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Friday, December 04, 2015

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narratives...

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 NARRATIVE NUMBER ONE
RIGHT CHOICE?


Hello Stella, thank you for this platform you have created for advice and opinion sharing,my narrative is a bit lengthy but I'm confused right now about my relationship and I need advice, please help me post this muah.

I am 26 years old and my boyfriend is 31. We have been dating for a year and nine months. In the course of the relationship my boyfriend has been good, he has been supportive, kind, loving, I've never had any reason to doubt him, he spends the little he has on me, as long as it will make me happy, and I was also good  even though some issues come up occasionally  

One of the issues I had with him was the fact that he is still staying with his parents, even though the house is a big house, it really bothered me. He doesn't have a car and he works in a bank, he has access to get a loan but he says he doesn't want to be indebted to anyone, he can afford to drive any of his father's cars but he doesn't,because he feels his dad won't respect him ( d'uh if he is looking for respect he should have moved out). 

The car issue really affected our relationship because it was hard getting around and I always had to be the one meeting up and visiting since I was the mobile one,my car had some serious issues so I had to sell it.So most times we ended up taking cabs and he was always complaining about why we can't just take a bus to save money instead of thinking of how to get a car. Even with all this I just thought he needed encouragement on getting his life together.

Another problem is,he is trying to relocate to America. I don't have a problem with that but I just feel at his age. That's not what he needs right now, I feel he should try to move his career forward here and make a life instead of going abroad to hustle, and that also means he is not ready to settle down. 

The major problem was 2 months ago I got pregnant even though I was on birth control injection. I really wanted to keep the baby and I told him my plans. He said he loves me with all his heart and wouldn't mind getting married to me and he will support whatever decision I take but I should keep in mind that he might be relocating soon, and he won't be here to support me, besides he says he cannot financially support a child as he feels his salary is not enough to, he earns 150 thousand, I wasn't working then because I took a break to decide where my career was heading, so I couldn't afford a child too and I was staying with my brother. I knew we both couldn't afford it but I felt we had 9 months to plan, I had done an abortion in the past and I didn't want to go through that experience again . 


I told him taking out the baby will mean our relationship is over, he said he didn't want to loose me, started crying on my head, that he is so confused, but he didn't say anything about the abortion again . The truth is our families are okay and I know they would have supported us and everything would have worked out if we just decided to put our  fear behind us and try. I spoke with my siblings and my mum about the issue and they encouraged me to make my decision and they would support me. After much deliberation I realized I didn't want to force fatherhood on him and he really didn't want a child but he didn't want to tell me that,because he knew I would be hurt, so he put all the decision making on me while subtly hinting that a child was not what he wanted right now. 

So I made up my mind to take out the baby,the truth is if I decided to keep the child I might have had to raise a fatherless child and that is one thing I have decided not to do, as my mum was a single mum and it really affected me emotionally. I spoke with him about the decision  and he seemed really relieved, he was very supportive during the process, hospital visits for tests, scans, money for hospital bills materialized all of a sudden, he was always there reassuring me of his love but how this is not the right time.

Now to the advice I need, I have done the abortion, my womb is not damaged, I'm okay, my boyfriend still assures me of his love and does whatever it takes to please me , but I want to leave the relationship. We talked about abstaining but I know after some time it will just be talk, apart from that when will he be ready to settle down? If I get pregnant again what will happen? I feel no matter how much he shouts about his love, if he couldn't be supportive about keeping the baby then he isn't the one for me.I feel like he isn't just ready to be responsible, I feel like now that I can still move on, I should just pick up the pieces of my remaining womb and move on...and forget him because there might never be a future and getting a man has never been a problem for me. Just two months after the whole ordeal I've gotten a new good job, I can afford to save for a new car or a place of my own or get a loan if I want, if I can afford to put my life together like this what's stopping him? 


I have already decided that I want to leave the relationship but I need advice and people's opinions on if this is the right choice because  apart from his being irresponsible he is actually a good person, and if I'm to leave how should I go about it.


P.s: I know having an abortion is not good, but I believe it's a personal decision. I will not get upset if anybody hurls insults and curses me out, but please after all that still find time to contribute your advice and opinion on the above subject: is leaving the right decision?


I am on a one week Sabbatical .Blog Visitors please advice her well oh.

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NARRATIVE NUMBER TWO
VIRGIN IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS COMPLICATED.

Stella my bf and I started dating 2 months ago and we've not had sex yet cause I'm still a virgin.

I am 19 whilehe's 35 though he agreed to wait till I'm ready for it but Bvs it's been one fight to the other.He's so jealous and protective of me,he gets angry when I'm talking to my male friends on phone,he doesn't want me to have any friend cause he believes they're bad influences on me.

I don't go to parties or anything cause he doesn't want any guy coming to make advances at me.On my part I'm very faithful and honest with him very sincere and loyal to him.

Stella I caught him cheating.

At first I snooped and caught him talking to an ex trying to fix a date for them to meet,I confronted him and he cried and begged until I forgave and that passed.Not up to a week again, I caught him chatting with another of his ex fixing up for them to meet that evening.

Now Stella,this is the main one there's this is his ex we've been having issues about,they broke up July cause she went around sleeping with his friends and he caught her red handed and they are in same church.

She makes comments at him while we're together and he laughs at it.she goes around saying bad stuffs about me and he tells me to ignore because she's just jealous.He tried convincing me he's over her and was even saying trashy stuffs about her etc.

Now Stella i showed him a post yesterday about a friends picture that had his exs comment on it.Not up to 20min I checked his phone and low and behold I saw he started following her on Instagram and I got devastated.I felt so betrayed and lied to .

I confronted him and at first he was trying to get angry and claim right that he followed her a longtime ago,and almost hit me.when it became obvious I had all evidences and wanted to leave he unfollowed and blocked her and he knelt down and started begging,begging and even crying that he's sorry and it won't happen again and that he needs a last chance.

I am frustrated and want to leave but at the same time I don't know if leaving is a good option or giving him a last chance,please who has been in my condition I need advise before it's too late.


Age is nothing but a number but WTF are you doing with someone almost twice your age?you should be in school and busy with your books.You are not ready to have s3x but you have become a monitoring spirit in his life?
You should not be the one trying to force him to stay faithful,get the f*$k out of that relationship and get busy before i land you an E-slap....Ooops i forgot, i am on Sabbatical!




204 comments:

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    1. @ poster 2 nobody has been in your condition, you are 19 why he's 35, pls face ur studies..Receive sense & leave that r/ship not good for u....

      Na wah ooooo...

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    2. That poster 2 ehn...just go n look for ur agemate that has same mentality with u..i dnt evn see what you are doing in that relationship with ur crying daddy. Get out of it!

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      A bomb pussy is very sensitive and dsnt exceed 2rounds of sex, but be sure u have full satisfaction. So if u possess these qualities, u got urself a bomb pussy, congrats

      NB: having a bomb pussy dsnt guarantee a faithful husband or husband.

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    4. Same old stories,can't waste my advice on themBTW,Poster 2 your boyfriend is a fool at 35,and you are a foolish 19 year old virgin.

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    5. Poster 1; move on with your life. He's not important.

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    6. P1, I don't have anything to yell you.
      P2, you are too young for the game you are playing. Run along dear, your mum needs you in the kitchen!

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    7. Poster1 pls. Stop that birth control pills that was wat my anty used and when it was time to birth babies she couldn't.. and there was a gap of 14years to the next child.. abeg use condoms abeg u.. am nt going to insult u for abortion. kisses dearie.... that ur bf nor serious give him space.. also pray to God cos he alone can give u directives

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    8. Poster 1

      Please leave that relationship. You need someone more responsible in your life. What if you had complications during the abortion? He would still have left you to his abroad. Please leave him. He believes so much in his dream and I don't think he has a place for you in his dream.

      How to break up? small thing... Just gradually start ignoring his calls and messages. If he calls you say 3 times in a day, pick his call once and even while on the call, tell him you might have to call him back..if he ask why? Just say work and all.. You are so busy now...,blah blah blah... I know some people will say you should call him and have a discussion with him, my dear,you are on a long thing, you might eventually settle for what you did not plan for. By the time he starts crying and begging... So the best thing is to make up your mind to break up with him and then move on. All the extra time you use to spend with him, invest it in something else.

      If you by any chance marry this man, you will live your life fufilling his dreams.. Is that what you want?

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    9. @poster1 : your bf is so broke.....and believe me he is economical and stingy like most bankers.
      I will advise you to leave him 4 the fact that he is broke!!!

      @poster2 : Kotinue dancing egwu onwa with your fore fathers!
      If you want to mingle with your fore fathers, please mingle with a billionaire or else 4get about

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    10. Poster one your bf is not serious. That type of guy will get someone else pregnant and marry her sharply. So pls leave him and pick pieces of ur womb like u said and leave lol

      Poster two, you're with a control freak. Plus the age difference between u guys is way too much. I like older men but not those older than me with that much. He still treats you like a child so you need to let him go

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    11. My own problem is my bf hardly gets angry with me. Anytime i do something bad he will just be calm and restless, he can be awake all night thinking then wakes me up and ask in the calmest voice about what happend, me knowing that I fucked up ll start begging and explaining but he will ask so many questions and beg me for the truth, when I tell him everything and apologise he always end with the words "baby please don't hurt me i love you". Am worried if truly he loves me cos before we started dating i used to hear him get angry with his ex and atimes even warn her after a misunderstanding never to call him again then she will be crying and begging but with me it's so different na me even dey warn am atimes not to call me with him crying and begging. He's once told me that there's nothing i can do dat will make him hate me. I love him so much and am beginning to think if truly he loves me.

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    12. Irresponsible and caring does not go together. Move on poster 1.

      Poster 2, you're too young for this kind of relationship. What the hell are you doing with an irresponsible 35yrs old man. At his age he's still flirting with exes. Dust your young self and leave that relationship now

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    13. P2:He is obviously overprotective of u bcos he wants to b d first to eat ur cake. Did u not say he gets jealous when u talk wd ur male friends? Why do u think?

      Again, he is patient with u (or so it seems) bcos he is bidding his time and trying to steal ur heart and respect while he pretends to wait till u are ready whilst he is getting 'it' from somewhere else. He is taking u for a ride.

      He is frolicking wd his exs! Does dat sound like a responsible guy to u? Am sure he is wd u becos u are his trophy yet to be unwrapped and he wants to b ur first. He isn't kneeling n begging u bc he loves/respects u. It's simply bcos u hav what he wants. Give him what he wants and he will pro'ly dump u.

      Why not pull out of this relationship and face ur studies for now. Avoid distractions and sincerely nothing distracts like relationships bc emotions are involved.

      U r still young. Ur man will come when d time is right. Now u need ur focus and not dis man who is even twice ur age.

      Let me add this: keep ur body. It's ur dignity, ur pride and men respect a woman who refuses to sell herself cheap. Save it for ur hubby. The wait is painful, and difficult but it is worth it. U are made in God's image. U are not cheap.

      Always choose righteousness.


      Mitchelleobatu.blogspot.com

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    14. I know you are jobless but try to advice


      Poster 2: you are too young for this stress.

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    15. Poster one, all I get in ds ur narrative is car car car!! Inukwa nu m akuko! Biko I dnt think all dz are excuse enough 4u 2call him irresponsible. U mentioned he has plans 2 travel out so i'm guessing he thinks he doesn't need all doz since he'll leave dem behind, more so, he cud b saving up 4 his papers 2travel.. Its obvious d guy doesn't evn wnt 2 commit now so jst gv him dt space and move on. And biko while u are @ it, pls ensure d nxt guy u date has a car evn b4 u consider him. Atleast, u wunt b sndn in any car chronicle..

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    16. Poster 1, my simple advice to you is to quietly leave that relationship. The guy is not ready to settle down neither does he ve any intention to marry you. Poster 2, your case is a misplaced priority, girls your age make such mistakes buh Thank God you haven't gone far, pls get out of that situationship. Goodluck to both of U

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    17. Poster 2: You know why your father's mate (sorry about that ) is still with you? Your virginity and you will suffer when you marry him. He is not worth it. Maybe he hasn't had one before. He obviously has no respect for you. Find a way to leave him as peaceful as possible cos he sounds like a psycho. But hope he is not the one training you pr something like that?


      Poster 1: You have a family willing to support your decision if you had chosen to birth the child but you went ahead to abort? No words for you.

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    18. Summary of bomb pussy, you r so right

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  2. CHRONICLES!



    *******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******

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    1. Poster1:
      u said u ve aborted hw many times again? Which kin witch boyfrnd be dat?
      He is working, and d pay is manageable, he doesn't pay house rent, he nor dey kukuma take cab, yet he isn't ready to be a father, but he can gbensh raw for Africa bah?

      From what I see d two of u lack understanding or shuld I say there's no communication btw u, u guys shuld set ur priorities straight for crying out loudddddddddd, just negudo ohhhhhh.

      Poster2:
      U re in a relationship wit someone who is sexually active and u don't want it till only God knws wen and u think he will be faithful to u,na u circumcise am ni?
      Yes he will beg, swear on whoever grave but will still cheat,so forget d crying and kneeling babe, all na washhhhhhhhh.
      If u knw u ain't ready for sex, move d hell out sweety, I knw why...And it's my opinion#


      *******LONG LIVE SDK & SDKERS*******

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    2. Looool...

      Both girls are wasting their time o

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    3. @ poster 1, I am not too sure your guy really wants to consolidate Ur relationship. I was in tht type of situation until I decided to rent a 2 bedroom apartment.....though I am not in any kind of formal relationship for now, but I Hv learnt tht staying in Ur parent's house no matter how rich u are... wil put som kind of limitations on most decisions u make.
      I wil advice u opt for a more committed guy. God will surely c u thru. Be ready to move on poster.

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    4. I think she meant 29years not 19years.

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    5. Poster 1, that guy isn't ready for a serious commitment. Plus he is scared of being a man.
      Poster 2, a man of that age kneeling and crying for you, a 19years old girl? Oh please its all pretence. Wait till he succeeds in taking your virginity, then you will see his true colours.

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    6. Poster 1& 2..same issh
      You need to find ya self worth where you left it and put it on..those two dudes are babies in an adult body

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    1. Poster 2, what on earth are you doing with your ANCESTOR???
      Did you do the maths?

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    2. Lmao!! Lotta nut cases here!!

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    3. Whoolup!!! Hehehehe....what's she doing with her Umunna

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    4. Lmao!! Na real ancestor oo. *Spits!

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    5. Jesu! Ancestor??? U are mean! Lmao.... dat for me

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    6. Hahahahaha. He is old enough to be her father at a young age.
      Make I do the maths: 35-19=16.
      Well not too old but too old for a teenager.

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    1. Poster one: Move on already

      Poster two: Get away from that man biko. Hian

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    2. Poster 2...Bia u 19? and he's 35! helloooo....Way too young for all dem relationship drama abeg, where r your parents.... Hmmmm. Poster 1 nne follow ur hrt, I think after the abortion, the love u had for him was gone, don't force it. Besides you're 26 and he's gone travel abroad soon? U sure in for a long thing.think abt it.

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    3. Poster1,the dude is not yet ready to settle down that is just the truth,but u are trying to force him.that is why u are thinking of car and all that and he is not cox he us saving up and has plans ahead. In the end,he would end up with a girl much younger than u are.
      I advice u move ahead now that age is still on your side.before the spirit of delay enter your life.
      U can't force a man to marry u if u like get pregnant 10 times if he is not yet ready,he is not yet ready u would only have to abort the 10 pregnancies.

      Poster2,The bitter truth is that no matter what advice we give to u here, u would still end up with that unfortunate man.
      He would eventually have sex with u,become posssive of u, and cheat on u a thousand times then dump or keep using u for sex.I tell u,u would even end up giving him money self I know girls like u.
      Instead of thinking of how to get an education and get a life u are thinking 0f men up and down.@19 shouldn't u be with a younger dude and enjoy your youth and have a relationship like your mates?
      Just continue.

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    4. @German juice, chaiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.
      200likes, I like d way u dished it, hawt hawt.

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  5. Too hungry to compose any reasonable Cuss/advice/opinion...So lemme just swerve...
    Bye!

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    1. A teenager sent in chronicles about a relationship with a much older man and stella posted. If na ur daughter or niece, u go post!? Hmmmm.

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  6. Poster 1, all dt I am seeing on ur post is jst car car car car car. Ur number probs with d guy is car

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    1. Dont mind her! Materialistic somebody

      Probably trying to impress people around her

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    2. As in ehen, I thought I was the only one o. Part of your problem poster 1 is peer pressure. You want to show off ur bobo. Leave him nd allow him think like the man he is.

      Poster 2, at ur age the spirit of monitoring and snooping has come over you pls go for deliverance. Also find someone with ur age range to date why the rush into marriage? Cuz being with someone dat age means u want to settle down.

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    3. I don't blame her. I can't date a guy that dsnt have a car o. It's not possible

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  7. tired of advicing ppl daily, without knowing if my advice was of great help or not..... I'm reading comments jo.

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    1. Poster 2 r u stupid? Face your studies. Is he your boyfriend or sugar daddy?

      Poster 1 150k is not enough to take care of a child? The guy is using your baby brain

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    2. Both posters pls run very far away from thos guys. @whiteprints , can categorically tell u that I av bomb pussy lol. Awesome write up.

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  8. Poster one you are both incompatible, he is looking ahead while you want immediate gratification.
    As for pregnancy please use a condom or birth control that is what those things are there for instead of getting pregnant and doing abortion, insist he uses a condom.

    Poster two, you are dating yourself and you don't need that man in your life he doesn't respect you.

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    1. Didn't you read where she said she was on birth control pills when it happened?

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  9. Poster 1 why not move on and find someone who is emotionally ready to be with you.
    I don't even get what you are driving out, you'd still succumb to his pressures and get pregnant again.
    Stop having unprotected sex if you must have sex, it's pretty annoying.

    Poster 2 is your name snoop dog?
    Please leave that grown ass man, he'd waste your time and make you lose yourself.
    You still have a lot of years ahead of you to meet men who would treat you right.

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    1. @ Poster 2 you better run from that guy that was how my Ex was denying he is over his ex before I know it they got married

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    2. @ poster 2 the moment he disvirgin u, he will pick race..

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  10. Poster 2 go back to sch ur too young biko, wen I was ur age my priority was sch not men.

    Poster 1 what is really ur problem? The car, to get married, him staying with his parents. If he starts taking loan now to make u okay that means when u guys re finally married, he would highly indebted, it also seems both of u re not on same page. To make things work well u both should be on same page.

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  11. Poster two u are a sidechic o....
    Pls focus on other things n leave that over matured user alone for now.

    Poster one abortion is up to u, keep it or taking it out is in ur pocket. Goodluck.

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    1. Poster 1: it's obvious he isn't ready to marry so move on without looking back, he wants to f**k but doesn't want to be responsible.

      Poster2: what did I read sef, when I remember I ll come back come drop comment.

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    2. Ha. Side chick no be small one. Smh. It's tough when you're so young and in love and can't see obvious signs. Poster two, free that guy. You have your entire life ahead of you

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    3. @poster 2: re u sure that ur ancestor don't have HIV him wan dash u. See try snoop well well, going for a girl ur age is something suspicious.

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  12. Poster 1 pick up the pieces n live ur life... Leave him to mature... When he's ready he'll find some 1.... Poster 2 I have no word for U... He is 16years older.. U can only continue with d relationship if UA a graduate about to serve, serving or working... If not stay clear.....

    I won't say more cz wen I was ur age I had graduated n about serving....

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    1. Imbecile faith martins,(with small letters ofcourse), so you maintain your lane with faith and troll with ur new moniker?
      Did your name change affect your looks?Cos bitch you is still as ugly as fuck.
      With that your horse-looking face, whistle-shaped mouth, flabby stretch-mark infested thunder thighs, you think you are all that? Orangutan like you.
      See this witch that looks like she was cross-bred with a turkey. Be running your halitosis mouth like flowing stagnant water.
      Idiot. Did I beg your father for airtime? Ishie mkpo. Nton Ekpo nte afo. Useme idad inor..
      Nonsense and ingredients...

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    2. Brutalityyyyyyyyyyy

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    3. Now I know UA my anonymous cusser . same word for cuss different day....

      V got better things to think of than an epistle to write u.
      FAITH MARTINS

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    4. Choi Quiksilver has finished this gwegz..
      Kwakwakwakwa...
      Lwkmd!...

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  13. Poster one: love is sick
    Poster two: love is blind

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  14. & u dey sabbatical abi? Continue.

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  15. Poster1: are you asking if you shld leave the relationship? No kontinu. You will soon abort the second one for him, that's what you get when date confused guys.
    Poster1: Stella's advice ooh Nne.

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  16. Poster 1,
    Most sexual active girls have done abortion so poster,don't mind the insults cos they are not better...
    Bankers are very stingy and the worst thing that would happen to any woman is to marry a stingy husband...
    You go hear nwii in the marriage...
    Biko move on with your life...dude dosent want to grow up!...
    You deserve better jare..not a stingy morrafucker...

    Poster 2,
    Slap your slap for saying you are frustrated because of a man...
    At your age,you are suppose to be enjoying and exploring life...
    Dump this guy and live your life...you still have a long way to go..
    Infact,face your studies and leave men for now...

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    1. Can't type biko. Both posters, take her advise

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    2. My dear queen,
      I would advise that you read, comprehend analyse poster 1 chronicle before commenting. Please don't always be in a hurry to type down the first thing to that comes to your mind.
      The chronicle is self explanatory and easy to conclude that the poster is simply looking for " instant gratification"
      All she kept talking about is car and loan. Who advises her friend to take acar loan in this time and era? Was she born with a car attached to het placenta?
      This lady is more interested is settling down and having a good life without considering her boyfriend's dreams and aspiration.
      IF you have worked as a banker , you would know 150k is nothing to write home about compare to the stress, tension, pressure and lack of job security and promotion attached to your pay check.

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  17. Poster1, your boyfriend is being over ambitious.

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    1. We've seen something close to d first poster's narrative here. Without the abortion part tho

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  18. You made law yourself, you break it yourself!
    Madam sabbatical leave!

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  19. Poster 2 I beg u in the name of God pls leave that relationship. U are 2 months into a relationship and you're already writing chronicles seeking for advice. Biko which other sign do u need before u know that u don't have a future in that situation ship? Leaving the relationship is not just a good option but the best option. Remember I've been warned

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  20. POSTER 1: u seek advice yet I defend him at the end of each paragraph. Use ur head.

    POSTER 2: u expect a 35 year old to take u that serious? That relationship will be like a father and daughter relationship. He'll expect u to respect him always and never rub shoulders Wt him on issues. He'll see u like a child. U better leave and get busy Wt ur academics or career.

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  21. And Stella poster 1s chronicle seems familiar just a little touch towards the end.
    I am very certain it's the same chronicle but I am Kermit though.

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    1. Ur head dey dere, she has written dis chronicle before

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  22. poster 1. Ok so your guy wants to be nacking FOC, could not afford a condom and he's not ready to father a child??? And you still want to stay and be fucking him without future plans??? Na wa o, the sign are so glaring my dear. He does not have any future with you, in short, in his future, your picture is very blurry.

    Anyways,if you are still in doubt, do not allow him to have sex with you again. Tell him, you don lock up till he's ready to be a man. Shikena!

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  23. Poster 1...leave that relationship
    Poster 2...leave that relationship

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  24. Poster 1;that guy is nt serious so take a walk.poster 2:stop wasting ur time with dat guy cos he will never change,so take a walk and face ur studies...

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  25. Poster 2, I will advise u to leave, you are still a baby n u don't need the drama biko plus one day, he will coarse u into sex b4 marriage. Leave!!!
    Poster 1, pray n let God direct you but please, stop shedding innocent blood. ZIP UP!

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  26. Poster 2 you are not serious! Even a man of 30 is too much for u unless in rare cases. Wetin una wan dey talk? You are just not serious.

    Poster 1- Irresponsibility is his second name. He is unstable and indecisive. Please move on before you waste your time.

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  27. Poster 1-Run away
    Poster 2- WTF wat re u doing wit a man twice ur age Were akwukwo gi guo
    Dis Harmattan is so harsh

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  28. Poster one
    Leave that time waster ASAP
    Move one before u damage ur womb with series of abortion
    Poster 2
    Leave that acidic relationship fast and concentrate on ur books.
    Trust me u will be fine

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  29. @Poster 1- dat guy isn't ready for a serious relationship.
    @Poster 2- U will soon have sex with him very soon with the way u are going.. He might start blackmailing u, that it is cos u ain't giving him sex that is why he is getting it outside..Dere is more to this life face your studies now until u are ready for a serious and drama free relationship...

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  30. poster 2. Are you done with school? If you are not, leave this old man and read your books. You are too young to be in this mess. Enjoy being single, this is the best time to turn heads, make men drool at your sight and scrape any lingering head. Dont forget to tie your legs together and pretend like a mermaid...

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  31. poster 1 please move on..put on your running shoes, its not really the guy's fault, just that he is yet to know his purpose in life

    poster 2 move on, relationship is good but do not start your life with this toxic relationship

    to the two ladies you deserve better

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  32. P2: Please rearrange your priority list. That agadinwoke shouldn't even make the list. You are already getting emotionally worked up.
    Nma's Blog 

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  33. P1,irresponsibility is irresponsibility,notin like he is caring,d bottom line u are still hurt by his action.pls start planning alternative cause of action,becos for a guy,who luvs, notin his too much a sacrifice,a guy who luvs u and mean well,wnt go have mile wt u.
    P2.ur case be like yanga de sleep,trouble wan wake am. Ow long will 35yr man wait for u,a possessive for dat matter( a potential candidate for DV).unless u are ready to settle down, abeg ur age bracket don finish. Na bad market u wan use ur young blood befriend. If he was dat gud,he shd be married and not be a baby cradler.he don spoil town finish,con dey luk for young blood.u better build a carrier and av a gud source of income too,if not,u are in for a long tin.

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    1. very apt for poster 2 oh..he has really spoilt town nd he's looking for fresh blood. That's why he will do anything it takes to be with a virgin, including crying like a bushbaby that lost its mat. I know their type

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    2. Everybody bend down for d arrow. Na inside bus I dey type, career not carrier. Half mile not have mile

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  34. The both of you are nt serious.
    What sorta silly chronicle is this? U both have answers to your predicament yet u want bvs 2tag along wv ur thoughts or tell u otherwise.
    The 2of u shld go and sleep jare

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  35. Poster A: You don't need advice, you already know what to do. DO IT!


    Poster B: Leave that man & face your books & your future. You are too young for messy relationships.
    In future be wary of men who kneel, cry & beg... na ojoro. your future. You are too young for messy relationships.
    In future be wary of men who kneel, cry

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  36. Poser 1, ppl should embrace the truth no matter what. What if this guy encouraged u to get preg n leaves you? He's trying to put his life together, u are on about marriage, on a 150k salary? If u can't encourage him, pls look for another guy that's ready. Good to know u have a family that supports u, that's true love u gt there.

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    1. Duh.... He dey arrange his life why he no arrange his dick....msheeeew!

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  37. @poster 1, hmmmmm... guys will b saying how they want u to have their baby and get mad when u become pregnant. In my case, I was ready to keep d baby, d only thing I needed was 4 him to come see my parents at least just show face say "na me get belle", and it could lead to intro. I could always do intro nd remain in our house. he was like he is not ready bla bla, not ready and having sex? Really? we decided to take it out because I cannot present my pregnant self without a man to own up. I still regret I did it, and it breaks my heart. Now claiming he loves me bla bla bla, even wanna marry me... yinmu... I will just advice you to follow your instinct, a man that truly loves and wants to marry you will accept pregnancy when it comes even if it means his parent supporting you two. But then, what do I know? I regret ever meeting him sef.. mtshwwww.. I wish you all the best babes on what ever you decide... # am relieved now.

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  38. Chronicle 1, u have given urself the advice already. Ur boyfriend wants 2 go abroad,probably he won't come back 4 u again. Just move on since he not ready 2 be a father and he claims he loves u.

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  39. P2, face your studies, forget man for now abeg. P1, leave that relationship now! May God help you both.




    Jesus is Lord.

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  40. Poster 1 : ur man isn't ready to take ur relationship to the alter .

    You can't decide on the course of his life - if he wants to go to America to hustle , let him . Thank God you didn't think to tie him down with ur pregnancy . Now gently move on .

    His ambition and yours doesn't tally, it's not neccesarily a bad thing. You guys are just not well suited . So pls pick up the pieces , get ur self new make up and virgin Indian hair , dust your dating attires and get ready to mingle .


    Poster 2 : you are too young to get saddled with snooping and such drama .
    Don't be in a hurry to commit to a relationship ,let ur hair down , party , flirt , do what makes you happy . Leave that man alone , you can't change him - and he does not love you.

    Forget the kneeling , crying and begging . He would keep doing that - he knows that's the way to ur heart . He would fuck up and know there wouldn't be harsher consequences and all he has to do is cry and beg you .

    How long would that continue ? Pls go date a 23 year old guy . Go discover urself , don't be in a hurry .

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  41. Poster 1: Despirado, You Can Safe Enough Money And Pay His Groom Prize, Since You Are So Desperate To Get Married. Poster 2: who cares If You Are Still A Virgin? 80% Of DV Victims Got Married As Virgins... I Pity You.

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    1. I can't stop laffin....pls who is ds individual u r a darl.E hugs

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    2. So you are saying she should lose her virginity so as not to suffer domestic violence? Do you reason with your vagina?

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  42. P2, 19 n snooping? Baby girl, you've got time to be worrying about a man who's fckn with ur head n cooking up stories bout his girlfriends, not exs. Please get a grip n face ur life, u have a bright one ahead of u.

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  43. Poster 2, face your studies biko and stop complicating your life! That guy is too old for you. Why isn't he married yet sef???
    Poster 1, the fact that he still Lives with his parents at 31 and ain't even ready to move out is enough reason to leave him plus You already know he is not yet ready to start taking up responsibilities.
    Break up strategy: Start avoiding him simple. If he asks why, tell him you aren't feeling the relationship anymore and need a break! Alternatively, if you get the mind, tell him ho ha that you need a man who is responsible and he isn't.

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  44. 2 posters please leave! No hope for u girls dere

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  45. Someone made a comment and I agree, how come BV's dont come back n tell us if everything went well after the advice. It will a nice chapter to add to this our blog o. We'll think of a name later. Lolz. Well done ma, how r u today?

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  46. Poster one, u have said it all with your own mouth that he is irresponsible, so y stay with him.he had no future plans for u,that's y he stylishly encouraged the abortion. U know he is a time waster pls leave him before u find urseof doing another abortion.

    Poster 2,what are u doing with ur uncle. Plus go and read ur books,cause the way u are going u are not going to remain a virgin for long.that guy only wants ur cherry it's do obvious. A 35 yr old that is behaving like a kid.I don't understand some ladies ,is it that u hate yourselves so much that u allow nonsense people in ur life to mistreat u

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  47. For d first person hmmmmm. Can relate to your ordeal perfectly well. Give him time then have a clean and clear defining conversation with him.

    If e no pure move on abeg.

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  48. you wanna move on, please do it.. He doesn't love you enough to put you and your unborn child into his future plans.... imagine relocating to America and not having anything concrete to say with regards to your relationship, I mean he is earning 150k!! a lot of couples survive on less (reminds me of the 100k chronicle).2ND POSTER,
    At 19 Sweety, you don't need to be with that man!! haba, I still cant wrap my head around these men dating teenagers! like don't you know what you were doing at 19?? who has time to be faithful and all of that at that time. please don't let him make your life miserable... you haven't even experienced what single-hood means and one grandpa wants you to start living a solitude life style... not that I'm encouraging you to be wayward but puhlezzzz... live and enjoy your teenage yrs! you are way too young for that drama!!

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  49. @1, ur story is too long try to abbreviate the next time you send in ur chronicle.
    @2, at 19 u should be in school, u are a rotten brat

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  50. Narrative1) dat Ur guy na aka gum! He's stingy and u too u love material things so it can't work! I love where u said u don't want to raise a "fatherless" child, it's very good to raise a child in a happy, blessed home!!! Imagine Ur hubby rubbing Ur big tummy under same roof hummm love is sweet. Pregnancy is sweet wen Ur man is rightfully beside u!

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  51. Poster 1-abeg find ur square root
    Poster 2-read ur book...ure too small to start sending in chronicles..... Mtchewww

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  52. Poster 1, from what l just read l will say that your boyfriend is not ready to settle down soon. And you said it yourself, he is irresponsible. So ask yourself this: can l marry an irresponsible man who happen to be a good person? Or can l marry a responsible man who happen to be a good person? You decide...
    Poster 2, please, l am begging you, leave that man today without delay. And concentrate on your studies and futur.

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  53. Poster 1,your problem is car, isok. Poster 2, are you not suppose to be in school? Even dating your papa age mate plus. Make una manage una self abeg

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  54. Poster 1. If you can decide to remove a baby from your womb with reasons you believe justifies your actions then you shouldn't be asking for our opinion as I believe that should be easy for you too. Don't waste our time.
    Poster2: leave him honey, go buy yourself some quality make up, skinny jeans and crop tops and be fly girl. Don't let this time pass you by. Kisses*

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  55. Poster 1, y the rush nau,,, if u know u don't love him again pls go other than fabricating excuses... which is car this,car that......
    Poster 2,,,,for goodness sake u are still a teenager ooooo... please leave that guy alone cos he needs to settle down haba...

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  56. Narrative 2) while u're busy keeping Ur virginity for dat cheat of a guy..... He will be out there sleeping with any available babe...... If u want to keep Ur thing before marriage please do it with a responsible guy not a cheat!

    My younger bro he's still a virgin at his age and also dating a virgin like him, he's a pastor "in d making " and also a student same with d babe, I am saying dis to people dat want to stay faithful before marriage should please date someone dat have same believe with dem not forcing someone to follow Ur step or hoping dey will change. a cheat will always be a cheat.

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  57. poster 2,u are a shameless girl..u shud be busy wit ur books u dey pursue ur elda broda around. and u sayin d guy beggd u crying,na BIG LIE... hw can a mature man ready to settle down av ur time..mtcheeeew...

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  58. barrister lawyer4 December 2015 at 15:48

    Stella ur red ink got me laffing

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  59. poster 2,u are a shameless girl..u shud be busy wit ur books u dey pursue ur elda broda around. and u sayin d guy beggd u crying,na BIG LIE... hw can a mature man ready to settle down av ur time..mtcheeeew...

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  60. @ Stella, chop kiss... I am not ass-licking here. You said my mind on the second post.
    @ Poster one, I feel you. When I had a pregnancy scare, before I said 'I do', my then bf was hoping and praying it was for real, and nine months after, we have a lovely princess and a happy family. I would despise him if I was you, but I am not you.

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  61. Poster 1,pls I will advise u to leave that guy before he damages ur womb with another pregnancy. Pls for ur own good.
    Poster 2,is a virgin dating a far older man,hmmmm! 19 vs 35,is alright!

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  62. See me 22yrs be running/avoiding a guy dt will be 34yrs come next year & a 19yrs old z monitoring z uncle around saying she's in a relationship. Long hissssssss!!!!

    Bia! Poster 2: Just 2months & u r already claiming u r in a relationship. Relationship ma foot! No lemme meet u in dt elder broz n jnr. sis things u r doing wt guy o. Go and face ur book & stop disturbing urself/dt guy.

    Poster 1: U already no what u want but lemme put dis to u, by d time u do anoda abortion 4 ds guy again, HE'LL NOT MARRY whenever he's ready. He z not yours, focus on ur new job, develop ur career & urself esteem. MARK MY WORD B/W 0-1YEAR after leaving d guy, ur own man will locate u. #I'm not a prophetess tho!!!

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  63. Wetin happen to that my comment up there wey im wan do double portion???

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  64. Abeg sdk talk sense into my head,am 20yrs I don't know what am doing with a 48yrs old man although he is really caring and into me a white man and a divorcee with no kids,he even senior my mama

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    1. There's nothing wrong with that..
      Hope he is rich?..
      Ride on jare...

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    2. U still dey find advice? Make greed nor injure u there oo...abi naim race dey trip u? Girls running after lebanese since 1700

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    3. Wait small dear..
      When he's done milking the goodness in ur tender body, he wl move on to another 20yr old.

      Into you kwa?
      Na small e remain.. jst negodu!

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    4. Lol...is he rich and ready to take you to his country? Since u av fallen in love, you better fall with ur sense. 48 years you say? Hian!!!

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  65. Hmmm poster 1. Pls leave the guy alone, beside u fuck up, while will u do a D nd C @ ur age. What is der keeping a child, if ur mum aborted u, I don't think u will be here speaking English, no guy now wants a child if u tell dem mostly wen dey are not ready. But wen u give birth 2 that child they will love u nd child more than dem selves. To me shaaa I will advice u leave the relationship the blood shed is to much. Beside self do think u know what u want? pls go bck nd sit down nd check where u see urself in the next 4yrs, is like na the father money still keep u. The guy self have integrity he is a Man. He don't want 2 owe. Infact u are not his wife, Bcos a good woman won't advise her man 2 take a loan, Abeg incase of ur nxt relationship don't ever advise that. The guy is really a good prs that why he don't want 2 father a child 4rm u. U wants him 2 owe Bcos of ur selfish desire 4 a car, so make people wey their boy no get enter water abi? Pls work on urself, if u are a good woman u will keep that child. But u do check no car to carry u go hospital u did abortion, poster 2,,,,, I pity u. My dear I can see u like them old but pls wait small na. U are still fresh just manage nd concentrate on what ur parents are spending their money on which is sch, don't worry will always be here 2 read more complain about ur boys in the nearest future. We are not running U hear? Good girl oya run leave the daddy nd read ur books.

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  66. N1- this one pass jesus fix it o, God will help u shaa cos spirit of confusion de worry u big time.
    N2- nnem ina erikwa Ihe gbara agba mehn 35-19=16 face ur books biko ur way too young for diz kinda ishs

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  67. Posts 1 & 2 I don't know what to say to you guy as I just woke up from sleep jare
    Anyways poster 1 move on with your life
    Poster 2 get a life and stop dating your ancestor or abi your age mates no dey again ni

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  68. POSTER ONE:

    I WEEP AT YOUR DECISION TO DO WHAT YOU KNEW "WAS BAD". This is the problem; the first thing you did was bad enough; having sex before marriage. You did not come for advice when you had abortion or not to decide on. You know the fact; you did not want anyone to raise 'conscience afflicting questions". You are not sincere with yourself. And talking about "my womb is not damaged . . . my remaining womb etc." is the laughable part of your story! Laughable because they are contradictory and judgmental on your person. No doctor will complete an abortion and tell you that "he has damaged your womb" in Nigeria where abortion is illegal? Your fiance does not have a problem; you lady are the problem! Even when the life of that Child was squarely placed on your shoulders; even by your mom and siblings (God bless them), you took the responsibility to "execute them" (yes "them" because you might have killed multiple kids.) Well enough said; Let's go to the scriptures on: ABORTIONS:

    There is something ABOUT ABORTIONS which I'd like us to see. When one kills (or encourages the killing of; see Prov. 6:16-17) innocent children, the consequences are three. 1. You deny yourself the joy of having a home (remember the Hebrew midwives who spared babies against Pharaoh's advice to kill them; God rewarded them with families; Ex.1) 2. You risk "sudden death" in the hands of another fellow/accidents etc. remember Gen.9:6 and thirdly, you deny yourself eternal life! What a life! God isn't going to call you to glory if you do not repent. Jesus said; come to me all you that labor and are heavy laden and I will give you rest; that's Matt. 11:28. If you do not repent, you'd keep on laboring for the Serpent. But if you repent and make Jesus your Lord today and begin to read your scriptures; you'd find peace and the above three lots will not be yours. God bless you.

    Poster 2
    You have learnt from above. If you like "open your legs" as wide as "Lokoja" the confluence town. . . and make your womb a burial ground in the name of "I love you". Have heard enough of that! The "Love" that cares about your vagina BEFORE BRIDE PRICE is called "LUST"

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  69. Poster 1: you are ready, he is not! He is so indecisive now n wont grow up.. dont force it! Let him go! Get busy and explore.. let him go!!!!

    Poster 2: That man go gbensh your tohtoh taya.. he is stl kneeling down and crying cos you never allow am to.. im 100% sure he's having a serious affair wt a serious babe somewre n they're prob planning to get married soon! He's jst forming love for you tl he gets what he wants. Ifahia love dre!!!

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  70. Poster 1: what advice do you need again. You have done two abortion for him, you think he will marry, he is just using u. He has his eyes elsewhere. I pray you won't regret your abortion in the future, Abeg run. He is very irresponsible and stingy. You are not in his plan he loves you when he want what is btw your legs, after that he does not want to take responsibility of the result. Pls leave.
    Poster 2: I feel like slapping u, what do u want from a sugar daddy at your age. Don't let him rape you or destroy you emotionally. Pls if u are still in sch, face your studies if not face whatever you are doing. When you are ready for relationship tell God to give u ur man. It's good to keep your self dear for the right guy

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  71. Any lesbian in da house?drop ur pin or number.wanna explore life is too short.drop under anonymous

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  72. poster 2.if your bf name is Mr dapson ...run for your life. that's all I can say. demi

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  73. Poster 1: A man who is 35 and still encourages a gf(not a side piece) to have an abortion,will NEVER marry u. Leave him before it happens a 3rd time. Poster 2: At 19,I wasnt even looking to have a serious bf. I chose bf's who werent in the same town as me cos I didnt want relationship drama to affect my studies. Once u miss my call and dont return in 3hours,its over,Lol. My point is,I wasnt even serious with dating cos my books were priority so I was dating without catching feelings. End that drama you have going on. Kapish

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  74. The SEEN AND BUS OF THIS BLOG

    The fact that "most sexually active girls have done abortion" doesn't make it right; does it? Wonder where you are getting your statistics from but you do not need to encourage murder. You are a mother with kids remember. Should she follow the multitude to do evil?

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  75. Poster 1- leave that relationship....those injections are something else, please stay celibate for sometime to clear your head.

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  76. Poster 1 gold circle no pass 200naira nah or u cross ur tohtoh till u are wifed... It's not too late for both of u to realize u aren't in a relationship oh.

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  77. Poster1= forget him and move on, immediately he gets out of this country, you are history. If he is really into you as you claimed why aborting your baby.
    Poster2= Relationship of just two months you have encountered all this yamayama, what are you even doing with someone almost twice your age, abeg forget him face your studies, he will cry cry and beg you, and before you know it your virginity is gone, he is doing that because he knows what he wants.

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  78. Pls oo I was watching a yoruba film on African magic but phcn no gree me finish...abeg wu was watching too?"simisola otelemuye"....Dats d title. I stopped whr fatia balogun was accusing her partner Ricardo of spilling all dey were able to gada about their boss n his cohort.
    Pls oo mk una tell me wetin later hapn , if u watched it tooo. ... Tankx

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  79. No strength to advise anybody.... Everyday different issues around the same topic.... Relationships

    We all have relationship issues. Sometimes you must use your own head and face your issues head on instead of seeking opinions of strangers that don't even care

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  80. I swear I don't understand how girls go about doing it raw with their so called boyfriends. I mean u're sure of urself but can u truly say same for him?? Diseases no dey fear una?? And taking pill its not still the best as it has it side effects.. And then abortions?? I'd understand if u abort once, but making it a hobby is pure madness.. How do you even live with urself after aborting time and time again?? Nna mehn, I can't deal.. Please even if you don't love urself, I'm sure ur parents love you, pity them!! I mean they probably threw a party wen u were born.. Please pity ur poor parents and give urself brain.. Sex is not food!!

    P2.. U can't expect an active man to just lock up all in anticipation for ur own pussy.. Diamond dey ur own?? Pls leave that guy alone..

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  81. Poster one pls free d dude he neva ready, poster 2 pick up ur shoes and runaway....@Blogbrity faith martin keep forming small girl u graduated at the age of 19 oniro oshi

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  82. Virgin girl GET OUT of dat relationship NOW!!!! ( almost hit u....gets angry easily...jealous) Hmmm Abeg try nd quit d relationship he is only wit u cos u re a virgin...he may change eventually wen u guys sex up eventually ..d more u stay d more attached u become so try break d relationship now..I wish u strenght

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  83. Na wa o,posters una no get sense?? P1 he is not ready to settle down so move ahead. P2 u better leave that mumu relationship, it's like it's year first. U will meet better guys concentrate on ur future now.

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  84. Poster 1. Destiny wasters @ work! Time na money spend it wisely. Poster 2. U lack focus, hence no sense of direction.

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  85. Can someone please help me.

    I'm a British. Not Nigerian. My husband to be lives in akwa ibom. We are getting married in March 2016 meaning I will have to move to Uyo until he can move to UK in a few years.

    I have about £4,000 saved up which I would like to use for business. What kind of business can I do in Uyo for this amount as I can not be a housewife. I have learned enough from this blog to know what not having something doing is very bad for Nigerian marriages. Can someone please advise me please

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    1. Wish I knew. Hope you get the help you need

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    2. Aunty pls shattap, you are very Nigerian. You don't have to lie to get a piece of advice. We are all faceless here.



      I am a British kor! I am a Spanish ni😐

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    3. i don't understand this your talk o .

      A friend of mine who lives & works in the UK recently got married and filed for his wife - she has since relocated and they are living fine . She's there based on the fact her spouse works there legally.

      So why can't your husband join you?

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    4. Merchandise..
      Fashion items for men, women n kids.
      U can travel once in a while n bring ur goods in to sell IMO

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    5. Either clothing or human hair ( as they will call it)

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    6. My dear don't stay in uyo afta ur weddin,go bak nd work ur hubby stay til den.dont tink of stayin put in uyo else ur eyess go see shege!

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    7. Invest the money in the uk if you must marry this man. Ask him to hep you set up a biz in Nigeria with 1 k. Just something for ??????

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  86. chronicle of life.
    p2 At your age,you are suppose to be enjoying and exploring life,thinking of setting life goal...date ur age range unless u r ready to marry, plus u r a side chic in this situationship.......
    p1, u already know wat to do. be strong and take charge of ur life . move on. ur relationship goals are too different .

    GOD, M even scared of having daugthers.. i wouldnt want them to go thru shit n not let me knoww...........let my sons be God-sent to their women oooooooo
    female chronicles never ends..........

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  87. Poster 1, biko take a walk, he's not ready, and when he will be ready it won't be you that he will settle down with, he will still be the one to mock you for the abortion, follow your instinct

    Poster 2, a man almost twice your age? Really? Leave that man and go back to school..

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  88. Poster one have been in same abortion predicament. Left him cos The lack of support cleared my eyes. I married someone else and have been happily married for 14yrs with 2 kids. He is also happily married so all is well that ends well. But if I had married him I would have resented that abortion I had to do due to his lack of support.
    Poster 2 u are too young and immature for that guy. He will play with u in all ways. Look for someone less than 10yrs ur senior. Gd luck guys

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  89. Poster 1: u really amaze me! Wen I married my hubby he was earning 70k. I got preg before he married me. Wen I found out I was preg he refused to allow me abort, he called his mum n told her I.was preg n his mum called mine. Why I m telling u all these is dat ur bf has no excuse whatsoever. If he truly loves u he won't allow u abort his child. Ohh I forgot to include that I wasn't working either. I gave birth to my son via cs but the way God has been providing for us is a miracle. My advice is to dump that Idiot like a bad habit cos ur life will b perfect without him.

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  90. Poster 1: At this age and time no serious minded guy should be indecisive. News flash! You are dating yourself. The child should have been a bond and a reason for wanting to come back to you.
    Poster 2: Could you focus on your education and forget about snooping for now?

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  91. Poster 2 receive sense in jesus name! Leave ur ancestor alone, ur jst 19 and dealing with this kind of relationship. Leave that guy and move on, you will def meet someone who would love and respect u. He does not respect you because he sees you as a kid and so can treat you how he likes.

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  92. Poster 1 - you sound like an intelligent and reasonable person. What are you doing with this guy? Please find a real man. Leave this guy alone because he is still searching for something and it doesn't look like he is ready to settle down. All the best.

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  93. Am too tired to cuss advice or say anytin.

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  94. Poster 1,don't force a man to commit when he is not ready. Just like you have an agenda for your life, so does he. You said you quit your former job cos u want to move to d next level,he says he wants to travel to move to another level. You moved to anoda level but you want him to remain where he is. Pls let him follow his dreams and stop pestering him to settle down.this are d kind of marriages dat end up in DV. A frustrated man is an angry man. Let him make his commitment decisions,stop pestering him.
    Poster 2,I can assure you dat once he has his way with you sexually you will join d league of his exes. He is just playing with u. How old are u again? Why am I surprised!

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  95. Poster 2: the dude is just hanging around to score before he zaps out. So face ur life and focus on your self. You are too young for that ish.

    Poster 1: sorry abt your situation. I think you know what to do. Once he goes abroad forget it. It is not easy to settle abroad unless he is going to be selling drugs or marry to get papers. So the ball is your court. Don't let the fake tears fool you. It is easy to cry now because life ain't shit any more!!! Goodluck!.

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  96. Poster1.....ghen ghen u r gettin there jst lik my case d 3rd abortions its on d way.lemme advice wit my own predicament as it whr now.me nd nw hubby dated for 4yrs b4 we got married ds year nd also hav our baby.jst lik ur case I kept on avin DC for him nt until ds fourth one,na em I hold ground say no way u must av ds child bcos na only me dey theatre dey wide tohtoh for d abortion,he wasn't ready for fatherhood also nd had plans too to jand,to cut d long epistle short,after much pesterin from my parents he succumb we did our court nd trad,my dear d marriage is nw a living hell cos he doesn't act a bit lik someone dat is married,he cmes bac anytime he wishes,d one dat broke d camels bac,d america wen dey em eyes since he's secretly doin hs visa to run there.wen I caught him I informed my parent immediately my hubby told dem point blank u wanted me to marry her,of whch we r married.wat does she wants again.my dear jst run nd leave to take wateva decision he wants too bcos wen he get married to u ,it will b a diff ball game entirely.

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    1. You could have avoided all this drama and pain had u insisted on condoms . Pele

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    2. Na wah oh...
      You have entered!..
      You see where your desperation has landed you...
      Ngwanu,get ready to be a single mum.hope you have a job though..,

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  97. Poster 1 pls get out of that relationship as quick as possible. That guy doesn't love u! He's using to while away time until his plans at carried out. Like u said he's planning to travel and a sure your not even one the picture. Pls get a life and move on.
    Poster 2
    He's so protective because he thinks you would end up doing all the trashy things he does. And he also wants to make sure he's the first person to get into you! Use your head my dear.

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  98. Poster 1 your man is not ready for marriage now, poster 2 you are still too young what you are doing, use your young age to do something better for yourself forget about going to any relationship now and face your studies.

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  99. Poster1 he is not ready to be responsible, just walk away abeg with his salary and supports from both parents he would have been able to marry you and start life with you but he doesn't want that

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  100. hmmmmmmmm.poster two you are still too young for DV.you have your life ahead of you.leave

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  101. Poster 2, the handwriting is on the wall. He's cheating on you, you are here asking question. Very possessive, jealous... Ok oh. You must marry him abi? You better find your square root

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  102. Poster 1 @26 you have done how many abortion for boyfriends . Why are you so desperate ? The guy is being honest with you but you refuse to get it. You don't want to do another abortion yet you cannot insist on using condoms. The thing dey sweet you, At 26 I wasn't thinking of forcing any man into marriage , I was thinking and planning how to be successful. He does not have a car, he does not have a home of his own, he should take a loan to buy a car and rent an apartment. You are looking at his parents wealth. Very shallow minded , later now you will send your chronicles crying domestic violence after deceiving and confusing the man into marriage. Please learn how to use condom to prevent the spread stds.

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  103. Poster one
    you remind me about 2shotz babymama that is claiming his wife,,
    her bride price was never paid according to her and she dont want to living
    with him in the same country,,,so tell me if is not a badluck by living
    together with a man who have not paid your bride price?
    that your boyfriend have a future dreams but you wanted to bring him down why?
    he is open with you and telling you all about his life and as a simple man he is,,
    and you has seen it now but trying to change him,can you really change a man????
    after he marry you finish you come dey complaining and nagging.
    end the relationship and allow him make some personaly decision and he will come
    to you personaly if he truely love u as his wife,marry ur job now

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  104. Pls both posters, move on already.

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  105. @poster2,pls what are you doing with a man who is older than u with 16years???pls take a break from that relationship,you are too young for all this monitoring spirit life.@ poster 1,from what u said,ur BF is not ready to settle down,so u either break up with him or u spread ur wings,or u stay &I hope to be in his American plans.best of luck to both of u

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  106. Poster1. Follow your gut feeling. A woman's gut feeling is usually right. Your bf is a stingy person who is still trying to figure his way around in life. He is what I will call "a dreamer". You fell in love with a dreamer and when reality came calling, he balked. Your eyes have cleared a bit. You've woken up from the dream. Now hear this:-Both of you are not walking agreed together. You have different goals in life and your background is clearly different. If you get married to him, you will end up frustrated because you will be left stranded by the side of the road clutching a bag of "promises" and unfulfilled hopes and aspirations.. Marriage is not for two people who have different goals-. You cut across the impression of a girl who would walk better with a man who has a direction in life, a man who has principles, who has seen all there is to see outside the shores of this country and isn't necessarily taken by "going abroad to hustle". A man who is realistic. Who will be man enough to rise up to the consequences of his action. This one wants to have sex but turned tail when the consequence came calling. Not a man to put your trust in to do things together in life. So follow your gut. You seem to be a sensible girl.

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  107. Poster 2 youre 19 he's 35 ×confused× smh just two months and you havent had sex so does that mean he wont ask for it you better run before he rapes you ,what are you looking for?not even 27,35 you better face your books and focus on your future that man is going to fuck your life up but wait what do you expect youre obviously a kid to him and he aint taking you serious aint you sharp ni abeg what kind of mumu 19 year old is this one girls don wise now na even the ones that are 19 please face your books. ×anonymous lagos girl×

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  108. Chica I do not get it. It is only for medical reasons one should abort a baby. You committed murder, but Christ can redeem you. We are talking about ur salvation here which is more important than any other relationship. Sort out ur relationship with God first. Give your life to him, ask for forgiveness and keep reading his word. It is well with you

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  109. Girls will never stop to amaze me. You're 19 n looking for a serious relationship, no go read ur books n party well be following sugar daddy

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  110. Poster 1 receive common sense in Jesus name Amen. A guy who truly love and want to marry you will rather borrow money and get married to you than subject you to having abortion. I don't know how many you had already. My dear move on with your life now that you still have chance. The guy is not ready yet.
    Poster 2 at 19 all you are doing is monitoring a guy instead of thinking about your future and what you want to become. Leave that guy alone and get a life.

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  111. Poster 1......u r just a goat. Mumu of the highest level. Mugulu, ram, sheep......u nor need advice. U need deliverance and not advice. Nonsense
    poster2.....I feel bad that after allthe advice ur parents gave you, you have chosen to make the wrong choice.

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  112. Poster 1 - That guy is not for you so forget about the love he's been professing. All he wants is someone that will be giving him SEX without mentioning pregnancy (impossible) until when he's ready to marry he'd come up with one excuse and fiam. Okaa gi akaa. Leave him before he leaves you because that guy still wanna explore the world. Who told him that N150K can't marry and feed a woman? He doesn't love you enough to marry you my dear. BUT IF YOU WANNA DO ANOTHER ABORTION, keep having SEX. Ask God for forgiveness and amend yourself but remember to sieve guys and set your priority(ies) first. Good luck dear.

    Poster 2- At 19 years, you've boyfriend and started snooping. Evidence of a jealous/nagging woman. You better work on yourself, focus on your education, try adding value to your life, pray to God and forget about your peers. YOU CANNOT CHANGE HIM even if that guy marries you now, he will still do what he wanna do so forget that his emotional blackmail. He wants to eat/keep you, and still eat outside my dear, you may be the other woman. TOO YOUNG TO BE CONFRONTING AND SNOOPING ON A GUY AT YOUR AGE.

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