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Wednesday, July 26, 2017

Debate Of The Day.

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Please do not involve yourself if you have nothing constructive to say.....



A man wants to marry from his village. He lives in Abuja, as a result he sent some money to his father in the village to find him a good wife. His father made a good choice and took all the necessary steps concerning the in-laws of his son. Now he decides to send the wife to his son in the city. 


He gives her the address of his son. But she arrived the city late. As she gets outside the motor park, the lady wanted to take a taxi to the indicated address. However, she was offered a lift by her fiance unknowingly on his way home late from work. The guy took her straight to a hotel and spent the night with her. 


The next morning, each of them go their separate ways. She took another taxi which finally took her to her fiance's house. To her biggest surprise, it's the man with whom she spent the night with in the hotel.


The question is: :
if you were the man or the woman, how would you react?

Men and women,please defend yourselves.

The debate is open.

98 comments:

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    1. It all depend on the mind set of the individuals involved but if I were to be the guy,I won't want to marry such lady period

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    2. If I were the man,I wouldn't marry her anymore.She comes off as one that will cheat in marriage. Such a cheap woman.

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    3. Well, I will return her back to wherever she came from. In as much as you attract your like and other saying they use in justifying issues like this, I'll let her go if I were to be the man even though I'm not any better.

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    4. That's a devine arrangement na, they're meant for each other.

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    5. If i was a woman i wouldn't marry such a guy! This just proves he will be a serial unfaithful husnand

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    1. Two of them are ashawos, they deserve each other, well if the do was enjoyable then they should get married. Nawa for men who marry village girls thinking they are decent, girls that have been collecting since in different farm lands

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  3. Hahaha they must marry each other oh but God that's very very embarrassing

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  4. They slept with each other after a meeting for the first time on the roadside?

    Obviously the father didn't get a good wife and he doesn't have a good son either.

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    1. #Gbam! Kisses babe u're right

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    2. Hey
      How are you?
      Hope you are good? Its been a while.

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    3. They both compliment each other. If the man make mouth lasan!

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    4. I've said it all

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  5. Church abasa!!!πŸ™† Well, If I were to be d man, will send d silly village geh back to where she came from without looking back.

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    1. Hmmm @silly village geh

      You see y men treat women like trash?

      Even women themselves expects to be treated like trash.
      Smh

      Isn't the groom supposed to be home cleaning, cooking and waiting up for his beautiful wife that is arriving?

      But he went to look for disease (olosho Fuck) to use and welcome her abi?

      #strollsout *ain't got no opinion on this issue*

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    2. And you the foolish man continue till you get hiv/aids. You are the same so stop calling the woman silly, idiot.

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    3. Brainless sandy,thank God you are not the man

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    4. Sandy,are you kidding me? Send her back? So him that just met a stranger and took her to a hotel to sleep where nko? Is he any better? They're both morally lose.

      I wouldn't marry the guy if it were me though,cuz that singular incident is what the man will judge you with in the marriage.Forgetting that he isn't a saint himself.Best thing is for them to go there separate ways.

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    5. @my opinion, This situation is a very complicated one.Granted the man is irresponsible, but couldn't she have turned him down knowing well that she's someone else's wife?moreover,she was on her way to see him,so you see,she's loosed!That sorta fuckery is totally unacceptable by me!

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    6. Ofcourse @Sassy Meruche, they will definitely go their separate ways na but Ikpe n'ama d woman always. Remember? Bitter truth!!!

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    7. @Gift, the girl obviously is loose. But they both* are!

      Couldn't he have dropped her off at the hotel and joyfully announce that he is headed home because he is expecting his beautiful new bride?

      Such fuckery is equally unacceptable in my own school of thought. Travelling all the way down to a city (abandoning my life) to go to town and be married to a community prick??? Naaa...

      It is OUR world, not just a man's world...

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    8. Lool.. fuckery flying here and there.. what a Fuckery!!!!!!

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  6. If i am the woman i will simply claim i have always known its him, cause i saw his picture and obviously everyone in the village knows him, so i agreed to sleep with him and give him a pleasant surprise the next day or i can even say that as soon as i saw him and recognized it was him, i decided to follow him just to see the kind of man i'm marrying, and i'll claim God simply exposed him to me and i can never trust him ever, lmao.
    You can't afford to be a mumu o. This is the only way out of this i can think of, the lady must be a good actor sha, if not she should kiss her bae goodbye.

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    1. She has been busted!...
      No need saying all those stories that touch the heart....

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    2. You are just a gangsta!!!!!! Please teach us o!! Ahhhh see sense.

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    3. PH pple oooo, am looking for an affordable Tailoring school, I stay around eliozu axis so anything within will be good. And no I don't want Vera Nora, it's a bit far. God bless you

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    4. Exactly! You took the words out of my mind

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    5. Exactly! You just took the words out of my mouth

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    6. But seriously speaking the lady is an olosho

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    7. Exactly! You just took the words out of my mouth, but seriously she is a big time olosho, and if the man still decide to go on with the marriage,he will always be suspicious of Her Everymovement, and if not careful DV will set in.

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    8. Peace u just wrote what I wanted to write. Na sense na!!

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    9. Peaceful peace una welldone whalai I fear you die o se ni aitete mu ole, ole un mu oloko

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    10. Peace, you need to do name change.....see sense. Haaaaaaaaa.

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    11. You are so on point.....lolπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    12. Lie because of community prick??? Nahhhh... We're better of without each other. He should go and marry who doesn't know him and I'll do same too.

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  7. LOL the man would freak out even though he is also guilty and knowing Nigerian women, she'd probably exclaim and run away in true Nollywood style with all the mogbe, ah I done die, te mi ti bami, mo ti jegbese.

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  8. Two of a kind that fit themselves perfectly. At the end of the day who wan die meet who wan kill am.

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  9. What a woman! She was going to meet with her supposed fiancee for the first time but she ended up warming the bed of a man she just met (one night stand).

    Is she that cheap? One would have thought since she was from the village that she will be a good girl not knowing she's a free giver.
    No, I won't advise a man I know to marry someone like that.

    As for the man, it shows the kind of person he is. That shows, he would have still be cheating on his supposed fiance with roadside pick up girls. Why placed an order for a wife from the village when there are so many good women looking for husband in that same Abuja.
    He got what he deserved. Birds of a feather they say, flocks together.

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    1. Lol, it's destiny. They are destined to be together, they just had the first night of their marriage albeit anonymously

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  10. Na wah for the babe oh!...
    Her spiritual husband don knack pigeon for her head...
    Well,if I'm the babe,I will just turn and go back to the village cos the marriage will never work...
    I will thank God for showing me the kind of man I would have married!...
    An ashewo man!...

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    1. And you the girl is what?

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    2. @ queen you nko? Yeye dey smell

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    3. Hehehehehe and the woman is what? A farmer?

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    4. Hahahaha.

      I couldn't help myself had to post a comment under yours. See the way you turned every on the man. Oshey baddest Queen πŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘πŸΎπŸ˜‚

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  11. @Peaceful Peace you are really a smart and wise person..You are a TOYOTA..Good thinking, good product..

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  12. That's the end of it. That mean she can share bed with stranger in my absence if I eventually married to her. She's bad woman abeg.

    Why she no go sleep for police station instead of spending the night with a total stranger?

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    1. Oga it goes both ways. She can share bed with a stranger and you also shared a bed with a stranger.
      Both erred so I'll say they suit each other perfectly. One should not come and be playing victim because he's a man.

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    2. And it also means you the man would also nack stranger in her absence.

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  13. πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
    Understanding is a three edged sword.
    Girl: *gets over the shock immediately*
    surprise !!!!
    dim oma, I just wanted to surprise you, I knew you were the one cos your dad showed me your pictures, I just wanted to find out if you were a loose man and sadly you turned out to be one. How can you just pick a random girl in the road to sleep with just like that? do you know if she's a witch? tufiakwa!
    Anyway, I was only testing you and I have forgiven you, we will go through this together.
    ngwanu, chere ka m gafere, let me enter my husband's house biko. have you had breakfast? *enters the kitchen to resume wife duties*

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    1. πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜€πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜†πŸ˜… Abi na!
      This cracked me real up.
      Pipi Yo, Iji ya.πŸ‘Š

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    2. Chai,u is bad,lol,very sharp damage control.

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    3. Perfect response!!!
      And case closed!

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    4. Sandy Yo!
      nne, cunny man die, cunny man go bury am; in other words, what is good for the goose is also good for the gander(shebi na so den talk am).

      Bella...πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

      CHIEF!!! πŸ™ŒπŸ™Œ

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    5. Lwkmd!

      Lmao, chere gam gafere biko. I ga eri ji ka obu ede?

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    6. Hahahaha...@Exoticbaby, case closed nne, even if he eventually sends you back,you must maintain your stand even if the elders summon you.

      Don...kikikiki, wharra do? Someone cannot play with you?

      Cyn baby...good girl rather.lol

      Booboo silk...ka o cho pounded yam? Ayam ready for marriage.

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  14. Hahaha..if I am the man eeh. .i would be so SHOCKED and disappointed

    And if I were the lady.. I would be so so embarrassed.


    In fact they better not marry themselves


    They have both seen their report sheet and it's written their BOLDLY ==F9 parallel




    @Anonymous Orubebe

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  15. issa loose girl, that is how they just pick her from park and take to hotel.
    The man too is an ashawo picking oloshos about.
    they fit eachother.

    But then, most men are dogs. But they still want a fagin from village.
    so he should return the bride price. As men can get away with straffing anything in skirt but women cant sadly.

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  16. The wedding should definitely hold.
    Two of them deserve each other...Absolutely.
    One night stands are very reckless and two of then are guilty as charged.

    This should equally serve as a lesson to people that think they have the right to judge women based on how they look,where they met them or what they heard of.
    Most men see Light skinned women and automatically conclude they are easy... Same way some reason that 'Village' girls make better wives.
    Ife onye cho,ka ofu.
    The girl should not even go back saying her husband to be is an Amu nko.
    Wedding bells are in order.

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    1. @Iphie dearie I'm soo loving you more everyday 😍
      Once you have extensions and heels they assume you cant make a good wife. You tell them you can cook they burst out laughing, asking if you've ever seen kitchen before. And I wonder why people feel 'good wives' should look/act, a certain way or come from a certain place/community.

      On this issue, my relative was here in lagos working with a govt institution, earning very well, was dating one babe from our place who grew up in Lagos too, graduated from Unilag Etc. When he made up his mind to marry he dumped that girl telling my mum that he wants a village girl who won't use 'open eye' to run his home. My mum talked and talked, him no hear. He went to our village and married girl with SSCE, seemingly naive and you know 'good wife'. Trained her through uni, plus masters. Shes tall and pretty so she tushed up with small money. As i type this, my guy has partial stroke. 'Village girl' don show am pepper!! Cheating, stealing his money, selling his property, not running the home, name it!! There was even a murder case associated with her cheating with a church member!! He had to drop his position as a deacon cos that case was embarrassing. So whenever he complains about how village girls has shown him we don't say *pim* cos we warned him but he felt he was playing by the 'rules'. His ex is happily married now, by the way.

      As for the guy in the story well he and the babe fit πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ they should live happily ever after.

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    2. Some village girls are even smarter than us who were born and breed in the city. those people,no go there oh.

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    3. I swear down!
      they must 'marry the marriage'

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    4. Lmao, I am not even fair skinned yet my neighbor mentioned the other day that she couldn't believe I cook soup.
      I was like "huh"? I don't even cook indomie.
      I came to work on Monday morning with rice and goat meat stew, my colleague asked who cooked it? I asked him if he was mentally okay.

      I wonder what part of my dressing or behavior makes them think I don't cook.
      I could care less about people's opinions tho.

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  17. I think the marriage is dead on arrival! Trust has been destroyed on both sides. I believe most young ladies caught in this situation would still want to go ahead with the marriage to cover shame.
    But only a very, objective, non-hypocritical man would accept, and I guess that would be rare to find in this sort of circumstance.
    As I said in a previous post, it's a man's world unfortunately, and women can't get away with half of what men get away with. Na so we see am!

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  18. As the babe, seeing him I will scream SUPRISE! Will lie that I got his pic somehow and God made him meet me last night, but I didn't tell him who I was. Then she will say our meeting was divine! I cannot come and take all the shame for 2 people. But mehn this is so embarrassing and shameful

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  19. Stella asswer u no well, lol.... Well, both should be ashamed of themselves for a start. But the man no longer has the moral right to chide the lady, he traded that the night before. Neither does the lady have any right to defend herself. At this stage how much they've come of age should prevail. Meaning no bad blood and could either amicable resolve their foolishness, move on and end things friendly. Its one of those awkward moments our lack of self-control puts us into. Sadly enough, in this case their innocence had been sold. No victor no vanquish, just an unwritten code of emotional misrepresentation of goodwill and being thankful.

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  20. The fact that she went with a stranger says a lot about her. The guy too is a chronic womanizer. But if the girl is a virgin then we could say she was naive and was intimidated and taken advantage of by a city guy. So the guy could forgive her and marry her. Guess the guy knows he could get a good woman that's why he resulted in taking a village wife. But my humble advice is they are a perfect match and he should just marry her. What he is running from in the city he got from the village.

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  21. I want to be objective here, as an African man, there's no way I would want to marry her. The act speaks a lot about her person, what kind of kids would she raise, what kind of home. I know y'all hate to hear this but the society is unfair to women, thats the way it has been, the man will be let go without a blame but the woman would be crucified. We are all aware of that fact, hence women need to be more careful.

    For me, I wouldnt go on with the wedding, I will never trust her

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    1. Kikikikikikiki. Oga kuku tell us you cant be faithful we will understand. Don't worry women will be more careful with the way they cheat. You know na πŸ˜‰

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  22. The guys father did a great job. He got someone that suits his son well. Whoregroom and Whorebride . They can judge each other. They're the same!

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  23. They are perfect for each other. Two of a kind. But wait, who would have welcomed the girl home if she wasn't with the taxi driver? And what excuse did the girl tell the man why she didn't make it home? Knowing fully well that the guys father already told his son that the girl has left for Abuja. This story is not realistic.

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  24. I assume they both had sex right. Well,they suit each other. Having one night stand while being married. World people sha,the man won't agree to marry and the woman go dey beg.

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  25. They both deserve each other,they are both hoes/loose. He's expecting a bride arranged by his dad,yet still went ahead to have sex with a total stranger,few hours to his would be bride' visit. Then again,if a man can so easily do what he did,why can't a woman? What happened says a lot about both parties morals,principles and upbringing. If i were the lady i would be extremely ashamed,and would wish the ground could swallow me. The guy won't marry her most definitely,i won't advice my brother to marry her either.

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  26. Women never ceases to amaze me. Talking about those in this blog. I am shocked but not surprised that ladies are bashing only the woman as "cheap". So the man is "costly"; sure? How many ladies has this man been taking to hotels while coming back from work? You see why ladies are at times despised; they do it first to themselves. Both adults should deal with it. If the man sends her back to her parents, he should tell in details what she did and with whom.

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  27. I always tell girls that a cheating man will get away with it but not the woman. Even in Jesus time, they did not bring out the man to be stoned. Even ladies in this blog are condemning the woman alone.

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  28. No too much talk here.
    It means that they were destined to be. Lol
    #CaseClosed

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  29. As for the man, he should be happy to receive her if he enjoyed her sexual prowess the night before.......Abi now
    He has tasted what he wan buy, no shaking.....lol

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  30. He's not ready for marriage. How can u be picking up girls anyhow to different hotels, knowing fully well you've paid a village girls bride price. Good for him.

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