Nothing is planned.....what if he is employed and later loses the Job but is still a damn good hubby?
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Nothing is planned.....what if he is employed and later loses the Job but is still a damn good hubby?
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No man wants to be a house husband and some men likes their wives to be a full time housewife. So.e questions are not answerable.
ReplyDeleteHouse husband? What’s that? Where they do that at? Unless he has that kind of money/business that he can run from home. But even at that, I like a hard working man that keeps busy. An idle mind, they say. I think it’s more acceptable for a woman to stay home raising the kiddies. If the man’s income can sustain the family. Again, even with that when the kids get to a certain age she’s going to feel the ideleness. Everyone has to keep busy one way or another.
Delete"some men likes [sic]?"
DeleteSome men LIKE
The man LIKES
A man LIKES
You need to explain to us the other ones you wrote in that sentence.
The thing i pray everyday is never ever to be a "house wife"
DeleteI have struggled n earn through out my single and not to marry n relay on someone
This is actually the beef between i and my older bro's wife, i don beg this lady tier to start up something, but no o o she is looking for who will rent shop for her in Auchan, Casino, Shoprite or Mega plaza
Me i believe in start small which i am willing to assist her but mba madam want it bigggggggggg
House husband ke? No biko
DeleteMy ex hubby entered marriage hoping to be a receiver not a provider. After 1 year of rent and bills carrying I took a walk.
Delete@lilly simple, plz mind your business.
DeleteHouse husband?...Ara a na agba ya?
ReplyDeleteNobody is staying at home...we're both going out to make money and bring back home
@Ammie
DeleteInterpret that ya stuff there:
Ara = breast
Ara = mad
Ara = "fork" -the other type of fork I mean.
Ara = Seduce/woo
Mmmmmmmhhhhh I wonder oooo!
Lady bug why go anonymous to troll. You were warmed so you rather go anon. Jus continue, Xhrlted P is coming for you.
DeleteLols...Inukwa house husband! Maka why nah?
DeleteBut the truth is that many Nigerian ladies prefer yahoo guys and some of the guys are house husbands. Kikiki
No! I don't think I can be a house wife, and I don't want a house husband either.
ReplyDeleteThat said, nothing is definite.
Never!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThe digital age has evolved and is helping people evlove, you can be at home and use the internet to make money whilst being a house husband or housewife. Networking included.
ReplyDeleteAjuju. NOPE!!!
ReplyDeleteStella I am a house wife but I work from home and make my money online in dollars! In NIGERIA
ReplyDeleteHow?
DeleteWoman yahoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!
DeleteAnon 18.53 you are very foolish! So you think yahoo is the only way to make money in dollars online? You are so sooooooo foolish! Please go and do your research! Ode !
DeleteAnno is not Yahoooooo
DeleteMy bestie us very good in networking buz
She makes cool €$ at home
Hook me up
Delete@lilly simple, don’t mind them , I am amazed at how Nigerians have not tapped into it ! You people are sleeping and snoring. Yahoo ko ! Yahoo Mail ni !
DeleteNope
DeleteMbanu
ReplyDeleteStella just dey find wahala aghara aghara
ReplyDeleteWetin most of these girls want be "abroad husband"
Even if na jail husband them no go mind.
But for Naija husband, I asked one girl (na campus girl o) she tell me say:
"I want a man of god who has a lot of money and a lot of jeeps etc."
She come dey feel good say she impress me well well.
Lols
DeleteAnd maybe her father does not have bicycle spoke yet her mother married him. Yahoo to the rescue.
DeleteGod forbid. I can't marry a man that is even jobless or has no handwork sef. Woooo so I will carry my two two eyes and enter poverty abi?
ReplyDelete@QueenJezebel
DeleteIt is only an Ahab that a Jezebel can deceive. The same "jobless man' appears with exotic cars and "abroad" moves, you will propose to him. You won't even ask his "handwork" etc.
I think Stella is also a housewife yet, she makes her own money. So it all depends on what they're actually doing whilst at home
ReplyDeleteYes I can marry a househusband but I will call all d shots, you will accord maximum respect as d breadwinner...I can't be providing for u and misbehave, hahahaa I will send u to your momma's house.
ReplyDeleteHow can a woman be a housewife?
ReplyDeleteIs it laziness or something?
How can you, as a responsible human being, entrust your financial wellbeing to a MAN? The day he gets angry and says he will not take care of you and your kids again, what will you do?
Nawa oo! Will you be living on allowance? If you want basic things such as panties, cosmetics, sanitary pads, etc, you have to beg your husband?
I had a friend who married a rich man right out of Unilag. No Masters, no work experience, nothing! Just married and started giving birth. Whiles we were struggling to put ourselves through law school, she was cruising upandan in a brand new Mercedes! The way she used to mock us for being single, ehn! She nicknamed me 'Aunty Gwegwegwe!'
Thank God he does not sleep, because 10 years later, I am doing so well as a lawyer! I've built my own house, drive a nice car and my daughter is well taken care of. Friends of mine, who like me, furthered their education and made something useful of themselves are also doing incredibly well as Bankers, Accountants, Engineers and so on.
Meanwhile my professional housewife friend who used to mock us for putting our careers over men? Well, she is miserable! Her husband cheats on her and even beats her occassionally when she dares to complain but she cannot leave him. She has become so accustomed to Gucci, Prada,driving Bentleys and Mercedes and British Airways First Class that she cannot imagine herself going back to her old life. Besides who will take care of her three kids if she leaves him? How many suitors will want a woman in her mid thirties with 3 kids? Even if she wanted to leave, her parents will not allow her because the man has completely turned their life around! He's bought them a plush house in Lekki and takes care of their every need, so they don't give a damn about her suffering!
The point of my epistle? Women, be independent! Naija men are not trustworthy oo! Even if you want to be a stay at home mom, please and please, find a way to make your own money oo! Don't even think of getting married if you don't make your own money!
My dears, be wise. It's 2018!
You're a very jealous person. Why use your friends experience to mock her? Everyone's destiny and journey in life is different. Mind your business and stop being so vindictive.
DeleteYou are simply jealous. Admit it
DeleteWhatever suit you. Do you and do what makes you happy. Some women decides to be full housewife themselves. I have a friend back in Unilag who had always say she cannot work and would be a full house wife. She is presently and enjoying it. Full house wife is a damn big job , give credit to them and dont just come here to talk as if women who are FH wives at less women. Damn No, they are doing an absolute great job even more than us into biz or corporate work. Just that the men out there are not reliable to appreciate the job they do daily.
DeleteYou sound so bitter!!! With your single mother status why don't you download for us how you had your child instead of this nonsense you typed.
DeleteAnon 18:51, this your story is just too telling of how unhappy you are with your life choices. A bad man will be a bad man whether his wife is a housewife or works for the president.
DeleteYou say your daughter is well taken care of but no mention of a husband. Should we now judge you?
No a full time housewife is not lazy. You raised some points which are valid but being a full time housewife is a full time job. A can marry a man who wants to be a full time househusband if my salary is 2 million Naira monthly.
Delete@Anon 19; 11 My dear, jealous of wetin? Is it the STD? Abi the daily insults? When my darling husband has never laid a hand on me? When my darling husband CAN NEVER EVER open his mouth to abuse me? When apart from the fact that my husband and I own a house together, I own my own house as well? When I can contribute more than equally to running my household? When I buy my own Gucci and my own gold AS and WHEN I please without having to beg anyone?
DeleteMy husband knows better than to try that nonsense with me, because he knows that if push comes to shove, I can take care of myself and our child all by myself! So he respects me and knows not to fuck up!
When she snatched her fellow woman's husband because of Benz and designer bags without ensuring her future AND turned around to mock us hardworking girls who were hustling to make something useful of ourselves, she didn't know that God is not mocked, abi? She mocked us and now life is mocking her! Don't expect me to feel bad for her! Life has a funny way of humbling people, and it's her turn to be humbled!
@Mama Girls; My sister, leave that thing! That's the mantra housewives chant to make themselves feel better! There is no way that a housewife works harder than a working mom! What exactly do they do all day? A housewife wakes up at 6, makes breakfast for her family, sees her husband and kids off and then she has the house all to herself! House chores will take at most 2 hours! There's no one at home to eat in the afternoon, so she will have the afternoon all to herself! Late afternoon, she'll pick the kids up and start making evening food. That means that a housewife has at least 4 hours of rest in a 12 hour day. The housewife has the luxury of taking a nap/ or finding time to relax during the day.
Meanwhile a working mom wakes up at 5, makes breakfast, goes to do tiring brain work for 8 hours NONSTOP (sometimes more) and then comes back home to do everything the housewife does! And in this Lagos, by the time you get home from work, you are exhausted from the commute in traffic alone! A working mom will come home exhausted and STILL do all the cooking, scrubbing and washing the housewife does! And unlike the housewife, the working mom will not have the opportunity to nap or take a break during the day! A working mom does THRICE as much work as a housewife.
The ones who even annoy me are the ones with only one child and are being stay at home moms. If you have three kids and above, I understand. But if you have two kids or less and you're sitting home; no working from home, no small business, nothing; not even writing stories/articles or blogging, then my sister, you are a lazy coccoon and a waste of education!
@Anon 20;46/ 20; 50; Eyaaah, Sisi Lazy Housewife, you felt that shade in your soul, didn't you? Hehehe! You wish I was a bitter single mother, don't you? Sorry to disappoint you, but I am a HAPPILY MARRIED WOMAN. I have been HAPPILY MARRIED for 7 years. You are NOT my GOD, and you will NEVER BE. My sweet, loyal and amazing husband is a very successful businessman and he is very proud to have a successful and intelligent lawyer as a wife!
DeleteSee unlike your husbands, he doesn't want a doormat who is only capable of popping out kids and sitting at home watching telenovas 24/7. Nooo, he wants an intellectual challenge, a smart and capable co-equal with whom he can have stimulating conversations!
Only 37 and a managing partner at my own SUCCESSFUL firm with a doting husband and a beautiful daughter to boot! Let's not forget the fact that I look 15 years younger!
A successful career, a wonderful husband and a beautiful daughter. Damn, I'd hate me too if I were you! I know you're mad that I have it all, but if you put in the work, maybe you can be like me!
Get off your lazy, Michelin tyre shaped butt and go be productive instead of begrudging hardworking, accomplished women!
You also need a psychiatrist. Something is missing in your head. With all you have achieved you are here screaming like a mad woman.
DeleteThis anon 23:12, are you sure you're alright at all? So late at night you're ranting on a blog. Madam is your husband not with you?
DeleteAm wondering why all of you are replying this woman that needs help under anonymous, I thought she came to blow her trumpet on how successful she was and her friend she obviously was jealous of is no longer better than her, now the 'All successful lawyer' is replying every comment seeing through her bitterness.
DeleteNawa o, world people. Ajo Obi everywhere!
Madam leave your friend alone na and stop monitoring who her husband is cheating with and what He gives to his wife and in laws. Just live your life, control your husband and take care of your Daughter.
Ps: I won't be coming back to read your reply so don't bother writing.
No I can't be a full-time housewife and I won't marry a man who want to be that as well. But I can work from home e.g. digital marketing and the likes
ReplyDeleteCan a ghana woman become a nigerian woman?
ReplyDeleteCan a nigerian woman turn into ghana woman?
There lies the answer to you!
Ghana men because of their culture r proudly happy to become dependent on a woman & sit down, relaxing, pimping their lives away, useless for eternity.
While the correct nigerian man is a go getter & ashamed to depend on both woman or fellow man for his daily survival.
That's a huge culture difference, mindset & way of life acceptable to different people.
If you want to become like a ghana woman, always toiling for a man, family, trashy things, forever desperate & willing to rubbish herself because of money to go give a man & her family. Then Goodluck!!!
I rather be a nigerian woman, successful in my own name & rights with or without a man, and equally very discouraging to be used & exploited by a pimp.
I rather adopt cats & dogs than have the family who will depend upon me for survival!
Shikena! Banza!!!๐๐๐
I can't be a house wife n i can't marry a house husband...infact my husband will be more of a hustler than i am...chikena
ReplyDeleteThis question no rhyme. ...no wan desires to be a house husband, even most women that are house wives don't desire to, either they haven't had an opportunity to do the kinda work they want or maybe they want to take care of their family & they know the job they do won't allow for that.
ReplyDeleteI cannot even male a mistake and marry a house husband, Stella I am still recovering from what my else husband did to me,I don't have cash save anywhere, I am just living with my monthly salary,I know oon things will bounce back. If I decides to try love,marriage again will make sure you have got some cool investment, cash,savings. No guy will dupe me again.
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DeleteBeing a house wife is a full time job walahi;I don't criticize those who are cos a variety of factors may have contributed & our Nigerian situation ain't helping matters.There are no jobs anywhere at all.....
ReplyDeleteI personally can not marry a house husband & I made up my mind after graduation to never be a full time house wife.So I started a small scale business of buying and selling jeweleries/makeup during my service year & it really helped.Got married to a comfortable man;continued applying for jobs;did a little private teaching; saved up some money and running my small store.Luckily I got NPower job and at least extra income for the family plus my little proceeds from my store.
Everyone has a reason to be a full time house wife/working class etc and should be respected for.Mine being that as I'm on the big side;so I get busy as a form of exercise; and also for extra change to send to my mum & siblings as d first born.
A house husband=lazy,ambitionless man
ReplyDeleteBecause a man that has vision,foresight,goals to attain and hard-working would never have the thought of becoming a house husband non matter the circumstances,a real man should have the above positive qualities,ladies say no a lazyman,say no to a man without ambition and foresight else you will regret it,I detest it
#When it hurts, Observe. Life is trying to teach you something*
ReplyDeleteLike Stella said 'it is not planned' my husband lost his job in May and he has been trying to get another one which has not happened. It is not his wish to be at home and I cannot abandon him or divorce him cos he does not have a job. I pray God answer us soon.
ReplyDeleteAmen!
DeleteAnnon 18:51, those of the view that you jealous of your friend are myopic, as usual, they are not picking! In this day and age how can someone sane be supporting been a full time housewife? As a man, if am paying for everything, your views at home does not matter! Am the sole provider! It is a natural order
ReplyDeleteIf you OK with that, then no problem! I will cheat on you with out remorse, where u wan go? Pls ladies, get something doing, bring a little to the table(occasionally). My view
I've been a housewife for 17 years, with a set of triplets who are in secondary school, I live on a monthly allawee do 300k a month, that doesn't include feeding money n kids up keep, I live like a queen, my husband, oh, he is blessed, he's rich,my in-laws say I use jazz, but no, he is a man that really cares for me n family, n I have a fashion house which I put all my sisters in charge, so relax, when a man is rich n benevolent, you will enjoy.
Delete@Stan, you are a low-life. So you think because she is not bringing money to the table means she is not contributing anything to the family. Taking care of your kids, upholding the family is enough work . so even if you marry a woman working at initial and she looses her Job or had to resign due to family stress/pregnancy, that means you will change your character back to the monster that you are. I pity the woman that will end up with you.
Delete@Anon 22; 12 But yours is OK, now! You have a fashion house so you have an income. Women like you are not the problem. It's the ones who sit at home 24/7 doing nothing but making babies, watching TV and getting fat. No small boutique, no homefront store, no working from home, even sell pure water sef! But no, they choose to do nothing! Those are the lazy and unproductive ones!
DeleteAnnon 22:12, he established something for you( your fashion house)..you get work! Mama girls, it is obvious you read messages upside down or you just damn too lazy to use your brain ( tat is if u have any!) Dey there set bad example for your girls. No get wetin u dey do, stay at home and be warming his bed, wash his clothes,and clean the house...
ReplyDeleteWhen shit hits the fan, ur opolo eyes go open. I can't marry a jobless woman, this one is not love, it is plain reality, worse case, I establish something for her. You can't stay at home and be claiming housewife! Before I married you I was doing all those chores...talk something new! Lazy bones!
House husband? Inukwa
ReplyDeletehouse hubby kuku kee him dia
who will provide 4 the family? Me?
it's beta he earns a little dan totaly stay at home and wait 4 me to hustle and pay bills
i can't be a housewife biko.
i will rather have a biz close to our home than be a full house wife
A house husband, u mean d one Taraji had in Acrimony who only got his lazy ass to work(doing dishes) after she... let me stop here. House husband fire.
ReplyDeleteMe, I have warned my three daughters; if you know that you are planning to be a housewife in future, let me know so that I can use the money I'm wasting on your education to buy a goat. A goat will be of more use to me than your education; at least the goat will borne other goats, I will get milk and cheese to sell, I can sell it at anytime for extra income and if I get tired of my goat, I can kill it for meat. Even in death, the goat would've been of more use than your education.
ReplyDeleteWe women have fought so hard to be able to have education, white collar jobs and financial independence, so when I see women willingly giving that up, I'm amazed at how foolish and naive women can be!
Lol, I love your comment๐๐๐
Delete@stan , YOUR COMMENT SHOWS YOU ARE BY AND LARGE AN IRRESPONSIBLE MAN
ReplyDeleteAnon 23.12 hmmm I have been reading your boastful comments and all that came to my mind is how ‘ordinary breast or prostate’ cancer can wipe out all those investments you are boasting about. I had a very arrogant aunt once, when I saw how breast cancer treatment wiped out their finances, I began to fear God. They sold all their lands and gold just to keep her alive, You are a lawyer, you built your own house, your husband has his own house bla bla bla ! Be careful ! These things can be wiped out ‘overnight’
ReplyDeleteLeave them, always comparing, always boasting, always proud ad forming humble for the cameras.
DeleteWhen life humbles you, you will understand.
I read one of Woodi Woodpecker's comment yesterday proudly puffing the chest...'even my skin looks better than hers' and I lmaooooooo. Shallow is as shallow does
No mind dem..oh.
DeleteAlways using their so called "friends" to do testimony. Finding things to compare with, use it for their own success measurement & validation.
I've learnt my lesson, that no more aspect of my life & family things is for discussion & analysis of so called "friend" enemies who will gossip, mock, pollute & compare my life with their own as validation & measurement of their success.
You can sit with for even 2 years & u will never know or hear me telling u my real motives & plans.