Wednesday, September 19, 2018
Tunde Ednut's Advice To Men And Women Clocking 35 Years Without A Child
Nigerian singer and entertainer, Tunde Ednut has taken to his Insta story to advice his fans to either get married or have a child at 35, he stressed that time was going by fast ......hmmmmmm
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Tunde!!! Tunde
ReplyDeleteNigerian Artist and blogger😂😂😂😂
And is Tunde married?????????
DeleteHe has a point though.
ReplyDeleteBut, not everyone wants to have kids.
Not everyone wants what you want .
We must learn to drink water and mind our business.
That is why he said this advice is not for everyone
DeleteIs he following his advice though. Because Tunde I'm seeing up there shld be nothing less than 38.
DeleteThank u @ Bed n Roses
DeleteSome that is also uncle gwegwe
Dishing advice 😏😏😏😏😏😏😏
Fine boy wey get agbero voice
I'll read comments
ReplyDeleteYou people should stop all this and let us live our lives the way we please.
ReplyDeleteLet him go and sit down. That is not God's plan and everybody must not marry or have a child. That people are celebrating pregnancy outside wedlock does not make it right. The only thing worth striving for in this life is heaven.
ReplyDeleteNot everybody believe in God you know.
DeleteGod must really be losing sleep because you don't believe in him.
DeleteIt works for some people but not everyone. Having watched my elder sister go through menopause without a child of hers but lots of money, top positions career wise and lots of properties, I opted for single parenthood. My baby is 11 Months old now and guess what I just got engaged to one hot super loaded dude, ofcourse he is single, its just a very high risk i took though at 37 years old. I won't advice anyone to do that if you don't have financial and emotional backup, fear of menopause caused mine. I am just lucky to find love again.
ReplyDeleteSo while you’re supposed to be breastfeeding your baby and healing from one broken relationship you’re already fucking another man with breast milk? Disgusting
DeleteGood for you,I'm happy it worked out fine for you. I don't agree to Tunde's ideology of just opting for single parenthood at 35 I feel that age is still too young for that. Reason being a know 35,36,37 that have found love and gotten married to good men and gone on to have a family.
DeleteI feel maybe from 40 upwards you may start considering that just because of the challenges medically of conceiving after 40. Don't put ppl in their 30s who can still find love under this single parent ish. Unless offcourse it's their choice to tow that path.
11:53 you must be an idiot where did I write i am healing from a broken relationship and where did I write I am fucking . You are very stupid. This is my life, go find your own and live. People like you that judge others have very miserable lives. Imbecile!!!
DeletePeople want others to be miserable so bad . Anon 11:53, you have such a bitter soul...
DeleteCongratulations Poster. I’m happy you got your child and now your man. A woman can get a man at almost any age, esp when she’s got her finances sorted but childbearing time is limited. I really commend you
Fear is a terrible and wrong reason to make any decision
DeleteFear breeds desperation, impatience and unnecessary pressure
Ooorrr...
ReplyDelete....those that missed their 1st good apple, now selecting to find someone to match their lose, yimu... You know how you find a good man and u somehow stupidly believe theres a better one with better account balance, then u dump him to see we've been lied to all our life about that perfect man, see u see 35yrs.
ReplyDeleteHe has a point but social media warrior will insult him for daring to say something sensible.
ReplyDeleteAll those still in their twenties claiming not everyone want a child or a husband, please, always read Stella anonymous nigh post.... Its always easy to say now but after ten years, y'all will be regretting and feeling sad and dejected because of the fear of being alone.
Hmmmmmm,end time advice from tunde edit to be followed by end time people,so when the person have a hold out of wedlock because of time is not on their side ,I hope that child will secure their ticket to heaven,what happens to adoption?ok if no money for adoption why not save for it?May God deliver Africans from their way of life and thinking
DeleteTrue talk! Even companionship. Have all the money in the world and have no one to rub mind with na die be that.
DeleteThey will not listen to him now, better have your child now o, before you turn to that chronicle poster that was looking for love and companionship from her adopted daughter, she was even going to cut her off if she wasn’t going to treat her like her mother, companionship is very important
DeleteBeing lonely and not having a companion will not secure your gate ticket to heaven too!
DeleteAfrican thinking is always irritating to you guys until you mingle with the real Caucasians and see they are not that different but, just well packaged.
As for me, I love having a man in my life, I love marriage and I love children and everything that I love, I will have. I will not be ashamed to say it in a public forum.
Most of you are bitter because what you so wish for, you can't say it freely because you like to put up a good front and dance along the bandwagon.
Believe it or not but not everyone wants a child or wants to get married. Try and speak for yourself the way those people spoke for themselves.
ReplyDeleteAnd tunde isn't married and dosent have a child yet, and I'm sure he is above 35...Hmmm 🤔🤔🤔
ReplyDeleteHe already replied someone on his page, he said he's working on it
DeleteWhy would anyone not want to have a child????
ReplyDeleteGo and ask Oprah 😁
DeleteWord! He's so Wright. Husband or no horseband just get yourself child/children once the age is no longer by your side. Children are the best companion at old age. "Nkem bu nkem, nkeanyi bu nkeanyi" says my people. Meaning my own is my own and our own is our own. He that have ears let him hear!
ReplyDeleteYour advice is good for ladies that are financially okay not for someone that doesn't have her own money🏃🏃🏃
DeleteLeave God to do His work in people Mr Tunde!
ReplyDeletethey have heard you, Oya give them some hit
ReplyDeleteNigerians
ReplyDeleteThey always have the best advice for everyone except themselves.
Always have the best solution to other people's problems.
Always see the speck in their brother's eye before the log in theirs.
Are you single? They have advice for you. Haff you marry? They have advice for you. Tunde the advisor. Lmao.
I've been avoiding commenting on this post because its a sensitive topic,almost dashed to his page to say it as it is in my mind but on a second thought it's his opinion.
ReplyDeleteThe end of the matter is that there is no marriage in heaven..Everything we do or hustle for ends here on earth.
Apostle Paul said paraphrased "If you can stay single like him pls do,if you can't then instead of burning pls marry".
Burning here means "burning with desires" in other words instead of fornicating pls marry.
The purpose of our creation is to give God pleasure.Wether you marry or don't marry,have kids or not if you don't give God pleasure na hell fire sure pass.
The moment we carry eternity consciousness(for those who believe in it) public opinion/world standards will mean little to you.
There is nothing wrong in being married or desiring to marry but don't make it look like people who are not or don't want to get married are not whole.Someone once told me "na marriage dey reign now" her desperation to get married is on another level because she is 31 and "time is not on her side".(She also can't take care of herself talk more of a baby).God forbids she gets to 35 and there's no man or baby then depression sets in because in Tunde Ednuts standard of life, something is wrong with her.SMH
The last time i checked Mother Theresa wasn't married but we still hear about her today.
What are you living for?? What will you be remembered for??
God bless you
DeleteAll I hear in this part of the world is Marry and born.. is that all there is to life? If one can't born biologically, what ever happened to adoption? Abi those that adopt no follow for parenthood..? Just asking o
ReplyDeleteBuzz off Ednut. Just be grateful for life. Live. Laugh. Love. Enjoy every day you have been blessed with. Married or single. Kids or no kids.
ReplyDeleteIt is well...a lot of people are looking unto God for a life partner and a lot of people are looking unto God for children. Despite their age, they still belive God answers prayers. At God's appointed time, people will marry and have kids. Don't comman give people HBP
ReplyDeleteThe enemy's voice is always laden with pressure and fear. Don't fall for it. If you aspire to marriage and already have a partner, by all means go for it. If you do but are still single, keep praying and preparing yourself - that's all there is to it. The pressure traps set by the world are real and many fall into it everyday with dire consequences. How many have married because of fear of approaching 35 and are unhappy? Miserable? Regretful? I know better than to live my life by man's standards. God has the final say.
ReplyDeletewho asked him? worried about everything else but his life and dead career
ReplyDeleteI don't understand this pressure of you are not married at so so age have a child!!! I am 42 and not married, because I would rather be single and happy!!! Than go and do things on my own and be sad!!! I look 28 at 42!!! If you try to help God , then get ready for the consequences!!! I am happyily single and when I tie the knots, I will still come here to praise God!!! I have lived all around the world and back in Nigeria 🇳🇬, its only in Nigeria you hear rubbish talks like this!!!
ReplyDeleteLike Epitslegang said above, live for Christ and eternity!!! If you burn with desire , then marry!!! Marriage is heaven on earth with the right person!!! I live alone and can travel anywhere I want as I work as a consultant!!! I would rather have a child in a proper marriage setting, than put myself under stress!!! If the norm is for single people over 35 to start having kids indiscriminately because they are over 35, are you going to help them cater and feed the kids, you are encouraging them to have!!!
I love SDK because she promotes morality and proper family setting, she builds around her blog!!! I have even had to thank God for the terrible gold digging men who were after my social status!!! I will not and can never have a child for a man that I don't respect and can't be submissive to !!!I just discovered that I was not ready for marriage until I clocked 40, and now I know what I want in a Man, not any awarawun!!! Is all in God's hand!!! I am not under pressure and no one can even dare put me under pressure after all I have been through with hungry men!!!there are still good God fearing men out there though, so Shalom!!!
Loud it
DeleteIf you have the money, get your egg harvested and frozen. . I say this with the heart of love. So when you want kids, you’ll be able to easily have yours.
DeleteWhen my son was about to start chemo treatment, the doctors over here harvested his cos such treatement can cause early onset infertility and he might want to have a child of his own someday.
You may or may not use it but at least, you will have the option to. It is God that gave man the knowledge to make this possible...
Thank you for your advice, I understand you and well read!!! Everyone according to their measure of faith !!! Sarah did not freeze her eggs, so my dear I will do just fine!!! I know where I am going, people with kids still end up in old people's home!!!
DeleteA lot of ladies do not need husband. That's why when Stella posts SnM, only 3 ladies post. The same ladies will be dancing atilogwu, sekem, skelewu on traditional marriage day if their silent prayer of husband is answered. I can translate women into simple language. The ones wey talk say dem no send marriage na bc Dem no get prospect. Pele o. You can feel the pain on their face when you see them.
ReplyDeleteFor BV SDKs, marriage no mean anything. But we and una go dey drag space for SnM. Denial is bad. Inside inside una dey cry for night on top no husband matter.
ReplyDeleteBe too busy living your life not have time to live that of others
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