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Friday, 11 August 2017

When The Flower Drops....

Come in here please..Men especially!!




This is my story to tell....same ISH happened to me many many years ago.....After all the pain to go in,he finished and was looking for blood..lol
He didnt say i lied though but he had this look and he never stopped asking until someone told him the hymen can break without penetration...lol

Some men ...and women,really need to be schooled on this because i can imagine how many women have had their hearts broken and marriages scattered on first night when there was no red show.....

I even hear some smart babes ''cut'' themselves after interrupting and pretending they needed to use the toilet..lol
You...how far?

102 comments:

Nki said...

Thank God mine was the opposite. Hobo didn't believe I was a virgin so the show of blood sealed his mouth 🀐🀐
Imagine what it would have been like if I hadn't bled!πŸ˜“

Anonymous said...

Same issue I had with my gf. Up till today I don't believe she was a virgin when we met....

SUGAR. said...

I'm still a virgin... I'll read comments.

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Anonymous said...

Na wah oo.
Hymen can break without any blood, yes. Especially for kids/girls/ladies who are very active in sports.

Lipstickalley said...

A period in my life I refuse to reminisce about.

Reminds !me of that MJ's song blood on the dance floor.πŸ˜€πŸ˜€

Anonymous said...

Have to go anon. I had the same issue. The stupid guy deflowered me and said i lied because there was no blood. It was really tight and it felt like he was drilling me. But the mere fact that he did not see blood made him not believe.I felt crushed. I felt he was very naive,ignorant and immature for his age. The relationship did not last and i never felt any attachment to him as my first. I moved on really quickly.
I remember i had a friend whose hymen broke when we were really young. We were playing and she crossed a wide gutter and boom! For me, I used to dance...to splits and all the likes. I just know that the hymen could break in some other way

charitybino said...

I will read comments

Anonymous said...

Wawuu... finally someone is talking about this. This was my experience. Though my husband didn't voice his disappointment somehow am sure he still feels I lied to him about being a virgin. I saw something he wrote in his diary after our wedding night. It's heart breaking buh i don't feel I need to explain myself to him. If he feels I lied because there was no blood stain and that I faked the pain that night. Issorait. I dont have strength. God knows everything. I will just sit and wait for comments. Hopefully some others have had similar experience

DoppelgΓ€nger said...

Do they want to use the blood to cook soup? I don't see the big deal there because this is like expecting women to be chaste while men can poke their penis anywhere. Pressure is on women to keep their virginity till wedding night but not on men, how do we certify that a man is a Virgin if he claims he is?
Anyway, no be this one dem ask me. A woman's worth is not in her vagina, the hymen can even get broken from riding a horse.

Miss Ess said...

My own case there was everything all. Hard penetration, pains, drops of blood and stains on the bed. I also saw patches of skin when I was cleaning up.

Quiksilver said...

Mtchew

Adadioramma said...

Reading comment mood activated.

Warith... said...

I typed an authe gist and the thing dissappeared while trying to post.

Ghanaman said...

Has neva & will neva be a deciding factor for me!

Who even wan pour blood sef? To stain which person bedsheets?

*ghanaman signing out*

Oma maranma said...

My own question please stella, is what type of exercise breaks the hymen(heard it does) and also, while dancing.. i mean being a. professional dancer that comes with the training and rehearsals also, will it cause your hymen to break too?

Quin said...

I didnt bleed d day i was disvirgined but d guy saw blood in his tissue wen he was cleaning his d**k

Warith... said...

Anyway make I summarise the gist,I knew of a playboy that got married to a virgin(he made it known that he would only get married to a virgin),the said virgin gave birth exactly four months after he deflowered her.Lol...

AppleofGodseyeoriginal said...

Lol,mine didn't bring your blood too.

Pastor's Daughter said...

Men keep talking about womens virginity as if they themselves are virgins.










Taking about virginity, i disvirgined a guy wen i was in my final year. Choi i can never forget the experience. That na story for another day sha.

Anonymous said...

Don't get the hype about being a Virgin...Only in Africa...Im Not a Virgin, and I will tell any man any day...

Anonymous said...

Did my wife put u up to this? Introduced to this blog y'day and today I see this.... interesting

sexy Daddy said...

Stella this your post reminds me of my former DepperLife girl friend during those days at the university. This girl dribbled soteyyyyy from 1st year till my finalsπŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€ claiming Virginia and virgin Mary.
She does not wear makeup,no trouser, no earing even ordinary powder. Just teem natural but very pretty.

Upon that I still kept my cool and was still pushing to chop my fresh kpomo!Then one day she called me whether I dey my lodge that morning,and I said yes!na so the babe enter begin kiss me as a sharp nigga I responded immediately!

To cut the whole issh short I final entered Stella na inside 20 fit of pit I falled inside ooo lol no be small thing. Thats means the babe don dey fuck since but still dey claim teem virginπŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€Na so babe begin cry sey I don chop wetin I dey hustle since by disvirgining her,i used vase give her one bad eyes.hahaha.mteww I ask how come that place is open like school gate? her response was epic.
Let me come and be going........Woman and Virginia lies eeeh.

oguike akudo said...

Lol...bros it could be a coincidence.

Blackberry said...

Happens to some women.
Sports...
Victims of Sexual abuse as a toddler which no one found or knew about.
Born without a hymen.

Beloved said...

Thank you πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

BLOGBRITY said...

I wish I can share my story, till my wedding night anyway

Paul Okah said...

Lol! People and virginity sha. I didn't even know I was the first person to make love to her until my ex girlfriend told me ten years later when I called from the blues. Truly, she was a nice girl but our relationship ended with her relocating to another state. She can never forget me in her life (she told me so) because I helped in paying for her O'level exams when her family turned their back on her. It's all fond memories now, but there's no law that says we must marry our first love...

Anonymous said...

*do splits

Anonymous said...

Rhoda? 😝

Atheist ™ said...

busy day at office, but lemme be brief...
When ure good & know the right angles to dissect there'd be no drop of blood, no matter the size ure packing, only naive guys wld assume ure not a V, or fall for a babe that pretends to be a V, claiming u deflowered her.

Atheist ™ said...
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Russian roulette said...

Don't have this experience yet. Will tell you when I get married.

Iphie dearie said...

Seriously though. I don't think realistically a relatisohip with love and trust should have this coming up as an issue.
This is not to encourage people that lie about their sexual history. If you have had sex... You have.
If you haven't been penetrated,you haven't. Can't we all trust one another?πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

The Hymen can be ruptured from a lot of vigorous exercises and activities,Maybe if a man so bothered about the blood can take out time to study about it,we won't be having this conversation.

If you have sex without bleeding as a first timer and a man hassles you for that, Say.........





Sorry,Aint Sorry😁

Madame koinkoin a.k.a 'peace lover" said...

Mine was everything, I experienced all , from pain to so many including blood as in better one but calm not like seeing your period.

Anonymous said...

Same here all through the week that followed, I was spotting blood and serious leg and thigh pains.

anonymous gangster said...

Silence doesn't dispel doubts my dear, reasoning does. For this and other issues you guys may have, please talk to him. Not solely so he'll believe, but so he knows you care how he feels and how he views you. Please!

Ed said...

I wonder oπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

ola wealth said...

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Oga na coincidence ooo ooo.

I'm sure its not your wife jare😝😝😝

anonymous gangster said...

Not pleasant. Loved her silly but personalities were miles apart.

She bled first day and every other day for each time we did it! Scared the crap out of me. She said she didn't enjoy it but kept asking for more!

Lovely J, I miss you very much!

Quin said...

??? Please explain

Iphie dearie said...

Hhehehehe
Oga read all comments well well😁😁😁

Iphie dearie said...

Ghana man of life... Congrats on your Little cutie.

And your opinion makes Madt sense!πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘

SDK's FIRST DAUGHTER (GIFT E) said...

Yes.horse/bicycle riding can cause the hymen to break.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

What about women that had blood flowing twice?
Something similar happened to me.

SDK's FIRST DAUGHTER (GIFT E) said...
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Anonymous said...

The way some men carry hymen matter for their head, nor be here. All I will say is, it ain't that serious. And before one mofo will come and say Ayam discrediting fagins, no. All I am saying is seeing blood or not is not what is important. People take it to be so important and that has turned so many people into liars to form fagins with blood. Atheist are you really that good? *Licks lips* πŸ’‹

Anonymous said...

Na the wowor upandan guys dey carry this fagin thing for head most times.

Nki said...

😳😳😳😳
Wonderful! Guyman was duped!😝😝😝

That Uptown Girl said...

The guy that took away my virginity still denies it to date. There was a drop of blood and it was after a couple of tries that he eventually broke the hymen. Before then, he would just be fooling himself between my thighs. The day he finally found his way into my vagina, there was a little blood, it feel on my white panties which I lay on ( you know how we toss our clothes here and there). I didn't show him, I didn't tell him. He already doubted me once. I don't know that I took any man's virginity, no man deserves to know he took mine. I was stuck up on that stupid boy for so long and the sex wasn't even good. After we broke up and I had a better and bigger dick, I will still go back to him and still have the sex that I didn't even enjoy with him. I still don't know what is was with him, I was no longer in love with him, he wasn't excellent sexually, still I kept going back.
The day I said no to him was liberating, I wanted to sleep with him so badly,i was dripping wet and still said no. I patted myself on the back and I knew I was free.

I cheated on anybody I dated after him with him. The year I decided to go celibate, three months down the line he came again with his microscopic dick, even if I couldn't say no to him because of another man, I definitely said no to him because of ME. Five full years later, it was like loosing the damn thing again to my husband.

Anonymous said...

It can. But that doesn't mean it will. Free ya self and do you. A man that will love and cherish you won't let that be dependent on shed blood.

Nki said...

*Bobo

Nki said...

Atheist are also an Anatomist? This your submission na ogbonge o!

Anonymous said...

Mumu atheist, this is not about skill. Some ladies have hymen with loose ligaments and may not bleed but those with tight hymen MUST bleed whether you are skilled or not.

Anonymous said...

I don't blame you. You see women as kpomo nau.

Anonymous said...

Hmmmm flash back on my life!!he accused me of lying and me on the other hand was confused becos I thought blood suppose to come out!lol!(chai!ignorant me)instead of him pampering me,i was the one begging and doing all I could do to convinced him,while I was still begging I felt something dripping under and I noticed it was blood!excitedly I showed it to him,this guy open mouth talk say I don go injure my self,i said for what naaaaa,that was when I knew that my low self esteem don enta danger zone!next day I left and never went back,he started calling me,begging and I was like dude why did you do that,he said"it was shocking for him to know I was a virgin,that he never expected that,say what!!anyways,I told him i've moved on and as for my heart,i don padlock am and gave the key to christ!!i kindly thanked him for given me an experience that made me a stronger being,is being 7yrs nw single and free,wow!life without Christ is crisis!!

Anonymous said...

Cross gutter and hymen breaks??? Nne she lied to you o. Was the gutter the width of an ocean? Abegi. Hymen is inside and not on the laps

DON™ said...

Abeg I hate seeing blood.

Anonymous said...

Lemme go anon
Same thing happened to me last year June (a virgin at 29yrs) when I was disflowered by my ex fiance the night after our introduction.
He started asking me where is the blood even with all the difficulty he encountered before penetration .Took him Almost three hours before he could penetrate me, when he finally did see me crying and shouting. I didn't enjoy it one bit. He finally penetrated very well when he came to my base to visit me and we had sex for the second time. When I went to visit him for the third time,the idiot was still doubting if I was actually a V when we met. I just dumped his stinking a**. I will not bcos of marriage and swallow bull sh**t. If you can't trust and believe what I told you in relationship, tell me how you're going to believe me in marriage.
Am team mermaid now.
No more sex till marriage
I've asked God for forgiveness
Sex is overrated
It's doesn't worth it
Every single lady should close their legs until their wedding nights . To avoid stories like mine. Engagement and relationship is not marriage.
God hates the sins of formication bcos its done against your own body.




Anonymous said...

Yimu. Seems you lost it to maiguard.. Lol

Intelligentsia princess said...

Lip sealed..

Warith... said...

@Quin,He saw the pretty lady,made his intentions known to her and along the line asked if she was a virgin cos he wouldn't marry a non virgin.The desperate babe said yes she was,meanwhile she was some months gone(with belle).Torr bobo said make them start preparations na,babe quickly went to her mother,confided in her and begged the mother to cover her shame,abortion was a No.Mother took her to correct Boka(jinquiz)that specialises in beta kayan mata and The Boka guy stopped the belle from showing,na so them marry when she was five months along.The babe was a confirmed virgin that took the guy three days before he could have access.The guy boast am round town eh.Four months later,babe born pikin.

lizyyaminu said...

D person dat took away me virginty didn't evn belive me coz dat day he forced himself on me I felt like I was dying dat day I regret ever knwing him later got to dat he is chronic womaniser ooo wish I gave it to my hubby lolzzz

CHI EXOTIC said...

Hehehehhehehe so you cherish your bedsheets reach that level?
Congratulations on being a dad GM.

CHI EXOTIC said...

So you're a GUY?
I legit thought you were a girl.
Now I know.

CHI EXOTIC said...

Lol,with that I can easily claim virgin all over again.

Mrs shantelle said...

me there was blood o. After the deed I just lay there wondering if I did the right thing. The guilt set in. He just grabbed me and said that was really amazing I loved it I know you didn't cos it's your first time,next thing I just started crying,i just couldn't come to terms with what I just did,but loved him soo much.8months my beloved max died in a car crash with his big brother,i cried I couldn't eat.i cried my life out.it took me two years to date again.now am married but I always think of him. If he were alive I wouldn't have married anyone else but him.
My darling max. I pray you rest in a perfect place.

Anonymous said...

Dont mean to sound harsh but I can believe that no one that has commented so far wrote about the fact that the older you get as a virgin, the less your chance of bleeding. Lost mine at 23, no blood.

The Lifted said...

I didn't do any exercise,lost virginity tru fingering by a fine dude I had a huge crush on,& there was no blood.
Dude finally did not enter the place b4 we broke up.
I didn't tell the first guy I slept with abt my fingering experience so he just assumed I had done it a lot. It was war for him to penetrate ,wen he finally did there was no blood,he asked why I didn't tell him I was still a virgin, I just laffed & said I wanted to surprise u. Till now I still feel certain connection with this guy.
The first fine dude later wanted to hook up to do wat he didn't do years back, but the connection wasn't there on my part,so I just told him off.

Anonymous said...

This was my experience..after all the pains of penetration blood was no where in sight,my V was on fire..couldn't Pee well for days..didnt care less what he felt. .thank God I wasn't that much in love just had to give in to pressure.. Up till today I still wonder whatever went wrong. But then life goes on..

Anonymous said...

14:49 I think you took the right decision.

Anonymous said...

Hehehehehe, player got played. πŸ‘

Anonymous said...

Good for you. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
Me be doing a lot of clapping today.

Anonymous said...

Good for you. πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
Keep it up!

Anonymous said...

Lmao! So you won't be there when your wife is giving birth? Maybe it is better you stay away so you don't faint.

Anonymous said...

Hope you know you are not anony? Anywayz nothing does you. Lol

Anonymous said...

Hoping hubby sees this not...

Fab Mum said...

This your comment made me remember an experience. I'm too busy now, I would have typed it. Hahahahahaha hahahahahaha πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜

Fuck you said...

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Fab Mum said...

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Anonymous said...

Anon 14:38 i was there. She didn't tell me. Then we were too young to understand what happened. But she was carried to their flat and was bleeding there. We were playing serious rough play and it backfired. It was later we understood what had happened

Anonymous said...

Active sport doesn't dry up the blood. Active sport COULD only tear the hymen at which time the girl/lady will see blood and may not see blood at penetration.

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a 'Anike' πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ said...

Am i the only one whose having that irriatting feeling from the comments on this post? I feel very 'wormy' inside. I didnt get past the first 20 comments. Like trypophobia...

Anonymous said...

Lie. At 40, blood will spill

DON™ said...

Annon. I doubt if I will be there o. I will surely come up with excuse and show up later when baby's out.. Lol

DON™ said...

Yimu.. 🚢

Iphie dearie said...

Wait. And you've been calling me 'Iphie cute bum bum'πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Oh my days!
Come to think of it,I actually didn't give you a sex in my head. Hmmmmm

Adanne said...

It's not about skill @atheist.

Adanne said...

Who V epp? They go still cheat with another V.

Anonymous said...

Hubby says I deflowered him...(is it the same thing for men as well?) I don't even know

Ghanaman said...

Thanks y'all!

Baby Carlos sends his regards!

Anonymous said...

Blood! Blood!! Rivers of Blood!!! Lol

Every tight pussy is a virgin pussy! Hehehe. Abi I lie?😊

Anonymous said...

Mine was d opposite o, it took 3 days to completely enter me. 1st day was too painful we stopped half way,same with 2nd. it was on d 3rd day he completely entered. after feeling like someone was using saw to tear me,
Next thing baba said he didn't believe i was a virgin, even with the plenty blood, that these days girls use tighten creaan to deceive guys.
I just told him how he just hurt me and got up to leave then he apologised. I really don't care if he still feels like that, na him sabi

Anonymous said...

Na true u talk

Anonymous said...

I think my ex wanted to use it and cook soup o, gosh I bled and was in serious pain but obviously he wanted a pool of blood, kept saying the other girl his guy disvirgined tissue finished when dey were cleaning blood, that broke my heart even more. Funny thing we now call ourselves bro and sis

Anonymous said...

Same here, saw all of these and even bled a second time but the Bobo said the blood was too small to be virginity blood

Anonymous said...

After keeping the thing till wedding night,waiting to see the blood 'MBA' nothing nothing, just that the place was tight like where them seal, for weeks seff, couldn't enjoy sex cos of pain, but no blood...and oga even doubt me Seff. I had to ask my doc and even used google before I could get answers. thank you stella for this post.

Anonymous said...

My stupid first boyfriend didn't believe either. The goat even laughed. How I hate him.

Anonymous said...

Bahahahah it's a miracle baby

Anonymous said...

My husband hates blood but he was there in the delivery room. He almost passed out though

Bouncer said...

Congratulations ugly man. Hehehe

Ponyweed said...

You are so childish boy. Fuck you fool!

Anwuli Uzu said...

Hmmm,I am coming

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