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Saturday, December 23, 2017

Boredom Eliminating Post

Loool....









It took me a while to learn that Ynash get reason why e dey for back applying to there is a reason there are good and bad people...lol


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  1. That not every friend wishes me well.

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    1. I am the arthitect of my own happiness. I can choose to be happy no matter the situation.

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    2. @ Miss Ess, EXACTLY!. Some friends are EVIL

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    3. The little your friends know about you, the better. In short 2018 will be a coding year for me. Will just be jisting Jesus and the Holy Spirit bout my plans

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  2. Expecting others to treat me in the same(good) way I would them.

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  3. Having money or perhaps "Being Rich" doesn't equate to "Being Happy"...

    A lot of the " Rich Folks" are secretly depressed,suicidal and still unhappy;why?? Cos the only thing they have is "MONEY"...

    There is the " Intrinsic" and "Extrinsic" happiness...and money alone can only give you the pleasures/luxuries which comes with the "Extrinsic" type of happiness(which is temporary)...

    The real happiness you need in life to stay positive and always cheerful comes from within and revolves around you..eg is a happy Family!! And money cant buy you a good/Happy Family....

    Dont lose your home,sanity or health in the process of pursuing wealth!!!!!!!!

    The best things in life are free!!!!

    @MARTINS ABOY

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  4. It took me long to learn that chanting "Jesus" and going to church does not make one a Christian. A Christian is known by the character of Christ in ones life.
    That "pastors" are not to be totally trusted, only Jesus and his word should be trusted as infallible.

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    1. Anon you're right ooh.

      It took me a long time to realized that you can never please people, no matter what u do people will always have something bad to say about. So just live your life and ingnore any negative things people say about you.

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  5. Learning the reason why you have to always love yourself and look out for others.

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  6. 1.Drop ego, apologise and build that relationship.

    2. Listen , listen and listen. Hear all facts before you present your own points.

    3. Don't react when I am angry.

    4. Stop shouting.

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    1. How do I frame this and put in someone’s house? So apt!

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  7. It took me a long time to realise that nothing is as it seems. I've stopped judging people based on what I see or hear about them. I have a distant relative, she went to her farm and met a boy stealing her farm products. She took the boy to the mum and threatened to report to the village head. The mum begged her not to that her son did such because he was hungry but she insisted and the boy was paraded as a thief. The boy's mum vowed to teach her a lesson. In less than a year, her own young boy started exhibiting the same trait. He's now known all over the village as a thief cos he steals practically anything. The innocent boy is now paying for his mum's carelessness.

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    1. People are wicked, God help us all

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    2. You just reminded me of the gist my colleague gave me today about some people with unforgiving spirit. Imagine her family friend/ church member has been having burning tummy for 10 yrs, she went everywhere to no avail until she went to MFM and the pastor told her, the person she served food 10 yrs ago at her party, has not forgiven her cos she gave her bone. The food was untouched and is on top the woman's fridge, still very hot. She dashed back to the village, went straight to the woman's house, the woman opened door, greeted her like nothing, the women with hot tummy just went straight to the kitchen, brought the food down and poured it cold water. Immediately, her tummy felt relieved. I had goose pimples listening alone.

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  8. Not everyone is a good person, and it's better to let those people leave your life.

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    1. I swear down, one of my old classmate called me this week and I was happy to reconnect. She suggested a relationship union with our clique, but in my mind, I just knew if one of us, is not really good. She will ruin the reunion. Some people are not just good. There are bad women as well as bad men as well as good men and women.

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  9. My mother in-law character, everyday she comes with new drama

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  10. Not to expect help from the people I assisted when they were down.

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  11. That you can’t judge a book by its cover.

    Procrastination is a lazy mans apology.

    Finally, Tolerance is the key to healthy lifestyle.

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  12. It took me long to realise that true friends rarely exist, betrayal does not come from the enemy, it actually comes from friends and people you trust. I be one man squad and I am loving it.

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    1. I read Leke Alder on true friendships. He said Beware of one-way friendships. If you're the one always giving, then you need to re evaluate your friends, truth is, it's a vulture system we leave in, majority of people go into friendship because of what they can get, so if you meet one or two persons that is willing to give to you, you're a blessed person for life.

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  13. #Don’t let your emotions get ignited by mere appearances. Try not to merely react in the moment. Pull back from the situation. Take a wider view; compose yourself*

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  14. Took me long to learn that silence is d best answer to a fool.

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    1. Yeah. I used to think, chatting or being friendly with guys will reduce the pain they feel and make them considerate to take my word for it but I realized that silence and no teeth shining sends a better message.

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  15. It took me long to learn how to expect less from people because only God does not fail.

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  16. 1).Not everyone that smiles or doesnt share there problems are indeed
    2)Somepeople have just their smile,
    3) Things are not always the way they seem,
    4) People are facing more problems than you think u are facing.
    5) Indeed its people you know that can hurt you somehow or the other.

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  17. That a greater number of married people are miserable and yet they wear a mask each day and pretend that alliswell. Envy no one!

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  18. Don't expect too much from people.

    People will not always treat me the way I treat them.

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  19. Hmmm...me it took me practically all my senior years in sec sch to learn that longitude and latitude topic in maths. Chai.

    It also took me some time to learn to stare back at people( both sexes) when they keep staring open mouthed at my hairy legs. I will look u so much in d eye that u would be forced to look away.

    I can't come and go and shave my legs for u nah.

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  20. Patience is the Key to Success and also wish your haters well and they see what you will become..

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  21. That u can't outsmart nature.

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  22. That my husband is vigorously against my progress and extremely manipulative........... God help me,ittook me well over 10 years to for sure figure Him out.


    SINGLE LADIES !!!!!! BE SMART WHEN PICKING A LIFE PARTNER,SOME MEN ARE BETTER SKILLED AT PRETENDING THAN SOME WOMEN,MOSTLY THE NAIVE ONES

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  23. I'm too trusting so it took me a while to realise that not all faces that smiles cares.

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  24. It took me long to realise that when you read you will pass the way you want it especially coming out with 1st class or 2nd class upper.

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  25. It took me long time to learn that people do not value you the same way you value them, that it pays to be patient and to always put myself first before others because when the chips are down, nobody has your back except you and God.

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  26. Mine is probably the most annoying.

    Till date I still forget to give water after serving food. Once I serve hubby food, somehow it doesn't ever click to include water. No matter how hard I try, I just forget. Hubby has complained tire. These days, he doesn't even bother to talk again, he will just go to the fridge himself to get water. Smh.

    Even on my wedding day, it was the MC that reminded me to give my husband wine after feeding him with cake.

    So if you come to my house and i dont offer you water, pls dont be angry, I just cant help it😎😎😎.

    My little secret.

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  27. Trust absolutely no one even yourself.

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  28. It took me long to learn that I'm responsible for My own happiness.

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  29. To always mind my business no matter the situation at hand

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  30. That there is a very huge difference between Love your neighbor and trust your neighbor!

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  31. Life is what we can make out of it...
    @Martins Aboy,my brother, the rich also cry indeed.
    @Olivia Silk, nice lessons.
    @Twins Squared, na wa o!
    @Cisca Chesca, you're right.
    @Intelligentsia Princess,as usual,you're right.
    @Sally Jahd,very true.
    @Dominic, my dear,you're correct.
    @AbaMade,that's the irony of marriage. Singles see happy couples,while married couples envy happy singles
    @Mhiz A, lol! That can stare will even make the person to miss his/ her step. Don't know why people don't like minding their business. I can only look at you once and register your features. Staring is embarrassing,biko.
    @Benny Amadi, you're right.
    @Ageless T, you're not alone...but try and overcome the forgetfulness.
    @Sugar babe, wow!

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  32. Its took me a very long time to know i married a witch,,bad wicked heart evil witch..
    i learn to love and respect also to going closer to those that always telling
    me the bitter truth about my self and mistakes in life,they can be ur good friend,
    cos they show u there angers and bitterness against u to ur face,
    i learn to avoiding those that praise and worship you and never tell u about ur
    mistakes,,those that smile to ur face and at ur back hmmmmmmmm,
    those that tell out ur inner secret,,,,
    its took me a long time to learn
    that a woman that really love you will never advice u to borrow money to marry her
    either she will push u to work harder and be a man she will respect...

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  33. It took me 2 yrs to know I need to make myself happy. Not to depend on anyone to do so for me. To love myself more and listen to my instinct. Not to limit my strength. Always believe I can.. this has really worked for me.. but most importantly I have no true friend. I have an awesome family and they hv stood beside me all through my struggles. Thank you Fran/Liz/Phr/Ify/ mum/ dad (dynasty)

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  34. It took me a long time to realize that staying Truthful pays. Between God and men staying Truthful is a virtue. Truth in every damn little and great things.

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