A BV sent me this photo of Diddy's ex Cassie and was ''Hmmmmmm-ing'' because she wished him Happy Birthday so nicely...
I told her that the Mentality of women outside Nigeria is so different.....
She used his photo and called him King despite the fact that they are no longer together...How many of you can wish your ex well like this and more?
My question is directed at both gender............
Prince Harry's ex attended his wedding,how many of you can do so without feeling 'somehow''?
When you genuinely care(d) about someone,it doesn't just stop because the Relationship went South!
Who is for my School of thought or against it?What kind of mindset do you have concerning issues like this?
I can wish my ex well but that doesn’t mean I will still have something to be angry with him.
ReplyDeleteNo big deal about this nah...a lot of people even among Nigerian celebrities do this daily. One may only avoid wishing their ex well on their birthday if the relationship was a toxic one.
DeleteDiddy is a King na. U know how much he spent on Cassie? It depends on the ex as well..not all those bats and cockroaches that used to flock around someone.
DeleteBye bye to jatijati..who u epp?!!
DeleteI think it depends on what transpired. . I'd always wish my ex so much pain as a result of what he did to me.. The lies. the pain and he kept forming saint
DeleteThank God I'm over him but if I'm to wish him something, it's definitely bad... Like painful death and so on
😅😅😅😅 He must have been a terrible boyfriend. You are still bitter. I pray you heal well and fully from the heartbreak
DeleteI'm a child of God but if I wasnt, my swear must catch him. Men think they have the right to be breaking hearts anyhow. I for knack pigeon for his head and family head and they will never progress and suffer till they die
DeleteIs only when you have one ex that you can think of wishing good or bad.. I have more than 5 exes,where will I start from
DeleteI wish my Ex's well
Deleteas for me o, ex is past abeg. i dont revisit old ways . i aint wishing no ex a happy anything
ReplyDeleteMe and you dey the same whatsapp group abeg, I no fit shout oh.
DeleteLemme read comments and learn one or two things sha
Ex is in the past, and even though we're not enemies, I don't believe in being friends with an ex. What's the point? Will just be a source of distraction.
DeleteAny relationship I can't discuss with my significant other, for me, is an affair.
Of what value is that to my life.
If you wish your Ex a happy birthday it simple means that you want him/her back. @Giveaway Princess
ReplyDeleteyour opinion though. but i think is wrong
DeleteGod bless u ooo... then Omo guy will be feeling big that this babe is still wallowing..
DeleteAs for me, i won't attend his wedding or send him birthday wishes on social media 🤷
ReplyDeleteLMAO 😁😀😁
DeleteEwooooo, that means I am not in this world ooooo.my Ex attended my wedding.came to my house to greet my hubby after wedding, Helped me deliver some of the things we left in my village after my TM.have been sending me gift each time that I give birthday.He invited us over to his base during my honeymoon but we couldn't make it.my Hubby buys things from him,and I refer people to buy things from him cos he is into importation but base "in the abroad".I still receive deliveries of my favourite biscuites each time he comes to Nigeria without me knowing.We still make joke of each other whenever we jam on social media(like Oga,Agu, nwannaa, agadiekwenka, mama 3)....And no , we are not in any way dating or still in love....he is like a bros to me or probably can't explain it.Thank God my hubby is in that school of thought too.
Delete@ lucile, i hope if ur husband’s ex too sends him “his favourite biscuits” and invites u ppl to her base, u won’t feel bad. U ppl, should not start what u cannot finish.
DeleteI hope so too. This one that hubby also concurs. I hope all is well. But what do we know
DeleteI am not wishing any ex anything, my ex was very close to my mum, when she passed, he called and got tired of calling, i DIDNT PICK O, EVEN HIS MUM CALLED TO SAY I SHOULD PICK NU, I SAID OKAY AND DIDN'T PICK. I no call u, I no send text, I unfriend and unfollow, that's me.mKAE UNA NOR VEX.
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DeleteI can't fit. I'm emotionally invested in most of my relationships tho my past ones we had closure and still friendly to an extent but to show face in your event or display you hmmm. I rather mind my business.
ReplyDeleteIt depends on how we broke up. If it's that randy ibuzor guy, there's no way I'm wishing him anything on his birthday.
ReplyDeleteWetin ibuzor guy do u,chai my people oo
DeleteExactly. It all depends on how we broke up.
Delete@Eka wetin the randy Ibuzor guy did to you? Please spill.'amebo na work' @Giveaway Princess
Deleteibuzor guys. randy and 419
DeleteI don't have an ex; had the only courtship with my beloved whom I married. I said yes the very day he proposed.
ReplyDeleteBut wetin Stella dey yarn this morning; this one no be for most Nigerian girls? If Ex, promised marriage and legs parted asunder, im come drill dump, the thing go hard o.
The chronicle lines go sound like; "The beast scored goal . . . I aborted three times for him . . . he raped and dumped me . . ."
How e come be rape and Who dey rape to keep bikonu?
Sanctimonous bitch! If your christianity is the only one there is, it's better i go and start serving tree in my village.
DeleteU nor dey tire to dey yarn the same thing? Are u a broken gramophone that keeps repeating one line? Are you a man or a woman or a wo? Its gets absolutely irritating reading this ur stupid drill borehole r suffocate babies every single post.
DeleteDont bother coming back at me. I don't visit old posts.
Were you supposed to say the yes 10days after he proposed aunty holy and all righteous
DeletePlease I am not "auntie holy". I was a sinner saved by the Grace of God. If you repent and turn away from your sins, Jesus will forgive and save you. I do not expect everybody to like me seeing that not everybody loved Jesus: John 7:7 The world cannot hate you, but it hates me because I testify that its works are evil.
DeleteSeconded. I am still friends with most of my ex. I was even part of one of my ex's groomsmen and my friends were like uhhhhh and ahhhh, Wetin concern me. Because our relationship didn't work out doesn't mean we aren't cool with each other.
ReplyDeleteAbeg make we talk true....nah naija wey we dey abeg oyibo life different from our own... I wouldn't wanna wish an ex happy birthday on my page or timeline, that doesn't mean I don't wish him well. An ex should remain where he belong abeg.
ReplyDeleteI don't have an ex, if i break up with you, I don't know you.
ReplyDeleteHehehehe yes ooooo
DeleteLol... I need adopt this.. no time mehn
DeleteEwoo!!!, you dey vex oh
DeleteNaso Anon! 👍🏽If I am not good enough to be in relationship with you, I believe you are also not good enough and worthy to be a friend. FINITO!
DeleteI agree, all this mumu friendship after breaking up is what gave birth to okafor’s law.
DeleteAm in same boat with you
DeleteAnon13:20. Love your style. Hahaha
DeleteNigerian women are just too bitter and vengeful! Black Widow Spiders, the lot of them! Tueh!!
ReplyDeleteI think most times it depends on how the relationship ended. And you know how most ladies are. Women can keep malice for Africa!
ReplyDeleteI've never experienced heart break in relationship. I did the dumping and they did the begging.. In the end, cos they are guys, they forgive easily and it makes staying in touch, wishing them well et al easier..
Abeg everybody should move on with their life jor, we don't need to still be in eachother's life abeg.
ReplyDeleteExcept in a situation that can't be helped.
Hmmm Interesting Let Me Just Read Comments Today
ReplyDeleteJeze he is an ex for a good reason. Let him remain Xed . That is the long and short of it. Case cose. Book close . moving on
ReplyDeleteI cannot wish someone who tried to kill me and destroy my life well. My priority is my life and sanity. I hold no grudges and will not curse you but I will not bless you either. Let us all face our front.
ReplyDeleteAbi oo my sister or brother,my ex milk me dry with my small salary, some men can lie sha he dey hospital he needs money not once or twice up to 6times in a year relationship,he dey do contract dem never pay and funny enough I knew he was telling lies there was something about him I just couldn't place my fingers,he still dey call dey beg if I wish am hbd he go think say I don forgive am hahaha
DeletePls is your ex name start with N, and PH based.
DeleteI be get one ex with same behaviour till I cut him off. How I hate men that feed on women.
It would never happen. No bad blood though but imagine someone breaking up without any reason/explanation. It's crazy and emotionally hurtful.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry. Time heals
DeleteMy ex was so inhuman, dated me five years acted like I was his life, only to find out he was married with kids abroad. He wasted my time. I wished him well butt can't share him on my timeline. We both have moved on.
ReplyDeleteYou should have given his name to queen and boss
DeleteWhat is ex?
ReplyDeleteMay you live long Anon 13:23! I am like Bianca Ojukwu. Exes are not recognised. I did not flaunt you. No photos. No videos. You are just another SM friend or acquaintance and I don't post birthday wishes even for my husband and children. I wish them well at home. Finito. Just once in a while for certain FB friends. You will just be arguing with your psychiatrist if you want me to acknowledge you as an ex. Femi Fani-Kayode is still trying to prove that he once dated Bianca in College. Bianca asked him to provide just one photo of the two of them together. FFK is still looking for it. If you're not my husband, I didn't date you mbok. I enjoy my sweet memories alone. Ex ko. Ex ni.
ReplyDeletelol @ arguing wt ur Psychiatrist. BVs wee not kee sombori. So what if ur husband asks about ur ex nko? What will tell him na?
DeleteAmebonawok, Bianca is a liar and even Kemi Olunloyo confirmed it. All of them schooled together abroad and Bianca even aborted for him when he said his family does not support their union. That's why she vowed never to date any young man again and married Ojukwu bcos of d heart break. FFK is Bianca's ex. She is just lying.
DeleteToday is my birthday and the first person to call me to wish me a happy birthday is an EX, it does not mean,I wish my EX well o, no matter what........... maybe when i get married sha
ReplyDeleteI have an ex that doesn't even remember my birthday but I still wish him a happy birthday every year. We are still friends. He even gave me a huge amount when I got married. We are cool. If we parted ways with quarrel,I won't wish you anything.
ReplyDeleteI still wishes my ex Happy birthday... It doesn't mean i still have feelings for him in anyway
ReplyDeleteI have an ex. I'm married, he is married. We are both friendly towards each other and that's it. He wishes me so well on my birthday and so do I. I got married before him and I attended his wedding. Infact, his sisters made sure I attended. No hard feelings . Pure love. We still love each other though...story for another day.
ReplyDeleteThe truth is that men have this funny mentality. Once you are nice or polite they feel you 'fancy' them. He will even brag about your polite post to his friends that anytime he wants you he can get you. Me I won't attend any event of an ex or send any greetings.
ReplyDeleteStella it’s not about people outside Nigeria. I have lived in the UK all my life and I will not wish my ex anything. My white friends too don’t wish anybody anything. Only one of Harry’s exes came to his wedding, what happened to the 99 others?
ReplyDeleteI can't wish him well,the emotional abuse and all,wasted years,I wish him what he wishes me..
ReplyDeleteNo big deal. My ex and i are still good friends. I even attended her wedding and child naming ceremony.
ReplyDeleteWhich one is the mentality of Nigerians?
ReplyDeleteI work in the same company with my ex.... we are both married now and super cordial with each other... i can definitely wish him a happy birthday but i actually don't remember his date of birth.
ReplyDeleteAs a matter of fact i am in good terms with all my exes... well they are just 2 of them so its easy to keep up..
It just occurred to me that my husband does not know i work in the same establishment with Mr. ex... is it necessary i tell him??
No please don’t , I am a guy and if I know my wife work in the same place with her ex she did be resigning next day. I don’t want to hear stories that touch.
DeleteEhn, tell him na,
Deletesince your mouth is scratching you like fungus, teller.
When he demands you resign because of it and dry garri becomes your best friend you will receive your sense in arrears.
'ehn, shulai tell im, ehn...shulai not?' opening mouth like hyena.
@ Anonymous 20:43 - you must not show how razz and classless you are.. just imagine the words and anger you used on someone you know nothing about.
Deleteno offense to the female folks, but i bet you are female... try and read the decent response from the guy above you and learn some manners.
In you attempt to sound "savage" you ended up showing how shallow your upbringing is. Parents should do better.. Because, be you male or female it will only take God's miracle for you end up with a polished human.
Mentality is not entitled to race,country etc please!!!!
ReplyDeletena real wah
ReplyDeleteI can never wish an ex well especially the recent one, treated me like trash, wasn't proud of me, now he has a girl I know am finer than, flaunting her up and down, till today I really don't know what I did to that guy for him to hate me so much to the extent of wanting to kill me after breaking up with me,now he has moved on like I never existed, it still hurts tho because I have his on instagram and they keep flaunting him and his new girl everywhere, I can never wish him well especially not now that he has moved on, to think that just last year he was everywhere being bitter about me, I wish I can move on like that too, but shit happens, I will get over it
ReplyDeleteYou better get over him and move forward with your life, while moving on, make sure you go along with your self esteem.
DeleteMove on jare.. stop checking his pix abeg u will be hurting urself.. just pretend he is dead
Delete*friends
DeleteYes darl, you'll get over it! Time heals all wounds.
DeleteIf you're a tech lover, you might want to try learning web design, programming or SEO (You'd be amazed at how these things work) trust me,within a week you'll forget the loser!
You'd be so proud of you, if you can learn any of those. Tech is the NOW!
You didn't do anything. Thats a narcissistic trait. Once they get someone new they discard the old one even if you were goood tp them
Delete. Dont fret about the new girl because she doesn't know him yet give it time he will also discard her. Its nothing to deal with you they just can never be satisfied
18:51, please how do I learn? Should I go to school? Or online resources.
DeleteMy Ex broke my heart, but if I still see him I will wish him well. Capt Cyril, well done sir
ReplyDeleteCant wiah my ex well.I already dwore for him naked with bittercola .He cant ever do well in this life .I heard things re rough for him now .I sent him a message if he likes he should go for 41 days prayer nothing will work till he appologises to me.
ReplyDeleteWhat did he do to you that is beyound forgiveness?
DeleteCelystar
Can we stop this mentality of women outside Nigeria story? Its about the individual.....bitter ex's are everywhere biko
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