STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
PREGNANT AND ABANDONED:
Please I need your advice and that of kind hearted Bvs here. I'm a 25 year old lady currently serving the nation and I'm in a relationship with a guy of 30. He asked me out for close to 8years and I finally gave in to his advances in 2014.
We have had a good relationship this past years and I had thought we were leaning towards marriage. His family are not very comfortable with me because I'm a Muslim and He is a Christian and a pastor's son, but he kept assuring me and telling me our love is stronger than their opinions. On the 3rd of Jan I found out I'm nine weeks pregnant, I was totally devastated and I called my bf and told him and the first thing he told me is we should get rid of it.
He said he is a pastor's son and can't have child out of wedlock that he would Shame his parents. I refused and he called my elder sister and told her same thing.my elder sister told my mom and this guy still went to my mom and told her same thing with promise of marrying me next year if I take out this child.
His friends are begging me to abort it too as they feel he will abandon if I insist..he is insisting on taking me to the clinic today where it will be done. I have told him I'm not going but he says I should think about it cause he is sure I can't raise a child with my finances.and his friends said if i decide to go ahead with it that he wouldn't be a party to it nor contribute or have anything to do with me or the child,and if i and my family decides to go to his house that we will be shamed, cos he can easily deny it and say he hasnt seen me in months.
I'm so shattered. Stella i need you red pen biko Pls help.
*The mistake has already been done by not protecting yourselves but dont make another one by aborting that child.If you have never been head strong about anything before,please be concerning this.
I am sure you read how many women are trying to conceive?Please keep your baby and let him abandon you...Karma has everyone's address.
You sef,i hope say you go learn from this one?Dont get pregnant for a man who has not married you.