Hian.....breastfeeding changes everything about sex between a couple?..Well,not always sha.
IN HOUSE MOTHERS WEY UNA? BREASTFEEDING AND CHILDBIRTH AND THE AFTERMATH QUESTION
Was chatting with a married colleague earlier today following a topic on breastfeeding.the gist wandered into sex during breast feeding. She told me that all the foreplay like boobs touching or sucking by her husband stopped after she gave birth to her first born.her husband abandoned her boobs when she was breastfeeding and never got around to them after she weaned her baby.
He has adopted straight "ancestor era" sex,which basically is poking and discharging. she has 4 kids now, and being a quiet unassuming woman,she chose to understand and accept the situation.
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My best pal is going through same stuff.Hers is even worse.she had CS,and since then the husband only makes love to her when its dimly lit. Near darkness. She has tried many times,fought too and he still insists that the scars turn him off. If she wants sex,light must off. Somehow I get his apathy cos the scar nor be here oh.The DR weave am like basket making its swollen like say na weave He fix. please I want to know,do some men change towards their wives after childbirth?forl housewives of SDKB o.
Brestfeeding messes up sex but it gets better with time*wink*
as for CS,please my story is for another day,the pain that comes with that ish no be here oh.Men if your wife went thru CS and you are turning away from here,it is unfair!..close your eyes and just DO IT,if it is that bad!
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BLOG VISITOR ASK THE CONTRACEPTIVE QUESTION
Stella, I am a regular BV, an anonymous sister lol
I know sex is not food but I cant preach that to le boo.
We stay in different states and we see once in a while, buh for some reason I will be moving to his city for a couple of months meaning lashing must happen steady...Please can BV's recommend safe contraceptives? .
SDK saving lives since 1847.....lol
Your blog has become more of a way of life o surer than google lol.Real life people and stuff that is why I think I'll get better help hereThank you so much, may God continue to bless you.
Madam what is wrong with using condom?dont come back complaining that you have igbelekokomistaphylococos oh
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BLOG VISITOR RIGHT TO ANTE NATAL CARE....HOW DID YOURS GO?
Please Stella, I need to know if I have the right to go to clinic for antenatal care or not in Nigeria.
I work in the banking sector and I had to go for antenatal (once in a month for now). I went yesterday but had the worst experience from my oga who was expecting me back to the office , the calls kept coming all through the day and I was answering each time.
I was scheduled for scan that took more of my time and I couldn't make it back to the office because of the distance from my area to my place of work.
I was frustrated the more when she called yesterday evening that I was supposed to do something yesterday which was left undone and of course it wasn't that I knew before hand and intentional didn't attend to it the previous day. She kept sounding as if she's doing me a favour by first allowing me to go or is she actually doing me one.
This is so frustrating, so so frustrating.
Please blog visitors dont i have a right to go for ante-natal?
Please look at your contract again very well.you are entitled to ante natal,do not make any other thing priority over it.
That your boss wicked oh,didnt you take permission?
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NYSC BROUHAHA..BLOG VISITOR IN TEARS OVER POSTING..LOL
Hi Stella, good morning to you.I feel so sad this morning because I just got posted to Akwa-Ibom for NYSC.Stella,I am just a fresh graduate who has never left the West,I am so scared.My mum has been
crying all day and everyone has been calling to console me*sigh*.Please,I would like blog visitors to share their NYSCexperience.Thanks
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BLOG VISITOR SUE EXPLAINS WHY THERE HAS BEEN NO 'RICHARD KARD' AND THEN ASKS IRRITATING QUESTION.
Hey stellz
Been in a while.
I have been. Sorry I have been under alot of pressure (hence no richard kards. lol). Will send some soon.
Meanwhile I have a question n for blog BVs o.
My colleague has calloused feet. He has tried all manner of things to get em softened and smooth, yet no cure. I pity d guy sha, d feet seems like they can tear bed-sheet. Can BVs help with lasting solutions.
Thanks
Abeg what is that? you mean ''chicoco''?LMAO!
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BLOG VISITOR SCARED TO SEND IN BIRTHDAY PICS..LMAO!
Hello SDK,
Good morning and hope you are doing great.
Abeg today is my byday o and am so happy
because God have been so good to me.
Please post this for me.
Liver dey fail me to send pictures, I no want
curses..lol
Give out this small card for me (its 200 each)
595633477549
983013609424
God bless you
Colly.
HAPPY BRITHDAY SWEETHEART,YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL,WHY DONT YOU HAVE CONFIDENCE?have a great day?you didnt say what network the cards are but i guess blog visitors will figure that out.
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ReplyDeleteMadam, r you dis jobless? Ist to comment on evry post smh
DeleteBlog visitor posted to Akwa ibom state, are u for real? U're crying cos u were posted to AKS. U must be a mummy's girl. I served in AKS and I actually worked my posting there. Even tho I was somewhat a ghost corper but u will love it I promise. U should be thanking ur stars u were not sent to d north. Mtchweew.
DeleteBreastfeedin doesn't change nada. Wen I put to bed, and me and hubby started d sex tin,( even on d 1st day of resumptn of sex).my hubby suckd my booobs. He didn't even mind at all.( And he's even a doc) just dat if it's flowin too much, he'll just maneurver his way around it. And dis happend till I stpd breastfeeding o. I tink it's just d mentality of d man sha. D NYSC babe shuld just beta grow up. I servd in d north ( jos ) and it was quite fun meetin and goin to new places.
DeleteKudos to men that still sleep with their wives after 4 children because that body and breastd won't be all that again.
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: wow! So much to take in at once. Here is wishing the birthday girl a wonderful celebration and more blissful years. To the pregnant, health is wealth. It is should be the first in your agendas. While in the office do your work properly don't lazy around so that wen u leave for break or something no body will disturb u. Lastly, if u can't handle the two resign and start up a business.
DeleteBLOG ANALYSER: I am just happy today I don't know why? Maybe it is this new hair that I made.
DeleteNYSC poster... Pray you get posted to uyo (na you go begin cry cos you wouldn't want to return to lagos).
DeleteEket is although small, an OK town. That's exxonmobil city and if you are lucky to get Mobil as ur PPA, you would have a wonderful 1yr.
Jen
Awww poor u. I now have stretchmarks over my stomach after delivery but my hubby & I still make awesome love. I had an episiotomy that wasn't even sewn afterwards & we're good.I dunno how he does d sucking thingy. I wouldn't suck a breastfeedn momma if I were a male.
DeleteCondom no dey sweet but I guess that is d safest one. Cos all those pills have side effects.
Yeah, read ur employment contract again. Don't try to lock horns with ur boss esp if she doesn't have a child of hers. Explain things to her in a very polite manner & I'm sure she'll come around. All d best.
Goodluck to the job applicants.
Easy dear. Is there an on-going crisis in akwa-ibom? I served in makurdi & God saw me thru. Allay ur mom's fears. U'll be through b4 u know it.
Sue, tell ur friend to see a dermatologist & have some badass pedicure. I think it takes time but with patience & consistency, he'd get d desired result.
Hbd colly. I know how u feel. My Identity would forever stay hidden on here too. lol Have fun!
So much to read! I hail dis lovely fam! Emmmmm otondo copper u r at home in akwaibom state trust me,tell u r mumy u r so safe, too tired to type more!#peace
DeleteMiss Gemini dear, how was your day na? How's the honeymooning going? Congrats darling. It wouldn't hurt to see more pictures o. Happy Birthday Colly, God bless you real good.
Delete2:10pm, are you for real? Ur papa no sleep with our mama after den born u? Some peeps would open their maggot infested mouth and spew poisonous bile!
DeleteLike I submitted somewhere on this blog yesterday, I might just reiterate that having CS should not leave u any visible scar these days. Or perhaps I don't know how it's done in Nigeria. I also had CS at some point but it was my lower abdomen that was slit open and was stapled back. 'stapled' as used in the U.S. Which eventually melts and evens up with ur skin. It's usually a small hidden scar. So I don't understand why in this day and age they'll slit open ur stomach in a conspicuous way.
DeleteThe only disadvantage of CS is that you cannot immediately exercise to get ur tummy back into shape. All the hot water bottle therapy can't be used until a certain time.
staples dont melt into your skin, you have to go back to the hospital for it to be removed. It is not usually a small hidden scar. In the US sutures are mostly used because of the low risk of infections and if well sewn the scar is minimal. staples are used when the patient is obese, diabetic, have gone through c-section or there is need to examine the patient later. some doctors use staple because it is faster than suture. staples is commonly used by cosmetic surgeons e.g tummy tuck. please give the right information if you must belong.
DeleteBVs scares are inevitable it depends on how your body heals.
Delete@Unashamed, tanx darling. My day went well, we thank God. Ermmmm, about d pics, am still thinking abourrit. U know na #winks
DeleteHappy birthday colly I got the 200 cards mtn!that's 4h! My balance reads 407naira!thanks to u! Ure a bless to me today and May God bless and prosper u! Today and always amen!
ReplyDeleteBlessing*
DeleteMadam okugbe fia jehovah nissi o
DeleteSo only u wak the two cards
Colly appybday o jere
To the bv dt needs advice with the caloused leg ....na to treat the leg like shaki o regular soakin insyd warm water and salt
Bt some ppl gats hard skin naturally sha
Nd to the NYSC chick pele tie omo mummy.. akwaibom rocks!! Am sure u gon add weight enuf food for you to chop....nd trust my calabar guys ore won ti afi bi eshin dem go do u so well too
Heheheheh okbye
Madam okugbe fia jehovah nissi o
DeleteSo only u wak the two cards
Colly appybday o jere
To the bv dt needs advice with the caloused leg ....na to treat the leg like shaki o regular soakin insyd warm water and salt
Bt some ppl gats hard skin naturally sha
Nd to the NYSC chick pele tie omo mummy.. akwaibom rocks!! Am sure u gon add weight enuf food for you to chop....nd trust my calabar guys ore won ti afi bi eshin dem go do u so well too
Heheheheh okbye
You loaded the two..Chai! Fear God
DeleteYou loaded the two..Chai! Fear God
DeleteLmao..so u recharged the two? Ofon
DeleteUre a bless to me, on top 400 card. Poverty of the highest order. Shior
DeleteThat was selfish of you.
DeleteAnd you can't show your face or email Abi, no one is asking you to share now. Thank God you even came to say thanks. Na so some people load the one for midnight no even say na then load am. Chai I just do vigil and got nothing to show for it. Tonight na sleep sure pass, can't suffer my sleep again.
DeleteThanks to all the freebies givers. May God continue to bless una well well.
Thanks to aunty Stella for a great blog and Platform to bring great people together.
Happy birthday to blog visitor, may God bless your new age. Long life and prosperity.
For the poster with a colleague with calloused feet, tell him He need a Podiatrist, so as to know the source of the problem. But before then He should use AMLACTIC foot cream, apply twice daily to the rough, dry & callused feet.*all d best to Him*
DeleteHaba. Una take am easy na. If she loaded 2 that's still ok. Anything over 2 is wickedness. Lol
DeleteChoi,SDK's I fear una ooooo,...una don load a finish,3mins after post..make una fear God ooo
ReplyDeleteI totally understand what the guy with the calloused feet must be going thru. Used to have calloused feet and i used all manners of things/regular manicure to get rid of it to no avail, until someone advised me to use glycerin, which I bought for ordinary N80 and it worked like magic. Let him to rub it on his feet morning and night. He will surely testify dat the Lord is good. From an ex female calloused feet owner. Lol
Deleteme dont know how breastfeeding nd sex works....willl wait til that tym to know..
ReplyDeletemen should try nd be reasonable when dealing with women.
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Alloy,one babe was lamenting seriously on LIB giveaway on how u commented more than 50 times and had to use d gods of her village to beg linda not to select u as one of the winners of d 20k. But alloy,why???? Why do u have to comment like that? I checked d post nd it was actually true u did comment more than 50times. Nawa for u oo! I tot u are a big boy. The same thing u did during d watch giveaway here on SDK. U actually had to lament on how u were d 250th person and took ur time to count it but was not selected for the gift. Don't tell me u live on freebies. How on earth culd u comment like that???where do u find d time? Is it that u are jobless? And God so kind u have not bn able to win anything. This goes to show dat being a blog- whore (in ur case,gigolo) does not pay. I had to rant on behalf of that anony. Sorry o!
DeleteLmaoo. Bia leave alloy alone o. Lwkmd
DeleteJoephine, you forgot the 's' in your name or na so e be? You too na blog prostitute, for you to go on another blog to confirm story. You're not in anyway different from Alloy.
DeleteThis one is called finishing of d highest order. Blog prostitute ke, dat one bad,
DeleteNawaaa
ReplyDeleteI love in house news. Make I go sleep.
ReplyDeletechaii people are vexing ooooooo at 1.04pm all major recharge card have been loaded!!!!!!!! SMH
ReplyDeleteAhhhh shoki dancing. Stella U rock. Got d Etisalat thanks ooh. May d giver never lack.
ReplyDeletechaii people are vexing ooooooo at 1.04pm all major recharge card have been loaded!!!!!!!! SMH
ReplyDeleteWHY SHOULD MY HUSBAND BE IRRITATED...LAILAI..I JUST GAVE BIRTH AND IT WAS THROUGH CS..MY HUSBAND BEGS ME FOR SEX SEF COZ AM ALWAYZ TIRED AFTER HOUSE CHORES..ITS THREE MONTHS NOW AND HE STILL ENJOYS SEX WIT ME...
ReplyDeleteI do vigil last night bcos of "rechcards" all body dey pain me I need massage. ....
ReplyDeleteDey carry police dey sell am?
DeleteYinka?
DeleteHaaaaa aye akamara I carry yansh for una wey load all this card ooo!menh you guyz are the bomb chai una no even spare the 200naira own?issokay oooo.
ReplyDelete@Otondo corper don't worry you will be fine,i served in maiduguri 3years ago so if I could have endured that place,you will.Just. Don't go out late at night and mind your business.
HappyBirthday BV,I wish you more prosperous years on earth.tanx for the cards even though I no see load,may God bless your new age.
Seems the remaining posts are for experienced mothers....
Goodluck to applicants.
Full house news
ReplyDeletethank you so much stella,i got airtel 1k n glo 500....*dancing *Aaaah shoki!!
ReplyDeleteMake dem no lynch you ooh@anony
DeleteEhe,hbd bv,God's blessings..
God bless you Sue
@corper..i think AkwaIbom is very okay ooh..did you want to serve in your state? Please don't let people going to Sokoto to hear this ooh..safe journey..make new friends and have fun!
You are a thief for loading #1,500 vouchers. Barawo
DeleteAK & u r crying & complaining? I served in d north!!!!!!!!
DeleteNa wah o, just now the cards no gree enta my fone. SDKers una dey try. Hope to jam my luck someday. Bless u Stella
ReplyDeletemy husband still sucks my breast wen making love and even swallow the milk..i will just start laughing wen he does dat..he even says ur breastmilk is sweet oh..lol
ReplyDeleteSEX IS OUT OF DIS WORLD EVEN AFTER DOING CS
in-house people una weldone..#hian. sadface mk i face my work jeje b4 my boss catch me.
ReplyDeleteThis is to the graduate crying over NYSC posting, my dear wipe your tears and enjoy the feel of a new territory. I was posted to Katsina state in 2007 when I served and I had never left eastern Nigeria all my life. It was before all the BH ish so I went and needless to say, it was an experience I will never forget.
ReplyDeleteBe thankful no one sent you to any violence-ridden state.
And also calm down, you ain't gonna be like a prisoner who can't get out to visit family okay?
Corper, what is wrong in serving in Akwaibom. Which one are you all crying as if you all lost someone? not like you were posted to the the north set. abet start to de arrange your bags to go for camp. you will experience what others have experienced yourself. it is not a death sentence.
ReplyDeleteLeve dt otondo! I got posted to plateau state nd havnt even shed a tear yet. Never bin to d north b4. God be wif me
Delete@sex and breastfeeding, it all depends on ones husband. My hubby likes boob a lot, it's always difficult for him when am breastfeeding because he don't mind sucking it then though I never allow him. I have my own two kids through nomal delivery so no experience about CS.
ReplyDeleteOur sex life haven't change because of child birth. Though I feel uncomfortable about my boobs now but my husband always say he don't mind how they are because am a mother now.
Please fellow pregnant blog visitors, my face is full of pimples because of this pregnancy, any natural remedy for it?
Natural remedy.. Give birth and they will all go fiam..
DeleteTochinda I am scared of using acne product on my face. I never had pimples before. I hope it goes away before the baby arrives because my face is scary now.
DeleteJust apply funbact A. It is harmless and it works
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DeleteMy dear..dere is notin u will do to mak it disapear ooo..watever u use will worsen it..its ur hormones..jst be patient till u giv birth
DeleteMtshew! After refreshing since morning,something dat u post by 12.30pm u decided to delay it,rubbish
ReplyDeleteSee painment! LOLOLOL
Deletewhy should you even return to the office after ante-natal....abeg,i never did.after all the stress of the checks.
ReplyDelete@the CS woman,i went through CS too,it was not as painful as i hear.Its been 6MONTHS now and i have no single scar..you need to sit your husband down and speak to him about your needs.
@the corper,stop acting like a sissy.that state is really peaceful.if you were posted to the North nko?.i served in the north,with the locals,no network,no internet,no western life,and i made it through.
Happy born day Colly, may God bless your new age. Llnp
ReplyDeletePoster looking for contraceptive, why not use the billing method.
NYSC corp member, Akwaibom is a nice place, why the fear??? Abeg, chill and take away all fears, after all you are serving your father's land.
Good luck to you all applying
How many Sues dey this blog? that Sue is not me, I guess I have to start planning to change my blog name
ReplyDeleteSome peeps can be funny. Bv u were posted to awka ibom and u throw yourself into a state of mourning. Why? Isn't it people that are posted to the north and they didn't kill themselves. Take it in good fate and go there .Try and broaden u horizon and better things might come up there. God knows best!
ReplyDeleteOne thing I have noticed in Lagos is that anything that involves crossing Ore scares d shit outta Westeners.. Yoruba una too fear..No sense of adventure at all.. See ur mouth like ur moda was crying.. Ask dem now they will tell u every oda state eats human flesh and dy dnt want to be eaten.. Mscheeeeew
DeleteAnon no be everybody o...you are myopic I guess for assuming that all Yorubas are always afraid of crossing Ore...I served in Abia...Isiala-ngwa to be precise and was warned by the police and massob or local vigilante to steer clear of some places...i'm married to an Edo man...also graduated from Uniben...so also a lot of Yorubas
DeleteSo anon, nor be everybody dey fear se o gbo?
!!omu Iya dun!!
@ Sexy D, trust me there are only few yorubas like you. Am about getting married to a yoruba man and he wouldn't even attend the paying of bride place ceremony for reasons am yet to understand. My only reason for being calm is that his mum and some others will be present. His mum also refused going to my village for anything initially. They wanted everything to be done in lagos. Like we eat people in Abia state o. They said Abia is too far.
DeleteDesola,this must be you,definitely you!!!!!!
DeleteXOXO
I have sent in an application for the above stated vacancy for the front des,I pray I am given favourable consideration.amen!
ReplyDeleteBlog V posted to akwa ibom remember the song akwa ibom ayaya lol am sure u will be fine, God is everywhere, I remember I cried too when I was posted to Anambra, bt after the 3weeks I ran bak home oo lol,i redeployed.
When there is no milk, men will suck boobs like they are sucking fuel from empty 504 tank.
ReplyDeleteWhen milk plenty and dey flow...they go dey form "yuck"
Me...I love the flow. I press bobby and spray my chest with the flow...no shaking.
As per scar for belle being a turn off, tell the anuofia that his pot belly or hairy bum bum is also a turn off but u dey manage.
Make I go buy palm oil for these idols
Welcome back! Howdy?
DeleteWelcome Baba alawo...ogun a gbe e o(you shall be favoured by the god of iron)...oo ni ri ija oba koso o(Amadioha will never fight you). Ase(amen)
DeleteWelcome back
!!omu Iya dun!!
Haha haha @tell the anuofia that his pot belly or hairy bum bum is also a turn off but u dey manage. #OneLove#
DeleteYaaay! Welcome back Sir. I missed your witty and gentlemanly comments.
DeleteLOLOLOLOL welcome back! Quickly go & buy the palm oil, don't mind the hediots that refuse to sleep with their wives because of CS, as if their bodies are flawless. See what all these photoshopping &/fake ass models & celebs in the media dey cause?
DeleteADONBILIVIT!!! I carry yansh for una. Una can fast for africa. HBD dearie wishin u LLNP even though i didnt get any of d 'Richard Cards'. God bless....
ReplyDeleteNice one. Just applied for the post of front desk. HBD BV. Stella abeg semd me Mtn card na. Thanks in advance.
ReplyDeleteWhy is the NYSC babe crying? What's dere? U r nt d first person to go na. I've always bn in the west and I didn't cry wen I was posted outside the West. Stop giving urself unnecessary headache jare.
Sex sex sex everywhere..my dear sex is not food. He's nt even married to you and u will be doing raw knacking. We don't want to hear stories dat touch the heart.
Sdk tell ur friend dat had Cs to wear jeans more often d scar will go flat.
ReplyDeleteAbout the breast feeding issue and sex, its simple nah. Jusy wear brazzier with nursing pads during love making. That should stop the breast milk from pouring out.
ReplyDeleteThe CS issue, some men are like that. They have no conscience and don't care about how deeply they are hurting their wives with their acts.
Is there no solution to eliminating the scars? Talk to him and make him understand his behaviour is hurting you.
Happy birthday blog visitor.
Latest corper: you are kidding right, its a joke. You and your family members are mourning because you were posted to serve in Akwa Ibom? Isn't this the ideavof NYSC?
My dear start getting your bags ready jare and go and enjoy some Edikang Ikong soup.
Nah wah after all d refreshing, as I no get luck load to read tire me.hian
ReplyDeleteYou were even posted to a very good place as AkwaIbom and you are scared. Is any part of the West better? Abeg grow up. I served in Lagos last year and it was the best experience ever cos I decided to make it profitable. NYSC is what I wish I had more years to do. You'll enjoy your stay in the South don't worry.
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ReplyDeleteAs for the scar, it depends on the woman's body. Some heal beautifully while some leave really ugly scars. With mine, i can wear bikini sef and no one would know except you look closely.
ReplyDeleteHowever, the scar might turn her bobo off if it has keloids and stuff. Not anyone's fault but they both have to live with it. Everyone has some inate preference. So it is not that easy to turn off and on like that.
Corper,aks is really nice place n u will love it der.nothing to fear. Dey are also warm at heart. U are welcome. Akwa ibom ado ok.
ReplyDeleteWhy is the bv crying that he /she got posted to Akwa Ibom? That u've not left the west before means nothing. To think that Akwa Ibom is even a nice place that people lobby to go to. Y not have an open mind about it? Sometimes, u nid to step out of ur comfort zone so as to be able to see things differently and also enlarge ur borders.
ReplyDeletei dont understand your husband oooo. am a mother of three, a boy and twin girls. while i was breastfeeding hubby touched every part plus using his tongue sef to fiddle on my nipples and only stops when the breastmilk is coming, and their is a small towel around to help with that. maybe you need to work on yourself.
ReplyDeletei had my son through normal delivery and the twins through c/s, i also developed that extra thick skin on the scar, its called kelloid. when hubby started complaining that it doesnt look good, i went back to my gynea and i had another small operation kind of. he gave anesthetic, then cut off the extra growing thick skin, after 3 days, he gave a cream which i cant remember the name to apply and if you see my tummy now, you have to look well before you see the c/s line its use like they use pencil to write something. the extra skin is gone. Go see your gynea if you dont mind spending the money for a minor operation, then you will be fine.
From the desk of kelvin happiness. Really perplexed & devastated About dis issue ' it occurred few weeks bck
ReplyDelete.I and my uncle share same place or apartment cus he's the only guardian around as my parents reside in SA "the thing is my uncle has bin ordained a pastor in one of the popular churches in naija ,am happy 4 him ooh buh omo guy told me,he wants to swap his profession being a banker b4 into fulltime ministry, he phoned my parents n told them n they were happy for him buh advised him to keep his job. should in case any cataclysmic event ensues later on. buh wah I dnt like is dah they also suggested he should chip me in like being his assistant,tetetetete *laffin in my dialect o boi imagine me in front of the congregation saying praise thy lord who go listen,if one of my exes were to be there. wud she repent after my msg or get worst, pple knw I flex alot so hw wud they trust me wid deir offerings,pple knw I cuss out alot wah if some1 annoys me, and i tell the person na thunder go fire u,,the how question goes on &on. since its a new church it is required of me dah I help,buh I think all I can offer at the end of this episode is sit amongst the congregation chanting ' ride on pastor while he preaches ,m sorry mom n dad and my blog visitors, hv nt started drinking peak, so it's nt in me to do second fiddle pastoral works..least I forget he has since stopped me from playing shoki kinda song while he's at home lol I said it oooh u see i hv startd living in hell on earth oooh no female friend
has visitor me
since this new life style 'dah I wud now so prefer to swap oscar pistorious jail terms wid mine, he cm come stay wid my uncle while I serve his jail term in SA.
Lmao. U r def a crazy guy.
DeleteLol...abeg manage am. u won't die.
Buhahahahahaha I have died n risen.
Hahahhahahaha
DeleteThe one and only Kelvinator!
Pastor Kelvin...LMAO
U wil repent by fire by force hahaha
Assistant Pastor Kelvin, better answer the call o, hahahahahahaha!
DeleteRide on my own Pst kelvinator! Consider me one of una customer. Gbam!
DeleteAshafa says:
DeleteHahahahahahaha....kelvin has killed me with laughter.
Gosh! How I miss my Sdkb.
I don't bother trying to load the rcards cos some bvs have hidden radars that sniff them out before they land
ReplyDeleteAs for the husband poking in the dark cos of cs scars... May God forgive you oh cos that is an act of wickedness cos your act will be demoralizing your poor wife.
Otondo corper so common Akwa Ibom as e fine so you & your mama is shedding tears? How did you manage to pass through the uni ? I bet she dropped you off at the school Gate every morning abi? I served in Kano (not town oh) , my sis in jigawa & I bet u dat I was younger dan u when I was serving. Which kain akamu corper be dis? Akwa Ibom is a fine town & am sure you'll enjoy your stay.
Mrs banker, you have the right to go for ante natal care provided you give notice before hand & if u did & your boss is behaving like this then she is a wicked & bitter fellow. May God see you through your condition.
Happy birthday to bv. You for show us your pictures naa. Don't mind the insult & curses... Most of us here look like shrek so no shaking :D
It is very wrong for your husband to do that. For me, breast feeding or childbirth never changed a thing! Infact, after my 2nd baby my hubby started asking for sex 1 week after! I was so shy and complained that I might be loose down there plus I was still bleeding a little but he insisted and said he didn't feel any difference. When I'm breastfeeding, no matter what I do or how many breast pads I wear, my milk still leaks and soaks my clothes but my hubby still does his usual foreplay cos he knows I won't come without my boobs being sucked though he licks my nipples instead of sucking on them. He has even tasted the milk on a few occasions sef. For the lady with the CS it's very wrong for any man to treat his wife that way after being thru hell and back to have a child for him. Tell him how u feel .
ReplyDeleteEwww ......yucky. onishekushe you still want to come a week after childbirth.
DeleteMadam, disposable breast pad is d best
Delete!!omu Iya dun!!
D person postd to akwaibom dts crying must b a learner. My bro inlaw ws posted to adamawa. So wt shd he do? Hang himself? Abegi park well
ReplyDelete4d man who mks love wif wify in dark cos of cs, he has no idea of cs pain, I'm sure if he experince half of d pain of cs aftermath he no go see mouth talk.
Wow! In house new make sense die. Aw! Didn't get any airtime but God bless d givers. Hey corper, don't worry u'll be fine.
ReplyDeleteThe first hubby is a wicked man,I have three kids and my hubby still suck my boobs like no tomorrow. in fact he always tease my nipples with his tongue while breastfeeding. The second hubby is a mad man,she had the scar while giving birth to your baby
ReplyDeleteI am an avid reader of your blog I am in tears right now I just lost my pregnancy of about four months plus I don't want to blame God because he loves me and he knows best but it's still so heartbreaking. After five years of prayers he answered and yet my little angel still died in my womb. My beautiful baby chukwukaihenine rest in peace in the presence of the Lord.
ReplyDeleteAwwww
DeleteSending u warm hugs love
i can imagine how teary you are right now buh Dry ur tears,kk?
God knows best nne...
The one dat wil stay will come,kk?
Our good God is ur Strength!
Awww! So sorry, I can feel your pain, he just cleared the way for those that will stay ok.
DeleteSo sorry for ur loss. May God comfort you. Do not despair. God will show himself in your situation. I declare that this time next year you'll be dedicating your baby in church. Keep praying . Also, once you notice a missed period and confirm that you are pregnant, book for an in a reputable specialist hospital. It is well with you. Chukwukaihinene, rest in the bosom of the Lord.
DeleteOmg! So sorry for ur loss @2:03. I can imagine how u feel right now...u hv my deepest sympathy .
DeleteLook beyond ur troubles n remember God's time n promise- Stop crying, ok! God is decorating a much better Gift for u. Cheer up hun!
Warmest E-hugs!!
So Sorry dear,my heart went out to you as I read your comment,be strong and take things easy, God knows best, he will surely compensate you for your loss..it is well **E hugs**
DeleteTake a big heart Dear! I can imagine your pain right now . Wish you double celebration for all your troubles.
DeleteCan imagine how you feel dearie. I'm so sorry about your loss. Pls take heart, get prepared. God is bringing another bundle of hoy sooner than you think. #hugs
DeleteIt's never too late to try again. Rest and let your body heal. The Lord never forgets his children. Take care.
DeleteSo sorry dear,,God knows best, he will surprise you again and miscarriage will not be your portion in Jesus name, amen.
DeleteSo sorry 4ur lost bloggie, God is ur strength ok.
DeleteAwww
DeleteI'm so sorry anon for your loss.
Please take heart.
God will give you double next time and they will live to make you proud in future.
E-hugs
So so sorry for your loss. Praying for God's strength and comfort for you and yours. Pls remember it's always darkest just right before dawn.
DeletePlenty jist 2day. For d preggy banker,why not switch ur anenatal days to saturdays instead.pele d lord is ur strenght.# d newly posted corper,u should be happy its akwa ibom and not jigawa state,where I experienced constant sandstorms and hell fire sun.lol.u will be fine don't worry.
ReplyDeletemadam stella,abeg wetin b igbelekokomistaphylococos??...lmao
ReplyDeleteMy sexual experience after my baby got better..i loved sex more! But I hubby left the boobs..and he loves them..We talked about. It and I assured him it doesn't hurt me...I hate the milk that gushes out Stella! So I kept them caged always..i won't even encourage him to suck em..eewwrry!the milk splattering everywhere was not something I wanted to witness biko! Now that I was gerrin my groove back,we are back to square one!!hahahahha
ReplyDeleteThe pregnant lady going for antenatal...well bosses always react funny when you need to go for these things..it depends on your bank,check your contract..i hope you know that from once every month..it will increase to every 2weeks then every week? are you the first to be pregnant in your branch? Ask others dear..then speak to your boss in a polite way,telling her how much you need this for the well-being of you and your child(like she doesn't know already) it is well with you!
wait oh..i still dont understand why som pple will load more than one card in the midst of God knows how many sdkers we get...is nt fair o..buh no p sha...
ReplyDelete@Stella, pls no vex for those that disappointed you last nyt, their mouth no good.
@ poster nacking steady soon, God is watching you on HDD...so we can hardly find a 'no-sex' relationship these days abi..issokay.
@Birthday girl wit no liver to post pics, dont worry, b4 nxt year liver go don germinate for u ehn.
@ Akwa-Ibom otondo corper, I feel ur pain..i cried my eyes out too on my way to cross river after camp sef..like warriz dis (as per food,transport,ambience etc.)..buh just let it pass..u will survive besides wait oh, Akwa-Ibom pays 10k for state allowee..just go ahead..11 months only!
Stella, Madam di madam..well done work..dalu orlu (did I get it?)...more grease to ur elbow..I missed the glo card..e pain me sha.
Breast feeding and childbirth aftermath
ReplyDelete*clears throat*
it depends on the man my dear..
my husband, *clears throat* all of that didn't stop him. I was the one squeezing face sef while my mind kept screaming...shey ds man no see say I just born ni?
all in all, different folks, different strokes.
some men get turned off, some get turned on
*smiling* @ The newest otondo in town, dont worry all is well, there is always a first time.
ReplyDelete@All, SDKerz who lives at Akwa Ibom should please welcome her on behalf of this blog family. *winkz*
SDKerz rockz!!!
Hello corper, I served in akwa ibom 2yrs ago & before then i lived & schooled in lagos all my life. My dear, serving in akwa ibom was fun o, nothing to worry about. you'll definitely find a bunch of pple from the west too. Enjoy! Tell mumsy to stop crying o
ReplyDeleteFor those thankful people una do well.
ReplyDeleteI have had c sections and you won't know if I don't tell you my scars are barely visible though done in the US. After the surgery no pains as I took Oxytocin for less than ten days. As for sex it's still the very good.
Youth corper go with an open mind to have a blast. I think you should be more concerned about job prospects after the one year
All others I don forget. As goggle go still ask if I be robot
@BV posted to Akwa Ibom-Aks is a nice place,I served dere,Eket.its a nice place,d security is on anoda level,u will enjoy it cos I did.its less dan 1hr to uyo from wherever u are in d state,its a small state.
ReplyDeleteChildbirth did not chang my husband's attitude towards lovemaking. I breastfed for six months and we still made love fine. I'm a triple D, so he's always been attracted to the twins. Though I gave birth vaginally sha, not through cs and he was there in the delivery room coaching me.
ReplyDeleteTo the blog visitor posted to Akwa Ibom, fret not. Akwa Ibom is one of the coolest cities. Just pray and make sure u are posted to their town. I'm from the East, been to Abuja, Lagos, PH,and co. I can tell u Akwa Ibom is a city to be in. Go and come back to tell us ur experience. Cheer up *Hugs and Cupcakes*
ReplyDeleteTo the blog visitor posted to Akwa Ibom, fret not. Akwa Ibom is one of the coolest cities. Just pray and make sure u are posted to their town. I'm from the East, been to Abuja, Lagos, PH,and co. I can tell u Akwa Ibom is a city to be in. Go and come back to tell us ur experience. Cheer up *Hugs and Cupcakes*
ReplyDeleteMen should gather small sense na..This is heart torturing,you don't suck breast again cuz she don drop for you...Chai!
ReplyDeleteGod knows I hate rejection...
Which doc n clinic did ur CS? CS these days u won't notice d scar cos it's on d panty line(bikini line), a straight cut, n sewn cosmetically...i had cs with my first child in prime medical, 2days later I was up..d scar is like a razor line n fading a month later..they use disolvable stitch, very sexy as my oga wud say..n I wear a sexy bra during luv making, a bra n garter n b looking like jada fire*wink*
ReplyDeleteIn house news special... I like.
ReplyDeleteNarrative 1. Yes some men change towards their wive after childbirth. For me,scares and stretch mark put me off. I also had problem watching doctors perform surgeries In films even seeing blood was a problem for me until I witness a child birth. Some of the problem we read here every day is mostly our faults as individuals, some mothers apply I don't care attitude after child birth. They refuse to take care of themselves reasons for some are who's looking at them, well your men are looking at you and observing. What you should know is that your men want you to look attractive after child birth, when you don't look attractive at home for him he loses the vibe. I read daily here how women see men and cast us as bad egg, most of you has refused to ask the men reasons for such behaviour. Am sure your men always tell you what they like and don't like as you have kids but instead of applying change into your marriages some adopt I don't care attitude until it hit on them then vammm next we read on SDK blog about their issue. What ever your men ask you to change in your marriages especially after child birth (jokingly or seriously)please do it in order to continue the vibe you had before childbirth and after childbirth.
ReplyDeletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said...
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Robot dey follow us read this blog i swear.
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Stella, some bosses can be very wicked. Some won't even approve a pregnant staff going for ante-natal. They will tell you fix it for weekend(saturday), t.he ones wey nice small go tell you to come back to the office after ante-natal because allowing you at all to them is doing you a favour (if you have to go during working days). Wetin we fit do them. No be" we beg to apply"? Who do you report them to?
ReplyDeleteSome are even so wicked that when you go for maternity leave them no go pay you salary for that 3 months or some may pay you half salary, who do you report them to? They will tell you if you are not ready to work you can resign, that thousand of people are waiting to fill your post..but them forget say God dey and he is watching them with 3d lens...
Pls my bv's my hubby of 7years hates sex even b4 we got married we have sex once in 2months n dats cos I go to him we don't hug we don't kiss no foreplay he likes sleeping in the parlour am so frustrated sexually d funny thing is that am so beautiful clean sexy n young even after kids(2boys 2girls) cos I got married very early n knew nothing then not to brag but d number of guys dat admire me plenty but don't knw y my hubby doesn't see me that way he has never told me am beautiful n he is not cheating on me o n he's not gay that am sure wat cud be wrong with him n how can I fix it .He sleeps early so that I won't even suggest sex.
ReplyDeleteFear God.. ...do you want to kill him after 4 children
DeleteEeeya.dont even know wot to say.i just feel ur pain..
DeleteI heard some Men are like dat
Maybe ur hubby is one of dem
Have u talked about it to him?
u know some peeps dont know dese things..
All in all,i wish u well Dearie
So what after 4 children? She needs sex period!
DeleteYour husband has low testosterone resulting in low sex drive. You need to find a way to get him to see a doctor as that can be fixed. Trust me it may be difficult to get him to see a doc as he doesn't even think he has a problem, and actually, he doesn't. You sex drive is either high or on the average, but going by what u've written, his sex drive is about 2 out of 10. For a woman with low sex drive, she would be fine with him.
DeleteNot commending your beauty thou has nothing to do with his testosterone. He seems to be an emotionally aloof kind of man. The type that is hardly romantic. It is gonna be difficult to change things as this is who he is. Eventhou he doesn't say the words, trust me, he knows you are beautiful and appreciates you.
My fiancee is very much like your man, but by the grace of God, I was able to work on him before I accepted his marriage offer. He isn't like you normal everyday guy yet, but he's better than what he used to be now. We also used to go 1-2 months without sex, now I can boldy say we do it every week and it only gets better. And also, I have managed to get him off the couch in the sitting room cuz I won't let him be until he follows me upstairs. As for being emotionally aloof, well, that is still work in progress. I buy him gifts all the time, complement him and tell him I love him. he always responds and he is learning to do these on his own without me prompting him.
But my dear, the good thing about such men is that they are usually very responsible and committed to their wives and kids. He won't cheat on you trust me, and with him you can always have peace of mind. They no get wahala
Why is that man being insensitive an inconsiderate.
ReplyDeleteI didnt give birth through CS but i had an Ovarian Cystectomy when i was 6months preg, the scar is longer than those of my friend that had a CS bcos the cyst was huge, it was a neat job i must say, but my husband kisses the long scar, and makes feel good.
It is quite immature for him to say he has to dim the lights, how do u want wify to feel, for something that isnt her 4ly. Asif he isnt the CAUSER of the pregnancy. Hiss
Akwa ibom has an airport and rich guys that spend silly. Hehehehe. They can mope at fresh girls and spend without brakes. As long as u can stand that their thick pong- pong accent sha. Cos there's hardly anyone who doesn't have it. Me I couldn't sha. Trust me I schooled in unical. Make sure you runs ur posting to Eket. If you don't find a Mobil staff who will eventually help u in, you can be doing supplies for them. Talk to the right people. Don't be crying like a baby better sharpen up there's money in that state. All these baby graduates sef.
ReplyDeleteBetter make friends with nysc officials too. And sharp girls and boys.
I remember when I was posted to ondo, I thought the world was ending, as I wanted lag or abj. Long story short, I was posted to one ministry but I found my way into govt house. Free 3 bedroom accommodation for 3 corpers. Furnished with dstv, 4 burner gas with oven, huge fridge, big generator. And it was close to govt house sef. We used to jog in the mornings, cos it was that serene. Then we now made friends with some chevron guys ( yea chevron is in ondo) and even all those cocoa exporters. Most times we come to lag to party for the weekend and go back. Thankfully there was an airport. Akure is a really dry town, but we were balling. Had a car to ourselves and driver sef.
So, never say never.
blog visitor nysc, akwa-ibom is a very nice place nd trust me you will enjoy it. my two sisters served there though one is still currently there nd she's having fun nd no complains. so just free your mind nd go biko, I could connect you to her after your camp if you re posted to d city there.
ReplyDeleteAwww...to the Corper, I feel your pain but you should be grateful they even speak English where you were posted to. What will you say for those posted to the North? It's not always as bad as it seems. I was posted to Katsina few years ago, I didn't cry but I was unhappy for days. Getting there (even in camp) it was a really wonderful experience for me. I don't regret a single day I spent there. Sorry for the long story, was just tryna raise your spirit. May God send His angels to keep watch over you.
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ReplyDeleteNa wao so una don load this cards finish, i will not advice anybody cos i dey vex.
my sis is serving in akwa-ibom and ages enjoying it, her twin also served there so I don't see the need for your tears. what if you wre posted to kano or maidugri nkö, biko go nd do as your mates are doing.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday colly, may all the givers never lack...and goodluck to applicants...
ReplyDeleteAs for the sex and breast-feeding thang....i know nothing about them, but i do know that ones' hubby should accept them the way they are...
Thank God for us with orange type of breast o.. Our breast don't go down easily.. We put up a damn good fight.. We what my boys did with this boobs of mine,you will think they will go down but lai lai,they are still good o. While I was breastfeeding,hubby was always trying to touch and play with it but I refused suxking.. Immediately I weaned,he launched on it in full force. And now they are even better and fuller again *wink wink*
ReplyDeleteCopper sorry na. That's the whole essense na. Take you from where you are used to to where you know no one.. I guarantee you you will have so much fun you might wanna stay back
Use comdom poster seeking for a contraceptive.. Contraceptives will mess up your menses and even your fertility rate.. Unless you go for the IUD or injection which makes one fat. I don't like that one tho..
HBD…..To the woman that did CS i understand your hubby, i have seen women that did CS the scar is not easy on the eye. If you breast feed your baby try not to over do it, leave some for hubby , he needs it too. Thank you.
ReplyDeleteAkwa Ibom is a place where most corpers are even dying to go for service...OTONDO u better rejoice cos u will enjoy the place especially if you are posted to their capital, UYO.. many would wish they were in your shoes now... I tried working mine there when i served but no show.. i was pained but i moved on, am done and working now.
ReplyDelete@chick felix...u gave us the impression that u aint in Nigeria so why hustle for card???
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Colly. God bless you. I know that feeling b'cos our people for here ehn *lipsealed*. My birthday is next month and I wish to share my pic but...*runsaway
ReplyDeleteDis pple sef wey de load d card, una no de sleep or work or somtin. Make una allow us wey neva load befor load na..
ReplyDeleteI'm lucky then, hubby won't let my boobs be even while breastfeeding. He even sucks and swallows the milk sometime (covers face).
ReplyDeleteI also had a CS 5 months ago but when I show you the scare, you won't believe it was recent. It's a very very clean bikini cut.
It's well healed now and not so visible sef Hubby has never complained or got turned off by it. Person wey just grab me as I stepped out of the bathroom this morning....*wink*
Sweet man...I love him so much.
Stella I don't know what's wrong with your friends hubbys oh. I can't understand their excuse. And I think they are being unreasonable and unfair.
The contraceptive question, please make do with condom if you must fornicate. Contraceptives will make you relax and be "nacking" anyhow, LOL
To the pregnant poster,
Dear you have a right to antenatal please.
It's a must, for your own good and that of the baby. Please discuss with your boss and inform her formally.
If possible tell her the day(s) of the week you will be going for antenatal. Before going always inform her please.
You don't just walk out of the office without permission because you have antenatal (that's the impression I got from your story, forgive me if I'm wrong).
Please always inform your boss before hand. Be polite about it. I'm sure your boss is not a demon. Most bosses love control and the best way to handle them is to humble yourself before them as much as is necessary for peace sake. Carry her along ok. I wish you a safe delivery when you are due.
To the youth corper,
Just hold on for me ok.
I'm going to post a long epistle narrating my NYSC experience in a "strange" state. Hope it will cheer you up.
Awwwww....Genny had some dis morning..Hehehehehe
DeleteNothing for me jare
Two nights ago,d General came back bearing Ice cream...hehehehehe
So I quickly ran to d bathroom to u know,Shave cos I had Biiigg plans for d ice cream.....*sticks out ma tongue @ Xoxo
In ma hurry i just made a mess of d Whole thing...
Ended up almost butchering maself..Kai
Its d Devil o cos I had already had ma bath o,dont know who just sent me on dis errand o
I know at dis juncture u must be very happy Xoxo *rme*
Hehehehhehe
#okbye#
Hahahahahaha
Delete@TGW
Sorry dear. Such things happen.
Hope the cut isn't deep?
There will always be a next time.
Pele.
Iyeomon Okhueleigbe may be you have not joined this blog when some said that, no one shld load all n u loaded all- easy o, try load one and leave d other for another person na and @Anon 1:13pm, you loaded 2 difft network n still under Annon, learn to give and not takers.
ReplyDeleteOk mum
Deleteas for sex and childbirth, I guess it hubby is been selfish abt it,I gave birth two months ago and I started kegal immediately, and my husband still enjoy it with me and anytime, yes sometime he doesn't stimulate my breast cuz am breastfeeding and milk comes out u know men get irritated easily buy I think he feel the breast doesn't belong to him for now dat you cuz mosttime he won't want be to breastfeed our baby simple be cuz hes jealous, I feel u should talk to him about how u feel then u can be happy.
ReplyDeleteas for nysc poster, babe I feel u,I was posted to kaduna I serve with the army belive me I enjoy every bit of it,just tell us mum to wipe her tears but should pray for you to meet god favor Cuz that water gonna work for u.
for the anti natal poster, you are entitled to go for antenatal check up. although in some coy they will want u to come back to work expecially banks and if u be contract worker they will wanna impose it.am sure that ur boss never marry that y she's been sadistic I work in a telecom and I set aside every Thursday for my antenatal even though it Saturday, and sometime if rain fall self or miss staff bus I cook up lies to rest at home, my dear don't allow it ooh,if u know it will be stressful for u.pregnancy no be small tin.u need lot if rest.
I gave birth via cs n we waited abt 2 months or so
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Them post you go Akwa Ibom you dey cry, u know weda u go meet your oil husband there? if na Katsina where I serve nko?
first time commenting.. been in ghosht sincee
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ReplyDeleteI actually dnt know abt others but breast feeding doesn't stop hubby from sucking my boobs during sex, d guy needs to go gentle to avoid d milk flowing into his mouth. i once heard a story of a man in my neighbourhood fighting wit d wife ova breast milk, dat his entitled to one breast milk while d baby will take one.....d wife refused n said how can she be breast feeding d baby n hubby d same time. d man report her to his family members n d Rev in dere church, d case was settled in favour of d woman....na d same bobi someone is fighting over another is rejecting . hmmmmmmm i tire
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ReplyDeleteHappy birthday Colly. Wish you only the best in life.
Madam corper,you are crying your eyes out because you are lucky to be posted to Akwa lbom? What of others who have no ogas at the top to lobby their postings and have been sent to the far north?
You talk as if akwa lbom is a leper's colony
That is the best state you can serve,the indigenes will suffocate you with hospitality,who knows they might even dash you a husband.
If you are in the capital (uyo) l will personally put you up in my family's house for the duration of your service but outside uyo,l can't help. My kid sister won't mind company
She is an undergrad in uniuyo so you won't have problem moving about but I hope you are not bad news.
I pledge to SDK my best blog....to be loyal, honest and faithful. To comment everyday with all my heart and oppose the bullies, so help me GOD
ReplyDeleteWhat I read about marriages on this blog scare me #lordhavemercy
Kip it up!
DeleteAnon 2:03pm, take heart, the lord is in control, and may the baby's soul rest in peace
ReplyDeleteSissy corper....someone mentioned you should not keep late outside (ie when u go out come back home on time).In addition to that be careful befriending calabar "ette" guy.ooo except uno wan get ur pussy in one piece back to ya papa house after service! lol! good luck.
ReplyDeleteAbeg I just applied for the front desk job for my friend Isabella.
"Richard Kards' watch night ish, I can't deal #s'il te plait#
After the watch nyt yesterday and now again!! This leshard card u are sharing witout giving me no good oo! Thanks to the givers and happy BD to the celebrant.
ReplyDelete@corper from the western nigeria,is it dat bad,so Tey they are calling to console u?lol!u and ur family love drama sha!Akwa Ibom isn't too bad for petes sake,it will do ur level of exposure and social life good when u travel to other places.leave ur comfort zone for once!what will u have done if u went to a unity secondary school?where u will be traveling far far continuously for 6yrs?u need to relax and create fun out of it,its just a year and who knows there might be something gud waiting for u there#winks
ReplyDelete@anonymous 2:03, this is my 1st time of commenting and am doing it cos of u my dear. I know exactly how you feel, pls take heart. I had a miscarriage abt 4mths ago and it was soo painful. Believe me it's well. It's actually better to wait and have a healthy baby. Your baby that you are meant to have will come and stay. Pls wipe your tears my dear.
ReplyDelete@Anon 3:09 . . . after all these have you done HIV test since after service. I met your type in NYSC and their problems are beyond HIV; plenty of opening legs and the consequences of sin. What really can a lady give in exchange for her soul?
ReplyDeleteI will ansa yall leta,mak I go baff
ReplyDelete~@iamjbankz SA to President Jonathan 2015~
It is a pity what we women have to go through,but thank God for information.i was in the same situation with scars until I heard about silicon gel.It will clear the scar completely.Thank me later,peace!
ReplyDeleteThe person crying about going outside the west, my dear, there is nothing wrong in moving out of your shell. Akwa Ibom is a good place. You will learn how to make their delicacies. I bet you, your skin will testify to the goodness of their cuisine.They are good people too.
ReplyDeleteGo with an open mind!
It's good to have our husbands at the labor room/ operating room. When they see what we go through to bring forth those beautiful kids, they appreciate us more. Rose
I love this blog sha!matured responses
ReplyDeleteI'm currently breastfeeding my 3rd baby. My hubby only fondles and sucks a bit. He doesn't waste time there else milk go full him mouth. He doesn't like the taste of breastmilk. Lol
ReplyDeleteBut some men get mind o! Was it not as result of your wife birthing your child that she had those scars. Na wa o!
I breastfeed and ahve awesome sex with my hubby.
ReplyDeleteI think it's more about individual differences but don't know about CS.
The pregnant lady, u are entitled to go for ante natal just like u r entitled to use the toilet when u r pressed. It's not usually written in appointment letter like maternity leave.
ReplyDeleteThe issue is ur rapor with ur boss. If there was good communication, she won't be mad at u cos there would av been an arrangement to take care of ur absence and if she is wicked/firm, trust me ur complaint would av been that u got a query.
Whether we like it or not the passion we put in our job will determine d corporation u get from ur boss.
Pregnancy is not a disease. I had someone that worked under me in a bank that comes in by 9am n goes by 5pm or earlier sometimes cos of her condition during preg. And that's cos she insists on coming even when I advised special leave of a month for her.
Don't abuse any privilege or right, but don't jeopardize ur health at all.
Who got posted to nasarawa? Best camp in nigeria.
ReplyDeleteHello
ReplyDeleteI need answers to what I've been gooing through. I had a miscarriage about to years ago and since i couldnt stop bleeding they pulled me into surgery. I dont know what tge doctors did after that all i know is that every month since the day i lost it. Theres some is some night i wake up in pain it feel a little up but o bvbthe left side of my bladder but it feels like the pain is from the insidee what could it be i went to the hospital in the same pain they said i was fine i dont think im fine