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Friday, January 02, 2015

Snooping And It's Consequences!



The word 'snoop' is an informal Verb and its present participle is Snooping.If you snoop around,you are a snooper.



To snoop is to investigate or look around furtively in an attempt to find out something, especially information about someone's private affairs without their consent.



It is to enquire impertinently, be inquisitive (about), enquire, do some detective work;be curious, poke about/around, mind someone else's business, busybody.

It is to pokenose or stick ones nose into a lover/someone else's business without the persons consent.


I dont know what your definitin is but when i say someone should not snoop,i mean the above and when i say someone should do their homework,it means openly inquiring,asking questions before you walk headlong into anything.

In some tribe,before the bride's family accepts the man,they tell his family they have to do their findings,i was present one time at an introduction and the ladys family told the mans that they have to do their homework before they can release their daughter.

doing your homework is open enquiry and snopping is done without the other persons consent.

Look at the pic up there and the eyes of the snooper and how wide it is with fear?
A snooper is always two minutes away from a heart attack from fear when they are snooping.

I am team #Donotsnoop and i am unapologetic about this,because you snooped and it worked for you or caused problems for you which you are still yet to solve doesnt mean you are smart or that you should force your snooping down my throat.
I am against snooping but i respect those who do it because it takes a brave man to actually carry out snooping.

 If you have a snooping story to tell,either with negative or postive results,please step forward!




314 comments:

  1. Long thing, too lazy for that.

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    1. Lmaoo! Somborry pls call 911 o. I'm addicted to SDKB o. I came out of d bathroom and picked up my phone just to check update b4 dressing up. *sigh* that was 2hrs ago. I'm still here reading comments and refreshing constantly. Smh.

      2015 is my year of Sudden turnaround.

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    2. Well, it depends on what d snooping is all about. If it's to establish how faithful or otherwise one's partner is, I am all for snooping but d story have, I have stopped that kind of snooping it's outright invasion of privacy.
      So a friend of mine in school, born again etc came from d hols pregnant n went on n on gushing abt how she met d guy no do no do they got married hurriedly all before a one month break was over. Toh as a good friend I was happy for her as shocked as I was n life went on. I went to her hostel like normal, took her fone n was going through text messages. I just saw "u can't pin d pregnancy on better go n look for d father" from d supposed husband. I shock! Dropped d fone n I still can't rmbr how that evening ended. I never told anyone till date. D good thing is they r married today. D guy came for d naming ceremony in school n was dull all through.
      I've stopped that kind of snooping sha.

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    3. Stella, there are truths and secrets that only snooping can get you.

      Anybody can lie to you about informations about them.

      Snooping is good, but it should be done with maturity.

      I snoop, but I'm not a chronic snooper. It's helped me.

      My Story?

      I no get strength abeg. Tired from my journey.

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    4. For me snooping is only allowed in relationship otherwise snooping on any other level is next to stealing!
      Check out the eyes of that snooper,lol!reminds me of a cousin of mine that snoops ones belongings like hell,at the end he takes whatever he sees and never tells u.which is stealing and dats how it starts.

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    5. ...... Imagine a Friend so called girlfriend who took is BFF(me) phone snooping and found out i chat with my friends Ex that i have been friend with over a decade. She went ahead to copy the chat and later sent it to her email.
      Couldn't believe my eyes when i found out. I fear ladies desperate for marriage. What should i do?

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  2. Got no snooping stories....
    Lemme sit back n read comments...

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    1. @moydot...am in town,holla @ me n let's hang out...click on my profile to get my email address

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  3. Snooping is bad
    It is terrible because your heart races when you do so. Again,u become aware of things that are left alone.
    My hubby will swear with his life that I don't snoop.



    Taaaaaaaaa. I can snoop o.
    But I do it with style.
    I touch the phone
    Piam,I'm thru with the snooping deal.
    Fiam,I've kept d phone back.


    The thing is that,snooping is not too good.

    But I am proud
    To be a SNOOPER EXTRAORDINAIRE.

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    1. Hahaha Irene b u funny die
      Snooping is not good oh but I can't help it, am guilty as charged, I can snoop wella

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    2. Funny Irene o

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    3. I'm a fast snooper you never will guess I've just checked all stuff on your phone in 2minutes

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    4. @ Irene, you're such a funny character. Was going through the "time stood still post" today ( i save things to read later when i'm busy) and couldn't stop laughing at your comment.
      I laughed so much (on my train journey oh), i was shedding tears. Lmao! Still looling as i type.

      Click my name for all your celebration cakes and cupcakes, cheers

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    5. Irene Gbam! Gbamer!! Gbamest!!!

      I dey snoop with style jare.

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  4. Stella to an extend it helps,it does more good than harm! I have a lengthy story but am too weak to type

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    1. Team Snoop all day ery day! open enquiry ke? So if d person is hiding something and u ask, they will tell u d truth ba? Cos u carry jazz for mouth.
      Snooping helped me end a relationship with a chronic cheater.we lived in diff cities and I was @ his for family function, forming iyawo,running around and helping out. Dude had been knackn other girls n sexting some girl who even attended d occasion. Me dey run up and down. He had to leave his phone with me at some point cos he was busy, my intention wasn't to Snoop ooo, I was answering calls n directing guests to d venue till a funny text came in. Opened it and went thru text history with the girl, and d rest of em. I almost fainted. Was so hurt, broke it off and since them I am proudly Team Snoop!

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    2. I ve decided to keep an open mind tho,cos I just found out my so called bf is cheating I never catch am tho bt I need to have facts bfor I make up my mind, till then.....

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  5. With hubby, I don't snoop though I have his phone with me most times.... I got itchy fingers, so I don't trust myself not snooping one day. Lolz
    With my ex I snooped wella that's why I dumped his broke ass. Olumide, u can cheat for Africa, chai...... He even had the guts to book black cab for his bitch from east London to West London, yet he begs me for lebara voucher. What broke d camels back was when he chatted up his ex on FB that he was going to send her flight fare to come visit whereas this nigga was still owing school fees..... These niggas aren't loyal mehnnnn...... Let me not even start with the exchange of naked pictures with his SA bitch, yahoo messenger chat and missing condoms..... Chai!!!!! *I got headache reminiscing*

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    1. Snooping is really good, so u know the kind of man ur dealing with, then decide what to do with ur life. Don't snoop n still be giving excuse for him, that he will change. If u dont wanna leave the niga please don't snoop

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    2. I'm for team snoop anytime any day..if not I won't HV discovered DAT my ex was a dog in human form..

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    3. Casual Snooping is the way forward oh. It has saved many lives. People have discovered their boyfriend's HIV status before doing the do and it has saved their life. Active snooping is bad for the health...lol

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    4. As in!!!! Jbaby na the levels be tht oh! Don't dull

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  6. I am team #teamwhennecessary only when necessary

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  7. I am team snooping. And no! No negative stories to tell.
    I am just of the school of thought that it's better you be a detective and get to find out stuff for yourself rather than be a fool for so long...and the last to know about something when every other knows.

    I still believe snooping is never wrong. My advice to fellow snoopers is: hope for the best and prepare for the worst. That's all.

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    1. Am on side on this one @bloglord

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  8. Yes snoop very well.....on my son's chat, because whenever I tend to read his chats hes like no joor am a teenager. But no heart attack for Mr cus when I snoop I dont see scary stuffs or chats

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  9. I hate snooping, what you don't know about will not hurt you. Snoopers ngwa jisi nu ike.

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    1. What you don't know will not hurt you abi?
      Kikikikikikikiki....issorait!

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    2. When a flirt infect u with disease then u'll know that what u don't know CAN kill u

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  10. Snoop!snoop!!snoop!!! Better knowing than living in a fool's paradise.#teamsnoop#

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    1. Don't I just love you for this comment? Abeg chop kiss!

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    2. Abeg chop kiss dear.

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    3. Ada nnewi, love ur comment die, snooping is my favorite hobby .... wink

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  11. @ Stella; point taken
    #team snoop member numero uno
    Snooping made me discover i was dating a serial cheat.
    As i fine reach, he was still dating other babes on the side.
    When i found out, i dumped him hard and fast before he will give me what does not belong to me.
    I won't snoop if you don't give me cause to and if you know i am investigating you openly, of course you will hide all incriminating evidence.

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    1. I can imagine a gf snooping on my chats with some female friends...she'l just kill herself over nothing

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    2. Hmmmm! As u find reach?? Lolz. Na fine, maybe ur toto nor fine and sweet reach

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  12. LOL. Snooping!
    I did it when i used to care.
    First was when.he left his phone in.anger and i was able to guess his password. I'm that good. I got what i bargained for.
    2nd was when.he forgot to log out of FB on his laptop and gave me to watch a movie.
    Went to his inbox and did carefully typed the name of the hoe i have been suspecting (once saw her name pop up on his tab as a notification from FB)
    Of course, i saw bullshit, snapgrabbed it, forward them to my phone with a USB cord, sent them to him.
    Did i mention he knows how to prostrate well? Come and see begging.
    All that's gone.now. ko s'aye mo.
    I'v got better things to do.
    To cap it all, snooping aint.for the faint hearted.

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    1. Lol@snapgrabbed it.and was he asleep when you did all your searchings.

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    2. Lmaooooooooooooo!!!!! I occupy the office of the presidency when snooping is concerned, chai mine is actually an addiction and i dnt ever regret it, infact its boosted my confidence in marriage. Lolz

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  13. #i am team snoop# and I am unapologetic either.
    Yeah,its a few second from heart attack but the end result is worth it,even doh one has to have the heart attack.
    Some married women will tell u how it has saved their marriages,I inclusive.sometimes it is one button close to destroying you and u wl be opportuned to either press d button or leave the button unpressed.
    Stells,I understand ur plight but I want a any1 here to vow that he or she has not snooped one time in their life,even if it is not relationship wise.sometimes the other party is the cause of ur snoop,when they start behaving suspicious and u v asked and no answer
    #team snoop#
    #Team snoop#
    #team snoop#
    Hehehehe

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  14. Well, my snooping did me great good. Used 2 know this guy back in my Uniben days and he was asking me out. I snooped and found a Gloria chic he was having a thing with and I kuku rest my case N̶̲̅☹ gree for the idiot. Fast forward to a month later nd he's flaunting her on social media.... If I didn't snoop, guess I wouldve been crying foul now.

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  15. Its allowed Mrs Korkus

    Some men can hide thnz 4 Africa. Had a guy sometimes back, loving but he never told me he had a son and a baby mama. Well I found out and he apologised telln me he's nt marryn d lady that's he's just talkn 2 her cos his son.
    Well,he never told me he sends her money,I snooped and found out bank receipts every month 2 the particular woman,he kept telln me he was nt maRryn her that its just 4 his son's upkeep. Then he was just coming up financially.
    He got com4table n dcd it was. His baby mama he wanted to marry 4 d sake of his son. Mrs Korkus,if I had snooped further,I wld av seen convos&anythn 2 hint me.

    Today,he still begs me,wants 2 c me,spend tym with me,sends me recg card @will,tells me hw he still likes me&wish he cld still marry me. #story4thegods.

    So I support snooping then questn asking(2 c if he will lie or not) nt confrontation cos once u confront a guy,he becomes more careful n more coded.. And that's y I want a good white dude,our naija guys can lie&cheat 4 the world all tnx 2 d system here that has made men get away with a lot of shit.

    Make I siddon read n learn more.


    Mrs Korkus's pissed blog reader.

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    1. And what gives you the assurance that White guy won't lie and cheat on you?

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    2. Recharge card ke? Send am acct details!! Na ur pension!!! Don't dull

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  16. Abeg Abeg am tired joor. After typing one long epistle network will just misbehave and your comment will vanish.
    Abeg am not happy.
    Won't type again.
    *Goes back to eating my chicken ukodo

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    1. Hahaha you can't imagine how that hurts.

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    2. Now u got me hungry for that chicken ukodo.
      #drooling

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  17. Well..I encourage snooping only when the consequences are bearable.For instance,i must snoop on my partner where we are not married.If i see what i don't like,i would gently walk away.
    I can snoop on my husband too.Why not? But first of all..i have to be ready for anything and everything that comes after..
    SNOOP Ladies.It helps.

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  18. Im not in support of snooping, buh most times you just cant help it....so resist the temptation to snoop, I'll jus take a walk...
    #okbye


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  19. Am team no snooping# waiting for comments

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  20. Stella me I snoop o, my bf dat i can vouch for and trust a lot cheated on me with someone he said was just friends with him and I found out through snooping. I need to know what coming to hit me at least. When u ask questions u don't get accurate answers just stupid lies. I have snooped,I am snooping and I will keep on snooping

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  21. Stella snooping has its advantages and disadvantages. The thing is that as adults, we should always take responsibilities for our actions and accept the consequenses of our snooping.

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  22. U just can't help but snoop..#TeamSnoopDog

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  23. My husband can snoop for Africa... kai! Because of his snooping habits I passworded my phones. That didnt stop him he tried severally to unlock the phone and in the course of it I lost all my contacts. The bit that got me worried was when he started leaving one of his phones in recorder mode under the chair before going to work to listen to my conversations. Na long story jare. Upon all his snooping he hasn't seen anything. I haven't cheated on him since we met and got married. May do that soon since he expects it..

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    1. Pls don't ,it didn't worth it.

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    2. Hhahhhaahahhha...Bros is giving you close marking...marking his territory! lol.

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    3. Kai ur husband is so insecure, he would soon send a body guard to be watching u.

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    4. He is yet to discover clock hidden cameras. May he catch your ass when you finally start cheating

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    5. Lol. Ur hubby is a jealous man. I hope my hubby will snoop when i get married.

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    6. Hian..
      Leaving recorder under the chair ke..that's a new one.
      Don't cheat dear, it's well!

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  24. Stella I used to snoop.i get the mind to snoop and still keep to myself.however my husband is not worth snooping over. I dont care what he does .I am happy when he is not around me

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    1. I guess your biggest mistake is marrying him..eyah..the Lord is your strength..I can't just get it why some man cannot make their wife happy...oga ooo, many wives don't proud of their hubby..so sad..God give me the grace to be the best husband and father in universe to my wife and children..amen#theprison

      Son of Solomon

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  25. Anuty stella u sef dey worry Oo. Everybody with in own sha,I snoop wen necessary N I tink it has helped me so far.

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    1. I guess you did not read in the IHN abi? Stop puting "AUNTY" on her name biko!...

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    2. She is a well behaved child,that's y she can't type Stella without putting aunty ist.

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  26. Snooping is for learners.
    My Ugegbe is there for me to check 27/7...

    U don't ve Ur money,U never born boys,Ur feet are rooted in concrete but sand and then U say U are Snooping????????Bwahahahaha.....
    Bloody learners!!!
    Let em fuck small jare......
    Since when has a little fuck hurt anyone?????...


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    1. Ezewanyi,I keep saying it that u are a case, shikena

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    2. Ezewanyi,I keep saying it that u are a case, shikena

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    3. it can only come from one person, so am not surprised

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    4. Ezewanyi,I keep saying it that u are a case, shikena

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    5. Chai Iyalode.

      Some people came to look for you o.

      They said they were from Aunty Eya kinikan.

      That it's a wives blog. Hahahahaha. You be shareholder there?

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    6. Ezewanyi don craze finish. We need look for chain to tie her oh. Her matter don pass becareful

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    7. Buhahaha my oh my ezewanyi u crack me up. Lmao,chai.

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    8. Lol @Blog lord. Abeg leave my Ezeanwyi for moi

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    9. Abeg ezenwanyi I support you. Ada Agulu said so.

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    10. Linda eze should shift. I crown you Queen of dis blog. :)

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    11. Hahahaha..
      Ezenwanyi oo u too much lol
      Happy New year oo

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    12. Ezemoni international!!!!?
      Bwaahahahhahaahahahqhah

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  27. snoopers just let go else you'll end up creating problems..

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    1. Eyaa....if only you know the problems snooping helps you avoid.

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    2. Eyaa....if only you know the problems snooping helps you avoid.

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  28. I live a very open;but basically private and peaceful life...
    I dislike snooping with ALL OF MY SOUL!!
    I love privacy,i love people asking me about my personal stuffs rather than snoop and i also love people doing their homework rather than snoop it out..
    I can never snoop through someone's phone for example and i love people doing same thing to me...
    Snooping doesnt make you sharp neither does "not snooping" make you become ignorant of whatever it is that is going on..
    For me i cant snoop through someones phone to get an information but i can do CIA and get more than the information i needed earlier..
    Snooping isnt a life;being SMART and working with your brain 24/7 is the Ishh itself..
    # I am team smart
    # I am team "respect my privacy"
    # i am team "No-snooping
    #i am team "ask what you wanna know" and i give you "the truth"

    PLS CLICK HERE TO DOWNLOAD MY LATEST NAIJA PARTY MIXTAPE

    @MARTINS ABOY

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  29. Lol. If you do an open inquiry,telling to 'snooped' before the snooping takes place, the snooped will cover his/her track and the snooper will not find out what he/she is supposed to. So yes Aunty stella,be against snooping but as for me (and I will advise people to do it) I will snoop every time I feel something is not right. I rather walk out of a relationship or whatever heartbroken, than get tied in a marriage or whatever because I didn't snoop when I should as. And yes,before i snoop,I will already be at equity with clean hands.
    I am the lady that sent the chronicle about 2 weeks ago of the boyfriend who came visiting me in school. I forgave him,but it doesn't feel thesaurus anymore because the trust is shattered. So I'm walking out of the relationship painful as it is, with my head up high, thank you all for the advise that day. I'm still in my early twenties,I cannot come and die. #teamSnoopDoggy.

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    1. Thesaurus kwa?
      Oh Autocorrect ooo

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    2. Lol...autocorrect is something else. In any case, I cannot even remember what I really had in mind to write so I cannot correct it. Make una no 'fess'.
      Cheers!!!

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  30. When you snoop the consequences is confrontation,which leads to argument,and which might be positive or Nagative,i don't understand some Nigeria women you snoop when you find something,you don't leave,you start feeling depressed and hurt,the next you cry and wait for apologies and fallacies

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  31. Yes I sometimes scope! Am always prepared for anything I see. it takes a brave heart to do it.
    Bae and I had issues sometimes ago which we had settled, I went to see him, picked up his phone only for me to discover he had downloaded our history to a babe he Calls Bestie.
    What made me continue checking his phone was the phrase 'how is your new wife' shocked was an under statement, I chilled for him to get back from where he went and showed him the message I saw z then he put up a defensive attitude which I expected cos I had intruded his privacy.
    I picked up my bag and left, his mum realized I had gone then inquired from him why I left so sudden he den explained to her and she called me and sorted things out.
    She in turn blasted Bae and we forgot about. He and the babe hardly talk cos he knows if I get to know there will be trouble.
    Since then haven't seen anything suspicious , he even hands over his fone to me once we are together. lol

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    1. Leave, that guy is covering his tracks properly. Just keep ur eyes down

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    2. Ode... smart guy, used his mother to get you back so that he doesn't have to beg through his arse. Oh... We still talk, all the time. Lol!

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  32. In as much as to snoop isn't so good but mehn ill rather snoop if my BF story doesn't add up to me or if I notice strange behaviours from him. Oh yes I had a guy who came to do my introduction, after then it was time for family to go and ask questions from villa, everything went well but I felt I should do my own snooping cos of some tins I noticed, yes I found out that my so called fiance had NUMEROUS girls, I mean he can't do without having them nd he must sleep with them. Oh he also Gives them lots of money any time they ask, I confronted him nd he told me yes but at least he chose me out of them all, imagine. Well I went bk home nd told my people marriage is canceld. If I hadn't snooped, I would hv married him nd by now I should have been crying or depresse or worst of emotionally abused. So finally snooping is kind of important but you must have a plan B incase you find something wrong.

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    1. I swear your not serious..so you canceled your wedding because he has numerous girlfriends?smh..nne, you never start o!..even that one way no get numerous girlfriends, will still make you cry and still cheat on you and you fitint do nothing..

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    2. Uniki you are so stupid,get it into ur skull all men are not dogs she"s gonna find the right person who"s going to treat her as a queen she is......STAR

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    3. I wish I snooped like u darlin I won't be in dis shame of a marriage my hubby sleeps wit anything on skirt all my house helps sister cousin friends whoever with a hole I wish I snooped before entering in

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    4. Uniki you be mumu so make the idiot infect her with some kind of disease??

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    5. She made d right choice. Shes not desperate. Imagine d guy telling her dat he chose her out of his numerous gfs. Dats not love...dats pity.

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  33. In as much as to snoop isn't so good but mehn ill rather snoop if my BF story doesn't add up to me or if I notice strange behaviours from him. Oh yes I had a guy who came to do my introduction, after then it was time for family to go and ask questions from villa, everything went well but I felt I should do my own snooping cos of some tins I noticed, yes I found out that my so called fiance had NUMEROUS girls, I mean he can't do without having them nd he must sleep with them. Oh he also Gives them lots of money any time they ask, I confronted him nd he told me yes but at least he chose me out of them all, imagine. Well I went bk home nd told my people marriage is canceld. If I hadn't snooped, I would hv married him nd by now I should have been crying or depresse or worst of emotionally abused. So finally snooping is kind of important but you must have a plan B incase you find something wrong.

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    1. Welldone Omalichac, always follow ur hrt and be ready for the consequence

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  34. I woke up one morning picked up my hubbys phone and see a message but d other part has been deleted.I accused hubby of cheating only for me to find out he was trying to buy me a car and didn't want me to know na so I loose d car till date.Now its a new year and I am trying to be a loving widely so I can reclaim my blessing!

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    1. Hahahahaha! You didn't get your present because you found out about it before he told you?? Lmao!!!!

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    2. hahahahahaha...your story funny

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    3. He should buy d car jor! E don see excuse. Mtchewww!

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    4. Hahahahaha... ur hubby is very smart. no be only car. Better dig deeper. If he wanted to buy you a car, the fact that u snooped is not enough reason for him to not buy you the car till now.

      Snoop oooooo! Hian!

      Lol.

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    5. Is dat wat he told u? Trying to buy u a car????? My dear, he's ur hubby but dat could be a cover up. #myopinion#

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    6. Lmao.....

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  35. SDK, Nkiru Sylvanus cousing don realease press statement about d Nkiru/Oge marriage saga o PLUS Iyabo ojo is also getting
    married soon to her colleague's ex husband,
    details shortly.

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  36. Stella snooping is allowed and its healthy. Our society is so diluted and liberal that sh*ts happen for real. When you snoop, you at least know what's going happen before it does. So many ladies would have walked into another women's marriage had it been they didn't snoop, most women wouldn't have known their hubby have a love child whom he willed all his belongings to had it been they didn't snoop. Some mothers won't know that their daughter hid party clothes in their sch bags had it been they didn't snoop. Abeg I'm #teamsnoop to avoid suicide in future. Atleast heartbreak is better than suicide.

    #egbaboy

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  37. I understand you perfectly Stella, but I believe there's a third position.

    Furtive snooping most times comes with dire consequences. Open inquiry works in some instances as in the example you gave above when people ask questions of intending in-laws b4 marriage.

    It is my opinion however, that sometimes desperate situations call for desperate measures. Even though the ideal thing would be to openly inquire if one starts noticing strange happenings in a relationship, the reality is that people are not always honest.
    So in matters of life or death, or make or break situations, I am in full support of making discreet investigations. In my book, that is not snooping. As long as my health or well-being, or that of my loved ones is under threat, I have every right to investigate discreetly, knowing I might not get to the truth if I go about it openly.

    Knowledge is power my dear Stella, that's why we have secret services, military intelligence and private eyes. All is fair in love and war!

    I am not for snooping for the sake of it, but if the occasion calls for it, I will investigate with all the powers invested in me!
    We do not live in a perfect world.

    Make persin no go siddon make pant begin dey wear am, lol!

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  38. I snooped into my fiance phone and almost had an attack when I came across the name "sweetness"......u all needed to see me running mad slowly oo.....only for me to call the number and it was the new airtel line he told me to get that I don't know offheart .....shame on me!!! ....abeg snooping doesn't help matter instead worsen it

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  39. Snooping is good o. It's benefits outweighs it's potential risks. It myt cause u problems/heart attacks initially but u ll survive n get wiser n beta dat will help u in d nearest future. At least u ll knw weda u r ur boo's boo, weda u r a potential std/aids candidate! #Teamfulltimesnooping.....hehehehehe

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  40. Lol! Snooping has helped me in a way stella, even tho I felt bad seeing wat I saw, atleast I av an insight of wats happening.

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  41. I am team snoop when i want to! I have le boo's facebook password, i can have access to his fone at will but furtunately for us i have never seen any negative tin, thank God! He doesnt know i snoop on him once in awhile dou.
    There is this relaxed peace i get each tim i snooped and yes i enjoy snooping. It keeps you abraised with any bad thing that might happen.
    That was how i was #teamdontsnoop# until my ex gave me a shocker of my life(his wedding pic on facebook)..
    Ejiro anya oma aba uka white!
    Agbusi gba iké ömú ru akó..
    It takes a strong heart to snoop and be4 i snoop i must have made up my mind to bear any thing i might see whether good or bad.

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    1. Lmao@ejiro anya oma aba Uka white?

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    2. Dats d word dear, the benefit outweigh the risk.shikena

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  42. I am team snoop when i want to! I have le boo's facebook password, i can have access to his fone at will but furtunately for us i have never seen any negative tin, thank God! He doesnt know i snoop on him once in awhile dou.
    There is this relaxed peace i get each tim i snooped and yes i enjoy snooping. It keeps you abraised with any bad thing that might happen.
    That was how i was #teamdontsnoop# until my ex gave me a shocker of my life(his wedding pic on facebook)..
    Ejiro anya oma aba uka white!
    Agbusi gba iké ömú ru akó..
    It takes a strong heart to snoop and be4 i snoop i must have made up my mind to bear any thing i might see whether good or bad.

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  43. i'l jes read comments. .#TeamSnoop#

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  44. Hmmmm oya all d snooping group in d family make una cum out n giv us comments to read n digest lol

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  45. Snooping can also be defined as an act by which or though which a woman or a man decide to act like snoop dogi dog,or snoop lion which ever 1 u prefer.i don't rap so I don't snoop.

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  46. The thing about snooping is that it goes both ways..it could be a wake-up call for some and a heart-wrenching experience for others.I only snoop when i feel i have something seriouss going on with the other person.The only rule if one must snoop is to brace yourself for the outcome.If you are an erratic person,i dont advice you snoop.

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  47. Hahaa... Me I can snoop die...is my personal hobby


    Na so I snoop ooo...my roommate laptop....she go dey form she dey study.. All na wash....not knowing that d girl can dey watch lesbian porn....SMh......

    For the lesbian film or porn....she go come store am with different book titles

    Example....Elena Undone na lesbian film...she come store am with "GNs assignment"

    He he he,

    For her fone sef..n d same thing

    Don't just give me ur fone if u re my friend.Bcos my Hand no dey stay one place...I go make sure say I press every every inside...they know me.


    @Galore

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    2. galore, you done write us this story before na

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    3. @galore u get handigitis kai. We need deliver ur hand, bring the hand to prophet AY

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  48. Going into a relationship dis newyr,d guy 2 me looks like a flirt,nt so convince,so wat i tot was d bst tin dor me 2 do in investigating his personality is 2 snoop.and i found out he has a gurlfrd.

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  49. Hahaa... Me I can snoop die...is my personal hobby


    Na so I snoop ooo...my roommate laptop....she go dey form she dey study.. All na wash....not knowing that d girl can dey watch lesbian porn....SMh......

    For the lesbian film or porn....she go come store am with different book titles

    Example....Elena Undone na lesbian film...she come store am with "GNs assignment"

    He he he,

    For her fone sef..n d same thing

    Don't just give me ur fone if u re my friend.Bcos my Hand no dey stay one place...I go make sure say I press every every inside...they know me.


    @Galore

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  50. stella some people can lie for africa,you need to snoop sometimes to find out the truth ,iam personally team dont snoop.,am team hear no evil see no evil'
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  51. Snooping can also be defined as an act by which or through which a woman or a man decide to act like snoop dogi dog,or snoop lion which ever 1 u prefer.i don't rap so I don't snoop.

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  52. Abeg snoop, I say snoop cos I believe when you snoop and you find out something you should be able to ask questions,get answers and your heart at rest!Not be on his/her phone always but when you find it lying around you can pick it up, go through it even if not for "snooping" reasons, you may or may not find anything..#myOpinion#

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  53. When ever am taking an afternoon nap,my girlfriend will just carry my phone pretending she is playing games on it not knowing she is snooping at my txt msg!!!funny enough most of my txt comes in 9ja pigin English so she fine it difficult to understand lol

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  54. All I know is that whenever I snoop I always find incriminating evidence. What I do with d evidences is my problem. Sometimes it's good to be in the know that to be the fool in a relationship. Women's instincts never fail. So I say,if you suspect something is wrong and you are strong and mature enough to face it,go ahead and snoop. But if you want peace of mind. Don't. Things eventually play out.

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  55. I went through my boyfriend's phone,I saw a lot of things na so my eye open. No be person advice me to run. #TeamSnooping

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  56. Hehehehehe.

    Stella, the whole world knows you are #teamnosnoop. Good for you.

    Are you so naive or you are pretending to be? Did you say "openly inquiring"? In this wicked world? This world where we have seen a man running 2 parallel families with both wives thinking they are the centre of their husband's universe? This world where my mum's former boss, a professor, only found out at her professor husband's burial, 2 additional wives?

    Open inquiry is the type families conduct to find out about marital status, family tree, lineage, insanity, epilepsy or other diseases in the prospective in-laws' family

    Snooping on the other hand, is a tool a partner in a relationship uses to equip and prepare him/herself against "stories that touch"

    I have learnt a lot from chronicles here.
    Wise people learn from others' mistakes.
    Stupid people prefer a taste of the mistake before they learn.

    How many wives have left their husbands because they snooped and found out about his mistress, pregnant girlfriend or "raw kpanshing"? Probably none. But they can plan how to escape STDs, plan for their kids' future and not depend on the man.

    My submission is if you have cause to suspect something ain't adding up, get confirmation by snooping. That's the only way to get confirmation except you want to contact the producers of Cheaters.

    Knowing what you are up against puts you in a position of power to plan your move.

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    1. I didn't have strength to type today,lol..but am just happy you have covered all bases! Now I feel like typing.

      Most women relax and luxuriate in wealth without saving or thinking of starting a business,but by the time the scales fall off their eyes,they begin to have plan Bs,Cs.

      Some lousy men actually laugh at their wives and even tell whoever is willing to listen that they have a stupid,dumb,unsuspecting wife who will swear with her kid's lives that he is a saint!!!

      If you have cause to investigate,by all means do! The heart break will come anyways,it might be delayed,but it will come!

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    2. Gidigbam! Iji ya! Leave Stella make she dey yarn opata.Lol!

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  57. I've only snooped once and it was pretty bad, cos what I saw on my gf phone was a big eye opener but I thank God I did becos it makes me know that trust is hard to come by.

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  58. I dated one guy when my dad just died. I didn't even know he had a woman who was heavily pregnant. We were together one day when the lady called and he told me she was his cousin. I never believed in snooping so I never checked his phone. It was when the lady appeared at my office and beat me blue and black before I realised I was on a long thing. In spite of her pregnant state, she beat the hell out of me. Writing this now just makes me lol. Now, I am team snooping abeg. I can't shout. Some men aren't loyal. If a 'pastor' could lie that his wife had died and the woman was alive and well, what won't another man do?

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    2. @oluyomi lol, that lady get mind oh, if u had raised ur hand now, the world would blame you and say u want to kill a pregnant woman, instead of her to go n sort her differences with the man

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    3. hahahahaha...oluyomi you no get single power sef. how pregnant woman go beat you?

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  59. Stella, check paragraph VI." doing your homework is open enquiry and
    snopping is done with the other persons consent. " Its unclear.

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  60. I dated one guy when my dad just died. I didn't even know he had a woman who was heavily pregnant. We were together one day when the lady called and he told me she was his cousin. I never believed in snooping so I never checked his phone. It was when the lady appeared at my office and beat me blue and black before I realised I was on a long thing. In spite of her pregnant state, she beat the hell out of me. Writing this now just makes me lol. Now, I am team snooping abeg. I can't shout. Some men aren't loyal. If a 'pastor' could lie that his wife had died and the woman was alive and well, what won't another man do?

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    1. And the Oluyomi we know is back with a bang!!!

      Hahahahahaha. So you no fit fight?

      Is oga Jeff still missing?

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    2. Buhahahahahaha
      Please sweetie,permit me to laugh...that woman use vex pounce on you ooh.

      With your submission,you have arguably tried to convince and not confuse us that snooping is good....nice one

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    3. Fight ke? Na only food and movies I sabi. Jeff has practically disappeared ojare. Iphie dearie, she really beat me o and tore my clothes to shreds sef. Omo mushin wey she be na

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    4. Hhhhahahahahaahahahah@beat you blue black.
      You saw stars mehnn...
      Snooping saves!

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  61. I am among d team #dosnoop# I want to know wat d person Is capable of so dat wen stuff happen I won't b surprised.....but dere are hazardous consequences attached to snooping.....cuz u will get hurt definitely dat is y dey say D TRUTH IS ALWAYS BITTER

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  62. Aunty please post my mail, am dying in silence or are you not using your gmail account again? I've sent you a message more than 10 times

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  63. Aunty please post my mail, am dying in silence or are you not using your gmail account again? I've sent you a message more than 10 times

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    1. Pls enough of dis aunty shit,call her Stella biko,I believe u did nt read d memo on IHN 2day,enough of dis aunty shit biko n most of u dnt even spell d aunty properly,some do write anuty instead of aunty mtcheeeeew

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  64. I was in a relationship for three years and never snooped and never knew my bf was a serial cheat until one day I picked up his phone before it locked yo snoop and omo my eye see stars anyway I confronted him and it helped me paddle my canoe very well #teamsnoop

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  65. I an team no snooping so i will just sit down and wait for comments.

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    1. Hmmmm....I user to snoop after I got married and I can't count the number of discoveries!!!! 90% of the choir girls had been sleeping with him and were fighting over him (someone's husband o) I had an extremely high blood pressure and was referred to anti hypertension clinic. From snooping I got to know he had about 5different sim cards, many many things like that!

      I can never snoop again, in the past three years plus, I haven't snooped cos there isn't any new thing I want to know again as I already know who he is and I'm no longer living in a fool's paradise.... I can't kill myself jare, my kids need me alive.

      Effect of snooping----- It made me lose trust I had in him, and I stopped being too friendly.

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  66. Hmm stella make I give you one of my snooping gists*shines teeth*
    I once dated one guy like dat,he is very rich but I never trusted him.He is a chronic womanizer but he is very smart,he leaves no traces.I be PH girl and I no dey carry last.He was building his house in abj as at then so each time I came from phc to abj,i stayed in his hotel(he owns it).He lived there as well.so each time I came,I went to the waste bin,bathtub,floor even bedside to look for hair(weavon)strands and trust me,I always found different colors and textures.lol.I also checked under the bed and smelled the pillows to percieve a feminine perfume and I did all these whenever he went out.I never confronted him till we broke up.He is very good in bed infact,I grade him 10/10.He gave me all I wanted,spoiled me,he was such a nice guy but....in too like women!I decided to end our r/ship because I didn't love him that much,I only loved his bedmatics and Moni, so I went to see him to collect my last dose....and last money too lol.He went out that fateful day and I resumed duty as a professional snoop,as I checked under the bed,I saw a pair of gold earings!I was kinda jealous and angry but Those earings were beautiful and I just couldn't resist them.I took them oh and hid them in my bag.He came back and after every every,I told him that I was tired of the relationship and I needed some space,he begged me and I refused.When I got to PH,I showed my friend and she advised me to sell it.No be small tin oh,money wasn't my problem,I couldn't imagine myself wearing another girl's gold when I already had enough gold earings so I decided to sell them,they were worth 84k.I used the money to buy a pair of earings!Few months later,they were stolen!I regret it till date.Abeg make una no call me thief oh,I collect,I no steal.lol

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    1. Lmao karma is a bitch,never steal from anyone because it would not last,be it money or man,or things

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    2. Haha.. thief!

      anyway na your pension be that.

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  67. Teamsnoop all day everyday. To d last ni.

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  68. snooping is not for the faint hearted.
    As a lady once your intuition kicks in. I pray rather than snooping please start binding and casting away.
    I strongly suspected my ex was cheating on me. Then my bf. I knew where I cld get the evidence but didn't have the courage to snoop.

    When I wanted the heart to conform to what the head is saying. I decided to finally snoop. I cried my eyes out. I just took the necessary steps to forgive and let go.
    He is an ex, I pray for the Lord to restore him and now I can say hello. He also an ex I can say the Grace of the Lord delivered me from this MESS. It took a lot, shame disgrace, reproach, insults from people bc of this mistake.

    I would say make peace with your intuition before you snoop. Snooping will confirm the evident. Don't go and cry your eyes out or get a heart attack.

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  69. Team no snooping. A randy bf/hubby could be very smart meaning he can press delete button after each chat/conversation with a side chic or mistress. Someone bragged of being at peace with herself each time she snoops n finds out no suspicious moves hahaha. My dear, some smart dudes re so careful that when u snoop frm 1st jan to 31st dec u will find nothing. So chill, don't give credit to a man cos u snoop n find out nothing. I can never snoop. I pray for my man n it's been working for me. When there's TRUST snooping will be the last thing u think of. #team no snooping all the way

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  70. Lol wow, the things I see on this blog tho.
    Well av never bothered to snoop. Probably because I grew up with the naive notion of two people being in love and being faithful to each other. I guess the only time I would snoop if I have to is when I suspect my bf. For now I don't, so things would continue to be merry. Lol don't cuss me out!

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  71. Am team snooping ohhhhh, am not planning to stop either. Its good I snoop n know what's coming my way

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  72. I'm totally in support of snooping. I had suspicions about my fiancee when we just started the relationship. In the course of snooping I was able to decipher his Fb password, I noticed he was always chatting with one mgbeke, she would like his pictures and drop comments on every single one. That's how I deleted her from his friends list.Afterwards I told him a lady sent me his bbm pin saying he was asking her out, of course it was all a lie, when he told me to say who it was, I jejely mentioned d Fb lady 's name. He was so shocked, he insisted they were only friends, I went thru his phone days later and read his chat with d lady, he don blast d poor lady tire saying she's trying to ruin his relationship, I got to know from the chat that they weren't dating but something would have happened between them if I hadn't been fast enough. He has since repented, he changed his Fb password after that but he doesn't know I have the new one, I'm always stalking his Fb page and I noticed he's now well behaved. I'm trying to get d new password to his blackberry at the moment. Snoop well but confront your partner with common sense.

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  73. Ezenwanyi group of companies. hahaha u be case o hapi new year.

    Snooping is good but before you do so make up your mind to take whatever you find, then analyse and make your decision. I dey snoop o. Before my wedding I snooped n saw some mail where a lady abused n insulted my husband then, I was so happy then I told him that we should do 'arobanko' small n postpone d weddding since hin never ready. I dey snoop n if I find something chai my mouth na razor but I no dey talk as hin dey fear wetin I fit do.

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  74. I call myself the PI - Private Investigator - because what I do cannot be lowered into the dirts of 'snooping'. Lol.

    I don't snoop. I find out vital information concering me and mine.

    And unlike many amateur 'snoopers' I don't go screaming blue-murder ar first discovery, heck no! I 'investigate' further and come up with evidences for the court of law and then I approach the defense counsel with Prosecutor hat on. Gbam!

    Snooping is wrong, but investigating is absolutely within your right... So, investigate today and be wiser for it.

    *Last bullet: never start investigating late. Begin as you mean to go*

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  75. I can snoop for Africa o yes I snoop and it has help me a lot o. Infact my friends hire me for snooping jobs and I always get results lol. People please snoop as much as you can BUT handle ur negative result calming. #teamsnoop

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  76. Stella I totally support u

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  77. Snooping is good, healthy and necessary! A friend of mine entered one chance because she refused to snoop. She met this guy, he told her he finished from Uniben, she liked him but some things didn't add up. He claimed to have gotten admitted to school of aviation and was waiting to commence... My friend felt something was out of place but decided to respect his privacy and not snoop. To cut a long story short, a few years later-after she had married and had a kid, she found out he wasn't even a graduate what more admission to school of aviation. All he told her were lies and his family covered for him. Today she is back to her parent's house with two kids-the guy's just roaming around-no home, job, qualifications or skill. The reason he married my friend was her good job which she unfortunately lost last year. So not snooping messed her up; no job, no house, no money, no husband but two extra mouths to feed. She and her kids are now depending on her retired parents. Imagine!!!

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  78. Team no snooping jare! Can't fit shout. I value my peace of mind like nothing else. Besides what's love without trust?

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  79. You run a gossip blog for a living though. I doubt all the exclusives you get about celeb's private are through voluntary or known information. A professional gossip can't be #teamnosnoop. Maybe your husband knows your skills and doesn't push your buttons, so you don't have to snoop with him. But if push comes to shove, I'm sure you'll resort to the same skills you use to unearth celeb's secrets to find out your husband's.

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  80. I think with my Ex snooping saved me a lot but with my husband there's nothing to snoop. We respect each other's privacy but I can vouch for him because he's very dedicated to God and we both married as wealthy accomplished career people. So we have done it all before marriage. Nothing out there again.

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  81. #Teamsnoop#.....Snooping is d best tin Eva!!I don't even snoop to confront,I just snoop to knw!!Confrot Ke??I just snoop to knw and watch d guy fool himself by telling me lies....My ex hear am for my hand Na,I knew his passwords nd once he is asleep,I just begin my 'investigative journalism' Buh I Neva confronted him ooo,wud just play along Buh I already knew in my heart Dat I cudnt end up wiv him!!! I havnt started snooping on bae sha dou we have eachoda's password,he hasn't given me any reason to!!!Ladies,SNOOP OOO Buh don't confront..once u have enof evidence,make up ur mind to walk away,do it gently,don't give him room for explanations(which are mostly lies and cover ups) and apologies Buh before u walk away,make sure uve stopped loving him.....if u don't get enof evidence,don't confrot ooo cos u make him defensive and more careful!!
    As for snooping on my fellow girls,same tin...I can't shout biko!For dose saying ''wat u don't knw won't kill u'u',I ll say Dre's Notin hidden under d sun and wen wat 'u didn't knw' comes out,it will not only kill u,it will shatter u and bury u,Dats after making u a laufing stock.......
    Sorry for any typos,no curses biko,if my comment pains u,shake ur head and move on....Tanx!!

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  82. I snooped 3days ago n I saw a naked girls pix in hubbys fone n guesss what,d pix ws taken in my bed room,on ma matrimonial bed.hmmmmmm,i hav nt got over it til nww.

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  83. hmmmm! talking about snooping, I know that its ladies that snoop more Bcos when guys snoop,ish!
    Na married women them suppose advice not to snoop Bcos they are already inside the for better for worse business,they are the ones that are at the risk of heart attack,lol.
    single babes in relationships can snoop just once,that is healthy,Bcos u Nid to know the kind of guy u are dealing with.

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  84. I just used my bf's thumb to unlock his phoone durinmg siesta. Lemme know which battle to fight or love to offer.
    Abeg jor these men cheat. You snoop u find out but u fit faint o! If u can don't snoop if u can't do d needful. It has never failed me.

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  85. Yes snooping might almost give u a heart attack while at it but it will save you years you would have wasted believing in a mirage, snooping saving time since 1800.

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  86. Me i am team snoop oh. Ah so i can plan my 'waka'.Cos these guys are just not loyal. Me i dey even do drain-pipe snooping oh.* green cupcake*

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