#stressfreefriday #ifyouareamanthatgossipsshutup...
Una Good Morning...!
Hope say una sleep well *Nigerian question*
I read something yesterday and i weak for some people....you don't get it do you?It doesn't matter whether you paid Bride price or not,if she says NO,leave her alone..NO should be NO!!
My friend and I had a conversation the other day and she said when her daughter is about to Marry she would not collect Bride price and shocked I asked why and she explained that,paying so little and expecting so much is wrong,that without bride price one can always take a walk..She says the traditional wedding will hold but no money should be paid....Now i am beginning to Understand her....
Men pay money and expect so much,it is wrong!....It doesn't matter how much you paid,she is not your property!!!....*Tongue click*
As for IHN materials,if you send me one million photos without thinking that you need to assemble the photos in a collage then you send in vain cos i am tired of giving instructions on how to make this easy...
And please those of you sending in Dogs for sale,I am totally put off by that,on this Blog we dont sell dogs,rats,cats or snakes...but we sell fishes!..Thank you!
Talking about fishes,someone asked me to stop posting dried catfish for sales cos SHE IS RELATED TO THAT SPECIE OF FISH...cousins!
It sounded like a Joke but i have heard that severally before to know that it is not,some Ladies do not eat fishes cos they say they are relations with the fishes....lol
Shout out to all the cousins of cat fish oh!!!
Kisses to everyone!
ReplyDeleteLast day of the month and of the second quarter. In this third quarter of the year, may our dreams come through and fulfilled. We shall not build and another inhabit, neither shall we plant and another eat. Wheresoever the sole of our feet shall thread upon we will possessed as an inheritance. May God's grace keep us alive to see the end of this year Amen.
Second quarter? El oh El.
DeleteTeejay, september is the end of the quarter. Oversabi.
DeleteJan-April first quarter. May to August second quarter. September to December last quarter. 8:07 are you okay now? Don't you see they are ember months?
DeleteMr. Teejay take note.
DeleteFOUR QUARTERS
A quarter refers to one-fourth of a year and is typically expressed as "Q." The standard four quarters that make up the year are: January, February and March (Q1); April, May and June (Q2); July, August and September (Q3); and October,November and December (Q4).
Ezege quarter is 3months each in four places...
Delete@Sky and Anonymous 8:15 thanks for the information. Good to know.
DeleteTeejay, you are so dull!you are even arguing foolishly.See your silly reason. Because they are ember months! Are you kidding me? A year has 12 months. 1/4 of 12 is 3. So the end of every quarter is March, June, September and December. Oponu Teejay.
Delete3 months made up a quarter @TEEJAY listen, don't make dat mistake. Is costly.
DeleteTJ Nwanne, imadiuma eme ife a?
DeleteJust Krix!
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DeleteAnonymous 8:37 *it's not is
DeleteLol
DeleteAnd here i ptefer fish to meat
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Amen and Amen to your prayer Teejay.
DeleteHahahaha....@Krix, maybe I should say my anonymous friends are being entertained by me.
DeleteHeifers and Jackals, dem don land because of Tj. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteTeejahhh jahhh fire on. Give dem hot hot.
Its 12midnight and my baby boy has refused to sleep....sigh
ReplyDeleteTGIF. May you all have credit alerts today.....Amen
Aww... Sorry dear maybe is the weather change... Be strong.
DeleteAmen to that prayer oh...
Count it all joy. Remember when you couldn't wait to have him in your arms? Well,that's what moms are for.
DeleteAmen.
DeleteKpele Momma.
DeleteAmen to the credit alert rain o. Starting life in a new city no easy Lara.
Amen,
DeleteSorry dear, babies with their change in pattern sleep.
How can someone be educated yet risk your life all in the name of giving birth 'naturally'.... I don't even know if this is stupidity or faith! !!A pregnancy that has been giving you issues from day 1, you decided to birth 'naturally', now you're dead at just 27, leaving your husband with a baby, a new born baby , making your parent a child-less cos of what I don't know !!! After all the wahala your husband went through for this pregnancy, your child is motherless and your husband a widower at just 30 years..... It's well ooooh, it's well!!! Rest In Peace
ReplyDeleteSo sad. May her soul find rest.
DeleteC'mon take it easy. Don't be so quick to judge another person's situation. Do you think she willingly died to torture her loved ones? How about the medical personnel involved,her family etc? Trust me,not everything is as it is.
DeleteEeya..really sad. Rip to her but can some women just stop this? As long as mother & child are alive and well, that's all that matters. May God strengthen her family at this time. Too bad.
DeleteMay God comfort her family.Rip to her soul
DeleteSad indeed..this type of news makes me weak, same way my neighbour lost her only daughter cause their faith doesn't allow blood infusion.
DeleteMay her soul rest in peace.
Chai. This is so sad.
DeleteMy sister died same way and I'm still blaming myself. We see these signs right from early pregnancy but some Nigerian women want to be like the Jewish women. Sometimes we need to help ourselves before God can help us. He has given us the wisdom to discern.
DeleteNothing is as painful as a woman dying after given birth, next to fire I mean. If a woman starts getting sick during pregnancy, decisions should be taken before she give birth. I hear women complaining that if you don't push then you can not claim to be a real woman but that's total ignorance. There is a thin line between life and death during labour.
If we are changing things about ourselves we should think of our health during child birth as well.
A lot of women who shouldn't die have gone that way.
Few months ago, a friend's wife was in labour, the husband was away, the hospital need to do a C-S, so they needed the consent form signed. The husband called the father in law and begged him to sign on his behalf, the father in law refused and in the end, the lady died even with the baby. This could have been avoided.
Please women, let's not give opportunity to the devil.
RIPP to the dead and may God give you all the strength to carry on.
#nochildshouldbedeniedamothersloveatbirth#
This is sad
DeleteRIP to her
We ve been hearing this kind of stories for decades now, yet our people would not learn. May God comfort her loved ones
DeleteMay her soul rest in peace.
DeleteMay her soul rest in peace!
DeleteGood morning bvs!
This is so painful, God will uphold her family. May her soul rest in peace
DeleteI'm seriously arguing with my friend now,dat notion they always have about C.S not being a natural birth they keep going thru pains in d name of wanting to birth through d V! So annoying
DeleteMay she R.I.p.
DeleteI don't know what it is with "this" I must give birth like the Hebrew women. My mum also is in this school of thought.i was asking her what is wrong birthing through cs? When she told i and my sister that she will not come for omugwo again if we give birth through cs, cause I and my sister gave birth through cs and this is our first time.
I didn't waste time telling her not to bother cause my second child will be through cs and I will rent a parent to come be with me
@Diesel Lubricants, sweetheart you don't need to rent anybody.
DeleteI will personally come with every delicacy you need.
You will not lift a pin through out or pay a dime.
Just be breathing and breastfeeding/bottlefeeding.
What arrant, archaic, barbaric thinking. Rubbish to the power of every useless politician in Nigeria.
Mama Tara.
I was gisting with my hubby few days ago. And he mentioned my 16 years old cousin staying with us. He described her as sexy, curvy with full boobs. He said cant i see her ass. That I should treat her like a matured Lady now and not a little girl again. I think I should be bothered. Or am I just insensitive about his comments.
ReplyDeleteYour husband is a sick man for describing a child with such words. You married a dog.
DeleteI bet he already fantasies about her, better leave that young girl where she is, before that your dog will ruin her life.
Sick people everywhere.
Pls aunty, I beg you send her back home politely. Yes,you should be bothered and making plans.
DeleteHe used such description on a 16year old? Please be very observant. If she will still remain in your house, I think it's time to draw close to her. Be friendly with her so should anything happen, she can confide in you.
DeleteNot only very bothered.
DeleteBut very disgusted.
And very very on alert.
If you described his 16 year old male cousin as 'hot' 'sexy' with large penis, I'm sure you would be a divorce woman by now.
Please be on alert.
Yoruba people will say, it is joke people use to say exactly what is in their mind, this one is not even joke sha, please be careful.
Hmmmmmmmmm husband hmmmmmm
DeleteYou should be really bothered.
DeleteKeep your niece far far away from your husband
I'm sorry, but your husband is sick in the head. If that lady is with you, please send her home asap.
DeletePls take that girl away from your house if she is living with you
Deletehmm mm Nne over bother should worry you ohhh
DeleteYour husband has already fantasized about her. So please be worried before something happens
DeleteHmmmmmm *side eyes 😎😎😎 @ your hubby * Biko send that girl home to her parents, I don't trust your husband
DeleteSomething is fishy with that statement madam. Your husband mind is where your cousin is...Be observant or better send the girl back.
DeletePls be bothered ooo, this one that he is describing her with passion. Don't bring her to your house, let her stay whenever she is.
DeletePervert alert!!!!!! Madam please send her far away before we hear super stories.. Na so e dey start
DeleteJust tell ur hubby how macho and sexy ur neighbor, baba kamoru is and how the line amd shape of his huge blokos shows when he wears boxers or sokoto
Deletehis comment is a red flag. He is already on that girl. 16years? Jesus Christ. Even if you send her away yoir horseband will sniff after her, so make her your friend. Be close to her, you guys should start bonding. Shop together most especially intimate wears, saloon time together, market time and cooking together. goodluck
DeleteYour husband will soon fuck her. Send her away if you love your marriage. You married a dog.
DeleteRelated to fish? HA. Me I never hear that kind thing before o.
ReplyDeleteGood morning.
Fish species...
DeleteThey are plenty.. Ask BlackBerry😂😂
Lol..ola , Ankara relative, how your cousins hitarget and vlisco?
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DeleteThey are fine..!!
Bed Relative, how your cousins Durex and flex?
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Una good morning ooo.
ReplyDeleteRelatives to fishes ??? LOL.
I guess it's a just a big joke mbok.
Good morning house.happy end of the month. Please I need bvs in the house to educate me on DOs and donts of Wat is expected of a chief brides maid. Retired slay queen, kiks and anyone in the house who hv done it before pls give me tips biko. I hardly go to wedding and next week is my best friend wedding and am the chief brides maid! I just want to do the best for her. Make I no go dey carry her gown wen them no send me!! Pls wen am I supposed to help her with her gown? Wen am I supposed to step aside??? Make I no go disgrace myself! Though I tried watching videos on YouTube and many other tips and am not seeing useful ones. Pls help a sister. Thanks to you all.Stella I love you.
ReplyDelete😂😂😂😂😂😂😂....
DeleteI was my cousin's CBM, since the wedding is close, I don't think there's much to do again.....
Do you have a list of what should have been done?? Like caterers, decorators, cake, venue, clothes, drinks, invited guests?? Call her everyday and y'all should go over the list again, tick all that has been concluded, remind her of the ones yet to be done, check on the other bridesmaid to be sure they have gone for final fitting for their dresses and there's no issue..... Is there going to be a bridal shower for her?? If yes ,check to know if all is ready!!! And then check for her makeup artist to reconfirm her service, etc... Check to see if her wedding attire is in order.... Always ask her if there anything she needs, make sure she doesn't have to stress about anything especially if you can help it !!
On the wedding day, it'd not compulsory you hold her dress, depending on the dress she wears sha, you have to be with her phone from morning, taking her calls and all.... During her dress up, make sure ALL her things are in place, help her pack her box as she dresses so that she won't leave anything behind esp if y'all are in a hotel..... Make sure she EATS,very important, she might refuse out of excitement but please insist!!
Just generally be around her and be very observant!!!!
U are her right hand man, help with basically evrything she needs. Be at her beck and call. You dont need to carry her dress, I dont think pple do that again. Have an hankerchief,sanitary towel n probably a safety pin closeby. Oversee to her food, makes sure she gets to eat no matter how lil cos anxiety fit no let her chop. Also assign those who wld help pick her money when shes dancing...I.e if she hasnt assigned people for that. Basically no fast rule about being a CBM .
DeleteMy dear if she tell you what to do that day do it. If she is sweating, give her handkerchief or use handfan on her.
DeleteJust be alert on what she tells you what she wants
Laughing my ass out here...during my wedding, my chief bride's maid was a figure head. She didn't know what to do.
DeleteAwwww. My bestie was my CBM and the I nearly cried with gratitude during and after the wedding. As in, she just bore all my stress for me. Here are some of the things she did, perhaps, they will help guide you.
Delete1. She went with me to my tailor's a on my Trad, made sure the clothes FIT. Like she made sure all the stitches were in place. She was my voltron that day
2. She was beside me during the trad even helped me point to where my hubby was hiding whike i was searching for him to give him palm wine. She brought nylon for me to kneel on and made sure my wrapper didnt get dirty
3. she went with me to church after the trad for our final reharsal ecos our wedding was the next day. She was still manging the hotel rooms we booked for our guests, ensured the briedesmaids got the best rooms. the groomsmen were OYO.lol
4. On the wedding day. Chai. My baby packed and rolled my hair,( just did up gel with my weave) she did my high bun perfectly. Scrutinized my make up very well to be sure I blended it perfectly. She made sure I was on point before she even started dressing up.
5. She made sure I didn't lose a pin! All my eye shadows, brushes, hairpins, everything was complete, even though babes thronged into my room to use my make up box. She ensured that everyone returned everything after use.
6. She carried slippers that changed into after church, arranged me very well for pictures
7. She finished work during reception. Made sure the special guests I told her about got souvenirs. made sure my in laws and family were well fed. Made sure the wedding gifts got back to the hotel even before us. She was my shock absorb er that day. She was so good that my in laws noticed. One was trying to hook her up with his single friend but e no come work out.
After the wedding, both of us cried o. Like my bestie is good naturally but that day, she went over and beyond for me.
T.baby may God give your perfect man soonest in Jesus Name. Amen.
Anyway, long story short. That day its all about the bride not you.
See ehn, make sure she slays o. Let her dress up first before you do. ensure her phones are safe, carry a small waist bag or sling bag for phones and money.
carry slippers o, so that heels wont stop you from working.
Chief brides maid not not about wiping sweat for the bride again o. Lol
Ask her the people she wants to be fed specially, ensure her husbands people get wonderful attention from the caterers.
One of my girlfriends stopped speaking with her chief bridesmaid after the wedding cos she CBM ignored her and was taking selfies through out out the service. Them come kuku theif CBM's phone in the church and she melted into panic mode.
She locked herself in the hotel and cried all through reception. lol.
My friend had to use another person as stand in that day.
Just be her eyes, ears, mouth and hands that day and she would always thank you.
Cookie you're a veteran! 😀
Delete...but in addition to the handkerchief, take a pack of oil blotter for her makeup for dab her face for her. Be on the alert on that day, get a pair of slippers to wear to make your waka waka easier for you.
Position yourself beside her during the collection of gifts, you and the best man receives it; no allow her accept anyone directly...some guests are there with evil intentions.
Be sharp during the spraying of money if you're entrusted with the duty. But if not, stay away and allow whoever that is in charge do it all to avoid any unnecessary questions and concerns later.
During the taking of photographs, remind her to smile; believe me she fit forget.
Let me also say that your friend is lucky to have you. Most girls don't send and careless except to slay and scout for guys that day forgetting that they have an important role to play.
Tblack why did u go anonymous to ask?
DeleteAlso, very important. Make sure you go to the hotel room with a small box of pins, threads and needle for last minute alterations and wardrobe malfunctions. This happened to me, my reception dress zip went bonkers I had to be sewn into the dress if not, wahala for dey.
DeleteAmen to your prayer Teejay
ReplyDeleteStella I disagree with you totally on that statement that 'No is No when in marriage'.
ReplyDelete1 Corinthians 7:4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
Proverb 5:19 As a loving deer and a graceful doe, let her breasts satisfy you at all times; and always be enraptured with her love.
Please don't go into marriage if you are not ready, let's be wary of what we read or see on social media. I can only try to negotiate with my wife and make her see reasons if I'm tired or not in the mood, but if she insist, I'll still perform to the best of my ability.
Sky, so you think christians follow that bible? They only do what suits them and shun the rest.... reality trumps religion, i always tell them
DeleteTable shaker...
DeleteWon tii get e laro yii
Now I know why you are a deacon lolzx. Nice illustration you got here but on a second thought don't you think sometimes it will be good if we respect peoples wish? In as much as I frown and condemn spouse denying their other halves their conjugal love, we should also understand that everyone has a right on their own. It is marriage and never a bondage.
DeleteWell written @Sky
DeleteNo Teejay I totally disagree with you, a woman keeping malice with the husband for two weeks and still refusing him sex, that is very wrong.
DeleteSky, weldone you have said it all
Thanks everyone...
DeleteTeejay, God knows the importance of sex in marriage and doesn't joke with it, even the Bible admonishes that a couple if at all they want to stay off sex during fasting should have unanimous decision regarding that.
1Corinthians 7:5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
Sex is very important and a MUST in marriage. Absent of it will surely bring problems...don't be deceived!
This teej self did you read what sky wrote? Or u Just want to comment nawaooo umu nwoke puta ha puts!
DeleteAnonymous maybe you didn't read my comment well. I commended what sky said and equally said as well that I condemn couples starving each other with sex, or didn't you read that lines? My last point was that couples should also understand when to respect each other wish when it is necessary. Just like sky said, it could be on health ground or even religious purpose. Even sometimes it could be tiredness. And when it is on such cases, the other party should see reason with the other. There are men if you leave them will go everyday in a month for a sex. Sometimes the women too are exhausted. No one will support what that lady did to her husband, not even the devil himself.
DeleteNice one Sky...Steffy don suffer for your hand 😂😀😂😀
DeleteLols...Steffy is a tigress in that department..me sef wan begin drink tigernut juice to match her prowess. Fear akwaibom women o!😁😁
DeleteGood morning beevees.
ReplyDeleteAbout that bride price thingy. In my nuclear and extended family, they don't collect bride price. Though they will tell you to present a certain amount of money, after which they will touch it and pick out something like 10 naira and give it back to you telling you that their daughter is not for sale.
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Delete#10? That's cool.
Hope you still have brides in your line, I'm coming for one ooo
I like that tradition.
DeleteAt my own wedding I'm going to ask that they not collect brideprice.
Please how can one tell indutrilised PKO from original?
Lucile are you from my place? Same with us too.
DeleteDuring Yoruba Tradition Wedding, the groom's family will present the bride's price but it will be returned with the statement "we're not selling our daughter, just take very good care of her". I've never attended a Yoruba wedding where they collect bride's price.
Delete*Larry was here*
Wow
DeleteI thought it is only Yorubas that practice this
Lucille, same thing in my place too, they don't collect the bride price, the family will just touch the money and tell them to to take it back,that their daughter is not for sale.
DeleteEverybody same thing...
DeleteSO WHO ARE THOSE COLLECTING exuberant FEES UP AND DOWN
Pick out ten naira? What do you think that 10 Naira is? My dear thats the bride price. Forget all those list villages circulate, the real bride price is the money, which is not always less than one thousand Naira. So my dear in your nuclear and extended family, they collect bride price which is 10 naira.
DeleteAnon 10:22,you are right. I haven't seen anywhere in igboland you will marry a woman without paying kobo on her head... Impossible.
DeleteSame as my place @Lucille. A very ridiculous amount is usually collected.
DeleteThe groom will be asked to bring some money and what will be taken out of it will not be up to #20 (which symbolises acceptance of the grooms family) & the father of the bride will tell him and his family that they don't sell their daughters...just take care of her.
Hey larry, on my wedding day, the money wasn't returned at all, my parents collected it and told them that their child is not for sale and the token in the envelope is just to appreciate them for accepting to be our in-law.
DeleteBesides human being can not be bought. As stated in the bible that Bride price is just a show of love not bought. #i can not remember the bible passage used to buttress the point
see all this back and front bride price thing is a thing of the mind ooo, its watever you believe, do so and practice it for your sef.
How much is teh money sef, 10k or so.
My parens gave me the money afterwards but i return it back to the them to buy something significant in the house or to do charity.
Yes we are yoruba and that's wat was done for my aunties(my mum siblings that has been staying with us from teenage) but they didn't return their own to anybody but used it to buy something for themsef.
anonymous 8;31 pls let them collect it and let them give the groom and his family that you cannot be bought as you not piece of land that anybody can do anyhow to.
DeleteBrie price collecting is in the bible moreso it is culturally and traditionally what makes us, dont be deceived y what pple are saying, what about the yam and other things that was brought, why didnt they return all those things.
Rubbish talks to sway pple away from reality.
ME I CANNOT BE BOUGHT WITH MONEY OR FOOD.
Let us have our high self esteem as aldies and know that even if you buy the whle world that doesnt stop me from being who i am and cannot be used.
They don't collect bride price but they take 10 naira?..lol the 10 naira is the bride price. To dissolve the marriage traditionally, the 10 naira/1 Kobo/1 million (it doesn't matter how much) has to be returned to the groom.
DeleteGood morning my people, happy Friday to us 😘, plenty plenty profit fall on us today
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone...
ReplyDeleteAs you enter into September, this season shall deliver to you in hundred fold all that was lost in the past months. You are restored in Jesus name Amen...
Happy weekend oh...
No matter how ANGRY the gods may be, a LION can never be used as a SACRIFICE. The meat and the blood of the Lion is bitter to the gods and idols. You are from the LION of the TRIBE OF JUDAH, No one can use you ,your blood for SACRIFICE. Any altar demanding for your blood shall catch fire. Anyone going from altar to altar and from Shrine to shrine shall be swallow by shrine in Jesus Name.
ReplyDeleteThis day is your day of God's favour.
Meditate and pray with John 6:41-51
Have a blessed and fulfilled day. Good morning.
Good morning and Happy gracious September.
Them be maimed spirit then
ReplyDeleteWho maim them?
DeleteLMAO 😀😁😀
Delete😂😂😂😂😂😂it's Mermaid*
DeleteI bin know one 'maimed spirit' fine geh with pointed nose for school dat time.she nor dey gree chop fish! If i say i go chop catfish peppersoup and cold beer with my guys, she nor go gree follow me talk till tomoro..to put okporoko inside ugwu na problem!. i no come understand until now wey stella say dem be 'cousin'... this geh na dia 'house mistress' nor be cousin!
DeleteRelated to fishes bawo? Hnmmmm
ReplyDeleteOlori Orente, ba wo ni? See daada ni? Take care of you.
Have a blessed day my people.
Cytia.. 😍😍😍😍
DeleteStella, bride price or not some men will still do what they want, its an African man's mentality.... As for that yesterday poster you shouldn't be shook by peoples comment, they really were not castigating her for saying NO, but for saying NO for two long weeks without any remorse, personally I think she is the childish type, and marriage is not for children.
ReplyDeleteGood morninh bvs.
Morning stella.
Exactly, she was wrong for witholding sex as punishment.
DeleteIts just like a man refusing to bring money for feeding for two week, even after the wife begs him. Then the wife threatens to steal his money.
If the man was unfaithful, then maybe her punishment makes sense but if it was normal couple squabble, then she is wrong.
Marraige is not for children at all.
God bless you for this comment, 2 weeks ke thats too long for a man that you say likes sex.
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ReplyDeleteWho's attending " will you marry me?" this evening??
Still enjoying my vacation..😎😎😎😎
It's the last day of the month August 2018. And another day to give thanks to the Lord Almighty for sustaining, providing and protecting us and our love one.
ReplyDeletethe coming months shall favour us and testimonies shall over flow, joy and laughter will not seize in our lives. IJN Amen
Good morning all. Happy Friday. It is well with us.
ReplyDeleteGood morning BVs. pls I am about starting a bridal shop, pls I need a mentor, who have been into the business to advice me on the "DOs & DON'Ts".Thanks in anticipation. 😘 .Pblesyn
ReplyDeleteI need mentorship on second hand or okirika clothing Didn't see my previous comment.
DeleteGood morning everyone,plS I want to know if it is possible to get pregnant after my uterine fibroid operation. I am the only daughter of my parents and I would love to have kids of my own.. I am 30yrs old and the pain is out of this world, plus the bleeding last for close to 15days
ReplyDeleteOMG that is too much bleeding. Please go and do the fibroid operation and you will be fine. Take away fear from your heart. It is fears that kills.
DeleteYou will get pregnant after the operation. It does not stop any woman from it except your husband has a fault.
I wish you life and good health after the operation. Don't stay too long thinking if you want to do it.
Let it be done in a good hospital. Wishing you God's recovery Amen
Yes, you would still be able to get pregnant.
DeletePlease see a very good gynaecologist, you have enough symptoms, a myomectomy would be done, with your uterus left intact.
Are you married?
DeleteIt's advisable to remove it when you're married so you can get pregnant very fast because it grows back.
yes it's possible. goo luck
DeletePlease go to general hospital and remove it. That 15 days bleeding is way too much for you. Always take blood tonics to avoid dizziness.
DeleteYou will be fine but after the surgery avoid some foods. You will conceive and nurture your children.
Paying bride price doesn't mean you own that person please, that's why it's as little as one naira. My bride price is 600 Naira. all the other things that follow are the ones you can or can not do. So you think avoiding bride price means your husband is not the head. Wont you do other rites like traditional marriage r court ot church wedding, as far as you are married, the man will always have that mentality he's the head. So please leave bride price alone. People will always try hard to abolish harmless tradition but try hard to keep western tradition.
DeletePlease also be taking iron tablets. Most importantly,see a gynaecologist.
DeleteMorning everyone
ReplyDeleteHappy weekend
Stella, NO is not NO in marriage. A spouse has no right to deny the other sex. If there's any reason why you don't want sex,your spouse is suppose to be in the know and agree to it.
ReplyDeleteCouples need to attend marriage counselling. Very important.
Madam that denied her hubby sex for 2weeks, I laughed reading your comment. So you can deny your hubby and he has no right to force you ABI?
My dear, I tire oooh!!
DeleteGod will really give spirit of discernment from all these things we read online!!!
I'm not married but I know that every marriage comes with it's own package..... FIND OUT WHAT WORKS FOR YOU, it's very easy to advice when you've not been on that situation! Marriage is not child's play Ohhhhhhh.....
Thank you Swag, how were you able to even say NO for good 2weeks with you seeing your hubby everyday and you are okay.
Deletethe poster should ask for forgiveness of sin o bcs thats malice in the highest form.
Hubby doesnt with in the same state with me, but the weekend hes aroung , i dare not say No to him, i even pray my period comes during the week than the weekend that i know he will be around.
Later they will say cheating or he raped me, Y wont he do anyone when hes sick and tired of malicious way of punishing him.
Yes my mum is from the fish world-she has a big drawing of a fish on her tummy and she doesn't eat fish .
ReplyDeleteAre you for real? Please can you explain this thing well for me? How did they come about this? Please tell me.
DeleteIs she a shark?
DeleteDoes she lay eggs?
Where u hatched?
Maybe you or your mum serves mermaid i.e. mammy water.
DeleteYou are calling your mom. Did you not come out of her bowel. My dear you have been dedicated to the Marine. Ask your mum if she will tell you. It doesn't matter if you eat fish or not. There is a strong dedication.
Deleteaiiii really. So you be fish too. Lmao 😂😂😂
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DeleteKaii this one weak me. Your mum is originally mammy water, Ogbanje, water spirit called spirit wife tormenting young men. The type that make them wet and always make love to them in the night. I fear who no fear your mum. And the spirit has been transferred to you.
DeleteYou and your momma are from the Marine world. The way you sound probably she's enjoying her palace over there.
DeleteIt means you have been dedicated too. Just start praying for your self now before it is too late. This one weak me ooo.
DeleteGood morning everyone.. Last day of the month, thank you Jesus.
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone, sdk related to fishes bawo?
ReplyDeleteStumbled on dstv channel 118 last night during the program Prisoners of Love.....such an inten5 and action filled novella.... I think I likey😁😁
ReplyDeleteYeah, it is an interesting novela
DeleteCousins of cat fished indeed. I once had an hostel mate who doesn't eat any specie of fish. Worse was a day we wanted to prepare peppersoup for my roomie's birthday..babe stated crying ooh..saying we were killing her sisters. ha!! 😳😳
ReplyDeleteThere are actually ladies like that.
I think the culture of paying bride price is being threatened. Some men can be archaic in their thinking. This is 2018 not 1818.
Thank God is Friday, yeah yeah.Thank God for making us all to see the end of August, and may he bless everyone of us as we are stepping into the month of Ember.
ReplyDeleteGood morning Stella and all the Bvs.
In marriage, No is not No please whether he picked her on the street or in the palace. The scriptures @Sky quoted up there remains valid and if for any reason one of them do not feel like it at any point, he/she should let the other know about it and the partner should understand. In marriage, your body is no longer yours scripturally and not because of some bride price that was paid..that's where people get it wrong.
ReplyDeleteGracias!
DeleteA lot of children are being dedicated to marine spirit. Just few parents will tell their children the truth. And when you look at the statistic, some are successful in life while some are not.
ReplyDeleteIf you see yourself swimming in your dream, or being visited by fishes my dear you are one of them.
Tell your parents to tell you who you are and where did they dedicate you to.
Some sees goats, dogs, snakes etc in their dreams. Just know you have been dedicated and only Jesus Christ shall set you free.
Try and ask questions from your parents to know where problems are coming from.
Faulty foundation ti take over most homes and families .
That means I've been dedicated to money, lol
DeleteCos I keep seeing money in my dreams.
Yori Yori well spoken.
DeleteHahahaha blackberry, please pray to God to make it manifest physically. Seeing money and in physical not appearing means someone has tampered your destiny. a
DeleteMe wey dey see totoh nko? Rubbish talk! Africans, particularly Nigerians and very stupid superstitions.
Deleteas August end today naso all our problem self go end ijn.September 1st nah new beginning of our joy by his grace
ReplyDeleteWhat is ijn?
DeleteBlackberry help me ask her, why is it hard for some people to write IN JESUS NAME bikonu?
DeleteIn Jesus Name
DeleteThank you Lord,last day in August. God has been so faithful
ReplyDeleteA very goodmorning to all ,nd TGIF,i have just av just 4months left to be tru wid work..hmmm ,am so happy ,i..these yoruba peepz take freedom ceremonies very serious..but am gonna organise a very small party ,is my certificate that is important to me..God i thank o,in few months i wil be a profesional hair stylist..i still misd home.
ReplyDeleteCongrats in advance my dear
DeleteThis Oki, it seems you are giving us headache on purpose.
DeleteI just hope that the way you do hair is not the same way you speak?
DeleteHands be doing gbala gbala one kind.
Anonymous calm down if you can't correct her errors. Everyone may not have been opportune to write better like you but can still learn and improve if we help them. Stop the bully, it is wrong trying to bring people down.
DeleteThanks yori yori princess,anon y u so concen wid d way i speak? Get over it biko,after all it is a borrowed language,can an english man speak my local dialect?
DeleteThanks tejay,dnt mind anon ,she is a sadist..she refuse to celebrate wid me,bcs i said ,that am almost done wid work.
DeleteGood morning everyone.
ReplyDeleteWelcome to the last day in the month of August.May God grant our good heart desires in Jesus name.
Psalm 11:3.If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?
Bvs,the answer to the above scripture is TO PRAY. Don't stop praying,God hears and answers,just believe.
May the coming months be productive and fruitful for us all in Jesus name Amen.
Reasonable Doubt, good morning. Please do you have any e- courses on digital marketing or data analysis that you wouldn't mind sharing?
ReplyDeleteHi i posted a link, but i guess stella did not enable the comment.
DeleteI don't know if she will enable this one, but if you go on Coursera, you will see a data science specialization course by John Hopkins University.
I recommend that one, but you could also check udemy, edx, lynda.com for other data analysis courses.
I do not know about digital marketing courses though.
I hope this helps.
please who has applied for the lagos state teacher recuitment online
ReplyDeletei am finding it difficult to do it
Good morning all. Last day of the working week
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