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Thursday, 2 February 2017

Labour Room Drama 57

*Tear drops*




Hello dear Stella,
God bless you for this platform you are using to touch lives,Amen.
I finally had the courage to send in my Labour room drama,I know I would receive lots of bashing from bvs because I'm a single mum,I had him when I was 18,but no wahala as it is a normal thing in 'our' blog.


From the first month I told my son's father I was pregnant and he denied it,I carried the pregnancy all alone till I put to bed.
I knew my vagi** was going to be tight because I didn't have s*x for the whole 9 months.


I registered in a small clinic in masaka,a town In Nasarawa state,when the pregnancy was 4 months,whenever I go for antenatal all I spend is 200# for drugs and nurses check me thereafter,I went for antenatal one day and a nurse dipped her hand in my vagina and shouted that it is closed and I should go for scan,I went and the doctor told me everything was fine and my EDD was march 29th 2012.


On 24th march was my cousin's traditional marriage at the village but my mum begged my aunt that she won't be able to make it because of me and that with the way I was looking, labour could start at anytime.

My mum was right after all because that same 24th,labour started around 11pm at night,when I started feeling mild pains,I was scared to tell my mum because I didn't know if it was labour pains or normal pregnancy cramps.

I was just holding myself whenever the pains came,when the pains became more severe,I went to wake my mum and told her that I was having serious waist pain,then she told me the time has come.

She woke my elder brother up and took my bag,a neighbour helped and took us to the clinic that night,when we got there I realized I didn't come with my card,my brother and neighbor rushed back home,and brought the card.I called my son's father and he told me,"I'm at a friend's party,please you are disturbing me" even without hearing what I wanted to say.


The doctor checked me and said I was 2cm and that I should exercise and he and the nurse went back to sleep and that was when the labour proper started.


My mum asked me to be walking around to ease the labor,from that night till morning, I didn't sleep,I was in pains but didn't shout or cry,whenever I turned and looked at my mum sitting on the bench and praying, I will just pray to God for strength,when it was around 4 am I started vomiting, I vomited everything in my tummy,when it was getting too much,my mum went to wake the doctor to come and check me,that she doesn't understand me again,when he came,he checked and said I couldn't give birth that I looked pale and too small,and they'll have to refer me to mararaba medical center, they gave referral letter,we got to mararaba by 5:30am,did all the necessary things,the nurse checked me and told me to exercise, I told my mum I couldn't that I was tired,my mum started shouting that is this how I want to give birth? 


When her talking got too much,I managed to come down from the bed and go out at least.

Immediately I stepped out,I felt a strong urge to poo,I told my mum and she said we should go to the bush at the back of the hospital, when I bent down, I started pushing and baby's head was coming out,my mum shouted, that the baby's head is coming out o,from no where strength entered me I flunged my wrapper and ran to the labor room with my mum behind me shouting, Nurse the baby is coming out o, in less than 2 minutes,my son came out looking exactly like his father on 25th march by 7:30am.

I pushed the placenta out and I was stitched.my son was cleaned up,dressed and given to my mum,immediately she carried him she burst into tears,I started crying too,and saying "mummy thank you" all through.

when she called my dad,he too started crying,and till today the bond between the three of them is like that of Siamese twins, Lol.
He'll be 5 in march and I'm also in the university now.
I hope I didn't bore you with my story.


No,you didnt bore me darling,you made me cry....your story is known on this blog cos you have sent in a plea for help before.I am sure a lot of people will remember pretty asha who was rejected by her baby daddy story.




68 comments:

Miss Ess said...

God's bless your home

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

Congrats girl. You are a strong girl. I love you. Dont worry you will come out with a good grade. Cheers

Anonymous said...

When the tell you guys to close your legs,una no d gree.

Fuck fuck!!

Anonymous said...

Good for u.

Anonymous said...

Fucknicant!
Fuckinson.
Stella send her cash

Jasmine said...

Your baby daddy is a big fool. Biggest fool ever.

U r really strong. God bless your family

des ree said...

this story made me cry. God will be with you and your child

STARRY LARRY said...

Madam I love you already, your son is my uncle's birthday mate. God bless you and provide for you to train him. So now, how's your baby daddy?





*Larry was here*

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

Dear poster, God bless you for keeping the young man. God bless you for posting your story, I see strength in you. May your strength be renewed and all the best in your academics. Cheers

Cyndy Ifeajika said...

I had goosebumps reading this. Tnk God ur parents were supportive. God bless you darln.

becky naka said...

Wow

Blessing Jackson said...

Awwwww, thank God for your child's life. Am happy your parent stood by you.

Starlight. said...

Wow....nice one dear.

BLUNT CHIC said...

I love your mother. Please send my regards to her.

am elevated said...

congrats poster. such things happen and that doesn't make you less human,we all have our past. this too shall pass,your baby daddy is gonna come begging in his knees, this I assure you. But the worst part is that you may have no choice but to forgive for the sake of your child. Thank God for your parents,they are parents indeed what Yoruba's call "abiyamo too to" God bless your son,he'll live to fulfill Gods purpose for his life. God will make him great IJN.

Anonymous said...

awwwwww, ur story is actually beautiful to me.
Thank God for giving u strength, u ll make it wonderfully well in life dear.
Empressitta

LIGHT said...

God bless you for keeping the child dear poster. The child will grow up to be great and continue to be a source of joy to your household.

Fierce of SDK blog said...

God bless you poster. I have a similar story,had my first child at 18,mum was supportive but dad wasn't,wouldn't even allow me step into his house with the baby,had to stay with my grandma. When my baby was a yr plus, I got admission into the university and took my baby to his dads mum. Anyway,long story short,he doesn't see me as his mum,cos his mind was so poisoned, they told him I abandoned him. His sad swore to me that I will never have access to him because I refused to marry him. *Let me come and be going*

shaybee said...

Nice story dear,I cried too
I got stories to share one day too...but I lost mine








coming....

Gift [Mr] said...

God bless u

Anonymous said...

And when this child makes it in life tomorrow one rat from no where will come begging to be identified as father.God bless ur heart darln some girls that age will just flush it "sharpaly".He will open doors of favour for you always.

Highness Gwen said...

I'm first?

Anonymous said...

Nice one. Please guys,can anyone help me with any fertility clinic that has a good record of successful treatment rate in portharcourt. Please guys, it's very important.

Kay Bee said...

Wow. Sorry dear

Emilia Peter said...

Tears drop frm my eyes as I read dis. The Lord is ur strenght.

St.FranKooL.... said...

#Happiness comes from within not from others*

Aurora said...

Your story tears at the heart, may the grace and mercy of Almighty God continue to speak for you. May His joy always be your strength.
God bless your family!

Beloved said...

Babe you are strong o. I feel for you

Anonymous said...

If u value your baby, u wouldn't have taken him to his dad's people, see the way they just robbed u of your baby that u laboured for just like that, chai.

Classic Chic! said...

Leave her alone.
Everyone makes mistakes at one point in their lives!

Beloved said...

Awwww
Don't worry no child rejects the mom..he will start looking for YOU when he matures because one way or another the truth will come out

But wait why did you refuse him- the dad

ILEOLA OMOSEKEJI said...

Dis story made me cry.God bless ur parent may they eat d fruit of their labour IJNA.

nkiruka alonge said...

your mum is a good woman,God bless her and congrats.

Mrs anonymous said...

I cried reading this,the tears of joy babies bring to family can't be explained.Dear poster,God will bless and keep your parents for their support,you will never regret your decision to keep your baby,may favor locate you,lines will fall into pleasant places for you.Hugs

TRIUMPHANT ZION said...

Nobody will insult you dear,you made a mistake which anybody can,you bore the responsibility and learnt from your mistake. And even got your life back on track,may You reap the fruits of your labour.

Cathryn Praise said...

Hmmmm. Felt like crying @ point. Poster, not to worry, you will laugh last.

Anonymous said...

God bless you dear for that brave decision you took
This life sha... please let's stop abortion it's very bad and God is against it
My life is a testimony and i will always share this testimony whenever I have the chance.
My mum got pregnant of me when she and my dad just finished high school. The first sex they had produced me and it was devastating for them
My dad told my mum to abort it as he wants to go to university and didn't want a burden of a child
My mum agrees to abort it and tried 3 consecutive times but she was unsuccessful.
The third time the doctor told her to give up that i was a covenant child. According to her if she took drugs i will shift to one side in her stomach
That's how all the abortion medicine and concoction didn't work on me
This year i am going to be 28, getting married and God has been faithful to me .anytime my dad sees me he weeps as i am his carbon copy
I still remain his only child as his wife never gave birth for him.
If i had been aborted years back wonder what would have become of me
I know i was kept fora purpose thus serving God is the only thing i live for... it's not everyone that gets a 3rd chance to live
God willing i will be starting a foundation to educate the youths to avoid premarital sex and peradventure a pregnancy occurs please please and please do not abort

Madame koinkoin a.k.a 'peace lover" said...

Meeeehn You are a strong woman, God 'll definitely see you through.(Amen)

Anonymous said...

God bless you dear & your son.

queen hadassah said...

Your son is my birthday mate

ideal cakes 07054561379, BBM C001661C3 said...

Touching! It is well dear, it is well.

Fierce of SDK blog said...

Anon,u won't understand, I was going to school,my mum couldn't take him cos of my dad,you can't take a 1yr baby to school as a fresher going to scot for that matter.

Fierce of SDK blog said...

Beloved,after attaining maturity, I knew he wasn't the kind of man I wanted to be with,childish and all.

Dat awesome gal said...

Shut up dia.ewu like you.some ladies go do 10 abortion and u won't know.stop the bashing already.

Mao Akuh said...

Awwww I nearly cried but no.
Pls close legs like mermaid. Thank God for your parents you for hia nwii.

All glory to GOD.

Candid! said...

My dear,may God bless ur parents for standing by you. God will let them live long enough to reap the fruit of their labour. I wonder why some parents decide to kick their child out once that child makes a mistake. It has happened , it has happened, so why throw the baby out with the bath water?
Please face ur books in school and make ur parents proud. If u hear sex, flee until u reach kotangoro. God's blessings on ur son as he turns 5.

My two kobo said...

Dr. Okongwu's clinic off odili road I'm trans Amadi. He's good. He did the surgery for my 3 babies.He's a gynaecologist. He used to head the fertility unit in Prime (I think).3 of my friends can testify. I think the name is Care Women or so. It's close to Somitel

Anonymous said...

Shut up your mouth. Hypocrite

Beloved said...

Keep it up dear.

GOONs Mi said...

Did i just shed a tear?????
I'm shocked at myself, I remember aisha o. This blog sha, we are like a family.

Happy you're now in the university. Godbless you for standing tall after it all.

Anonymous said...

Noble clinic mgbuoba

teespell said...

Wee you kip quiet, elenu gigun

Shampepe said...

Don't worry poster, that child will bring everlasting joy to you, but how will your mum say you should go to the Bush and poo?? Most times the urge to poo is when the baby wants to come out, you for born inside bush oh

charitybino said...

I cried too. I'm happy for you.

koko insurance said...

May God bless and strengthen you. It is well with you. Your story made me teary eyed.

Iphie dearie said...

Tearsssssss!!
Fierce can you still go back for your Son?
Maybe later or something?
Stories like this just breaks me abeg.

Fierce of SDK blog said...

Iphie,I brought him to stay with me,tried to bridge the gap and all,spent money i didnt have to give him the best,he ran away 4 times,people kept begging me to return him to them before he puts me in trouble. Anyway,he's back there now and I've not heard from him or them for almost a year. I know he will come back someday. Thanks all for the concern. I almost died of HBP but I'm over that, just patiently waiting.

Femilicious said...

So sad... but it will end in praise for you. Just be diligent, resilient and hard working. Your son will be great in his generation in Jesus name. Amen

Efemena akugbe said...

I just shed a tear, I would rather you keep the child, than abort it

Iphie dearie said...

Fierce i totally understand you.
I know God will surely do it for you.

I wish you all the best dear.
Please dont let it affect your life,someday... he will understand you love him too.

Anonymous said...

mhen soo touching...a tear just dropped

Anonymous said...

Awwwww, Asha baby, you don't look like you've been through a quarter of what you wrote. You're a strong woman, we've met before if you can remember when I came to collect the laptop bag you gaveaway. I'm super proud of you dear.

Chidinma Gift said...

Congrats girl, it's well

Chidinma Gift said...

Jamisi

Chidinma Gift said...

Family is all we've got

Zeemicheal said...

Awwww! So sorry

Sue A said...

Noble clinic the best; my sister had her two babies there, its close to nta gare

zamfy said...

Gosh why am I in tears. God bless you and your son.

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