anything to do with these women their marriages will be intact. If the husband is not willing, nothing whatsoever will happen between him and another woman.

    No matter how you want to look at it, the onus falls on the husband and nobody else.

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  52. At times some side chics need to be reminded of some certain things. See how that chic's face was disfigured recently because the man's wife found out but she still wanted to marry the man next month.

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  53. Learnt my lesson early. Any ho-ing husband isn't worth the stress. If you can't live with it, kindly plan your exit before you commit murder. Aint nobody got time for side chicks. If a man keeps chasing side chicks after several warnings, find your square root and have peace. Dunno why women continue to give themselves heartaches.

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  54. Learnt my lesson early. Any ho-ing husband isn't worth the stress. If you can't live with it, kindly plan your exit before you commit murder. Aint nobody got time for side chicks. If a man keeps chasing side chicks after several warnings, find your square root and have peace. Dunno why women continue to give themselves heartaches.

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  55. Hmmm, God forbid,i pray never to b in such situation, gosh! how i hate sharing my man.. I really don't think confronting d side chick is a good idea.. From a family friend's experience, wen d hubby waz dating one girl,she wld confront d girl, even went to d girl's wrk place, sent msgs to d girl & d girl then vowed to take d husband from her(she showed me their chats) gues what?, d girl kept to her vow o, d husband is now married to d girl and they have a child now.. Very painful thing.. So i think it's better u confront ur hubby & go to God & ask Him to fix ur marriage bcus u don't knw ife na kuro dat side chic egwu, i mara nke o ji eje

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  56. Learnt my lesson early. Any ho-ing husband isn't worth the stress. If you can't live with it, kindly plan your exit before you commit murder. Aint nobody got time for side chicks. If a man keeps chasing side chicks after several warnings, find your square root and have peace. Dunno why women continue to give themselves heartaches.

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  57. It's very unreasonable for anyone to think the wives don't confront their husband's too.. My friend is experiencing stress in her home from one Bunmi Erinfolami that works at FAAN. She's a single mum of 2boys from different dad's but she won't let the young couple of 3months have peace.. Always texting the man of how she misses him n wants to bore her 3rd child through him.. What do u expect the wife to do in this case?? Nowadays it's only prayers that keeps a home cos the women out there are evil..

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    1. My sister na so dem dey do. Ndi oshi ndi oshi

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  58. Fan Emmanuel,e be like say ur husband dey cheat on u wella,hence tje outburst.hahaha

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    1. Hahahahahaha!!! Seems like o. Go and tame his wandering dick woman

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  59. Married women pray well.. cover your home with the blood of Jesus daily cos sometimes the men don't even know what do r doing.. The likes of Bunmi Erinfolami of FAAN God is watching you.. Settle with your baby father and stop disturbing married couples. God bless

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  61. Me I fight my husband. He's probably the one chasing them and if they chase him then he should say no!!! No need to fight side chick. I break his head one time!!

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  62. Was dating one sexy Greek man,knew he was married but made me believe they are not cool anymore and he was getting a divorce.He'll drive 3 hrs to see me and gives me 1000 euros weekly some times less.one afternoon my phone rang, I picked the call , was a Greek woman at the other end.She said you have a gift, someone ordered 'Louloudia' (flowers) for you, where are you at the moment so we can deliver them.I asked who was sending the flowers but she was too angry to give an answer, I said I hv to know who the person was, I had my suspicions tho but wanted to be sure, then she raised her voice asking where I was that she must deliver the flowers then I knew immediately it was her . When she saw I was not gon tell her where I was, she called my name and said he was Michaelis's wife this time she became a bit calmed but was crying bitterly begging me to please stop seeing him.Was broken, felt so bad cos all she was say was ' sai parakalo' (please) right there and then I Promise her I was gon stop seeing him and also told her I thought they were staying separately and was getting a divorce,she told me Michaelis was asking for a divorce but she still loved him and to think that this guy was always begging me for us to relocate to naija, he was rich and cute but had to change my number that very day after talking with his wife.She cried so much I was begging her and made a promise i' v kept to till this day. Changed my job moved to a new apartment and I'm happy I did

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  63. Single girls are single, they don't owe anyone anything that is why they are single. Married men owe it to their wives. Stop blaming everybody else, the only person to blame is the married man who took vows with his wife and that is just the truth of the matter.

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  64. This issue/problem is actually the simplest thing to solve but married women make it very complicated.
    The only way a married man and a woman who is not his wife get together to have sex or have an affair is just one of two ways.
    The married man chases the woman or the woman chases the married man.
    The only way for an affair or sex not to happen between a married man and a woman who is not his wife is very simple.
    A married man should not chase another woman and be intimate or have an affair with her.
    If a woman chases a married man and wants to have an affair with him, the married man should emphatically say no he is not interested.
    Which ever the case may be, it is the married man's responsibility for it not to happen.
    Very very simple it's not rocket science.
    Anything else outside of this is a bloody excuse to justify their cheating ways and unfaithfulness to their wives.

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