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Monday, 22 January 2018

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
PLANNING FUTURE WITH WHITE OLDER BOO BUT SCARED



Hi Stella..I am a silent reader of your blog though i never comment but trust me i visit everyday and now i need Ur red pen to reset my brain...


Here is the story. I would be 22 this year and i recently met this white dude resident in the UK..Every woman wants someone to love and care for her,and this guy is a definition of such..


He came visiting this December and gosh i was treated like a queen,he got a lot of stuffs for me,spent hours doing online shopping for me even when i objected.Stella i had to form vex b4 bobo stopped shopping,public display of affection (PDA)everywhere to show I'm not just some gal he picked on the street and isn't afraid to profess his love anywhere and anytime..


He is an average guy financially but would be called rich if Nigerian,i don't mind because i know we could do a lot of bigger tins together. Truth is most times i don't Even remember he is white becuz dude is playful and has quite blended with the naija style.


Dude is even planning for the future with me..Now here is the problem.He is 19 yrs older and a divorcee (ex was naija) he has a thing for naija women and my fears are,he is madly in luv and talking future with me though he says he doesn't want me to feel rushed or caged.

There are somethings i cant mention all here but in all he is a wonderful guy and treats a woman well but I'm scared of him ageing while I'm still quite agile,like when I'm 45 he would be 64( his sex game is lit tho)i don't even know what I'm thinking,i don't want an old man falling sick while I'm still young ...

its like I'm stuck because he is so happy I'm in his life, becuz he was in a bad relationship with his ex (naija gal too) and he is ready to do anything to make me happy...


Stella please i need your red pen as well,what do you think? should i go on? should i leave him (i hope he doesn't get depressed) ..I need people to talk some sense into me,the last thing i need now is insult,please guys I'm scared.

Help!!



*Your mindset is really really in need of upgrading...So what makes you think his being older means he will fall sick and old and you wont?what if he outlives you?Are you happy?thats the important question here.

If you are type that feel secure with older men then it might be easy for you but if you are type that wants someone your age mate and age is really really important to you then let him go.........let him go and drop his contact here for someone else to try

66 comments:

  1. Mumu poster!...
    I would have slapped you if you are around me!...
    Common grab him sharply!...
    You saw someone that is treating you right and you are complaining!...
    Are you crazy or what?...
    When he dies,you take his wealth and enjoy your life!...

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    1. I had to laugh. Linda, I ♥️ you

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    2. Poster come here, u need sense. You better enjoy that man and treat him ryt too.

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    3. Always fixated about wealth; that is all you know in this life.
      So myopic.
      There are people; noble and decent to whom life means more than just "wealth?"

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    4. This poster is not serious, wasting chronicle space, I think you just want to make people jealous ... mtchew, @ queen and boss, that's if she doesn't die before the man, age has nothing to do with death

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    5. All hall the Queen and boss of Sdk blog. Chai, u are too real jaree.

      Poster, u better hold that ur boo tight o.

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    6. Please I need ( not want) the contact.

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    7. Chai.hahahahahahaa. U no go kee me wt laff. Abeg poster, can u kindly hand me to him? I will be forever grateful. Comment under me and I ll get in touch. Plsssss

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    8. If you truly love him take a walk with him, age means nothing.Anyone can die tomorrow be it young be it old.
      @lolz at Sdk saying you should drop his contact make others try. Babe no think am.
      Pls remember to book me for your cocktails, Mocktail and small chops .

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  2. babe dont try to force it.you dont love him.please drop his contacts here..lets show him love.tge type that would make him forget you.

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  3. Small girl fears, lol, ssit ur bum down there,love him, and don't allow ur bffs to mislead u.

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    1. That last red line finished me "drop his contact " ahahaha Stella you're the real mvp ahahaha!
      Young girl this guy is just 38 according to my calculations. You spoke like he was 50yrs already , please my only question is where exactly did you meet this guy? Because I even live in the UK and I've been looking for his type for 2yrs now the ones that are ready to settle down or be with black women! Please tell a sister where to find them please.

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  4. Poster..u are not serious oo
    U meant not even find ur mate that will treat u this way..

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  5. "let him go and drop his contact here for someone else to try" lol this got me laughing hard. Babe if you dont want him because he's older then by all means do as Stell tyoed up there

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    1. Yeah! Drop his contact for the people that doesn't care about age barriers!
      Well said!

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  6. Poster, a bird in the hand is worth two in the future...

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  7. Lol@drop his contact here for someone else to try. Anyways madam, I suggest you enjoy your relationship and let God handle the rest. 19years age difference isn't much. All we need is someone to love and respect us and if he is all of that please don't let him go! Except you are one of those girls who prefer wizkid kind of boys. Best of luck!

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  8. "let him go and drop his contact here for someone else to try" lol! Stella, Stella! I doff cap for you. Madam poster,date and marry him for the money and walk away if you no longer feel like it.

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  9. Stella has said it all. As long as you are happy and age doesn't mean anything to you go ahead. Remember the older the wine the sweeter it is

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  10. My dear, what matters most here is your happiness. Do you know why he divorced the ex? How about kids? These are some of the things you need to know.
    I'm 31 and my man is 53. In fact he's even stronger than me sef. Have you not seen a weak young man before? Or a dead young man?
    The decision is yours to make. So make a wise one.

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    1. Anon15:17 I'm 31 as well in courtship with 53.

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  11. The only thing you are doing wrong is "that sex game"; you are already collecting penis? And you are not sure if to go ahead and you are not married to him? Supposing you get pregnant now?
    STI/Hiv?
    Why did his former wife divorce him; have you cared to find out or just believing only what he is telling you?
    How many kids has he; for that is another thing "every woman craves for";isn't it?

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  12. Lol 😁 @ drop his contact for some one else to try.
    Poster plz receive sense now

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  13. Stella you're wrong on this one. The age Gap is food for thought. And yes it makes sense to think what if he falls sick..also what if dies while she's in her prime because Dface it , when she's 60,he'll be 80. If he dies at80, people will say he lived long but she'll be a widow

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    1. So you've not seen a 30year old widow before? Young men don't die? What if she dies before him?

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    2. But he's more likely to due first. That's a fact

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  14. This one doesn't have problem at all

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  15. Listen to your head, you are not comfortable with settling with your old white dude. Not everyone can handle a relationship with such a gap in ages and if you are one of those small girls who like small boys, girl... you will definitely chop outside. I don't sense any head over heels in love on your part, that, already a problem. Enjoy the romance, then if you still have these doubts about a future with him, o girl, leave the dude for another woman who will love him - old age and all. By the way, where the former 9ja wife dey? I hear say all these oyibo wives dey craze o! Ex or not.

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  16. My sister married a man much older than her-Nigerian man though. She died, man is still alive. Age doesn't determine who dies first.

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  17. Are you happy?

    Will your parent understand?

    19 years is a wide gap. Take your time, don't rush.

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  18. And pls don't treat him like the ex. Take care of him too.

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  19. when child birth hits you we will know who the older one is.do background check very well if you must marry him.i said do background check.

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  20. babe my candid advice wey i go dash u na be eh...nothing do this guy na u knw wetin dey worry u, but if na naija sugar daddy e no go b problem abi. nna babe if u really are not sure abt him jus do as stella suggested, there are people who need this kind person me for one.see i have been killing myself for ordinary half-caste to luv me, talk more if i see this one na rush i go rush am.no dey sleep oo shine your eyes bebe.inukwa

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    1. Lmao you need to investigate the root cause of your zero self esteem and self hate. Somebody actually typed "I have been killing myself for ordinary half caste to love me." Some of you need psychotherapy but you don't know it. And your type would actually reproduce and pass your mental defective genes on to your offsprings.Get your head checked sister.

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  21. see comment from Stella. drop his contact if you don't need him.
    the female bvn here will be like please reject him fast fast.

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  22. This oyibo people can love eh. I had one early last year and it was a amazing. Dude was paying my bills from away, literally everything. Money was coming steady, all i need do is stay online as his internet access na 24hours.
    Infact he was obsessed abeg, stalking my fb and instagram and dropping public hints. Anyway the love reach to go find house buy together then he would come down and we get married and jet off.
    I met hubby and ran as fast as my legs can carry me. Some people thought i was mad for leaving him buh nah. i no get strength for their plenty love abeg.
    We are still friends though and yes, He was 45 and i was 25. Some Ugandan chic is milking him dry now. i hear they are engaged. I wish i could wake him up from day dreaming......
    So poster, if you can deal, go ahead but be sure its not just the bar and green card you want oh. Most of them get skoi skoi abeg.

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    1. Abeg where una dey meet all these comfortable white dude?

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  23. Bethere go for what makes you happy but try and take your time, don't rush it.

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  24. Exactly my questions are:1 Are you in love with this man? Are you happy being with him.
    If you can genuinely answer these questions,then its time to leave all your worries & move on with or without him.
    Just as Mrs Korkus said your mindset needs serious upgrading. Haba, why are you worrying about him getting sick,or not being able to satisfy you when you are 45? Are you a sex machine/doll?
    Be happy jare! That is the main thing

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  25. You better go and do your investigations and find out why his first wife divorced him. I am super sure this is how he also started with her. That's how they behave. I was born and raised for a while in the UK and my aunts all had bare stories to tell about these white men. They come in nice and lovey and dovey and before you know it,they transform right in front of you. It also seems like he has a fetish of some sort for Nigerian women.Again go do your investigations. 19 years is a huge age difference. That's the age difference between my uncle(my mum's immediate younger brother) and I. I dare not call his name without the title uncle. There is a whole generational gap between you two. You think relationship and partnership is about buying gifts and PDA? I'm sure his first wife also got more than enough dose of those. Whether you outlive him or not is not the question. The question is in the long run would both of you be able to build something together, do you both have matching values? You're just 22, you have all the time in the world to meet and nurture a relationship with a younger man that's closer to you age. If you had said 10 years I might not be too much of a skeptic but 19 is mad ridiculous. I would advise you think about this deeply and do your research. He is probably so excited he has the ability to get a really young woman who he fancies. It might be a control thing also. He would wait till you get comfortable before he starts to manipulate and control you. Like I said do your research. personally I would not date a man 19 years older as I'm not lacking any father figure whatsoever. However,to each his own.

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    1. poster u should take note of this advice seriously ur just 22 and I believe ur just been carried away by the excess show of care and pda,take away all this and ask yourself if u would still find this man appealing I bet ur answer will be no. At about ur age i was in a similar situation I did not listen to anyone and i learnt the hard way becos he cheated,the relationship became abusive and came crashing down.

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    2. Is it the young Naija man that won't change?
      Poster,don't mind this person!.....

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    3. Hmmm, there is always 2 sides to every story. Some are good and some are bad.
      Poster don’t get carried away by people’s commnets.
      Take your time to know him, pray and see how it goes. If you are happy stick to him and have faith in the best.

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  26. Babe abeg drop his number, we are okay with his age

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  27. try and close your legs.
    engaging in pre marital sex a.k.a fornication and asking for advice.
    well done. at 22 years >??

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    1. And what are your sins? Your first sin is being on a gossip blog, your second sin is passing judgment on others. I bet you thought you were squeaky clean. Take your dusty ass go to church and stay there!

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  28. Hahahahahahahah this one na chronicle? Long mtcheeeeeeeew. Come on get out, come back wen u have a more serious case.

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  29. Truth be told if the man was wealthy his age would not be an issue, he is of average status financially so his age is of consideration. His providing material things for you is not what you should consider, does he respect and value you, listen to your opinions, does he adore you and treat you tenderly? If he treats you well and you know he is not pretending then he is worth holding on to. You do not have to keep your fears about the age gap private, you can discuss it with him. Make sure he stays healthy, wear sunscreen a broad brim hat and keep out of the sun. Since he was previously married to another woman and it ended badly make sure he has no juju on him to cause problems with your life together.

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  30. Poster, kosi problem rara. Just stick to stellakoko"s red pen.

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  31. I hate white dude who only do black women, or women from a particular 3rd world countries. Most of them are not normal

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    1. And why is my instinct telling me that you are a black man????

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  32. My candid advice... if the age gap is such a big deal to you then let him go, cause right now it's clear you're just with him out of pity and that's not good.If you can't look past the age and settle with him since both of you are actually happy with each other then let him go. No one will kill you.

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  33. Pls drop his contact I'm closer to his age.

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  34. Poster dey there and be asking jamb questions. Who young man abi boy epp! Let me tell u of some celebrities with older men and dey are balling.
    Toke makinwa and pa fadeymi, foloshade d wife of eleganza, FFK,Emeka offor and adaora ufondu, ufoma McDermott, even ur president dat is 85yrs while Aisha is 45.
    I can go on and on but let me stop here, marry someone dat treats u well with security not all these chewing gum boys. Wen d need arises about u not enjoying sex wen dey are older, u can get a side bobo for ur kukere moves or even get a male sex toy with six pack thank God they have even released some. Better forget small boys oooo, ask those with them how far like Lilian esoro with ubi franklin, tonto dike, mercy aigbe even Mimi orjiekwe etc.
    A word is enough for a wise person, meanwhile hope u r not with d guy so dat he will take u away from this shithole country .

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  35. Loooll.. @Mrs korkus comment 😂😂😂😂


    All the best poster.. May God direct you

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  36. Poster please marry him,older men are better most times you might not see a young guy to treat you this way ,the age difference is not much ,he won't be sick .

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  37. Poster you need hot slap, stay there and be asking questions when you sawvlove, real live, who younger guys epp

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  38. Poster.....Hold him tight. Age is just a number and moreover its not all aged people that fall sick.....enjoy yourself young lady inugo.....
    @ queen I dey gbadun you jare. You no dey dull yasef....lol

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  39. Age is nothing my dear. Let me share my personal story with you. My husband is 29 years older than me. He is also a white man and I am Nigerian.
    At first I was worried about what people would say but he was everything a woman would want in a man - caring, direct and don’t accept bill shit but values me to the core! He knows how to satisfy me in bed, regardless the age trust me!
    At first I kept resisting because of the age but younger men were not on the same level as me (mentally) and in the end, I had to change my mind set and settled for my older white man.

    He is in his 60’s and he is healthier and fitter than I am (he also comes from a family that loves long till late 90’s) and I sometimes feel ashamed to know that he is healthier than I am considering my age.

    We have 3 lovely children together and he is the best father you can imagine. He does more childcare than I do and I believe that my children have a better quality of life because of his involvement.

    He loves eating Nigerian food and he cooks and cleans especially when I am not feeling up to it. In fact, I never do the ironing. He cooks for the children and himself whenever he wants something different.
    My advice to you: grab him with both hands and pray for a change of mindset. There are plenty of your mates that will not hesitate to take him and move on swiftly with him.

    Don’t get carried away by his age and possible Heath issues in the future. You don’t know what tomorrow holds and like Stella rightly said, you may develop heath issues before he does...
    Be very wise with this matter!

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  40. Wonder what manner of ladies we have here......Those young girls seeking for advice here, well done!!!!!

    Look at what current mothers and future mothers are saying.

    My Dear if you can't deal with the age advice yourself. Don't mind these once ooo.... Nawa ooo!!!!!!!!

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  41. Lol@ drop his contact for someone else to try Stella o

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  42. Marry him if you love him , age is nothing but but just number

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  43. HEHEHE. MADAM IF YOU R HAPPY WITH HIM DEN MARRY HIM. YOLO

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  44. Stellllllllaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!!! this your red pen na die

    Hahahahahahahaha - ''let him go and drop his contact here for someone else to try''

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