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Monday, January 28, 2019

MONDAY IHN

The day is Cloudy and Sun-less here today and we have a mixture of Snow and Rain................And all i feel like doing now is eating Chicken pepper soup without the pepper and with the liquid looking red and not black.......or even white as Ofe Nsala......#Foodiethoughts


Have a God blessed day....







MENTAL HEALTH ISSUES


Autism Spectrum Disorder



This is a pervasive developmental disorder characterised by lack of social skills, poor eye contact, repetitive behaviour, and poor communication skills. In other words, people with autism are unaware of other people's emotion, they prefer to be alone, repetition of the same phrase or word over and over, they rarely use gestures or facial expressions when communicating, they develop highly specific interest in a particular subject or activity. 


moreover, people with autism can be oversensitive or under sensitive to light, sound, temperature, clothing. Causes of autism is unknown however, research suggests that genetic and environmental factors play important role. There's no known cure for Autism, but the symptoms can be managed. 


Early detection, behavioural, educational and family therapies may reduce symptoms and support development and learning. If you notice any of these symptoms, see a mental health professional.






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FOR SATURDAY CHRONICLE POSTER




Hello Stella,


 I took a keen interest in the Chronicle you posted on Saturday, January 26, 2019. It was unfortunate the way a lot of people condemned the poster simply because she said she found it difficult settling down with a guy she termed "Igbotic". 


She came off as a young woman that was under intense pressure to get married, but wasn't satisfied with the available options. I understand where she's coming from. I've been there. I didn't grow up in Igboland, though I speak my language very well. I've been with someone that equally sounded "Igbotic". She was cool and well mannered. I liked her, but always felt embarrassed every time we were in public and she spoke. I was torn between proposing and calling it off. I sampled a very close friend's opinion, and he told me to overlook it. I was bemused at the reason he gave. 


He said she was a "good girl and had a fat salary". He added that at least she wouldn't be a financial burden on me! Surprisingly, another friend sounded the same. He said she worked in a big establishment. But I knew deep down within me, I needed more. I knew I didn't want to look over my shoulder if anyone had a grin on their face whenever the love of my life spoke. Why would I want to marry a woman I wouldn't be proud of? Isn't that a prelude to perpetual despondency? I was resolute that it wasn't what I wanted. 



It would have been pure wickedness on my part, to marry someone's daughter ( a good one for that matter) and consign her to misery. I quietly left, even though it was painful. We're good friends even though she's married. No grudges. People should understand that we all have different perceptions to marriage. Our expectations differ. What if the poster decides to marry someone she doesn't love and it precipitates resentment? Some were even telling her they felt nothing when they married their husbands! In 2019? They said they later developed love for them. This is akin to putting the cart before the horse. Love naturally should precede marriage.


If and when the poster decides to move on, please convey my interest Stella. She sounded decent judging by her post. She's light complexioned, Igbo and educated. I'm dark, Igbo, equally educated, tall and doing well. If she's genuinely a virgin, we'd preserve that till our wedding night ( that is if by chance we hook up and fall in love with each other). The only snag should be if she's short. Thank you Stella. You're a blessing .

  


If she is short its a snag?Na wah..ARE YOU SHORT???





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SDK WEDDING 



This mail came in from the guy who wanted a life partner...I have gone to edit and removed his details before curious BVs begin to call him to find out who his Lucky Bride is......Their introduction ceremony held over the Weekend and the plans for the white and traditional wedding is currently ongoing..

I wanna respect their privacy and will announce the couple on the weekend they wed.....

This is the mail Husband to be sent me....


''Hi Stella,

Remember this mail trail?

Well it lead to your cheeky "Husband Material post": https://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2018/07/ihn-monday.html

Anyway I made 4 friends via the post, and today's my introduction to the one that stuck the most and became more than a friend.

Never expected it myself, but it is what it is
You may post this, but please still keep me anonymous.
You're the best Stella; I really appreciate.
Gracias''  






Like i said,the wedding is soon and they will be unveiled the weekend they Wed......All those looking for life partners,may you find where you least expect as well in Jesus name




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COMMENT SECTION



 Stella, I am in love with a much older guy. He is 48 I'm 27. No, this is not about the money because he is just average. He lives in the U.S and this is not the reason. We just flow on all level and he is so sweet and attentive. I have tried to stop this feelings but it aint working. I'm afraid because I dunno how people will look at this.




The age difference is much but if both of you flow well then go for it....If he feels the same go for it but please make sure you do not ever hang out with someone who always reminds you of the age difference......

Carry go!!!


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COMMENT SECTION




Hello BVs please get in here... Can sp#rm leakage after s#x from the punani cause infertility? I have been married for a year plus now still no pregnancy. I have done abdominal scans and HVS test and both result shows that am ok but I notice when ever we have sex in the mid night after several hours,let say the following morning, the sperm will will be coming out of my punani. And it will also turn watery but originally it was thick. 

Pls share with me you know any thing about this. I will be at the comment section... Am so frustrated right now for not being able to conceive..



Your Kinikan turns the sperm into smoothie...LMAO!
Is sperm supposed to remain thick after it comes out?I am sure the heat inside you made it lighter...Well,thats what i think oh.....wey the Dokinta's them?





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BREAK UP TIPS NEEDED




How do i break up with my married man? I know its wrong and i want to end it. 



I just finished a round of fasting and i heard God ask me if i want to return back to filth this morning. I dont want to go back and i have been praying God makes him hate me somehow. He does so much for me, i literally dont spend a dime of my money. Hes about to start up my business and take me on my first trip out of the country. He takes care of his wife and he loves his kids so much and he doesnt joke with them. I know this is wrong,but how do i cut him off totally (not temporarily)? 






Be careful that you do not do it in a way that will make him get his pound of flesh....All the things you did that he liked,begin to do the opposite,demand for outrageous sums of money..Infact set the relationship on fire with foul behaviour and let it Burn..................

No be say you go ask us finish now then continue with the relationship,if God says quit,QUIT!!!!





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I WANT TO HELP CHILAKA FOR THE TRAINING OF FIELD 

MAINTAINING ENGINEER BUT IT COMES WITH A CLAUSE.



I have been in your blog since Ms Kay diary so, I know virtually what is going on in your blog except when I had challenges of miscarriage though am always Anonymous . So, I saw where Chilaka that stays in Owerri asked for someone that will train him in maintenance of MTN sites which is known as Field maintenance Engineer(FME) I can be able to do so only on two conditions.


If Stella or a known person can be his guarantor.

If you are an Engineer (graduated as an Electrical or Mechanical Engineer. Mechanical is under probability)

Note: Training as an FME OR FSE is not a prerequisite for getting the job but is an added advantage. If you are favored in the eyes of those FME’S, they will carry you along. Make you their boy till God picks your call. Some trainees train between 6months to 2years depending on how smart you are.


Also: is not a lazy man’s job as you will be asked to bring up a site in the mid night if there is any outage and lots of challenges that comes with it. Is no child’s play. Am in the system so I know about the job.


I can help you in both MTN OR AIRTEL BOTH NOT IN OWERRI WILL DISCLOSE THE REGION WHEN YOU MEET UP THIS CLAUSES.




Guarantor?Oh Dear God, BVS have failed me many times,should i do this again?Oh Lord Please gimme a sign....Chilaka please mail me....Please if any BV has his number,please call him and bring his attention to this...tell him his life is about to change...FOR THE BETTER





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SHOCKING FROM THE COMMENT SECTION




For you all that don't know, jazz expires immediately it crosses an ocean, the power fades, words from baba sha, so okrika pants is not an option, so i have to opt for my neighbours own, she must have forgotten she trusted me with her spare key long time ago, so it'd be easy access in and out, its just the pant i need, its worth 150k if its washed clean and 250k if unwashed and stained, it helps better if you know her name join, i'm not killing anybody, na pant i need.. 



she wont die either, he says its just a fraction of her good luck secreted they need to use, here's the interesting part, if shes a virgin the her pant is useless, whether clean or dirty. Well, after this one i wont do this again, id ask God for forgiveness, na brokenness cause this thinking, i'm saying this her as a reminder to myself that i wont do it again. Oh yeah, i'm female too...





I cant stop reading this comment and i pray that it is a Joke and you just wanted to trend on the post you left this comment...If it is not a Joke and you actually took someones panties,i pray you return it and ask God for forgiveness..If you do it,the money you will get will not be enough to sort out the storm that i have prayed into your life....Sheediot!!!!




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ACCOMMODATION



I'm in need of an accommodation around Rumuola or Ada George axis Portharcourt, not far from the bus stop with constant electricity and water. Please I can only afford 100k as I don't have agency fees and the rest. Thank you. 08052886720.



You forgot to include good roads....





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GIVEAWAY, ADVERT AND BUISNESS OPPORTUNITIES.




I have PURE UNADULTERATED HONEY FOR SALE in any quantity. Bvs that got it last year can attest to it. I also have PURE SOYABEAN FLOUR for sale and a good OVEN DRIED FISH for sale.



GIVEAWAY



I am giving away a container of soya bean flour to the first person to call.

Am in Anambra 08106530817.

Anyone who is interested in investing into a buisness in any part of the world that will yield a great ROI should contact the same number above. (Including you Stella bekee)

STELLA NWANYIOMA I will need an account number of a widow or a struggling single mother to bless with 5000 naira.






Okay sent!!...Thanks and God bless!!!





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FREE BOOKS FOR BLOG VISITORS




I would like to share some E-books with some interested blog visitors. I believe if we are armed with the relevant information we need, we would have less struggles in life. I have noticed that people suffer losses in very important areas that affects their lives, hence, my desire to help people access information resources (books) that they can gain knowledge from. They are for men, women, single, married etc, all category.

I have genre like:

Marriage /Marriage preparation : Love and respect, Fascinating Womanhood, Happy me,happy you, Things I wish I had known before we got married, What did you expect, Couples Therapy workbook, 101 ways to have 100% success in marriage, making a success of marriage and lots more.

Parenting: Effective parenting in a Defective world, How to talk so kids will listen & Listen so kids will talk, Power of a praying parent, Parenting is a ministry, The nonviolent Christian parent, and so on

IELTS books;

Sewing Books,

Business Books,

Job Apptitude Test Preparatory material

Social Books /Others; The Alchemist, Never eat alone, The charisma myth, Talk like a winner, Start life over, How to win friends

MakeUp Books,

CIPM Books

Spiritual Books; titles on Faith, Overcoming fear, Prosperity, God's will, Dominion, The Holy spirit, etc

Dating Books (For Ladies); Dating rocks, Catch him and keep him, Men are like fish, Make every man want you, How to make anyone fall in love with you, Secrets of femininity etc

Dating Books for all; Boundaries in dating, Boy meets girl,etc

Please leave my e-mail address so they can communicate the one they want, I'll send them a list of all I have that genre/category, they will pick and i'll send it to them by mail or google drive link. or send them the link to the source, so they can search and get it directly and even get more for themselves.

amandaamakaudeh@gmail.com




Thank you






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VACANCY


Front Desk/Admin officer.
Start date: 1st March and contract is for 6 months only.

PURPOSE: This position is responsible for planning and coordinating general platform services in the office and managing external resources.

CRITICAL QUALIFICATIONS/SKILLS/EXPERIENCE

Ø Requires university degree in any related field with a minimum of 2 year work experience in similar role.

Ø Must have excellent multi-tasking abilities with good communication skills.

Ø Ability to use the entire MS tools

OFFICE LOCATION: Ikoyi, Lagos State

Candidates should send their updated CV and cover letter to kehinde@saphiredegrees.com.






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LOOKING FOR A PHONE TO BUY



please I want to buy a fairly used IPhone 8, IPhone X or SamsungS9. Please if there is any BV that wants to sell at a reasonable price the person should contact me. Please be sure the phone is in perfect condition, has never been worked on and you have your receipt too. Call this number please 08158772347 







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SECOND PLEA FOR HOUSE HOLD ITEMS AT GIVEAWAY PRICE




Good afternoon wonderful people. My family relocated to Ilorin Kwara State

 with only clothes due to hardship. I am pleading with anyone that has household items to sell at giveaway price or give out to help me. Things like mattress, small fan, a small television (even a box TV or black and white TV), 
a small stool, etc. My number is 08170270021.

A man also blessed me with rice, spaghetti and 1k. He actually took public transport and brought them to where I live and handed them to me. I had tears in my eyes when I saw him. May God bless him for reaching out to me from the little he has. Angels abound here. Thank you once again Stella.




Please if you stay around her location or can send anything to her,please reach out ..Please..God bless the man who reached out to her family..God will bless and replace what you gave out..he will double it bless you!!!





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Toyota Camry for sale.



 Super clean, Great Engine . Everything works perfectly, you can bring your mechanic to check. #2M negotiable. My cell phone contact 08054870197






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URGENT NEED OF ACCOMMODATION



Please I am a lady urgently in need of a single room around yaba, oyingbo, ebutte meta or obalende or any other place close to yaba. I will appreciate a direct link to landlord.
My budget is 50-60k
My no is 08078336269





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BABY THINGS GIVEAWAY




These baby things are for giveaway. I stay in Lagos, so whoever wants them should be residing in Lagos in order to make it easier to send. Alternatively , the person should make arrangement to pick them up. Please let it be for who truly needs them but cannot afford to buy them.
Thank you and keep up the good work.


Contact: WhatsApp or sms only - 0811 532 7488




Thank you Darling!





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Front Desk/Admin Officer - Temporary role for 6 months only


We need a Front Desk/Admin officer for a period of 6 months in my office. This is a maternity leave cover .

START DATE is 1st March 2019 .

PURPOSE: This position is responsible for planning and coordinating general platform services in the office and managing external resources.


CRITICAL QUALIFICATIONS/SKILLS/EXPERIENCE

Ø Requires university degree in any related field
Ø Requires at least 2 years-experience in similar role
Ø Must have excellent multi-tasking abilities

Ø Ability to use the entire MS tools
Ø Must have good communication and inter-personal skills

Ø Ability to relate with persons different cultures, background and ages

Ø Must have an ear for the needy

OFFICE LOCATION: Ikoyi, Lagos State

BENEFITS: Very good salary with Comprehensive medical cover

Candidates should send their updated CV and cover letter to kehinde@saphiredegrees.com.






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Rossy decorations and catering services is here.
We take your occasion;design it and transform it because YOUR SATISFACTION OUR DELIGHT.
Pls call 08023729431;08130953650(calls and what's app)..

Mail is rosaryasa@gmail.com







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ANKARA BUSINESS..


Does know you can start the business of Ankara with just #40000..??

YES YOU CAN.. you get a gain of #10000

Then reinvest the 10k with your 40k and get #62k.. All these can be accomplished if you take that bold step..

10 pieces of dutch Holland will be sent at first..

Then we can build more on that..!!

Call/WhatsApp; 07037210981
Instagram; @ankaraowlfabrics





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142 comments:

  1. IHN has landed. I think raining season came early.

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    1. There is this chronicle that I really can't forget, the one about an Igbo corper that converted to Islam and was in a fix if she should do arranged marriage or wait to fall in love with a Muslim man. NNE please come and gist me which path you finally towed.

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    2. The rain seems to be so true ooo.... Raining in Aba as if we are in rainy season.

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    3. Did I read of someone looking for a room at Yaba,Ebute metta and Obalende...Bia,wat kind of a room are u looking for at dt amount,50-60k?

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    4. Fellow Anony, she is obviously looking for komkom milo as apartment.

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    5. Hahahahq I no fit laugh when I saw 50 to sixty. Abeg na cms bridge money be that. They will create a hole on the bridge for you to live hahahaha

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  2. Being strong is the only option you have @ Beloved!! May God continue to strengthen you and your loved ones.Amen

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    1. 2 bleesed 2 curse28 January 2019 at 15:17

      I a graduate of Electrical/Electronics Engineering please Ma/Sir if you can consider an extra slot for the Mtn training,i will like to take it. Thanks

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    2. Lolll, that is how so many of you lose blessings and favour.

      See this one grovelling feverishly like a pauper.

      You will insult people here and mock them when they correct you but you don't know who can be your helper tomorrow
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      Afi 'I a gwurajewate'

      LMAO!!

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  3. Mmmmh
    I come learn another Naija girl's vocab for this blog over the weekend.
    I no sabi say Naija girls don dey "consummate relationships"?
    Shuooooooo! I only sabi consumation of marriage o; aka legitimate poundings.
    Make una wey dey consume una relationship sabi say that thing go consume una o.
    And as una consume come chop belle full, make una no write stella for authority to shoot am off
    as Sdk no get that kin certificate to issue.

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  4. In house news is here, it so cold right here , my sexual urge has been down lately , I don't know what to do, and am trying to get pregnant,God help me+ am married

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  5. Ihn don land gidigba, thanks to the bv who told Me the bag's name Celine Paris , am looking for where to buy it, i saw it on jiji but I know it scam sha.

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  7. Let me go anon to share this story, I've been dating my fiance for 3 years, he proposed to me last year February, thinking we are getting married soon, he has a good job, a nice apartment, and he lives very comfortably . He has done a lot for me since we met, I'm from a humble background, and I really appreciate him, and he knows I Love him like the air I breathe, I tell him how much he meant to me on daily basis
    To cut the long story short, he called me on phone on the 27th of December, that he's no longer interested in marrying me, that he doesn't love me again, that he doesn't want to marry out of pity , I asked if I did anything wrong, he said no, that infact I'm a very good girl, that any other guy will be happy to marry me, that it's him, he has stopped loving me, hmmmm ,it was as if my world ended, I cried and begged him on phone, I ask if I should come to his place so that we can talk, he said no, that as a matter of fact, hr has sent my belongings in his home to me through someone, that the person will soon be in my place. I told him he has killed me, and he laughed on the phone and cut the phone, I called back severally , he didn't pick

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    1. Let him go, u will survive without him, if its not a prank, if u beg him n he stays, you won't like it...he said he doesn't want to marry out of pity, my dear, let d mofo go.

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    2. I can't tell u it will be easy going on this break up journey; but I assure you, it will be so worth it at the long run if you don't go back.
      You don't wanna know how it feels like to be married out of pity or several begging.
      What ever you do, will continously irritate him.
      You will continously strive to please him and it won't be enough. He will be a fault finder.
      The tendency to cheat will be high & of he sees anyone his chemistry rhimes with, he will rob it in your face.
      You can't afford to get angry or do shakara. For you will love all your life trying to please him and make him happy until you pack up.
      Is this the life u want?
      He did you a big favor. Pls and pls move on.

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    3. 3 years and he breaks up with you over the phone? My dear, wipe your tears, kneel
      And thank God for that disaster that HE has taken away

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    4. I'm in support of appreciating ur man but this idea of letting him know that he's d air u breath is a bad one.Most men can't handle it.
      Reminding him everyday of how he lifted you out of penury can make him turn to a Demi god.
      You'll be fine, make friends and spread ur net so wide. Engagement ring no be marriage

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  8. ihn is here, thanks bvs for the advice you gave me on that gossip friend, have cut the idiot off ,she is doing nice for me ,I don't care a bit .

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    1. Better my dear. You don't need negative people around you

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    1. Clean up after you cum finish.

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  10. *peeps in* Has Gifty come out to say it was Photoshop???? this girl just insulted Hollywood Walk of Fame and e dey pain me!!!

    Kelvin DAT Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. No need to be pained, no sensible person will believe she can be recogbized in almighty Hollywood (America) and given a star of walk of fame. Even the biggest celeb in Nigeria cant have it... thats either Tiwa, Wizzy or David, that davido own na fake oh

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    2. That girl get problem 😀😀😀

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  11. No long, the guy he sent brought my things that was in his home for me, I was broken , I just finished service, I don't have a job, I was planning to go for tailoring, and he promised to sponsor me to fashion school and even set a shop for me Incase I didn't get a job quick,. hmmmm my hope was dashed
    But the way he laughed when I said he has killed me keep coming back my mind, and I decided he doesn't worth my tears, I mean, it's obvious he doesn't love me anymore, so let me kuku love myself
    Thankfully I still have some money with me, I went to the saloon on the 30th of December, fix a nice weavon( Daniela) , I was looking so beautiful , wear nice clothes on new year, I don't have friends, so I no get anywhere to go, but I Sha wear fine dress, snapped plenty pics, put it on my WhatsApp status, I didn't put any yeye caption, just pictures, since that day I didn't call again, and he didn't neither. I also put pictures on my Facebook wall, come and see comments and likes, and I make sure I was in the comments section, his sister even called me their wife and I just lol
    Bros called me on the 3rd , that 'ti a ba n ja bi ka Ku ko' I was like I'm not fighting you o, but if you're fighting me , I'm sorry then, he tried chatting like old times, I made sure I took hours before replying his pings
    My hand is paining me, I will complete later
    Please waka pass if the gist no interest you oo

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    1. Don't you ever go back. The idiot wants to kill the small shine remaining in you

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  12. Words are either weapons or medicine so be mindful on how you speak to others.

    Pettiness is just as toxic as negativity...have a lovely day everyone😘

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  13. Ihn is right here, blog visitors where can I get cute OK wears and bag for affordable price I want to resell, money must be made this year, am Lagos based, I newbie in the business please I need advice help a sis

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  14. Congrats to the BV getting married... God bless your new home

    That girl that wants to steal her friend's pant, God will judge you...

    I love those Ankara..

    Beautiful afternoon to you all

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  15. That girl wey wan marry abroad 48 year old "sweet" man.
    na the abroad be the reason if you want tell us the truth. Im baggage fit full. If you come write us say im get pikins with plenty oyinbo women, we go read am na; whosai!

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    1. Their is something wt us Africans.We tend to assume too much and think we Sabi all.Let us learn to take things d way dey are rather than assuming.
      Ds lady said she is in love not bcos d man is based abroad.Abeg,at Anon.14:06.what is ur problem?

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    2. anon 15:06 ur last sentence is the lie we tell ourselves just to conceal the fact... Madam just know u will b operating from 2 diff generation d man just dey form funky now because he wan marry

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  16. BV @Bibire. Please I need your contact. I want to discuss something with you. Kindly send it to SDK PA and I will collect it from her.

    Thank you so much.

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  17. Congrats to the about to wed couple may God bless your union. Amen
    The lady with 47 year old boo,if you truly love him Biko go ahead the older the better. tho 21 years age Gap is somehow but your happiness matters.

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    1. You just wan use style tell us say your oga senior you wella

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    2. Hahahahahahahahahahaha...anon14::47please be nice

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    3. She go senior the oga before. Chibaby nothing do you. I dey with you

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  18. Stella,who said it wouldn't rain heavily in Lagos this year? ordinary January rain coman see flood! it rained cat and dog today o

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    1. It truly did. All manner of dogs and cats were just falling on my roof. See the way the Akwa Ibom people in my compound were just rushing the dogs.

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    2. That cause lagos doesn't have good drainage system, tell Sanwolu to work on that when elected

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  19. Enter your comment...Stella, make you swallow my comment as usual oo

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  20. Good afternoon everyone. I will be right back

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  21. Quick question bv's, please how do you handle a colleague that has a crush on you? She's beautiful, very intelligent and smart, but she's my boss (like 2steps ahead of me) and I have a policy of no office date (and strafing). This one seems to be above my power oh, this chic is doing everything possible to get with me and I'm beginning to like it. Lol dont blame me, I have a special weakness for fair and beautiful Chic's. Oya answer me pls!!

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    1. Handle? Nothing to handle there. You either want her or not.
      You know the answer...

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    2. Ask your fellow sister in the LORD, LEP.

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    3. If u have genuine love for her and willing to settle down wt her,dt is if u are not hit and run.u can go ahead but d ideal thing is for either of u to resign or change department.

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    4. @chocolate I actually want her, but I don't want to get busted in the office. I keep my private life private and Abuja is a small town sort off. The whole bisexual thingy is still not very understood in this city. I'm just confused.

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    5. It is not something to fear,if u have genuine intention.some people actually started their carrer early,so,being ahead of u should not deter u,that is if u are not a Playboy.

      My former head of branch operations was 2 steps below d wife and d marriage is working fine...D ball is in ur court.

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    6. You can explore. But make sure you code it. You can do all dirties outside the office and pretend in the office.

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    7. Shuooooo bisexual
      When person think say you dey talk better thing.

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    8. Hahahahahahahahahaha...anon17:20 abeg I don't want to laugh

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  22. Good afternoon lovelies ..


    SDK wedding congratulations in advance..

    Blog visitor Chilaka congratulations in advance..

    God bless the givers in da house..

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  23. The lady with the sperm dripping out of her punani, I would advice you run an HSG to be sure your tubes ain't blocked and then as they always say, raise your bum with a pillow after intercourse

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    1. All d sperm can not enter i use to think same too until i got pregnant

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    2. She wan use all the sperm get belle? The one that wants to meet the egg will go. Others must come out

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    3. It is normal for some sperm to drip out the next day , dont fret.

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    4. This is disgusting.
      Like all shades of disgusting.
      No wonder people's homes can stink!
      They won't wash the sheets o.
      Sweat plus cum plus sperm plus spit will stay almost 1 month with abeg befor they change those sheets.
      Nyaaaama.

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  24. I remember the post.
    Oh dear! Congratulations!!

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  25. Chai!! I don enter my own today.
    I forgot my colleagues pashmina in the cab I took to lunch.
    Please who knows where I can quickly buy one today or after work.
    Please direct me. I work on the island but can quickly get it.
    Or maybe before I get to work tomorrow while still on the mainland? Help!!!

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  26. Good day to us all. Once again,congrats to the intending couple. Maybe it's Chikito. Chikito,I have missed your stories. May God pick my call too...Amen

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  27. Good afternoon to us all. May God bless our hustles.

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  28. What a cold day! So we're already in raining season in Lagos.. Me like!😘 The heat was something else biko.

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  29. Poster dating an older man, I have the feeling that he is married over there. Just be sure of what you are going into. Goodluck. The SDK wedding , I was rushing to see the name of the Bv but its all good., Whoever it is may God bless your home. To the givers may God bless you guys richly and to the receivers may God bless you guys RICHLY. @Blessed Princess

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  30. Pls someone suggest impetigo treatment in babies.I have tried all sorts.it comes and goes.am tired and scared of giving him antibiotics every now and then.help!

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    1. everybody wash hands with soap and water before touching baby or even looking at him

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  31. Girl in love with a 48yr old. Is he a non Nigerian ? Sounds like my boo minus the age

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  32. congrats Maryjuana on your introduction

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  33. Pls if make pap in ph, drop your contact

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  34. Beloved darling, pls take 💓. May God comfort you.

    Congratulations to the bv that found love, may God perfect that which he has started.

    Congratulations Cy our wife on your anniversary, may you both grow old on the same pillow.

    Same girl and the anon that asked about my husband, he is fine now we thank God .Thank you so much. 😘😘😘

    My exam on Saturday went smoothly, we await results, may Almighty Allah Grant us his favor.

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  35. The popular Bv is doppelganger....Stella post my comment o

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  36. The lady wanting to sell her neighbour's pant.Have a rethink,is it worth the curses that will follow you afterwards.Congratulations to the bvs getting married.God bless you guys

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  37. Beloved so sorry about your loss. The Lord is your strength and may He give you and yours the fortitude to bear your dad's loss. I know how difficult it can be at the early stage but you'll cope with time.

    Congratulations to the two bvs who met here and are tying the knot soon. Indeed love lives here.
    Stella continue doing you.
    May God bless Stella and all the givers.

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  38. I am just so worried, my baby is 13months old and he has not started walking, i always feel bad seeing other babies his age dat has started walking, he can only walk around holding something, i am tired of people asking if he has started walking,they make me feel i am d one dat is stopping him. I blif he will walk very soon by God grace.
    Pls, what tonic can i give him dat will boost his appetite thereby adding little weight, he is teething which is making him purge and he has lost much weight.THANKS

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    1. Madam relax. My baby started walking at 14 months plus. People were blaming me for holding her too tight according to them, but I didn't listen to their lame opinion. Now she's running around and scattering things. Just relax, he will walk.

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    2. He will walk.
      Relax your mind.
      Nothing to worry about..

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    3. Na was o...all these mothers!

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    4. Boys tend to develop slower than girls. There is nothing you can really do. Is he standing, holding on to tables and standing. If he is showing signs of getting there then he will get there. You can also train him by holding his hands and let him step around while you hold him.

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    5. Be very worried, you can even go to church and start crying that your baby is n6i6t walking, pastor should help.

      Some of you dont have problems but will create unnecessary ones for yourself. So now that your baby has not walked at 13 months , does it mean baby will never walk?

      If they ask you say he is not walking, period.

      My baby started walking at 14 months , he is 15 months now and even runs with those tiny legs. Stop comparing your childs development to others, not necessary.

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    6. rest assured,my baby started walking by 13month and no teeth yet,so chill madam

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    7. Anon pls keep ur lies with boys and girls.madam my second kid walked at 15months .a girl.i was told to stop her breastfeeding that she feels if she walk d breast will stop.true I stopped .next week she walked.

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    8. @Tenth you for breastfeed her till infinity.....1year is enough to breastfeed a child.

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    9. @Tenth, there are exceptions to every rule. It does not change the truth of what I stated. I did not pull this info out of my butt, it is a verified fact that girls develop quicker that boys in areas of speech, walking and meeting development milestones sooner. Again, there are exceptions to every rule.

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    10. Tenth u are right, Dats Wat I heard and it worked for me too.

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  39. God bless the givers and the receivers

    Cingratulations to the couple that met on this platform, may God uphold your home.

    Olawealth..the ankaras are so lovely, customers and profit fall on you

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  40. Good afternoon bvs,@sdk wedding,I say a big amen to ur prayers stella

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    1. I need somewhere I can perfect my tailoring skill in Ibadan, I'm very good to an extent just need to learn all this new styles in vogue.

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  41. Ihn is here, good afternoon all

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  42. Stella, please when is the next snm
    some of us want to find love too o

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  43. Welcome IHN... God bless the giver. Congratulations to the couple to be.

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  44. BV Omeh I need your advice on a move I'm about to make within your profession.
    Can you send your email contact to Beloved please?
    Thank you.

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  45. Madam Stella am the lady that posted the sperm ish. thanks very much for posting, I wl be reading other people's opinions.
    Note we do use pillow yet it will still pull out.

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    1. Madam calm dowm everything can not enter.u can use google

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    2. Relax, anxiety on its own will not make pregnancy happen. It happens to me , sperms drips out, watery , yes and i have children.

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    3. Go to yoruba herbs seller,tell dem u want to buy herbs fr eda

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    4. Madam, let your hubby do sperminal fluid analysis.sfa

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  46. Congrats to the two Bvs that's getting married soon. God will make your new home heaven on earth.

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  47. I'm guessing the popular BV about to be married is Chikito...
    ANG is still foaming at the mouth from my comment yesterday,, I'm sorry to have caused you so much distress dear, please keep taking your meds.
    What a day! Busy since morning, doing nothing... Afternoon shift things, lol...
    I don't know if I'm happy 🙃

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  48. CONGRATS TO THE INTENDING COUPLE.

    ABEG O, I NEED A DESCENT CHRISTIAN GIRL FOR MY BIG BRO. HE IS 30 GOING ON 31.
    GOOD GIRLS PLEASE REPLY UNDER MY COMMENT AND I WILL GET BACK TO YOU. SERIOUS MINDED PERSONS PLEASE.

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    1. tender ur brother's cv na.... abi na only mouth u wan take marry Good girl?

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  49. For the lady with the semen issue, where exactly is the semen supposed to go? Your vagina is not a sponge, it cannot suck up and store semen, it has to run back out of you. The laws of physics dictate that the sperm will have to come back out. Understand your body and stop expecting it to do things it was not created to do. Some couples have a harder time conceiving, but put those same two ppl with different people and they conceive immediately. One year is nothing in trying to conceive. Even my sister who is under 30 as is her husband and already have a child together just got pregnant again after two years of not using any protection. Nourish your body with healthy foods and exercise, take your brain off conceiving and put it on spiritual pursuits. When it is your time you will conceive.

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  50. Please guys it's totally normal for some sperm to spill out after sex, all of you hanging leg y'all make me laugh, the one that has entered has entered no need to stress yourself hanging leg for eternity. That's not how it works guys, that's just not how it works.

    Provided all is well with your reproductive system, if some sperm spills out after, there's absolutely no cause for alarm. Cheers.

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  51. I'm just pissed.
    Why are all the corporate clothes sellers selling the same thing? Is it asoebi?
    I've literally been seeing the same common looking gowns on hundreds of platforms.
    Like is there one giant Chinese supplier who is supplying the same ugly mass produced clothes?
    Or do they run to Aba and so copies because I just can't understand.

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    1. Yet they wonder why business is no good. They have no imagination to select different stock if their competitors are already selling the same thing.

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    2. 19:07 I tell you!
      And even the ones they select so basic and boring and COMMON. They select the cheapest China clothes on the food chain and then come double the price here. Go to instagram, they are ALL selling the same thing.

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  52. Congrats to the about to Wed couple, may your home be fill of love and happiness

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  53. Beloved,sorry about your loss,may the Good Lord grant him Eternal rest and gives you all the fortitude to bear the loss🙏

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  54. lady with the "sperm spilling ish" it might also be as a result if untreated infection..I don't know if i can drop contact..would have loved to help you..

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  55. Congratulations to the BVs getting married. All the best

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  56. Congratulations to those getting married,ours will come this year too by God's grace for those looking up to God for life partners.

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  57. Congrays to the couple....

    Chilaka.baba God has finally pick ur call

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  58. The lady that wants to share e-books I will love to read some because I am lazy when it comes to novels.

    I want to start now. Maybe I will send but let me give my head 20 knocks

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  59. I love SDK IHN. God bless every one. givers and recievers too, God continually enrich and increase you

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  60. Lady with sperm ish.It might be due to vagina infection. When it comes to marriage,people av their expectation. I can't marry some one am not proud of.love should precede marriage if u don't love dat man before marriage. I bet u the marriage is heading to the rocks

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  61. Where is bv chocomamile,chocomamomile abi is it chocomilo???It's been long I saw her comments

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  62. Please if you sell good quality blazer and shirts
    Biko come and sell it on IHN you hear?
    Tankio.

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  63. Beloved sorry about your loss accept my condolences.
    Father of the fatherless will stand by you in Jesus name

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  64. Congratulations to the bvs getting married, The Lord will perfect all that concerns you both.

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  65. Madam with son not walking, please, teething doesnt cause purging. To the extent of weight loss. Thats a yoruba myth.
    Kindly see a . Seems you listen to neighbours a lot.
    For impetigo lady, antibiotics is d only option.
    Watch what u put on your childs skin.
    Hope u dont mix all dem skine@l, funba@t A? . Etc etc.
    Give him or her fruits and limit exposure to random strangers.
    Stella please post

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    1. No I don't.he uses Shea butter.thanks darl

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  66. Some of the stories scare me.To the point of not giving my used things to any Nigerian. I am a giver by nature but I stopped giving cash to my mom and sister since I learned from my late youngest sister that my other sis was collecting her used pad when she moved in with her after I relocated about 2 decades ago. The poor girl bled from the day she married till she died in her 30s.

    May her killer/s never know peace again in Jesus name. I just buy food, fuel etc through a dr friend who also tends to her medical needs and bills me. How much is Jamb form please? I want to buy 10 people's jamb form in her honor.I will send the money to Stella or her designated person. I am in the diaspora, highly educated and successful but I take the pant thing serious. Some folks are heartless.

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  67. Autism Disorder: my question is what is the government doing for this special people? Does the writer have an idea? If not he/she should kindly find out. Is there a place one can go to see them, help them in anyway? May God strengthen and bless their parents. Society need to help this kind of family. Thanks

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