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Monday, 5 December 2016

Meeting Point -24

Awwwww....




Hello Stella, you are doing a great job. I'm sure your blog has saved many from depression and boredom. We (I've introduced many) are addicted to it and we love your fun personality. Keep up the good work.


I would like ‎to share the story of how I met my hubby. Ours is a sweet, teenage love story that God destined to end happily ever after. We were classmates in secondary school. We became classmates in S.S.2. He asked me out but I turned him down. He said he felt that actually meant it was all lost but an older friend noticed his depression and told him not to relent that women always said "no" the first time and then played hard-to-get.


 So my guy continued and became relentless. Everyone in my set got to know. I embarrassed him severally, pushed him away in every way I knew possible(trust secondary school girls style LOL) not because there was anything wrong with him but I just didn't want the "girlfriend" tag then more so we were not only in the same school but also in the same class, everyone would get to know and all the gossip and all.


 I had it seen it happening all around with other girls in class then and just didn't want to be like that. Along the line, I fell hopelessly in love with him too but I just couldn't bring myself to say so especially after I had insulted him severally both openly and privately while trying to discourage him and get him to stop. I started looking forward to seeing him in class but would pretend as if I hated to (LoL). My heart would thump when I learnt he was on the phone ( the days of land lines), he would visit me at home with other classmates and they would play games and football with my brother outside but most times, I wouldn't even spare him a glance.


 A classmate had a party in town. I couldn't find my way there. This guy offered to come pick me from my house. He took me there and brought me back (by public transport oh) and that really touched me. That was probably the first thing he did that touched me but there has been millions of others. He was always so calm and cool. There was a day I gave him the biggest embarrassment of his life and he told someone he was finally going to let go that he could see that nothing would change my mind about him but he kept on. Then we left secondary school. I gained admission into the university first, infact I was to graduate very well ahead of him but it didn't shake our relationship.


Anyway, along the line, we had ‎become friends and would gist and laugh but each time he brought up the "toasting" vibe, I would act angry and my head go spark. Hahaha. So, we had left school, I had become an undergraduate, he hadn't but he was still visiting, toasting and I was forming. At this point, I didn't even know how to bring myself to say "yes" anymore because the forming of "I'm not interested"don three much ooo. 


One day, he came around, we were talking and he started again. As usual, I got angry and was using my sharp tongue when from no where, this guy just put both his hands on my waist, started caressing my waist. I was stunned! Before now, though it had been some years of friendship, there had never been anything physical whether by touch, talk or even in his letters. I had never been touched and was not expecting it so I was lost for words. Then he bent his head and started dropping kisses on my neck. I was now beyond stunned. We were outside but I couldnt even bring myself to stop him. Infact thank God we were outside else maybe something else would have happened. My temperature shot up, my panties were soaked then I started trembling (much to my embarrassment). He was whispering but I couldn't hear a thing. 



My heart was drumming loudly. Chineke!!! 

Then he stopped.

 He later told me he became scared because I was trembling so badly. He couldn't understand it. My people, it was brief but I felt like I was in a trance and that trance-like state continued for two whole days! I still don't know if that is how women react the first time they are touched or if it was shock in addition to it all. That was what broke the ice oh! He had to leave shortly after but it was on a new level. I thank God for this incident because I don't know if I would have been able to say "yes" otherwise. We still cannot explain what led to it so I take it that it was the Lord's doing. So it was on that note we started.


 We didnt have sex though till many years later. We didn't get married till many years later but there was never a break and we never dated others. We are blessed with three kids now and I truly feel blessed and favoured. My man is just the best for me and our shared history makes it all wonderful.


 We have mutual friends and sometimes just have a great time laughing about old times. We grew up together and experienced many firsts together and God has blessed us beyond our imaginations. I still have some of his old text messages where he wished for a time like this when we would be married and have our kids running around.


Maybe because‎ it was my experience but I feel marrying your secondary school mate is one of the best things but you may have to be patient because there is a lot of growing up to do on both sides and in today's world, it might take some time before that guy becomes financially ready. Phew! I hope you enjoyed my love story.

Woooow.what a sweet love story!


54 comments:

white Berry said...

Noted

Ammie said...

Lovely story
My secondary was for girls only
Sometimes I wish I went to a mixed school
It's all good anyway.
Boo where art thou?

Chysugar said...

Wow.. Lovely story.
Each time i see my first innocent love back in sec. Schl, my heart still skips beats. It was so beautiful then, no sex, no selfish interest. Just natural love. I know dt feeling. We are both settled now with diff people anyway. Poster,i enjoyed ur story, wishing u more blessings in ur home.

Rhoda Rex said...

Nice story

vancutie said...

awwwwww so romantic, didn't want the narration to end.

Rosemary Chidi said...

Awww

Loveme Jeje said...

good

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Waoh,nice story

Candice said...

Wow! Toushiiiiiing story. Your body dey tingle.loool

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Awwwwwwww, I enjoyed every bit of it...
Very well detailed,my imagination was running alongside your narrative.
*Faithful bv*

Jenny zee said...

Oya single ladies go nd find ur secondary school mates shaperly

Anonymous said...

Ammie , dont worry boo dey come. me sef dey find boo boo. men make una learn o. just study a babe if she likes you , then shoot, some of us no like to talk yes. but try to define at some point sha o

Classic Chic! said...

So sweet a story. I remember sec school hehehehe I was known as MANCHESTER,cos I had every every complete,so many guys then were on my neck but just like this poster, I hated school dating,whether ur in ma class or not,don't try it wid mi!

I ended up putting envy among d ss3 class gals (i was in ss1) cos their guys were always always on ma neck.
Na so for hostel nobody dey see me cos I gotta run...ain't ready for any useless punishment by a senior say cos I tiff I'm boyfriend .

#secschool

Na Me Talk Am!!! said...

Awwwwwwww I love this

IMELDA said...

Beautiful.

Mrs I said...

Aww very totori story lolz

STAY AT HOME DAUGHTER said...

I know a guy who said once he's ready to marry he will go look for a long time love from the past make amends and settle with.
So many are into long time bonds.
I like too. Beautiful story.

Becky Divine said...

Awwww this is so sweet! Happy for you guys

becky naka said...

Lovely story. First time kiss is bae.. the tickling last for days.

IJAY said...

waooooo ,I like it nice story

Nwanyimakarisia said...

wow, nice story

Nwanyimakarisia said...

wow, nice story

ThatYorubaChic#wifenotcook said...

Yes i enjoyed your story

Miss tee said...

Awww... My first love
Where art thou
Don't u think we need to patch things up like now... Yh now

FolyFrey said...

Lovely story, more blessings for u guys.

Tayan Taylor said...

Beautiful

Anonymous said...

Lovely....I had something almost similar but we didn't date nor married because I was too shy to ask her out. She eventually kissed me few days to her wedding and blamed me for not man enough to ask her out. We were friends for 15years before she got married. I'm still single and searching sha

MissPrettyW said...

Aww...lovely story

Cynthia Iyede said...

Sweet lovey dovey story. God bless your home.

preciousp gal said...

Awwwww,me like.

dabsditty said...

Lol. @becky naka, u wey know? *winks*

Mosi Jubelo said...

The trance thing happens.
My first kiss, for almost three days, I'll have a flash and my heart will skip beats.



Nice story

GOONs Mi said...

Awww

Jasmine said...

Nice story

Anonymous said...

Dis is just wat Iam passing true but me no do shakara reach urs..am alredy a graduate naw waiting for my call off letter and my loving secondary school boyfriend is stil in part three...we love each oda so much dou distance don't make us see always...but madam how did you endure it all bcos somtyms I feel so frustated and shy among friends due to dis education distance...I know God has his purpose of keeping us togeda...how did you end up bin togeda..pls reply

Chiamaka L said...

young love is really sweet. Recently re-connected with my pry sch classmate... It was a very beautiful feeling seeing him and playing catch up. I don't think he had a crush on me back then, but it still feels good.

Anonymous said...

Awww! Beautiful story! Baba God abeg settle me this year... Amen!

Anonymous said...

First kiss was with someone I didn't love
First sex was a rape
Hmm, bad memories
Beautiful story poster. God bless your family

Anonymous said...

Such a beautiful story ?

Mao Akuh said...

COol

Anonymous said...

Beautiful story. Very similar to mine. Met my husband when we were in primary 1. I was 5, he was 6. Three beautiful kids later, we are still tripping for each other. Lol. I have a massive crush on him till date. He does too. We still hold hands, he kisses me every morning and evening, we have never been apart for more than a week cos we travel together. We pray together. We shower together. It's been God all the way. No matter how angry we get with each other, we make sure we settle all before bedtime. And yes, we still have sex. Regularly. Our eldest daughter is now 22 and getting married in the first quarter of next year. I am 45 and hubby is 46. I had my third baby last year even. Second is 17. Maybe I will send my story to Stella.

Anonymous said...

Thank you Stella, been looking out for this. Thank you to all the BVs for your nice comments and prayers. May God take us all to where we are meant to be.

Anonymous said...

My sister, like I said up there, you have to be very patient and determined br first be sure of your guy because just the fact that he is an old friend doesn't mean he is God's choice for you. When you are convinced that he is, remain focussed because though the road is tough, the prize is great so keep your eyes on your golden prize. Your friends may be dating guys who have graduated and are working already while us still seems a far way off but the quality of relationship you are having with your could be far superior to theirs. It was like that for me too but guess what? I still got married before some of those who were already dating "made guys." as for the distance, I experienced that when he went to serve because he was posted to a very distant place. The first 5months we didn't see at all and it was not the time of chatting. Sometimes I would have doubts & cry myself to sleep but all you can do is remain disciplined and pray for God to honour you. I hope I have been helpful?

Anonymous said...

My sister, like I said up there, you have to be very patient and determined br first be sure of your guy because just the fact that he is an old friend doesn't mean he is God's choice for you. When you are convinced that he is, remain focussed because though the road is tough, the prize is great so keep your eyes on your golden prize. Your friends may be dating guys who have graduated and are working already while us still seems a far way off but the quality of relationship you are having with your could be far superior to theirs. It was like that for me too but guess what? I still got married before some of those who were already dating "made guys." as for the distance, I experienced that when he went to serve because he was posted to a very distant place. The first 5months we didn't see at all and it was not the time of chatting. Sometimes I would have doubts & cry myself to sleep but all you can do is remain disciplined and pray for God to honour you. I hope I have been helpful?

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Chai.......may God give you a beautiful future anonymous!

Anonymous said...

Thank you. God can give you a very happy ending. Don't worry about what has already happened. Look forward.

Kaycee Blinqs said...

Wow. This is perfect

Anonymous said...

Thanks so ma'am...you have really helped with this little advise..so I will kip praying and expectyn Gods plan for my life..also remember me in ur prayers..#smile

Nala said...

The best so far.i was really touched.

Anonymous said...

You are blessed dear. Does your husband have younger brothers?
Pls hook me up.

my opinion said...

Lovely story

grace said...

Sweeet!

Fifi Libra said...

What an interesting story!

Tears"""

God bless your union poster.

Mr Jay said...

Just wandering... How comes everybad break up is blamed on the guy

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