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Tuesday, 25 July 2017

The Missing Ring...

The Ring is there but non existent...Why?




81 comments:

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Some men can do what ever they want while wearing d ring while others who do not are faithful.

Sharon Aminu said...

So they will not lost it naw
My husband only wear's his own on Sundays, when going to church... His a business man,so its not also always necessary..
Not all men has the motive to cheat

Broomstick said...

I'm not married, neither am I a man but let me share my feelings about the wedding ring. I don't like wearing/using rings because they feel constricting. I admire those who adorn their fingers with rings, but even when the ring isn't tight on my finger, it feels like my finger has been tied up. I've told my friends that I'll just get a necklace and use the ring as a permanent pendant when I'm married. Probably, that's why some of the men don't use theirs. Others just want the opportunity to cheat without the side chick realizing she's actually a side chick. Others don't like the idea of removing them cos of the nature of their job, but so they don't misplace the ring, they drop it at home and only use when out on social gatherings with their wife

ukwu dimond said...

Cos they do not want people to know they are married. Most of them tell girls they are very much single, men are the problem most marriages are facing, unfaithful is what brings about not wearing their wedding rings. I know if a man want to cheat With ring or not he will, try and wearing your ring. Women has credit on wearing their wedding rings always.

Monkeynofine said...

What's the big deal? Me I don't wear mine often

SWEETIE said...

Some forget to put it on and I believe some intentionally just ignore it

The Sexiest Mother Of This Blog said...

Ring or no ring, it does not even prevent a man from cheating..

The stupid married man that was following me up and down yesterday at Justrite was even putting on his ring abi wedding band๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€๐Ÿ˜€....

Although i dnt know the reason why some do not wear their ring...

Mine has never removed his from his finger and the day i forgot to wear mine and went to his office , he was so angry and his face changed.. It was when we got home that he said bia nwanyi, odi ka ichoro inu di ozo, jee choo ring gi gbara biko...and nlecha gia adigo too much..lol all untop ring.

Hian๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

The General's Wife said...

It's somehow when I see some married men without their rings on. Granted some may have forgotten or they just don't like to wear it(which to me is unbelievable) or they react to it. Each to his or her own.

But for those who don't wear it solely cos they wanna deceive themselves and not Those poor young girls, Hell awaits them.

Personally,I wear my rings every single time I go out. I don't wear it at home except on some days when i'm feeling really funky๐Ÿ˜‚

The General will never dare leave the house without his ring. A subtle "caution" I issued when we newly got married. And which he hasn't tried finding out the consequences should he break it.๐Ÿ˜‚

But seriously I love rings so I always wear mine. And if u are around me,it's infectious. From him down to my daughters. You must wear your rings o. I get high on rings๐Ÿ˜‚

My daughters can't dress up without wearing their rings. Especially my first,just like her Momma she looves wearing rings๐Ÿ˜

xxxTrinityxxx said...

So they can decieve more girls but some don't care. Ring or not they chase girls like they won't see another next min

Heartbreaker loves TGW said...

Most of them have still not gotten over their single days. They still want to play games but I think just a few don't like wearing it.

Anonymous said...

Some have lost theirs,some couldn't afford the real thing at the time of wedding so when wify upgraded,they didn't really think it necessary. While some keep theirs in their purse or pigeonhole till they get home n wear it back.
I am a married woman and I don't wear my rings,d gold set we got for the wedding was robbed off us at gunpoint and I just couldn't be bother since then.

Anonymous said...

I don't wear mine. Not just convenient. No strings attached. Never cheated. Never flirted. But wears it on official outings or duties. Wife understands.

sexy Daddy said...

Stella this your question self.OK on a serious note!Wearing or not wearing your weeding rings does not make you a cheat or not valueing your marital status.
Some men are allergic to rings as it give them rashes on their fingers.
So Stella wearing or not wearing rings should not be a yastic to judge a man's loyalty to his marriage..I know lot of men that fuck randy girls with their tear-rubber rings on their fingers. So what are we talking about here!
Make I read comments.

Anonymous said...

Some men don't wear it so that they will have a lot of "holes lining up for sampling". But these days, girls don't care. Ring or no ring as long as he pays.

Anonymous said...

I'm a married woman and I hardly wear mine. Just not comfortable with having a ring on, that's probably the same reason why some married men don't wear theirs.

Blackberry said...

So that they can kpansh without toomuch toasting.
apart from DLBC men, anyone that tells u otherwise is a lai mohammed.

May said...

It's a thing of choice Stella,besides there are churches that don't join couples with rings rather they use bibles. Most men don't wear the rings yet respect the institution,while those that wear carry their pe..s around as spray bottle. It's different stroks for different folks you know.

Anonymous said...

My husband says he sometimes forgets it. I guess some men aren't particular about jewellery.

On the other hand, one old hag that used to toast me with his children in the car, never wore his. The reason is obvious. Mcthew.

Esther Okoro said...

I've thought about it, I've asked a guy about it but he just said he removed it while sleeping at night & forgot to wear it in the morning. Married men should answer this question. Very interesting topic.





God Bless Everyone.

Bianca BRUNO said...

Some plan on cheating. Others just forget to wear it.

EESAH WAS HERE said...

It's immaterial to me if a man wears wedding ring or not. Wearing engagement, promise and wedding ring is a borrowed tradition. It's an immitation of oyinbo people customs.

It could even be a form of shirk (polytheism) coz some people believe that the ring generates love between spouses, and that taking it off and not wearing it will have an effect on the marital relationship. Abeg I no dey for this oyinbo man's gibberish.

I'm outtie

Blue said...

Stella some of them believe its not neccesary,dey cant be bothered by a common ring.Once d main wedding ring gets bad or lost,dem no send again

Miss Ess said...

It could be some men domt just like wearing rings. Someone like me, I don't like wearing rings. At times I wonder if i would rock my wedding ring when i get married. It kind of makes me uncomfortable.

SWAG LAFRESH said...
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Pastor's Daughter said...

So they wont explain to the side chick their favorite line "i am not happy in my marriage" choi that line gives me fever.

Btw a married man can still wear his ring and still cheat like no man business. Plus some girls prefer married men whether or not you wear your wedding band.

Bottom line all men cheat and no tiny piece of metal will keep them in check.









I don dey go

Berry said...

daddy it is YARDSTICK

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Sharon y does he wear it church only? And do u wear yours? I'm sure you do. Don't wear it for few days and watch him ask you why you don't have it on

Nkem Helen said...

Grabbing a chair oo

Anonymous said...

Mine doesn't like wearing his own, so me too told him I don't like wearing mine, dude got angry o, haahahaa, he said I must wear, me ma say he must wear, to crown it all, he decided to wear, so me join, Anyday he doesn't wear, I dump mine too, he gets angry, I just tire.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

I'm not a jewelry person and boo knows so me not wear my ring won't be a big deal. I will try my best to wear it sometimes.

I don't think it will bother me if he doesn't wear his but the kind of person he is, I know he will wear it always.

ADARA said...

Alot of men don't like wearing jewelry.for some, they don't wear cos of the nature of their jobs (mechanics).while some don't wear cos they have the motive to cheat.

Anonymous said...

RIP English.

Greatlady. said...

Lmao

anonymous donor said...

Lmaooooo. His finger only contains d ring on sundays. Hahahahahahahaha. blondie

Cynthia Iyede said...

My brothers wear theirs but I've noticed that some men don't like it. Maybe it's cos they might misplace it or it itches them and makes them uncomfortable.

Well, I would love it that my future hubby wears his though. I love it when I see married men wear their rings.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ said...

I'm not married yet but i don't bloody care. Just do your duties as a responsible man. Dont be wearing ring upandan and be a reverse gigolo like all these Lagos boys.
Growing up i never really saw my dad wearing a ring except on sundays (Until the robbers robbed us and took them). He hates jewellery on men. As in HATES!! And i was of the assumption that men dont wear rings until i grew older and realised i was wrong.
My mum said as a young wife she complained oooh until he got one for her. She didn't rest the matter. On their 10th anniversary, he was on a trip so he made up by getting them really fancy inscription rings and matching watches (his&hers) and original pearls for her. These were very special to mum, especially as they used aboki rings for their low budget wedding ๐Ÿ˜‚ 8 years later robbers helped us own them (except the pearls). Chai! my mum sulked about it terribly for months.
One day he just snapped: did they steal your marriage too? I'm here the children are still here so what's all this? Please I have school fees pay!

Cynthia Iyede said...

Eeyah. I love seeing wedding rings on ladies mennn! In church, I love looking at the blings o, especially the ones that are wide with big rocks on them.

Lord my time must come by your grace, I will so rock my rings hennn! OK o.

Greatlady. said...

Why the so much love with rings TGW? I Remember the moment I wanted to do Shakara. I went to buy fancy glasses, necklace and ring so anytime am going out, I wear them.
The way my hand scratched me then ehh. I felt so uncomfortable, was looking at my hands every 5mins, not in admiration though but I was just looking athe hand. ร Wore the ring for 1 week and ร threw it away. Same with the eye glasses, couldn't see well with it. And it was making my eyes itch me. The necklace lasted for some time because I wasn't wearing it always. But I eventually threw all away.
Even till now, jewelries are not what I can deal with. Maybe, am old fashioned.

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Ring or no ring, a man who wants to cheat will cheat. That said,
It is wrong for a man to go about without his ring though...as it is a symbol of his commitment/union with that special one he chose to spend the rest of his life with.

A wedding band is sacred. It is unfortunate most people don't know that and as such treat it as just another piece of Jewelry.

Anonymous said...

*Yardstick
Valuing

Cynthia Iyede said...

Good I'm not alone on this. I love seeing wedding rings....menn!

The General's Wife said...

LMAO @ and nlecha gi a adigo too much
๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

The General's Wife said...

Hehhehe I didn't hear what I wanted to hear๐Ÿ˜‚

Sexy daddy u know say u suppose dey wear ur band 24/7 cos you are just too sexy for some women and (even men) to ignore.
๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Wild Rose said...

My hubby doesn't wear. WHY? Because some girls love to go after married men

Wild Rose said...

Though he hates jewelries but when the need arises I force him. I know some guys who wear and this still doesn't stop them from cheating. It is a matter of choice.

Anonymous said...

Only on Sundays? Kwakwakwakwa how laughable. Will the "business" stop progressing if he wears the ring on week days? Abi is he a factory worker? Hahahaha. Be deceiving yourself. He seriously denying your existence. Dey dia.

Anonymous said...

If u make a ring ur size there is nothing lik loosing it. My husband haven't removed his own since i placed it on him. Mine us mot tight on me cos the person that molded it missed my size and i wasnt present. I only removed it during labour. Its wrong for men to remove wedding band but de wear designers ring abi. Yimu men

Anonymous said...

Madam is your husband a mechanic? Don't be ashamed to admit it cos I don't know the kind of business that will warrant removing of ring from Monday to Sunday. Hian.

Anonymous said...

The ring is a sign that the man is taken and not available but does NOT stop the man or woman from cheating. My humble opinion is it depends on the couple and this is one of those trivial little things couples don't talk about until it turns catastrophic in their marriage. My dad Never wore a ring for a day cause he has this phobia for jewelry and I NEVER saw it as an issue in his 56years of marriage before he passed on. I have been married for 18years and I have only taken my ring off less than 5times cause I hate wearing rings before I got married but since my wife said she would love me to always wear it I left it on in order to get used to it and today it's part and parcel of me and I don't take it off unless it's necessary. My point is wearing your ring or not depends on what you both agree as a couple cause it's a symbol of their union. All those who feel a man cannot cheat when wearing a ring will be shocked that it makes a man a target of some babes and I have had some crazy experiences and all because I wear a ring some babes have approached me after doing some findings about me. Men that will cheat with or without ring. But do what will make your wife happy. Some women are not bothered while some will breakdown seeing their husband without a ring.

Fab Mum said...

I don't wear rings. Itches the hell out of me. Make my fingers so swollen one will think something is going on with me. The ring is always forced out of my hands becaysd my fingers would have doubled on size
I just wear on very rare occasions when it's very necessary. Like really really necessary.

Broomstick said...

Berry and anonymous 14:22, hush! Read and pass. English tutors that saw only those ones. Write your own comment let's see your Queen's English

Anonymous said...

What does ring mean to you? That shld answer your question. Ring or no ring has nothing to do with cheating. Some churches don't join couple with a ring, how about that? My married bf wears his ring 24/7, even when we're doing the do. Ring is insignificant when it comes to matters of the heart.

TheLagosShopper(Goods and services 4rm the popular Lagos markets to anywhere in naija?07030493148) said...

Mine doesn't wear cos my aunt I sent my wedding set who was going to America but stopping by Dubai forgot to buy In Dubai and bought online in America(who does that),my Darlings own cut into 2 3months after wedding and before then my engamnt ring had turned totally black.i had to put back the one he proposed with till I bought another,should have bought in Naija jeje!!!!
Yes my husband doesn't wear,never had a reason to doubt him and I never will by Gods grace.bet I don tell am say I go buy another nice slim one one of this days and he gonna wear!!i hardly leave the house Wihout mine,I'll feel like I forgot a body part at home ni.....lol

Welcome to my World said...

Most of the time they choose not to wear it so as to deceive single girls. That's how one guy was on my case for a year and half.you know those type of relationship you are in that you are not sure you want him as a boyfriend or a casual friend, was always stopping bye at his office on my way home from work, we then hang out at some cool joint to take some bottles before heading home..... Just explaining how we do see everyday for a year and half he tried several time for us to take it to the next level but I was hesitant.... I was not sure he was married. He always had a reason for us not to go to his house, and he earns top salary. I was always asking myself why is not married with all he had achieved...... Until I got lucky after receiving a call he had to dash out of his office,i picked up the phone and snooped..... Lo and behold his wife and son pictures and call log of written my width. Na so I carry my bag comot for him office never to look back

sexy Daddy said...

Nwuye General lekwamu lekwa sexy lol.

sexy Daddy said...

Broomstick my dear,if only speaking English can make my bank account go fat.Don't mind them jarrreh

xxxTrinityxxx said...

Only anons smh nawa for una. You cant use your IDs?

Anonymous said...

Well said

Anonymous said...

Wild Rose...you're very correct, the ring on your finger makes you more attractive

Anonymous said...

My husband doesn't wear his ring and I don't wear mine too, I can't be the only one wearing ring in the marriage abeg. Make both of us dey ringless. Although we lost our ring and we haven't gotten another

Anonymous said...

I used to wear my ring all the time, hubby kept telling me to stop wearing it to work, due to the nature of my job. I work in the lab. Guess what?? I lost it. And it was very expensive. Hubby hardly wear his. I wish I listened but I still have my engagement ring though. Both of us don't wear ring . And we don't care . Are we abnormal?

Xoxo
Gossip girl

Sharon Aminu said...

Lols๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜€
Trinity dear,i don't wear my rings too..
Only on Sundays

The General's Wife said...

You nailed it!๐Ÿ™Œ
It's a sign of your commitment to ur lover and not just an ordinary piece of jewellery.

The General's Wife said...

@ Greatlady,no u aren't old fashioned my dear. It's just who u are. And your preferences. Just the way I am not soo big on hair. I have a couple of Funmi and that's it. All these weave is the In-thing doesn't bother me. I braid al lot and my hair is oh-la-la-so beautiful and long too. So u see me always parking my hair or letting it down๐Ÿ˜

Cyn dearie,Yes u can say that again.
I love rings!๐Ÿ˜
We are changing our Wedding Bands next year when we clock 10 years๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
And boy! I just can't wait! Bn looking at Beautiful Gems ever since he told me๐Ÿ˜‚(18 months now๐Ÿ˜‚)
I just Can't wait for my new upgrade๐Ÿ˜ Any time I remember it,my heart beats in soo much anticipation๐Ÿ˜

The General's Wife said...

No u aren't.
It's just what u are comfy doing.
And as long as u two are ok with it. Then,it's fine.
Even though I wanna beg u to pls wear it๐Ÿ˜‚

And sorry about ur lost ring. I can't imagine how bad u must have felt. The sentimental attachment alone would have made u lose sleep.

The General's Wife said...

๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Anonymous said...

Change the metal.

SWAG LAFRESH said...

Yes. My church don't wed with ring but they bless it for you

Jasmine said...

Deeper life, watchman and chosen dont wear rings

Push up said...

Funny enough I am the one who hardly wear my ring, I can't sleep with any form of jewelry and the next morning I don't remember, my hubby complains mostly when we go to hang out together, but I don't think il be okay with a man who doesn't wear his, reason is that he is a man

Anonymous said...

Who wedding ring help??? So long the man is paying the bills, bringing in money and carrying out his duties as a husband and father to the kids. Who cares if he wears ring or not? I don't know why people bother about such petty and unnecessary things ๐Ÿ˜ฃ. I am a married woman and I wear my ring only because I think it is pretty otherwise I won't wear it.

Sabali said...

My husband hardly wears his and i am not bothered๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚i notice if he is going for a public function he will wear it especially church.Mine got broken and i bought one 5k ring ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚seriously waiting for the one i ordered to come i dont like to be without my ring cause of my job.It shields and gives a little respect.

Anonymous said...

My own never removes his ring and he can toast girls enh. He will just be flashing it up and down

Anonymous said...

Who wedding ring help??? So long the man is paying the bills, bringing in money and carrying out his duties as a husband and father to the kids. Who cares if he wears ring or not? I don't know why people bother about such petty and unnecessary things ๐Ÿ˜ฃ. I am a married woman and I wear my ring only because I think it is pretty otherwise I won't wear it.

Omalichanwa said...

D way u people talk abt "IDs" on dis blog like its a biggie!We are all anonymous here Id or not except for people dat choose to use their real names I mean first name and surname and their real picture.abeg enuf of all dz "ID" bullshit on a faceless blog!urghhhhhh

ziiij said...

Both of don't wear the ring. I don't know where mine is.

ziiij said...

Both of don't wear the ring. I don't know where mine is.

chigirl said...

Amen God will perfect it for u

chigirl said...

U nailed it God bless u

chigirl said...

Once ur church weds u with ring,why not wear it, I wear mine everyday and hubby does but not always

Anonymous said...

My husband ought two engagement rings, one for me and one for himself.He started wearing his right before we got married. He's the one that reminds me all the time to wear ring sef.

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