She says, "It’s such a crazy experience, my road to recovery has been one of grace and I’m thankful for it all. Thank you all for the prayers, the lovely messages, they kept me going
Issoriat,lets leave the advert i took off and face the message.....lol
I passed out a whole condom with my faeces sometimes back...am I to worry about my health?
ReplyDeleteYou mean you give blowjob with condom on till u swallow am?
DeleteHow did condom get to ur asshole bikonu??
DeleteAs per anal sex tinzz? Please come and explain so that we can advise better.
DeleteYou what?!
DeleteThank God for her
ReplyDeleteAttention seeker!...
ReplyDeleteI’m sure the fibroid was not up to 12!!...
Meanwhile,fibroid surgery is just like doing an appendix surgery!...
No big deal!..
With 80 to 100k,it’s done in a general hospital!..
See how she painted everything like it’s that huge..
Abeg geeeerrrrout!!...
Hmmmm. But queen every surgery is a big deal o. Na God dey save person. You are right about the cost though,that's what iv been waiting for until the strike
DeleteHaba Queen n boss! There is absolutely no comparison between the two proceedures. Not the process, not the delicacy, not the pain, nothing!
DeleteI thought you wanted to compare it with cesarean section. You would have been close to the truth but fibroid surgery is still more delicate and complex than cesarean section not to talk of appendix.
Say what you know.
There is nothing like major or minor surgery ma,she went under the knife and anyone who has ever been cut know how painful it is!!!
DeleteA lot of women never made it through the procedure or pain that comes with fibroid!!
100k ke, my sister in law did hers for 700k last two years and it is a big deal because alot of people die on the table, we saw how halima almost died after her post-operation.
DeleteMy dear.... people do this thing everyday. Im wondering what the pity party is all about.... a simple 'thank God for......' and 'for everyone in pain, please go for check up .....' would suffice. This is actually much for me mehn. Seems like every opportunity is used to gather attention. Not cool 👎
DeleteNo minor or major in surgery. Eni ba lomo!!!
DeleteYou're really going to call fibroid surgery not a big deal. How ignorant
DeleteWhat do you know? And who told you fibroid operation is same as appendix ? I pray you experience it soon so you can tell how yours went. You guys have to stop bringing others down.
DeleteWhat do you know? And who told you fibroid operation is same as appendix ? I pray you experience it soon so you can tell how yours went. You guys have to stop bringing others down.
DeleteQueen don't even say that! My neighbour had an appendix operation in federal medical center everything seemed fine even gisted with his wife that night only for him to die the next day. No operation is small,cause what you term small some people go and don't make it alive
DeleteChikito, would you like some nice round fatty fibroids? It's no big deal nah, you can just stroll in and out to have them remo ed then just say thank God o and be done with it. You that is the champion of story telling, mostly irrelevant mentally myopic things sef, you come and join a fellow mad person in Linda Eze to belittle fibroid operation that has claimed numerous lives! Shallow.
DeleteChikito and quinne I know someone that passed away after this same removal of fibroid in ikoyi not a quack hospital. She was a top shot in sapetrol. Just 40yrs of age. Her sister did in same clinic and didn't die o. They said she overbled and went into shock.
DeleteShe was ttc after a 10yr old son and it was affecting her health. Heavy painful periods.
So no surgery is small. Even tooth extraction can go wrong. Stella oduah son is it not complication from teeth issue that killed him
Just thank God for good health.
Haba! Why the insensitivity na? Wish her well and move on. I'm sure nobody prays fir
Delete** i'm sure nobody prays for ill-health***
Delete@chikito your comment is quite insensitive. To be put under Anesthetics and to be cut through is a lot. Just give thanks to God for her life. Cos if you be gone under the knife, you wouldn't be so trivial about life! No operation is easy. The after recovery pain is a testimony on its own.
DeleteThe way women hate on Tboss,Toke and CeeCee I seriously wonder. Even when they say smthn positive they will still talk.
DeleteIf Adesua talked about having fibriod surgery everybody will be oohing and eyaahing.
Hmm there is nothing like minor surgery especially in a country like Nigeria. To go in, get opened and come out safely is the grace of God. Especially in a country like Nigeria
DeleteMy darlings, I'm probably currently dealing with fibroids and not trying to gather pity with it from even my immediate family. Her first post, I empathised and wished her well. Okay but I mean.... when you make it out hale and hearty e don do.
DeleteOr maybe I feel this way cos it's coming from Toke who like to use almost everything to make news (and maybe money). I'm toke's fan but at times I just feel simple things are blown up to be monetized. If I get my surgery done, I will tell everyone I'm fine and encourage people to go if they have (like the first post she did) and that's that. No need to ring this bell. She's been slaying and posting, she's alright.
Chikito expected more from you. For your information fibroid surgery is a major surgery, with all the risks associated with a major surgery. I had fibroid surgery 2 years ago, had a baby via CS A year after, if I wite my journey it will be 10 pages long. Even the US doctors encountered a lot of adhesions doing the CS as complication from the myomectomy. Don't downplay what she went through, its her story let her tell it.
Deletehow people can be so dense, so stupid, so insensitive as to actually tell people how they should bear pain and how to express it.
DeleteBecause you are all of a sudden God Almighty, who creat that human body and knows what they are going through internally and to what 'reasonable' extent they should be 'allowed' to express their pain.
Not 1 not 2 not 6. 12 FIBROIDS.12.
Just monthly menstruation, I know what some women who choose to put a brave face on every month, go through. Same people on here with mouths like broken sewer pipes will call it "ordinary menstruation that people go through, why is she even behaving like that yada yagi yagu."
I'm glad that God has a quirky sense of humour. Sometimes, God gives such people personal experiences to humble nauseating myopic minds and wipe away their 'I know it all' attitudes.
@chyluv sorry I disappointed you by expressing my thoughts, but it would most likely happen again. It's a free forum, expect little 😊
DeleteAccept you messed up Miss ITK. The hatred you people have for Toke wont stop her from achieving her goals in life.
DeleteIf the girl sneeze alone they will say why is she sneezing.
Your thots are very messed up. Who made you judge and jury to judge what Toke wrote on her own wall.
If you don't want her pity party dont follow her and pass her story written on blogs.
Menn forget the messenger this babe went through a lot. To think someone was still in her life making life unbearable for her at the point she needed them is worse.
ReplyDeleteMay God give people seeking for partners their true love. It makes things a whole lot easier.
Helloooo!!!
DeleteAre we forgeting so soon?
She also caused Fadeyis wife alot of pain..... make she shift, always looking for self pity.
You have said it all
DeleteNothing can be compared to a supportive partner
TM baby, God gat you
11:32... I bet you have never caused anyone pain before abi?
DeleteWho knows maybe toke is Mrs fadeyi's karma ...according to "karma' bvs
DeleteHmmmmmmmmm
Delete@iphie... Amen to ur last paragraph
DeleteAnd where is the proof she was actually dating the fadeyi.
DeleteNna see them together? Do you even know the fadeyi man ? I do. Worked in his company before. Until I see real proof I don't believe everything I read.
True Iphie.
DeleteEven in that pain, never saw any negativity on her. Nigerians only recognise pain, when the person is on a stretcher or is rolling on the bare ground in public wailing. That's their measure of pain.
SORRY O.THANK GOD SHE IS BETTER
ReplyDeleteHmmmm. Truly you can never understand until you experience it. I'm tired of talking about it,sounding like a broken record already. JOHESU,please call off strike abeg.
ReplyDeleteYou never disappoint me Stella, some people that didn’t let the four walls of a school pass through them have given free publicity to the clinic, good you removed the name and mind you, the clinic doesn’t come cheap. N1.5m for a simple procedure. That was my bill last year. Anyways, I’m glad Toke is fine now, women do go through a lot. May her healing be permanent in Jesus name. Amen!
ReplyDeleteNa you choose expensive clinic na, maybe the kind that brings doctors from outside the country, what do u expect, general hospitals will do it wella & cheaper
DeleteMy dear, life is irreplaceable. If you "CAN" please always choose a chance on life irrespective of the cost.
DeleteGeneral hospital. During their strike or after. Or when Nepa take light during surgery. Some of you it's jealousy that is stopping you from progressing.
DeleteLolll General Hospital!!! So that in the middle of a procedure when NEPA takes light, the doctor can whip out his Techno phone,on the flashlight, and kwentinue abi??? Lmooo. I would gladly spend 20m to preserve my life. Lolll.
DeleteAttention seeker oshi,always looking for pity party kilode gan? do you know how many women have had a myomectomy procedure? You're not the 1st and you wouldn't be the last.pls stop the pity party already.
ReplyDeleteI wish you fibroids, so that you will dance shoki a day after surgery
DeleteThank God she is feeling well now
ReplyDeleteIt is well with you Toke.
ReplyDeleteSince i knew this lady, its one tragic story to another...
ReplyDeleteIf its not divorce
Its a book narrating her pains & vagina infection.
Or her maltreatment in a restaurant.
Or she screwing someone aged father.
Now again na fibroid.... Ok na sorry, as you clearly enjoy sympathetic votesm
Lmaooooo
DeleteToke it's alright we have heard...
Lol. Thank God for your life Toke.
DeleteExactly my point! Everything is used to gather emotions and attention. At a point it becomes like..... Okay what else??!! Anyway, maybe that's what's keeping her in business so make she carry go.
DeleteI don't understand Nigerians.
DeleteSo a person always does a 'pity party'. So erm why exactly do you read her posts??? Why exactly are you on her page???
*munches pop corn contentedly
Ehn we have hear. Find something else to get people attention this one is stale.
ReplyDeleteSeriously??
DeleteReally? And you were worried about "thieving nephew" the other day, while something that has to do with life and death is nothing to you
DeleteAnon I never said it meant nothing to me. I prayed and wished her quick recovery on the first post she did a while back. She obviously loves attention if not I don't see the need for this particular one. And I am sorry if u guys feel otherwise. Just saying my mind.
DeleteHello Number whatever you are. She wrote it on her page and even promised to pay for one person that could genuinely not pay for the operation which NO body is even talking about. If Anyway blogger that decided to bring it to you it's non of Toke's problem. Some of you haters wish to be her.
DeleteKpele oooo Toke, it is well with you.
ReplyDeleteReally, I can comment
ReplyDeleteThank God for your life
ReplyDeleteThis hit close to home! Mum died of a ruptured fibroid. She was scared of surgery and no one(immediate family) knew of her ailment cos she was so secretive
ReplyDeleteIt was when she was rushed to the hospital that the doctors told us she had fibroids that have already ruptured. She was in a coma for 3days before she passed on #sad.... I'm happy for you Toke and to every woman with fibroid that requires it removed, pls go ahead and take them off and say no to traditional concoctions
Hugs* May her soul continue to rest in peace (amen)
DeleteAnd you say Toke shouldn't thank God...
DeleteSorry about your mum and those idiot up there are writing rubbish...
DeleteAnon 13:39
DeleteI swear so annoying. Sometimes recieve wisdom and SHUT UP when people talk about their experiences. Always rushing to have an opinion, when your brain should take a couple more days to just fully boot.
It's THEIR fucking experience. During your own operation, stand on the doctor's head and do shaku shaku to show how 'strong' you are.
Let others moan, roll on the floor, do 'pity party' with balloons and Disney characters if they want. It's THEIR experience.
How hard is it for so called smart people to understand???? Gosh!
Toke, madam pity party. Greet PA Fadeyi for us o.
ReplyDeleteGod punish you
DeleteThere's no minor surgery. Even appendix pains is on another level especially when you're wheeled out from the theater. By the time the intestines starts resetting back is very painful. Sometimes people vomits as a result of that.
ReplyDeletePeople have died from fibroid surgery. It's God's mercy.
My dear, the experience...the grace of God. Simply the grace of God.
DeleteWhat's the best way to get rid of fibroid? Traditional methods or surgery? I heard after surgery ,it might come back or so. Pls whats the best way to finally be rid of it especially for someone who isn't married yet
ReplyDeleteSurgery. If it's not symptomatic it's better to leave it till you get married.
DeleteWhat's symptomatic fibroid
DeleteThe one that comes with symptoms like heavy bleeding that makes you aneamic,pains and obstructing pregnancy.
DeleteSome people don't have heavy bleeding and pains and the fibroid is not obstructing pregnancy.
Thanks for your reply swag lagers. It's an eye opener
DeleteSwag lafresh*
DeletePlease Linda Eze where can they do it for 100,000? because my elder sister here they are charging her 500,000 and we have been saving money for God knows when.
ReplyDeleteIf you live in Lagos,got to LUTH, it's like 200-250k.
DeleteGinger, your sisters life is worth more than 500k.
DeleteDon't go to quack that will use blade to remove even you sisters womb because of fibroid.
It is well with you toke
ReplyDeletePls if you are to have surgery, please insist on seeing your anaesthetist and when you do ask about post operative pain relief!
ReplyDeleteThere is absolutely nothing like "ruptured fibroids", cysts rupture fibroids don't, still sorry for your loss, never easy to loose a mum.
The treatment for fibroids is
1. Myomectomy which is surgery.
2. You wait it out, done for patients who are close to menopause.
The earlier you get rid of fibroids the easier, don't wait till it looks like 6months pregnancy!
Nigerian based gynaecologists are really really good at myomectomies, patronise them.
I come de wonder at ruptured fibroids.
DeleteExactly!!!. You nailed it.
DeleteHad 22 pieces removed 13 years ago. Your points are really on point. Correlates with most information that I gathered then.
Yes but it depends on the size.
ReplyDeleteFibroid is not a small surgery. A family friend of ours died in March after surgery. It's same fibroid surgery that RMD's late wife died from.
ReplyDeleteToke,thank God for life
Jesus. Now I'm scared. Lord have mercy on me
DeleteOmeh, don't be scared. Successful ones plenty. Just fix your mind on the positive ones. It will go well
DeleteFor quite a few years now. Don’t know why she is painting it as something big.
ReplyDeletefibroid is Danm scary because I am a living witness...I have a very big fibroid but still got pregnant even doctors could not believe it..I carried my baby for good nine months but d journey was not a easy one @all.I remember wen I did scan at 8months d doctor told me God really loves me because d fibroid just too big for d baby to stay n still doing fine.I did CS but they didn't remove d fibroid because it was risky for me.tank God noting happened to me n my baby that day.the doctors told me to say a big praise d LORD that because dey nvr seen such case before.they told me to come back after a year for d operation.but no money because d money is just to much.I didn't use any drug but d fibroid is melting because my tommy was big before but very small now..i dont feel any pain again unlike before .fibroid is not a good tin to wish on ur enemy
ReplyDeleteif only people can look beyond the hatred they have towards this lady and appreciate the fact that she's using her platform to draw attention to what a lot of people might hitherto handle with levity.... No operation is small and she has every right to show her appreciation to God for coming out alive
ReplyDeleteBolaji you have sense.
DeleteHatred borne out of sheer envy.
Leave the messenger.
Focus on the message.
I use to have fibroid.i had to remove it last year.thank God am kk now.no more excessive menstrual pain no more heavy blood to everyone having it try and remove it.avoid people that will discourage you.they don't no what u r going thru it's alwaya easy for people to discourage wen they are not doing one going thru the pain
ReplyDeleteIf you have fibroids, try DIM. Look it up. Serrapatase as well. It might not remove the huge ones o. But the small ones will reduce. Fibroids feeds on estrogen. Also remember, Prayer. With God, all things are possible.
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