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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
STUCK BETWEEN TWO WOMEN AND THE PROPERTIES
Greetings Stella and Bvs, hope this Chronicle meets you all in good condition (please bear with me as I'm not very good at telling stories but I'll try and make it clear enough).
There is this man in my area that has a wife and a mistress, but lives with his mistress and their kids in a rented apartment while the wife and kids live in a duplex in another town (he built the duplex for them).
One day, he invited his legitimate wife to the new home to make peace with her, but when she came and saw how furnished the house was, she insisted that he must sell it off (though she didn't tell him in the presence of the mistress, the mistress eavesdropped and heard what she said).
However, the man could not come directly to tell the mistress he wants to sell off the house, so he came up with the excuse that he needed the land document as a collateral to collect loan from the bank. The mistress said over her dead body will she ever give him the documents.
So Stella and bvs what do you think of this whole scenario?
Is the wife right for asking him to sell off the house? OR
Is the mistress right for not handing over the documents?
Share Your Thoughts.
Greetings Stella and Bvs, hope this Chronicle meets you all in good condition (please bear with me as I'm not very good at telling stories but I'll try and make it clear enough).
Now to the main gist; This is a real life story and presently unfolding...
There is this man in my area that has a wife and a mistress, but lives with his mistress and their kids in a rented apartment while the wife and kids live in a duplex in another town (he built the duplex for them).
Well everything was going on fine between he and his mistress, till God knocked some senses into him. He woke up one day and decided that he wants to go back to his wife and kids and make things right with them. The mistress on hearing this, said she cannot be left empty handed and so she made him build a flat for her and her kids (the ones she bore for him) and had him write their son's name on the land document and had the document in her possession.
One day, he invited his legitimate wife to the new home to make peace with her, but when she came and saw how furnished the house was, she insisted that he must sell it off (though she didn't tell him in the presence of the mistress, the mistress eavesdropped and heard what she said).
However, the man could not come directly to tell the mistress he wants to sell off the house, so he came up with the excuse that he needed the land document as a collateral to collect loan from the bank. The mistress said over her dead body will she ever give him the documents.
So now he's torn between his wife forgiving him on the condition that he sells off the house and the mistress refusal to hand over the land documents.
So Stella and bvs what do you think of this whole scenario?
Is the wife right for asking him to sell off the house? OR
Is the mistress right for not handing over the documents?
Share Your Thoughts.
hmmmmmm......As in his eyes suddenly opened and he wants to go back?..hmmmmmmm!
Why should she hand over the documents?The Legit wife is wicked..Is the man supposed to leave the kids high and dry?
Tell that man he is playing with his life..The minute women begin to fight over your property when you are alive,you are dead!.....A rich man who had two wives suddenly died because he signed over some documents to one of the wives and the other one was pained and felt she has toiled with him more...
I dont have any advice or solution,all I know is that he is playing with fire!
But why would he want to sell off the property of the mistress. Has he forgotten she has children for him?
ReplyDeletePoster,are u the mistress?
DeleteAll I see is AMEBO
DeleteLol. Please Tell me it's Ini Edo and Stanley's eye has cleared and he has decided to go back to his family
DeleteI think the man sent this not even the mistress
DeleteHe should sell the house to the mistress for N1.
DeleteStella sounds as if she is the child of a mistress.
DeleteThe second woman had kids for him and he can't leave them homeless. He should explain this to his wife. If the wife cannot let it go, let him stay on his own for a while and not fight any of them. I think his wife will reconsider. He should also pray for God to intervene.
ReplyDeleteNothing like wicked, it's her husbands property, next time single girls will not be looking for ways to snatch people's hubbys to buy them properties, she's only paying for her sins
DeleteHe should sell himself and share the money to both parties shikina all diz men sef mtscheew
ReplyDeleteLmaoooo
DeleteAnd why do I av this strong feeling that the supposed writer of this chronicle is the wife...iya aje kontinu
DeleteKamputakwa
ReplyDeleteLet the legit wife forget the house and move on with the husband. In as much as the mistress has kids for him, let the house be a pay off for her.
ReplyDeleteGbam we women can be selfish atimes, why will he sale the house does he want to keep his children homeless honestly onwero onye ma isi ga echi Eze echi, treat all ur kids equal cos u don't knw the one God will bless you from both from wife, mistress, baby mama, one night stand, just treat them well & give them equal opportunity. Cos they don't have to suffer for ur bad decisions & actions in life.
DeleteI don't think it's about selling the house per-se, I think it's about the luxury the husband has put the concubine in. It must be frustrating for the wife to see the kind of shining, cha-cha, tear-rubber with updated appliances and furnishings the illegitimate woman gets to stay while the husband wants to come back and manage with her in An old outdated house he built years ago. And this is the same woman who almost destroyed her family and took her husband away from the home die so long only to be living a nicer more luxurious life than her. Any woman would feel some kind of way too. Remember, she knew a house was built for the chick, she only decided to give ultimatums after seeing how nice the place is. I'm sure her place would be like a hut in comparison.
DeleteThe husband should get a smaller place for the side-piece abeg, and update/upgrade his home with his wife to further appease her. Basically, treat your wife better than you're treating a home wrecker. We know your illegitimate kids should not be thrown out in the streets but you don't have to treat them and their mother better than your legitimate family. Use wisdom Mr man. Next time, stick to your family and stop jumping about from house to house. Ashy-man!!........ Just Saying
When he started cheating on his wife sotey him mistress begin born pikin for am,Shey we dey there or did he seek our consent?
ReplyDeleteNaso we take advice that man Two days ago and since then we no hear word for this blog again.
Let others advice u
Lol.. Especially BB he has been on BB's case. Hahaha
DeleteWomen are their own worse enemies. firstly, the mistress jazz another woman's husband and marry him.
ReplyDeleteSecondly, the first wife wants to make sure the mistress and her children suffer.
But, the man is the cause of all these problems, if he had stuck with one woman maybe all these won't have happened.
Dear poster,you are the mistress.
ReplyDeleteExactly... Take High five madam
DeleteAnd u r d poster......😂
DeleteMy thoughts exactly!
DeleteI tell you oh my taught as well, she's the mistress
DeleteNo..think it's the man.
DeleteGod punish the man and the mistress !!!
ReplyDeleteHahahaha... Amenoooo AMEN
DeleteLol Amen
DeleteThe first wife is selfish for telling the husband to sell off the property when she knows the mistress already has a child for him thats wickedness.let me asked you my own question,if you were to be in the mistress show,would you have given the Man the landed property. Men and bringing problems to themselves, they are just like babies,when pushed to the right with sweet in ur hand they re there,when pushed to the left with sugar in another persons hand they get confused and run there.God will help our men
ReplyDeleteIt is good for the mistress. The wife can't be in the mistress shoes because she know it is wrong to be following other women husbands. The mistress even has the guts to born for the married man. The mistress needs to suffer so next time she sees married men she will pick race. I have a feeling the mistress is the poster
Delete@ Istanbul why don't shut ur trap 4 a moment and put yourself in the man's wife shoe. Think of this 1st, your hubby left you for only God knows how long then one day he came back to you and took you to a beautiful telling you that he bought it and not saying the truth. I know that his wife is not wicked but the is trying to play smart so God come hook amm lolz and 4 his stupid home breaker mistress she go die b4 her time if no repent my two sent.
DeleteMan is a clown!
ReplyDeleteWhy would he invite the wife to a new house to make peace.
I don't know ooo. Couldn't he have taken them to a neutral place.
DeleteJust ask me, the man is the problem here... very confused being.
DeleteThe man send you message abi any of the wives send you message?
ReplyDeleteNa she be the mistress 😂
DeleteThe poster is the mistress.
Delete😂😂😂😂
DeleteThis one requires wisdom of Solomon, Na real wa.
ReplyDeletePoster you are friends with Mistress...
ReplyDeleteOr there is every probality that she is
DeleteOr there is every probality that she is. How did he come across these details
DeleteShe is d mistress
DeleteAh ha.. You must be really close to them to know which wife is eavesdropping (you haven't given us the real gist yet *RME*)
ReplyDeletehonestly, the man is playing with fire and he must find a way to cease the fire else he'll pay dearly for it. Wait first, who is this chronicles for; the
wife, the mistress or the man???
If it's for the man, he shouldn't sell the land. He should give the wife something else as a 'payoff'
If it's for the mistress, she should maintain her stance. Her and her children can't be left to dry
If it's for the wife, she should pick another struggle. If she wants to forgive her husband, her condition shouldn't be too 'expensive' na
Rocky, your first paragragh😂😂😂😂😂😂. I think this poster is either the mistress or her friend. Poster how did you know the mistress eavesdroped?
DeleteHe who went and fetched ants infested firewood simply gave an invitation to the lizards.
ReplyDeleteHe suddenly came to his sense? Seems as if the juju wore off or he repented. He should tell the 1st wife to forgive and move on...he has children that need a roof over their heads. If it's repentance that made him change then she should know that the battle was not by her power and since she's taking him back temper justice with mercy (as the Christian that she is naa)
Invite family members if she's not listening to him,he just has a lot of begging to do to make things right.
Married ladies should understand that these things are "spiritual programs"
ReplyDeleteYou can't sit on the fence while satanic ladies are going to mediums to charm men to do their bidding.
Both the charmer and the charmed are prisoners of Satan
You that go to church should read your bible more and refine your doctrine
Fast and pray to build yourself up in your most holy faith
When you build your family physically (cook food, work, look after the kids' welfare)
Do not forget that you need to also build your family spiritually
In the case we read above, the mistress's charm simply expired and the man's eyes opened
she went to option B to make sure he obeyed to build that house
Here, the wife has not come to spiritual reality and it is the undoing of many women
Pray and fast; fast and pray and know God in his word
That man is a retarded person oh,how the fuck will he bring his wife to the house he built for his mistress/baby mama after promising her the property belongs to her.if he knows what is good for him he should better retrace his steps.if his wife can't forgive him without him selling off the house then he's better off without her. So the mistress kids should suffer because of their mum's mistakes abi.I feel like slapping the fuckery out of him.yeye man with a wondering dick.better tell him to leave that house for the woman nd pay child/-children support every month.he started this mess so he should finish it.
ReplyDeleteShut up
DeleteWifey is just looking for trouble. Unless the Nan wants to use jazz how will he sell the house when he doesn't have the deed
Delete@Anon 15:47 are you the retarded man. He is making sense. The man should clean up his mess.
Delete😒😒😒
ReplyDeleteSo what will he leave for the mistress and her kids..?
ReplyDeleteThe wife is wicked..
Why is she doing like that..so he should leave her empty handed..that's bad
Come back and repeat this statement when your husband does same. So a woman that has been abandoned for years is wicked because she's just being human right? Can't the idiot of a mistress go and work and fend for her kids? When she was sleeping with someone's husband didn't she remember that sperm and egg meeting means babies??? And the idiot of a man doesn't get to be called wicked right, mtcheeew
Deletespiritual software programs to create dummies; that's what the mistress was operating
ReplyDeleteMost folks simply "go to church" but are not christians; do not know God's word and do not pray
This is the result; their husbands become captives to strange women
And those men too are just dummies; drink alcohol and ruin their lives
Dear poster, you have no right to this story,as the content is a product of heresay and prone to bias .
ReplyDeleteThe man caused everything so even if he dies, he killed himself.
ReplyDelete#Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll be spending the rest of your life with*
ReplyDeleteHbd to me,stells pls post my message now,but if you cant then i wish d lady that once said she picked shit while praying miracle happens can read ds and contact me pls.grateful to God for d yrs gone and d new dawn
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday
DeleteHbd.
DeleteLive n Prosper
Happy birthday. God bless your new age.
DeleteThe man is a stupid man for allowing his wife dictate to him. Anyway I would advice the mistress to hold on tightly to those documents and never give them up. Afterall she also has kids for the man. The wife should move on with her life and husband. Wicked woman indeed.
ReplyDeleteInteresting. Did the Jazz finally clear from his eyes??
ReplyDeleteLet him go & get another mistress & have more kids & leave both women alone.
Seems like he's a Yoruba man. It's what they know how to do best.
Wow Double Wahala for dead Body..Abeg Lawyers over to you..Hmmm but the wife should be thoughtful now at least her husband chose to have a mistress and had kids who didnt beg to be part of the wahala so she should consider the kids..Hmm na now Juju and Pigeon knacking go show whether power pass power...Okokobioko!!!
ReplyDeleteThe legit wife has done pidgin things on the man.
ReplyDeleteThe mistress is right jor. The wife should goan sit down. What if the man didn't reconsider and decided to stay with the mistress forever?
ReplyDeleteWith the wife's attitude, he might just decide to stay with the mistress that's if she'll still hv have him. Last last they'll all be alright. Poster please keep us updated let's know how this ends...thanchuuuuu
This man is a fool sha!
ReplyDeleteknocking women heads together!
I wish those women deal with him, throw him to d streets, let him go n build another house since he's bob the builder.
Like me... I need a house in my name !!!
DeleteThanks BB. Everybody is saying the wife is too harsh abi, have you guys tot of what the wife went through all the while the man lived wit his baby mama? The wife shld just demand for something way big and give the guy strict conditions and punishment.
DeleteHe should try to mk peace with his wife. Den try to mk her understand while he gave his mistress the hux. Tell her wife to name any other thing he can do 4 her to 4giv him, apart from that house ( mistress house)
ReplyDeletePoster you are one of the people involved in this mess..... Lol
ReplyDeletePoster is the man.
DeleteStory of my life, kikikikikii, in my own case I rejected my horseband for his mistress, good thing I have a job, I remained in the house me n him built with my kids, he had no option than to go back, till today he's begging for 2yrs and d mistress is texting me every weekend to leave her man alone, hahahahaa I'm like, babe he's yours, ejoo oh, the DV is on another level cos she now uses walking stick, good riddance to bad rubbish.
ReplyDeleteMy lovey lovey secret partner is bae,hahaha life is so good.
Anon15:36 girl ure smart.1000 likes for yo ass
DeleteIf ur lovey dovey partner is a married man then you & ur ex mistress are birds of the same feathers.
DeleteFirst of all the man was wrong in bringing his wife to the new house. That was a settlement. So if he wants the wife back and the wife wants to forgive, she should do it unconditionally or say no and move on. The sin is of the man and innocent kids won't suffer for the mistake. We are still suffering from the Biblical case between Isaac and Ishmael. We don't want new war.
ReplyDeleteThe man should drink piss. Nonsense.
ReplyDeleteHe should carry his cross. Solomon get 300 concubines he managed them well. He should ask King Solomon how he take do am
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Between u and queen, i no know who play pass.
DeleteIf I were the mistress I'd just sell off the property (it would be worth more than it was built with) and use the money to buy a property somewhere else even the stupid weakling of a man can't reach she and her child.
ReplyDeleteI just came here to mark attendance
ReplyDeleteMy weekend was lit, a surprise it was but .........
I wasn't pleased
Abi,na u be the mistress??😁😁😁
ReplyDeleteYes she is
DeleteWow! Wat a chronicle! Dat man has just dug his own grave! Y on earth wd he take his wife to his mistress house? Hin de craze? Does he want to die?its like he does nt want to live long o! Women fighting over property! One must definitly give way!! One person must die,cos de both won't agree! Dat man nor just get sense!y won't he just let sleeping Dogs lie?see d wahala he has just put himself now! So d mistress shd live on d streets becos of his stupidity?did he hv to let d wife know dat he bought a house for d mistress?wch kind Akamu man be dat?i just feel like flogin commonsense into dat his sawdust brain! Anyway he has laid his bed, he shd get ready to lie on it! Efulefu, anuofia, oyiberibe
ReplyDeleteIs he not supposed to go to the duplex and beg d wife? Nonsense. Of course she will be angry when she gets there. The man is not ready for life.
ReplyDeleteAnd me I don't understand the wife. Your husband has been living with his mistress since did you think they were living in a hole? Is it not too late to he doing all this drama? Your husband that moved out and abandoned by and the kids alone in your house since.
He should tell the woman he can't sell mistress documents. If the wife accept she should. If not he should remain with mistress. After all he has been there since.
Why should he sale off the house, and leave the mistress and kids homeless, his wife must be insensitive for asking him to sell the house as criteria for forgiveness.he is putting his life in danger. He should be happy the mistress is letting him go without knacking pigeon on his head.this sudden eye opening how are we sure that is wife have not jazz him. AKA omo mi joko.
ReplyDeleteThis man is playing with his life,you don't joke with women,man! Why did you bring your wife to that house? Just settle it amicably and asap.
ReplyDeleteHmmm D wife is not even happy that he's coming g back home she's fighting for property...she should continue, soon he will get tired of both women and go seek peace in a 3rd woman's house then her eye go clear...nonsense
ReplyDeleteSuperstory........
ReplyDeleteHe had better sell both the mistress and wife houses and share d proceeds to them. Every child has a right to his father inheritance regardless of circumstances. So what should happen to d mistress children. The wife is even lucky dat the mistress is not evil,or else na inside grave she go dey.
ReplyDeleteSomething tells me the poster is the WIFE, madam leave dat other woman alone after all she can't come and claim ur duplex,forgive ur husband and move on. I repeat do not frustrate and push ur husband out again.
Asi anya ocha ! Every child has no right to a man's property except legitimate children.
DeleteOkay now that you are a last born, do you think you share equal right with the first born? Not to talk of children of away match.If I hear!
Trust me, I don't blame the wife. Why is he now coming back? She should frustrate them the more. Ndi ala! Hahahaha... Nkea atom separate!!
In reality i think fan is a very wicked person. Heartless humsn being. Its your type that maltreat other ppls children while proyecting urs thinking life is forever.
DeleteThat man is a baby. He should go back to his parents for proper upbringing, period!
ReplyDeleteI honestly think it's wrong for the wife to ask him to sell off the other woman's home as a condition for getting back together. Those children shouldn't have to be punished for the indiscretion of adults, they didn't ask to be born. The man in question should find a way to reconcile and strike a balance between the women, especially his kids. He has erred but the worse he ll do now is to abandon his kids.
ReplyDeleteCommunication and compromise is the only way out.
You sound like the mistress...'the mistress eavesdropped'.
ReplyDeleteHahahahaha the man should grow a pair and tell his wife he cannot sell the house because he has to do right by the mistress after all they have kids. The wife is just being bitter kmt! Why didn't she do something when the husband was living and producing babies with the mistress? The man should just stay with the mistress abeg! Unnecessary drama and heacdace. I won't drink panadol for someone's headache.
ReplyDeleteFrom Love Gudha xoxo
Stella please don't call the legit wife wicked, she is just pained and it's normal, she will still calm down. mr man don't sell the house Abeg
ReplyDeleteThat man is not a decisive person. How can his legal tell him to sell a house you know why you built it, just because of the taste of the furniture there. The man should simply buy the same furniture in the duplex for the main wife......
ReplyDeleteI will side with the mistress not to release the land documents......cause she has kids too
I wonder if the women insulting the wife would do the same if they were in her shoes?na she wear the shoe o so if that's the way to keep peace and forgive the man,the man should do as she said and move on.didnt the mistress know he has a wife?why she come chop from where she no work?and he didn't marry her self.
ReplyDeleteThe wife is being selfish... Hian!
ReplyDeleteThe legit wife should forgive him and he should tell her the whole truth as he has children with the mistress and cannot leave her empty.Please ladies stop going after married men no matter the sweet story they tell you.
ReplyDeleteWhat a weak man... Women just tossing him like ping pong.
ReplyDeleteSell what?oga should settle the mistress.
ReplyDeleteWomen self, a beg where Una take go jam this kain weakling of a man #uselesswaka
ReplyDeleteSell the property give the money to d mistress.
ReplyDeletethe people dat are calling d woman wicked should watch their mouth bcos of tomorw ooo! must d stupid mad man take his wife there for peace talk? is not dat easy meeen.
ReplyDeletePoster is the wife? Madam your husband must leave the house for the mistress because of the children, and you don't fight over property because if the mistress is fetish she will hurt you, if she does who will take care of your children? Be wise madam.
ReplyDeleteWifey better use her brain ooooo, dont let wat u know get into ur brain!
ReplyDeleteIt seems the first wife has moved on with another man. She just wanted to use that condition to send the man away. Does she want the children to live on the streets.
ReplyDeleteWhy did the discussion take place in the mistress's house?
The man na mumu. The first wife has forgotten about him long time ago.
The wife should forgive her husband and move on with the marriage, after all the mistress bore him children too, the husband can as well furniture her own house to her taste
ReplyDeleteBetween the devil and the deep blue sea. His life is at stake
ReplyDeleteHope the poster is not the mistress
ReplyDeleteHe din't bring her to the new house. She found out and showed up. Then kasala burst. Let him stand by what he's done. He is a man. The wife should accept to let bygones be and work on rebuilding her marriage with the man.
ReplyDeleteIf you are that man you are wicked, let your first wife hold her peace, you cannot sell your mistress's house for any reason. All the best
ReplyDeleteSo you decided to bring our family problem here??? Just watch out for part two you go here nwii... Your nose go smell your anus today!!! Agadi ekwenka!!!
ReplyDeleteWetin concern u for inside the matter... Na gist u dey find abi. Ur nt the man neither r u the women... Ndi mmadu sef
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