STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
CHRONICLES OF A NIGERIAN WOMAN
Dear Stella,
Please I need the advice of you and fellow blog visitors.
Here's the issue; I relocated abroad some years back and I have been trying to get into a relationship. The first guy was matched with me through a mutual friend. The lady is a close friend of mine but an acquaintance of his. On our first date, he told me he can only marry a woman who is open to back door sex. I was shocked, I had never discussed back door sex with a guy before and this much info on a first date! I guess he didn't want to waste his time. Anyway, I should have walked away but I figured if things went well between us, I could convince him to forget about it. I kept seeing for a while and shortly after, I saw all the signs of a closet gay. At first I didn't even understand what I was seeing but as I raised my concerns with my friend she it was who understood and asked me to run.
I thereafter went online in my quest for love, the next guy I met, a fellow African immigrant, we talked for a while and decided to meet in person a couple of weeks later. On our second date, I asked him about his sexual expectations; if he had any unusual expectations-I had my last experience in mind and didn't want to waste my time. He told me he only enjoyed back door sex so he wants a woman who likes it. I was shocked-again, this was almost worse than the last guy. It's just that this one was into women, not on the downlow. As expected, I never saw him again.
A few months later, I met another African immigrant, we dated for a while but when we made love-twice, he asked for back door sex, I said never. He didn't insist but when we made love he tried to finger my back door hole. I was disgusted and kept pushing his finger away. By the second time, I had, had enough and I stopped seeing him. Almost a year later I met another African, he asked for back door sex at the beginning of the relationship but didn't insist when I declined. We had a good relationship but it ended when I discovered he was grooming a smallie in his country for marriage.
Now to my current situation, I noticed a guy at work-in a different department but he would always stare at me. Anyway, after a couple of months, we began exchanging greetings and eventually, we started dating. I was reluctant; he is from the Caribbean and they are notorious for baby Mamas, promiscuity, laziness and almost everything negative so I just wasn't keen about it but he didn't give up. He pursued me until I decided to give it a try. I said no sex and he acquiesced, I was surprised; a Caribbean man agreeing to a no sex relationship! Anyway, eventually this guy earned my trust, he actually fell in love with me, I could hardly believe it.
We have been seeing for a while but all we have done is kiss. I then decided it was time to go all the way with him before he goes cheating. So we had to have the sex talk and like the other guys, and even more so, he said he wanted occasional threesomes, I said not gonna happen, he wanted back door s#x, I said never, he told me he liked to finger back door hole-just this past Thursday, I was disgusted once again but decided to play it cool by just saying hmmmnn, so it doesn't seem I'm being too uncompromising. The plan was then set in motion; we would spend the last weekend together. I was so happy and excited and looked forward to Friday evening only for him to send me a text in the morning asking if I would allow him lick my back door hole. That was it for me, I retched and almost fell sick.
Memories came flooding; each time we kissed I had a terrible sore throat and cough thereafter. The first night was particularly bad, I woke up at night with a burning throat, my throat felt swollen and on fire I thought it was an allergic reaction but couldn't figure out what I had exposed myself to, it was after the second incident that I knew it was his kiss that caused it. A google search made me understand that I was being exposed to bacteria that my body wasn't accustomed to and that eventually I will develop an immunity to it. The pains and sore throat reduced eventually but never quite stopped but now I know what I had been exposing myself to; germs from another woman's back door! I replied telling him of my throat and mouth infection every time we kissed, despite the fact that I rush to brush as soon as we part, I always still had a reaction.
He didn't reply and we haven't spoken since then. I most certainly can't date someone who sees threesomes, back door s#x and licking back door holes as normal. I am sad because I also fell in love with this guy and we have actually started discussing our future together.
My questions are: is this the way the world is now? Men now prefer the an#s to the vayjay?? Please I need to understand this as I wasn't a virgin before I left home but no man ever suggested back door s#x or went near it for that matter but 5 guys in a row??? Is it because it is abroad or is it also happening in Nigeria? This is a very worrisome trend and I have no intention of compromising. I await your input.
My questions are: is this the way the world is now? Men now prefer the an#s to the vayjay?? Please I need to understand this as I wasn't a virgin before I left home but no man ever suggested back door s#x or went near it for that matter but 5 guys in a row??? Is it because it is abroad or is it also happening in Nigeria? This is a very worrisome trend and I have no intention of compromising. I await your input.
*I dont have an input on this and reading this really really really really really really really really disgusted me....JEEZZZZZ!!
What kinda disgusting chronicle is this on Christmas day naaa... Backdoor sex just dey rush you anyhow. Why now? I think you should go for deliverance o. Anybisyvthat cums through the backdoor is a thief. Poster go for deliverance and stop opening your legs and backdoor for fuck boys biko
ReplyDeleteWhile going for deliverance to the right person is good, it does not suffice if the person is not willing to follow the deliverer; Jesus.
DeleteIf she goes to deliverance and simply continue to live outside of God, fornicate etc. she will end up worse.
Follow it up with reading the word of God and associating with God's people.
Anybody*
Deletehehehe no be small back door they rush poster. such things are rare in Nigeria but very rampant over there. I think you should be where people who have same ideology with you are. if not for work or what ever you are doing there I would have said come back and you might find the one here
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DeleteMadam poster, you are only attracting your kind...mtcheew
DeleteTruthfully speaking, poster, your case get as e be. Are you the only female abroad? And why do all the men you meet ask for backyard abi na back door?
DeleteI seriously want to say it's the way you present yourself conversation wise.
You may make them believe you are open to anything. Humans are very prone to exploring things sexually when they get to a certain stage but it's left to the other party to let them know the limit and that I guess will put a stop.
I'm also abroad, single and willing to mingle and I get asked out a lot but I wouldn't go thinking sex will be involved right from the start and all these ass talk don't even come out.
You hold the ace and you decide what you want.
Ok ππ»
DeleteAny man that is having thoughts or demanded for Anal sex is definitely a potential butt pirate! A woman that enjoys anal sex is a potential BDSM sicko! We have a lot twisted and demented souls walking around with crazy sexual fantasies...To the Chronicle author, try and change the type of people you mix with...it might help.
DeleteVery disgusting
DeleteWhat sort of chronicles is this biko. Where do you meet all this sickos from.
DeleteHow old are you dear. You need to relax on this your quest for a man. It seems they smell your desperation for love.
Sex is smthn that happens naturally when you have fallen in love with someone. Not smthn to be even discussed, it just comes naturally when you meet a good man...... these one are not good men abeg. Just men with sexual itch.
Pls just relax. Study their characters and sex will follow when you fall in love.
@Beds and Roses
DeleteReally?
"Good men' according to your definition just meet a girl and naturally have sex with her, no marriage?
So how many "good men" have you had sex with?
Marriage is not for everybody and nobody has a right to dictate to the other whether to have sex or not cos sex is a personal choice anon. Sin or no sin, only God has the right to judge and punish accordingly.
DeleteDear Poster,
DeleteI went through the 97 comments and I guessed you must have been confused,no practical solution nor advice to your predicament.It is unfortunate.
You want to know if butt sex is the in thing now. There are facts you need to know. In this world,you need to define who you are. Gayism and Lesbianism is on the right, some are even being feature in films and cartoons. In the next few years,it will be normal.
I still remember when guys started wearing earrings and plaiting their hairs in Nigeria.It was a big war but today,it is normal.Their is nothing wrong with and their are no village people on your matter. Don't compromise who you are and do keep the conversation open when it comes to sexuality,you can those you will meet online before meeting them in person. You are 100% right by asking during the first date.
Their is no elastic at d butt,it cannot contract and relax like d front,dt is why d butt is not ideal and their is reason d front is wet,it is because of friction,so as to allow free thrusting.You are right,butt is not good,unhygienic and doesn't support life.Believe in what you know and stick to it,your own will come.
Segun
Ur pussy Don work money complete for Nigeria.
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DeleteDear Poster,
I went through the 97 comments and I guessed you must have been confused,no practical solution nor advice to your predicament.It is unfortunate.
You want to know if butt sex is the in thing now. There are facts you need to know. In this world,you need to define who you are. Gayism and Lesbianism is on the right, some are even being feature in films and cartoons. In the next few years,it will be normal.
I still remember when guys started wearing earrings and plaiting their hairs in Nigeria.It was a big war but today,it is normal.Their is nothing wrong with and their are no village people on your matter. Don't compromise who you are and do keep the conversation open when it comes to sexuality,you can those you will meet online before meeting them in person. You are 100% right by asking during the first date.
Their is no elastic at d butt,it cannot contract and relax like d front,dt is why d butt is not ideal and their is reason d front is wet,it is because of friction,so as to allow free thrusting.You are right,butt is not good,unhygienic and doesn't support life.Believe in what you know and stick to it,your own will come.
Segun
I live abroad and I too am in the dating scene... I have never, I repeat never been asked by anyone for anal sex so it must be a vibe that this poster gives. Me i dont understand this one abeg.. I have also done Internet dating.. Yes there are weirdos but no one has ever asked me for a threesome or even gone as far as saying they want to finger my arse or even want a threesome. In having conversations with these people. MAybe u give off these vibes because I can't understand why everyone u meet wants to bang ur arse. Na wa o.
DeleteOpin aiye ti dee
ReplyDeleteHian, the quest for anal ehn, eww.
ReplyDeleteMen who swing both ways always request for anal, their women will think they just love it, tomu, your man is a bi. Just calm for now..leave man matter n focus.
Every girl is now saying they dont do anal, so who are those girls that love it or have tried it
DeleteI'm a big booty babe and ive done it.
DeleteThe first time was so painful, i stopped him half way, cus i didnt anticipate the pain, i told him it'd never happen again but he insisted, so the next time i made sure i reserved shit inside there waiting for him, as we started na, i was forcing shit out but it wasnt coming, just fart coming out, smelling ones but this dirty guy didnt stop oh, it seemed to turn him on more sef, so the room started smelling shit shit, i looked down and his condom wrapped penis is covered with shit, chai.. i was disgusted and pushed him away, but he says he didnt mind, yuck! That was the end.
Yuck
DeleteAnon 16:55 Please stop sharing disgusting stuff like this, this is not an x-rated site biko. Plus today is Christmas abeg.
DeleteAnon 16.55 π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£π€£
DeleteDon't agree to to snap sex unless you're ready to use pampers later in life when your anus is been destroyed and lost its elasticity.
ReplyDeleteTake your time and a real man will locate you.
Anal sex*
DeleteIf he has a small penis you'd never need pampas
DeleteThank you
DeleteHmmm, this is village people at work.
ReplyDeleteI guess i am fortunate that boo is only interested in vagina. Remember after a convo wt my cousin and she said i should explore anal sex with Oga. I told oga we should try it, the nigerian in him immediately shut it down like i had committed an abomination.
This is thr same person that will i ll sit on his face and gyrate before going to work ohh.
Madam, keep searching, there are men who share sexual preferences with you. Dont compromise cos sex is a hige deal in marriage for most men
And while searching she should close her legs and stop sleeping around.
DeleteLwkmd........sit on his face nd gyrate? Oh lord.
Delete@Fan Emmanuel, in almost 10 years, I have only slept with 2 men. If you didn't get that, go back and read the chronicle. All the other guys were discussions, I didn't sleep with them.
Delete@Poster: 16:36
DeleteYou wrote there that you "were not a virgin" before you relocated
And you also wrote that "you slept with two men in this chronicle"
So how does that add up to two men in ten years?
Look, If you judge yourself, you will not be judged.
You came here for advice and you are getting it. Stop giving your nyansh to men.
Stop discussing sex every time you meet a new guy. Let conversation flow naturally and if they bring it up just say no and watch.
DeleteI only started discussing sex early (after my experience with the guy my friend matched me with) so I'd know if they have any desires/fantasies that I would not succumb to, to avoid wasting out mutual time...
DeleteSorry , well I am a girl and I like to lick butt holes , suck toes (big) no big deal ,just find a clean guy and you will be good .
ReplyDeleteSo why are you switching to ghost mode, looking for the next guy to deceive to marry you?
DeleteYou are possessed darling
DeleteSee this confident sick human being.
DeleteBeyonce hands for you!
DeleteShut up your disgusting mouth you this perv.
DeleteI'm actually spitting here. No jokes
DeleteModella shes not possessed, thats her fetish
DeleteDont mind all tgese people.
DeleteEveryonr has their own sexual preference ranging from oral to anal and the likes. Cos u dont like it doesnt mean others should not. I am sure alot of people reacted like this 20yrs ago as regards oral sex, now every girl wants ther cookie eaten with reckless abandon.
I am open to anal just like i am to oral and no, i am not bi, i am super straight.
Lol..super straight, how do we verify naa? Hahahaha u are curved somewhere like Enugu road, be lying to yourself.
DeleteMy guy actually likes anal but its always dry and boring, So he stopped. He like to kiss my toes or even suck it when hes comimg. When i wash my feet before sex, he will say its fun wen its spontaneous and i dont need to wash it. Also, he touches my butt hole when hes in ectasy. This dude is clean o, as in ocd clean. I love him like that. Everyone has their closet fetish, nobody is plain mama and papa. People are exploring, i have heard of ladies who like to be strangled during sex, plenty sef. Whats the big deal. @if he is cheating and licking another womans hole. Then thats a no no
Delete@Feminist
Delete"Everybody" is NOT exploring. You and your weird fk boy are exploring the sheethole.
Proudly sheet hole explorers?
Wait until you tear each other's anal sphincter and begin to wear diapers.
Anyway, pampers need to do biz .
Look you are mad, and even your madness is mad.
DeleteTell me you not turned on. Bitch
DeleteHahahahaha.. Naija girls can pretend sha, see y'all doing yuck yuck, but y'all be doing worst things behind closed doors
DeleteHeya, you think everyone is sick like you, surprise surprise NO!
DeleteSingle women relocating abroad I always wonder how they could get good husbands over there. Tueh!!!
ReplyDeleteWhy not????
DeleteBut many single girls here are praying for the same Abroadian men.
DeleteI would rather be single in the abroad than single in Naija anytime.
DeleteIf you are destined to meet a good man, you will. I think the problem with abroad is that a man cannot just walk to a woman and ask her out as it is in Nigeria. Most men end up doing things via porno and overtime, they begin to develop weird preferences.
DeleteSee this ignorant sombodi ooh.
DeleteTrust me they do. There are Nig weddings every weekend in Houston. Don't use one person's experience to generalize. There are many more singles in Nig than in the abroad. But the topic here is not marriage sef, it's the weird sexual preferences people are having. Christians do not lose hope, not matter how crazy the world gets, God is with us.
DeleteYuck.The devil has really dealt with this world. The progression is worrisome from making sex look like a game for two adults not just for wedded couples, to homosexuality, to bestiality, to this crap up here. Who is the major agent that introduces these stuff?
ReplyDeleteToo much exposure to porn, its now a click away as long as u have data, so the curious minds tend to switch to exploring mode.
DeleteLady, it is not only bacteria infections that you are getting. You are getting the demons of homosexual seduction transferred to you. Sex is a spiritual exchange between the participants. That is why the word of God says that the two shall become one. When these guys have sex (fornication) with you, they transfer that spirit and you attract the next of their mix available. Do not be surprised that you will soon attract females; yes.
ReplyDeleteWay forward: Make Jesus your Lord and begin to study the New Testament and find solace in him. He will lead you to the right person for marriage.
Poster pls take this advise up here seriously and go for deliverance!if not it will continue. God bless you as you do so
DeleteLol
DeleteEverything isnt spiritual. I guess you think people dont get bacteria from oral generally too.
Nothing like homo spirit biko. Let people enjoy their preferenc3 in peace
@Tuscany
DeleteYou see that last word you wrote there? That's exactly what this girl and her likes do not have!
She is terribly disturbed and you do not have a solution to offer.
You are very myopic in your views and as long as you remain that way, a lot will elude you.
Speak of the things you know and leave the ones you do not know.
The best thing about a relationship with God is that even when things don't work as you wanted, he gives a certain peace that lets you know his plans are better than yours. Jesus is the ONE. Trust in his word. Remain in him. You may lose the world, but you will never lose your soul.
DeleteThe price ladies pay for jumping abroad.
ReplyDeletePlease stop being a serial prostitute. Learn to date without sex and know
that giving in to the sexual pressure will not make a man not to follow other women.
Evil thoughts and actions resides in the heart and that is where the changes happen.
I think she has learnt that lesson. If not, why was she complaining of kissing the mouth that licked another woman's anus? It is because she already knows that these fk boys she has been fkn has all been fkn other ladies' butt holes.
DeleteExactly
DeleteOo Chi m, poster chakwaa n'uzo tupu ha kpopuo GI ike.
DeleteAbroad got nothing to do with that. These perversion exists in Lagos as well. Just that Nig has a culture of pretence and deceit, but abroad people are open and honest. But no matter what dear poster, turn to God and build your relationship with him. He will lead yoou with his light. Not even for husband things, but for you to be filled with peace and hope that transcends the world.
DeleteSpot on Tobie.
DeleteTrue tobie! People do these stuffs in Nigeria too. I know some people that do these things just that Nigerians are hypocrites using religion as cover up
DeleteNawa oh
ReplyDeleteToday is Christmas. This type of chronicle can make one loose interest in this grilled chicken Im about to eat. Let me not even think it. I dey come. Will read it again in the night.
ReplyDeleteJesus Christ. Back door sex is now anus ducking. God forbid bad things.
ReplyDeleteMadam stop looking for love now and try to get yourself together before you carry cancer of the throat.
Imagine back door sex. Sodom and Gomorrah everywhere you go.
Tufiakwa
Did you enter Europe illegaly? I mean through the back door? Cus i dont understand why dark n muddy hole diggers are attracted to you!
ReplyDeleteI dont fancy illegal entry, the thought alone would mess up my mind before my sheets! Lemme read BB comments, maybe she likes it ππ
Hahahahahahaa, abeg o, no baga will near my poopoo hole o, before we hit d sheets, I will say it loud n clear.
DeletePoster please, there are decent men out there. I don't think it is everywhere, home or abroad. I pray you find true love from men with correct number 6.
DeleteGod have mercy the world is really coming to an end.pls don't compromise your standard you will get your own husband
ReplyDeleteWhere are u meeting mad and sick people? π΄π΄π΄π±
ReplyDeleteAbroad
DeleteI'm just trying to imagine your body counts Choi
ReplyDeleteStop acting all innocent. What has body count got to do with her chronicle? She came here for advise and not to be condemned.
DeleteOwner of chronicle, biko be calm. The world over there is weird. I must agree it is difficult to get a good man but my dear, do not give up. I will suggest u adhere to a "no sex" relationship if u meet the next man and the man thereafter till u have found the one u are compatible with. Try to attend more if African gathering like churches, get-together etc. I strongly believe u will find someone soon. And pls do not compromise on ur principles. Back door sex, licking or fingering is disgusting.
Stop acting all innocent. What has body count got to do with her chronicle? She came here for advise and not to be condemned.
DeleteOwner of chronicle, biko be calm. The world over there is weird. I must agree it is difficult to get a good man but my dear, do not give up. I will suggest u adhere to a "no sex" relationship if u meet the next man and the man thereafter till u have found the one u are compatible with. Try to attend more if African gathering like churches, get-together etc. I strongly believe u will find someone soon. And pls do not compromise on ur principles. Back door sex, licking or fingering is disgusting.
@Fan Emmanuel, people always criticize you on this blog, now I know why; you have very limited intelligence and to add to that, you are also judgemental. The poster only slept with 2 guys in years, or didn't we read the same chronicle?
DeleteTwo guys or one guy, it is still fornication; isn't it?
DeleteBody count has a lot to do with it. You might have sex with one guy who has had sex with
two women who in turn has had twenty men each. Yours isn't one man any longer, it is multitude; igwerigwe mmadu.
Haha haha, this got me laughing. Igewerigwe mmadu
DeleteJudgina!!! Shior
DeletePlease don't agree to anal sex, there are still some good guys outside there, just stop being desperate, the right one will locate you with prayers.
ReplyDeleteAnd I was eating while reading this. Yucks π€’π€’π€’
ReplyDeleteMadam this one anal people are rushing you like this, ,maybe you're exuding some type of aura and you don't know? Abeg leave man matter for now.
My thoughts exactly, why are all the "sick" guys the ones you are meeting? I also live abroad and what you have described up there is not normal.
DeleteTHE ANSWER; She imbibed the spirit by sleeping with just one of them. She will still attract more of them if she does not repent.
DeleteBtw, where is anony Nigerian girls these days? Abi they have collected the phone from her finally, seeing the type of nuisance she was constituting here, who knows how it was for those around her in real life.
ReplyDeleteI am a guy and I would be a liar to say I haven't done it before but I tell you there is nothing sweeter than a wet p...y. every guy or most guys just have this butthole fantasies because of the porn that we watch but as someone that has done it countless times which just a girl I tell you anus sex is overrated
ReplyDeleteExactly. Like no one could have said it better.
DeleteFor me, i really dont like Bj, its just something to do but i really like to give oral. Evrryome has a preference.
Some girls actually love it and its like the in thing now
Y'all come out already!
DeleteHahahahahahaa, I tire o, hehehehehe, come outta d closet.
DeleteYuck!π³ Do we still have straight men outchea? The number of gay men in the world keep increasing.
ReplyDeletePoster, forget about going into a relationship for now and focus on other things
Poster, can you try white men? I am not saying that they are better I am just assuming that you have a "type". It could be that you're attracted to- for example, fair (or muscular/ athletic, etc) guys and maybe these demographic might be more se¥ually experimental. Try that Christian mingle website. Try Chinese, Korean guys. There will be freaks within every group but some folks are less experimental.
ReplyDeleteOne day they will be licking that thing and the person will just poop.
ReplyDeleteOoh dear, I think its somehow coming up, am divorced but sometimes I think my ex likes men. The way he put his male friends over me still shocks me to this day. He has never asked of me and our kid since the separation, God dey. Am currently dating a guy in US,we're kind of serious until he told me he married a black American but just for the paper. He admitted the woman doesn't know but he is plotting to someday divorce her and move on and out. That side tire me. We discussed abt sex, he told me he is freaky and would want us to try anal sex,that I would enjoy it, that one too tire me but I felt I should give it a try after all, its not easy for a single mom to catch a husband nowadays. My fear is he will soon be in Naija and we will have sex which its been long I had then the anal sex,which I've been watching porn and learning. Pls somebody say something.
ReplyDeleteSay what again na?
DeleteYoure giving access to that tight hole, if his dick size is plantain size, then ure finished, your hole will leak after a while, all becus of fulfilling his dirty fantasy, he says u will enjoy it, havent i been enjoying sex the normal way, abeg stand your ground jo.
Its very painful for first timers..
DeleteShout hallelujah!
DeleteAre you well??? Do you know the physical side effects of anal sex talk less of the spiritual? Your story reeks of desperation. Please value yourself highly and say no. The guy is MARRIED! Whether for papers or not he is very married and will have kids with that lady. How can you even consider a married man? Is it because he is an abroadian. If care is not taken you will become a single mother twice over with both men abandoning you.
DeleteAt least he was honest with you but I foresee a future messy situation. Have more value for yourself and don't think being a divorced single mom reduces your value. Do not rush into anything just to be with someone. Be careful and not rush into a messy or bad relationship
DeleteNever compromise or lower your standards for any man.
DeleteAfter his rod has finished drilling your an8s and he deposits all the diseases he acquired from the akata, you are finished and the fkationship is finished too. You are too deep in the valley of despair and your kind is easily messed with. This man knows that and many men know that. If you are able to say no to evil, you will attract good.
DeleteHope I've said something?
Men that love anal sex are potential gay men
ReplyDeleteNa lie....
DeleteTheyre not all gay, the thrill factor is when the erect dick gets into an opening that squeezes it tightly, the pleasure nerves are felt intensely.
Gbam. But they will defend themselves with sweat n saliva.
DeleteSaliva has finished from my mouth.
ReplyDeleteYuck!
All i kip seeing is back door, back door....e just weak me
ReplyDeleteLORD HAVE MERCY!!!
ReplyDeleteAhhh..was reading with my mouth and eyes wide open.
Dear poster please talk to God about what you're attracting and what is attracting you.He'll make a way.
This world don spoil pass Sodom and gomorrah oo.
I am not surprised it is the new thing guys do. Met a guy on snm who is based in lag that does this and he is not gay.
ReplyDeleteSuch guy is very very gay. Believe me!
DeletePlease do your research. There are a lot of men that are π― percent straight but experimenting with anal sex. Some end of loving it cos of the tightness but for some, it’s just an experimentation that they grow out of.
DeletePoster it seems to me like your village people are on your matter else why backdoor sex from different people from time to time. Stay away from men for now, buildup yourself. Love will fine you soon
ReplyDeleteAll dem homos crawling out of the closet on this post. Tuscany we sight you bro. Kontinu
ReplyDeleteHomo? Lol
DeleteI am homophobic actually.
Its like oral sex. Some people like it and others find it disgusting. You find anal disgusting and i am indifferent about it. Its not compulsory for me but i wont reject the opportunity when it presents itself
It's the ones that claim to be homophobic that are the real homosexuals
DeleteBottom line is, if u can bang a famale shithole, then u can also bang a male shithole cos there's no difference, shitholes are thesame., so yes, ye are bi.
DeleteMy point exactly. Every sexual perversion that exists abroad exists in Lagos, even more. Just that Nigerians pretend a lot, and can be in closet for life. Unlike abroad where people are open and honest. But Christians never lose hope and never give up. Never give in to the ways of the world. Remain steadfast and firm in him.
DeleteNot the same. A woman’s butthole is without two soft bouncy ass cheeks. Two very different things. Not the same at all. Coming from a bi man
DeleteOh and if you’re gay, banging a woman’s butthole does nothing to cure the urge.
Just be careful with all these guys with anal or any other form of sex,HIV is real biko.Pls protect yourself
ReplyDeleteThis kind of story and comments on Christmas day. Lord have mercy!
ReplyDeletePoster for now close your legs and pretend to be a mermaid in Stella's voice.
I wish I hadn't opened this chronicles to read it. What a disgusting situation. Poster the enemy is preparing a trap for you. Forget about sex for now and move closer to God. Commit your search into His hands, DO NOT get involved with any man unless you hear CLEARLY from God. You will overcome.
ReplyDeleteDoes anal sex attracts diseases???
ReplyDeleteJust want to know
Imagine dipping d penis in a bucket of poo poo, in place where fecal matter passes, shit, smelly shit, after dey put d same dick in your mouth n normal birth canal, na plenty "Dorty" dem dey give u.
DeletePlease I really want to know the effects of anal sex
ReplyDeleteGoogle
DeleteWho send me come open this post this night ooo! What did my eyes just read now?Runs out of postπππ
ReplyDeletePoster, these are the kind of persons strippers and wild girls attract. Maybe there is something about you they see that makes them feel you are into that kind of stuff. And secondly, stop initiating conversations like that. My current boyfriend during the heat of the moment asked me, I said no. And that was the very last time I heard of it. I know people are into that stuff, but 4 guys in a row? Check yourself and how you comport yourself . I have never done it before, and I would never do it, don't compromise yourself for any man please. A responsible guy would come around. To pass strong shit out of my nyash sometimes , the nyash go tear, not to talk about dick! Ladies and men who do anal I raise hand for una, you are very brave.
ReplyDeleteI personally tink you contacted oral herpes while kissing him, go for a test
ReplyDeleteYouve contacted oral herpes from kissing him and those are the symptoms,go for a test
ReplyDeleteSo a guy who enjoys anal is gay? But a woman who enjoys receiving oral isn't? Nigerians Nigerians, do you not see the problem here?
ReplyDeleteDon't men receive blow job from women too? I honestly don't get the point you're trying to make. Men want to stick their stuff up one's ass but don't want it in theirs.
Deletei dont think men who want anal are gay, i think it has to do with all these porn guys watch, before i left naija i have never thought of anal, but somehow it has crossed my mind, and i consider trying it out someday, infact there was a day i was fucking a white girl, her pussy was loose and i.felt like sticking into her ass, but she cringed in pain i had to stop and manage the pussy like that, she was a one night stand, i dont think i would try it with a girl i love, and considering how risky it is, its easier for condoms to tear due to friction, i dont think its something i will make a hobby, i blame all these porns for nasty ideas,
ReplyDeleteto the poster dont compromise, keep asking questions till you meet the one who doesnt have crazy sexual ideas
MAY OUR LORD THE ALMIGHTYGOD HAVE MERCY.
ReplyDeleteTo blog readers who have commented negatively about this chronicles, May God forgive you because, you seem to be good judges of the poor woman while most of you if we happen to learn about your "behind scene" acts, many will be shocked.
Poster asked for advises. If you don't have any to offer please pass with no word. Some of you have done unthinkable. Please stop being so judgmental, is not fair and biblically prohibited.
To poster, if any consolation, men of today's world are something else. Speaking from experience, when i was single and available I have met several men who wanted back door sex and I thank God I managed to get out untouched and forgot about each of them COMPLTETELY. You see, some men like back door sex so much, they will find a lady attracted to them, go for her and all that, but the moment you say no to back door sex, they lose interest in you because, it is their sexual preference, and they are psychologically into it and they can’t imagine marriage life or sex life without it. So do not feel bad about it. If anything thank God and move forward.
I hate men who enjoy anal sex, and surprisingly (we believe majority of white men cannot do without back anal sex) IS NOT TRUE! I met one who ACTUALLY CHANGED MY PERCEPTION completely! He told me (just in general conversation) that if a man asks for back door sex, he is not in love with that woman, he said that based on the effects of it, no man with sound mind or in love can stand see their loved ones suffer those consequences.
Dating in modern world is intruded by number of barriers to extent sometimes is health to stay single. If you wish to become a mother, and every time you try to enter into a relationship you end up disappointed due to sexual preferences, please (if you are financially stable) find a man of your choice, set your condition, and make him a sperm donor. I AM VERY SERIOUS ABOUT THIS ADVICE. What is the pint of becoming a sex slave? Engage into something you don’t enjoy FOR THE SAKE OF MARRIAGE? WHICH MARRIAGE I beg?
I hear a lot of sick stories about this back door sex stuff! DISGUSTING. But is the truth even some of the married couples here in AFRICA do it! some women are forced to do it and they do it to keep status or because of one reason or another, some are just victims who were exposed to it due to some circumstances and they have failed to come out of it (is not easy). I AM NOT JUDGING, AND SO PLEASE, POSTER FORGET ABOUT NEGATIVE COMMENTS. FORGET ABOUT DATING FOR NOW, BEHIND CLOSED DOORS PEOPLE DO A LOT OF DARK STUFF. SOME ARE COMMENTING NEGATIVELY BECAUSE THEY FEEL ASHAMED TO SEE SOME FOUND IT DISGUISING WHILE TO THEM IS THEIR WAY OF LIFE. SOME ADVISED YOU TO BE NEAR GOD, PLEASE DO! Yours will come but it takes a lot of patience and you must stand firms for what you believe.