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Thursday, January 25, 2018

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Side chick again?SMH!!!




STAND ALONE NARRATIVE...
SIDE CHICK BROUHAHA


I got married about a year ago, we are young couple and I am serious team snoop and my husband knows that, unless I am not interested in whatever the thing is, but if I am interested I will make sure I get to the root of it.

Myself and hubby are best of friends, so I know when he is up to no good.

I have the password to his phone and he know but we both pretend like we don't know.. Lol.

Of late he has been of good character, no sign of cheating or maybe he was smart about it, so I stopped snooping. Late last year he got a job that gets him so busy and keeps him out late at night, sometime they need to club cuz of the nature of his job. I noticed he got himself a new friend he is fond of, always talking a friend helped me to do this, a friend helped me to do that, a friend said this, haba who is this friend that you are not mentioning the name or gender (that got me suspicious). A particular night he went out for one of their appearance and came back 6am (who goes to club and comes back 6am).



 So I snooped and found out he left the club at 2:30am and asked the said friend who he has been calling baby and all sort of name to drive behind him to God knows where. From previous chats I noticed she has been the one throwing advances, like that night, she offered to meet him up where he is, from the chat I noticed my husband was avoiding her and she was complaining like, "I came out to meet you and you are ignoring me". I was broken, I was angry, I gave him attitude for days and he got the signal. 



Why I was broken is because this lady is far older than him, she should be either in her late 30s or early 40s and not married. She is someone I know and she knows me, she is not an old friend all these started like OCtober last year. Some days later I tried to check her page on Instagram I found out she had blocked me, but she still comments and likes my husband's pictures, 2weeks after my husband had another commitment and he came back 6am again, I called him when it was 6am and he picked, sounded like who just woke up and I got mad, I talked, as usual, he denied, but I am sure he is having an affair with this lady, I was surprised to see her in our church on Sunday, and she eyed me, lol... I looked at my husband he was restless.


Though I have forgiven him, but I am still broken and hurt, this said lady visited her friend and was discussing me, saying she will deal with me, unknowingly to her a friend of mine was there and she told me everything she said.


I don't how do I handle this, each time I remember this I am always angry.

I really want to let go of this, but I don't know how to.



*Babe you have no business calling out the side chick...Shame on your husband for not protecting you and putting you in harm's way.
Only God even knows what he has told her for her to be running her mouth.
The chats look like he doesnt want but my dear he does!
Settle this with your man and leave the side chick..no matter how much you fight her,it is only your man that can get rid of her.


76 comments:

  1. Blame your husband and tell him how he has hurt you. God heal your home.

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    1. Woman, your husband is a he dog, he goat, he pig . . . what else do you want me to call him?
      But let me tell you another truth, you have entered uncharted territory filled with landmines!
      These kind of ladies do not give up. She is older and unmarried; that's the combo.
      If you do not secure yourself in Christ and fast and pray for yourself and secondarily marriage,
      you may lose your life in the process via remote sensor; whether African or western or Eastern.

      I am a married woman writing you. It happened to me but in my own case, he came clean to me then; that
      if we did not fast and pray, he will be "pounding the lady in a matter of days etc." He had insight into that
      gully of temptation earlier; months before. When we were through with our fasts, the lady was avoiding him like
      a plague; she will see him coming into the company and she will drive through another exit route etc. Wonders shall
      never end. Same lady that was following him everywhere and bombarding his phone with reckless abandon?

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    2. I cried reading this because I’m going through the exact same thing, only mine is a relationship and not marriage.

      I just found out my boyfriend slept with a girl he works with. A girl who knew us together yet hunted him down recklessly. We even used to laugh about it because she will follow him everywhere and was prepared to literally die for him. I was there the day she told him she likes him, right in my presence. Only to find out she had been going to his home and his friends even knew her. I told myself if I ever confirm it I will never forgive him. This is someone who has been accusing me of infidelity as well but I blame myself too because I was too laid back.

      This is your HUSBAND. Silent treatment and malice will only push him into the arms of the other woman. You have to put up a united front and fight this witch back to hellfire. You can deal with your husband later. Go in your knees and pray because trust me she’s using supernatural forces on him. Block her back on your social media and report her as spam even. Log into your husband’s account and block her as well. Don’t give her the courtesy of being friendly. Ignore her because she doesn’t exist. I wish you all the best. I know how you feel because the pain I feel now is out of this world.

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    3. There's nothing more annoying and disgusting, than your significant other messing with someone you both know. I had an ex that did that, that's why he's an ex. He tried coming back severally but I don't do scum.

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    4. Married women sleep around more than single babes and will confirm with receipt. I work at CCTV monitoring unit in one of the 5star hotel and the kind of atrocity our eyes see with married women is scaring to shameful to share. Still wonder why some women marry if the can't stop runs? I saw my pastor wife entering one of our most random notorious client room and lost respect for All women, I confronted her and she begged that I should kill her instead of exposing her thought she was going to lie that she came to perform delivering service for the man before but even safe her she came clean if not how would a married woman stay in hotel Room with another married man for 4hrs? I stopped attending her church and didn't share it with a soul. I know she wont stop until she's been caught and disgrace so I pray she gets caught by her husband

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    5. Madam, you and your husband are best friends right, then talk to him. From your narrative it doesn’t sound like you’ve actually talked to him about this occurrence. Tell him what you found out, tell him what your friend said. Your marriage is still too young. Your husband should be careful before he brings on more than he can chew. God be with you guys, and sending you warm hugs.

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    6. Poster the problem is with your husband. Tie his manhood with prayer,wake up every 12mn and pray for him. Pray that God should separate them.

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    7. Women like that don’t give up. I have been married five years and my husband has a preference for older women. He is 38. He doesn’t collect money from them. Instead, they drain him financially. You have to be very smart about this. She has nothing to lose especially if she has no kids. I once called one of his mistresses bourbon this blog and that was when she finally left him alone. Your husband has not done well truly but for her to come to your church, she is determined. Find out some things about her. What is her source of income. That is what you target. Ruin her name there anonymously. What is she most afraid of. Use that anonymously. Most importantly, act blind, deaf and dumb but you must see and hear all. Learn to keep quiet about what you know and don’t fight your husband. There’s enough time to deal with him later.

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    8. AND my dear, he’s sleeping at her house already. All that clubbing late is story. I know because I go through it. The imaginary trips to Abuja. The supposed late night meetings that end at 5am. Start going out. Not every day o but you have to live for you. As in, really live. Work, grow yourself. Live to the fullest for you. It’s too easy to be so caught up in his shenanigans that you forget to grow yourself.

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  2. I'm so angry on your behalf,the fact that she's older is even more annoying like WTF.

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    1. Very disgusting. Is ds one side chick? Old hen like her. Discuss this with ur husband before it's gets any deeper

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    2. You still dey talk nonsense. Change am for your hubby, you can't handle this thing calmly, that's why they keep taking you for granted, let the woman know you are in control of your man, pick her calls in his presence, inshort anytime he wants to go for that kind of clubbing wear your own cloth and sit in front of the car.
      Tell your hubby you already know he is sleeping with her Cus you hired someone to watched them, let him know you are very disappointed but don't give him space.
      This woman has nothing to lose so don't disgrace her, face your hubby, also pray for your hubby Cus she may diabolic

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  3. Husbands and side chicks wahala. Me I Don put on my ignore button. I cannot come and go and kill myself biko.

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    1. Just talk to your husband, he alone brought this to you.

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  4. The worst thing that would happen to any married woman is when your husband starts dating an aunty gwe gwe gwe!...
    Those auntys no dey joke oh!..
    They would be fucking your man's dick and fighting you on top!...
    Poster,once a man start cheating,they would never stop!...
    Like I always advise,please go and knack pigeon on his head oh!...
    This aunty might even use him as a baby daddy cos they are very desperate to have a child since husband is not coming!...
    Is your husband a fine boy?...
    Hmmmm...
    I'm sure she is seeing you as a small girl that knows nothing!...

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    1. Hahahahhahahahshs.... Hahahaahhaha... I Don leave book wey I Dey read for this ur comment...hahahahaha

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    2. You are right o. They will form feminist and when old age come. They will colombi people husband. Mad old gewgs. Thunder will fire them soon

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    3. Hahahaha....Queen you are too much馃憤. @Poster, talk to your man, let him know that he is hurting you. The way men cheat this days is just something else, like is a normal thing to them.

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    4. Fuck you,it's not a laughing matter!,,,
      I'm talking from experience!...
      Same thing happend to me!..
      That was in my 4th year in marriage...
      I married early and you can imagine how naive I was!...
      Then,I was a Mugu!!...
      The aunty fought me ehheee,she would insult me and call me a small girl!..

      Thank God for pigeon!,,
      Saving marriages since 1900!..
      After I finished dealing with my husband and the aunty,she resigned from her job as a top banker and ran to Atlanta!...

      Someone sent me her pictures recently and she is now very old and weak!...
      Heard she has cancer..

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    5. Q&B cancer ke?
      Please go and deactivate that pigeon u knacked on her head o! E don work reach, she how wasted she's become.

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    6. I will like to know more about these pigeons u talk often about. Where do I go for enquiries. Am a hurting soul for love

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    7. Lol, where did you get your pigeon?

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    8. Queen's pigeon na juju serious otumokpo dat she renews every 6months lol.i knw cos I did same 2 my hubby.queen did I lie

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  5. So side chicken and wifey attends the same church what a wawu hahahahaha. Go and tell aposu that your husband side chicken is a member of the church. Which post the woman hold?

    Please deal with your horseband. See as you talk like person wey no go school. Come to Adeniran Ogunsanya or Bode Thomas on Friday night and see married men clubbing and staying till 6 a.m. Stop behaving like a timid girl. Next time follow horseband go clubbing.

    Abi you no like enjoyment? Una too complain too much.

    Since you know the side chicken, find out what your horseband sees in her and up your self.

    Goodluck. Linda will tell you to knack pigeon. You get heart?

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    1. Hahahahaha. Up her game kwa. The only game she need to up is her money power. Is obvious the old woman help him with his new job so the reason they hang out in clubs and f**k. What a waste?

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    2. Hahahahaha...
      My princess forget that thing!..Why would she be clubbing with her husband all the time?...
      Who would look after the home and children?..
      Do you know how draining it is the next day after clubbing?...
      It's good for couples to club atleast once in a month not all the time well except if your children are all grown like mine...
      With pigeon knacking,your husband can stay with one million hawt chicks and nothing go happen!..
      Instead,he would be telling them about my wife this,my wife that!!...

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    3. Are you even sure she wasn't the one that gave your husband this his new job?

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  6. A side hen! His sugar mummy, don't worry, except na jazz he'll get tired of her, Ur husband is giving her ammo, which kind job be that? Is he a hypeman?

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  7. the part that got me angry was the part that 'she eyed you"... mehn, some women have guts... if i type wetin dey my mind ehen! mshwwwww

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  8. Fighting the girl for what na, talk to your husband. The lady did not drag him to her place or wherever they met. There's always two options for everything, yes or no. He had the right to say no, but he didn't, he saw free yansh and decided to indulge a little. Let yik know that you're hurting, let him choose between his family's happiness and the side chick. Face him and not the lady, ignore her whenever you meet her and don't let her know how she's affecting you.

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  9. Ur husband is a dog...u got married just a year ago
    U have to talk to him and settle it..

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    1. Yeye community peni*$

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    2. Caught mine on his facebook chat he cheated on not even up to one year of our marriage. Men are dogs!

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    3. my dear!mine cheated 1 month after our wedding with his old hag ex girlfriend.men are just dogs,I feel so angry on the posters behalf because that exactly what I am going through in with husband only that he is cheating on me with his stupid ex who is 34 and I am just in my early twenties.

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    4. Men are dogs, men are dogs, yet una no go leave "dogs" alone.
      No be women they pursue dogs so?
      All of you girls that are married to these dogs, how many married dogs did you catch while you were single?
      It is time for you to reap what you planted and you are there chanting dogs dogs!

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  10. Women be blaming side chicks every time. Madam biko tame your wandering dick of a husband

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  11. In my opinion, the only people in a committed relationship here is you n your husband. This is all on your husband, he is the one that has brought disrespect on you. If this bothers you so much then ask him why he won’t respect you. And once you are done, pls get a little busier, it appears you have too much time on your hands Cos the brutal truth is that you are going to have many of these talks and Many chronicles will follow if you continue like this.

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  12. Why are men like this? Why do they always choose to put their family in danger? A marriage of just one year.
    Poster please leave the side chicken, karma will visit her very soon.
    Talk to your husband and above all go on your knees, take it to God. Tell God to scatter them.
    Guide your territory with prayers, it is well with you.
    Chai, marriage of today no be beans o.

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  13. Talk to your husband dear.

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  14. Woman, this person is more than a side chick.
    She seems agressive, and might be looking to settle.
    I don’t think she is gunning for something temporary ooh.
    Naturally, you should be the one giving her attitude, blocking her on social media,discussing her and ‘eyeing’ her... Strangely she is the one with so much guts.
    She has even encroached into the church you attend? Not good.
    The sooner your husband cuts all ties with her, the safer you are. The point is not forgiving him, there should be a stop to whatever he is doing.
    That lady might be desperate, and you know what they say about desperate women hanging on to married men. Hmmmm

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  15. Sorry poster
    U make a good plan wiv a fine male friend make sure he calls u regularly. Hangout too wiv friends.
    U know what makes it look real whereas it's all staged. Ur husband has to be jealous. Make an artificial competition for him and he had to fall hard for this prank. Make lovely hairstyles, polish ur nails do all that makes u at least appear happy. No more complaining from u, not even a word from your mouth. Take more ice cream, spoil yourself. Ignore him until he is really worried about ur attention drifting away from him. I am angry with ur husband cuz he just disrespected u. Imagine that second class material threatening​ to deal with u! Na from where that one dey come from? Ur husband is all shades of LEFT on this issue. Don't walk into the trap of him wanting to make u miserable cuz of an outsider. Totally ignore his bullshit and don't feed him with ur attention with respect to this issue. Since he wants to bring out d worst out of u so he can have solid reasons to behave so badly, go and make yourself happy and see him take proper dressing afterwards. Give him a stronger competition in turn, one must bow for the other. Meanwhile be gathering evidence of his extramarital affair, someday u might need to tender it.

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    1. Take more ice cream ?you want make she turn to orobo,make the man commot eyes from her ,she should look hot and classy ,go out often ,ignore him,the man will do 360 and receive sense.

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    2. Yes Anon17:05
      Eating ice cream helps tickle d brain and could help avoid depression. It makes you happy according to research.
      Well for the fat there's a way around it for the poster, just hit d gym. Gym workouts will also help the poster stay healthy physically and psychologically.
      In essence, have fun poster. IGNORE him

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    3. He works with the world brand tobacco in Nigeria. Reply let me give you the full gist in his cheating ways. Lolz

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  16. Dear poster is he working with NB?Guinness?or one of this drinks or cigarette brand reply lemme me spill

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    1. Yes he works with British American Tobacco

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    2. Please tell me what you know

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  17. Aunty....it seems u are scared of d woman...this one na old cargo and she's ready to drag ur man with u or have a child for him...i think u should be facing her squarely cos she's so bold..

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  18. Men!! Hmmm poster ur husband is chopping free pussy plus other benefits,Better pray for your marriage.
    This kind husband will pretend he is no longer seeing this lady & lie to you.
    You know how you can get your man back, just do your assignment & add prayer to it, just as Aunty Stella said, quit calling out the woman & focus on your man.
    Make she no turn your husband to baby daddy.

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  19. I think she just need baby from your husband. Just ignore her once she gets pregnant she will leave your husband alone. Just pray she gets it fast fast. So that your man can move to next side chick.

    #Yimu

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    1. Your stupidity left me in awe 馃槺馃槷馃槻馃樀

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    2. I think it's the virus in your head that left you in awe.
      #Mumu

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    3. You are the bigger MUMU. Just negodu the kinda advice you are giving her. I’m sure it is your type that run after people’s husbands hoping to trap him with a baby. Better change your ways before karma comes to destroy you. Awon gb贸’贸k贸 gb贸’贸k贸馃槖

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  20. Poster, are you sure of the accusations? But if you are, you really need to calm down and talk to him- there must be away you will address him that will make him to listen and change. Don't fight the lady involved. You can involve an elderly person you know he listens to.

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  21. this one she came to your church on Sunday are you sure she doesn't already have something against your husband that she's threatening to talk to his pastor about? and did you say she eyed you!!! Chai, you must be too soft for that to have happened. eye me ontop my property make you see how i go take kill you with the same eye, I will sooooo wash you from head to toe with my eyes, I will even employ my nose too to join in the game, me that knows how to carry nose up.
    Anyways, wake your hubby at night and tell him you know what's going on, let him know you're hurting. remind him you both have forever to go therefore it's too early yet to start feeling down and sad. I pray he listens.

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  22. Stella there's so much maturity and intelligence in your advise.馃憣馃憣馃憣

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  23. May fire from above fire any aunty gweg eyeing my husband or about to eye him. May fire from above destroy any strong hold they are planing to get to trap my husband. You better join me poster n pray this prayer. Bc truth be told that woman is so bold. This means she is not ordinary. She might be using juju . Be wise and pray . Devilish woman trying to destroy your home. Holy ghost fire. You better choose one . Either you visit a native doctor knack pigeon like some women do or you hold the almighty God tight. I will advice you stay wise n hold jehova over do. N watch that devil flee from your husband.

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    1. Please invite her to that your church program that's coming up on the 28th

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  24. madam, it's your husband you gats talk to, you don't have any business with the side hen

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  25. This type of ladies are so desperate and they would do anything to keep your husband especially if he's rich.Dear poster,for your peace of mind ignore them or go down on your knees and pray.

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  26. My hubby too cheat, even when I saw a chat on facebook with his friend on how he fucked a girl, he denied it, that is just a dirty men talk. I've forgiven him but cant forget it, now he doesnt answer some calls if am with him, i will just laugh. Presently am watching my weight seriously and is working, he thought am doing it for him, no, is to get a side boo this year. Let him continue with his cheating ways I don't check him anymore. Life has no duplicate abeg.

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  27. Poster pray for Ur marriage. Ur prayer point should be any soul tie between my husband and any strange woman scatter by fire,, say it always u will see power will change hand

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  28. Woman, your husband is a he dog, he goat, he pig . . . what else do you want me to call him?
    But let me tell you another truth, you have entered uncharted territory filled with landmines!
    These kind of ladies do not give up. She is older and unmarried; that's the combo.
    If you do not secure yourself in Christ and fast and pray for yourself and secondarily marriage,
    you may lose your life in the process via remote sensor; whether African or western or Eastern.

    I am a married woman writing you. It happened to me but in my own case, he came clean to me then; that
    if we did not fast and pray, he will be "pounding the lady in a matter of days etc." He had insight into that
    gully of temptation earlier; months before. When we were through with our fasts, the lady was avoiding him like
    a plague; she will see him coming into the company and she will drive through another exit route etc. Wonders shall
    never end. Same lady that was following him everywhere and bombarding his phone with reckless abandon?

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  29. What? Will you continue to run after him abeg do your part as a wife add prayers to spice it and find your inner peace so you have strength but the truth about the issue is that she was there before you and she thinks you collected her property

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  30. I was very happy when Pastor mention adultery in church Poster the next club night join him too shebi its work stuff lol

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  31. Poster......bone them (hubby and chick) and start behaving like you don't even care . dress well and go out and be keeping straight face, he's the one that will become confused as to what you are up to......
    Please, don't fight another lady because of a man oh.....

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  32. The side chick has guts curtesy your husband. Treat your hubby's fuck up and have him treat his side chick's. May God protect your marriage

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  33. This lady knows you, your life and marriage is at risk. Let your siblings know about it, they may help you fuck the woman up. The era of fighting side chick directly is over, use your relatives. Also, tell your husband to stop that relationship, if not, he will regret what he is doing. I hate side chicks with passion. The only reason my cousin's husband side chick is walking freely is because I am not in that country.

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  34. please Queen and boss stop misleading people here. knacking pigeon as she said is not ultimate. poster Jesus Christ is the answer. Thank you

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  35. The devil dont go where there is war but a place of a peace..
    dont fight ur husband but find a way to bring him more closer to ur side,,
    that lady is up to something to destroy,,na small small e dey start,,
    she dont need ur husband to sleep with her many times but just once and she will
    caged him and next she make him poor or hate you when you start to nagg to him,,and
    he will leave house and relocate to her,,such lady can even kill a wife in labour
    room,,becareful and dont nagg to ur husband but use wisdom to stop him now,
    alots of woman has make such mistakes by nagging out a man who has already caged by
    a side lady,,God help ur home

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    1. Eng. 101
      The devil DOESN'T
      A place of PEACE
      Bring him closer
      She DOESN'T need
      She will CAGE him
      Nag AT him
      Relocate to her's
      Such LADIES can
      BE CAREFUL
      DON'T NAG AT
      A LOT of WOMEN
      HAVE MADE such mistakes
      Who has already BEEN caged by

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    2. The devil DOESN'T
      A place of PEACE
      Bring him closer
      She DOESN'T need
      She will CAGE him
      Nag AT him
      Relocate to her's
      Such LADIES can
      BE CAREFUL
      DON'T NAG AT
      A LOT of WOMEN
      HAVE MADE such mistakes
      Who has already BEEN caged by

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  36. Why not report him to your pastor?. Not your mum or dad in-law as those ones may be sentimental. Let the pastor talk and also pray with him. I pray God touches his heart.
    I wonder why it's always the woman that has to fast and pray but if tables were turned he would have sent her out tipe tipe.

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  37. Abeg which one be Pigeon?

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