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Wednesday, January 22, 2014

God Turns Mistakes Into Miracles......Blog Visitor Ifeoma Story.





He is the God who makes water to flow in the desert. He turns a fruitful field into a forest. He is the one who brings out water from rocks and for Him, impossible is nothing. Stella! Stella! I write this in tears!! I have been meaning to send this post to you for days now but the responsibility of catering for a newly born weighed me, and I only just got the chance. She was born on thursday last week, Jan 16th 2014. My pride. My joy. My princess. Chikaima Bella Elebe.



When I found out I was pregnant in mid-may 2013, I was broken into pieces. It wasn't planned. My then boyfriend was going through a rough patch, he had too many

responsibilities. I didn't think he would stay. We had only been together for four months. 



Blissful four months. But I thought about all the financial constraints. I thought about my family. I said my parents would kill me. I thought about school. How would people react when they found out that the Vice President of Mass Communication Dept was pregnant, while still un-married?

 It wasn't the life I planned for. And at 22, I wasn't ready for a child. But I knew that abortion wasn't an option; couldn't correct one mistake with another mistake. I had two options, either my boyfriend stick it out with me or I go and register for care with an orphanage. Giving birth in my parents house was also not an option.



So I went to visit my boyfriend and told him I was pregnant; three weeks gone. I broke down and wept and wailed. He said he would stay. That he wasn't going nowhere. He said whatever disgrace,shame or sorrow that would come, that we would go through it together. 






We didn't know the first thing to do,but we knew that we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. So I went back to school and prayed and prayed, that God would turn my mistake into a miracle.


First trimester was horrible cause of all the physical and emotional changes. After my exams in july, I came back to lagos and he proposed to me. I told my parents I was three months pregnant. Dad was so disappointed. Mum was more than distraught.



 How money started coming in, Stella! I don't know! His office just started sending him out on different trainings and the re-imbursements were huge. We did our introduction in August, traditional rites in September and wedding on October 18,2013






I had initially made a list of all the baby things I needed and shared out to my friends, each having one thing or the other to provide. I eventually didn't need any dime from anyone. I went baby shopping in september with my mom and bought the best baby things lagos had to offer. I needed to move out of the Catholic hostel I was staying at. Money rolled in and I was able to get a flat in town and even furnished it well!


Its amazing Stella! How God works! I am yet to get over His goodness. I really hope you post this mail because I know it would speak to someone out there. God is still God. He is faithful even in our unfaithfulness. He rights wrongs. Everything has worked out for my good. ASUU strike favoured me immensely, because I was home from the beginning of my second trimester till now that I have put to birth. And pregnancy practically glowed on me.


The best part? I asked God for a short and safe delivery; I gave birth after only four hours of labour. It's easy to say 'only four hours' now! In that room, those four hours felt like eternity. But when I realized that many women who were there before me were still there when I left,I knew that four hours was indeed 'only'.  Kaima is such a beautiful baby Stel, even if I say so myself. When I got cleaned up and asked to see her, she was smiling! 



How does a newly born know how to smile? She smiles a lot Stel! And everything I asked her to be, she is just that. I prayed she took her dad's nose, brows, lashes and height; she did! She then combined that perfectly with my lovely fingernails, my complexion, eyes, smile and shape of face.


Stella oh! Please post this! Every mistake can be turned into a blessing! I hope my fellow SDKers join me in thanking God for His goodness and I sincerely pray that those praying for the fruit of the womb would have their heart desires and that those who are pregnant at the moment would have short and safe delivery. We would hear the cry of the baby and the laughter of the mother.


Please find attached, a picture of me when I was 8months gone; glowing and all! Pictures of the baby and of my hubby and I as well. My name is Ifeoma. 


Mwahhhh!


8 MONTHS PREGGY...WOW


I HAD TO SMILE WITH THE BABY HERE



*Congrats Ifeoma,your baby is so lovely!
Thank God for your safe delivery,i join in blessing God.may your miracle be permanent in Jesus
name!



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  1. Thank God for ur safe delivery

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    1. Prayer is d key..... thank God for u ifeoma say me well to ur family tell stel I love d way she smiles.

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    2. God bless your family indeed.

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    3. congratulations and may God keep you and your baby,Amen

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    4. Congratulations on d birth of ur baby, God's blessings on u n urs

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  2. Waoh! God is great indeed. and no, it isn't a cliché. Congrats girl! May my miracle also come to fruition in Jesus name. Though married and 6mths gone with our 1st child, things haven't been easy for my husband. He really needs to breakthrough financially.I just got encouraged. May I also come back to this blog to testify IJN.

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    1. Amen! By His Grace, there will be amazing testimonies this year.
      Congrats Poster! I am so happy to rejoice with you. May God continue to bless you and your lovely family, Amen.

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  3. my dear am so happy for you i wish i kept my,this won't have been different now.
    May God keep you and your new family in good health. You have a golden heart.

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  4. Congrats melvin!!!

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  5. I cried! my son is coming to marry her. she's gorgeous. we get money o Ify beibe!

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    1. I cried too! Her story is so touching and Kaima is so beautiful! May God keep blessing you and your family Ifeoma.

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  6. U are very lucky o! Me I didn't know who d father was so I aborted it/ them. God please forgive me.

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    1. LOL.Naija gurls, u gurls never seize to amaze me.
      Congrats Ify, ur baby is a beauti to behold.

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  7. Amen! And amen! Stella! Its such a sweet feeling seeing my mail up! Yayyy!!!!!

    Ifeoma

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    1. Awwww! Ur hubby Chidi is an old friend. So happy for u.

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    2. Congrats darling, u are a strong woman and a woman of Faith. God bless you and ur lovely family.

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    3. Babe congrats. From ur story n pix, i can see u are a Zikite(unizik). Wishin u the best in marriage n grace to stay together.

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    4. Congrats Ify! Didn't know u had offloaded.... So nice. Chidi is a neighbor. I'll ring him straight away

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    5. Congrats dear. God bless u and ur family, may she bring blessings always. I tap into this blessing and miracle from God. I will testify to God's wonders very soon

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  8. Simply Lovely! Kisses to dat smiling cute soul!

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  9. Nne Congratulations. Kaima is a cutie. May she bring more success, joy and love to your family. Glory be to God.

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  10. Wooooooooow! Such a cute story,cute baby,cute couple! May God who has blessed you with this bundle of joy provide the means,strength and wisdom that you would raise her in Him to bring glory to God and your family! Congrats Dearie,I heartily rejoice with you.

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    1. This moved me so much. I am happy for you. God said in His word that He will have mercy on whom He will have mercy and have compassion on whom He will have compassion. This is God's grace and mercy at work. May God bless ur home and make you a wonderful mother and wife.

      Now, God who did this may your name be praised. Remember me in this very trying period of my life. I know you have a plan for my life, I know my story has been written by you. I only ask that in your infinite mercy, bring to pass SPEEDILY all that you have in stock for me. My strength is gone! Totally gone. This shame is too much. Put a smile on my face. Answer my prayers! Have mercy on me. Turn my mistakes into miracle. I will testify Lord! I will testify. I will be forever grateful.
      Pls mothers out there and all that desire good things, Help me raise your voice to God for mercy and speedy answers to prayers. I know He will answer me. Amen.

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    2. Amen and Amen and Amen to your prayers darln!! He will surely surprise you soonest. Be glad darln don't be ashame he will come trough for you and your miracle shall abound in Jesus name.

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  11. awww,love you story,it touched a place in my heart,i hope other ladies out there going thru different issues finally believe that God's end in every situation is always beautiful.HAPPY NEW YEAR STELLA AND MY FELLOW SDKERS,my 1st comment this year

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  12. Whaoooo. Lovely story I just had to comment. This is an encouragement to every young lady out there who got pregnant unexpectedly. Nothing happens without the knowledge of God. Don't cruxify urself. Trust God and he can turn ur mistake into a miracle

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  13. Awwwww, God bless sweet baby Kaima and her parents.
    Lovely baby with a lovely name.
    Congrats blog visitor and boo. May God continue to be with you guys, Amen.
    Welcome to motherhood Ifeoma...I'm sure you are enjoying it.

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  14. Congratz gal we r all happy for u ooo,ur baby is sooo cute too.lovely couple,lovely family
    May Jehovah grant ur family ur hearts desire nd I join in ur prayers too for all those searching for hubby,babies May all ur dreams wishes nd prayers come thru IJN
    AMEN! AMEN!! AMEN!!!

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  15. amennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn..... my delivery will b a sucessful one too... congrats ifeoma...mz bombshell

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  16. Lovely.. Woooooow love dis story. He is a faithful God blv me when I say so. Congrats dear. #back to laundry

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  17. Wow! God is Good. Cute baby indeed she will be very tall. Saw ha and I feel like avin a baby. Sir alpachino

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  18. Wow! God is Good. Cute baby indeed she will be very tall. Saw ha and I feel like avin a baby. Sir alpachino

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  19. Wow! God is Good. Cute baby indeed she will be very tall. Saw ha and I feel like avin a baby. Sir alpachino

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  20. Congrats... May she grow to become more blessings to your home and all

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  21. Awww! Amazingly sweet....Such a cute baby, Congrats sweetie.

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  22. Why were u praying for ur daughter to av d guys features, did u av sex with different guys then?
    stella i didn't know u now advocate for sex before marriage, cos all i see here is pure FORNICATION
    little girls read ur blog too, and dis girl aint no role model for younger ones!

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    1. Shut the fuck up! Typical Nigerian....judgemental. The fact that you don't believe in sex before marriage doesn't mean everyone believes so. A little exposure is what most of you need. Ignoramus!

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    2. Thank God u re not God o....the poor girl admitted herself dat God turned her mistake into a miracle yet u re still judging!

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    3. This isn't bout advocating fornication. Its bout letting people know that they don't need to commit abortion. Truth is most young ladies, myself inclusive always go the abortion route. I look back now and wish I had the guts then to keep the pregnancy. I know sin is sin but trust me, d/c is a sin/burden one will always bear

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    4. C'mon shut up and leave Stella outta dis..Holier than thou..Stella please send this born again one of those your seats..

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    5. Close your mouth,who are you to judge her.God is merciful

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    6. U must be a Pharisee, it's a huge relief to the world that U are just a human being. I wonder what you would do if you were God. It is well

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    7. Ebenezer Ubamara22 January 2014 at 13:21

      I JUST DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY TO U, I HOP U RE LEAVIN A LIFE DAT THE SAID YOUNGER ONCES WILL LEARN FROM NOT CUMING HERE TO BLAB RUBBISH, PULL OVER ABEG MTCHEEEEEW......

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    8. U r plainly stupid; its either u read d story frm d ending t d beginning or wen u read, u just dint comprehend! Get a life pls, meanwile u need one of those seats frm Stella.

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    9. Judgemental moron like urself.she jst admitted to doing sumtin wrong and u'r still ere spitting brim fire.stella pls give dis self righteous idiot a seat.we kukuma knw ur type.mschewwwww

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  23. Thank God for the blessings, I tap into this blessing and annoiting, God will answer me too soonest, ve been married and no issue yet. All he has done for you will be permanent in Jesus name.

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    1. Dear this 2014 is our year...our womb will bear fruit this year we will give our husbands sons and daughter we will conceive just the way our mother conceived us and we will deliver like the Hebrew woman in the Mighty name of Jesus Amen

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  24. Congrat dear, such a cute baby, ur happiness shall be permanent in Jesus name Amen.

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  25. Congratulations Ijeoma. That baby is so cute, and she's really smiling oh.
    She will be a source of joy to your family and the world, She will be known for great and mighty things.The Lord that gave you this precious princess will keep and watch over her, provide all that you will need to take care of her, and you will give her brothers and sisters IJN.

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  26. Some Babies Bring Favour to their owners from the get go...and may her smile make your smile last forever!

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  27. Awwwww dis is so lovely mheeen! Happy for u and Godbless you and your new family real Good....am really happy for you! such a pretty baby filled with smiles...may God almighty give me a testimony like yours in jesus name...amen.

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  28. Thank God for his mercies & May God grant all those pregnant safe deliveries and also remember those trusting him for the fruits of the womb. Mama B!

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  29. Congratulations dear. Kaima will grow in the way of the Lord, she will fulfil destiny in Jesus name. No evil shall befall her.
    She is a chosen generation, a royal priesthood.
    I

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  30. Congratulations dear. Kaima will grow in the way of the Lord, she will fulfil destiny in Jesus name. No evil shall befall her.
    She is a chosen generation, a royal priesthood.
    I

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  31. Omg!!my own baby's name is Chikaima Zipporah..Kaima for short.born on Dec 14th.2days after my birthday. same prayers too.baby pls take after ur dad.lips,eyebrow,plenty hair..n she did!!!i can totally relate to dis ooh.i luv ur story.d day I went for my PT test,as d lab attendant walked in with my result,i got a call saying I was promoted in my ofc.i opened d envelope n it sd PT-postive*huge grin*.God can indeed bring out water frm a rock!he is our Alpha n Omega!say hi to my baby's namesake for me ooh.muaaahhh

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  32. Cute baby, her smile is infectious... Congratz Ify God bless ur home

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  33. This is so sweet.... truly, abortion is not an option... i pray God give us ladies d grace to hold on.... congrats ifeoma, ur story has touched me greatly

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  34. God is good. I like the part she said " couldn't correct one mistake with another" (so true). A lot of girls made the second mistake, commiting abortion and have paid or are still paying the price. Thank God it ended well. A child is a blessing anyday. However, this is not to say other young girls should try it, having sex before marriage ain't the best and not all stories like this end well. I rest my case.

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  35. Congrats girl.may God s name b praised.
    Its KANYIMA not KAyIMA.

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  36. Wow.
    Lord be praised

    Galore

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    1. Is this really the original Galore? a lot of changes on unlike ur write up or is someone using ur name.

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    2. Jaymorre na me oo

      Skul don change me faaa

      Galore

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  37. Congratulations Ifeoma, I like how u said u didn't want to correct a mistake with another mistake. The baby is a beauty and a blessing, plus u looked hawt at 8months. I pray for all the good wishes 4u n ur family. One love

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  38. Congratulations Ify.22 January 2014 at 10:43

    This is soooo heartwarming. I almost shed tears. Am so happy for u Ify. May God continue blessing you and your husband. Your little angel is beautiful.



    PS. Pls, BlogFam, who knows where I can learn baking, making of small chops and decoration in onitsha, Anambra State. It's urgent. Am tired of looking for work. #helpanidlesister. Thanks sweeties.

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    1. Add Chibogu Ejiamike on fb and ask her...

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    2. Thanks Linda. I love you.

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  39. Congrates ifeoma,bt 4 u 2 have opened ur leg 4 someone u kn 4 jst 4months without protection is jst a no no 4 me.what if the guy had rejected d preggy?

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    1. And now that they are married? Pick the morale of the story and move on, we ar all human. She already accepted it was a mistake. Smh for ppl

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  40. Wow!
    My fellow zikite and giantess
    I am so proud of you and your hubby, such an amazing story.
    Very cute baby. ..kisses

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  41. Awww dearie,u so cute nd ur hubby is just wow,nd dat baby's soooo adorable,God bless ur home,Asuu strike realy favoured you dear*luvin ur baby's smile loves struck*

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  42. Awwwwwww, I cried throughout while reading dis and d pix too, thank GOd for u my dear, GOd makes a way where there seems to be no way, ur child shall be a blessing to ur family and u all will live a long, healthy and prosperous life in JESUS name Amen.
    @Dimma pearl

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  43. Ur daughters name is asuu gbemi kaima

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  44. Am so happy 4 u lovely family nd cute baby too

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  45. Beautiful baby and we thank God everything turned out good. But girls of nowadays you are not ready to be a mother or bear the consequences yet you keep having unprotected sex.

    So what message are you passing out today? Have unprotected sex and God will bless you. Mschhhew.

    CeeCee

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    1. STFU....as if you dnt do without condom....its ur type that end up getting HIV...idiot

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    2. STFU....as if you dnt do without condom....its ur type that end up getting HIV...idiot

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    3. Sharap linda eze, no be everybody dey do. Respect that as well
      Famza

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  46. Sapele Babe in Lagos22 January 2014 at 10:47

    Lovely,lovely, lovely is all I can say. I share in your joy. I'm so happy for you. Your story brought tears to my eyes cus it ended well, it ended in a testimony, it ended in praise.
    May your joy be full.
    Your baby is so cute
    You are blessed with a cute husband too.
    Congratulations to you both on the arrival of the baby.
    More blessings!!!

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  47. Woooooow!!! God is just too faithful, I love you more Lord! Congrats dalyn Ifeoma......dis is jst d beginning of what he is out to do in ur life.Rejoice!!

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  48. Awwwww....what a cute baby!!!.....She got me smiling too....U will live long to fuifill God's purpose in ur life. *kisses

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  49. Tears.. Thank u lord! He's indeed a faithful God

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  50. Man was created by God, God was not created by man. Congratulations.

    Ms

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  51. Congrats! But hope young girls wont be encouraged to expect same kind of miracle?? Zip up or use condom, God is gracious and merciful but let's not stretch it.

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  52. I thank God for u,also had a similar case and my baby girl is almost six now

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  53. Dear ur baby looks beautiful, congrats sis

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  54. Indeed God is a God of second chances.... U cum across as a happy and cheerful young lady it's no wonder dat ur baby is all smiles. May God continually bless ur family

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  55. Wow. Reading this brought tears to my eyes. You're a very brave young woman and God will continue to bless you for it. God is awesome.

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    1. Congrats mum.....Name the Baby ''Asuseyi''...................it's an Akoko-Edo name........

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  56. Ifeoma, i join you in blessing God, for He is Great & His Mercies endures forever. Happy for you girl!

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  57. OMG @ifeoma this ur story is so sweet and i shed tears reading it , am so happy for ur family and adorable baby,as i was reading ur story,d lord told me to use ur testimony has a point of contact to my loving husband to be for ma wedding and dat i will see my twins dis year by his overflowing Mercy and Grace,haleluyah,tank you for sharing ifeoma it came right time,
    it is my turn to share mine story wt odas in jesus Name from taiwo

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    1. Dear Anon....pls open ur ears and verify u actually heard from the Lord.....in as much as i am happy with Ifeoma on the arrival of her bundle of joy,,and also blessing God for his enduring mercies and faithfulness,,for re-writing her story,,making her crooked paths straight again and turning her mistake into a miracle,,i think we should also educate ourselves........the level of grace we operate on differs individually,,,the fact that God chose to be merciful to Ifeoma by giving her a beautiful ending does not mean every girl out dere will enjoy the same grace if they do same........if Ifeoma had contacted a disease(cos she had un-protected sex),,,will u still use her as a point of contact??? am sure if u hear God speak then,,u'll be very quick to rebuke HIS voice.......God will not speak with u to tow someone's line of mistake to have ur own testimony.......pray to God to do urs while carefully abiding by his principles and he will sure make u laugh......Pls be guided accordingly.

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  58. I rejoice with u my namesake,ur baby is sooo cute.*singin*mercy is thy faithfulness,morning by morning new mercies I see#..lord unto me pls.

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  59. IFEOMA GOD IS INDEED GREAT, I REJOICE WITH YOU, CONGRATS ON YOUR BABY GIRL, GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND
    P.S YOU HAVE A GREAT MAN, NOT ALL MEN WOULD TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES LIKE HE DID

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  60. Congrats Ify, its shall be permanent.

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  61. wow!!!!!! words cant explain how happy iam for your courage....Indeed God does things his won ways!

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  62. I bless God for His marvelous works in your life. Indeed what was a mistake turned out to be abundant favours and blessings. God bless you, the baby and family. Congratulations Ifeoma.

    P.S may God bless all those who await His for the fruit of the womb in double folds. Cry no more for your Joy is here and Laughter shall continually flow in your homes henceforth.

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  63. Congrats Ifeoma.may the good Lord bless your household.i had a similar experience but the difference was that we were both working and had just dated for a month.To cut the long story short,we are married now and our baby is the most beautiful baby on the planet and has brought sunshine and laughter in to our lives.God has indeed been faithful.

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  64. Wow....C pikin!....So lovely!
    Wat an inspiring story. Dear Ifeoma, I wish u a hapi married life, long life, gud health n prosperity 2 every member of ur family...

    Yaron Allah

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  65. Wow sweet story. Ify conqratz.

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  66. such an intriguing story, lovely baby, I had to smile at the last picture of the baby, her smile is so infectious. this child will continue to be a source of joy and pride to your family in Jesus name. AMEN

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  67. Wow, I almost teared from reading your story. Congratulations Ifeoma, it all ended well. It could only have been God.

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  68. Congrats Ifeoma, i couldn't just stop smiling while reading this post! God is indeed faithful and your baby is really pretty!

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  69. This is Lovely....there are still good guys out there...Congrats Ify

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  70. Thank God 4 safe delivery,hmmm at 22 u re already furking...na wao

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    1. Congratulations Ifeoma.

      This baby brought luck to you. You are blessed.

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    2. Anon 11:13Am, mumu. She has already admitted dat she made a mistake. What is ur own. Holy Virgin Mary. @Poster, Congrats, am so happy 4 u.

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  71. Awwww...this is soooo sweet. CONGRATULATIONS Ify and may God Bless your home richly. Muwaahhhh!!!

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  72. GOD I KEY INTO THIS IFEOMA'S MIRACLE FOR MY OWN KIDS. I VE BEEN MARRIED FOR FOURS YEARS GOING TO 5YEARS NOW. LORD PLSSSSSSSSS BLESS ME AND MY HUBBY WITH LOVELY CHILDREN THAT WILL SERVE YOU FOR ALL THE REST OF THEIR LIVES......IJMN...AMEN.

    MUMMY

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  73. Eya, congrats dear. more blessings for you and your family. God is indeed faithful

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  74. It is indeed the year of Overflow, Congratulatations Ifeoma,kaima is indeed a gift from God,expect greater things.
    To my fellow Sdkers,remember Gods promises,and he will fulfil all our needs to the latter, INJESUS name,Amen.

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  75. Congrats. I had my baby at 21years. People didn't even know I was preggies,they thought I was adding weight. When u are young,labour is not so hard(in the absence of any medical issues).
    Thank God u kept that baby and above all,that guy beside you is the BOMB. He is a great guy,he really really loves you. Respect him,care for him,cook for him,look good for him and above all,FUCK HIM GOOD(u are a mother now so I can talk plainly with you).Look after your baby and above all,have all ur kids b4 age 30, if u can.

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  76. hahahahahah, Nne biko, did u say getting pregnant was a mistake? If i slap that your mouth ehn, did you not have sex without protection? You are lucky that equally stupid boyfriend married. Also remember what they say about trapping guys with pregnancies. I just pray the innocent child enjoys life. You both knew you weren't ready, yet you continued having sex without protection.
    if you were my sister, I would have aborted that pregnancy with beating. And you actually sent in this mockery for what exactly? I'm so mad at you right now.
    This mail is just so childish - habatically

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    1. Na wa for world people o! Why so pained? C'mon! It's not that serious.

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    2. you are so heartless! haba! even with the picture of this cute baby up there u still spill such vile? Fear God na

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    4. What's the matter with some people? After she's admitted she made a mistake you want to still downgrade her? E no work o. The SUPREME has blessed her family. Get her message already or go kiss a live wire if the news affects you. Pharisee. CONGRATS IFY.

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    5. Make una free the anony joo
      It is true she is aware it was a mistake. That will not stop half the ladies in this blog from making that mistake in the next hour! Why mock God? Mtchew

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  77. Congrats on the birth of ur baby...may ur blessings b permanent in Jesus name..May God continue 2 bless ur hubbyand may he not change towards U..that said! People pls stop havinng unprotected. Sex wit smeone ur nt married to..stella pls post my comment..as u never do..tnks

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  78. Awwww..this brought tears to my eyes...may d Lord continue to bless u...nah this kind story dey sweet me..

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  79. thank God for you.

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  80. i am so laughing out loud with joy....your baby is beautiful......God bless your hubby for standing up like a man and taking responsibility cos i know alot of men in his shoes would have run away fast......the lord bless your home and continue to make your paths shine brighter and brighter until the perfect day in jesus name....Thank you ifeoma for not destroying this beautiful life....

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  81. Awe seeing cute babies like Dis makes me wanna pregnant sum1, babies are miracles

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  82. The baby brought you good tidings.
    What a wonderful story.
    I pray Nigeria starts putting one n two together for pregnant women especially those who need help.
    Congrats on ur newborn n new family.
    He maketh a way where there seems to b none

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  83. am commenting in tearz!may God bless n uphold u n ur hubby,n shine his light on the little one.God is good

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  84. Congrats, May your Joy never be cut short!

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  85. My miracle is sure now I have no doubt. God is faithful!

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  86. Stella plz post my comnt,I've alwyz read ur post 4rm day1 but neva commented but diz particular1 got tear rolling down ma cheeks. I'm in a tight situation nw buh I'm believing 'God is still God' and I'm being favoured come what may #OBEHI#

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  87. Awwww, my father and my God..this brought tears and happiness to me..God bless mother and. Child..amen

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  88. *Crying* tears of joy! I thank God for His miracle in your life! God please answer me too! am praying and begging you, forgive me all my sins if that is why you are delaying me! I cry to You today God please answer me God please I beg you in the name of you Son Jesus Christ answer me! Am just tired

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    1. Hello,you know what stop crying and acting beggarly towards God,just pray for His mercies always,go to him in humility and pray hard,begging God is not the way o,because it does not move God when we beg,i am also waiting on God for the fruit of the womb and i know its this year and i would testify and be used as a vessel to encourage and steer up violent faith in women waiting on God for children. Remember God that you are a child of covenant He made with Abraham and that He has not called the seed of Jacob to seek Him in vain, and that you are sure He would fulfil His part of that covenant because He is faithful and a covenant keeping God, remind Him you are no longer under the curse of the law,the death of Jesus has taken away all your sins,and that you are renewed in Christ. Pls stop thinking its your sin that´s holding you back from conceiving,that´s the devil´s ploy of stealing your miracles and testimonies,as far as you have sincerely begged for forgiveness of sin God has forgiven and forgotten about your sins,so dnt allow the devil torment you with them. Pray with 1peter5v10,this verse simply means delay is not permitted in our lives,after we have suffered a while God puts an end to it and settles us in all ramifications. Pray with psalm 46 and also psalm 21 everyday,personalise it,do midnite prayers,and i believe we shall all testify this year IJN. I just said a prayer for all women waiting on God for children with this lady´s testimony and i believe by december by God´s grace Stella´s blog would not contain our testimonies IJN. Congrats Ify God loves you and His mercies would never depart from you and your household IJN.

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  89. I had goose pimples while reading ds n tears almost welled up in my eyes. God is so so faithful, his ways we can't comprehend. I pray f my own divine uplifting ds year 2014. Ifeoma diri m o. Amen.
    Congrats Ify, ur husband is a wondaful man n ur princess is so adorable. May she continue t put smiles on ur face.

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  90. Wow...so lovely and your baby is so CUTE!
    I can't wait to meet my PRINCE come April too,He is always Boxing and Playing with my Navel#JoyofMotherhood#.
    Every Woman looking forward to this kind of feeling will get theirs in this season of Exceeding Grace in Jesus name.

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    1. I wish u safe delivery just like d Hebrew women.

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  91. such a cute baby, am glad you did not abort the pregnancy, God will provide all you need to take care of this beautiful baby and her smile will never fade. Diva

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  92. Lesson to be learnt; If you must have sex outside marriage,use a condom.
    No be only pregnancy dey come from unprotected sex.
    He/she that is wise,let him/her hear.

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  93. Wow wow wow! I could literally feel your excitment, may it be permanent. What a God! You are such a lovely family.

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  94. @poster,d first thing is ur baby is so so cute!
    Thank God u had a happy ending,all was possible cos ur man stood by u!
    This is to all guys that can' impregnate a galfriend, pls stand by her and try to make it beautiful'!
    Coongratulations.

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  95. Princess Charming22 January 2014 at 11:39

    Awwwww I'm so inspired... Congratulations dear. Indeed God is a faithful God. He turns our story to glory. I pray God answers my prayer this year, gives my boo financial favour for our wedding and bless me with a child. Amen.

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  96. Omg! Ds is an amazing story..Congrats my dear, I'm so happy 4u. Btw,dats a cute baby u got thr

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  97. I tap into this blessings. Your baby is so cute.

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  98. Awesome God. Thanks for sharing and may ur miracle reach those of us who needs it. Guess she uses another blog name. Coz am d one that comments with ifeoma.

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  99. I thanks God for your life nd the baby,,husband included,,,
    praise thee lord Amen

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  100. Wow! This baby is indeed a blessing, ever smiling even when she can't see anyone yet. I can't imagine how cheerful she would be when she's grown up!

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  101. Wow.... Your baby's beautiful. Happy for you love. God bless your family.

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  102. I wish I was smart, bold and strong enough to have kept my baby when I got pregnant in school. May God forgive me as I continually beg for his forgiveness.

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  103. Oh! This is so so touching...sweety, you are a huge encouragement to a lot of us out here, God bless you real good.
    It felt so good to know that the guy and off course ASUU was there for you.
    I love you so very much 'I mean agape kinda love o'

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  104. Congrats ify, God bless You n Your family.

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  105. Awwww....I also smiled wit d baby
    D baby is sooooo cute

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  106. All i can say is 'awwwwwwww' :) <3

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  107. U are very lucky lady and ur man rare. I like ur baby's smile.

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  108. God bless your dear heart, and your lovely family! And may this precious child grow in wisdom, stature, and favour with both God and man!

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  109. Congrats and may the baby continue to be a blessing to you. As for your husband, God will continue to bless him. May your union continue to be peaceful and fruitful. Touching story.

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  110. I have said it before and am still saying it.....Girls,stop dating students.....they have nothin good to offer....from this story,you will see how its good to have a matured man as a bf.....Congrats Ify,your baby is a cutie!....she will be a blessing to your home.....

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  111. Thank you SDKers for your warm wishes. The lady in question is my sister and it wasn't easy at all. But along the way, God's mercy came through. May He do the same for us IJN, Amen.

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  112. Your post made me smile. You are blessed and I am so so happy for you. Tobe.

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  113. OmG. This God. I never see him type before.


    Stella, I love ur blog. I feel lik a family member here. I love you Stella. God bless you

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  114. God be wit u dea. Love d fact dat u look just hot. Yes,very hot. Luv da crazy hair style. If I were a man,my wife will b very hot,even if shez not too pretty,I will tell her jst look hot for me. Irene B,I luv ur comment

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  115. Congrats hun....may she grow n shine n bring u much joy all d days of ur life

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  116. dear,,,God is really at work,,,,at first I asked God how mervis would cope wit all dis,,and 2day God showed me he's still GOD,,so happy for u ifeoma,,+Miss K is just too beautiful,,this is just d begining of Gods work in ur life and in d life of ur family,,,congrats vis boo..XOXO..

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  117. I pray that the gud Lord will sustain your family. All that u need to bring up Kaima in the ways of the Lord, He will provide in abundance In Jesus Name. Amen.

    #Smiles#

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  118. Awwwww! She is really cute. I still have tears rolling down my eyes. I share in ur joy Ifeoma. Unending joy is what I wish u.

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  119. Congratulations Ifeoma. your baby is indeed a blessing to both of you. For your right decision to keep the baby, God showed you that He rewards those who show reverence to Him. May He continue to bless and protect your family.

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  120. I bliv all the misfortunes Ive encountered are a result of the abortions (murders) I committed, this story is proof that I'm right. What can I do to appease God so he can forgive me and turn his eyes of mercy towards me?

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    1. Sweet heart God has forgiven you! Talk to him , talking will help take the burden of the guilt away. 2 Corinthians 5:19 says that God does not hold our sins against us. He is merciful. Develop a talking kind of prayer relationship with him he will direct you. He is your help.

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  121. she's still being cussed for keeping the baby o ga ooooooooooo
    may God bless and keep your family
    and may the blessings that accompanied the baby never cease IJN

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  122. congrats that it came out good....but what i dont understand is how people get pregnant and say it wasnt planned...i dont get it...you have unprotected sex...you get pregnant....you were lucky it turned out well at the end....some girls dont get that lucky....GOD bless your family...

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  123. Ifeoma, my testimony was very similar to you except that my girl friend then - now my wife - wasnt pregnant. In it all, God showed Himself to be the Almighty. You can imagine getting married with a salary of N4,000 - a first class Graduate of Chemical Engineering (I am talking of year 2000) with no physical hope of an increase soon. The courage came because God asked us to go ahead. Fast forward to 2005, in righteousness God made us multi-millionaires and still soaring higher today. It pays to trust God. I stand to declare that God will turn your situation to a BIG testimony that will cause men - and even kings - to give HIM a standing ovation. Amen

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  124. Ebenezer Ubamara22 January 2014 at 13:27

    AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU,I PRAY YOUR JOY WILL OVERFLOW. DONT MIND HATERS JAREE.... NOBODY HOLY PASS........AS 2BABA TALK AM.

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  125. Tears of joy! May God continue to bless you guys. May you continue to be fruitful. May your marriage continue to be a model for others. May others looking for the fruit of the womb be blessed with children in Jesus name, amen. You guys are cute! Rose

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  126. I also smiled with the baby.....cute baby uv got,,God bless her...

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  127. Congrats. God bless ur family.

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  128. Wow...mervis...cudnt blive my eyes when I saw dis post.ur baby z such a cutiee.tnk God u in ur finals so v soon u'll b done wit skul...I admire ur courage nd stand to keep d baby.thumbs up girl...#sme1 u know#

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  129. Congratulations Ifeoma. That your daughters name will be the name of my son soon. That God that made things easy for you, may he remember every woman that is earnestly waiting on him for children. I rejoice with your family. Your baby is really beautiful.

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  130. God will make dis blessing permanent n us who r looking up to God for d fruits of d womb..He shall ans us all..2014 is our year Inshaa Allah..Am so so happy for u

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  131. I TAP INTO UR BLESSING DEAR THOUGH I WOULDN'T WANT TO BE PREGGY B4 MARRIAGE. CUTE BABY. CONGRATULATIONS.

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  132. That initial smile was God smiling at you through her. Be blessed.

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  133. congratulations favoured one, all thing work for good. you are blessed. best wishes always.

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  134. Awwww, Bless you Ifeoma.... Thank God, You didnt abort her... She's so cute... May God continue to bless you and your family abundantly. God really works and Guess what? THE BEST IS YET TO COME DARLING... Bless you

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  135. Congrats Ify....
    I rejoice with you.
    But pls, do not forsake God..Always count on Him in good times and bad times.
    Never cease to pray

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  136. am sure u wrote dat ur story because of rumour frm sch/dept ppl.d most important tin here is d moral lesson behind ur story.i think SEx IS WORTH waitin 4,if u cant wait use condom.dnt jst open ur leg 4 some one u barely knw ,b it 4months.i tink d guy promised u married even wen he wasnt ready bt i must say u are luckly and u r d type of ppl dat brings luck to der husband.bt i tink our youths shld face der studies rather dan indulgin in pre marital sex.is because of d courage u have dats y u didnt choose abortion,so odas wld v taken it as d best option.may God give u d strenght and grace to care for ur baby. JC

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  137. Every baby comes with its blessings. Also got pregnant. Got scared . Boo was seriously struggling. Family and friends pressured us to abort the baby. Boo said NO! Gave birth to a bouncing baby girl. Then we got married when baby was 04 months old. Difficulties didn't end; Financial struggles everywhere, no employment despite husby having a degree. hubby doing small jobs here and there. Even where we lived... sometimes hubby would cry so hard.But we stuck together despite all odds...

    BUT ONE DAY, STELLA....ONE DAY...

    MY SWEETHEART GOT A JOB OFFER!

    WHERE?

    IN DUUUUUUBAAAAAAIIIII !!!!!
    Yes o, in Dubai!

    See God's Hand: We didn't know where to get the money to buy plane ticket, but anytime he mentionned the project, people just helped him with money. Not even family members o. random acquaitances, and for free. They didn't want to be paid back.

    He finally left, arrived safely, lives in a two bedroom apartment and will work very soon. We are planning to join him in a couple of months.

    HELP ME PRAISE THE LORD OOOOOO!

    We refused to abort our baby and see the blessings that followed.
    GOD DEY, My people, GOD DEY, just wait for HIS appointed time. Not your time, but HIS time;

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  138. whoa this is a great story . may God continue to bless your union and grant you happiness in Jesus mighty name

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  139. Congratulations. Lovely baby gal!

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  140. just love u babe,u did the right thing.maybe u will be dead by aborting the baby,now for u shamr the most high has given u double blessing.

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  141. Congrats dear, your baby is so beautiful. the minute I saw her, I started "aaawwwwwing" and smiling. May God use her to bring in abundant blessings in the lives of you and your husband. Stay blessed dear.

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  142. It's called the overflow.....Congratutions are in order ma'am!your Testimony shall remain permanent and more blessings!
    God be praised#Dancing

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  143. Anon January 22, 2014 at 2:30pm; my story is so similar to yours! Got pregnant, refused to abort;hubby and I had financial constraints so we couldn't even afford to do d needful. Abuses left,right and centre. Finally gave birth late last year in my parents house. Abuses reduced small bcos of d adorable baby. Then this January, out of nowhere; a deal he didn't even have his mind on clicked! Right now, we still can't believe our luck! God is indeed merciful and he truly turns mistakes into miracles! I'm so glad I didn't abort my adorable baby girl. God willing b4 June, all the necessary tins will be done and my angel n I will be living with daddy! #AwesomeGod

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  144. Oh dear! These pictures are heart warming. It brings so much joy to my soul.
    Your husband is a very responsible dude. I applaud him. Some lily livered wouldn't own up especially since at the time, the situation was rough.

    Godbless you, your husband and lovely baby. She's already opened doors of blessings....she will grow into greatness in Jesus name.
    Bless u all!

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