Stella Dimoko Korkus.com: Meeting Point 30

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Sunday, 11 December 2016

Meeting Point 30

There is always a meeting point!




Finally I get to send in my story, and though you've obviously heard it a million times, I'll still love to add that you Stella, are doing a marvellous job and the BVs are a perfect icing on the cake. 



Now to my story, I was in my final year in school and we had a two weeks break, thought of heading to Lagos to spend it with my parents when my older cousin who was based in the same state I schooled suggested I spend it with her instead, after all it was going to be a short break. I agreed and she mentioned our attending a wedding of one of her colleagues the next weekend. 



On the said day, we went and during offering we had to go forward to the front of the church to place our offerings. Whilst working past, naturally I saw the couple with the bride's maid and best man by their sides. For me it was just a passing glance. After mass was pictures and since I didn't know the couple personally, I didn't join in any of the pics, though I stood apart my gaze kept meeting with that of the best man who just seemed to be fixated on me. We had another engagement that same day so we left immediately after the church service and never joined in the reception.



I happened to have been in a relationship as at this time, but it was one of those relationships where we had more fights than peace. And though both my ex and I happened to be very stubborn people, I always ended up being the one to call him and make a truce. On one of our usual unnecessary fights, I realized I was wasting my time with him. I remember staying up one night and telling God it was over with my ex as I wasn't up for our cat and dog fights anymore.



 And I told God I wasn't going into any relationship anymore as I didn't have energy for drama, so the next man to show interest in me should be my husband. His intention from day one of meeting me should be marriage. To me, it was just a simple prayer. So I called my ex the next day and told him it was over, he probably thought it was a joke, but after he didn't hear from me for about three weeks he got the message.



Now two months after the said wedding I attended, I was awake one night reading when my phone rang, it was a foreign number, I wondered who or where from, I answered. It was my aunt's colleague, the groom. Shocked, I asked why he was calling all the way from "the abroad" lol He told me he went visiting his brother and his brother has been searching for me and wanted to talk to me. "Who's your brother?" The best man! 


While I was trying to understand what was going on the brother collected the phone and asked me if I was married, I said no, and he was like, good cos you're my wife. I laughed. 


To cut the long story short, he saw me that wedding day when I walked past, and he knew I was his. He came looking for me during reception but I was long gone. He tried describing me to everyone but no one seemed to know whom he was looking for. So he told his brother that as their parents were late, and as he has attended his wedding, nothing was bringing him to Nigeria again Cos he met his wife and lost her so there's no reason to return. 


He remembered a friend, seeing him sound so serious, tell him, that if I was truly his we'll meet again. He said he laughed at the possibility as we were based in different countries. He returned to his base and less than two months after, his brother went visiting him during his honeymoon trip and went along with the wedding video, while watching he saw me and started screaming ''that's her''. His brother and friends knew instantly cos he hadn't stopped talking about me. Luckily the brother recognized me, got my number from my aunt and called.



After that night, we spoke every day and got to know each other more. He had all the qualities I wanted in my man and of course I remembered my prayer to God and it all seemed too good to be true. He came home some months after and met my parents, my dad told him if he was ready to wait till I was done with law school then there'd be no problem.



Today we've been married for seven years with two beautiful kids and till this very day, though living together, he still calls me every single day when we are apart. Even with regular challenges, we always find a way not to extend it to the next day.

Thanks for this opportunity Stella, and to the BVs, thanks for making this blog worthwhile.


*You both look so good together and your kids are so so cute.
To think no one thought of the wedding video before then...


62 comments:

peace maker said...

OK.Good to know

Monkeynofine said...

BEAUTIFUL tory.

Lizzy Berry said...

We find love in....

Nyc narrative babe

bowoade faderera said...

Nice story..just nice
DAT UNICEF woman's own still rings in my head #TooGood!!

Suwa Nen said...

So sweet, beautiful story.

Ife oluwa said...

Nice story

Anonymous said...

This is one of d most beautiful story I have read on dis blog. I felt like shedding tears. God pls answer my prayers too.

Tuscany said...

Stella why u no post the pic na afterall she didnt say for your eyes only.

Bukipreety said...

Awwww, so sweet..

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Lol,nice

Spidex said...

Lord Mey my own big pass hers Abeg baba lord

pwetty sunshyne said...

Beautiful story

Jenny zee said...

This is beautiful 💋

Becky Divine said...

Beautiful story!

Anonymous said...

Anon 12:45 La fresh is that you?

Anonymous said...

Abegi how can I get an "in the abroad" husband? Any tips?

Anonymous said...

Cool story. Which good cream can a two year old use. He is very fair.no shear butter or coconut oil please.

Anonymous said...

Cool story. What cream can a two year old use. No coconut oil or shear butter please. He is very fair

Lady C said...

Awww,so nice,I pray I find the love of my life.

Anonymous said...

I have been reading this meeting point and one thing I have observed is that God definitely has a man for each woman and you don't have to struggle to get that which is yours but as you ask from God .He will arrange it in his own way , He is the greatest match maker and ultimate planner. It's a waste of time sticking to a man all in the name of I have a boo when you definitely know it's not working or he is treating you as trash .
May we all locate our missing rib.

Classic Chic! said...

Sweet story :-)

Wait oo, all dis guys DAT will just look at a gal n say 'ur my wife' how una take kno ?

Classic Chic! said...

Even mi too its RINGING rit now!

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Don't count the days, make the days count*

Ammy Bee said...

Lovely story. Still thinking if I shld send mine cos lots of my friends and colleagues know my meeting point and who knows they might be BVs. Don't want any monitoring spirit.

I am the queen and the boss of this blog said...

Very beautiful...

baby blu said...

Awwww beautiful story.I remember being my cousin's wife's maid of honour and my cousin's cute friend his best man.His fiancee was all over him and piercing my skin with her angry eyeballs as if I was going to make any move...Lol it was really funny then because she entertained my cousin's wife and i with her body language. Heard that got married but today they are divorced now I wonder to what end. I feel bad for chekeleke(that's our nickname for her) but life must go on.

PayUrsula said...

God bless ur marriage.

Zinny Chocolate said...

Stella I wonder how big your eyes would be by now with all these pictures only you are watching. Try and share some na biko. Nice story, God continue to bless your marriage.

chikavincent1 said...

God bless ur union, baba God Locate me oo biko chukwu.

Anonymous said...

Awwww love u guys love story. God bless and keep you both.

Anonymous said...

Awwww love u guys love story. God bless and keep you both.

missylynn said...

Beautiful story
God bless your aunt for giving out your number to hubby.

Mhiz Vee said...

I love your story. These meeting point stories have been making me hold on to my relationship even wen I feel like giving up.
Reading about love makes me want to calm down and let love lead d way.
I just hope I'm not holding on to d wrong person.

Anonymous said...

See better love?! Meanwhile some punk ll be giving one unnecessary lies and drama...#bettermanfindmealready

Keesha said...

Lool

Keesha said...
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Keesha said...

Beautiful Story
May God's love never depart from your home.

AbaMade said...

Suweet stori I love it

THELMA'S CAKE WORLD said...

Awwwwww

kudostic said...

love at first sight. congratulation

Beloved07035390876 said...

Yea
Just go to the "Abroad
They full ground

ukwu dimond said...

OK na good one.

pinky peters said...

Nice one. May God bless your home.

Tabby said...

True love is supposed to be easy and peaceful. Thats not to say it doesnt have its own challenges but in d midst of it, u shld still feel loved and at ease. If it feels like he is the wrong person, he probably is.
My 2cents.

brown said...

Beautiful story, God bless your home

Rachael Daggash said...

This is what I call divine meeting point

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

Aww lovely story

Muna said...

This one, should be turned to nollywood movie.

sdk's first lady said...

Nice testimony

Sandra Daniel said...

Anonymous 13:09 Get aqueous cream precisely Elizabeth Anne from shop rite very good for children.

Cynthia Iyede said...

Hehehehe. It's better they're for her eyes only before some unnecessary decoding will start to ruin a beautiful home.

Beautiful story.

elle said...

Woow.sweet story.oluwa send my hubby oo

lollipop said...

awwwwww. this is why i want to go to weddings more often so i can send my meeting point,biko bvs start sending me invites, my hubby may just be at your wedding. **side eyes at bvs**

folawe alamu said...

Beautiful story

rookies said...

Buy ASDA, your son's skin will thank you and you will thank me later.

@ classic chick its real oooo, hubby saw me and knew I was the one.

Stella maris Baby said...

Lovely story..

L Angelique said...

Nice story

Lilly simple said...

Lmao

Empress Windy. said...

Beautiful story, please oooooo how do I get to Paris from mile 2?

Daniel Emesi said...

Nice one

Mao Akuh said...

Lovely

Elaine said...

Amen

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