Doctors On Thursday - In House.

Excuse me,did you just say seven years?.....Hian!!!

BV DOCS PLEASE HELP - VAGINISMUS NUMERO UNO ......OMG !!!

 My dearest Aunt Stells,

I do not know where to start from, but i just have to start from the beginning, but before i do so, i want to thank God for you, because he is the one that made you the philanthropist you are today, touching lives with the blog you have.

I am a silent fan of yours, been reading your blog since the days of your DVD diaries last year,and it has been and it still is a wonderful experience, although i don't comment..lol.

So,back to the matter at hand, i was compelled to write to you because of the in house news you put up about a virgin that has not had sex with the husband for months,it got interesting when i saw a comment by anonymous 4.07. Aunt Stells, my elder sister is in this kind of predicament, but hers' is a whooping 7 yrs and counting! she is married o, but cant just be penetrated, and she isn't a virgin. 

She met her husband like 5years before marriage, and they promised to remain celibate until their wedding night, although they both weren't virgins. My sister has had sex only once in her life,before she met her current husband. Fast forward to the wedding night,it was torture for her, she told me his dick was big, but i kept re assuring her to bear the pain and make it happen,but she claimed that when ever he wanted to penetrate she keeps screaming and shaking like a leaf.

My family didn't hear about it until the 3rd year, and every body got involved, took her to ikeja teaching hospital,they said its a thing of the mind,so we took her to a psychiatric hospital still nothing, took her to a pastor, they said its spiritual, that she has a spirit husband, she did  series of prayers and deliverance nothing happened!

Fast forward to the 6th year,still nothing, the husband now has girlfriends and is a pastor in one of the redeem churches(but i don't blame him), he finally frustrated my sister out of the house this year, she had to park out to stay with my mum.Please Aunty Stells, i need help,we don't know what to call this again, even if its vaginismus,where can we get a resolution in Nigeria? the anonymous lady said she finally got a resolution,where and how can we get one too?she still wants to go back to her husband, cos they have been talking secretively.Shes one of those people you will meet and just fall in love with, always jovial,she doesn't deserve this. I was the bad girl,the wayward one,and am the most settled now, with a good husband and kids,God has shown me favor. She is in her early 30s now,with her marriage on the rocks,no job cos she has moved of of her husbands where her former job was located and no children,she has even lost her spirituality,because she is fed up,am now the spiritual person! and the husband is in his late 40s a Calabar man that already has a son before he met my sister. Please if you can use this as an in house news or what ever,so i can pick the brains of your readers and from there get a resolution,you will be helping a marriage.

As you can see i am using my office email to send this and my signature with my number is beneath this mail too, in case you wanna verify the story. God bless you Aunty Stells! Love u like i know you!

Kindly hide my identity please.

Highest regards.

*THIS IS BEYOND ME!...WHAT!!!!