Emergency Room Series -Be WATCHFUL

*Sad sigh*

I'm here again.... your favourite SDK nurse *winks* (let me hype myself small, lol!). I was away because of unavoidable reason but I'm back to the emergency room. Yaay! 

  I have never experienced or seen anything like what I'm about to share.

 I have seen cases of grown men and women taking advantage of teenage boys and girls who end up in the hospital, its usually as a result of physical abuse and rarely s##ual. But in this case, the victim was of a very much younger age. I hope the man (culprit) is caught, castrated and then sent to jail for life. How heartless and carnal can the mind of a human be!

The victim was around 6 years. He was brought to the ER by his hysterical mother and furious father. The boy looked so innocent and shy but you would know there was something terribly wrong deep down. He wouldn't make eye contact when being talked to and hardly said anything to us. He looked like he was masking some kind of body pain somewhere. 

The mother said she noticed blood in his stools after using the toilet potty and on boxer shorts and that he would groan in pain when she tired to clean him up. She thought it was pile(hemorrhoids) at first and gave him 'agbo' and believed it would go but it didn't. She said she suspected something was wrong when he started running fever and wouldn't eat so she took him to an hospital where she claimed he was given drugs and after about a week, the spotting started again.

 At that point, the father told her to shut up and blamed her for negligence and called her all sorts. We tried to calm the father but he was not having any of it. He said he had been out of town and when he got back he noticed the boy was unusually calm and avoided him so he asked what had happened but the boy wouldn't talk which was very unusual. 

He kept begging him to talk if he had hurt himself and even got him sweets, he said while he did that, the mother thought the father was being over dramatic. He even asked the maid if she had an idea of what happened and she said no. 

So he took the boy to his room and begged him to talk. At that point the boy said that 'Mr X'(to protect this post) 'put his weewee in his bumbum'. I thought I didn't hear the father well. The doctor asked him to repeat himself. The father got even more furious and said the boy said his home teacher put his pee in his buttttttt, he then said the teacher told the boy never to tell anyone but the boy couldn't say how many times it happened. 

He immediately called his wife who obviously didn't know what was happening and they rushed to the hospital. 

The parents were asked to leave the cubicle, the mother was crying but the father was so pissed he pushed her out. We all introduced ourselves to the boy and ensure we smiled very well to ease his feelings and make him feel safe. It was one of the weirdest and hardest things to do. A doctor checked him and confirmed he had been abused. The parents were called.

 The boys sample was taken for series of test and swab samples were taken.

 The head of the ER made some calls to a government body and called a child psychiatrist he knew personally. He was interested in the case. I felt so bad for the poor boy. The father said he had been calling the home teacher's number but it was switched off. He couldn't believe the teacher could do that. 

He said it was barely a month the teacher had been coming to their house and he only came on Saturdays. He said on the day he met the teacher, he was in a shop with the boy when the teacher came over and gave the boy a toy and the father innocently thought it was a nice gesture and they got talking. 

The teacher claimed he was teaching in a private school around although the father never heard of the school or been to the teacher's house before. It was because they were looking for a home teacher for the boy during that period that the father asked the teacher to help. The teacher gladly accepted. The father said he hadn't been in the house since the teacher started coming and his mother would leave him with the maid at home. 

Infact, it was a very long story. The father was so mad and told the mother that she must pack her things as soon as they got home and said she wasn't fit enough to be a mother. 

The boy is currently on admission. He has to complete a drug regimen. I really hope he gets out of the emotional torture, its going to be a long journey to recovery, if he ever recovers. The teacher has still not been caught since the father didn't know his house or 'school'. His only phone number has been off so it couldn't be tracked. Sighs! 

I blame everyone in this case, from the father who allowed a total stranger access to his son, the insensitive mother and the lackadaisical maid, all of them are culprits!! I pray the 'teacher" meets his fate in the most terrible ways possible. 

Please, please and please its important you guard your children or child closely. 

The world is changing. There are so many possessed and mentally sick people all around us looking for who to prey on. Its holiday season and children are at home. Who are you leaving your child with? Who is that 'uncle' or 'aunty' that you leave your child or children with ? Who is that uncle that tells you how well your little girl has grown and tells her to sit on his laps?

 Who is that aunty that likes to bath your son for reasons best known to her? Who is that person your child goes to meet for rehearsals Let's be watchful please!

In the last post I shared a story of a guy that was stabbed by a lady he met online who he invited to his apartment and things got ugly. He was later referred to an orthopedic hospital because he needed extensive care. I don't know what was done to the lady that attacked him but I know its going to be a long and hard legal journey for her. 

*I feel so sick reading this!!!