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Thursday, December 07, 2017

This THING Called CHEATING

It is time for our couch session and I have a very important question to ask......






Should a cheating Partner be paid back in his or her own coin?
Would take back a partner you catch RED HANDED in the act of physically cheating?

Why is it somewhat OK for men to cheat but women cannot do so?


29 comments:

  1. Let me sit and learn..
    Oya let the comment roll in

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  2. This days women have thrown caution to the winds and are cheating big time. Yes, i can take back a cheating husband. But a non repentant one like being caught time and time again would make me leave eventually.

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  3. My uncle and his wife got married at a very young age. They suffered together before making it. My uncle was living in a one room face -me-i-slap-you house. He had NOTHING but his wife was always there for him until oluwa started blessing their hustle and then, that thing that is always following men started.

    My uncle will sleep with anything in skirt. He carried both the fat,thin, tall, short, fair, dark etc just name it! Luck ran out on him when one 'Aunty' that is older than him got pregnant for him and refused to do D and C. Aunty said unvle must marry her ooo. Na so my uncle take marry two wives. His house became a wrestling ground sotah himself no come dey sleep for house.

    After some months, somebody came and reported to my uncle that his first wife was sleeping with her boss in the office. Talk of pay back time! My uncle was m-a-d! He set her up and caught them in the very act. He beat her up, returned her to her people. In fact my uncle was raving mad with anger. He asked for a divorce.

    Eventually, a family meeting was called over the matter. That is when my grandpa dropped the bombshell! Him say that my uncle must not divorce her ooo that after all he was the one that started it. In fact eh! The story long. But the conclusion of the whole matter is that the second wife died a few years ago and my uncle and his first wife's love is now like that of Romeo and Juliet.


    P/s: This is a true life story.

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    1. Why won't she die, when her jazz backfired

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    2. Thank God for grandpa. Men think it is a man's world - the male specie alone r allowed to cheat n get away with it. Tiri gbosa for correct grandpa. Now equation has balanced - 1:1

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  4. How do you pay a cheating partner back in his/her own coin?

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  5. It is not okay for any of the spouses, man or woman to cheat. But for the woman, the implication is grave; she and everything she represents may not recover from it like that of the "woman caught in adultery" in John chapter eight. Where was the man?
    A lady I know was hurt because her husband fucked her bridesmaid and even made "porn" out of it. I asked her, "are you going to divorce him", she said "no". (mind you, the man was remorseful, which she also admitted.) Then I said, "work it out, pray it out, wait it out . . . be calm and let him try to decode you etc." She instead grabbed an ex's penis and sucked and fucked. This was an ex that was hurting from being dumped for the "rich guy". Now, when she eventually made up with her hubby, she dumped the ex again; bad move. The guy sent "everything" to both her phone and the husband's phone and even the phone of her pastor whom they both had had counsel from and earthquakes began. Her marriage was over in less than 24 hours. She couldn't attend church again, she slipped into major depression, lost her job and so on. Mind you that she had her hubby's porn on her phone too. But no one was interested in that one.

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    1. Omg pls stop ,this your story never taya You? If i lay my hands on you . Did you save this whole text as a form of punishment for blog visitors or what? I feel like screaming !

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    2. Lmao @ Anọn 15:07. Ike gwụrụ!!!

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    3. Lmao😂😂😂😂😂 at anon 15.07 comment

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    4. What are you all raving mad for? If you've read the story before or you don't like it, scroll past!
      Why "punish" yourself? Allow those of us that have not read it before to read it; it is relevant to the discourse.

      Well the woman in that story messed up. Revenge will not change the fact that the man cheated. Either leave him or live with him/it.

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  6. Please help a sister I can't like a picture on ig the are blocking me from commenting and liking a picture how do I stop this

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    1. They are telling you to do something useful with your life..

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  7. I can't deal with a cheating partner. Most times if you stay with a cheating partner you will begin to have low self-esteem

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  8. This cheating thing eh...hmmm

    I really don't know if I will take back a cheating partner because in the past I have ended a few relationships even though I knew too well they were cheating but I didn't end it because of their cheating, it was always about something else.The cheating didn't seem to mean a lot to me. It's either cheating wasn't the deal breaker for me at that time or I just didn't love them enough to care if they were cheating or not.

    I pray and hope never to face the situation of dealing with a cheating partner or spouse.

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  9. If i discovered you are a cheating partner i will forgive you because it's God's instruction to forgive but it will be hard for me to trust you again

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  10. Anon 13:16
    How many times will you tell us this story?

    I'm sure you are the same anon telling us how one lady wanted to jazz her best friend's husband but the husband is prayer warrior.

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  11. Ama square cos that's the only thing that will make me forgive

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  12. I was just listening in to my colleague/buddys convo this morning.
    Him seriously raking for his fiancé because the poor girl went into his phone and saw various bad chats with him and his side chick on the phone and racked seriously for him.
    Do you know instead of begging this girl, he has turned the thing upside down and threatening to cancel the wedding coming up next year April, that he cant marry a woman that his rude, doesn't respect him, abuses him, isn't calm and doesn't respect his privacy.
    Do you know this girl is now the one crying and begging him. She has been calling some of his friends in the office crying. And what the fools can advice is you should never enter a man's phone.
    I just finished blasting the guy now and he is busy telling me the way the girl insulted him he has never been insulted that way in his life.
    I said Uncle this girl saw sexting chat between you and a girl, even girls nudes on your phone. And you believe she will give you hug or hand-shake.

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  13. some men are born cheaters, the fool am dating in school, gosh dat guy can cheat for Africa, I tolerated enough from him, he has no limit or boundaries,he even tried to sex my friend even my close neighbor, d day dey were telling me it was as if ground should open and swallow me,I couldn't cry or even say anything was just looking like zombie,I couldn't walk away cause was using him to sustain in school. I have decided that when skull resume,will look for small business to start and not have to bear his rubbish dat guy embarrassed me ehen,people were talking about me,I just pretended as if am not hearing their gossips. abeg new year new system

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    1. Look for another guy to sustain you

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    2. must a guy "sustain you?"
      Are you a student or a prostitute?

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    3. Please can someone define "hoe" again?

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  14. Controversial OrangeChic7 December 2017 at 16:14

    If u cheat on me either as a girl or a guy,I'll get the details of the person u are cheating with and sleep with her real good and flaunt it in ur face. If she ain't bi, I'll work hard on her till she gives in. That's how much I hate to be cheated on unless I don't catch u. But me, u won't even catch me cos I only chop and clean mouth but if I have to double date,the other girl(s) will be far away. I can't cheat on a guy with a guy.

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  15. Married, single or divorced...once a cheat always a cheat.

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  16. @ controversial orangechic, I am loving this your style ooo...seriously thinking about it

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