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Sunday, March 24, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative

Hmmmmm...






STAND ALONE NARRATIVE
MESSED UP MIND

Hi Stella,


My mind is messed up right now,I really need advice.
It is about my husband's colleague. She is a married lady in her mid-forties.
She has a child and also heavily pregnant now.

She and my husband are in the same department in a company. They are always together.
Sometimes they travel on official errands to other states for 2 or 3 days.


I recently noticed that this lady has consistently been send my husband porn videos through whatsapp.He Even commented on some that they were very interesting.


I confronted him and he told me that someone sends such videos to her and she shares to him and other colleagues.He also added that he is watching such to learn different styles during love making.

But why will a married woman who is even pregnant send porn videos to another woman's husband?

Could it be that they are having an affair?
Should I confront her and tell her to stop sending such to my husband?

Pls post as a chronicle.So I can get some mature advice.
 



*No dont confront her.....Why dont you have a one on one with the man you married?Hmmmm how did you know?Snooping on his phone?Na wah!!!

109 comments:

  1. This is shady and I don't want to poison ur mind so I will keep quiet. But truly it's not looking good.

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    1. As ur hubby lack MB 2 download porn na another person wife e dey wait 2 share give am. So he needs 2 watch porn b4 he can satisfy u abi?

      Tell ur hubby if this continues ull go straight to her husband and report her with evidence. Married woman foot. This one husband go get side chick tomorrow she too go dey blow hot hot mteeeeew.

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    2. Which kind of poison
      She knows there is more to it .
      She is in self denial.
      She just needs us to validates the truth.

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    3. Poster gather enough evidence and call the attention of your husband and the woman.
      Tell them to stop the affair, that if you find any reason again to suspect them, that you will forward the evidence to the woman's husband and their coworkers .

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    4. No time for nonsense, get her own husbands number, or facebook and send him screen much of the rubbish she is sending her male colleagues! Hoelosho!!! is the babby for ur hubby? Nne she is making u uncomfortable in ur own marriage, ngwa, make hers too uncomfortable and tell ur hubby to block her or u too will start sending porn to the ladys hubby so that it is a three some sef

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    5. Tessbaby, i 100% agree with your comment. Let her hubby tell himself to stop sendung him porn videos and if it continues you go straight to the woman's husband expose him for " sexting" a married man. Such insolence

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    6. People don’t know the number of married women that cheats is way/far more than single unmarried girls.

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    7. Poster just get her husbands no,and start sending him the forwarded porn videos also. So he can also learn more styles to use on his wife. Your best bet is to tell your husband how you feel that you don't like such. And tell him he should ask the lady to stop sending such videos or you would do it yourself.

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    8. Poster contact the woman and ask her if her husband is aware that she shares porn videos with her collegues or if you should help her inform him.

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    9. People are really shameless these days.

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  2. Madam don't confront her o, leave her since she decided to be worthless (it may sound funny to her) but instead tackle your husband that couldn't restrict her from sending more xx videos.

    See the excuse he gave learning different styles? Different styles kee you there! Na from clap dem dey enter dance

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    1. Don't confront her me? If i were the poster, I will confront her but that's after dealing with my shameless husband.
      Her husband must know who he married and see things for what it is, any woman who deliberately dates a married man should prepare for whatever may come out of it.

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    2. And the husband and woman travel together. Hmmm I will be surprised if nothing has happened, or maybe soon to happen. Tueh!

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    3. If i were you, i will get the husband's number and start sending him the videos too. Madam don't be quite about it, very stupid woman trying to destroy your home, fight her silently since your husband is trying to play smart.

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  3. Madam, confront both your husband and the woman. Make sure you don't dramatize the confrontation; just have a matured talk with them.

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    1. Madam...RULE 1. When you snoop NEVER EVER SPILL.

      If you see info act on it from the shadows.

      Now you can't do much because your husband knows you know. You are messed up? Abeg you are an adult get a grip of yourself and plan.

      I have Facebook password, email password and phone passwords and I HAVE NEVER SQUEALED .

      I see bank transfers and I plan and fcuk everyone up from the shadows.

      I will never fight my husband or any woman but I will make sure they fight long and hard against each other because when I set things in motion noone would ever know I have a hint of the affair. .so I'm the least person to be suspected.

      I've burnt my husband's cable so many times codedly and he comes home frustrated while I smilingly serve him dinner.

      Stop squealing when you snoop.

      Just plan and set oga and sidechic against each other. ..don't leave a trace.

      As they fight you offer a shoulder to cry on.

      It would have been easier if you got a couple of young men to call her and offer to shag her at hotels all around town.

      The calls would ALWAYS come in when you are sure she is home with her husband.

      You would have got the same young men to ALWAYS send her porn...morning Afternoon and evening. ..she would AUTOMATICALLY suspect your husband na so fight go start.

      Always make sure a man calls her first thing in the morning as she wakes no be only her dey mad.

      Get her husband's number send anonymous text messages asking him to watch his slutty wife plus check her mobile and watch the drama unfold.

      Me I no dey open Confrontation e no make sense. UNDER G moves dey sweet pass ooooo. Next time shut up your mouth wear your big girl pants and ACT.

      This method has worked so many times and guy man don dey rest now. He fights with his sidechics consistently because of the pressure and seeds of discord I plant from the shadows. Now e don dey tire for sidechic matter

      I never confront I never abuse I always plan and act

      UTTERLY completely DESTROY her marriage from the shadows make she dey find the village people wey dey find am! Ijiot

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    2. 18:50 you are the real MVP. Now that is how to snoop. Not to snoop and goan cry in one corner. If you don't have the stomach for snooping, don't do it. But sorry will be your name when you realise a lot of things were happening under your nose, when you were busy looking aside and fanning your head.

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    3. Hehehehe, i like this, see strategy

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  4. Find ur hubby mumu button and press if after heart to heart communication.
    Some men will not see anything wrong.
    And they don't know when to be firm with the opposite sex.
    It's from clap it enters dance .
    If he loves u he will politly tell her to stop .
    But if u see after all these and it still continues..
    my dear speak to the woman that u don't like it.
    This should be your last option .if it gets to u telling her urself know it that ur man has no respect for ur feelings.

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    1. speak to who?

      lmaaaaao never ever put yourself in the position where you have to speak to your husband's side piece its way beneath you

      it's demeaning you owe each other nothing

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  5. Which one is snooping again,spouses can handle each others phone and go through gallery or videos,as for the woman sending porn, she no get shame again,my dear anything can happen,confront ur husband and ask him if there's anything going in BTW them,if she feels somehow let her do it with her own husband pls not with someone else's.

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    1. I tire ooo.
      When u are married
      U hide nothing
      I have all my hubby password so from my phone I check.
      Sometimes I see msg I don't like.
      We address It and move on...
      Are u doing open marriage that u will not be able to scroll hubby's phone.

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    2. Thank you ooo...i was about to say same too. Which one is snooping, on my husband's phone? Odiegwu...#teamsnooptillkingdomcome

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    3. hey @Tenth, open marriage gives you even more right to scroll phone, introduce 3somes and orgies. If it's open marriage, Poster won't bring this chronicle or need our advice.

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  6. Confront her via phone! If your husband objects, he's a shitty man!

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    1. Why confront the lady and not deal with your man!?

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    2. @Anon 16:31, good question......
      The poster already knows the truth about both of them. She only wants to know whether it will be ok to confront the intruder! Since guyman is feeling fly, let's see how willing he is to disgrace his ansestors!! #nonsence&ingredients

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  7. They must be something more than colleagues for her to boldly send porn to your husband, they are friends with benefit...I'm sure her own husband has no idea she's sending porn to another man
    ..they are learning styles they will use on their business trip...hahahahahahaa

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    1. I swear. Poster if he disagrees, tell him youu want to make friends with her husband so you guys can share una own porn.
      Abi dont you need to learn new styles???.

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    2. Poster better still, look for her husband's number then forward all the porns he forwarded to your husband to him then tell the husband since her wife enjoys sending porns to your husband, you see nothing wrong in forwarding to him to.

      She's very stupid and I'm annoyed.

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  8. These Mrs of today ehn! Una wahala too much abeg. Before you accept to marry a guy, why not let him turn over other stones first and see if he comes back to you. That way you don't have to fight off any side chics or even worry your head too much about who he's chatting/sharing anything with. Your confidence, peace of mind and security will be @its peak. Nobody owns anybody, even in marriage, hence there won't be a high divorce rate everywhere. Please don't confront anybody, talk to your man, if he continues & you still want to stay married to him, protect yourself, shikenan!

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    1. Na advice she ask.
      Mrs or Mr sanctimonious

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    2. You no see the advice for the last sentence? Over sabi Anon 15:31. NΓ©e sanctimonious!

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  9. Hmmmmm
    I hope some BVs won't say, the woman might be preggy for your hubby oπŸ™„πŸ™„πŸ˜³πŸ˜³πŸ˜±

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    1. My thought exactly. Who even knows if she’s truly married. This is not normal. Posters hubby might be the father of her kids.

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    2. Na you talk am. She devil

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    3. I thought along this line as well.poster, get her husband's line and forward all she sent to your hubby to him detailing her as the sender. Chukena!

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    4. Send the details to her husband and watch your own marriage pack up.
      Try it and see.

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    5. Don de Don TM.....

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  10. Iya Oshoronga of Blogosphere24 March 2019 at 15:18

    It may just be a case of ‘over-familiarity’ in the office between colleagues! They may not be having an affair! Tell your husband you don’t like this sort of thing. πŸ€”On the other hand, my mind is telling me your husband lied, that this woman sends these videos to him alone. Don’t approach the woman, just face your husband and begin to do coded investigations. This is messed up.

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  11. He's doing something with her o... and there'll be no prove because she's pregnant! Choi! Are you even sure it's her husband that's responsible. .. Better dig deeper, poster. Ehen, if they weren't doing it, she wouldn't be sending such. It only people who are about doing it, or are doing it, that exchange porn... take this to the bank! Poster put a leach on your man.

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  12. Madam there's more to this than meets the eye, "colleagues with benfits" I guess. The issue of snooping btwn married couples is what i don't understand, hubby has my phone lock password and I have his, we both access each other's phone at will.

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  13. Odiegwu! You people sef everything is affair. People in the office discuss a whole lot of things, and because of such discussions they might feel free to post such to each other. I have a married friend that forwards such to me when he gets them forwarded to him and I'm single ooo, and we are just friends oo. Na wah!

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  14. Girl! Trust your instincts,with what you have written there is SOMETHING going on but do more research, re strategise, they must not see you coming but make sure you have enough proof

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  15. Sometimes as co-workers we get overly familiar with gisting and texting but nothing happens. Don't confront anyone. Just tell hubby you don't like it and leave it at that

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    1. That is goin to far .this is not gisting or texting
      Re u even married?

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    2. I'm telling you as a lady with male coworkers. If you like go and insult your man's co-worker, then you'll know you should have left it alone

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  16. Depends on the type of friendship between them that you might not understand.you should send porn videos to your husband since its obvious he enjoys it and discuss the sex style in the video. No be every time confrontation and fight ....use wisdom.

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  17. Tell ur hubby that you too will start sharing porn with ur male colleagues so they they can also learn how to better satisfy their wives

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  18. She's a naughty woman that needs to be put in check. But its your husband who should do it not you since he's the one entertaining her iberibe.

    Confronting her screams insecurity and you certainly don't want her to feel like she has a hold over your husband/marriage. If you must act, block her off your hubby's phone ..that should send a message.

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  19. Hmm ! After reading this chronicle the only thing that came to my mind is that your husband & that pregnant woman are sleeping together. I'm sorry to say this but it's what came to my mind. I would treat this issue as a cheating issue, else I don't see why a married woman will be sharing porn video to another man if she doesn't want him, & for it to continue then it means your husband encouraged her & complied. It's just a pity your husband is a cheat. Well you need to have a heart to heart talk with your husband, serious real talk before.

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  20. There's love in sharing... Be happy she's not a young woman that can take your man from you

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    1. famous sharer welcome

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    2. There is love in sharing the woman needs someone to teach her new styles for her husband she sef has to update.Knowledge is power.

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  21. Closeness can morph into intimacy very fast. That's just one hard fact of life. I have seen people who initially couldn't stand each other become lovers when they started closely interacting with each other. Darling, I don't know if the lady in question is having an affair with your hubby but one thing is apparent, their "relationship" is breathtakingly inappropriate. Obviously, they feel comfortable enough to share and comment on porn. She's someone else's wife and he is your hubby. Unfortunately, neither marital status nor pregnancy can hold back a lady determined to get her freak on.

    Most men easily let their guards down with female colleagues and before they know what's really going on, they've already compromised. It takes an extremely disciplined man to shutdown any form of inappropriate advances from a lady. It's easier for men to "play along" till it gets out of hand.

    Honey, I think you should have a tete-a-tete with your hubby. Be calm and not confrontational. Let him know what he feels is "harmless" can be potentially damaging when the lady's hubby finds out your hubby takes porn lessons from his wife. Her husband can and has every right to deal with your hubby in whatever manner he deems fit. Men tend to pay more attention when they feel their lives are in danger. If he can't see how his actions are hurting you, then let him see his life is in danger as well.

    Confrontating the lady makes your hubby look weak. She corresponds with him, not you. Your hubby isn't a child, he can shut this down if he wants to. He should be the one to shut it down, not you. Please don't demean your queenly status by confronting external interferences physically. If he wants to be creative sexual, I'm sure he can manage that by himself, he doesn't need a married woman or any other woman, for that matter, sending him porn. That's just foul on so many levels. Honey resist the urge to get the lady's hubby involved by forwarding the info to him. It may feel justified now but trust me, that's not the way to go. Be mature about it. The best move is to make your hubby see the errors of his ways. Threats, anger, blackmail, violence etc, can't stop a man from straying if he wants to. You may get rid of her today but she will be replaced by others. Darling, the lady is not the problem, your hubby is. Tackle this from the root and not the stems. Good luck!

    e-hugs and kisses.

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    1. Gbam! Another angle. Poster, save your husband from his folly before that woman's husband sends him a one-way ticket to join his ancestors in pornland. Hian!

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    2. You have said it all.... poster read and digest this!
      Nothing might be going on now but trust me will surely go on pending on the way you handle this.
      It’s well with your home ❤️

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    3. You didn't mention which Queen's trick should be used. Esther, Abigail or the one of England?πŸ€”

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    4. LMAO. Anon 16:49 quit wilding! 🀣

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  22. What I would have done is to send her a message on the same whatsapp asking her if she feels this is appropriate to send this to a married man as a married woman herself and indicate that this is Mrs So and So. As for your husband what a reply. He obviously enjoys the porn. If he doesn’t enjoy it, he would have told her to stop.

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  23. Madam, there is no need over thinking this,your husband is most definitely having an affair. Just imagine that the table was turned, do you think your husband would not have called family meeting already?
    Solution? Dont beg him to stop oh, Confront him, warn him well, and tell him to have her stop or threaten to go embarrass them both at their office with her husband in the know. Of course you won't go that far, but warn him and let him think you are crazy enough to do that and your problems will be over. Men try to experiment to see what shit they can get away with, but depending on how you handle it he will not dare a repeat performance. I have done it and it works. Nobody gat time to be crying over a grown man's choices.
    Dont wait till yawa gas oh, or you may not be able to pick the pieces up again. Any woman sending another persons husband porn is either already fucking him or is planning to, the former is the most likely. Do not slack. I wish you luck.

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  24. That ws hw my choir leader will be calling hubby,every now n then, daddy this,daddy that...whn I confronted my horse band, he said,innocent girl calling to knw hw her pastor is doing blabla,whn I confronted d girl, come see tears...as I type now,am out, she is now d mummy of d church, tho they've nt wedded.. Still trusting God to restore my marriage

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    1. Okokobiokoooo!! This your comment alone na four chronicles in one. Biko send in your story if you don't mind. I'd like to read it in full. Chai! Ndi brother and sister in the...

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    2. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    3. Why did you give the devil a chance?

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    4. πŸ‘„ 😱 πŸ™† wait...what?

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    5. @Fuck you
      That name Jesus and that ya name no match at all.
      You see wetin ya comrades dey carry atu dey do to matrimony eh?

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  25. They are both very irresponsible, their is no smoke with out fire,pregnant for that matter she should be getting close to God and channelling positive energy. For the pure being she carries na wa the situation stinks!.
    I would say politely meet with her and discuss maturely that you don't think it's right if their is anything they will stop your husband will never admit to anything.

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  26. Depends on the type of friendship between them that you might not understand.you should send porn videos to your husband since its obvious he enjoys it and discuss the sex style in the video. No be every time confrontation and fight ....use wisdom.

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  27. Don't confront her, just have a heart and heart talk with your husband.

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  28. What such of disrespect is this??

    knowing fully well he is a married man.
    Biko use ur hubby phone to warn her to stop sending such embarrassing videos. I can't even imagine watching porn with my hubby how much more sending it out to another man.Shameless!

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  29. Imagine thinking of confronting her? Go and mess yourself since your mind is messed up. Face your husband and leave the woman alone in peace.

    If your husband don't want it, he knows how to stop her from sending him such.

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  30. I will carry my phone and call that o no na di acho di and tell her to please stop sending those videos to my husband's phone or same will be forwarded to her husband and drop the call. No need for exchange of words , you are a chewing gum, you are a sweet, your head like biscuit.
    I believe that there is warning and there is warning! Your tone matters a lot.
    That nonsense should stop simple. He is learning styles , he does not know how to google them on his own?
    What an excuse!
    My dear give both of them a very quiet but deadly warning. If they must do their rubbish, they should not bring it to your face.
    All these women that marry to answer name then their whole antenna will be on another person's husband. Very disgusting.

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  31. Does she only send porn to him, or does she send many different posts, but some also include porn? If she does forward many different kind of posts then this may not be anything to be concerned about. However, if all she ever forward to him is porn then your concerns are justified. I have never become so close with a male colleague that the sharing of porn would happen. They may both just share an affinity for porn. Somehow like minds tend to locate each other in the world. Your husband likes, maybe even loves porn, many ppl do.

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    1. She said porn. I know some guys send such amongst themselves. Somehow I feel a married woman sending porn to her married co-worker is way off. It is a stinky situation, especially since they spend a lot of time together and she is pregnant on top. This is NOT good.

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    2. I agree Anon 19:50, but some how crazies seem to locate each other in this world and form their Lil crazy club. Like I said, I have never gotten so close to a work colleague that I could fathom shit like this and I am a single woman, so she being married just blows my mind that she shares porn even while pregnant. Even if they were lovers the whole situation is a clusterfuck of depravity. When something seems so out of this world nothing you say about the situation will ever make sense. They just two crazies who found each other. I kinda feel for the baby in all of this.

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    3. Clusterfuck of depravity! Choi! I really dig this your expression anon 22:29. I shudder to think that the baby could be for the poster's husband.

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  32. Naija girls and them atu na ama ala jijiji
    That belle full wey the woman been chop, you sure say no be ya husband fill am?
    That ya husband suppose explain many explanations.
    Make you no confront the woman o. If she miscarry that precious baby, you fit land jail term.
    Later now, you go see them Pharisees full her dey chant "I no dey watch porn" when nobody ask them.

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    1. Please @anon16:20 it's NOT atu! Jeez! You're always doing this stopeeeeet! And it's Otu please.

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    2. @Blackey
      I been think say na Pharisee you dey,
      Abi you don collabo two sects eh?
      Why you come dey write "Blackberry Sadducee" okay na ya (new) sure name
      be dat? Congrats o! You go do well sow (thanksgiving) seed here na?
      πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜πŸ˜

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  33. Reminds me of a time when some silly lady said she wanted to help my husband hide his money....and when that didn’t work, she went down the path of “oh my friend likes you, can I introduce her to you”...a married woman engaging in all these pimping shenanigans! Women are a terrible lot, I have to say. Some women need to be very careful though cos’ the prayers of some wives eh?!? Anyways it is well!

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  34. I was going to ignore this but seeing so many people leading you astray I just have to comment.

    DO NOT CONFRONT THE LADY OR GET HER HUSBAND INVOLVED. Tell your husband you’re uncomfortable with the arrangement and let him tell her off by himself.

    I can imagine they’re a clique of friends and she’s the girl who likes to paddy with the boys. I firmly believe nothing is happening between the two of them but they’re just being highly inappropriate and lacking discretion.

    Like someone said what’s the tone of their messages excluding the pornos? Don’t go and start a fire that will consume you and innocent people around. You’re hurting and angry but dragging she and her family into it will lead to a whole lot worse than you can imagine. The entire office clique will gang up against your husband and he’ll take that out on you. You risk destroying your marriage, her marriage and lives of innocent children because of a simple assumption. She’s pregnant and if she has complications blood will be on your hands.

    Talk to your husband firmly and let him put restrictions on that relationship. You have no business with her and approaching her may put vengeful ideas in her head. Remember your husband never discouraged her from sending the pornos and you can’t really say what really led to the pornos being sent. He may even have asked for them so DO NOT MAKE A RASH DECISION BASED ON AN ASSUMPTION AND DESTROY LIVES AND PEACE.

    I truly wish you Gods guidance and wisdom.

    Ivannah

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    1. Rubbish easier said till you find yourself in that situation if you confront only your husband, he will co rinne doing what's he's doing but hide it better from you.

      Confront the hell out of that woman and warn her to stay away from your husband if not you will confront her own husband with the porn videos.

      Your husband and that woman obviously are having an affair. Who knows if the your hub y is not the father of the baby in her tummy?

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  35. Arrange with a friend to be sending you porn videos steady. Change the friends name to a male name on your phone, and be showing your husband jovially "baby come and see this one Chucks sent me today o". He will get the message and stop. Guilty conscience has a nice way of working things out. Not everyday confrontation.

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  36. So someone has become so familiar with my husband, so comfortable, so close as to send him porn videos steady. I know how friendship starts. I know how flirting starts and I know how side gbenshing starts. All these advice people are giving like pros are poo. Get that man's head straight asap. Go to his office and have a calm conversation with the woman. If it repeats itself, follow her home and threaten to beat the hell out her in the presence of her husband. Mtchewww..you have audacity to be sending my husband porn videos. As if when he is watching it, he is thinking of paradise or becoming a better father. Is that his performing instrument not swelling under? Is he not probably masturbating? Is that video giving him fresh anointing? Does it improve his performance index at work? Ewo e gboshi danu. What you don't want, don't watch!

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    1. The day you go to his office is the beginning of the end if your marriage. All men are not the same. Some will never forgive you humiliating them at work

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    2. And you think side gbenshing is also not the beginning of the end of the marriage? Who told you only men had the entitlement to walk away? Mtchewww olodo

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  37. that is how one so called family friend sends my horseband porn. one day I snooped and saw my hus reply that the pussy looks like her own, she then replied if he had seen it before. I kuku drop the phone mind my business, I cannot be cracking my head for two adults.

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    1. Hian! Be wary of that family friend as well as your horseband.

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    2. Hope you're using condom with him sha

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  38. Madam,first chat her up, and tell her it is wrong for her to be sending porn to your husband,she should stop it or you will tell her husband and forward the porn to him.

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  39. Madam poster u have to think it over very well. Firstly , how financially capable are you. Just incase it gets messy. Now, I will suggest you not be quick to act. Get closer to your hubby and Study her kind of marriage and be sure she's not the boss in her marriage. Cos if she is then telling her husband is in futility. Wait for her to birth and see if you can do a DNA test of the baby If it comes out positive then with all u have gotten from snooping u can act Use your phone to snap the woman's porn transaction with your husband. It is well with you. Be strong sis.

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  40. Hmm, poster talk to your hubby to warn her to desist from such

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  41. If na me o, i will go strait to the husband of that woman and tell him to warn his wife to stay clear off my husband. i wont spare my husband either. men need to be dealt with .

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  42. I feel so sorry how people give verdict without investigation. I also noticed few comments from few wise people here. Poster, is left for you to choose the best. It all depends on your man. Most men like ladies that talks shits, but might not talk shifts themselves; some ladies are raunchy in nature, give lesson on bedmatic in the office and some colleagues already know them for that. They are free sex advisers and even share porn videos on the latest, yet they are faithful to their hubby even their hubby do the same or they do it at the same time when you meet them they talk shitts, and people laugh. Probably your hubby do enjoys such. I have a friend like that and she forwards porn to me as a fellow woman,and I am married too. She will just say, use this tonight with your DH. I am not saying they are not or they might because we live in evil world where nobody can be trusted,but first investigate properly before acting. If you follow some of the advices I am reading here, your name will soon change to a divorcΓ©e.

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    1. I see that you need brain resetting. Why will a woman put out a chronicle if she was comfortable with someone sharing porn with her husband? And who says because someone shares porn with you meant it's right in another person's home? I see how you reason, because there are people who are raunchy "naturally" means it might just be for fun or nothing. AND because you also like porn and receives porn means she should look away "it's harmless". Useless woman! People are not the same and our core values are not the same. It's the reason the world is beautiful. Never use yourself to try fix someone who obviously isn't you. I was raised in a home where porn was a sin. I got married to a man who had seen some porn growing up. I addressed that face to face with him before committing. It was clear " Don't bring porn near my home nor my children ". It's 10 years and 4 kids and he's been good to his word. I guess that woman putting out the chronicle obviously isn't of the same value system as yours so understand before been understood. You should not be commenting on matters that varies with what you permit!

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    2. Enter gutter nah. You will soon answer divorced Mrs know it all. Advice her to kill her hubby

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  43. Anon 19:34... in your little brain you thought your husband is not watching porn with other ladies, he sees it while growing up and sees it no more, laughs... you are an idiot! You type are home breaker, look st your council, you want her to go confront another woman even though she has addressed the issue with her husband? Why did the husband allow the woman to send it in the first place, I still say your are an idiot.

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  44. I had exactly this same problem, a lady calls my husband her love, sweetheart and all sorts of pet names, she sends him porn like every 2 or 3 days, different ones like 3,4 at a time. I asked my husband who she is, he told me it's nobody I know, and the next thing he changed his pass word so I can no longer check his phone. One day he was bathing and his phone was open, I picked it the lady is the most frequently called on his phone and she is still sending him porn and all the nonsense they talk, when he came out and saw me with his phone, the slap he gave me, I saw stars, he said I should never ever touch his phone. This happened like 1 yr six months ago and since then I have had one chance to go through his phone and they are still at it. He keeps his phone as if it's a bank treasury, I don't touch his phone at all. What do u think I should do. Gradually I have gotten over him, I am at the point where I feel no single love for him, not one, I introduced condoms, he rejected it, meanwhile we are ttc. I feel like it's best we don't have kids together so I can move on, though for now I am not yet financially independent but I am working on it. I need advice pls, Stella you can make it a chronicle on its own pls. Thanks

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