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Saturday, February 09, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
SALARY FOR JOBLESS BOYFRIEND


Good day Fam,

Please is there a problem placing my bf on a salary, since he's not working at the moment? Considering the fact that, I didn't set out to assist him as my bf. But to help a good human in need.


3 of my 4 inner circle friends, thinks it's wrong. But I objected, because my inner self prompted me to do it. I was not sweet talked into doing it. The only one who supported my decision, insisted I put a time limit to it. Which I've done from inception. The thing is before relationship, I already saw humanity in him. 


I did tell him that, it will run for two and half years @45k monthly. I started mid last year, and can attest that he is putting it into good use. Things have picked up for him. The changes are amazing. He puts it straight into his hustle.


I spoke to my parents about it, before I started. And they didn't object, since it came as a goodwill. Besides its just a fraction of my monthly savings. And God has opened His heavens on me. For me it is like sowing a seed, the reward ever since, only my testimony can tell it all. I work and paid well. And does have side hustles. This guy, still brings me business that pays well too. I still give him 15% of the profit inclusive. Apart from the monthly stipend I deposit into his account.

In fact, my Dad said I should see it as my token contribution to humanity. That it is left for bf to appreciate my sacrifice and put it into better use. That sometimes, we are in peoples life not to stay. But as their divine helpers. That we might yet end up not getting married. And I understand that. Which is something we were thought growing up.


 My parents have always been much of a benevolence to people around them. And it works wonders. The job I have now, was given to me on a platter of gold. From someone my Mom had assisted in the past. Personally, I haven't seen anything wrong in it, other than someone in a good position helping a soul in need. I'm still working on getting a job for him too, but that hasn't happened.


To even make matters worst, 2 of these 3 friends of mine, who are opposed to this gesture. Only last week helped their respective bf's secure loans of 2.5million and 1.8million from a bank on their behalf. Please which is a greater risk? Abeg, I've done or doing something wrong here? I've made up my mind to up the deposits to 50k. Which way my sisters, abeg advice rightly.

My elder brother, started giving his girl friend something similar but higher. Since she is also unemployed. Taking a cue from me. And the lady have been blessed by it.





*Erm erm erm erm erm Lovely mindset you and your family got there...I am all up for it as long as you dont expect him to Marry you because of this help you are rendering to him......

As for your Friends,they did the same thing you are doing but in a different and more risky way.
Your brother is also paying his girlfriend salary?What a nice Family you got!!!!

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  1. It is well with you and yours.

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    1. Dear poster. 90% of broke guys ve good qualities so nothing special about this dude. Ur friends who secured loans for their boyfriends re warning u and u dont see as it "speaking from experience"? Listen up girl lets not deceive ourselves ure doing this becos hes ur boyfriend otherwise I personally think there are a million and one handicaps out there u can b benevolent and b blessed by d almighty.


      Personally I wont do this even if Dangote was my papa. After 2 n half years and he still doesn't find a job what happens? U allow him crawl back to his broke shell? My friend stop spoon feeding a grown ass man and allow him find his root.


      But wait o. So d guy dey really collect d 45k from u monthly? Must really b a processional gigolo.

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    2. All I can say is givers never lack and the hands that gives will always be on top.

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    3. Poster, let's pray it all ends well. Since you are doing humanity a favour, pls don't expect much from it but I pray it ends well for you.
      I will do same if I were in your shoes.

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    4. What did I just read? Poster what you are doing is so so wrong. Why not gather the money together and set up a business for him? As for me any man that will open his hand and collect even if is #1 from his girl friend or wife is NO NO for me. @Blessed Princess

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    5. Thank you o tessbaby, cus walahi I don’t understand this, for a whole 2years o and the man doesn’t have shame, as his business has risen, he isn’t even thinking of being responsible enough to tell you to stop.
      I can’t eveb marry his type who is comfortable with a woman feeding him... haba God forbid bad thing, where do you and your friends meet this your types?
      If your parents are not saying anything who am I?

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    6. N50k is too small to do any tangible thing in today's economy. Increase his allawee or give am beta money to take start proper business.
      Stop feeling like father Christmass family, even without you, guyman will still survive and what will be will be!

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    7. i can't be fooled with this poster write up of not wanting marriage from this guy, take it or leave it this poster is doing this to get marriage proposal from this guy. This is how you ladies start later you cry foul like tiwa. You're sponsoring everything if tomorrow he doesn't buy even #500 pamper for your baby you begin to halla. You are placing a grown ass man under salary for two years and expect a financial stable man tomorrow. Men are just too shameless these days. The ideal thing would have been to give him a loan to hustle his business but you are doing love kill me I. die and paying him instead. okay madam good heart continue. So you don't know your brother own even make a little sense, at least it's a man giving to a lady but you want to change the natural role enabling a vibrant young man that has two hands and legs that might even be older than you. pray that when you stop after the two and half years he doesn't hate you to the point of hurting you. There's just a thin line between love and hate.

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    8. @ poster your friends are right. What your friends did by securing loans for their guys is to get a one off bulk money with the message 'hustle a business and be a man'. What you are doing is raising a dependant. Just be ready to bare the family responsibilities if he marries you because that money you are spoonfeeding him will definitely multiply. Any man comfortable collecting upkeep money from his girlfriend will be comfortable letting you shoulder family responsibilities. I wish you luck.

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    9. poster I have been there though I'm not proud of it but I was really broke then but didn't love the girl, thought she wouldn't mind my having a girl since it was just help from her. But my life was hell. since the day she knew about my. girlfriend. please stop if you will not be able to withstand seeing him with another girl.

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    10. Anon17.21..you are so right. If she stops giving him money;let's say in three months time, he will end up hating her.
      In short the day she stops giving him money,the relationship ends.Poster I hope you know this.
      Your boyfriend is shameless,stop emasculating him. Once in a while assistance is okay; but paying him salary, like really?.

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    11. Poster you seem to have everything figured out so I don't see the point of this chronicle. Unless perhaps deep down you know your friends are right. God abeg make I jam this type family, lol 😎

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  2. All the best to you.

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    1. I love your mindset o
      But in this life some people were created to chop and some to give, I am a member of the chopping Wassp group, I have borrowed ex’s money in the past and they have paid back, I prefer gifting particular items or paying certain bills than giving one raw cash, but to put someone on a salary, nne I cant.
      Your family likes paying people salaries? Wow, what a family

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    2. So poster what you're saying is that if at the end of the day this young man comes to tell you I'm getting married not to you but to another girl that you should come be mother of the day as per you have always being his benefactor you will jump at it infact without hesitation. Poster continue deceiving yourself and don't allow God surprised you with this my described scenerio since you want to tell lies. it people like you that cursed this men out when they dumped you girls for their own choices.

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    3. Poster does not realise how she will feel now, except it happens. Poster I pray for your sake it doesn't happen because all this la di daa you are saying now will turn to incantations of curses because the pain and loss you will feel will shock you, no matter how you try to hide it or deceive yourself.

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  3. If his business is doing well and you are giving him a share of the profit, why do you still need to give him a salary? Generosity is good but it should be done with wisdom.

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    1. There is nothing commendable about this. She told her friends. She told her family. She has now told us. Poster, i pray that guy dumps u for this and he will.

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    2. Wow anon 15:55 i pity you. Ur heart is dArk

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    3. Anonymous 15:55 I'm with you on this. Poster why are you going about telling everybody? Don't you have your own mind? I don't understand your type cha cha

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  5. Really nice. Leave it at 45k since you posted his good quality.

    Your parents train you well. You tried very well. I can do that for my family but not boyfriend as in boyfriend.

    If it is 🐴 band I would have said increase.

    Anyway yours is better than your friends because those guys will eat the loan and eat their ikpu join well well

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    1. I've learnt so much here and I don't think I can try what the poster did but it's all good.

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    2. In my opinion, I will ask her to stop. As for her friends, na one Chance dey enter do. @Blessed Princess

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    3. People asking her to stop because she's the one paying, but if it's the other way you will be praising the guy where is it written only women has the right to be taken care of in a relationship, you can take care of your man if you have the resources without going to the extreme or putting yourself in danger. Which is not the case here, poster please continue your kind heart will be rewarded in a different manner you least expected. .

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  6. Just waiting for comments

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    1. Poster abeg you get another brother wey dey singleπŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†
      What a nice family!

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    2. Hahahahahaha Kidjo you no wellπŸ˜‚

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    3. Kidjo exactly oo
      I need to date one of his brothers...this relationship salary isn't a bad idea

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    4. Kidjo you reason wella
      Poster me sef need o😁
      You've got a wonderful family with a wonderful mindset.

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    1. Umunwanyi! I pity any man wey no sabi una. What exactly was this post for? Once a woman gives a man a pittance, the whole world must hear it. He must be ridiculed. Can you all quantify all we do for you on a daily basis? Yet, we tell no one. You guys even feel entitled to our money. If this post is true, poster you're a sick woman for bringing it here. If you genuinely love this guy, there's no way you will come here to ridicule him. We buy cars for ladies, open up multimillion naira businesses for them, put them on large salaries- yet, we tell no one. I hate you poster. I hate people like you. You're not a good person. This is why I tell my men " don't ever take anything from a woman, because with them, nothing is ever free. It's always a debt. They calculate every penny they spend on you, and will surely use it against you someday". Chukwu mana I will NEVER take anything from a woman! Even birthday gifts, I politely decline.

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    2. @21:10 you said it all

      Umunwanyi ajoka doo πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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    3. I’m also a woman and I agree to some of what you’re saying but not all. A real woman with a good heart won’t even bother bringing this chronicle on stella’s Blog. A real woman will help his man (married) or a guy friend or friends without conditions. but not stupid enough to place him on a monthly salary when he has not paid his bride price or not even sure if it’ll lead to marriage. At the end of the day, this lady wants something in return. Reason why her mind is not settled on what she’s doing. She might as well let the world know she’s helping his ass so when relationship turns sour (because I know it will), and she wants her money back, she’ll have enough people to back her up in collecting her money. Very mumu lady.
      Ps: anon 21:10, you’re not ready for marriage or relationship then if you don’t want a woman assisting you at all. It can’t be one way street all the time. Men also needs pampering. You’re human being. In marriage you both are one! So drop your ego or pride and relax. When you find the right woman and both of you are in agreement, it turns out well.

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    4. You hate the poster? Why? Because she came here anonymously for advice? Why are you claiming we buy houses, we buy cars yadayadayada, how do we know if you have even bought a pencil for your woman? What is all this I can't take anything from women, women are this and that yenyenyen?......Abeg grow up! Mtcheeww

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    5. Anon 21:10 not every woman is like the brain-dead woman who sent in the chronicle. I'm a woman and I'm very confused about her motives. She has said it's from her heart. Yet, they've had family meeting plus friends conference on top of one issue. That wasn't enough, so she ran to one of the most popular blogs in the world to broadcast what came from her heart. I wonder what will happen with a gift that's not from her heart.

      Original poster - I truly hope your boyfriend doesn't marry you cos you're actually a very bad person. Ajoo nwanyi ka i bu. Sorry but you're not a wife. Men do all sorts for women, and the women even take it as a right. You have even mentioned the amount and said it's a fraction of your savings; I hail you, rich woman. That means women who give kidney or blood to their men, should do PSA and carry placard. For real, how do you expect your parents and friends to look at him if he comes for your hand in marriage? This thing you've done is worse than not giving him a dime at all. Kai, now I see why some men leave some women when they make it. Everyone will be saying, "She stuck by him when he had nothing"; we won't know it's like this.

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    6. @anonymous 21:10 may God bless you. Small time now they will be claiming feminists with equal rights. My marriage crashed the very year I lost my job, she did everything to frustrate the hell out of life. Thank God for today, I now have my peace..

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    7. Anon 05:57, if women had your mentality, believe me, the world will be a sweet place to live. Chukwu gozie gi. I love you already!

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  8. Its good you are doing it as an act of pure benevolence, you are permitted to help him so far you won't feel bad IF the relationship goes south, and so far you are willing to shoulder 70% of d household responsibility without complain if u marry him without a job, my dear, fire down, its ur money.

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    1. What stupid act of benevolence when she has told everybody? How will this guy save face if he marries her. Even if u are my blood relative and u told everyone how u are helping me i would totally dislikeu.

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    2. That's how she is naa, talk talk torku mike...d guy might end up with someone else n she won't mind hence I applaud her benevolent spirit.

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    3. But wait o, poster, for 2yrs now he has been on allawee, why hasn't he become independent? D money suppose don help am stand without u giving him again.

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    4. She will even pay school fees for their kids out of benevolence πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      This kind of guy cannot be bad now, he die there, see person receiving salary as boyfriend
      Aunty go into your street and help humanity, you are just spoon feeding this guy abeg, now his friends will be looking at him and also start looking for relationships that they can chop from

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    5. Hmm some people want to be helped but don't want it to be known...hehehehee anon you're wicked. What is wrong if she let's people know?

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    6. Anon guess you are 20:21. So you will dislike the person but continue receiving the help? Be there hating and disliking. Who send you?

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  9. Dear poster, you have a good heart. I pray your bf doesn't disappoint you. I wish I could get that kind of help too and invest it in my proposed business.

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    1. I feel this story if its true might not necessarily be from a good heart. Maybe from a sense of righteousness sha... but who knows.

      When ever I want to give things sometimes I ask myself, is it out of love for that person or is it because of self. Do I just want to show off.
      As the bible said in 1 corth 13. If you give all I have and I have no love, wetin you gain?...... then it goes on to say love does not boast.

      You give him why are telling everybody?
      If you have you doubts why dont you just stop?
      If you want to help humanity abeg sister I am also humanity oo,
      I wont mind the help.

      Why dont you help someone that might not be able to repay in cash or kind?

      This looks like you taking a selfie while giving a begger money.

      Anyhow, if happens that you really are that kind hearted know that anywhere in the world not just in naija a man is supposed to be and act like a man. Men naturally SHOULD have a sense of honour, they should be the one taking major care of their family with wives as help meet.

      Your paying him is buying or gradually taking away his sense of worth, his pride(if he has any)
      If the relationship should lead to marriage it might be out of a sense of "owing ' you. wanting to pay back your kindness.

      Or he just hit jackpot as you loving him or is it him loving you na scam.

      PS: if your family is for real and nobody wont start holding beneficiaries of their generosity to ransom later, and if all this generosity no be jazz in the camoflag

      abeg connect me with another one of your generous love humanity brothers o .


      Iam singu and sashing :)


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  10. Erm, hantie, do you have a single brother , cousin , or does your brother need a side chick, or a single uncle?? Asking for a friend pls.....reply under my comment. Thankyouverymuch

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    1. Sylvia Nwanyioma I follow you dey ask o. Poster do you have a single brother? See groove 😍

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  11. What's to happen in two and half years after the money stops. What's this hustle he's doing with the money? Is it something that can actually establish him or is he just getting money to eat. The loans might be more useful if they help those boyfriends start a solid business. I'm not saying do that, I'm just wondering how your current plan can help lift your man up. Will he better served by joining your business or you establishing one for him or maybe going back to school

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  12. As long as you see it as a Goodwill gesture. Don’t expect anything from it, he might end up not marrying you, he might end up cheating on you. I personally don’t respect any man that takes money from a woman as if he comes from a good home, his family will advise him not to accept it.

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    1. Goodwill to humanity until he says he doesn't want you anymore.....then you realised how an ingrate he is. Like Stella said, hope you do t expect him to marry you because you paid him salary. He will end up marrying you out of pity not out of love.

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    2. He wont marry you. In fact he shouldnt since you have broadcast your so called benevolence to all and sundry.

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    3. You have a very distorted mind!

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    4. Hope you are not empowering him to foster a side chick? Anyway you know your man.

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  13. Poster come closer, oya repeat this prayer after me;
    My father my Lord,any where they've tied my sense to let your thunder untie me today in Jesus. Oya sodi aduraaaaaaaa...
    Yepa,mogbe. Poster if I were your mum I will slap you until you come back to your senses. What manner of desperation is this kwanu? Poster stop giving out your hard earned money to that jobless guy. You've been long on this blog but you've never learnt anything sensible from here. If there's anything I've learnt here....it's never to give any broke guy my 1kobo. Let everyone go and hustle for their own money. And believe me that guy will chop your money and still dump your over desperate ass since you've turned yourself to bank of industry.
    Oshisco...oshi rada rada.

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    1. No na she doesn't need this prayer.

      Poster is doing it without pressure from any side.

      It's her goodwill to humanity.

      Okay, how about the brother paying the girlfriend? Abi is that one not the reverse?

      Wait, so if na you, you won't collect,


      Abeg God send me plenty destiny helpers πŸ™πŸ™πŸ™

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    2. Mumu girl. If u want to do charity why not go to a home for the he motherless? What nonsense? Your boyfriend cannot go and drive Uber and make 45k per month but he can collect from you for 2 years.
      When you have an argument, will he be able to speak back or will he keep quiet too scared to bite the hand that feeds him.
      Stella please keep in touch with this mugu and send us an update in a few months.
      Nonsense and ingredients.

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    3. Queen and boss will just be shaking her head somewhere. This one don pass forming miss independent.

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  14. Wow! U and ur family do not just have good hearts but u guys have a great mindset.
    Since u decided on doing this without pressure, not with thoughts that he will someday become ur husband, I say why not. Remain blessed.

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    1. Good hearts? No way. Tbis poster is a show off. So your friends all know. Your entire family too. Jeez, he WILL dump you. He MUST NOT marry you or he will be tiold how he would have been nothing without you.

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    2. Even if he dumps her,poster has assured SDK that she won't feel bad, so harm done, its her money..no be ur own.

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    3. Lmao! Assured ko assurance ni.

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  15. Hmmm this is really deep but as long as you are not expecting anything in return,its ok.

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    1. Because poster is not human but an angel? Poster if that guy nor marry you e go pain you gaaaan.

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  16. I don't really have any problem with what you're giving your bf, but I don't get the reason everyone must be in the know. How come you're telling your friends and family that you want to be giving him money? It's more of a pride than giving out of free will to me.

    How long has your bf been jobless? Did you enjoyed him when he was working as well or he he has never worked since you started dating him? Since your brother is doing same to his gf, even paying her higher than yours, you too should continue, it shows that it runs in your family, continue giving him.

    But as for me, I can't place my bf on salary for 2 and half years, what for? I don't even think you pray for him to get job again, he will be so relaxed with your money and this will continue when you marry as well. Just put it at the back of your mind that, if you eventually get married to him, you've already exchanged your roles, you will continue to be the husband and him the wife at home.




    *Larry was here*

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    1. Don't mind her arrant nonsense. Guys that can't be vouched for. If I borrow you 100k for my life sef I go still collect am back

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    2. I totally agree with your first paragraph starry . My friends know , my parents this

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  17. I personally don’t think everything should be brought for people to judge. Especially since your inner mind has told you to do it and your family approves.

    Truthfully It’s unconventional and a lot of people regret what you’ve done because the heart of humans are desperately wicked. That’s probably why your friends have kicked against it.

    But like you said it’s an inner conviction and you’ve been blessed through it so i wish you the very best and would only advice don’t expect anything from your gesture.

    Good luck!

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  18. Family with hearts of GOLD!! If U feel good about it, then by all means, ride on dear.. The beauty of giving is expecting nothing in return... Heaven will continue to open more doors for U darling, I luv U already... Generous people gimme joy, honestly!

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    1. I'm telling you, poster gave me joy reading this.

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  19. U won't b really affected or loose cos u av already had it at d baq of ur mind DAT its either d relationship leads to marriage or not. Believe me u, if he doesn't marry u God will definitely give u a man DAT will value n appreciate u. If he marries u God will bless urs n all in his home...

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  20. Hats off to you! Givers never lack.... hopefully things turn out well..

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    1. Notthis type of loud mouthed giver. Announcer! Kukuma take out an ad in the papers to let us know how you are helping your boyfriend.

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    2. Anon e don do.yes givers never lack. If you continue with this yo behaviour u might just not get anything at all

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    3. 16:04 what are on about. It's an anonymous story. Yes if he reads he'll know it's him but we don't know him. Stop already. If I'm giving sombtgat kind of money, of course I'll ask my close people for their thoughts because tomorrow now if something goes wrong, who will I carry the matter to. They will say why did you do this without counsel.

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  21. My dear you have tried for him.
    Pls don't expect him to put a ring on it after all this your kindness. He may or may not, so keep an open mind.
    God bless you for helping him.

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    1. Commendable, my arse! Noisemaker, pls go on a rooftop and announce it someone. Helper of the universe

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    2. Na wa for this anon. We don see you.

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  23. Don't give him for 2 months to see if he will ask about his"salary".. lol

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    1. I agree with anonymous 15:20. lol "Forget" to give him, and see if he will remind you hahaha. If he does, tell him you are broke, and see if he will give you something. That guy has no shame, why hasn't he ask you to stop, if his business is doing well?

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  24. good and giving heart runs in your family. keep it up

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  25. Two and a half years !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Warra F.
    What da F did i just read.
    Dude don hammer.
    Biggest time.
    Meanwhile, my dear, its not like paying tithe.
    There are real homeleas people around you honey.
    Not some dude that already earns 15%off his girlfriend.
    Truth is bitter but must be told.
    Nigerian guys cannot handle this thing u are doing.
    A typical nigerian will bail. When he is done.
    Except he is lazy.
    Just dont feel entitled to marriage.
    And if marriage happens, get ready to triple d allowee

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    1. Tankiooo...she will shoulder the house responsibilities coz dude is relaxed, I bet she will organize d wedding herself n give him money to pay d bride price.

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    2. You have said it my dear. Just get ready because either is what might happen.

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  26. u're a lady with a benevolent heart,please don't listen to your friends,keep the humanitarian work going, if he's meant for you so it is and vice versa.

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    1. See a lazy mans advice. So the bf is now doing well, and still taking the allowance. Madam, did you read about that man who poured acid on his wife yesterday? This was how it started. Be grooming another lazy man

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    2. But anon if the case was reversed, i.e. the girl placed on allowance, you people will not call it grooming laziness. Talk about double standards.

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    3. Double wetin, iffa hear! A man that depends on a woman, is that one a man? A boyfriend for that matter? Namsense. When woman marry this kind man, na she go become man nau.

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  27. Your dad is a wise man. He has prepared you well. I also did same for my boyfriend (now husband). I would have done it for him regardless of whether he was my boyfriend or not. And I frequently reminded him that we do not necessarily have to endend together and what I did for him I would willingly do for anyone else. Well we ended up together and I think our relationship is stronger because of that experience.

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    1. Did you announce it to your friends and family? This is my men dont marry women who helped them cos they talk like parrots. Tufiakwa nne, u misyarn.

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    2. So are you the one carrying the house now financially?

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  28. Do you have any younger brother that is single? I want to start business too

    A man's gift makes room for him. God bless you for your kindness. Follow your heart but be wise. This man should forever respect you but if it doesn't turn out well, the best is yet to come. Your friends are the biggest risk takers I have heard of in recent times

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  29. Mtche
    I hiss small because you didn't give room for proper criticism at all. You already blocked all the loopholes these hungry mucheche kpalasas babes on this platform for use take enter you.
    No advise neither.

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    2. Kpalasas king is typing

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  30. Babe but that your bf doesn't have shame oo, how can he feel comfortable collecting money from you. I just hope he's not a gold digger
    U dey really try

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  31. The good thing is,you know what you're getting into... Stella has said everything...
    All the best!!!

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  32. Wow! Poster u have a heart of Gold. I pray it favours you. Not everyone can do this. I can't do it. For BF? U try. God bless u

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    1. Poster has a blabbing mouth. Talkative. Helper of the universe. I hope the guy dumps you.

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    2. Anon 16:11 are you the guy?

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    3. anonymous ghost its OK.stop replying everywhere leave poster alone.rotin bad belle enemy of help yet you pray to encounter help.bitter leaf

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    4. I wonder Deheroine. Abi this anon all over the post dey collect salary?

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  33. Your family has a great mindset

    God bless you for this, hope the guy will appreciate this your kind gesture and not take it for granted.

    All the best

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    1. How will he appreciate it when she has told the whole workd?

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    2. Hahahahahaha poster are you sure your boyfriend is not a BV? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Who is this anonymous that has carried this case like cross of Calvary?πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ OMG!

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  34. You and your family have a heart of gold, that's all I can say.

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  35. I always like to tell myself the truth in anything I'm doing.So you really want me to believe that you don't have marriage at the back of your mind with what you are doing? My dear, please stop that lie. It's even better to give him a one-off money or loan to start up a business than placing him on a monthly salary...are you alright? By all means, help people around you, but don't be foolish in the process. Married people don't even place their unemployed spouses on a salaries.You said its an act of kindness right? Please don't cry foul when he marries another.

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    1. Wait till the gigolo save it up and send her the wedding IV. Women no longer think well before doing somethings. Yes you are kindhearted poster but dnt make foolish decision trying to help. Wait till you play a prank and tell him your job stopped then you go see e true color.

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    2. Wait till the gigolo save it up and send her the wedding IV. Women no longer think well before doing somethings. Yes you are kindhearted poster but dnt make foolish decision trying to help. Wait till you play a prank and tell him your job stopped then you go see e true color.

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  36. You told your friends you placed your boyfriend o salary, wow!I wonder how he will feel when he finds out you told the world you are helping him.

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    1. Na so. The world knows now. Maybe she should put in for the Nobel Peace Award.

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    2. I agree. Poster, it is not wise to be disclosing things to all and sundry. Learn to apply wisdom.

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  37. this is wow, hope he's not using the money on another babe

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    1. Poster, when he finds out how everyone knows his girlfriend put him on a salary, he WILL, i repeat, he WILL dump you. And i pray he finds out and dumps u. Poster, how old are you exactly. Chei, u have disgraced the poor boy. I hope he pays u back and dumps you. You need some experience.

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    2. Poster remove your mind that you will marry him. If God is blessing you thru your giving!! Give becos you want to... how do you think your family and friends will look at him after telling them you placed him on salary???? He is a MAN. Grown man. Jezz.

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  38. If the roles were reversed, will he do same? Try a little experiment and tell him you’ve lost your job which invariably means salary would stop and watch his reaction. I just hope your heart will be able to take it the day he introduces his fiancΓ©e to you.

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  39. I no fit laugh...
    Shameless guy.. Woman placing you on salary for two years and your spirit is not challenged... Mshewwww

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    1. Na gigolo na. The good you do to men is at your own risk. My bf I did all for. Bailed him wen he wa in trouble. Paid for all d damages. Give him moni. Spend for e Visa. No be him introduced e gf last week to me??? Men dnt remember good you do to them. Only few does. Goodluck to u ok.

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  40. Wow
    Did the same thing with my little salary then to somebody I felt needed help, even though my was very little, but today to God be the glory, we ended up being husband and wife.
    And to crown it all I he got a far better job and me stop working and as at today he has been able to buy lands here and there in our names, we live in our own house and drive a good car, all by the grace of God

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    1. But did u announce it to your family and friends like this benevolent hearted poster?

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    2. This anon jumping upandan like a crazed demon !!!! What’s your own

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    3. Poster, this anon don buy your matter oπŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ€£

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    4. Anon 16:12 did you tell the whole world when you were doing it?

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  41. If he end up leaving you, hope you'll take as fate and move on with your life.

    -Oh the things we do for love-

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    1. Not if, when he ends up leaving you. Poster, u will be left.

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  42. Dear Poster,I think I need your type of family in my life right now.I think they can help me out of this mess I am presently.About your story,do not put your mind in the fact that your boyfriend will marry you.Just see it aş an act of kindness so you don't get hurt someday.Most importantly,look for a job for him.Let him start working and earn a salary so that you can know who he truly is ânce he's independent so you won't end up wasting your time.

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  43. Poster you are unique,infact ehn,you are grace personified,you are a superwoman.

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  44. You're the helper of his destiny.

    Keep doing God's work and He'll meet you at the point of your needs

    That's the type of friend I need

    What a selfless love.

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  45. Stella,try change the mindset of some women for this your blog,make their darkness nor swallow dem up,see them hating on the poster,is it your money,yeye people,abi alakija nor get money pass her husband,see as the women dey para for here and na them go do pass for back.

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    1. That is just the mentality of the poor. It's easy to tell who the small people re by their comments. They can only understand the lady, if they have ever been in a position to not only give, but without expecting. Her bf probably makes her happy enough, & if he dumps her eventually, it's his loss anyway, it wouldn't change poster's mentality, nor would it reduce her blessings... Her money, her business, they need to drink water & mind theirs, haba!

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    2. Don't mind them oh. Hypocrites. It is not their money yet they are jumping up and down all over the place. Meanwhile most of them are dashing cookie to bfs all over the place, asking for transport allowance and yet crying feminism.

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  46. Interesting. You have really tried, hmmmn, well-done.
    You will never know the true-colour and intent of this your guy. Will it be possible for you to stop this salary for the time being, say, four months??. God ,of course, loves a cheerful giver ,please, direct this kind gesture to a family that really needs it, there are several less privileged families to assist, give the money to different needy families for this four months , my Sister.
    There is nothing wrong with assisting your BF but I don't think putting him on a salary is the way to go. If you can get a lump-sum give it to him to help his hustle then forget about this salary thing. I won't even advise you to go into marriage with him unless his finances change rapidly and he can comfortably take care of the home- front. Things are happening , dearie. I am also a generous giver but giving should be with wisdom.
    Stop the salary please, unless you are paying him for being your BF or paying him for the XES, you can tell him that you have issues with your salary.
    Please, do not put all your eggs in a basket .When a more capable man comes by, welcome him . Cheers.

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  47. Stella on point. As far u dnt want to marry him if not plsssssssssses dnt try that shit.

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  48. Unique, ko! Poster is a show off. Looking for recognision. So u told yr friends and yr familyπŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ™„

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  49. Poster has given her reason why she is doing it,She states she is under no pressure.Please,you people should leave her alone.Make una Rest.Nobody knows tomorrow It’s funny,even the ‘’i never chop bellyful’’people have an opinion,una wey ordinary Fanta,una no fit use una money buy for man.

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    1. If poster is so sure then why the chronicle? Be calling people you don't know poor, you that is rich.

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  50. Poster welldone oooo, my regards to ur family Γ beg show love reach my side.

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  51. Okokobiokoooo!!! Somebody wake me up bikonu...

    *Puts bowl on SDK floor*
    *Pees into bowl yaaaaa*
    *Adds salt*
    *Targets Poster's face*
    *Pours content on Poster's face*

    Nne, i si gini????
    Let me first inform you that 45kX36 is 1,620,000. And it's dash not loan in your own case so your friends are smarter IF they get back their money. You want to put somebody's grown son on allawee for two and half years plus 15% commission? Nne your Microfinance power is running on Enugu coal! And you are not doing this with marriage in view o? You are the real MVP sosai. Na jealousy go kee dem DJ Cuppy and Temi when dem read this chronicle aswear. See philanthropy on fleek na! Let me just pray that God continues to bless those your three genuine friends. As for you, CARRY GO! The Lord is your muscle, liver and kidney join.

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    1. I was hoping to see your comment, Q&B and Doppel's too. lol. S&M go tough today o. Guys will be like "I need an upwardly mobile lady who can pay me 50k monthly allawee for 5 years plus 15 percent commission for a relationship that may lead to marriage". This is very......I need a strong adjective please. I'm totally gobsmacked.

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  52. I won't deny its a good mindset. Just continue doing what you feel give you joy. But then you should make sure he is not wasting it & he is really putting it into a good business that is working. Again better don't cry & cream when he leaves you for someone else. manage it in good fate. What is life indeed without a helper? Your father is right, God rewards a cheerful giver.

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    1. The family are way too nice.
      God bless them.

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  53. Poster you have a heart of gold, please do keep it up... As far he is putting it into good use don't stop doing what you are doing, you can help him get back to his feet. . Not everyone comes into our lives to stay, some come for a purpose...Dont see it as you helping your boyfriend, see it as you helping someone in need it will make you feel better and please don't expect nothing in return, so you don't feel entitled. . Don't stop the good work...

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  54. They there dey form good. Your bf go dey give am to one chew gum babe. Lolz

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    1. I don't really understand this bvs complaining,smh.Is it unah money?leave her to do as she pleases with her money,there's nothing actually wrong with what she is doing,after all her younger bro is doing same and non of you have said anything,infact you've all pretended as if you didn't read anything like that.Hapunuya aka indii uwa uchu.

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    2. Complaining Kwa? Only advising. Women have experienced a lot poor my sister.

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  55. Poster you really have a good heart. I have a different mindset though. I can loan my boyfriend money and we shall agree on the date he will payback. I noticed that the "men" of this generation are somehow comfortable as women caters for them. Continue helping him if that is what makes you happy. Note that, the moment you stop paying him, wahala go dey be that.

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  56. The thing that I don't understand is why you told your friends or why you're telling us. You say what you're doing is coming from your heart; why do you need people who are not seeing your heart, to tell you whether you're doing right or wrong? I hope your reliance on your so-called friends and on strangers, will not destroy your relationship.

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  57. Sweetheart,men fall in love with you by what they do for you, not what u do for them,u are a woman. ........so relax and get that genuine love before your generosity can follow,

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  58. It's good you are not expecting marriage in return. But that's hard to believe since he is your BOYFRIEND.
    Well I hope everything turns out well for you and him too.

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  59. Reading through most of the comments here especially from the ladies I come to certain conclusions.

    (1).Most Nigerian women want giving in a relationship to be One sided. The guy doling out cash and the woman receiving. Anytime this equation is reversed, you find the women cringe at any thought whatsoever in helping their men out. It's almost a disgusting idea that they should allow any man benefit from their finances.

    (2) A successful relationship is judged by how much she has benefited from the guy, financially, mertirially etc. Most of these kind of ladies bring nothing to the table except their Vaginas. They expect to be fully taken care of... spoiled lavishly, spent on. Etc The only thing they have to give in return is sex.

    This is the height of selfishness! Prov 30 vs15. " The Leech has 2 daughters,Give, Give, they cry out".

    Naija ladies change your mindset!!! Stop crying give me, give me everytime! God created women to be helpmates to their men. Develop that habit of helping your men.

    I do not support a man being lazy. No! But if you are in a relationship and you are in a position to aid your man, why not? (Especially when you have a responsible man with the fear of God.) when he makes it later in life he will value the woman who stood with him.

    Poster, If your man is responsible, you might have given him in bulk instead of bits. But also understand that you are sowing a seed, he might end up not marrying you, he might also marry you. Whatever the case is, you have helped a soul out. You will receive your reward.

    For all you sharp mouthed olosho gold digging bitches that will wanna come after me for suggesting this anathema idea of helping your men. Lol. I am a well doing married man. Not a gigolo. Married to, a golden hearted woman . Funny when I married her for over a year,she didn't even have a job.(lest you think I was chasing her money, she had nothing much!") But I knew she would be helpmate, and she has over proved me right. I just ordered her Valentines gift. It's a mission of mine to spoil her. Can't wait to see her reaction when she receives it in her office


    On 2 the Next!

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    1. You are talking too much, hope you are not lying, claiming what you are not because this is a faceless blog? I suspect you are collecting salary from a woman and comfortable doing so, but your ego is being pricked when you are called out. The thing pain you too much. If you like abuse all of us here, you are just showing the kind of man you are. Na you sabi, continue being comfortable with your woman quietly being the bread winner. One day she will get fed up and everyone will know. Breeze go blow and fowl nyas* go open.

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  60. I can do it for my boyfriend because he has always been there for me.... I'm even praying to God to bless me to bless him. Can't wait to spoil him silly

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    1. He has shown himself that is why. A gigolo is different, always at the receiving end.

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  61. Poster you’re obviously not ok with this plan of placing your BF on salary. Reason why it’s bothering you. You told your family, friends and now here. You’re not comfortable with this current situation. 45k every month??? My good lord. Your self worth is completely on the floor and you sound desperate to keep this man. As a woman, if this guy does not step up to the plate when it’s his turn, you will always remind him of how you helped him. Relationship will turn sour. Just have it at the back of your mind that you won’t end up marrying this guy. If you do then be ready for a selfish marriage. Foundation is not strong at all. You’re going to regret doing this. I bet you’re already regretting, hence this chronicle. he is NOT your husband. Do this for a husband when you’re both one in a marriage and hell he better step up in other areas in the home if you’re contributing financially. What else has he brought to the table in this relationship that makes you think he’s worth placing on a monthly salary? Tell me one major positive impact he’s made in your life. Stop this stupidity. If you’re to help, help him here and there but not place him on a salary. Is the sex that good??? Good luck oo because you’ll need it. And you better update us 6 months down the line! We gotta know if your stupidity worked out well for you. Low self esteem and desperate girl. Mtscheww.

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  62. Aunty, stop looking for validation. Stop comparing yourself with your friends. What they did put theirs boyfriend's on a pedestal. With the loan, there's a leash for them to repay. Yours has no time limit (even though you say it does). Just go with the flow and enjoy your life

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  63. Poster is a good decision and Hod will continually to bless you and your family. As long as you are not attaching anything to it, then you can help the poor guy.

    Where can I meet any of your family members? I did not come to this world to suffer, I also need such boo.

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  64. I am not 100% certain that I believe this chronicle.

    You are free to do with your money as you see fit, but the historical data on this sort of matter is that the man usually end up breaking up with the money. If you are doing this with no expectation of anything in return then do it, but if you think it will guarantee loyalty and love please think otherwise.

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    1. I did same to my then bf now hubby. He lost his job and I supported him while he was busy hustling for another one. He eventually got a better job, travelled out for training, came back and married me. It depends on the man. If he is a good and hard working man, go ahead n assist him.

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  65. Poster for me the only wrong thing is letting your friends and family know how you're helping your boyfriend. I can do so with anyone I love but it must be just between us. How do you expect your boyfriend to have confidence when everyone knows that you're his backbone? A lot of men lavish money on girlfriends or wife so there's no big deal if it's the other way round.

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    1. Men spend on women for their own good. Usually their ego and fulfillment.

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  66. Poster for me the only wrong thing is letting your friends and family know how you're helping your boyfriend. I can do so to anyone I love but it must be just between us. How do you expect your boyfriend to have confidence when everyone knows that you're his backbone? A lot of men lavish money on girlfriends or wife so there's no big deal if it's the other way round.

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