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Thursday, 19 October 2017

Thursday In House News...

I like it short like In house News *wink*

This week is really fast..ah ah Thursday now now?
Anyway,Hope your day is going well?Mine is!
Can I preach for one second before you scroll?

No one is perfect...
The road is not easy...No one said it would be
but if you choose love,it makes more sense and is lighter....
Kisses to all those I have annoyed or gotten on their nerves lately....






ADEOLA COVERS IN HOUSE NEWS WITH SEPE SEPE FIGURE 8

Baddest blogger of our time,
Olori Orente feels like gracing ihn .
Much love to SDK FAM, I love y'all.

We (I) love you more!!



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BREASTFEEDING GONE WRONG

Hello Stella,

I think I have become a regular email sender since your blog is one of the few very interactive ones hence our addiction. Lol

I read two contradictory posts on instagram recently and I thought it very interesting and something women and mothers need to come out and discuss because it sounded to me like people were pretending. Like make e no be say na me dey do bad thing.

First post: a woman said she gets turned on and masturbates while breastfeeding her baby. People cuss her ehn! But truth is that’s not the first time I will hear that breastfeeding turns some women on. And according to google no be lie o! People sha yabbed her well well.

Second post: a woman said breastfeeding a baby is wrong and it’s like performing a sexual act with an infant. She said women should express in a bottle and nurse their baby from the bottle. In short na this woman people cuss pass.

My question is this: If a woman feels turned on when she breastfeeds shouldn’t she take the second woman’s advice and express in a bottle instead of having sexual feelings at the most inappropriate time?

As my yoruba people say “no fight for church”. Shikena! My two cents

Always,

Miss Lola


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BLOG VISITOR IFEOMA WISHES BIG BROTHER HAPPY BIRTHDAY








I can't keep calm cos is my brothers birthday!


I feel proud when I call you my brother. You are my strength that always help me to fight against all odds of my life. 



I saw the walls of the university was as a result of your hard work. I didn't really know our father very well cos we lost him when I was just 5 and my brother single handedly took care of us and made me what I am today.


 You may not be real angel but you are definitely my very own guardian angel. 
You've been watching my back all my life. You took all my excesses without complain and I'm so thankful for that. Being an older brother is a huge responsibility and today I want to let you know that I appreciate everything that you have done for me. 


On the special day of your life, I pray that you get all your heart's desire. May everyday of your life be blessed with rays of hope, joy, love and sunshine. May God Almighty bless you with good luck, happiness, good health and success in every walk of your life amen! I will always chose you as my brother because I love you more than anything.


Its time to pop champagne, make some noise, dish out some food, throw some confetti and burst some balloons.
Feliz cumpleaรฑos mi dulce hermano!
#Blood #IchieGoldenBreeze #GodBlessOurMama #GratefulHeart
#BlessingFallOnYou
#MoneyFollowYou
Love from your kid sis ifeoma!






Happy Birthday to Ifeomas big bro..Thank you for impacting her life with positivity and love!

Bros send shoki nauuuuuuuuu!!!...As a BV that you is....


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JOB VACANCIES AT CVIT AND PARTNERS

Hello Stella,

      Thanks for all you do. My friend's company is recruiting and I thought it will be good to share these vacancies with bv's that are still trusting God for a job. 


"Numerous graduate positions are available at CVIT and Partners. It is required that suitable candidates have some knowledge and skills in I.T and computers. If you fit into this category, visit our office at Genesys place - 30 Oba Akran Avenue Ikeja, Lagos or send your CV to christy.adegoke@cvitnigeria.com, on or before October 30, 2017."




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THE MILLION NAIRA QUESTION


Hello Stella.
I am writing in this chronicle after reading the one of yesterday because I can so relate.
Why do certain things happen??Is it that God doesn't see?

Can't he see that I can not take it anymore?


When I found out I was pregnant soon after I had my first child,i was happy because I wanted to have just two and get a job and make something meaningful for myself. I had been a stay at home for some months and I had it figured out that I wasn't cut out for it. The requesting for money and explaining how it got finished so soon always made me sick.


So fast forward to day of delivery,painful and swift.Bam!!!the cutest baby boy ever showed up. Imagine my shock when I found out he had spina bifida??? Then the long journey of hospital visits and surgerys began.Afta 3 surgerys,he is doing OK now but he is numb from waist down. I have to stay home to take care of him.


I keep asking myself,when he gets to school age what will I do? Am I going to be his teacher? Or he won't have an education?


Am a realist and not the type that will tell a person that there is ability in disability and all those inspirational quotes stuff.I do not know how to do it.
I can't work and you know how important it is for a married woman in Nigeria to have some fork you money when hubby is acting up?


Can God not see that his blessing is causing us so much sorrow and pain?
Some 1 said I should sell stuffs in front of my house?I can't sell a pen to save my life,am not business oriented.i trained in the medical field and I do not think I can do anything else?


So,why do God allow bad thins to happen to innocent babys?
This is the story of my life.




Are there no special homes to take care of babies like this?I am just so broken yb your story...dont give up on God.....he knows why he lets certain things happen.




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STILL UP FOR GRABS....






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CALABAR CARNIVAL 2017


I am interested in attending this year's Calabar Carnival 2017. Please I need info from anyone that have attended any of the past carnival or plans to attend that can help me with info on the following;

1. Hotels that are close to the venue(not expensive hotels biko between 5-8k)
2. It runs from the 1st - 31st December (Please any idea when they do the costume or is it road carnival) that is the one I want to attend and how many days it runs for
3. The more the merrier would not be bad to make decent level headed new friends so if you are going to attend would be nice to meet you.


Anyone that has info can send me an email on proudlydeltan15@gmail.com.






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195 comments:

Adadioramma said...

Hello people, una weldone o.
Happy Diwali to my fellow Indians.
Hailings to:
Nwunye G…Oke mmonwu na eti onwe ya
Em jay Nwa Mary
Chike be anyi…Agujiegbe 1 of SDK blog
SD…Nwoke manariri nwanyi na mma
Amanda nwa mama
Iphie dearie…Epitome of beauty
BlogLord…Asa na eje uka 10
Chikito…Lolo anyi
Queen and Boss…Otara Nkata ose anwu mmili
Lady Bug…Nwa na abugghali na blog
Beloved darling…Ome kam si eme
More hailing on the way

same girl said...

I'm a baby girl for laive.... I Rule... I Possess.... I Exceed... I Dominate..... ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ’ƒ


Hello Everyone ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ Hey Nadine ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Miss Kay said...

First!!!!!!

ejike capable said...

Wow

Joblesshousewife said...

In House Thursday News….Welcome!

Happy Birthday to Sandy Yo! And all those celebrating their birthday in this month of October Happy birthday to you all.

May you all experience divine anointing from the throne of grace in unexplainable ways.

I decree that the anointing of long live, peace, greatness, excellent, riches and to serve God fall upon you all.

May you all have reasons to celebrate in all ramifications of your lives.

Go and prosper!!!!


Love from Jobby
*tearbra**tearpant*

Em jay said...

๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Elastic said...

Happy Birthday Sandy Yo!
You are one courageous lady on this blog and I so much admire that about you. Something tells me you are far too kind in real life and I pray God will grant every of your heart desires plus jara.

God bless your new age and make you a fountain of success as you celebrate today. Enjoy dear and remember it will surely end in praise. Que sera sera!

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That moment when someone inbox you

"Please can you do me a favour?"

And instantly you start feeling pain all over your body thinking it is all about money. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜



DontQuoteMe™

Lady Bug said...

Adeooooooolaaaaaaaaa!!!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmm๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜Ž

EsE EsSAy said...

*TRUE LIFE STORY*

A group of armed robbers came into a house,met a woman and her three kids. The eldest was 22years old female.
They asked her about her husband which she replied that he traveled and wasn't around.
They gave her an option of either killing her or sleeping with her eldest daughter. She screamed 'abomination' and a slap landed on her face from one of the robbers. Her cries attracted the leader of the gang who was seated on one of the chairs. He looked closely to her eyes,remove his mask and asked her if she knew him and she replied 'No'.
And he said(The leader); ''35years ago,I was almost sent out of school cos I wasn't with a pencil,you knew me not but bought out money from your purse and got me a pencil. You saved me from being sent home and even though I grew up to be a bad boy,I'm saving your life"
And the robbers left without carrying out their initial plan just because of how the woman was good to him in the past.

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Olori you are beautiful in-house is here
Happy birthday to ifeoma's bro

Kay Bee said...

Keep trying ma. We see you๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”

CEO Empress said...

IHN IS here.... Voila

It's well with my soul, body and all that concerns me

FluffyCake 07056157039 said...

Thinking about how bad our past was has nothing to do with what we are right now..
It is already gone making us stronger so now onwards we have to see what we can do for ourselves productive in future cause worrying about past won't change anything.. instead it will take away this moment's happiness as well..
Stay up, set clothes, set dream again, work on that, achieve them and just show the world.. show yourself that what you're capable of..

- Girach Uvais

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Good day beautiful people......parents in the house I've got one question for u please.


How true is the fact that boys learn slower than girls?
I ask because things my girl did absolutely well in when she was same age as my boy, seems very difficult for him. Even when it's still the same environment and facilities(with some improvements tho).

He looks for excuses why he can't/won't do it.

Do I need to be worried? Or my mum and aunts were right when they said "female children learn faster than male?

Olori Orente said...

Sepe sepe figure 8
Good afternoon lovelies

Love y'all

Graced Momma said...

Hello from this side ๐Ÿ™‹

Kay Bee said...

Ngwanu hail me too now. Anyway. Abeg oh. Wetin person go use push belle go back inside. No one should tell me waist trainer o. That shii can kill๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‰

sexy Daddy said...

Meeh today's sun no be here ooo.But man must hustle.

On the judgement day,I think I will stand with Nigerian flag to show God that I have been to hell already. Lol

Olori Weldon, you is a foin woman..

Have a blessed day all!

St.FranKooL.... said...

#That awkward moment when someone you barely even know ends up in your dream ๐Ÿ˜ณ

Miss Kay said...

Smh I need tutorials

Miss Ess said...

Welcome IHN

Adadioramma said...

Happy birthday to Ifeoma's big bros.
Olori is so pretty.
The breast feeding post sha...some women carry sugar for body sha.

Blackberry said...

One n half plot of land near omagwa airport for 1.3m......Hmmmm, I would run. Just like someone selling a plot near peter odili for 4million,hahahaha , big fraud.

Graced Momma said...

Tah! What is smelling? Did u fart? Yinmu ๐Ÿ˜Ž๐Ÿ˜

LOLO IDEATO said...

Lemme waka pass

Lady Bug said...

Na me go remind Una๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜Ž

amanda favour said...

Chei!!!!
I've been baking since morning
*wipes sweat off my forehead*
I just came to deliver the cakes I baked for sandy baibe...LMAO ๐Ÿ˜
๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚๐ŸŽ‚

Lady Bug said...

Congratulations ๐Ÿ˜Ž

LOLO IDEATO said...

Happy birthday my blogboo from day 1! Lolo loves u

Queen Lizzy said...

Adeola looks so cute like that, na real Olori you be.
Happy Birthday Sandy Yo! May your new age bring forth good tidings IJN... Sign out meme ✊๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

Lady Bug said...

Elastic is a boy!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜Ž

Lady Bug said...

My Bee to the 10 ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Queen Lizzy said...

Same girl issa baby girl... Kisses to your mum dear

Lady Bug said...

Don't be worried at all,I don't know if it's a myth,I also heard that plus girls grow faster than boys๐Ÿ˜Ž

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Happy birthday to your brother Ifeoma

@ Breastfeeding gone wrong.
Both cases mentioned up there are wrong on so many levels.
A woman should never get turned on while breastfeeding. It's scary maka incest
The other case? Whoever wrote that has skoi skoi. Is she alright?
..............

Who else was caught in the crazy frenzy of the u.s based model - Symba who caused commotion with her almost nude-(bikini) photo shoot on v.i yesterday? The arse mehnn....
Women will slap shege out of their husband's faces if caught spellbound๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

But that was practically wrong mehnn...
On a major road? Naked? Holding peeps in traffic???
So like I have a major appointment, I'd have to wait cos a naked woman is taking pictures????
Nigeria๐Ÿ™Œ

The General's Wife said...

Ada Ada!
Ada Ada hersel!
Omalicha.com
Anya fulu ugo 1!
Elegant umu agbala!
Stainless original
Nwanyi ka ibe ya!
Oji efi herself!
Nwanne m onye Oga adili nma
Onye Na amoro gi melu onwe ya!

Ada ibe m!
Ada eji eje Mba!
Nne idigodi well packaged
Nne idigodi Mbadamba together!๐Ÿ‘Œ
Nne idigodi wuuuuuuuu....๐Ÿ˜˜
Ajebo Nwa!๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

amanda favour said...

Love you too ๐Ÿ˜Š olori
Kisses ๐Ÿ’‹

Lady Bug said...

Your figure 8 na elele ๐Ÿ˜Ž

Lady Bug said...

Which side actually?๐Ÿ˜Ž

Roadside?๐Ÿ˜Ž

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Roll call?
Lady bug is coming for you.๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Ada beke, kedu?๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹

becky naka said...

The bv that is experiencing fast. Heart beat and sleepless night, find out what's making you anxious, try to relax your mind, do exercises, eat well,you Can take sleeping pills for now and also pray about it. That's how I overcame mine.

Lady Bug said...

No need to raise flag,even from your face,God will surely know ๐Ÿ˜Ž

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

๐Ÿ™‹Hello from this other side

Lady Bug said...

Just like I appear in people's dream๐Ÿ˜Ž

Oma maranma said...

Hello IHN

Happy Birthday to you Sandy yo... i do admire your blog personality. many more years to you. Dear. Have fun

And incase you guys didn't see it. Anonymous and Sweet Mother, about the Adesua Etomi spending post. I have a book that will help you guys.. its easy to read (incase you ain't a fan of reading) its like a novel tho but it still passes the messages of spending, saving, and investing too. Students will love it as well as working ladies... or even housewives too. Just click on my ID, and email me for it. It's called 'The smart money woman'... you'll love it

JOSTIFIED MOM said...

Today is my big brother's birthday & I want you all to pray for him that God will continue to bless & keep him safe for us. He's having a small house party so I thought to share with you my SDK family some of the goodies.๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿน๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿท๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฌ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿฐ๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—๐Ÿ—. Abeg make una manage this one.

Happy birthday Sandy Nekky, may God bless your new age.

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Beautiful woman I sight u๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Kay Bee said...

Happy birthday sandy

Cookie said...

Happy Birthday Sandy darling..... My bold lady, I don't know why people misjudge others but the little i know about you is that you're so courageous and extremely Kind, I may not Hail you often but just know that you're special....

I wish you the very best Honey, lines will fall in pleasant places for you and you'll excel more than your expectations!!!! Hip! Hip!!


Miss you too Swaggie, but I'll wound you!!!

Lizzy berry aka Mrs Atheist™ said...

Hi ๐Ÿ‘‹ from us here๐Ÿ˜˜

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

I heard same too and experienced/ing a bit of it.
Some things my girls did at a certain age, my son took longer.

But kids are different though...
Don't be worried.๐Ÿ˜—

Olori Orente said...

Lady Bug
Kiloshele gangan
Lol

Olori Orente said...

Thanks dear sister

same girl said...

LEmme go and learn ibo... This is too much ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Yori Yori Princess Loveme Jeje said...

My battery is low.

Good afternoon my beautiful people. Olori is OK. Enjoy your work jare.

Happy Birthday Emekukus. Enjoy God's abundance Amen.

Sandy Yo Yo happy Birthday again ooo. Do enough Shakara. Dem say you be 41 na God do am for you. Just know they will never get to that age Amen. Abeg do plenty noise on this your birthday. Close very early today in short no go work tomorrow self, na you get this week.

Will be eating okro soup very soon. Good to rest small.

Love you all and be happy everyone

sexy Daddy said...

Ada ugom
Ada bekee
Nwanyi Mara obi diya
Omuma asa ahu!
Daalu nwa OMA!

same girl said...

Thanks Queen... She will receive it... Love ya darling ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

becky naka said...

As a Josephine that I is, I dream a lot about people I have no biz with on a daily basis.

Anonymous said...

That spina bifida question:

Please, lady, in as much as you are in pains and I empathize with you.
Do not malign the word of God;
The blessings of God makes rich and adds no sorrow (Proverbs 10:22)
The sorrows of them will multiply that seek after other Gods (Psalm 16:4)
Jesus also said that a man was "born blind" so that the glory of the Lord will be made manifest in him (John 9)

What to do in this kind of situation is to humble oneself before God in fasting and praying and studying his word
to find out the reason for what happened and the wisdom to deal with it and prevent a recurrence etc.

Perxian said...

It's a known fact that girls mature faster than boys and their brains develop 10x earlier than boys..as a result, they learn easily and tend to do better in school but you do not need worry.. boys are known to catch up and even overtake girls when the time is right. So yeah, your momma is right.

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
Haven't even heard the request, already peeing in your pants.
you will just die before your time.๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Elastic ma guy! Ha fa?

Olori Orente said...

Thanks sexy daddy

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Please send mine to that side๐Ÿ˜‚

Olori Orente said...

Thanks momma

Perxian said...

Hey Lovelies.. I agree with the breastfeeding post up there. If you are sexually stimulated when breastfeeding then don't breastfeed at all. It's just weird! Lol

Anonymous said...

Spina bifida questions contd.

And when you talk about "seeking after other gods"
do not forget that fornication, adultery, abortions etc are inclusive (see Colossians 3:5)
The secret things belong to the Lord our God, the revealed things belong to us . . . (Deut. 29:29)

Olori Orente said...

Thanks darling lizzy

Lizzy berry aka Mrs Atheist™ said...

Shes heavily loaded.. Nyc bod, some men stopped driving all through๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Anonymous said...

Lady bug what happun to your choi choi × 2 id na?gwegz mama youngie

The General's Wife said...

Amen!

But you dey dull these days o. Ada Ada beat u today to ur first position .

amanda favour said...

Hahahaha ๐Ÿ˜
Nwunye G have finished work oh..LMAO ๐Ÿ˜
Whenever I read this your praises,I imagine you as all this ndi otimkpu igwe Na ndi Akajiaku with their flute and all hailing their masters..LMAO ๐Ÿ˜
You're good in this

Good afternoon Ada Ada
How is our blog baby doing?
Kiss ๐Ÿ’‹ her for me

Shirley said...

Copied ###

I love this article, pls read it diligently.

*MARRIAGE 101*

MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize be ready to drag it along through out life, and when you wear under-size be ready to feel the pains through out life." One thing about marriage is that you don't drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is.

That is why I thought it necessary to write you this letter.

Dear Singles,
When you are ready to buy your own shoe please take note of these three things:

1. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE : Do not look for the beautiful ones, the nice ones or the cheap ones. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every beautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values and belief, the one who you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life before you think of getting a wife.

2. POSITION: All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place.
There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport footwear, snickers etc. We have Children sizes, young people's sizes and the adult sizes. Know where to get your own shoe. Your size cannot be everywhere my brother, your type cannot be everywhere my sister. You cannot be a Christian, and be looking for a wife material at a club. Your wife or husband can't just be everywhere.

Stick to your values and therein you shall find someone like you, but when your values are not defined anyone can just match you. Discover yourself and define your values

3. PERCEPTIONS: In this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, you are not permitted to try the shoe before you buy. This is why it is important to seek guidance and counseling, from people who have bought shoes before or are into the business of directing people to the right shoes (pastors, marriage counsellors and Relationship coaches).
And most importantly to avoid much time wasting time, simply consult the shoe manufacturer to tell you your size (Almighty God).

"You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare for marriage."

Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend wedding and they will quickly want to say yes to that guy. Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. The wedding is just one day. After the wedding WHAT NEXT?

Finally, it is not something you rush to the market and just pick a shoe because you like or can purchase it.
Ask questions

-Where is this shoe made from? (Background)

-What's the size (Values)

-How much (His/Her interest)

-How long will it last (His/Her Character)

-Who made it? (Is she/He of the same faith This is compatibility)

-Will it match me? (This is whether he/she love you and will

accept you the way you are)

Dear one, remember many are dragging their foot and they
would hardly reach their destinies, many are feeling endless pains and wish he could pull off the shoes but no way!!! I have seen people with beautiful shoes and when they show you their foot, you will see scars. Beloved, it is not about the physical, it is the size, you can't know the size from afar so come close, build a relationship first but remember 'you are not permitted to try it before you buy it'.
And for those who have purchased the wrong shoes, you can still make it your size again if you'd consult the manufacturer and let Him have His way in your marriage.

May God bless us all. Send this to all married and singles, you might be touching someone's life with the right word.

Be blessed

Lady Bug said...

Thank you o,my friend was saying it was just a photoshoot,she was NAKED!๐Ÿ˜Ž

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Pretty Adeola, I sight you

The General's Wife said...

Amen!

Sandy Baibay!


Elastic Bobo!
Onye.Olu.com!

Where is that ur co-conspirator?

Hahahhahahaha it's not money. It's the relative of that bike Man U told to take u to Australia.

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Let me quickly grab one.
Shebi na Sandy?
She must share for me before no need to ask for permission.๐Ÿ˜
Opens mouth>>>>>bites๐ŸŽ‚>>>>>sip๐Ÿท>>>>>>Hmmnnn>>>>smack lips>>>>yummy,tasty.
Good job Amanda. ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿ‘
Happy birthday again Sandy yooooo๐Ÿ˜

Oluwadarasimi™ said...

Happy birthday to your brother

Lady Bug said...

Happy birthday to your big bro,may he rise above his expectations,God grants him more blessings.

same girl said...

Happy Birthday Sandy baiby gurrlll... send "for your eyes only" invitation fOr me nah. Lets eat rice amd meat ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚... Fod bless you baby girl and make everything that concerns you beautiful

FluffyCake 07056157039 said...

Happy birthday, Sandy Yo! LLNP

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—

Em jay said...

Kiss Adadioramma sweetm๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹.
Love you load.

The General's Wife said...

All kids are different.

There is really no yardstick to measure some of these things. Cos just like u,I heard that too.But in my case,the revsere is the case. My eldest was super fast in everything. My second was good too. But my boy? He beat the girls to it. To almost everything.

Different kids develop at different paces. As long as they are healthy,doing ok and catching up,then don't fret.
Just relax and enjoy the ride.

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Happy birthday to your big bro. God's blessings upon him always.

Em jay said...

Happy birthday Sandy oyoyo,i am wishing all good things life can offer, live long and prosper darling, love luv you๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹๐Ÿ’‹

amanda favour said...

I don't know if my first comment pulled through but lemme summarize my first comment incase it doesn't appear. Many kids improve as they grow,I used my son as a case study.He is 6 and in basic 2,very good in mathematics but before eeh Na wahala. So leave him,just be encouraging him in his academics and be watching him.
My son helps his sister in basic 4 with LCM and some little little calculations. My girl have been intelligent from nursery but her problem has always been mathematics,anyways I wasn't good in maths too (covers face). I have employed a teacher to be coaching her in maths every Saturday. I hope it helps her. Kiss ๐Ÿ’‹ your boy for me

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Lizzy berry, for real??? They must have had their their leg throbbing.
๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

The General's Wife said...

It was wrong to have done that on a major road and almost during the peak period.
I don't Blame her and her beautiful bootyiful body๐Ÿ˜

It's those that actually stopped the Traffic that should be held liable. M

Meanwhile I heard plenty voices of women "shaating" as the hot chick sashayed across the road๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Lipstick said...

IHN Baby! !

Happy Birthday Sandy, God bless and keep you as you add another year.

Olori this your pose no be here, this is what we call #issababygirl4life pose ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

Hi my yummies, hope you all are doing alright

Lipstick said...

Happy Birthday to your Bro.

Anonymous said...

Sandy refused to send in her pix this year. The bashings from last year is yet to wear off.

The General's Wife said...

Happy Birthday to JOSTIFIED bro!
May God bless him now and always and may favour and Grace continually abide with him! Amen!

Right now u make me want to eat cake and ice cream๐ŸŽ‚๐Ÿจ

Anonymous said...

Adadioranma your roll call is lit!

May I also notify you that the general's wife is not married to a general. It is one of her extra imaginary life.

Ref to Monkey vaccine post you asked her to verify from The General, dont push public to abuse her and army officers over nothing. The society is tensed.

Just saying.

SANDY YO said...

Amen and amen!!!๐Ÿ™ Thanks badooo.๐Ÿ˜ƒ
I sight you all from Sp post to Ihn. Appreciate mucho. No time to go round. Love and heart you all.
❤๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—๐Ÿ˜—

The General's Wife said...

Hahahhhaha @ Amanda. Na we be members of Igwe sub-cabinet nau.

Olori Orente Issa fine geh!

Anonymous said...

Choi Lady bug๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

Anonymous said...

Yes o Ihn don land o..Martins Aboy God bless u for coming to my aid dis morning.. ur tips worked and my contacts are back.That dumpo abi dunce DAT was asking if martins was my house boy u dey craze..am ure d type DAT don't like helping pple...idiot.

amanda favour said...

*sprays otapiapia on ladybug *
Stop bugging sexy daddy.๐Ÿ˜Ž

Adadioramma said...

Same girl darling, I will assign Chike to do that on my behalf. It is not difficult ok, love you baby.
Nwunye G, ebum Nzam ayoli egwua itiputere kita. Hahahahahahahaha, Nwa ina etum di afa ebe ona abanye na Medula. Ife dika gi akonam. Kedu maka G onye nke anyi? Ndi oma julu na blog a eziokwu.
Hailing Kaybee darling...Your own hailing no go end today o.
Ideato anyakwa? Hope you are good? Correct babe wey sabi.
SD Nwannem, swaga gi ji nkata kute mmili.
Amanda I can relate, ndi Onowu na Igwe Cabinet them. Hahahahahahaha, nwunye G tolu na uno.

Anonymous said...

Sexy daddy, God will know by merely looking at your toothpick frame.

Adadioramma said...

Nwunye G ibiakwa. First position was originally owned by my Boo Em jay when IHN was introduced. Ighotago, odi adigide.

Anonymous said...

Why didn't you put copied at the end of that joke? That is not your intellectual work. We know your handwriting kikikiki

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

This is why i keep saying we are like family here๐Ÿ˜ thanks a bunch guys ๐Ÿ‘ i appreciate truly. Will keep encouraging him

Blue said...

To the person making enquires on calabar carnival,it usually starts on on 27th to the 29th,costumes are given to those who rehearsed with their band,but u can come along with ur own costume,dats what visitors do,there are people u pay to draw up your face.pls if u really want a hotel,send to someone to book now for you bc by december it is all booked up,even in the suburbs.The carnival day itself u go n buy a seat by the judges point,either by zoo garden,mobil oe marian.pls dont forget to book ur hotel now.our calabar is always full by december

Isolde Fontaine said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SANDRA... YOUR BEST YEARS ARE YET TO COME. ..HAVE FUN!

ADVICE NEEDED ASAP said...

My bros wife earns 300k+ and bro earns exactly 50k.But he gets change sometimes from work. 10k here, 2k there sometimes 20k+ and these monies are not regular. He is in debt cos he has to borrow for housefeeding, for school fees cos wife insists on a 50k fees for a 1 year old and a 3 year old. So every 3 months, he has to struggle to pay 100k each term.Even if she buys one indomie, she writes it down and makes sure she collects it back. 2 issues triggered this writeup. She had to pay 100k fees this term and on the very day her husband took his salary, she demanded it, insisted on a transfer and it was done. So bro had Nada. I am on a visist so I give him 1k ,2k Here and there. What happens when I leave cos next month she will take the balance fees.
Secondly bro got a job for 170k. But with thus job he cannot go drop her at work everyday, pick the kids at school daily (two times actually cos both kids close at diff times) then go back to work, sign out then go pick wifey up. He sometimes wait until 7pm before she closes. She vehemently opposed the new job asking who will be dropping and picking her from work. The kids school has a school bus and kids can be dropped off at home.There is the help who is always at home. She refused. She can take okada 100 naira to work and back home. She can also drive their car to work and drive herself back cos bro will take public transport to the new job but she refused so he declined the job.
I saw him sitting in the car that night through my bedroom window. I went out and he was crying.He didn't stop been though he saw me standing there. I went back inside and madam was watching zee world without a care in the world.
The most painful part is that bro resumes work at 9 and she resumes at 7. He has to wake up early and go drop her at work, drop the kids at school then sit in his car waiting for 2 hours to enter His office. He keave s work at 2 pick the baby, drop her at home then back to work then back to school at 4 to pick the son home then rush back to the office to sign out then go sit in front of his wife's office.
She only eats and sleep. Doesn't wash, cook, clean or do anything in the home except beat and scream at the teenage maid. Her kids sleep with this maid cos she can't stand their disturbance at night.
I want to have a word with this woman. Should I? She is supposed to be born again...well she is for the 3 hours church lasts on Sunday.
Bro is born again, and the very very quiet type.
I trained him in uni cos we are from a poverty stricken background. I am hurting that my bro is hurting.
Sis in law does not take care if her parents or siblings cos among them she is even the poorest that's they are all made. I hear her complaining to her parents and siblings that she is the one running the home.her family knows when she buys Garri.
I am sorry for this long epistle but I need advice on hiw to handle this before I leave. Her mum and female siblings control and Lords it over their husband's.just found that out.
Pls I need advice on how yo handle this today. Leaving tommorrow so thus is urgent

Adadioramma said...

Kindness begat kindness. Thank God for that family.

VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Today is Sandy's birthday?๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

Happy birthday my baby girl๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜ wishing u heavens best

Theyvid Adebayo said...

Have you eaten today?If you haven't Chop Stick

Adadioramma said...

Yes, but there is no yardstick to measure. Slow and steady wins the race dear.

Anonymous said...

Hello my lovely bvs and our landlady stellacoco. how Una day dey go.
Isaacbaba DAT ur comments on sp dis morning Kai I gbadun am o.the pigin Proverbs and their translation.. oboy u try.
bv orente fine woman but dis ur pic no do justice to ur beauty o..I don see ur pics b4 and I no u are fine but dis one no follow at all.na person wey like u go tell u true. whether na d gown abi d belt or d pose abi dey camera I no just understand. Anyway u still b fine woman.

Adadioramma said...

Happy birthday Sandy Yo. God bless your new age.

Jane's Sparkles boutique said...

IHN!!!! Yeah!!! Face of IHN i love you too❤❤ blessed to all of us, Amen. God bless the work of our hands.

BettyO said...

Olori Orente did you serve in Yola? AUN precisely in 2012. You look so familiar.

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

*third leg

Lady Port (The Portress) said...

If you have a dog accompanying you when meeting a random woman, you are three times more likely to get her phone number.

Chike TEFLON said...

Adadioramma
Ibilibe ogada
Nwa oma eji eje mba
Okwulu oka
Ekene ooo

GOONs Mi said...

I was here.........

obianuju augustina said...

happy birthday Sandy yo,More of God's blessings! btw,pastor's daughter hope you good?

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Hello IHN!
Hello BVs!!
Hello Stella Dimoko!!!

Came back early today.
Just found out it's my sweetie birthday!
Happy birthday Sandy Yo! May the will of God alone be done in your life. Love you babe. ๐Ÿ˜˜๐ŸŽ๐ŸŽŠ๐ŸŽŠ order a chilled bottle of red wine ๐Ÿท on me.

Faithful God said...

Pls who can help me do a business meme to send to stella, like the last one up selling land, pls

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Happy birthday ๐ŸŽ‚ to your big brother! May God's peace and favour continue to be his portion.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Happy birthday to Ifeoma's birthday brother! Wishing him heaven's best. ๐ŸŽ‚

@Ifeamo, your brother is chocolate handsome.

Bibire said...

My advice to you(baby with a sick baby)is to get a job and look for a nanny or a good daycare for your son.You can't put your life on hold & you also need the money to take care of him.May God continue to strengthen you.
Life is not fair at all

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

You're beautiful ๐Ÿ˜˜

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a Ugegbe Chike Teflon said...

@adadiorama ❤❤❤❤

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Hello Bee! ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a Ugegbe Chike Teflon said...

@bloglord is it only that one? Theres another pretty one that took selfies with wizkid over the weekend. She's been hotting from lagos to abuja.
Now come and ask me why babes are going to surulere everyday

๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’๐Ÿ’

Jacinta Mbachu said...

It's been awhile

Chikito The Professional Fire for Fire a.k.a Ugegbe Chike Teflon said...

So you sef follow for this Calabar matter? Isokay

Anonymous said...

Hotel for 5k-8k????

Ikwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwakwa

Even if the carnival was holding at Ayobo, Igbenihidun, Langbasa, Ikorodu or Sagamu.... lolll unless it is all those short stay hotels with dried sperm on the mattress and earthworms in the toilet you are looking for.

Anonymous said...

I trust you, always misyarning like bobrisky that you are.

The General's Wife said...

Hahahhahahahaha๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Sexy Dada!
How's Sexy Mama?
I remember her threatening u with suicide and divorce and burst into laughter๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Lady Bug pls stop bugging him Sexy Dada.
U have Bn on his case back to back and u know he doesn't like it. Don't make me call those fumigating people o๐Ÿ˜Ž

The General's Wife said...

Yori Yori You don't drink tea these days.
Wetin happen?
Meanwhile there is a new Telemundo. U watching?

I think I like it. No,i looove it! Will be soo intriguing. And I love the power play!๐Ÿ‘Œ

Adadioramma said...

Jacinta, where have you been? Hope all is well with you? Welcome back.

Cutiebee said...

I'm grateful to the beautiful angel that blessed me with 5k credit alert. May your pockets never run dry. May God answer you when you call on him.
SDK your blessings will overflow.

JOSTIFIED MOM said...

Thanks alot my lovelies for the wishes & prayers @Darasimi, Lady bug of life, Bloggie our real MVBM, lipstickalley, TGMaami & Mrs R. We truly appreciate it.

sexy Daddy said...

Nwunye G,nwanyi Mara obi diya
Omuma asa aru
Oriaku G
@ Amanda hapu onye ofe mgbanu,
Lady bug bu agadi nwanyi rulara menopause.. Lol

ProudlyDeltan15 said...

Thank you so much Blue for the info.

@Anonymous 15:21, if you cannot be helpful reserve your nasty comment please.

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

๐Ÿ™‹Hallo Mrs R.

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Anon 15:21, your description though๐Ÿ˜ท๐Ÿ˜ซ๐Ÿ˜ซ

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

Where is the 'alley'?๐Ÿ˜
I am fine and you?

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

I don't understand my princess again these days on top this tea matter. It's like she is no longer addicted to it๐Ÿ˜ƒ

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

I heard of that one too oh Chiki.
Some girls are really bold.
Pls why are girls going to 'lere everyday?
*ears/eyes wide opened*
Gist me abeg

BLOGLORD (MVBM) said...

๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ @ plenty 'shaating'
E no reach to hala?๐Ÿ˜ƒ

Bee10(mummytwins) said...

Mrs R.how is you I have missed you

Jacinta Mbachu said...
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VICTORIOUS EHIS said...

Happy birthday to ur bro

Jacinta Mbachu said...

Happy Birthday Sandy.... God bless you and yours

Justyswt said...

Same thing I am experiencing with my boy too. Though he is picking up now.

jelly said...

Your son will be ok soon, don't stop believing God, He still answer prayers. A good mature nanny will be ok for your son. Go and get yourself busy.....


May God perfect all that concerns your son.

Justyswt said...

U is a beautiful babe.

SINGLE DAD said...

Hehehehe ...wicked we BVs

Anonymous said...

@ladybug, stop bullying Sexy daddy! You've been warned severally. Remember 'A word is enough for the wise'

Live and let live. You are too troublesome.

Justyswt said...

Happy birthday to brother. Blessings fall on him.

Mrs.R SDK blog Official BFF said...

Hey Bloggie, how is you and your lovelies... ๐Ÿ˜˜ ๐Ÿค—

I miss you too Bee ๐Ÿ ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

Anonymous said...

@PROUD Deltan
Not everyone will give you directions like an okada rider.
If you had any sense, you would see that my comment was actually quite helpful.
But do I blame you?
No.
Tis obvious you have exchanged your sense with pride and a slice of yellow yam.

SINGLE DAD said...

I wonder o, at least Martins wasn't complaining

Anonymous said...

Lady bug, honestly there is nothing funny about what you do if the person doesn't find it funny. You people should learn to respect people's decision on this blog, whether he is being petty or not, dude says you should back off. If you have sense you will respect that.

SINGLE DAD said...

Hotel for under 10k is most unlikely and as Blue rightly said you should be booking both hotel and flight now. Other details I have have been sent to your email.

SINGLE DAD said...

Not in Nigeria. This is true outside of naija tho

Anonymous said...

I'm curious.

When I saw the 99 year old Senator's wedding post I remember a few months back one poster who wanted a wife for their father who would also act as a full-time nurse and must have good computer/typing skills,like reading and speak English well.

Poster if you are reading how did your search go, was it fruitful?

Kelex said...

@THE MILLION NAIRA QUESTION, you can use your medical knowledge to gain money. For example medical equipment like gloves, mask, wheel chair. Survey the market and see what the options are. For your child, they are special homes or care for your child. Just be strong.

Jacinta Mbachu said...

Ada Ada....... Thanks darling.... All is well my dear.... I miss commenting here tho.... Been reading Sdk all this while but I decided not to be commenting.... But I'm back.... Thanks

Chike TEFLON said...

Lol@ swaga gi ji nkata Kute mmiri. As in the swaga dizi too much na awusi awusi. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ
Idi too much.

Nwunye G, Lol@ Ajebo Nwa. Chai!!!
Umunnem akalia ni. Anam ekozi eko na ikaa mehn!!! ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

stella dimokokorkus said...


POSTED IN A WRONG POST


Stella sorry for diverting, read in in-house news of a lady that the child had spina bifida, and that story remind me of my nephew, taking care of a child that can't perform like other children is heartbreaking, and funny they are always the cutest children, ours at 3months had high fever that resulted in seizures,hosp lost hope but he survived after 3 months in hosp, 6months we notice he couldn't coordinate or do anything, hosp said part of his brain is damaged, taking care of that child was the hardest thing for us, from feeding to cleaning a 7years old poo, he always lying down cos he cant sit without support, but in all we gave him the best care till he breathes his last.
Anyone that has not been in that shoe will not understand you, I know how you feeling in short I really know, I pray God gives you the strength when he getting older cos it very easy now but there this believe I have that there nothing my God can't do. Be strong and just accept him with no regret it can be so depressing but just accept him that way OK.

Chike TEFLON said...

Lol

Chike TEFLON said...

... And who told you it's a true life story?

Nice message sha.

Chike TEFLON said...

Olori Orente you IS beautiful.

Chike TEFLON said...

Bee10 mummy twins, Nwa ino mma na ekwe oyo oyo.

The General's Wife said...

Lippie what happened to your "alley"?

Even though me I like it this way๐Ÿ˜‚
Lipstick! Simply Lippie!

I'm good And How is u baby girl?

Chike TEFLON said...

Lady Bug there is a great difference between bugging and insult. Why not send your picture as face of IHN.

Chike TEFLON said...

Lol

Chike TEFLON said...

Ugegbe m biko gist me.
Why are babes going to surulere everyday? ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

Chike TEFLON said...

Happy birthday to your brother. May God bless his new age.

Ed said...

Yes,there are hotels from 5k down...wen I used to go for the carnival,we normally book for the hotel this October ahead....and the hotel is around Atekong drive off Marian road,I and ma friends then... Av not been there since 2015 so I dunno if things have changed now considering the recession period we are in.


Happy birthday to my darling Sandy Yo,many fruitful years ahead๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™

Beautiful Olori orente๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™๐Ÿ˜™

Nemerem said...

Chai! Sorry about your boy, the pains that little darling must have and still going through. Please just embrace the situation and love him with all you've got, you're allowed to be frustrated at times, it OK! But always know that God gives these special needs children to very special parents, with an exceptional heart of love.
Secondly don't write yourself off business, there's nothing the human mind cannot achieve, try it out you might really love it OK.
Stay strong, never stop praying, never stop believing, do it all with joy.
Big hugs to you and your baby.

Happy birthday SandyYo, best wishes.

olami4eva said...

Sepe Sepe figure 8๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ๐Ÿ™Œ



#GDR

Megasam Aluminium Structural Engineers: accoboard,Partitioning, etc. 07036473947, 09084791116, twitter - @MegasamAluminum said...

Hi everyone
It's been a long time I commented, I want you to know that I read your comments and I love you all.
Lady with the special needs child, the Lord is ur strength. You can start consulting at home in your field. Google for what you can do online. It is well with you and your family.

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

@ Advice Needed ASAP, if all you have said about your sister in law is true, Then she is a very mean and wicked woman.
My advice, let him report her to the pastor who will in turn talk to her. But in the mean time, tell your brother to move out of the House. Its a plan he should also inform his pastor. its a temporary measure to shake the wife to reality.
His wife is wicked and he has bottled up issues and it can explod at anytime. She has money to take care of the children.
Let him take a leave of some weeks from his office and not tell her. Travel out of his station. Either of two things will happen. She will take dressing and come down from her high horse or she will show how she truly feels about him that will enable him take the next step. But if that your brother continues to stay at home. One of them will die, him or her. The result will be bad. And when I say die, I mean die of bitterness. It will likely be your brother. Your sister in law is selfish and self centred. I've seen people like that. And I don't think she truly loves him.

Anonymous said...

Your brother has entered one chance marriage. God help him.

Lady T/ am worth more than a thousand dollars said...

@ Advice needed asap, talking to your sister in law depends a lot on her kind of person. But you can use Matthew 7:21 or 22. It says do unto others what you Will wish them to do to you. Tell her you are not preaching at her but you have seen how she treats her husband your brother. If she was the one who was treated like that will she like it?
Her marriage is her ministry, does she think God is happy with her attitude? You have to use wisdom so that the door of visits to your brother and the children will not be shut. And you can also pray. Wishing you God's grace as you talk to her.
If the tables were really turned how will she like to be treated?

SANDY YO said...

Exactly what ayam sipping now.๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜
Thanks dearie. Love you plenty.๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜˜

SANDY YO said...

Zaps a glass cup of d red wine.๐Ÿ’ƒ๐Ÿ˜ Wishing your bros that is ma bday mate llnp and all goodies life has to offer. Enjoy and thank you very plenty.๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ˜˜

ProudlyDeltan15 said...

@Anonymous 17:11,your comment was of absolutely NO USE and was in no way helpful. If U did not have anything useful to say you should have just moved on and let people with info comment. Hiding under anonymous says alot. I can see you lack manners so I will just ignore you.

@SingleDad, you have been very helpful. Thank you so much. Grateful.

@ED,Thank you.

KIDJO D MAMALAWO ������������ said...

Happy birthday Sandy Yo Yo, may the good Lord bless you with all your positive heart desires๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜
Go to the nearest 5 star hotel and enjoy yourself in my name, I go pay you hear. ..☺☺

Nemerem said...

sorry about your son, I might not know what you're going through but I feel your pain, God bless and strengthen you.
oh! how that little darling have suffered. I pray for healing upon him.
One thing you should know is that God gives these special needs children to very special parents who have an incredible amount of love to give. it not easy I know, but keep doing your best. you can join care groups of people with similar situation on facebook or you can create one, believe me it helps.
secondly, don't write yourself off business, the human mind is incredible, it can achieve the seemingly impossible. Try it out first (biz), you might like it and even find it therapeutic.
Stay strong, never stop praying, never stop believing, above all be thankful.
God bless you and your baby.

Happy birthday Sandy, best wishes.

Anonymous said...

What did your brother see in her in the first place? Did he go after a "rich" girl thinking she will foot the bills for him. He should man up n stop that born again rubbish, stand up n say they should equally pay for a driver, to do all the droppings and collecting with the maid, if she refuses she can do it her self, he should also ask the bills be spilt into two so he has money to take care of his own needs, n invest/do other things. Enjoy marriage not endure, that's what he is doing, let him not be afraid to take a testing walk if things don't change,and a final one if the testing doesn't work. Only one life so live it happily. Let him look for a woman within the 50k limit to marry, cuz u can't be with a high earner n want to control her, when u are giving her nothing.

Olori Orente said...

Thanks FAM

Olori Orente said...

Lol
Issa baby girl

Olori Orente said...

Thanks darling ED

Olori Orente said...

Nope
I served in bayelsa

Nemerem said...

Oh! I thought my first comment ended in your pot Stella.

HighlyFavoured said...

Anon 14:44/(advice needed urgently)
You nerd to talk to ur brother and not d wife
First of all. Find out why he married her (was it bcos of d money?)
Had she always been like this? From d beginning?
Base on the answer, you can advice him as follows and ensure he carries them out if he is d weak and fearful type.
1. He should withdraw his kids from that school, to d one he can comfortably afford.
2. He should drop the car w her (if she bought it) and take public transport. If otherwise, he should persist she picks drop to work and pick her after work if convenient.
3. He should man up and take charge of His house according to His income.
5. He should stop receiving any form of financial aid from her and call the shot in his home.
4. If u ascertain he has been jazzed, take him for deliverance.

ujiri mena said...

I guess she thinks she is doing your brother a favour. If he can't stand is ground am sorry there is nothing you can do. You can't help someone who doesn't wanna be help. You would only cos enemity between the both of you. Talk to your Bro not the wife. Let him rake the Job cos money breeds confidence. The wife knows the money he has enough money to cater for himself and kids she will need to buckle up. I hope its not too late for the Job

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