Please read and answer the questions....them don turn my blog to examination hall.LMAO!
''Please it's really important that's why I'm asking! I have been dating this guy for sometime now and he stays in the US, we've never met, but we're so close, we talk almost everyday on phone, I speak with his family, they send me stuffs and all that, that's how far and deep we've gone, now he's ready to take things further, like wants me to come to the USA for Vacation!
And I know a friend in the navy who can help and has told me the necessary documents he's suppose to send and he said fine, he'll send them before December ending! Now my worry is
1- I've never travelled out of Nigeria, though I do the normal local flight a lot. Will I be given a Visa, since I've never travelled international?
.......How we wan know weda dem go give you visa?we get winch?
2: Is 600k enough to tender as my statement of account at the embassy because that's what I've got in my account or I should get a sponsor? even though the invitation letter he's sending states that he will be responsible for everything about me during my stay in the USA.
.......600k as in naira?
3: I'm suppose to undergo a surgery in India for January, meaning I'll have a dubai pass and India visa, is that going to give me an edge at the embassy? ....NO
Please I really need to know, I'm looking forward to helpful comments and suggestions, I really do need a break! 9ja sef don tire me! nor be say I wan go marry get blue or green ''passport oo, I just need a break ... Naija don tire you so you wan jump from frying pan enter faya?
*Mscheewww!
Hian! Ife nka dikwa egwu.....
ReplyDeleteOh God! See as persin get 600K for acct wey me I no get shingbain! *crying seriously* life is so unfair!
DeleteGo n watch cat fish on MTV
DeleteChoi na wa o. Una dey vex o. Shooo make una help d poor gurl una come dey insult am on top am. Anty stella u sha
DeletePlease annon. No mention catfish show again o. I so hate that Dr phill he busted my runs with that stupid show, and my maye bailed Abeg o. The babe just dey joonze
DeleteOk make I dey wait for comments
ReplyDeleteAs it gotten so bad in Nigeria that most ladies a willing to be "mail order brides"? Because it worked for some people doesn't mean it would work for you. When you go , please do your research well, so you dont go there and start doing 3somes or getting abused... Anyway for your immigration questions, why not go to the embassy or go to their website to get the requirements... #my openion #
Delete*am out
@ Evie, you're a serious daft!
DeleteEves u r not juz daft buh stupid also
DeleteWhat is daft about the comment? A lot of low lifes live abroad as well and you won't know till you associate with someone in dat circle. ..I was so ignorant about the lowlifes here cis most of my friends are educated and living well until I started dating my baby...it opened my eyes to an entirely new side of living abroad. ..had it been I knew all these before I won't even have bothered going into the relationship but thank God I have a good job and the annoying thing is the family at home doesn't even understand what is going on here and kept asking for money. ..I don tire. ..and I've lived here for almost 2 decades. ..gurl research well before taking that step. ..it is a big one
DeleteIt's very simple, go to the embassy tomorrow. Ya questions shall be answered there...EEE!!!
ReplyDeleteStella, u funny die. LMAO
ReplyDeletei HAVE NEVER MET MINE TOO. AND WE ARE PLANNING TO GET MARRIED NEXT YEAR. I KNOW ALL HIS FAMILY AND THEY KNOW ME TOO..
ReplyDeleteHahahaha! I just can't stop laughing.
ReplyDeleteMy fellow SDKers,
ReplyDeleteMe sef I need advice!
Just recently I met dis guy on a blog,
E always pestering me, giving me signs dat e can't do witout me. #Winks!
Plz do u tink e loves me?
And d guy can quote scriptures #WipesSweat!
Do u tink he is a pastor?
Madam poster, concerning weda dey wld grant u visa!
I suggest we ask IFA, or better still see TB joshua.
@ if 600k wld be enuf, na sophia-sleek go fit ans dat 1 ooo, as dubai no be my public toilet.
@ u are nt lookin for blue or green card. Hehehe, u are a BLOODY LIAR, we aint babies! We understand #Winks
Pink shell, we av sumtin in common.
DeleteMy frd shut it. This ur own don too much. Attention seeker. Taa gbafo. Who cares. Metcheeewww!
DeletePhrinkles I cd av sworn dat was u @pink shell.....hmmmmm
Delete@ anon
DeleteU had beta tk it izy, don't gaan give ursef myocardial infarction oo, ontop my mata.
U don't care, but u dey comment. Hehehe!
@ abigail, are u indian? Cos of ur surname?
Plz am nt phrinkies ooo, abeg!
U ppl say phrinkies is sonia, 2day phrinkies is pink shell agen! Abeggo!
And y the hmmmn?
@ phrinkies, av u asked ur stalker d right question?
Pink shell u r a very big fool! People like u dnt end well. Hiding under ur phone with a fake name and commenting and insulting people is fun 4 u eh? If u get liver put up ur real picture on tha fake name of urs and let's take it 4m there. As 4 now, u r as Anon as any other person seeking 4 notice. Ashawo!!!
DeleteOh dear!
DeleteKen take am izy oo hehehe,
Ashawo, chai! Pinkshell u don suffer oo,
Ashawo! Its too bad, am a very proud person, too proud to be a prostitute #Smiles.
But ken, lemme tell u smthg, if in anyway u are d poster n u are offended abt wat I av sed, I apologize (its d oly civil tin to do)
And if u apen to be a celeb, n I av sed smthg offensive, biko e weriniwe oooh!
Plz don't eva take anytin I say on dis blog to hrt!
Abt d pic... It can neva apen, even in ur wildest dreams.Am the fairest of dem all. #KissesSelf!
Laffs outta post!
Chai! Dis blog.
Fool! Pride goes b4 a fall...better watch ur back. U might not as anon/pink shell as u think. Isn't it IT? Ur Email am sure is open on tha phone of urs u r using 2 talk on this blog as pinkFOOL. Cow!!
DeleteLaffing out loud!
DeleteGrabs ken, n kisses her cheeks!
I love u dear, n I know u love me too!
Laffs harder @ pink fool, fool sef don dey get colour?
Babe u no go fit see my picture oo, but u cld still try sha! U mite be lucky, Its gonna tk a lot of hardwork n dedication.
I must mean so much u, for u to wanna go tru all dese troble.
Sweethrt if I don't reply u, after dis comment it wld be cos, d post is full.
Till den, ask jesus to heal dis ur disease called bitterness!
I LOVE U STILL #Smiles!
Local gul! We all know u!
DeleteThis babe,u are taking a serious risk o,u don't know someone so well and u are venturing into his territory dat is unknown to u at that,what happens to him coming down home for u since its d first meeting?
ReplyDeleteE be like say naija don tire u and u wan escape abi? cos u sound more desperate to leave than return*rme*
As for all questions,u will get d answers when u get to thee embassy,be patient kk.
Best of luck
Queen Bee...........BOBOLA
DeleteAll of dis na rubbish talk!abeg make una park well!including aunty stella!!!
ReplyDeleteOrisirisi!
ReplyDeleteDo you live under a rock? As in you have no family or friends you can ask these JAMB questions?
If yes, you have access to SDKB and you have been communicating and receiving gifts from Americanas, so you must have heard of google before. What do you think it's for?
Can you send this rubbish to LL, LI or even the smaller fries? You want to také Stella's generousity for stupidity? Or you are using style to announce your travelling to US?
Go and buy several seats and také them!
Asin the kind of dumb mails Stella posts sometimes ehn i dont understand...what kind of questions is this girl asking though?anyway let me be nice and answer her Yes you can wait till you go to India and Dubia before applying for united States visa as it will give you a very good advantage ,the money is way too small..okbye my 2cents
DeleteYou should get the visa if your invite is above board;or should I say credible? Anyhoo,Pls what's 'Hian'? It comes across as a dismissal to far fetched claims.what does it mean?
ReplyDeleteIt's like saying "ogiemwin
DeleteHian! You sef! You be Oyinbo ni abi you just land?(Dont ask for the meaning of "ni' abeg). Na every local parlance you no dey know?
DeleteOkay o. Hian, uttered as written, is a sign of exasperation.
Get a book for all these expressions and use them regularly to get a hang of them. S'ogbo?(Dont ask abeg)
LoL! "Hian" is a local igbo exclamation lik "na wa o"............hope u understand.
DeleteIts a form of exclamation,sometimes sarcastic but its used when you're at a loss for words or when whatever u heard sounds unbelievable....
DeleteI really look forward to your comment,memphis' and Julit's comment
I miss aboki na mallam's comments too!
Lol... this babe u be fish I swear.. baba weray ni e, Unno get boifrnd oh na pen pal u get...............
ReplyDeleteAbeg make una answer am o,me sef dey try get uk visa on virgin passport.
ReplyDeleteojukokoro!!! u no see janded 9ja guys u wan go overseas.... mydear hope say u get brain 2 read nursing, datz wat all dis 9ja men in the us use their wives for... if nt u ll be waste of investment my cusin is suffering it 2day, she failed to listen nd now she dey cry everyday.. double thik well if its ur destiny 2 cme 2 america u ll go dnt follow backyard
ReplyDeleteWhat is dis one saying*yimu*...see questions....I dey come make I consult oracle 4 u
ReplyDeleteYour story get K leg. U vnt met him before but y not invite him to Nigeria to c you ist, atleast to lessen d embarrasement incase u get disappointed wen u meet him or are you sure he is completely wot you think. After all if things works out, u can still travel to US to meet him. As for me I no fit travel go cotonu to meet a man I vnt met before provided it concerns relationship even if u pay millions, my 2cents.
ReplyDeleteU r very sensible
DeleteStella,abeg give us better gists,an amaka-esque gist,not all these silly mails people send to u jor
ReplyDeleteSDK.. U da sigh abi? After u don post this thing.. Simple questions she fit ask google or even go embassy herself make enquiries.. Mtschew.. Naija don tire u.. Oya go cotonou.. U no wan go marry for visa? Who u da decieve.. Finally sha.. Na ur cross carry am..
ReplyDeletein cases like this, you have to do your homework really really well. Make sure the guy is who he says he really is.
ReplyDeleteStella why are you harsh to the girl already?. If you didnt like the mail then you shouldnt have put it up! You are soo rude!
ReplyDeleteOoh i forgot,you are setting the tone for your voltronic anger filled visitors to finish her. Goodluck to you and dem.
Silk.
stella tell them ooooo...everybdy thinks america is the happening place........until they come here and live a life of debts...painting a second life of luxury to their friends still in nigeria.....honestly speaking..the future is in nigeria....america is the past......
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for this comment.When you make mony in Nigeria, the American embassy fidgets when they see you . Work hard, put God first, and at the end if the day, u can be given visa even without a dime in ur acct.If u ve doubts, dont go yet.No country wants a liability, they want pple who'll help thier economy...even America.
DeleteHa ha ha... is this person serious! Stella answered u well.
ReplyDeleteHahaha! Stella is hilarious
ReplyDeleteWonders on end. You just want fame on SDK's blog right? You had it. Congrats. You don't have family or friends to direct this question to, or read instructions that will guide you in applying for a US visa, abi? Seems you're ready to be cussed out and I don't pity people like you. OYO
ReplyDeleteMemphis, it seems u've bin stalkin me lately d way Don davido is stalkin Pink Shell. How did u know dat am frm Ogun state and a Muslim?? Oya ans nw nw....
Delete*whistling and passing by*
DeletePhrinkies abeg no flog me o. Na from Idel Kabir post I knew you as a muslim, shey ogbo? And you're always on about "my state, ogun state, ogun girls". Hehehe
DeleteYo Stella, that was rude but she had it coming!!! I'm loving this blog, my friend in Nigeria is a regular visitor, she told my about this blog, i'm in Nigeria for a vacation and i'm loving it..... Yo asses are damn funny and annoying .... I'm learning to speak pidgin, been here 1 month though :)
ReplyDeleteTaa!! U wey I see for Mile 1 market yesterday. U wan make we open ya nyash here abi?. Welcome to dis blog babe
Deleteyou didn't tell us if you guys share pictures too. but come o, what is his status in the USA, and what does he do. why can't he visit you in Nigeria so that you guys can see and then take the relationship to another level, and if things work out fine, you can do court wedding while he files papers for you to come over. be careful my dear, shine ur eyes, not all that glitters is gold. just my thot anyway, goodluck
ReplyDeleteU r so dumb, going to usa to see someone u ve nt met be4, all in d name of dating. Is dat wat is important naw, wen u ve a surgical operation by january. Can't he come to nigeria? Mschew
ReplyDeleteAnd why will u say she s dumb? Foolish people like u come on blogs and insult people who are better and learned than ur parent, mschew oponu like u
DeleteAbeg i just travel come back; who get iPhone charger?
ReplyDeleteLmfao you're a clown Allah!
DeleteAbeg i just travel come back; who get iPhone charger?
ReplyDeleteTHE. BACHELOR!
4 abi 5s?
DeleteStella I love you... No homo! May God continue to bless and uphold you for me. And to the blog visitor go to the embassy's website, u'll get all the info u need there. Nothing can guarantee you visa, even if u av 6m$ in ur acct, still doesn't mean u'll get it. Do your part by providing everything that is required of you en ask God for favour. Granting u a visa is at the discretion of the immigration officer not what's on ur paper. Sometimes they don't even check properly. All the best. Xoxoxo
ReplyDeleteShe nids t go t God in prayer 1st of all n let Him direct her path.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, you want to go to Morica(in Baba Suwe's voice ) to see/meet a stranger whom you have never met, you also mentioned you speak to his family so technically you are O.Y.O!
ReplyDeleteIn this time and age where you find couples renting people to stand in as their parents on wedding day and a few months after? It called keeping up appearances dear,anybody can claim to be anything,so you got to be careful. You sound too trusting and good at heart and I would hate for you to fall into the hands of a fraudster.
Boys are not smiling at this period o, spam emails from "royal princes, president of world bank, lawyers and heirs to Million,billion,zillion pounds, euro,dollars" have tripled over the past couple of weeks.
Holiday season is here so be extra careful.
You see all these "rhetorical " questions wey you dey ask Stella, nobody go fit give you answer. Even google if you ask am,e go ask you question in return " Did you mean....?" you know those kind question wey no dey get answer, ehn na im you dey ask.
Wetin me I sha know be say your safety is paramount to me even though I don't know you as a person. Be very careful o, na the moni wey I get na im I borrow you so o!
God's speed with your OP in India when you got for it. Take care!
Word! Word! Best..poster pls read this
DeleteNice one
Delete1million likes
DeleteZillion likes
DeleteJamb question!!
ReplyDeleteGo and come back with HPV,genital ulcers and sore throat and strt whining about commiting suicide.
All u just listed will come to u and ur family in folds and even much more, fool, instead of u to give d poster an advice or just shut ur stinking guts, u are here forming blog diva when ur mates and doing better things, oloshi
DeleteNonsense!
ReplyDelete600k naira should be enough if u are only going with a visiting visa... u probably need to tell them you are gooing for 2 - 4 weeks... since you have a sponsor.
ReplyDeleteStella, am sure you and I know that this lady is living in cloud- cuckoo- land. If her imaginary boyfriend will 'sponsor' her he will take care of her. In other words, she will not be a liability to the tax payers and for that, the foreign office shouldn't bother how much she has in her semi -empty account.
ReplyDeleteWho be Linjoe? Anybody?
ReplyDeleteshe owns a boutique in port hacourt. Shikena!
DeleteAnd a supermarket....Aba road beside Louis House
DeleteLol, your story reminds me of when I first got to UK. I had been in a relationship with a guy I met online, we used to chat, call each other , call his family etc but never met him or any of his family. Fast forward I came to UK to study( my parents sent me o, not a dime from him) chose UK cos of him but this guy turned out to be a leech. Totally different from everything I pictured him to be, in fact the first night I met him he recounted all his ancestral financial woes and how he would want me to borrow him about 7,000 pounds so he could pay off his school debt. Turns out he was a student and was living with his twin brother who was already established so everything he claimed to have was a ruse, nothing to his name. Not only that faked a terrible British accent, was local and was always trying to force himself to feel among. I felt so sorry for him and once I managed to find my way around, I dumped him after 2weeks o. I couldn't help it. Diss appointment was an understatement, I was stupid to have believed his concocted lies over the phone and online. When I broke up with him, this guy fought me like a woman o, see yabis LOL . He spared me nothing, texts, calls,emails of yabis, no fit laugh jare. He even went as far as adding one of my exes,my friends on facebook trying to be friends with them and some did fall for him including my ex. Non of my businesss, dropped them immediately like a bad habit once I found out.
ReplyDeletePoster, I shared my story with you not for fun but to let you know anything can glitter but it doesn't mean it's gold o. Be careful.
With this story of yours. @poster, he who have ears let them hear!
DeleteSince na Naija I still dey, I go just pass
ReplyDeleteHow is she jumping from frying pan into fire? When you make statements be clear what you mean......nothing wrong in you going to check out the guy and what America is like.....one thing I will tell you for free is it's not easy to know anyone well in a long distance relationship but that is not to say it cannot work......so when you go don't get in to bed quickly......ask the right questions, look well then try and find people who might know him so you can get gist about him.......as for visa they just want to be sure you have enough funds for your trip and that when you go you will come back.....nobody can guarantee you if the will give you visa.....just be confident, answer questions sincerely and don't say more than you are asked......as for the guy ask him questions about if he has a child n what he does.....use ur sense to know if he is lying or not but above all if you are a Christian take time to pray and fast so God will reveal more to you....also get people to pray with you about him, trust me I know people God have saved from marrying wicked many revelation......na am own be that
ReplyDeleteGod bless u for this comment jare, seems u are the only one with a functioning brain today, even stella just dey misyarn today
DeleteAm amazed! You said when she goes she should not jump into bed immediately, sweetie she is going to an unfamiliar territory! She is going to be at the mercy of her host and this can go either ways! It's like you are almost vouching for this stranger to be a gentleman. My dear, it's like going to the den of a lion and expecting the lion to conform to your dictates! If it does then Thank God but if not then .... what I know is take the trip at your own risk.
DeleteYou told her to look for people who might know her boyfriend and ask them question. ... you forgot that she willbe at the mmercy of her boyfrien. ..he will take her to his ffriends who will only say good thing about him...and he can live a fake life for a month or so. It is easier for the boyfriend to come see her the first time if he is living legally in usa if he is not... oh girl run for your life cos you go wait tire...no talk say I no tell you ooo. And you are even sponsoring yoursel. Na wa
DeleteWorst post ever! Sdkblog is not embassy abeg......
ReplyDeleteU ave never travel out bfor, everything get first time abeg.
Na only u wan combines India visa and Dubai kpale take get America visa. Abeg dis post dey real provoke me.
Take a chill pill!
Delete??????????..mtcheew.
ReplyDeleteUnserious somebody....dont waste space joor.
ReplyDelete..Irrelevant questions!what u shuld be concern about is life with him in the U.S..he might be a sadist or a bad guy.its not normal for the family to be nice to u in dis type of a relationship.they re nice bcos they know who he is.try to know his past relationship n stuffs#sipsMoetnChandon#
ReplyDeletePls stop using Joe's picture! Bloody idiot
DeleteYour best comment ever. It's like this ur non-existent Moet don dey give u sense.
DeleteNawa o. See questions. Which one cum b our own 4 dis u̶̲̥̅̊я mata?
ReplyDeleteNawa o. See questions. Which one cum b our own 4 dis u̶̲̥̅̊я mata?
ReplyDeleteHiss. Ewu hausa...see as I dey awake dey find better gist na in u come carry ur bad belle come block stella so tey she read ur nonsense finish come forget better gist wey she suppose put. If u rish the embassy u go no weda dey go give u or not. Before that time, no come here try dis nansense again.
ReplyDeleteLol. Sterra! U sef!!! U no well oh! D side comments yuh were putting ghan md mi laff. Oh well, 600k in naira is too small to declare oh, u wd need a sponsor. We cnt tell if u wd b granted visa or not,but lets hope u will. More importantly, hope u av relatives or other close frnds in the US oh? Jus incase things go bad, so u don't get stranded. People are often vry diff in real life dan wen d relationship is on phone and there is little provision for misunderstandings
ReplyDeleteLol. Sterra! U sef!!! U no well oh! D side comments yuh were putting ghan md mi laff. Oh well, 600k in naira is too small to declare oh, u wd need a sponsor. We cnt tell if u wd b granted visa or not,but lets hope u will. More importantly, hope u av relatives or other close frnds in the US oh? Jus incase things go bad, so u don't get stranded. People are often vry diff in real life dan wen d relationship is on phone and there is little provision for misunderstandings
ReplyDeleteLol. Sterra! U sef!!! U no well oh! D side comments yuh were putting ghan md mi laff. Oh well, 600k in naira is too small to declare oh, u wd need a sponsor. We cnt tell if u wd b granted visa or not,but lets hope u will. More importantly, hope u av relatives or other close frnds in the US oh? Jus incase things go bad, so u don't get stranded. People are often vry diff in real life dan wen d relationship is on phone and there is little provision for misunderstandings
ReplyDeleteHmmmmnnnn........
ReplyDeleteWell I got my visa in August and my passport was virgin.... I didn't spend more than 2mins in front of the consular and dey didn't check any paper... well it was also in Abuja... but there is nothing God can't do..
ReplyDeleteQuestion101. Well my dear, with every country and procuring their visas, each applicant is treated by their individual merits and demerits. That you have stamped entry visas from other countries is not a criteria for consideration by any embassy. Also, it is an open secret however, that embassies and clearing officers have a bias for people who have never travelled before. The bias is such that they scrutinized the authenticity of ur mission to travel, and whether you are financially capable to cater for yourself whilst visiting their countries. And of cos they will scrutinize to know whether you have a means of livelihood in ur country to be sure that u won't reside illegally or permanently in their own country because you havw nothing doing in your own. Some would specifically ask your family background etc...to ensure you don't have a reason to elope.
ReplyDeleteAll these are basis for refusal if u dint sound convincing...even at that some smart Nigerians beat them to the task. More important is the financial aspect. Whether you'll be sponsored or otherwise, you should have a reasonable amount of money to qualify for a visa. Please note that if you present them with a bogus statement of account..they'll verify and they'll refuse you instantly. But my advice to u is this..do not be solely reliant on this guy just yet.. because you do not know him. Make sure that you travel with enough money to last you because anything can go wrong. So that you won't be at his mercy or get stranded as a JJC in the U.S.
Be as truthful as you can at the embassy, don't be too enthusiastic, don't appear desperate. Be mildly non chalet as though it won't mean a thing even if u are refused. Give then the impression that you are very happy and comfortable in Nigeria, but that u just want to go to the U.S only out of curiosity and to shop. Trust me they feel the vibes wihen you down play them methodically. Am not asking u to boast or be arrogant ooo...just be calm and indifferent. Best of luck .
U r an intelligent woman!
DeleteI really like u! #nohomo
Eh thanks Rough diamond. I follow ur comments with keen interest. Lol. Of cos NO homo..lol
DeleteHahahahahahahahahha.. Stella you no be better person. At least build the girl confidence small. My dear all the best o!
ReplyDeletehow are you so sure she is inside frypan sef? na advice she find come ur blog not you making a mockery of her! aunty stella respect yasef
ReplyDeleteLol
ReplyDeleteStella u harsh o
@poster just be positive
God help U.
First of all. Getting an American visa is jst God's grace. U can have so much money in ur account and still be denied and vice versa.
ReplyDeleteGood luck
When we do things for the wrong reasons it never works. My question for you is why has he not come to visit you? And I hope you knowing with a visiting visa you are not entitled to more than six months stay abi you wan start wrong foundation. Sdk of is 600000 naira not dollars how??? Dear poster go online and find more information not on Sdk
ReplyDeleteAdonbelivit!!!
ReplyDeleteWhat kinda questions are these?
Is Stella a travel agent?
*that_Edo_babe!
Dont let Wide eyed come and ask for the meaning of "Adonbelivit" o
DeleteBabe go to www.nairaland.com/travel you will see answers to all your questions there. As for the others no comment!
ReplyDeletelet m start with my ''HI'' as usual
ReplyDeleteHi
Hi
@Galore
I just like dis gey!
DeleteShe too get respect!
She greeted aunty 3 times 2day.
Rummages thru bag, finds chewing gum, uses mout to bite off 3 quarter, n gives galore one quater.
Good gey, oya run along.
Galore, plz continue lik dis oo, it can win u a national award,
alright.....Let me go back to sleep
ReplyDeleteI came out to ''ease'' myself
I flushed my Wc
Now...let me go back to sleep
##SNoring##
@Galore
This is really dicey. Considering you've never met this guy before, I'll think really hard before embarking on this trip.
ReplyDeleteAs per giving you Visa, they will if you present genuine evidence to show that you have a good job/landed property and that you are not planning to run away. N600,000 balance deposit is adequate, all they need is an evidence to show that the account is genuine and that there is an inflow/outflow of cash over a period of at least 6 months. Evidence of Visa from EU countries may count as advantage, not Africa, or Dubai or India. As for your story of Naija don tire you, I wish people living oversea can share their experience and be truthful about it. If you get in and you overstay your Visa, you will never be able to come back home until you get your papers. I know people that have been living in EU countries for over 15 years and they still don't have their papers till date; if you make attempt to return to your country after overstaying, you can not go back again. You get banned for at least 10-15 years. So, it's a GREAT risk, a gamble. Think about it very well. Best of luck.
ReplyDeleteyes you will be given a visa. Go through a good agency as per visa processing agency. As long as you are going for a vacation. You may need more than 600k naira though but im not sure. When i left for Canada in January 2011, my guarantor/sponsor cos i was a minor then as per less than 18 needed to have about 850k naira but i dont know about the U.S.
ReplyDeleteThread carefully, you dont know who is who. No matter how close you guys are be cautious.
You are wicked Stella...
ReplyDeleteNa so dem dey give advice?
Heheheh
This is how women end up trafficked in foreign land. You don't know where you are going, you don't have one local contact to assist you in case your romance goes wrong, yet you want to carry your sick self instead of going for treatment to india as you planned to go meet somebody you don't know. If he loved you liked that he would have arranged for you to have your surgery in the states while visiting and not have you coming all the way here just to return to lower standards of healthcare in india.
ReplyDeleteI will sit this one out, I don't know a thing about travels(flight) both local or international ,I've never been on a plane b4, Infact I even have a fear about thhe 1st time I will have to book a flight and board a plane, I think I will make a total fool of myself that day, 2ndly I have this great fear for flying already thanks to Naija Airlines, so I already know I would spend the whole time praying and sweating from anxiety *whew* Sorry I wasn't helpful at all, hopefully blogvistors will be more helpful than I and SDK.
ReplyDeleteMy dear,take the leap. How wud u know d answer to all these questions if u don't go n see him?
ReplyDeleteeeem eeem
DeleteOne person say she see u and ''N.O'' for Phc hotel,,,u dey cruise wt One Politician
Na here i read am oo.
For previous posts
Na you?
Or na beef? She dey beef u?
@Galore
All I can tell you is that when u get that visa, make sure you have enough money on you in case things don't go as planned in the US. A.k.a the guy doesn't show up to pick you up or you find out he works in McDonalds and deh struggle sef pass you. Btw, you didn't state anywhere that he was going to buy ur ticket. I hope you are not the person sponsoring this trip cuz if you are, it already sounds like bad news. Goodluck tho'
ReplyDeleteHehehehe..stella has answered you already..I don't think you will need our comments... But why you no ask your boyfriend for america all this questions???..I hope ur family members are also aware of your travelling arrangments!!..going to a foreign land to meet a complete stranger isn't really a good idea..just be careful sha,
ReplyDeletePls there is nothing wrong in going for vacation,some people are already saying if u stay more than six months blah blah blah.... She said she just wanna visit and not live there... Go thru a good agency,they will help u out with everything..... Go with enough money took if the guy turns out to he what u don't expect locate an affordable hotel and pay,there are lots of affordable hotels... Pay for the extra days u wanna stay and head to the airport when u are done....
ReplyDelete1. Think well! U know d guy? D fact dt u peak everyday no mean say e be gud man ooo.
ReplyDelete2. Get plenty money to avoid being stranded oo. Pple dere uy might be playin u.
3. Don't b too desperate to live naija; believe me dis country as bad as we think. When ppl dere complain ehn....hmmnnn
Sum people's comments are way too harsh, to the poster, go to the embassy, ask. Then, on the 2nd tot, pls do nt go. Let him come. my fiance is in PHC, our first meeting, he came to Ogun state. Let him do it. Nt yhu. Yhu neva can tell.... Pictures arent enuf to say it all...... Gud luck.. #TEEMAH
ReplyDeleteM soo shocked at how gullible some peeps are!travelling to another continent to meet a total stranger!oga o!i just can't get it! As for d Embassy part, ur interviewer wil take take one hard look at u and know u are an oschisco!
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ReplyDeleteSerious risk! Very serious risk. Ever heard of sex trafficking? A friend of mine was almost "sex trafficked" by a sweet talking RELATIVE who payed her bills to Europe, this one get family relationship o....in your own case NO FAMILY relationship.
ReplyDeleteBe careful! Remember all the oyibo girls who had boy friends they loved up via telephone during the height of 419 and Yahoo Yahoo era? Some came to Naija and told a totally different story after they were ripped off, meanwhile these chicks also spoke with the yahoo yahoo boys "friends" and "family"
Girl shine your eyes. He should make the trip first if he really wants to see you.DONT TAKE THE RISK. Remember Cynthia.
Thanks a lot for the spiteful comments, helpful comments etc! Those that wish their enemy STD, I'm not a shallow brain like you to just spread legs ... at the same time I think I got answers to my questions.... thanks a lot
ReplyDeleteSinging: "I sorry sorry o". I just wonder how some girls reason a times. If he wants you that bad,let him make it possible for you to come over without you spending a dim! Not the other way round. Hian! Are u a learner? That's the only way me I'll be sure he's serious and means well too.
ReplyDeleteSinging: "I sorry sorry o". I just wonder how some girls reason a times. If he wants you that bad,let him make it possible for you to come over without you spending a dim! Not the other way round. Hian! Are u a learner? That's the only way me I'll be sure he's serious and means well too.
ReplyDeleteMy dear, don't go. This isn't bad belle, but I use God beg you. Let him come over, when a man goes thru some little discomfort to get you, there's a little respect. It is risky too, very risky. Even in Nigeria, people harm people not to talk of a foreign land you don't know....if travelling dey hungry u, arrange with ur friends and go to Ghana or Morocco, very nice countries and have fun, spend less. You are a woman, don't carry urself and dash to one man whom you have never met. It isn't worth it please. Think about your safety first!
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good luck but beware of pregnancy. If he no marry u again, your own don finish
ReplyDeleteIts not safe for you to go,
ReplyDeleteIts unfamiliar territory-you don't know him-you have never met him and you want to travel thousands of miles to go on vacation with him? Girl- you are taking a huge huge risk. Why not ask him to come to Nigeria first-meet him in Nigeria on familiar grounds? These are very trying times for people in America and men have gotten very desperate.
Please don't plan to go and meet a total stranger. All that glitters is not gold. Please be warned.
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