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Monday, December 04, 2017

Sharing Secrets In A Marriage Or Relationship...

It is time for the couch session.......Been a while huh?






What do you think about this?Would share it All?




My honest thought on this?My Answer would be a resounding NO


37 comments:

  1. Capital NO because they might use it against each other when the going gets tough. Marriage and relationship can be unpredictable.

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    1. A resounding YES.

      why should there be a secret in the first place? Isnt he supposed to be my confidant?

      With my kind of man, i will do it again and again and again.

      So you can tell a friend n not your partner? Odiegwu. That's why friends keep hurting you guys.

      My secret is safe with him and his with me.

      It's mutual and we keep the respect

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    2. You guys are hypocrites. During Anonymous night posts, i see several confessions with lots of you saying tell you wife/husband the truth.

      What are you all now saying No for?

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    3. Its secrets about family and friends (other people) ... So its No. Even about yourself has to be done with wisdom

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    4. Lmaooo no! He shouldn’t husband not master Jesus.

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    1. Probably,if Stella said yes, you would've all been saying Yes by now

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  3. No! No!! No!!! Especially if the man or woman is a radio.

    Abeg certain things are better off unsaid.



    #Shiloh Starts tomorow 5th-9th December. Where will you rather be????

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    1. I never expected you to say otherwise because from your several comments you might only be in a relationship/marriage for insurance and women like you likes already-mades.

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  5. No! Aside the fact it might be used against you someday, it might give the spouse another thought about you.

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  6. Some secrets are better kept secrete.. A colleague once told her hubby that her immediate boss is asking her for deeper relationship. Na so this friend take enter wahala. If she make mistake stay a minute extra after close of work. hmmmmm. Her oga will smell her pant that that to see if anything happened. Na so this boss called the lady one evening after work to ask her official questions. Na so this colleague hubby pick call. Begin tell the boss not to call the wife again. Telling the boss that the woman is a married woman. blablabla.. Don't tell me what happens to the lady afterwards.

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    1. Amateur man
      My husband will even give u clue to handle n treats his fuckups.

      Trust issues


      I have worked in the same office with my husband. Pretended to be church colleagues, Boss was hitting on my husband and we were both playing along till we left.

      When we told her we were parners, she wee for pants
      Trust made it possible

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    2. You have no business with marriage.
      Keep your secrets and die with it. Who cares

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  7. Never EVER. sharing your secret's with anyone is No No. They are called Secret for some reason. Always remember that anything can happen at any time and you never know how your secrets can be used in various manipulative ways against you. In today's world of betrayal its better to keep things to yourself rather than letting it out even if you trust the person blindly.

    Trust takes time to build but merely seconds to get over. Plus you never know friendship,relationship or marriage can turn bad anytime for the silliest of reason.

    I understand that sometimes you do have this urge to tell it to someone,in such cases I would suggest to write it on the paper and tear it later on or come here and share it anonymously or not πŸ˜‰ without any danger to yourself.

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  8. For what na?
    Try it at your own risk.

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  9. and the two will become one flesh.' So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Mark 10:8

    How can "one flesh" keep secrets from each other?
    It means that the "marriage" is defeated before it began; isn't it?
    God cannot be mocked, this is the prescription from the manual of life!

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    1. Exactly. Some partners keep grave secrets. The things they do behind each other is scary.

      And when marriage breaks up they cry. Bcos you never believed in oneness

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  10. Abeg No. before the blink of an eye someone you know and trust with your life can change instanta

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  11. i might tell him some but it will have limit and it will not be 100% truth. i will just mix it with some lies shaa.

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  12. Why keep secrets in marriage?
    It a yes for me,that is why you took a vow to become one.

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  13. Hell No, people forget that our partners are humans and situations can change them in a heart beat.
    So that one doesn't end up in regret I don't support secret disclosure at all

    LEPπŸ˜›

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  14. I think you have to know your partner response to different kinds of information. I'm not married but I'm careful of what I tell my boyfriend. judging from my parents',i'd rather keep my secret,can't afford to tell my mum anything private cos she tells my dad EVERYTHING

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  15. I think you have to know your partner response to different kinds of information. I'm not married but I'm careful of what I tell my boyfriend. judging from my parents',i'd rather keep my secret,can't afford to tell my mum anything private cos she tells my dad EVERYTHING

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  16. To me Noooo ,because some men are stupid and talks anyhow,eg my Aunt's husband since the day she told him her mum's ailments and the mum later died once there is issue the man will even insult the dead mum and remind the wife of what killed her mum stupid husband

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  17. I don't support the idea of sharing secrets biko
    Keep your own and I'll keep mine too

    Case closed.

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  18. People saying yes .Then tell your partner your PAPA be ex Arm robber and MAMA ex Ashawoo and see what happens.

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  19. People saying yes .Then tell your partner your PAPA be ex Arm robber and MAMA ex Ashawoo and see what happens.

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  20. Somethings just aren't anyone else's biz other than yours. So keep it simple by minding your biz alone

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  21. Only people that are married will understand this. It’s a big NO ,not because you are not being open but somethings are left unsaid.Tell your husband secrets about friends,families especiallyy not good ones,he will never trust having them around and with time ,he won’t even be comfortable with you hanging around them.Nobody is saying hide stuff from your spouse,but know where to draw the line.I have a friend that told her hubby her body count before marriage,he still hunts her with it till date and never trusts her. It does not mean you don’t love the person but let’s be wise Biko....😘

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