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Sunday, September 30, 2018

Sunday In House Gists - Identifying The ''Pamela Why''In Your Life..

Remember Pamela Why? Pamela why??Pamela why??? Brouhaha where a Pastor pointed out that a Ladys best friend was the one responsible for all her woes?The Pamela was like a solid rock behind this lady but confessed that she was jealous and decided to ruin her,which she did......






Do you have any ''Pamela why'' story in your life.


How did you find out?. from pastor or friends?Who was it?. How did you react.?

Do you suspect someone in your life of being a ''Pamela''. Or are you A Pamela in someone's life.
Let's gist....

60 comments:

  1. I don't have close friends that we share our pressing issues with ourselves. I trust no one




    *Larry was here*

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    1. I don't share my secret with friends or family members. The only people I open up to about my every every are my beloved mother and sweet Father. Aside them,I have trust issues so I don't share anything about me with people. So all the Pamela whys unaah go wait tire..

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  2. Foremost, that "Pamela why" stuff was a "movie". the actors acted well and the director directed well. The camera men did a good job. The aim is to market the shursh and the marketers did a good job too. The target audience of course are ladies who are so gullible that they will believe anything.

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    1. I may not have believe that "Pamela why" video, that doesn't mean "Pamela why" does not exist in real life.

      They exist and live among us, wishing our life was theirs.

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    2. May not have believe [sic.]?
      I would have BELIEVED you but if everybody is dodging being Pamela, who is the Pamela.

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    3. Awon correctors ti de... obviously that was a typo

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    4. I met a pastor at my in-laws(was his first time of visiting my MIL) once while we were dating,I was in my finals and had a close circle of friends who comes home with me on weekends from the hostel.....
      The pastor asked who I was(apparently he had prayed about me before my arrival but didn't know it was me when I arrived)MIL told him it was me and he praised God that he didn't want to speak out initially,that a lady very close to me who he was not sure was friend or family cos of the closeness had taken my picture to an herbalist,he has cut it out and intends to use it within few days...told me the psalms to read and that I should keep it away from anyone I didn't trust,I coudnt think of a single person who would wish me harm,told my mum and we fasted and prayed for 3days,I never accused anyone or tried to find out who it was!!

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  3. I don't know them and I don't want to know, but any Pamela why in my life holy ghost fire consume them.

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    1. Na wetin Jesus teach you be dat, to dey pour "holy [sic] ghost fire" on human beings?

      Matthew 5:44 But I tell you, LOVE YOUR ENEMIES and PRAY FOR THOSE WHO PERSECUTE YOU, 45that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? 47And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that?

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  4. 🍹🍹🍹🍹 🍕🍕🍕🍕🍕


    Patiently waiting for comments.

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  5. "Pamela why" can also be a family member.... A family member almost ruined my life, she wrecked me of all my savings in Nigeria, sold my landed property that was situated at the centre of a very beautiful city in Ibadan.

    She kept on using my hard earned money on herself and family.
    She is a pastor's wife, they lack the fear of God in their lives.
    I have forgiven but not forgotten.

    Just recently a friend that I trusted also do away with my money, when I found myself in a situation that I needed money urgently, I called him for my money and the next thing was him trying to justify the reason he misuse my money and even had the guts to pour me insults. He didn't even consider the bad state that I was.

    I can't trust anybody with my money again. The greed and wickedness of men can never be overemphasized.
    Those that converts other people's goods will continue to remain poor in every sphere of their lives.

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    1. Mmmmmhhh, mind your tenses Ms A.

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    2. Awww...so sorry dear.
      A pastor's wife?
      Don't worry dear, God will replenish all you have lost in a million fold., Aemn.

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    3. Someone in my formal office whose account was used to pay me for a service I rendered because I wasn't a full time staff so the money couldn't be paid to my account directly in the institution's microfinance bank.
      I was going to this guy to find out if my money has been paid and he kept lying that it has not been paid whereas the money was paid about a month ago.
      Next thing the guy took my money and travelled to Ivory coast.
      I found out and accosted him on whatsapp to send back my money to me.
      Brothers and sisters, come and see insults naw! I've never felt so bad like that before and I hardly curse people but out of anger I blurted out to him that he will never make it in life till he pays me my money. I went ahead to tell him that he will continue to have a near success syndrome in every area of his life. That till my money is paid, that is when his success will come. He was ranting that I'm not his God, that he will come back to naija big and made and that shame would become my second name, that God will surely bless his hustle. I said to him that, if the God he is talking about is the same Almighty God that I serve, who is a God of justice, let him judge us accordingly. So I ignored him.
      Fast forward to couple of months later, this guy started calling and sending Voice Notes pleading that I should forgive him that things are so difficult for him over there and that what I said to him has been affecting him. I didn't even respond to his numerous jargons. I don't steal from people so it hurts me really bad when people steal from me. Even lying that he took his sick father to Ivory coast for treatment meaning that no more good hospitals in Nigeria at worst our neighbour Benin Rep. Things dey happen oh.

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    4. Why do you always keep money with people don't understand ?
      What are banks,fixed deposit,treasury bills and commercial papers for? You can do all this in your own country of residence or even do all this here so far you have a Nigerian account.
      I don't trust no one with my money. I invest my money myself.

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  6. When I was working in one of the GSM company,my best friend plaid Pamela and God revealed him.I was getting little pecks from contractor from their free will.I would call him and share it with Him.iremmber one December that I got bags of rice,i gave him without him being aware that they gave me.Na so e come go go tell managementbthat they should divide my position into two and only give me half to manage.They bought into his suggestion and recruited another person without my knowledge and without the CTO knowing too.Na so my pastor tell me say make I see conspiracy for my office and he prayed with me.guess what happened,the day the new guy resumed,the CTO no agree.he said he was fine with me handling the two positions together..My Pamela' friend position was now divided into two and one part given to the new guy.God fought my battle. He was just complaining and squizzing face everywhere while I pretended as if I know no wetin dey happen.lol!

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    1. How did you find out he was the person behind this?

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    2. After the plan backfired,someone in the know was shocked at the turn of events.he asked me to see him and he now told me what transpired

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  7. I'm someone that has always had good friendships. I'm not one of those that say I don't do besties. My best friend and I have been friends since we were 11. I have a tight group of friends we've all been friends since 10/11 in sec.sch. One thing that hasn't worked for me is new friends. The new friendship I tried forming didn't end up well and I was forewarned abt it. So I jejely stick to my day 1s I know inside out.

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    1. So you be small girl.....chai small girls full this blog ooo and they will be running their mouth like tap water

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  8. Cant wait to read all the 'I dont keep friends because bla bla bla' comments 🤣🤣🤣

    Me I keep friends biko and acquaintances sef. But I apply caution where necessary. Keep your boyfriend gist let me keep mine. Keep your secret, so I keep mine. If I dont ask for your opinion, please dont bring it. Dont follow me out cos I dont want to follow you out too. Drive your limousine let me drive my tuke-tuke. That way we can all be happy. If you dont give Pamela arrows, how would she fire? Gone are the days when I complain about anyone's attitude, maltreatment or backstabbing. If you tidy your space, there'll be no room for all that.

    Also, whenever I take time out from groove to fast and pray; i get specific instructions on how to handle people (esp slimy ones). There was a time I took time out to fast, and the very next day a friend called. As I wanted to pick the call (as usual), i heard it loud and clear that I should not pick up that person's call again. The person called everyday for one week and I didnt pick. I was certain that my spirit didnt accept me communicating with the person anymore. Two weeks later, i opened SDK blog and I knew why 🤣🤣 Ah! This God ehn... when He instructs you, just follow without asking plenty questions.

    Make una come help me ooooh... I never even commot for airport finish, taxi go hit person. What a warm welcome!! 🙄 Let me kukuma go and see what you people have done on SP 🚶‍♀️🚶‍♀️

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  9. My elder brother and sister were school drop out and I was the only graduate in my house now doing my Msc. All their actions is envy and jealousy with Pamela why?

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    1. Stop telling them your achievements. Even if you get a new job don't reveal your salary. Promotions keep it to yourself. That's the way to go. I hope you don't also form I'm an MSC holder to them.
      Sibling rivalry is real.
      I'm getting married soon at 32 its even late. And I have an aunt in her 40s that we grew up together that is still single.
      I try not to rub my wedding plans in her face. Cos I know it is smthn we were both wishing for. I'm watchful of what I say to her.

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  11. Yes oo. A lot of Pamela why everywhere? My people fear people who claim to be Christians...mmmmmmm. A certain Man of God was promoted and the first thing he does was try kill the career of a young colleague since another Pamela why reported the girl to him. Pamela whys everywhere #Fake Pastorclaiminggod# mmmmmcheeeew Nonsense and ingredients

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  12. Mine happened during my undergraduate days. I was willingly accommodating a friend not knowing she was an envious witch. I did almost everything for her. One day my pastor told me not to collect gift from anybody that somebody is trying to harm me by making me run mad and on the process of running mad, I will run out from the hostel and get hit by a fast moving vehicle and die. Funny enough, few hours later this so called friend gave me a gift and I remembered what my pastor said so I collected the gift and burnt it. This girl knowing I have found out who she was started tormenting me. She started appearing to me with her full regalia. I was able to conquer through prayers.

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  13. I don't have a close friend so no pamelP why for now...tho people have hurt and back stab me but none is Pamela"

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  14. I don’t have power to type

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  15. My Pamela why story: Her name is Peju. My husband's ex and she's now married with kids( reason I got close to her). My husband and I ran into her in a mall and she introduced her to me. Unfortunately, we live close to each other and I became friends with her and her family(husband didn't know once dated my oga). Hubby n I had marital crisis and babe would tell me "we are in this together" (I was telling her everything plus getting advice from her o). She will go to oga and tell him all I have told her plus jara. Her involvement almost ruined my home(her motive I still don't know). God eventually exposed her and since then, I'm a 1man army. Tell it to God, he's my burden bearer! Tankiu for reading

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    1. She must be a Libra

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    2. How can you be friends with your hubbys ex. Someone they have both fucked 😱😱😲😲

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    3. As a n your hubbys ex....are you sure your brain is functioning well

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    4. Not all exes had sex.

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    5. You no even friend her make you dey use your marriage pepper her. You were opening up to her!! I feel like God used it to teach you a lesson and I'm happy you learnt.

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  16. My Pamela, she snatched my sister hubby and pioneered my sack from office this year in abuja. A salary of 380k per month.she attended the sister first son dedication and married the hubby in 3yrs latter. I almost killed this lady but because of her pregnancy, the unborn child. Because I knew all her secret, she is not in any social media, that makes her a wicked one. I came to that office before her,shed was writing mails against me as man that I don't know the work o, the one I hav been doing since 4yrs before u came. Management key in her ugly suggestion o. Thank God I am back to my feet. I pray for grace to forgive her.at this buharria state. My pains is that we are both IBO's. High conspiracy. She is not here, because I go mention her name if she talk kpakam here.

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    1. Wetin you type like this??? Oh my eyes.

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    2. Abeg mention names. That is wickedness and witchcraft. Anon may God Almighty lift you up Amen

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    3. Salary of 380k with this English you constructed up there? Well deserved. We need more Pamela’s like her in this country. Nonsense

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  17. I had this acquaintance whose favourite past time was telling all her friends secrets. Anytime she comes to mine, she never discusses any other thing other than her friends and these are ladies I know very well. I won't lie, the things she told everyone about those women began to affect the way I perceived them as they now seemed very naked to me. What with the tales about their infidelities, she told me one was a lesbian and the husband a gay. That man happens to be a top government appointee. She d be in my house and when any of her friends call her on phone, she d put it on speaker so I can hear all they discussed. I didn't get what the kick was for her and I concluded it was just in her character to snitch on her friends. I knew better than keep such a person as a friend so when an opportunity came to kick her to the curb, I didn't waste time doing that before she starts dissecting me like she does others.

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    1. She has done that. You think you are free

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    2. You even sat down and listened to the phone convo?? If na me I will excuse you and once you are done I show you the door. What effrontery and invasion of people's privacy??!

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  18. Where do I start from, accommodated a so called friend when she had no where to stay. Took her once to see my ex and that was the end of that relationship. Guy went cold on me and I didn't know why.apparently Babe went behind my back to see him and spoilt my name. She eventually got pregnant and did introduction with the guy but wedding didn't hold. The guys sister confided in me, years later after avoiding Pamela she calls with a different number asking for forgiveness while blaming her actions on the devil and asking us to be friends again. Even if na jazz, I dodge am pass....told her off immediately.

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  19. use to have a friend when I was in secondary school, we both wanted to be doctors, I applied to UNN and she applied to Unizik, I didn't make the cut off point for my state Anambra students so I was given CBS. my friend got the medicine and I was so happy for her. my mum was very happy for her, her name changed to young doc, everyone loved her because she is really hardworking. my mu will give her foodstuff every weekend when she comes back (u know teachers and buying stuff in bulk). A year later I got medicine in far away north, I had to leave home and I lost my mum. After mum's burial we left that area but my friend was still my best friend in fact she was like a sister to me.Everyone in my extended family knew her. Then one day she called and was crying that she didn't buy handout and they said she won't write exams, that her parents told her to wait till the next week so they could raise the money but that by then it will be late. she was asking if I could lend her some money, I told her I had my school fees which my uncle gave me but that I won't need it till in three weeks time when school will be resuming. my dear people of God that was how I foolishly gave out my school fees with the hope that by next week it will be returned. Next week turned to three weeks, aunt stopped picking my calls,if I call with another number she will pick and drop it once she hears my voice. finally I had to go explain everything to my uncle that was when my uncle told me that whenever I go back to school, that aunt use to come visit him and his family and since she is my best friend that they alway use to give her money and that the least they have given her is 5k and aunt never told me not even for once that she visited them. Guess what I later found out that aunt was never even in school and didn't get admission into any medicine, no wonder she told me that she had accident on their matriculation day and was in the hospital so no need I coming. Some friends are something else'

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  20. I have experienced Pamela that almost took my life but I thank God for the gift of revelation and the still small voice that always help me out. Before she succeeded I had three different dreams which prompted to pray and asked God to reveal what was going on. In a broad day light , she confessed her plans and the evil she plotted returned back to her.
    The important thing is always follow people with open mind and be truthful. Also, know the stuff you dish out to people.

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  21. my best friends are loyal


    smiggle

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  22. Same thing happened at the big RCCG parish along alidada road, off ago palace way, okota, isolo, Lagos. This one was between 2 brothers, same father thougn not of same mother. It was a morning midweek service. Pastor goofed big time. A guy was called to the alter and pastor told him his brother was responsible for his condition. The guy lost his job. We all know anyone with a job won't be at midweek morning service. Pastor said his brother was the one responsible for his condition. The accused brother was also called out. Brothers started fighted right there in the church. Members were shocked. After seperating brothers, the accused brother said he wasn't the one responsible. Pastor changed gear and said the accused brother confided in the person responsible, who happens to be their aunty. I just weak. Some of these pastors wont kill somebody.

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  23. Just as God admonished us to love our physical enemies and those who persecute us physically, he encouraged spiritual warfare. Remember “ from the time of John the Baptist until now, the kingdom of God allows violence and only the violent in the spirit take it by force, Matthew 11:12. Remember the case Jesus said won’t go except by prayer and fasting, in other words being intense and intentional in the spirit, Mathew 17:22. Ahab and jezebel had empowered all the prophets of Baal and children of God and his genuine prophets were either murdered or in hiding and even Elijah was having mood issues according to bible scholars. Remember where he prayed that God should take him because he wasn’t better than his fathers! A man that singlehandedly mobilized God’s judgement on the evil prophets (people); that shut the heavens for 3 years with his heaven backed word? Ahab upon his wife’s encouragement TOOK Naboth’s ancestral vineyard by having him killed physically but the problem in Israel was both spiritual and physical and evil was in charge because Baal was in charge in form of jezebel and Ahab, This is for those who say why pray for your enemy to die. It’s spiritually, not necessarily physically. You can carry the spirit of God, and you can decide to carry evil or Pamela-why spirits. It is the evil spirit that the greatest and only Psalmist David and Dr Olukoya’s model of prayers command to die or be dismantled or rendered ineffective not the carriers. Remember psalm 35, “contend Oh Lord with those contending with me”, etc. However remember the “legion” cast out by Jesus himself. They went to a herd of swine or pigs and while possessing the pigs drove them into destruction in a river. John the Baptist was Jesus forerunner but his enemy cut his head and gave it as a present to each other. That will not be our portion in Jesus Name, Amen. People are spiritual beings and while we don’t pray or wish anyone dead, there are people who speak words like “over my dead body will this person make it”. Make sure you don’t say things like that because when that “over my dead body spirit is defeated by the Holy Spirit, the “Pamela-why”may be in trouble. Elijah executed 300 prophets Of Baal enabled by Jezebel’s evil, Jehu and his army, executed God’s judgement on Jezebel

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  24. Continuation....

    Whether you agree or not, there are spiritual troublers and there are physical carriers of those troublers of Nigeria right now. That is why the minimum wage is $50 but some people use taxpayers money to send their families all over the word and do nothing but take $millions. A senator showed his garage with at least 2 Ferrari cars, a Lamborghini etc, enough to feed his constituents for a year! Like Israel of the Old Testament when God decides to execute judgement on Nigeria some will not escape because of the blood of innocent people they have shed and not repented that has been crying to God. Why people are quick to believe Malachi not the early part that tells men to take care of their wives that their prayer may be answered but the money �� part, but discard spiritual warfare and become dependent on Pastors beats me. Spiritual warfare is a DIY project of every genuine child of God, I didn’t even know what my pastor looked like for 4 years as we sat in the extension outside in mfm and in those days he didn’t put his picture and that of his wife out there. It was and still is about God defeating every enemy, pulling strongholds down since Jesus already spoiled principalities and powers, disgracing them openly and triumphing over them in it. It’s about Jesus, not any human vessel but in spiritual warfare, human evil vessels can become casualties of the Holy Spirit if they stand in His way. Pamela is a human name that basically means sweetness but “Pamela-why” is evil disguised as friend or good. This isn’t about a denomination that I rarely attended for most of my Christian life and still rarely attend but the truth. Read the psalms, the loud cry of an oppressed heart to God. It’s not Proprietary to any denomination. It’s the cry of most physically hungry Nigerians, most educated but unemployed or underemployed Nigerians in the midst of opulent displays of stolen wealth. Our traitors or “Pamela-why’s “ are first the ruling corrupt elites including corrupt pastors and the masses that harbor so much envy and hatred to each other to pull their friends down using evil powers and Machiavellian office or family evil machinations

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    1. You have ministered to me.Thank you

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