Starting Over.........
Thursday, May 24, 2018
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Starting over
ReplyDeleteYou have to let go to move on and moving on entails starting over..i dont really see much difference btw them. They all hurt as much
DeleteMoving on
DeleteMoving on is most difficult for those that gained materials so mch or like sex alot, they cant imagine letting another person enjoy what theyre leaving.
DeleteLetting go is more difficult for those that made so much contribution & sacrifices over a long period of time, theyre emotionally invested.
Starting over is more difficult for that were deeply hurt & the trust broken, for fear of history repeating itself.
Oxygen they asked which is harder meaning choose one not explain the three😂😂😂
DeleteNone! Go into any relationship( except marriage)with a mindset that things could go south any moment. And when (if) it eventually does, just move on.
DeleteStarting all over again. Trust issues just holds you back
ReplyDeleteAll the above should have been part of the options.
DeleteI don't think there's any difference between those three. It's all same to my own understanding
ReplyDeleteTrue
DeleteMaking money
ReplyDeleteWho relationship help?
No make money enter menopause o o if u are a woman,
DeleteThere's nothing like having someone your own to eat the money with u that u made
Abeg don't say that lilly!!!!!
DeleteSo if i husstle my money, u go follow me chop am, i resemble ur papa?
Personally don't need any full grown adult to help me spend my money.
Definitely starting over,!the fear of starting over stops many people from letting go. life an adult is quite complicated.......
ReplyDeleteIt's deffinately start-over
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ReplyDeleteLazy youth!!
DeleteCant you type what 3 says?
Starting over is easy with determination and readiness
ReplyDeleteLetting go is a little bit difficult because it takes the grace of God, for example,if Kelvin Edo Boy dupe LOLO of 2million , she will move on and start all over to make her life better but when next she sees Kelvin or she is in that position to help,,,omo,,gbege go happen.
Moving on is the easiest except if you tend to kill yourself over something that doesn't count..e.g,,OlaWealth was emotionally tortured some weeks or a month ago,if he had not planned moving on, by now,we would have been sent story that .....u know
Mc pinky
Pinky the small prickster..
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2-Letting go
ReplyDeletesometimes you'd tell yourself you've let go of an ex, then you see a pic of him/her looking so happy with a colleague of the opposite sex.... *heartpounds* back to square one again.
DeleteHas to be starting over.
ReplyDeleteTo me starting over isn't a bad thing. You can be leaving a crappy job to start a fresh new job. You could be leaving a toxic relationship to start over with a man that worships the ground you step on. Meghan markle started a new relationship at the age of 35. What if she gave up on men and just stayed in whatever bad relationship she found herself.
ReplyDeleteMoving on is also not hard for me. When you find a right guy.
Letting go is the hard one for me. I am in a situationship right now and the guy doesn't treat me right. At the start it was magical but now it more like emotional abuse. But when I remember all the good times I keep having hope. Is it the financial constraint he has making him lash out. He has never hit me but he is very manupilative and sees nothing good in what I do. I want to break up but don't have the strength. Letting go is hard for me. But I do believe if I meet an awesome guy right now,letting go of him will be much easier.
U think this is me. Letting go is the hardest
DeleteThat was where l found myself in 1993. Couldn’t let go or move on. I spent 13 years of my life with someone like who you are with. I finally let go of him. Met someone else in 1997. Married now for 18 years. You can do it too if you meet someone else.
Deleteletting go....
ReplyDeleteits all the same. whether its hard or not depends on the situation and the person and the situation
ReplyDeleteLetting go
ReplyDeleteI think starting over is hardest. I've been dating my boyfriend for some years now, he isn't perfect, sweet for 9 months, busy for 2 months, nutty for 1 month. we are dating because we plan to marry in the near future but when he is acting nonchalantly and I feel like leaving I just wonder where I will start from. I am 27 years old, all the men who were after me and I turned down are married now. Make we here dey go
ReplyDeleteIf you can move on,then you can simply let go and start over.
ReplyDeleteSo moving on is.
I can easily start over. Men never finish for world but when I remember all we've done together, how far we've come and the memories we've shared letting go becomes hard.
ReplyDeleteIf I can try to let go, moving on and starting over is not a problem.
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ReplyDeleteStarting over
ReplyDeleteStarting over ,cos I'm so bad in making new friends
ReplyDelete*Larry was here*
For me starting over is the hardest cos it makes me look like a failure.
ReplyDeleteStarting over.
ReplyDeleteMoving on for me oh,always checking on his Facebook post,if he is online on whatsSpp,reading through old messages and pictures....
ReplyDeleteHow would you move on when youre like a record player stuck on repeat, going over & over again with same tune.
DeleteChange that rhythm & watch your dance moves change.
Go cold turkey on him.
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ReplyDeleteLetting go
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ReplyDeleteIt depends on d individual, starting over is likely the hard one but when you are selfish like me, none is difficult, I put myself first, I care n love myself first, I am even jealous of myself,I am so vain n over protective of myself, lol...I don't think I can put anyone before me except a child I gave birth to...so if a guy ain't treating me right, I string him along while getting my groove until I get used to d new catch then I cut off n latch onto d new one while keeping my flank open, I am an openly loyal lover but a closet 'disloyalist'..even if u catch me n tell my guy, he would slap u for spreading false info...hehehehe...ya, I've been trained by the best.
ReplyDeleteNa im be say you be natural Ashawo. No sense of loyalty in your dictionary
DeleteAre men ever loyal ??? After I have been good and faithful in all relationships and men were turning me left right. I had to give myself brain. I am currently dating 3 guys. How I got here I don't know. One is a married man and he actually treats me the best and takes care of me. The single ones,one is based abroad and emotionally unavailable while the 2nd is emotionally abusive and stingy but has my time.
DeleteWhich do I marry now. If I meet a 4th with complete package don't mind porting.
Blackberry, I love your style
DeleteHehehehehehee ashewo is stale n common, pls look for something rare.
DeleteAgain loyalty is reciprocal.
Loyalty begets loyalty.
If u are lily livered, u won't survive this brutal works.
Toughen up women, it pays.
You just described me. I can never mumu for love oo. The one time I tried it intentionally, I had to return his ring.cos I found out dude was like the old me. In love with himself. I ported sharply. Now married to someone I like who adores me. Women , always use your brain . Dem no go hear.
Deleteit's all the same thing.you can not move on without letting go,when you let go you start all over.
ReplyDeleteFor me it would be letting go
ReplyDeleteStarting over
ReplyDeleteStarting over plssssss.
ReplyDeleteLetting go
ReplyDeleteLetting go
ReplyDeleteStarting over..
ReplyDeleteAll 3 are same and very hard. When you move on,you let go and start over again!
ReplyDeleteStarting over
ReplyDeleteStarting over
ReplyDeleteAbeg its all three o. None is easy at all
ReplyDeleteMoving on
ReplyDeleteLetting go, Am in love with a married man I know it's not right, I want to stop but I can't ,am trying all my best and I just can't let go, If I can I would be able to move on and start over so quickly and easily.
ReplyDeleteI understand what you mean. I'm going through something similar. The best thing you can do is to find a single man and date . If you don't want to waste your youth. You close eyes open and you are 40 and every single man is gone.
DeleteI am also dating a married man but with sense. I have a bf but he is based abroad and we are currently having issues. I started dating this man just to remove my mind from my relationship issues. He treats me so well that I actually regret I didn't meet him when he was single. I love him but don't deceive myself it's anything more. He doesn't want me dating others. But that is story I am still keeping my relationship. By removing my mind my bf and I are even fighting less because this one here is keeping me happy. When it is time for marriage,I take my leave.
Pls don't waste your youth on any married man. Enjoy them,enjoy the money and move on.
Stay there until menopause asks u why u were wasting time on another woman,s husband.
Deletemenopause get time to ask u yeye question? It'd just knock once & not even wait for an answer, badge in and catch you... it'd be like film. Why do you think Hanty advised herself quick quick!!
DeleteYou won't leave another woman's husband alone? He's treating you well at the expense of his own family,you are saying enjoy and move on since money is your problem why don't you make yours. At the end of the day there's no difference between you and those that stand on the road
DeleteI have the same issue have been dating a married man for more than 4yrs now, I don't even enjoy sex with anyone except him, I have tried letting him go it seems very difficult, he barely calls these days I know he is trying to let me go too but sometimes we kick off seriously, his wife got to know of our affair but he refuse to leave me,i have guilty conscience most times but I don't know how I got my self in the mess of loving a married man too much, God Pls help me with the load of letting chief go, cos I need to get married, I get suitors left, right & center but non seems like him, though he care less of me now claiming he is busy, I have decided to block his line let me see if I can get my sanity b4 I commit murder of killing his wife just to be with him. Am a single mom of 3 though is not as if am childless but am just 31 though I look 25 with very fair & beautiful face, I fuck other guys once in a while but him I love,
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