This Post is for you,please read it carefully and let today be that Friday that helped you make up your mind.
Let me ask this question ''why do some ladies find it hard to move on from their exes? A guy breaks your heart, tears it to shreds and only needs you for sex or financial gain and you keep going back to him in tears and on bended knees every time he calls off the Relationship..?
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| SIT DOWN,LETS TALK |
Common sense tells you to take a walk but you are still glued to the spot trying to convince yourself and others that he is God's gift to you?
ARE YOU CRAZY?
You keep going back thinking no ne else deserves you or because you think they are your last Bus stop?
He degraded you in every way possible but you keep going back and keep parting your legs for sex,thinking thats the magic to get him back.....you dey crase?
Why don't you just move on, forget him and leave him where he belongs- your past..
Why do you keep going back even when you know they are up to no good? Is this what they mean by having someone's "mumu buttons".
Make I siddon read comments cos I dnt av an ex!
ReplyDeleteIf I hear
DeleteD tot beats me. Som girls r willn 2 die in an extremely abusive rlatnship all in d name of lov "lov my foot". My head 2 strng for dat kind tin sef evn if na jazz. I immediately terminate any relationship dat does not meet up 2 my standards no matter how gud d sex is, na fud? maybe its easy for me cos av neva bin deeply in lov. All d senseless ladies here, receive sense in d name of Jesus....amen.
DeleteSigning out in 3... .2......1~~~~~
Yes and you are a virgin too.
DeleteOh dis so me right now ,I was even.beggin him just now ...I pray God gives me d grace to send in my chroncile tonite
DeleteThose people yawning for their ex including the married bv should step forward. Let me not mention names. There ex this, there ex dat.
ReplyDeleteYearning not yawning. Olodo
DeleteYawning
DeleteYawning ke? Sleep dey catch u? Lmao
DeleteOh. I had the best sex of my life with my ex last weekend. He is married with kids,so am I. He made me come continuously and the kisses,oh my god. I am wet oooooo
DeleteThis is like what im going through now. im thnking of begging my Ex back cos the SOB is the only one i had and loneliness is killing me.
ReplyDeletei KNOW i should move on but i have been so alone no one to talk to.
im tempted to even do online dating just to fill this void in me.
i never knew my life could turn out this way. God is on the throne sha.
It will be very difficult for u to move cos loneliness don enter d matter. I will advice u to give someone else a chance, even if u don't love dat person jst give him a try.
DeleteMy dear. I was in your shoes but I cured mine by going online. I have met incredible people and they have given my life a new meaning.
DeleteHave some self love. Must u date at every minute of ur life, can't u use little time and develop ursef or did he create you. Dnt be suprise when u totally let go, someone better will fall in. Just have ur self esteem back pls pretty lady like you for dt matter.
DeleteAww so sorry about that don't worry God will bring someone into your life soonest. We humans have a void in our heart and no man can fill it not even our spouse his only God that can fill that void for us. Take the things of God seriously and see how your life wil transform into something great the bible says seek first the kingdom of God. And its righteousness and every other things shall be added unto you. It is well with you
DeleteHave some self love. Must u date at every minute of ur life, can't u use little time and develop ursef or did he create you. Dnt be suprise when u totally let go, someone better will fall in. Just have ur self esteem back pls pretty lady like you for dt matter.
DeleteDon't do it babe,it isn't worth it.
DeleteGet yourself busy,forget about Man for now.
Make legit money and love the hell outta yourself..
*Big hug#
Don't you have female friends, do fun stuffs with tgen. Learn something new. Add value to yourself. Leave guys and the right person will find you
DeleteIf u die, ur EX will move on sharply. You better borrow urself brain and move on
DeleteThis hoe. You have a bomb pussy yet your man left you and moved in with another babe. Lol.frustration will kill you hoe.
Deletelol..... welcome my kolo mate
DeleteWe women need to love ourselves. Seriously sister there are millions of men out there who wants u..get busy don't let him be Ur source of income. Get an Avenue to Mk money.work or learn a trade..even if u fat or u think u are ugly..all u need is self love. And giv someone a chance. D person u least expected Wil shower Ur life with love.but hw would Ur bf love u if u don't love urself..anyway am gonna lead d self love campaign in Ur life..#iloveudear
DeleteImma read comment.
ReplyDeleteStella shift make I siddon with you read inspiring comments...
ReplyDeleteNo guy has broken my heart sha. I do the breaking. I move without looking back mehnn.. I try my best to be productive in any rshp i find myself. Productive both myself and to the guy. but if i ain't getting the expected motivation to remain in the rshp, na movement be that. Motivation no be cash or gifts, there is more to a true rshp than all that. Rshps should add to you & not drain you. And i don't go back to my vomit.
ReplyDeleteSure. You break hearts and you are proud
DeleteDon't be too proud my dear love is unpredictable! Pray make u no jam who sabi ur mumu button.
DeleteBut of course
DeleteMy dear weather u re d one doing d breaking of heart o it doesn't mata...cos as long as he has slept wit u...u are still on d losing side.#word#
DeleteKeep brrakung ! Dooh
DeleteAnon 15:30
DeleteAre you mad ?
Which losing side ?
We both slept with each other.
So, how did she lose ?
The Baddest: don't mind anon 15:30. Konji catch babe, she collect D from who she wants, he's here yarning dust. She lost wetin? Those days of that type of reasoning is long gone oh. Better catch up.
DeleteMmmmmmm
ReplyDeleteIt only happens, when sex is involved.
ReplyDeleteEvery time you sleep with someone, you leave a part of yourself behind and take a part of that person with you. Basically, you sleep with everyone they've slept with, and vice versa....it's called soul ties
DeleteYea
DeleteYea
DeleteSoul belts ni. Make una dey deceive unaself
DeleteLol it's called bull shit!
DeleteTo some level yes and the highest percentage yes but sometimes love is unpredictable. Take it from me who dated a guy in a long distance relationship, we never had any carnal understanding of one another and we dated for almost 10 years, when it was time to move on, it was very difficult and I mean difficult in the true sense of it .When you love deeply, trust and have a friend in your partner, moving on seems a big task.
DeleteFor some people,moving on is not that easy ,he that wears the shoe,knows where it pinches...
ReplyDeleteBut for me,you mess up? Then it's Asta la vista baby🚶🏽🚶🏽🚶🏽🚶🏽🚶🏽
Good question.....
ReplyDeleteFor me an ex is always an ex no going back.
DeleteLmao. Afi mumu buttons na.
ReplyDeleteBlog analyser: this would be interesting. When I left my ex there was no turning back as a matter of fact concerning him I developed selective anemisia I can't remember the good times we had together. I really thank God for helping me. I moved on and I found great love. The secret is changing environment and most importantantly calling on God to assist you. The mofo kept begging but I already had enough of his troubles. Thank God for NysC ooo that was my saving grace.
ReplyDeleteLow self esteem. Some ladies feel that withoit a particular guy in their life,they can't make it. That's rubbish! Soldier come, soldier go, barracks dey kampe.
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ReplyDeleteThank you mydear
DeleteSending you my warm hugs
DeleteChaii.
DeleteTake a big hug
Ufuoma u don learn gan, kudos bae
DeleteI am a guy, but I must confess...you nailed it!
DeleteSweet come over here n get dis big hug.. it's better to be alone than being in a relationship that's not doing good..but rather dishes out pain all day long
DeleteErrm. Those with X-strories.
ReplyDeleteStep forward
Stella e no easy as u talk sha...not when he love dat person like kilode..but d irony of the whole thing is dat,d day u will finally make up ur mind to leave,only Jesus can change ur mind and sat day der won't be any quarrel between u two,u will just wake up and be fed up.
ReplyDeleteGbamest. Clicks #like#
DeleteCan't help but laff in vowels @ur 'u dey crase'?.hahahohohehehihihuhuh No be crase stellz,I m still looking for a word not in the dictionary to quallify them. Words like 'AKUYA'. Its not sweet when pronounced in english o
ReplyDeleteStella shift let me sit and read comments
ReplyDeleteU no dey tire to sitdown? Stand and answer questions jare
DeleteLol
Deletelol@mumu button. it is well with us women. my prayer is that the veil in the eyes of these ladies will be torn and God will open their eyes so that they can pull off from such relationship and move on. love you all
ReplyDeleteYou keep going back because you don't know God. When you know God, your self esteem will almost be intimidating. You would exude so much confidence that no man born of a woman can ever dream of messing with you. Reason; you don't part your legs.
ReplyDeleteTrue#word#
DeleteHe who has a ear let him hear
Yes Stella, it is difficult for ladies to move on once they PART LEGS. Sex is not just about penis entering a vagina, the lady is degraded. Read through all your stories and find out that all the ladies that never opened legs moved on quickly. LADIES WHEN YOU CLOSE YOUR LEGS, THE MEN WILL RESPECT YOU AND WILL NOT TREAT YOU LIKE THRASH. Look at the chronicle yesterday; supposing that lady had insisted that the man went home and paid her bride price; will she have been in that dilemma? You could see that the man is at ease. Marriage is more than signing the dotted lines at the registry. When ladies realize that they are a trophy to be won, a precious gift to man, then the men would wake up to their responsibility and decorum in treating ladies. But when ladies keep opening legs like "Niger/Benue" at Lokoja, they will keep sulking and the man will keep having sex. Once a man ejaculates and that thing relaxes, he is at "peace"; even the peace of the graveyard. But the woman's problems begins after sex . . . she wants commitment etc.
ReplyDeleteThank you. You just spoke to my inner being
DeleteOpen ko close ni my ex is still finding it hard to move on.... Some ladies who married as a Virgin are now using rapper to wipe tears.
DeleteUr mama born u wellu
DeleteUr mama born u wellu
DeletePlease, hold it.
DeleteSex isn't the only reason ladies go back to their exes.
Say something else.
Sit down ke. my own is to stand and read comments.
ReplyDeleteHmmmmm! I am guilty of this oh! But right now I have new rules. #1. I shall not take back my own vomit #2 yes! You can't be friends with me. #3 don't act like you know me in public. * moving on* while I paint my nails.
ReplyDeleteLikewise. I was honest and played the friendship card.. In tears
DeleteThis is so me! The rules. I'Ve never held on to love abi na lust 4 too long. I walk... especially when sex isn't involved. I broke up with one yester9t. Nigga thought i'm the average Nigerian woman with Patience as a name. My words to him: "I am not nigerian woman enough 4 u"
DeleteSome pple wil tell u pray 2 God 4 him 2 change lyk WTF I have nt finish praying 4 myself na 4 anoda person?
ReplyDeleteHahaha
DeleteThose ones are the people who use religion to hide their low self esteem. Even when a man is pummeling someone in d name of relationship/marriage,they will keep asking u to pray for him to change. Until d person enters grave. Listen to them at ur own peril.
DeleteIt's not easy. You go back with the hope that he will change his mind. It takes real strength to move on from an Ex you really loved
ReplyDeleteThank you. Oooo
DeleteSome ladies make love with their heart while some guys do it for fun...
ReplyDeleteSome ladies lack confidence, they believe in the devil they know is better than the angel you don't know.
Some ladies believe in Kcee's song- O ga di mma, e go better even when they are turned to punching bag, they still believe in BUHARI (he would Change)
I always say this, is not a do or die affair, you might see your presence as the better guy for you but once you pick up encourage and move on, I bet you, you would meet the best. May God grant us our heart desires and always give us the best.
I tire for some babes o
ReplyDeleteNa so my guy's ex remain adamant o
We've been dating for six months nw and she still calls him to bef,and calls me to threaten me to leave her bobo... After 6 months!!!
She even sends messages that she wants them to meet in secret and fuck one more time..
Gosh, d gal is disgusting but I no go green for her. Make she dey try her luck dey go. She no fit succeed.
If ur bf really wants her to stop calling,he knows what to do. In fact,he is enjoying d fact she still fancies him and still picks her call and all that. U won't even know when they will start gbenshing again and u will be thrown out. Stay there and be exhausting ur energy dragging guy with a 'supppsed' ex. O ga eme gi voom n'anya.
DeleteThank you Aunty gwegzz. This ur profile pics tho.
DeleteShe's calling because she thinks there's hope for them to get back together. Do you know what your bf tells her about you? Why does she see you as a stumbling block? Have you stopped to consider that he may have painted you as such?
DeleteDon't ever vouch for a man. He may be giving her mind blowing orgasms right now. Your bf has the power to shut her down but he's chosen not to.
this post is just d perfect definition of wot is happening to me right now. I pray for strength and to move on without looking back
ReplyDeleteTHNX STELZ FOR DS A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE, DTS IF DEY WIL HEAR....TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteTHNX STELZ FOR DS A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE, DTS IF DEY WIL HEAR....TOMJERRYSWIT
ReplyDeleteWhen is d next SnM
ReplyDeleteHaha I remembered my ex. He found out recently that I am wifeable that is after I had secured a job. I wanted to ask him about his Abuja babes that made him to neglect me. I just shunned him. Told him I wasn't interested. His "loVe" is conditional.
ReplyDeleteLol
DeleteAtta girl!
DeleteI like you.
DeleteI just hope my hubby's ex who is married with kids will read this and leave my hubby alone. She keeps calling him even while she was in labour. No my hubby is not the owner of the baby. Shameless thing.
ReplyDeleteKikikikikikikik some women sha. Tell ur hubby to change his phone number.
DeleteCan't he bar her calls ? Your husband is encouraging her.
DeleteLol.
DeleteThis mostly happens when the sex was so good that u can't just let go
ReplyDeleteAnd also this love thing can be stupid
If when u wanna stop loving,the heart would say no
Ammie is not sex at all, is something dat one can't understand.
DeleteMy dear, mine wasn't even sex inclined. I've known him for 9 years now, we hv been in and out of the rltnshp severally and we just can't seem to leave each other, we never lack gist and we leave in two separate cities so we get to see at most twice a year. We hv dated different pple and some how, we always come back to each other. Me sef haf tire for de thing. Mscheeew! Love is a stupid something joor.
Deletelol.perharps the lady is blinded by love. na juju o
ReplyDeleteNah, they keep Going back Cos of d love they have for d person. It's not stupidity, it's a phase Dat must be passed thru except u are an obiakpor. Eventually, the eyes finally clears and they see dem for d shitty people they are.
ReplyDeleteTrue talk, please was d meaning of obiakor
DeleteA strong hearted fellow.
DeleteStrong mind.
Deletea.k.a EDWIN CHINEDU AZUBUKO said..
ReplyDelete.
If yu truelly love someone yu will do the unthinkable and thats fact..... So this post no connect at all.... #NowPlaying>> dirty: tony thomas....
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***CURRENTLY IN JUPITER***
Hahahahahaha true though
DeleteThey keep going back bcos the guy has a massive dick,he can make them cum physically and otherwise.
ReplyDelete(2)The guy is cute and rich! He threw cash on their face.
(3)there isn't any nice guy forthcoming.
The first one is the major reason!
(4)they know that the guy is ready for marriage.....so they are hoping that a miracle will happen.
It's easier said than done . My boyfriend of 8 months. Suddenly stopped calling me or returning any of my calls. We re in a long distance relationship by the way. I'm even tired. He should just tell me what have done wrong . No communication, nothing . And have also tried to communicate with him as well. Absolutely nothing. He just says he needs to sort himself out. He's going through stuff and still he refused picking my calls or returning it. I wish it was that easy to mov on Stella. I really wish
ReplyDeleteMay God help u.....
DeleteDude sounds like he's moved on already. My dear, dust ur shoes and channel dat luv to God o! He alone is de surest! It's well with u
DeleteYour boyfriend is going through financial difficulty, he feels inferior and thinks he shouldn't be dating now till he sorts it out. Give him time. If you can't then move on, I know he will come back when he's sort himself...
DeleteYou are dating yourself. Better move on sharperly
DeleteOh u really need closure
DeleteU just want to hear wat happened.else u can't move on.sweety it's never easy
Get dis hug
Stella, there are sweet exes and God-forsaken ones. My ex is amazing, forget! I found it a tad bit hard to let go, but he helped me, we helped each other to let go. It wasnt easy at all, considering how guys of these days roll. Their attitudes nauseate me *pukes*, If it was not for God's grace and my ex's love and understanding for me, i was ready to straff him till eternity. The sex was off d cliff, cloud 19 for that matter. Love n care nko, i got them in abundance. His attention towards me? he almost choked me with it.
ReplyDeleteBut the Good news is i moved on, we both moved on. Almost a year now, we stopped having sex, we see once in a while but nothing, No be say i don get new straffer oh but we were able to resist each other's sexual desires. Now that is LOVE! He is my confidant, it is not by power but for his and God's.
He is getting married soon and my joy is above the heavens, i have also found LOVE. Yes! i am going to send in my chronicle, not narrative but of HOPE. Kisses y'all...
If your ex was all that, why did you guys break up then?!
DeleteJust wondering y u guys broke up from what you just wrote about him above...
DeleteYou have not found any love. You are still inlove with him. Move on
DeleteYaah....... I will somehow be jealous of any lady my ex walk down d aisle with..... I know waiting she go enjoy dia lolz
DeleteWe weren't compatible. We both AS... *tears*
DeleteI remb ur story darling and I am so happy for u.
Delete@ lara..yinmu..u re happy dats he's gettin married,do u fink is easy?
Delete@ Lara, dis ur story is just my story. We r both AS but right now, I'm jealous of de girl dis my own wants to marry o! I had to delete him from my bbm cos I cldnt even stand her on his dp for a second. Truth is i'm finding it sooooooo hard to forget him.
DeleteI remember ur story dear..
DeleteIt is well.
Am soooo happy for u DAT u have found Love.
Congrats to u & ur ex.
Lara,good.
DeleteI so remember ur story. My dear,u hv a pal for life
For some, lots of things are involved dts y it's nt very easy for pple like dt to move on...
ReplyDeleteIt's well sha.
D tot beats me. Som girls r willn 2 die in an extremely abusive rlatnship all in d name of lov "lov my foot". My head 2 strng for dat kind tin sef evn if na jazz. I immediately terminate any relationship dat does not meet up 2 my standards no matter how gud d sex is, na fud? maybe its easy for me cos av neva bin deeply in lov. All d senseless ladies here, receive sense in d name of Jesus....amen.
ReplyDeleteSigning out in 3....2.....1~~~~~~~
Easier said than done.... Na u get sense pass hisss
DeleteMtchewww
DeleteGwegwe ppo
Hw is dat bobo Stella connected u wit?
E don enta, come out and go?
Madam notice me, must u reply under very comment, or are u look for more aristos?
DeleteHmmm!nice write up
ReplyDeleteIts not that easy ST.
ReplyDeleteWalking away is for the strong and most of are weak ...
The thought of starting all over again, looking for someone you will love, trust etc
I recently walked but it has not been easy but God is faithful...
Eyaah
Deletetaaaaaaaaaaa, dem no born any of us with strong mind o, we developed it.... stay there dey Jones!
Deletemy ex left me after one kid, almost two years now and am as strong as anything.... him self no believe say i fit dey strong like that
Even with your bomb pussy? Olodo. So you can't even keep a man.hoe
Deletemy kolo mate, bomb pussy na nick name... but i like you sha as me and you don be kolo kolabo!
Deleteoya make we dey kolo dey go
Some women are terribly weak when it comes to letting go of some stupid exes or ending toxic relationships.
ReplyDeleteI know of a lady that caught her boyfriend "ON TOP" another lady having sex and the guy didn't show any remorse as at that moment,he didn't even send her & he continued his knacking.Instead of this babe to end that relationship there and then,she went to the sitting room and started forming cry,he even had the guts to tell her it's her fault because she didn't call before coming to his place..Eventually she continued with the relationship.
Ladies,if a guy keeps treating you like trash,please end it & move on.You can cry all you want when it ends but don't stupidly keep going back to a man who doesn't deserve you.Anyman who doesn't respect you while you're still dating,will do worse when u marry him.
Chai..... love is unquestionable......
DeleteLove or stupidity? Msheww
DeleteStella pls tell them, I hv a frnd that does that and I always feel like beating her up all my preaching to leave d ex always fall on deaf ears .
ReplyDeleteMy dear nobody holy pass....Dt na her fuckup area, she sef she her own reason to beat u too...
DeleteLinda and u had to bring my talk on Stella's blog.lol come on bbm. (U know who it is) *side eyes*
DeleteD and L... helo girls*xoxo*
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ReplyDeleteHaha chic felix ooooo
DeleteAre you German Juice's sister ?
DeleteYou people's grammar, odikwa very risky.
Yes oooo.
DeleteNice one
Stella, thanks for the piece of advice. I have made up my mind to patiently wait for my prince charming as this ingrate doesn't worth me. I can't keep up with a chronic cheat with an unrepentant heart, yet full of deceit leaving him with the ladies he keeps deceiving who feels they've gotten themselves a guy,with time they will experience worse than he has done to me and his exes. My consolation is I have got greats physique and looks,but to my prince charming whenever our path crosses I will first deal with you for making me go through all this nonsense.
ReplyDeleteI think I know who u are.....Hmmmmmmmmmm
DeleteGod knows I don't go back licking asses...
ReplyDeleteOnce we are done,boo! we definitely done,I move the fuck on!!!
Some Men are worse than nightmare...Ladies do not try winning your Exes back,you will just find yourself parting legs, being all emotional and all thinking everything gona be alright..Ofcourse! He tells you he misses you..lol! Story!!! He just want chop soup. Biko please let's bring our senses along wherever we are headed..
These Men are Cunny,cruel and all.
When I sense you acting funny,I call it quit sharply sharply.lol
DeleteI love me too much!
I loved my ex because he had a very big dick. Yes,very big and he knew how to use it. He is Efik and I am Deltan. His mum didn't hide the fact that his only child will not marry me. Me and him cried and my mother said I will not marry someone who's mum hates me. I still love him and we met last week. We had a steamy and long goodbye sex. We agreed not to meet again. Can we keep it?
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ReplyDeletemy dear enjoy ur new man jere.na God giv you. All this broke mehn forming possessive.my ex ws like that too. Thnk God I left his sorry broke ass.
Deletelol @feaar no let am call u again. Some men tho
DeleteIt happens cos ladies are emotional beings and some attach their all to the man they are in love with and when he decides to do the unexpected (break up), they find it difficult to move on due to the emotional attachment and fear of the unknown (possibility of meeting someone better). MO
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ReplyDeleteI think I am Toomuch of a big deal to go back to an ex. If it's over, yeah damn it's over.
ReplyDeleteA man cannot treat you like you ain't shit and you think it's wise of you to go back to him all in the name of "love"
Some men call me proud. Well if knowing my worth and carrying myself like a Queen that I am makes me proud, I gladly accept.
If no man is claiming you, pls stay single.
Did you or did you not go back to Pa Nduka ?
DeleteThe Baddest,aka TGW
DeleteOooh!!! U all think is easy to moved on when ur heart is broken? Especially when u re really in love with d guy involved? Nooo...it doesn't work dat way @times I found it so hard to move forward when I actually knew he has a serious relationship...nd I haven't move forward till now...I need help asap
ReplyDeleteOpen d door to ur heart so dat someone else will get in. Sometimes boredom na bastard.
DeleteAwwww...big tanks to u @ chick felix,Heaven knws am so bored nd lonely,no frds around nd no family around also,dis makes me keep going back to him when am fully aware he doesn't want me...wah can I do?pls
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ReplyDeleteWow
Deletehian..... i have a child with someone i gave my life to.... but he packed out of the house one day to go meet another woman, i have been fine oooooo, no going back lai lai, it's over one year now and am soo loving it
DeleteUfuoma,in 2017,someone will yab you with this story. Chill with your history or you go anon.
DeleteMaybe. It's just a mystery that I haven't been able to solve since.
ReplyDeleteWhen I'm done I mean it, sex won't make me Com back no matter hw good it was..
ReplyDeleteStella the thing tire me oh! imagine my hubby's ex that they separated because of genotype wahala, she don even marry since sef and she has two kids, yet she won't leave my hubby for me make we build our new marriage o, calling with sob stories of how her hubby is a chronic womaniser and how he beats her up, like say na we force am marry the guy. shameless whore! Some women are their fellow woman's worst enemies. you claimed to have loved the guy, now you see he is happy e dey pain you, how is that love biko?
ReplyDeleteGod will see u through.
DeleteInsecurity and maybe good sex.
ReplyDeleteHmmmm......
ReplyDeleteSimple. Women are incurable. What I mean is that they can't accept the truth no matter how you try. They are incurable because whatever you like tell them, they will always want whatever they think to become the way to go.
ReplyDeleteNow I will repeat this warning regardless. . every man that toasts a woman wants sex, well, as soon as he can get it. What ever aan tells you, the truth is what I have just said. I'm a man and I know more men cloesly than any woman can ever know. If women know this they will be netter place to deal with fuck and go. Truth be told more than ninety percent of women in this blog didn't and won't marry the first man that fucked them. So if fuck and go is heartbreak it baffles that all you women still have hearts. So refusing to move on an associated misery is self inflicted.
The second reason is women refuse to accept that a man goes to get a woman, any woman he wants and so can afford to move on quickly once the romance wears off but women can't go and get a man they want. The most they can do is to position themselves in the way of their choice man and hope yes hope that the man finds them acceptable. But because they secretly believe what they re
Hummmm
DeleteYour brain is on check today.
DeleteYou're right.
Hmmmm......my ex made me hardened. Seven years of unconditional and honest love yet he threw it to the dogs to devour. He begged all he could with family and friends I forgave him, moved on but *hardened* I know one day love will see me for keeps and I won't let go
ReplyDeleteAwwww.
DeleteWell have not reali experience heartbreak cos i use my head, plus i miss my Ex so much he was so caring and sweet and spoilt me silly and the sex oh my goodness it was out of this planet his dick wasnt dat big but it fit perfectly because am tight. Now am married and am trying to forget him though its not easy
ReplyDeleteThe reason is because your husband is not good in bed. Your ex is a better fucker
DeleteSorry sender's devil sent my uncompleted comment for publishing and then hung my device midstream.
ReplyDeleteSo what i was saying is that women know that it was not a days job to be found by that man and so leaving him just like that means another endless wait for another man to find her. More so a man can get a new gal by just tell the new gal that her old gal is not measuring up and not giving him what he wants and the new gal quickly jumps on it and promise to do better than the former. But any gal that tells a prospective toasts that she wants to leave her guy because he isn't measuring up and not giving her all she wants would lose the guy before even getting him because she will be seen as a baggage. So women should stop deceiving themselves by thinking a man wants them for anything but sex.with this they will run away from these complaints. Remember if a man doesn't spend mony on you he thinks straight and rationally about matters concerning you. In the same way a woman who has not engaged in sex with a man thinks straight and rationally in matters concerning him
Your finishing line is wack.
DeleteI beg to differ.
Ex means expired
ReplyDeleteDnt go back to wot will kil u,dey always have a mindset of....
Am afarid if I leave him,I won't get anoda guy like him.A big fat LIE,move on wit ur life..d best is out dere waiting 4u.
You are wrong, it is 50-50
DeleteIt is just so funny. Smtime it is not an issue of low sef esteem or insecurity. I tink it is more deeper than that. If u are in a loving relationship pls cherish it with all ur heart cus dts every girls dream. I wish mine was evn an Ex. But he'll No. Dis guy is so mean. U call to show to, he shouts at u. U ping him, he says he is busy. U tell him u love/miss him, he says thank u. Lolzzzz! Wen I complain, all he says is " u knw I want u around me nd dts d only reason y u are here, bcs so many girls out dia beg to be with me so no hasty complain" I am totally insane. Going tru lots of emotional stress.
ReplyDeleteMadam,you better give yourself brain.If what you wrote up there is not self esteem issues,then what would you call it.
DeleteA man tells you all this rubbish & you still dey there dey form love.Leave that guy ASAP.Haba!!
You better borrow a working brain.
DeleteThe dude is non EXistent.
Give yourself brain veena... That guy is not into you and you know it. don't come here with tales of heartbreak later o.. He feels he is doing you a favour by dating you my dear... run o
DeleteThis thing they call love na serious affair... well every lady is guilty of this at some point in her life. Anyways..know thy worth!! if you know how important and priceless you are, you wont go back begging. Also, having a relationship with God helps, it has helped me severally. I am also grateful to God for my selective amnesia which makes my healing process faster. Above all Zip up and just have fun. #highlightsfrommyexperience
ReplyDelete@Anonymous 15:30.... sex doesn't define my feelings for anyone. So my dear, that i have sex with you in a rshp is not a loss to me. I'm likely to abstain from sex with smone I love than smone I don't love. I wonder why u see sex as such a big deal in a rshp. I don't fuck outside rshps, but i'm dating u & we're fucking it means absolutely nothing to me. What do u have to offer? That is the question.
ReplyDeleteYou are deceiving your self
DeleteThank you.
DeleteCome here and kiss me.
If I have sex with you, I become instantly irritated by your presence. Unless you have something huge (no pun intended) to offer me.
Where's the loss therein ?
This is so me right now,wanted to send my chroncile ,stella am lossing it sef .....
ReplyDeleteThis is to the anon that said her DH ex still calls him, Please madam i want you to know that if your DH want's his ex to stop calling she will stop. This is your marriage don't joke with it, if it means reporting to her DH by all means do, You said she even called your DH when she was in labour?? Really?? Are you sure your DH is not responsible for her pregnancy??? What fuckery is this ( in sisi eko's voice ) DAMN! This two are disrespecting you big time.
ReplyDeleteMy ex(thankfully), is an arrogant, uncouth and egotistical SOB.
ReplyDeleteAfter almost five months of trying to make sense of his disgusting behaviour, I threw in the towel.
Last year, he started blowing up my phone with messages.
This year, they became harrassing. Warned him for stay off,but he refused.
Had to call him out publicly and threaten legal action against him,for harassment and peddling of false stories.
After apologising, he disappeared, only for resurface some weeks ago, asking if I want him to die?
Francis,by all means drop dead. Who you help?
This is someone I've not seen in close to five years.
God forbid I become friends with him.
I'd rather remain single, than be in a relationship where I'm unhappy or abused in any way whatsoever.
Got zero level for such BS,and can't deal when most victims refuse to move on.
It's well.
#WhiteDiamondOut
@kolomental, why won't he dump your ass? No wonder you are so frustrated NO WONDER!
ReplyDeleteJust realised the girl giving me evil looks then was my ex gf now wife.
ReplyDeleteSatan the father of lies. All the lies heaped on my gracious self.
With all the lies why is my ex trying to contact me. When he doesn't wish me well.
The issue almost broke my home. When she quarrels with her hus and his family she will call my hus to tell him. My hubby even stopped picking her calls but whosai she will send text upon text under the pretense of asking questions. I even called her for where. Spoken to my hubby too. Well i leave everything at the feet of Jesus. Dont want to kill myself over one immoral woman who is with One man while thinking of another. It is well.
ReplyDeleteDo ur homework.
DeleteGet her hubby's ad or phone number n report her
Hmmm... Amazing confessions. This thing is rather complicated. Without sex, have found myself very much attached to guys I was 'seeing' (guys I liked). Having sex, I thought I could move on quickly because I was of age and ready for it. I wasn't pressured at al. Still, after about 2years, I have become so attached to the guy. Not emotionally but physically. It's crazy. He has told me many times that he has someone else, yet, I can't even process the information talk less of agreeing to it. It's amazing but all Glory to my father and God. He maketh it this way.
ReplyDeleteIs it only women that can't let go of their exes? Y are d guys here acting all macho? Y do some peeps lyk jumping into conclusions saying things like its bcos of sex? For real?
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