Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives

Ever had to deal with the love of your life that got away?..You lose them and get your life back on track and then they come back and the feelings all come back......This is the chronicle of narratives....

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NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE

CRAVING FOR THE EX...

I am a lady, will be 30yrs old soon, shuttle between US/Canada where I work, based mostly in Canada and have a 19months old son.

I met my hubby 4yrs ago, we dated for a year and half, mostly he was in the UK while I was in Nigeria as at then. Before meeting my current hubby I was dating a Nigerian billionaire who I met when I was 19 and just finished University, He was divorced and young too(he is into real estate and 30 when I met him). 

We dated for 7yrs and we were so in love, but he cheated on me so much I just couldn’t take it anymore and broke up with him. He purposed marriage to me 4yrs after we met and my heart skipped with fear when I saw the ring, cause I knew the strings of women he has and I was the main chick, I couldn’t even trust any friend as he sleeps with them almost after I introduce him to them. 

When I saw I had to either take it or leave it, I left it(main while I was working with  a company I was being paid 40k all through dating him, I wanted my own money even though my car was more expensive than my immediate boss’s car courtesy my bf and later fiancé). Six months after the breakup I met my current hubby, he was working at old people’s home in the UK but very educated, my friends said what a downgrade from my ex but I had seen it all with my ex to know that money isn’t happiness and crying inside a range rover doesn’t bring you peace of mind, he later relocated to the US shortly after meeting him and got a good job, I joined him shortly after and  did my masters, came out top of my class and got a job in an oil company almost immediately, we got married and settled into our lives.

The trouble for me started last year when I met my ex on a flight from Houston to Amsterdam, we exchanged contact and started talking again, since then I don’t get sexually aroused when hubby touches me, it has become so bad of late I cringe(with irritation)  whenever he touches me.

The ex has been pressuring me for  a comeback, he is married but told his wife that the day I decide to come back ends her marriage to him. The wife even called me to plead with me  not to come as she loves him. I asked him if he has changed he said yes that when he lost me he had to “slow down”.

My question is how do I make me want my hubby again? My hubby has never cheated on me, I have all his passwords and can be with his phone for days. He is a nice man and has told me of late he feels like am slipping away and I should tell him how to win me back. What can I do to save my marriage? We haven’t had sex in 2 months, he has begged and begged and I just can’t do it. I crave for my ex.

*Are you a learner?CUT OFF COMMUNICATION WITH THE EX ASAP....I know it might not be easy but please do it.you are about to leave your contentment zone looking for roses and you know what happens to a bunch of roses after a while?

Your ex is like a flash in a saucepan!.

The final decision lies with you anyways.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO

SICKLER TESTIMONY TO MOTIVATE FELLOW SICKLERS

I am a sickle cell patient with blood group O Negative, kind of happily married (every one has one marital problem or another), with three lovely children and my hubby is AA and O positive , you can imagine the contrast! Thank God for God and modern medicine. When I was young I passed through hell as par pains but my parents were always there for me and carried me like an egg, when I was having crisis I would watch my father crying along with me although he always tried to hide it! 

My mother was the stronger one in things like that. There was even a time I was so anaemic that I had to be given blood, that was when they found out I was O- my parents were both O+ so no one could donate for me. The doctors and nurses were like, "this one is SS and O- you sure say she go marry at all and everyone laughed."

I had always told God from when I was young that I wanted to marry young and have 3 kids, the way I met my hubby was kind of funny and he had seen me having crisis a few times before we started‎ dating. While we were dating he took me to the hospital several times etc, after everything he still insisted on marrying me. His parents tried to dissuade him but he insisted, even my parents weren't too happy about me getting married cos they didn't want me to pass through hell as par pregnancy! 

All his friends said I used juju on him etc, but after everything we got married. During my pregnancies my hubby was always there for me, he slept in the hospital with me and when I needed a transfusion he ran round from one hospital to another trying to get O- blood cos it's really rare, he was even the one that made sure I took rhogam injection after each pregnancy to counter the rhesus factor wahala! Even his family used to do prayers for me during my pregnancies and even now, they are always calling to check on me, if you see me and his mum playing you would think I'm her last born cos she calls me her baby!

We have our ups and downs, and our fights sometimes are really crazy and intense (cos he does a lot of silly and annoying things in the name of love and jealously but after everything I know that he really loves me and the kids.

Sorry for the long epistle but I just wanted to pass my point across that there's nothing God can't do. Have a blessed day everyone and God bless.

*Wow is this what female sicklers go through?

Thank you for sharing your story.I am sure it will motivate someone going through this phase.