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Wednesday, 18 January 2017

Wife Of Murdered US Based Nigerian Insists She Had No Hand In His Death

Wife of a murdered America-based Nigerian, Chuks Okebata, has insisted she has no hands in the death of her husband.




Okebata was kidnapped in Mbieri town, in the Mbaitoli Local Government Area of Imo state last Thursday.

It had been reported that the indigene of Umuduruorie in Umuomumu Mbieri, upon his abduction, was taken to Atta Junction in the Ikeduru LGA, where he was murdered in cold blood.

But after his abduction and subsequent assassination, a video emerged on Facebook showing him and his wife in a heated conflict of words, where she had allegedly threatened to deal with him, calling the police on her husband.

Concerned persons pointed accusing fingers at her, saying his abduction and death came soon after her threats.

She has,however, come out openly to narrate her own side of the story.


She claimed she is innocent of her husband’s death and has no hand in it.

In her narration, she categorically stated that she called the cops on her husband for her own safety because he constantly subjected her to physical abuse.

One Amanda Chisom shared the deceased’s wife’s story on Facebook:

“My own side of the story – Amanda, I once came to you about my husband and his incessant abuse and cheating. Yes I am the wife of the man who was assassinated, and I am just distraught. I do not even know where to start but it is only right I tell my own side of the story.


“I am innocent, God is my witness that I did not kill my husband or the evil that my husband’s family is portraying me to be, yes my sister in-law posted that video to make me look evil but the part she did not tell anybody was that I was calling the police to save me because he always beat me up and I was told to call the police whenever he started and that was exactly what I was doing, from the video you would see that I did not fight him or answered him. Should I have allowed him to kill me?

“Amanda, we have been married for 13 years since I was 19, it has been beating upon beating, I have gone through surgeries because of beating he gave me. How can I kill my husband, we live together, till the day he left for Nigeria, I packed his things, how could I kill him.

“Who do I know to order a hit on the father of my children? I have no interest in his properties as suggested after all we built everything together. God knows I am innocent. He went to Nigeria and was going to club spraying dollars and showing off, revealing his locations.










“They want to pin my husband’s death on me, my husband was not assassinated. He was kidnapped, because he is a military man he is always with a gun and when he shot to death one of the kidnappers, they shot him. Why is my family leaving out information about what happened and pinning it on me?

“I never threatened him to kill him; I am a working woman with a paying job and have no reason to kill him because of properties. All I just want is peace to mourn and raise my children. You can confirm my story from those people in my home town.

“My husband was careless in a country with high rate of crime and was kidnapped, if he had not shot one of the robbers, all we would have been talking about is paying ransom not death.

“Amanda why would I kill the father of my kids, why would I choose his death over a divorce if things were that bad?

“I have two boys, who will help me raise them? I am completely innocent of all the allegations. I have endured all this years through his beating and cheating and I did not leave or kill him, why would I do it now? All I ask is that I am left to mourn in peace and the killers found and prosecuted.

“Nne biko help me. I’m an innocent victim here. I love my husband and I’m still in tears. I’m mourning him and people are accusing me wrongly.My children are crying daily.”

Meanwhile, the Police Public Relations Officer, PPRO in the state, Andrew Enwerem, who confirmed the killing of Okebata at the weekend, had said the command had commenced investigation into the case with a view to bringing the perpetrators to justice.
from dailypost.





128 comments:

Anonymous said...

Stella, I saw thr videos of this wife getting her husband arrested and insulting him making her children cry. All I can say is if it was me she did that to she would not be alive today.

£earn $MARTPHONE Repairing (click) said...

Why won't you believe the woman?
Only God knows the truth...

*Paul planted, Appollos watered BUT #God GAVE the increase! *

Shyla said...

Secretly the wife will be so glad her ordeal is over. Imagine perpetual beating and she still stayed. Mrs Endurance.

Oluyomi Odukoya said...

I also watched the video and it is really heartbreaking how love could turn sour. Honestly, I pray the culprits are found and Justice is served. This life sef

Mrs I said...

Men will act careless and get killed then,before u know it,the wife is being accused.Why will she bother to goan pay assassins to kill him when she can just quietly poison his meal?

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

hmmmm very painful. watched the video on my facebook where the wife was asking the man to leave the house.

May God comfort the children. See how devil take enter this people house.

Now he is dead.

I pray the woman gets good justice from the kinsmen.

BoeDazzle said...

The man's family set him up. Simple. The wife is the scapegoat.Wicked ppl everywhere. I hope they don't make this woman miserable for the rest of her life. The man sef..in these buhari times, you are around spraying money dey advertise. Boys are not smiling

Blackberry said...

She might be innocent.

ANGELRAY4SDK said...

I also believe the woman, she's faraway in America so how could she have arranged assassin's to kill her husband, the husbands sister is trying to cover up the reckless life her brother lived while in Nigeria, they should bury the man in peace and move on.

Blessing Jackson said...

I wonder! His family killed him for his properties and now they are blaming his wife!

ninuola said...

How are you feeling ma'am? I wish you speedy recovery.

Rahel said...

Nne, if you get to read this, please do not go home for the burial. I repeat do not go home o because they will kill you. Stay put in the USA. This life sef! Why is it that when someone dies, some family member must have a hand in his death (according to my people)? This is 2017 people! Get unquestionable proof before you accuse anyone. #backwardthinkingissonotcool

Intelligentsia princess said...

The husband family must be very wicked
They should leave the innocent woman alone and allow her mourn her husband in peace.
There son was just irresponsible while alive.
I watched the video yesterday, and saw the way he was ranting like a schizophrenic patient unto the fact that he slept out and could not give his wife a reasonable explanation where he slept before she called the police on him
Mtcheeeew.
I love the American system, you cheat and get kicked out,no dulling.
Naija will get there one day




Adanne said...

That's why is not good to make threats in a haste.
RIP

BEDS AND ROSES said...

I saw the video of the kids crying also and it broke my heart.
Why live in a war zone in the name of marriage. Once husband and wife turn to sworn enemies then that marriage must end.
See the type of aggressive and unhealthy environment they are raising their kids. Why get kids involved in ur bruhaha. How irresponsible. Its situations like this that breeds boys that grow up to also bring upon DV to his wife. Becos he is used to the chaos. I hope there's isn't their case, as these boys seem like loving boys that are cut between love for their mother or father.
I don't know what to make of this case,but I wont side that woman. I wont even side the man either. The man is wrong, so is the woman. But I don't think she is a MURDERER, an aggressor probably. But I doubt she had a hand in his death.
Also parents shld try and let their kids mature, finish school before embarking on marriage. She married at 19, what does a 19yr old know. And she's even in a foreign country.
The things that happen with this kind of marriages is that the man thinks he owns you cos he brought you to US.
iv heard of so many cases like that, I even know of a lady In Arizona brought to the US at 18 to marry someone. They didn't date, he just saw her in d village,liked her and family started wedding plans.
This guy promised to send her to school in US, he never did. Now we are hearing he beats her slightest thing, locks her indoors, even denys her food when they fight.

LOLLAH said...

Heya...it's easy for his family to pin it on her after all she wasn't happy in the marriage and naija would have been the place to kill him.
But soldier come soldier go. People get married and wake up the next morning to say that they made a mistake in marrying (in the abroad)
It's that easy and there's no stigma attached to it. Obvious she wanted out but death would have been the last thing on her mind.
But the guy was callous o.

Anonymous said...

Well just make sure you do not push your wife to the wall, because one day she will push back. I keep saying it, happy wife happy life kpmokwem!

peace maker said...

The man was kidnapped and later killed. How did the wife know that he shot one of d "kidnappers" b4 he was killed?
Who told her? Did she know d "kidnappers"? I am convinced that she ordered a hit on him in order to inherit his wealth.

sugar sugar said...

Ehen I saw this story and watched the videos yesterday on fb, but I wan read am here cos I know say dey must get neighbor and family friends for here, abeg make una come out lol. Meanwhile the way the woman treated him in that video was really bad, calling the police on him, with all these stories of police brutality against blacks in the US, that woman real get mind.

Yemi7up said...

Oluyomi thank God for the success of the operation,wishing you quick recovery in Jesus name.
For the woman, I believe her story, all you need now is pray for God to reveal the secret of the evil one. The family just want to inherit the properties.

peace maker said...

Why did he even came back home to marry ?. He should hv married an American woman. African women can be very uncivilized. See d wey d shameless woman was shouting on him to leave d house for her .

Anonymous said...

Idiot because autopsy can tell he died from poison. Women will also act careless & threaten husbands, when husband dies, they'll claim innocence. That's the kind of stupid myopic argument you offer. Gender-biased fool

Anonymous said...

I read the woman's side of the story before I watched the four snippets of videos the victim's sister posted then I went to view the man's Facebook profile.
May the true killers of the man be found...but this is my own 2cents...
The man was a manipulative and emotional abuser..the kids were crying because of what he was telling them. There is no kid that a father would tell that his mother wants to send him to jail that would not cry. He tried to manipulate the kids to make himself look good and paint his wife the demon. The beginning of the video the wife was calmly telling him he did not sleep in the house the night before so something must have happened.. And the time from then to when she started calling the cops was some while cos she had changed clothes. Why did he not leave the house initially and return when her anger must have cooled down? Why did he chose to film his wife instead of appealing for settlement of whatever caused the issue? How long ago was that video made? Cos the victim's sister is making us believe the event happened the day before he was killed. Meanwhile, naija Facebook judge and jury have declared the woman guilty even though she is thousands of kilometers away in the US and the man was murdered in Nigeria.
His Facebook profile said he was single so he was parading himself as a single dad and using that to fuck women in the US and even throwing that fact in his wife's face.
May he find rest wherever he is, but the woman is innocent until proven guilty.

Anonymous said...

Even a criminal will never admit to his/her crime, I'm not saying she's involve in the killing but fear some women o. Stella U too dey believe and trust easily, hope U dey keep Ur trust and believe things away from Ur home and family, who believe epp? The killers will be brought to pay for their crimes, lesson Learnt is that even if U get ten warehouse of money no flaunt am, Eagles dey everywhere wey wan carry Ur small small chicken. Lowkey money lowkey enjoyment, mi o Le wa ku o

Anonymous said...

Calling the police isn't the issue but the reason behind calling them. If her live was in danger, she should have stood outside waiting for them to come. If she's inside because the sister was there, her hubby can take the 2 of 'em at same time so that's not an excuse. I don't think she killed her husband but the video doesn't help her at all coz sentiments are being whipped up to demonize her

Fab Mum said...

I watched that video and this is my honest opinion

1. I do not think domestic violence was involved in that marriage. That video showed the wife yelling and the man tryibg to be with his kids. The wife kept saying I'll call the cops on you and he asked her, what would you say I did? What are you going to tell them I did. I did nothing to you.. She kept saying how he wasn't home last night and I feel for one they must have had a misunderstanding and he left home to sleep some where else..

2. The kids were happy to see the father. They kept saying good to see you pops. They wanted to hug their dad and stay with him but they wife kept making them for sit down and leave the dad. He told them to go to school and tell their teachers what mummy is doing, so they can be with him. If he was an abusive husband, he won't tell the kids to go to. School and tell the teachers what mummy is doing..

3. The wife is throwing domestic violence to us because she knows Nigerian women wouldn't look at any other thing again and start swearing for the man. The man is Joanne tondefend himself. He is gone. So he can't say I didn't do this or she did this..

For all we know, she might have contacted someone to help her arrange assassins for the husband. Knowing she will get away with it if she does it in Nigeria. Then again she might have not done it..

Also Ill like to know how she knew he shot one of the kidnappers before he was killed. Did the kidnappers contact her to tell her this?? I'll honestly like to know..

Rob said...

You are a complete moron. So she would die of abuse right ??? Animal

marriedchick said...

Exactly my thoughts, how did she know what happened between the kidnappers and her late husband? Did the kidnappers call the family to inform of what happened? Well she still remain the prime sucpect till investigation proves otherwise...

Anonymous said...

Shut up,the news is all over the area. The police came to pick the dead kidnapper as well as her husband's corpse.

Mistress of Spices said...

Abi o. Me sef wonder. She kept repeating 'He shot one of the kidnappers and they shot him' She dey there? Police report sef never commot.

Anonymous said...

She did not look like a scared beaten wife.
A guilty man would not video his wife Jst like that.
Why didn't she arrest him all these while, if he was actually beating her.
She is Jst a lier

LUCILE COCONUT OIL ABUJA 07059605320 Pin- 2BC6235E said...

Amen

Anonymous said...

Some naija men can like to misbehave in this obodo oyinbo. A family friend married a white woman very nice homely woman not the everyday oyinbo woman very family orientated .She bore him 3 kids , stood by him for almost 20 yrs . Suffered gave everything up for him.What did this man pay her back with? Abandoned her and the kids immediately he got his citizenship went to naija enjoying his life this woman got sick she didn't even have his number finally she died 3 months ago. This man just went on Facebook and wrote the mother of his kids is dead nothing more. We were expecting him to come home immediately he heard she was dead but no he didn't he left those kids to the mercy of their old grandmother.we called him to give our condolences and ask when he's coming back you know what this bastard said? ' na her luck be that i don collect wetin I want from her na she Know I don get another woman I go carry am come to take care of the kids. More than 3 months dis woman died he didn't come he abandoned these kids so tell me if some of these naija men don't deserve whatever they get. Being wicked even to oyinbo woman who was good to you . Suffered , lived in lack and hunger. Why did you marry her in her youth to kill her with neglect and in the process she died. God will judge when the time comes and for that woman in naija he abandoned his family for continue u hear? Your own will be worse

Anonymous said...

the man was irresponsible. Tagging his wife with pictures of him in various clubs and hotels with women. And claiming they have bigger arse and give him what she doesn't. The story no be here abeg. Na only God know the truth.

Remyne O said...

How did she know he shot one of the robbers? Was she there?

Anonymous said...

If this Oyinbo woman had called cops on him they will say Oyinbo women are wicked. God will fight for her even in death cos she never for one day misbehaved. This woman just aged for nothing, if you ask her why are you looking so frail she'll say ' it's your brother, he wants to kill me' and she eventually died in that bondage . J, i Hope your kids grows up to hate you knowing you killed their mother.your son is close to 20 yrs and your beautiful daughters are growing too , I hope they'll one treat you like a scum like you treated their mom and may they pay you back in your own coin and I pray God gives their aged grandmother long life to care for those kids cos they have no father in you. Heared your daughter has started working so they could feed, let me see if the woman you abandoned them for will bore you Jesus Christ

Just Fab said...

That woman is innocent..if they really want to pin it on her,they should report to the FBI so that her calls and social media account be traced to see who she communicated with lately.they cant just accuse someone without evidence..i second the person that said the woman shldnt go to Nigeria for the burial or even I she want to go she shld carry mopol and leave once the burial has ended to avoid stories that tickles the bum bum

peace maker said...

He used to beat and cheat on her everyday. Yet u refused to ask for divorce and get half his estate. She wanted it all by getting him eliminated.
It's just a pity that d man underestimated d danger she posed.

Anonymous said...

Try and make sense when u talk.if the woman ordered the hit wld she come out and give out feedback from the kidnappers..u don't have common sense

Just Fab said...

The man must have been planning to divorce her and get custody of the kids,that's y he took d video..

Anonymous said...

Have you read how terrible a husband this guy was, cheating and robbing it on his wife,posting the picture of himself and his girlfriend on facebook and comparing the girl with his wife.

His foolishness kill him not the wife.

Anonymous said...

That video was totally one-sided. Those children may b crying out of fear that the father would become violent on d mum, nt necerssrily cos she called d cops. I belive d woman. His family might ve been d one to kill him cos they knew hs whereabouts . Imagine d wife calling him to ask him were he was ??? He wld ask her wat her buisness is. Dat after all she wanted him out of d house. A man dat didn't come home a night b4 according to d video, he wldnt answer her in naija.

Anonymous said...

taa gbafua,which wealth becos he built a mansion which I can guarantee u d woman contributed 2 dat mansion.y is it wen one lives reckless and dies,it boils down 2 wealth inheritance. Smh

Anonymous said...

taa gbafua,which wealth becos he built a mansion which I can guarantee u d woman contributed 2 dat mansion.y is it wen one lives reckless and dies,it boils down 2 wealth inheritance. Smh

Insider said...

If you guys had listened well, you would have seen that the wife had an active restraining order against him which was why she called the police. This isnt the first time the police is coming to their house.

I'm kinda familiar with the family and she has been beaten severally but she stayed cos of the kids. The man was a chronic cheater and was flaunting it in her face

Anonymous said...

Don't mind the silly sister, instead of cautioning him she's busy recording video.

Anonymous said...

What threats? What haste? How was she to know he would be killed? So couples should not quarrel? In fact where in the video did she threaten him? Adanne go and marry let's see if u won't quarrel with ur husband.

Anonymous said...

My dear people told her what transpired. Of course as the wife she was told what had happened b4 the story came out. Sometimes I wonder about the mental capabilities of people visiting these blogs.

Otaswifey chat me up for your classy traditional marriage aso - oke at the most affordable rate said...

She would have walk out the toxic marriage and save herself of this story that touch

Anonymous said...

Oh my dear I love u. This write up mimics my thoughts exactly. Kai pls come and join our psychology association cos u r on point

Anonymous said...

Because d news is everywhere

Anonymous said...

Nna u local o. See mindset. I pity ur age grade!!

Anonymous said...

Now we r getting somewhere.

virus detected said...

It shows you lack common sense! So bcus his stupid sister dint video him when he was panel beating the wife means the guy is a saint? Wow! I marvel at the stupidity of some of you.

Jenny zee said...

She said d man was abusing her, i watt he'd d video nd she called d cops on him..their quarrel was a normal thing among couples having issues, she de US nd he died in Nigeria. I don't know y d family wants to pin his death on her ,am sure they checked his phone nd saw the video and posted it online, am sure they never liked d lady

bitchplis (BentOuttaShape) said...

See women saying 'I believe the woman', if it was the woman that got killed, many of them will say 'investigate the husband'...na wah

virus detected said...

Buh he dint video her all the time he was panel beating her.

Jenny zee said...

Exactly she shouldn't go for the burial, heard guy was showing off in a party before he was kidnapped

Jenny zee said...

Why are u sounding like d fool u are? Obviously d story was narrated to her nd d story is everywhere

Anonymous said...

DAT video u saw wz an edited clips 2 mk it look like she just told him 2 leave without any form of threat from d guy angle.He could hv been a gud Dad but not a gud Husband.Also try and put itself in her shoes which she has been wearing 4 13 gud years.

peace maker said...

Anon13:39 madam prime suspect is that u? I know u r very active on Nigerian blogs. Why didn't u seek divorce and alimony if he is truly an incurable cheat and wife beater?

Uriel (Freshdew) said...

Such a sad story, but why pin the death on the wife?
The husbands sister needs to stop this accusations...😒

Jenny zee said...

Thank u, he wasn't nice to her

Anonymous said...

I watched the video. One video cannot explain the whole marriage. Couples fight. If there was a video of vicious fights in several marriages, we would conclude the participants are miserable. However, this is not always the case.
Whoever put out that video was just being malicious. Why not hand it over to the cops if you think it is evidence. Moreover, the video doesnt even paint the man as without blame. He called the mother of his kids mad in front of the kids. Then he went ahead to use emotional tactics on the kids. Who wants to see their parents in jail? It looks odd that she called the cops on him, but for him to be willing to leave without contest, it means they have had issues before. This is not the first incidence of calling the cops.
Please I am not saying she didn't send the killers. All I am saying is that facebook court holds no water.
If I were her, I will forget about the house built in Nigeria. I will just face my kids in America. Let them keep it.

Anonymous said...

He is a US Army Veteran and he was assassinated?

Let's look at it from another angle?

Could it be he was assassinated because they are afraid he might leak some of the army secret of US.

This is not the first time I am hearing that a US Army veteran was assassinated in Nigeria when he returned home. It is easier to carry out their deeds in a country with low security.

KING XOXO MYSTERY

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

They should let his innocent wife be...
That woman is innocent,there is no prove pointing to her as the killer.

The man's stupid sister should rest n stop raising dust over nothing.

When he went to clubs in owerri n was spraying dollar, he forgot he was in Nigeria n that many people are angry n bitter n can even kill to ease their frustration.

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

I agree..... The man's family are up to something.
Is a pity that they will still use her not coming for the burial as an excuse to still accuse her.

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Anony 13:39
They no get sense naaa.
What do u expect from them.
The news is all over the net so y won't the wife know?

Kim Kardashian Aka portable queen of sdk blog said...

Even you?
Nawa ooh

Anonymous said...

She doesn't need to kill him , she is in a country where all she needs to do is call the cops and he will be thrown out and all he has goes to her nd the kids. This woman is very innocent, his fb page says single. He reminds me of my daugters dad who wants to be in a home and live a single life.

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

The man was morally bankrupt. I believe the woman side of the story

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

But she asked the man to take a walk

QUEEN AMY Loves ACCESS BANK said...

Even if she was close,she didn't kill him

BEDS AND ROSES said...

@peacemaker an African woman is troublesome abi.
You never see these akata's then. They will take baseball bat and even descend on the guys tv, sound system. Even his beloved car wont be spared. Have you seen the one's that will set all his designers clothes on fire or cut them up in pieces.
You don't mess with dos women. dem no dey stay for man house tey. They don't mind various kids for different fathers.
Nigerian women, even abroad still have their culture.

Anonymous said...

So if your wife calls police on you you will kill her *smh*, make sure you tell that to any girl you are toasting becos you sound like a teenager so I know for a fact you are not married yet

Anonymous said...

Oh cos the video showed her shouting, I bet u wont h v much to say if d video showed him beating her up. Sometimes I wonder how bvs reason. Her asking him to leave the house makes her un-civilized.

Eka Joy said...

@fabmum u just fall my hand die.

Fab Mum said...

Anon, yes it could have been an edited clip but I'm using what's on the video to ascertain the matter. He wasn't a good husband in terms of fidelity Issue but I feel there was no abuse what so ever..


Portable viv, even me meaning what? Am I inclined to have same opinion as you?

Anonymous said...

The news wasn't every where anon. Until she said it before the world knew. Stop lying . Imagine someone above said they came to pick up the kidnappers corps along side the husband's corps. Una sabi lie. So the kidnappers will leave the dead body of one of their member. Won't that make the police catch them fast..

Anonymous said...

Kids are very sensitive to both mum and dad and given a choice they want to live in d house with both parent, even after my daughters dad left her at home alone at 4yrs and went partying, she still loves her dad very much and wish we could all liive together again. This happened in uk where social service will investigate and get involved. He kept saying to her , when u get to school tell ur teacher ur mum beats u, it backfired cos she went to school and told them dad always beats mum and strangle her. These men know the law and they manipulate the kids. The deceased was a very reckless man and he must hv been kidnapped but things went wrong when he shot one of the kidnappers. She is very innocent

Anonymous said...

You are a bloody lair

There was no restraining order. If there was one, she wouldn't have told him you didn't come home yesterday in the video clip. So why the fuxk you lying

Anonymous said...

You lack common sense, very slow thinking. Gosh!

Anonymous said...

Ur comment is very funny

Fab Mum said...

That's how it is here in the name of women supporting women..

My question is what if there was no violence in that marriage? But because he is dead he can't defend himself.

What if there only issue was infidelity because the man was a chronic cheat.

All of a sudden people are believing the woman because she spoke about domestic violence forgeting she might be lying in that aspect..


For all u know, she could have killed him, she might not have killed him..

A spouse is always the first to be suspected when one of them turns out dead.

B said...

Anon 12:57 adopt an attitude of empathy. Put yourself in the woman's shoes and in your words, stop being "gender-biased". Also, you know you can make your point without being insolent. It is called being wise. God bless!

peace maker said...

@Bed&roses ,Oyibo no dey carry marriage matter for head like d typical African women. She will kill or be killed in d marriage than seek divorce. An American woman would hv asked for divorce in such toxic situation but not an African women. This is why I want to marry Oyibo woman very civilized people.

Babesarise said...

Chineke nnam o! Are my eyes deceiving me? Rob did you just support the woman? Wow! She must be related to you or something. Anyone sha all I can say is well done for being understanding!

Anonymous said...

God bless you

Wiseone said...

Well you can't blame women. Men have dealt with them badly e.g. the subject in question and they have had enough. Men have to see their wives as human beings with emotions and not stones that can take every hit.

Obum said...

So so true!

Tetrina said...

Has it ever occurred to you that the kids were crying because of the constant fights between their parents?? Did you also listen to the part where she said" you keep saying I did this, I did that when you weren't even here last night" meaning he didn't sleep at home. And to buttress the lady's point, didn't you hear where the son said "good to see you dad" and he responded???...
There is always two sides to a story!!

Anonymous said...

@Rob I live in America and have a bullet specially reserved for a moron like you that will call the police to take me out of my house. Guaranteed she will be dead, and yes I am married.

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SANDY NEKY said...

She is Innocent..no doubt! Rip to the hubby

Anonymous said...

Why is it that most of you lady's are very biased on any issue that has to do with Nigeria men? The level of blind support most of you dish out is alarming. A woman with such statement have a questionable character. Most of you have brothers, would you be happy if such faith befall yours? Do you think the family of the guy is just accusing her knowing fully well how overbearing a typical Igbo woman can be? Common guys.. It is good to support your fellow women but let those of you that feel she is totally innocent face similar faith his family is facing.
The Nigeria police need to consult with FBI to search her phones,laptops,iPads and other communications lines, bank transfers in the past two years. She is a culprit going by her attitude in that video and her above statement. The marriage was already broken going by the video and animosity displaced by both adults in front of their kids.
I don't think a man she hate so much in that video will sleep with her in same bed before he travelled. She do not need to be in Nigeria to commit murder. It is all about 3rd party arrangements. She even claimed to have packed his luggage before he travelled.
Lies...
Packing husbands luggage before his trip do not exempt you from a crime. African people are not even smart when it comes to crime like this so finding her guilty of the crime is very easy with through investigation.
Then some say he was splashing $$$ in the club.. and so what? Other Nigerians like Emoney do not splash money? Have they been killed? Splashing money is a typical African thing. Saying he was kidnapped might be the tool used to commit the crime as everyone knows kidnapping is rampant in Nigeria.
She talked about domestic violence.
You people believe such? That guy was in the US army and a veteran. If she was abused or had a domestic violence case, he won't come close to that house talk more of entering the house to play with his kids. He will be sent out of US army and all benefits withdrawn, he will face prosecution. He will not be active in the military or continue to work with them up to his death. Such accusation is ridiculous from his wife. America army does condone domestic violence. His wife is not a good wife, wether she is involved or not she is not a good wife going by her actions in that video.
You see her aggression, typical of most Igbo women. Power intoxicate them especially when they know they have right abroad. A lot of Nigeria men are faced with such women abroad. This is the reason why Nigeria men in America murder their wives daily.
I am not in support of any abuse but to support wife because of her gender is very wrong. As most of you think Nigerian men are no good, so anything about them is good for them forgetting you have sons and brothers.

Pure Nigerian said...

I watched the videos and there is no where the woman exchanged words heatedly with the man. Yes, he is dead but in that video he was lousy, especially when he tried to drag the children into their conflict. He taunted his wife and I was angry after watching the video. The person who released the videos isn't doing the deceased or the children any good.
Parents leave your children out of your conflicts. Allow them be children. If you are angry at your spouse, take it outside or wait till the children are not close to you. Haba!

Jenny zee said...

Watched d video

Chy Ozo said...

Fab Mum u are a very smart woman.!!

Chy Ozo said...

Potable Viv why are u bitter with mwnt whenever domestic violence is mentioned? Are u suffering same.from ur horseband? No happily married woman will be so bitter with men like u..Take it easy madam.

Chy Ozo said...

Anon 13:23..U are wise. Dont mind all these frustrated bitter women on dis blog suffering in their marriage including Stella dimoko Korkus..D way she supports all these bitter woman shows she is going through a bad marriage.
Stella never posted anything about d killed man all these while but is quick to to post about d wife's version..
Stella it shall be well with ur marriage oh.

Anonymous said...

@peace maker, the madam has been on every blog writing to cover herself up and to convince air heads that she's innocent. And some of them are buying her story.

Candy said...

Anon 12:24, she didnt insult him. Get ur facts right. He was d1 who kept callin her a mad woman and she didnt insult him.

Anonymous said...

Air heads believing this, a woman who exposes her husband (a black man) to the American cops Is dangerous.

Anonymous said...

Insider u are a bloody liar.See how u exposed ur stupidity.There was never a restraining order.

Anonymous said...

Fab Mum may God bless u for ur wisdom.

Anonymous said...

I hear! If they are sure she assassinated him. Then as someone suggested they should report the case to the FBI and then her calls and text messages will be traced.

Anonymous said...

U only saw where he called her a mad woman but u didn't see where she called him "Onye ara". Tell me what's d meaning of Onye ara..
U bitter women won't see anything wrong in what she did..I pray your brothers go through same in Jesus name.

Anonymous said...

So any body that sees it from the man's side lacks common sense? You lots talking ignorantly here will be surprised when this mystery is solved.

Anonymous said...

Peace maker your mind is there, leave these air heads.

Anonymous said...

Bia nwoke hardly any woman will be bad to a man that treats her good. If your wife has a complaint listen to her and try to reach a compromise with her. Instead, a man will choose to let his ego stand in the way. If this woman was your mother and sister, what would you tell her?

Anonymous said...

One billion likes.

Anonymous said...

Especially in this blog, because this blog is made up of mostly women, it is difficult to have an unbiased view about men and women issues, it must surely go in one direction in the name of women supporting women. I am a woman, but I can't support the treatment that she gave to her husband. I live in the US, but we Africans living here still frown at this type of treatment even though their law enables it. There was no domestic violence involved in that video, why throw your husband out for christ's sakes? Can't both of you talk? Can't issues be resolved amicably for the kid's sake? Must we exercise that western privilege? If he was beating her, then it makes sense to call police, but here's a man that his kids are happy he came home and you want him out of the house. He probably went on night duty because he's a crime scene investigator. The woman didn't say "you slept in a woman's house" she only said "you weren't even here last night" probably, he came back and was accusing her of something, all she could do was take her kids away and call the cops on him.

Anonymous said...

Anomosity displayed*

smart move said...

Shut up. Go and marry elsewhere. We Naija Babes don't need y'all "abroadians".

Anonymous said...

Na we for this ur theory poop. It brain Dey function one kain sha

Baba Ita said...

@Fab Mum ori e ti pe ju.ju ju ju tun wa wo.

Anonymous said...

So smart. Men can be very manipulative. My father did something similar to me when I was 5. Wanted to ship me off abroad to live with his mistress, he would ask me several times if I wanted to go to America with him, wetin I SA I that time, I will say yes na

Anonymous said...

@smart move, I think you're a jobbless sad woman on rampage.

Baba For The Broads said...

Amen

Baba For The Broads said...

Thank you Annon 17:58. This blog reeks of hatred against men. Its really bad. I have never decieved any lady to get the cookie. I have never promised marriage to any lady. I'm even skeptical about giving the D out anyhow these days as some ladies will start calling u "hubby" after just one night with them. You can't just have fun with any Naija Lady without her hoping you'd marry her. Its pathetic! #StopTheManHate

sisi eko said...

Haven't seen the video, don't even know the full story. But I think I believe this lady. Oh well, what do I know.

sisi eko said...

The reason I believe her is because I've seen a similar case to this year's ago.

Husband lived in the U.S with his wife. The wife was the very outgoing type that used to frequent Nigeria a lot. She was one of the so called "lagos big girls" at the time. So at some point, she visited Nigeria as usual and she was said to have gone to a club against her husband's wish. According to the husband, he spoke to his wife that very night and she claimed that she was home. Only for her to get killed in the early hours of the morning on her way back from the club with her boyfriend. Yes, with her boyfriend. That was how the whole gist came out upon investigation, that she was a philandering wife whom everyone knew was never faithful to her husband.

She was such a pretty lady and she got all the attention from men. After her death, her husband was accused by her influential family to be the one who sent assassins to kill her. They said he prolly discovered his wife a cheat and decided to end it all by killing her. This was what the wife's family claimed.

They even took her kids and vowed never to allow their father set eyes on them again. He was in the U S while his kids were held 'hostage' by his in laws in Nigeria. Everyone pointed accusing fingers at him and he was tagged a murderer. He had to get the American embassy in Nigeria involved. Child custody battle began. They had unending court appearances. But because the late wife;s father was a justice, he used his influence and affluence to frustrate the poor husband and the case was dragged for so many years. I know some of you who know this story will know the people I'm taking, because this matter was all over the place back then. Only it happened when blogs and online news didn't exist. That's why I can relate to this lady up there. God help her

OK bye

sisi eko said...

Please where's the link to the video?

Oluyomi, I wish you good health and Godspeed.

sisi eko said...

Yeah I agree. The story I told up there. When the husband attended the wife's funeral he was embarrassed and asked to leave. So there's no point. Although she may want to pay her last respect with the kids. She should stay put in the U.S for now. Whoever killed her husband is still at large and may come for her and the kids if she shows up eh.

Genny le boo said...

Sad story

Anonymous said...

God bless you anon!! My exact thought too when I watched the video and went through his fb profile. An examplr of a horrible parent is the one that drags his/her young kids into whatever mess the parents are going through. He was even coaching one of the kids, telling him to tell his teacher this and that. A parent should never put a child on that position. The video also cut off when he started yelling st her that she's crazy etc. only God knows what was cut out there. And the kids were even in good spirits at that point, you could see them walking around the house downstairs and playing. But in the next video, the atmosphere was tense, the clothes the woman wore had been changed and she called the police. The guy was trying to paint the woman badly but his faults in the incidence seemed to have been edited out. Why was that video cut out when he started getting loud and aggressive?....... Just Saying

Anonymous said...

Just so you know thats a five year old video.the boy is 12 years old now. They continued to live together 5years after that fight. Ask the family who killed him in sure they know

Anonymous said...

The video is 5years old. The evil sister in law conviniently failed to mention that

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