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Tuesday, April 09, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative...

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STAND ALONE NARRATIVE

MARITAL ISSUES....


Dear Stella, 


I have Been married for a year plus now and we have just 1 child. When I met hubby I noticed he doesn't last long on bed like 2 seconds he is done I questioned him and he always brings issue of being tired and etc and I also noticed that the first time he touched my breast he quickly just stopped I did not really bother about that till later....


When we got married, I noticed he hardly goes around the breast part he just goes straight to the do and that's all when I complained he said cause of breast milk. Cause I got pregnant immediately after marriage.... 



We kept on with the 2 seconds s#x life till yesterday when we wanted making out the next things I noticed was him coming after 1 second I got upset and slept and after we making love immediately he sleeps off. So this afternoon I sent him a message telling him maybe I should buy a s#x toy to help in the situation he did not say anything... 


Mind you we've bought different type of herbs for him to use but end up not still lasting long on bed we even have 1 presently we using, so after the message I sent him of me being tired of the 2 seconds s#x life he then said that he was tired and maybe he was taking too much sugar and then said that he gets frustrated when he touched my breast that it's too Soft that my EX has finished the best part and gave him the soft one I laughed towards it and told him that it's cos of breastfeeding baby he now made this statement which I find offensive ( That he knows many women with 3 kids and they still have standard breast and it's not related to child bearing) then I told him I don't like it when he compares me with others..... 


Reason why this chronicle is I just feel bad cause we making love and knowing he said his frustrated with my over soft breast how would we enjoy love making.. Abeg is there anywhere anyone can refer me to to go get my breast standard like the other women.





*You and your hubby have a small problem that might turn big soon...
Why dont you stop complaining about how long he lasts and try to encourage him to find solutions?He probably lashed out at you with the breast comment to hurt you...The fastest way to Kill a mans pride is to bring him down with words regarding his performance......Please change your ways Madam and work with him towards finding a solution...I am sure he will retract his words and apologise as well...

You want to go and get breast standard?You can rock your soft boobs if you have self confidence my dear...build it please!!!

138 comments:

  1. Hmmmm...it is well with you guys. May the Lord fix your sex life and home.

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    1. Nigerian men! They know how to turn the table on you so fast it'll make your head spin!

      How can a 2 second man blame your soft breast for his lack of stamina? What kind of nonsense response is that?

      Your husband is selfish period! If he cannot satisy you, the least he can do is give you head so you can cum.

      There are sex toys such as vibrators, dildos and strap-ons he can use on you after he becomes flaccid.

      You need to encourage him to be more open minded and willing to try other things in the interim, whilst he looks for a long lasting solution.

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    2. He is using psychology on you or isn't it obvious?

      He wants you to feel defensive about your own body part to cover the shame of being a 2 second noodle.

      Let him behave like a man and not a toddler and find a solution, after all if it was you with the problem, he would have alread started fucking the househelp.

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    3. Defence mechanism, someone with a bigger issue is pointing a small one out does he think if he tells you about your soft boobs you will forget about his two min indomie.
      He is such a hypocrite, instead of seeing medical help he us using the blame game.
      You guys should throw all those rubbish away and seek medical help.

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    4. Madam, nothing is wrong with your breast o. He's shifting blame. Don't kill his self esteem rather try look for a solution to his problem.
      Using your breast as excuse.

      Mao Akuh

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    5. Poster your hubby just made that yeye statement coz he's trying to regain his pride and make it look like it's ur fault he doesn't lady long. He shd go and sort himself out biko and stop making excuses

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    6. It’s well dear.
      I just hate when men do this like wth? He Just wants to make you feel bad, well you shouldn’t! If only breast milk comes out from dicks just maybe your hubby’s own won’t even be able to get up at all let alone 2 minutes performance.
      Anyways try this method if your boobs are not big:
      Apply blue seal Vaseline morning and night from down to up. It works. Be consistent and take your mind off it. Let me know if you need help for hubby, I know someone that can solve his bedmatics issues πŸ™‚

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    7. By the way, I don’t want to believe your hubby sleeps with married women abi how e take know say their Breast still stand after 3 kids? πŸ€”

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    8. At poster encourage him on head game, if he can do it VERY VERY well, you will not bother about the real S#x. Good luck

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    9. Maybe he should start wanking it will help. This is so ironic during my pregnancy my breast was big and firm after I had my baby my breast got smaller and soft I was so upset , one day my hubby said ahh baby your breast is now soft again like I like it! Moral of my story one mns meat is another mans poison. God blessed me sha

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  2. Stella you comment is total crap!
    How can a 2 seconds man have mouth to abuse somebody?

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    1. I really have to agree with you. Stella this one doesn’t make sense at all. I blame you poster. I believe you kind of knew before you married him and you didn’t point it out now he has mouth to talk about your breast. You with the low self esteem, you have agreed your breast is the problem and you are now looking for “standard breast”. The real problem is your 2 seconds man he should find a solution to that. Let me not even ask how he knows women with “standard breast” first.

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    2. Its defence mechanism. You too find a better way of communicating with him and see his problems as yours. That OYO kinda attitude towards a spouse who has a problem is hurtful and insensitive.

      Instead of sending him that kind of text why not buy the toy and introduce it in a fun way while you both are making love? Well, this suggestion is not for you cos you have closed that possibility but for any other BV reading my comment with a similar issue.
      Whatever it is biko handle, speak and text your partner with love. That your text can make some husbands never come home and look you in the face again. What do you wanthim to do again as you too said he has been taking agbo?
      Please dont even think of lacing his food with viagra for his health sake. Just thank God that inspite of him being a 1minute man he is fertile.

      Do you know how many 35minutes men out there that has no single living sperm in their body? Now pray he dosent go and prove himself by impregnating another girl.

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    3. One second ke? How is that possible. I know when I'm not relaxed or stressed, I'll cum rather early, but not in seconds. Brezz are usually soft, or am I missing something.

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    4. 15.06 it’s called reverse psychology, he tried to hurt her back 2

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    5. I wonder what Stella means. How can they work on it if they don’t talk about it. As hard as it is, men usually don’t want to talk about issues like these and if you leave him alone, he will never talk about it. But you have to do it with tact... and suggest solutions. ( which I can see you have tried, like the agbo and all) but I suggest you speak with him about seeing a doctor because the truth is that no amount of deflecting ( which is what he is doing by bringing up your breasts) is going to solve the situation.

      So don’t back down or you will be in for medicocre sex life for the rest of your life. Raise it again. Tell him you guys need to see a doctor. Ask him if it is not bothering him. Tell him you’re only raising it because you love him and keeping quiet is not love cos you know that these things have solutions.

      See, don’t be a doormat or you will not solve this. Women should learn to be assertive in their homes. Tell him you are not discussing him with anyone and that he can trust you but that if he chooses to do nothing, that means he has no interest in keeping the marriage. Look him in the eye and tell him you won’t leave him because of it, if that’s what he’s afraid of.

      And Madam, take pride in your body. There are many many types of breasts. Yes, some women still have it standing after 5 kids but most don’t. And even if they do and you don’t. It is the confidence that matters. Don’t leave the serious stuff and be worried about that! Don’t let him get on your head! He knows what he’s doing!

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    6. I completely agree. Madam Stella, some times I don't understand the type of advice you give. An ignorant man with a weak sexual power decided to kill his wifes self esteem and that up there is your advice. Poster there is nothing wrong with your breast but something is wrong with your manipulative hubby.let him pay for breast augmentation if he feels you're his problem yeye man (sorry poster). Buy a vibrator and ask him to look for the solution to his weak pimpim

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  3. There was this BV then(kehinde or so )who always has solutions to such problems with home remedies.Perhaps you should check old posts on SDK(3 to 4 years post).Pls say a prayers for me,the God who answered default smile should show me mercy this year. I'm loosing my mind

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    1. Hold on! God will show you his mercy and grant your heart desires according to his will. Sadness won't do anything to the issue on ground so try to be happy

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    2. God will have mercy on you . Hang in there. Please be strong . Sending you strenght and favour .

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    3. Try to calm down your body doesn’t need the anxiety for it to happen. I pray you get your miracle soon.

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    4. By his stripes we are healed. God knows you and before you ask he has ministered to your needs. His words are for us to go I to the world and multiply and his words never go ba k empty..you will hear the cry of babies in your home in jesus christ name amen.

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    5. Give me a prayer point dear Bibire.

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    6. Yeah Bibire, Kehinde Ake. He is Married now, so maybe he’s just a reader no longer commenting.
      Poster it’s well oh, your husband is just trying to turn the table on you...Be mouthed that’s all!!!

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  4. Marriage palaver everywhere. Baba God let your grace be abundant for us o.

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    1. Princess intelligentsia9 April 2019 at 16:29

      Your horseband don scatter your head with reverse psychology. You better leave your breast like that. Tell him to get cure for his flaccid penis before you would get solution to your breast.
      Arrant nonsense

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    2. Haba Princess! Its somebody's husband o. He is only sick and does not maltreat her and as you said it's reversed psychology. Why call him names naw...

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  5. Wow woman stop it!!!
    Can’t you see what your husband is doing? He is trying to dampen your spirit so you’d think you are the problem and not him.
    Your man is a 1 second man and don’t even let him ridicule you to the point you’d think there is something wrong with you.
    “There is nothing wrong with you”, breast can fall and it has nothing to do with breastfeeding or all that talk.

    I knew young girls who were chaste with flat boobs. Some people even inherit flat boobs, I knew someone like that. She has flat and long boobs.

    What other solutions are there than surgery? Can you afford it? If yes, why not but do it because YOU want it not for any man because if you die on that operating table another woman would still be told to “fix” her boobs to please a one second man. Please you’re enough, love yourself. Your husband should see a doctor, at least he can Father a child but if you both take pleasure seriously you’d find a solution together. Leave herbs for now and seek medical help, a friend of mine too had this quick ejaculation issue. After he saw a doctor, they found out it was some vein not pumping blood to the region that sustains erection. I’m not a doctor but your husband needs to see one.

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    1. DoppelgΓ€nger Thank you! You saved me from typing it. Her husband is trying to dampen her spirit. Oversoft dey worry my own boobs sef and i still rock it with confidence. Even if her boobs were pointed like pencil he will still ejaculate in less than 1 sec might even be less sef

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    2. So on point...
      The human breast I know is not like coconut. If the breast is strong, there is something wrong

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    3. Her breast is not fallen just soft according to the man, isn't that even suposed to be a good thing. All this one minute men will never agree they have a problem but always look for what or who to blame it on, that's how one told me that am always too wet like i was supposed to be dry before

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    4. You mirrored my thoughts! He's trying to blackmail her emotionally.

      Madam, do not let him make you unnecessarily self-conscious. The most you owe him as a spouse is to review his diet and cut-off as much carbs as you can. You should also offer moral support.

      He needs to make the effort to exercise regularly, eat healthy and religiously adhere to whatever medication his doctor recommends.

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    5. You got it right. The man is an emotional abuser .

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    6. I once dated an indomie guy like this. I asked why and he said my pussy is too wide. I wan cry but I know say na lie(ego tinz). I told him even me sef tire for the relationship. He said why? I said he has a pencil sized dick, that I dont feel him and to worsen it all, he cums in 2secs. Shame catch the idiot and I just moved on.

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  6. Do you literally mean Two seconds in Bed, as in 1..2..?
    If yes, pls you two should get to the hospital and see a specialist.
    About what he said, presentation really matters my dear sister, draw him closer as a friend and talk to him with understanding. It is well, no too vex.

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  7. I wanted to teach you how to insult your horseband but when I read Stella's advice I understood better from a different angle. Maybe Stella is right "scratches head...
    Poster pray and seek for medical solutions for his problems. While at it,get a dildo if you can't hold body. Do not allow someone to frustrate you.

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    1. @Fan
      Insults; really?
      So if ya horseband been dey do 2 seconds, ya solution na insults?
      So if ya toto come wide like express and oga on top come insult you; how far?
      E bi like say ya brain don dey loose nuts o. Make you coooooooooool down
      with these ya new persona o. You be wife and mother wey suppose dey show other
      Naija (Pharisee) sisis good example. Make you no dey do like Pharisees make I no dey
      call you Onye isi ndi Pharisees, Saducees and Herodians inugo? 😊😊😜

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    2. Anon shetap please, can't you see the horseband is also insulting his wife that has been managing his seconds baggage. He is lucky that I am not the wife, I will insult the living daylight out of him trying to make me the problem when he is not a man.

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    3. ANG how many 'onye isi' do you have now? Which one is really the head between blackey & Fan? Okwa ajuju nese okwu I dey ask.

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    4. @16:13
      The man is really lucky true true say you no be im wife
      Na who go wife ya kind, with that Y mouth wey you get there?
      Na when you tell am that thing wey you yarn there, im go carry hand shut am.
      @@16:31
      Chairman = Onye isi
      Secretary = Onye isi ndi Ode akwukwo
      Treasurer = Onye isi ndi njide ego
      Financial secretary = Onye isi ode akwukwo ndi njide ego

      You wan make I yarn you some Igbo no be so? Ngwanu make you distribute the posts between
      FAN, Blackey and yasef inugo? πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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    5. Anon 18.55 the rate at which you are defending such a hopeless man, are you sure you're not the posters' husband?

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  8. Yaba left escapee9 April 2019 at 15:12

    The evil in me would have suggested you reply him "Your ex girlfriends have enjoyed all the hard & longlasting part of your dick, leaving me with a limpo"... but that wouldnt go well for you, its below the belt.
    By the way, are you sure you didnt mean to type Minutes instead of Seconds? Cus a full thrust to the cervical wall is already a second....
    Anyway, his organ is too sensitive, if herbs isnt working, try something else.

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    1. Thank God the evil in you kept mum...lol.

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    2. Bad child!πŸ˜ƒ

      Men! You guys can't take what you dish!

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    3. @yanba, πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚that response is soo harsh. Thank God the spirit of God controlled the evil

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    4. Yaba left escapee9 April 2019 at 16:47

      ..like i said, "its below the belt" anything above, men can handle it, and his snide remark is above the belt, i'm sure he has a big head or pot belly, she should use that to hit back..
      Why go after a power landmine that could explode & hurt her marriage.
      And same goes for you single girls mocking & undermining a mans performance on bed or size, i read the previous post "does size matter?" And i felt sorry for men with finger battery size, i see why theyre more than determined to resurrect their ego, with tramadol & all sorts, to the detriment of their well being, all to feel like a man.
      Its not a bad idea to satisfy your lady, but theres a line that shouldnt be crossed, no woman should bully or arm twist a man beyond his ability on bed, you can only do it with love, you have no idea how sensitive that spot is, both physically & mentally... i always advice guys, do your best & if she complains, leave the flaccid dick for her to hurstle for her own orgasm, if she likes she should do acrobatics on it, na she know.... you sleep.

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  9. My own question is who are those 3 women and how did he know their breasts are 'standard'?

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    1. 😁😁😁😁😁

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    2. God bless you! Apparently, he has been sleeping with people's wives.
      Poster you're very nice and thoughtful for not responding and telling him how much of a used up tramp he is.
      Empty vessel...

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    3. my thought exactly. madam your horse band is just 2mintues man but also a cheater

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    4. πŸ˜€πŸ˜πŸ˜‚πŸ˜€πŸ˜πŸ˜‚

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  10. Its a comeback naa, u call him indomie, he throws a shade at your breasts.

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    1. @Blackey
      Experience don dey yarn ooo
      Anything wey dey happen for bed (ute; mat, car seat bla bla bla)
      you sabi yarn am well well. The only wahala be say, na illegitimate breaking of beds
      you dey do. I pray say you no go break waist before legitimacy show. 😜
      I no call you Onye isi ndi Phariseees na Herodians today o.😯😯

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    2. @ anonymous 15:37 some of us find the word "Blackey" offensive..One man called me Blackey and I almost call the police on him...I reside in UK by the way, maybe it's acceptable in Nigeria I don't know😎

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    3. @18:36
      Onye nde akwukwo ndi Pharisee
      You reside in the UK and don't know if it is acceptable in Nigeria; really?
      YOu did not live in Nigeria before "residing in the UK?"
      YOu see ya hypocritical Pharisee's yarns?
      My Blackey no dey complain... Blackey na short for Blackberry the bed breaker inugo?
      When you come Naija and they call you Blackey, call police inugo?
      Na koboko police go use sama that ya nyansh well well.
      πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†πŸ˜†

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  11. The way babes are complaining about sexual satisfaction these days ehhh, it’s serious... a lot of girls now want a guy that’s good in the other room..

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    1. Lot of men with sexual dysfunction these days.dont know what is happening.even the young ones sef

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    2. Poor diet
      Alcohol battering, andropause
      Untreated STIs
      Zero exercise
      Premature sexual foolishness
      Masturbation , psychological

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    3. Not true. Its always been so its just that women of this generation is assertive and vocal about what they want. In the days of our mothers it was an abomination to dare want more or complain about a mans virility.

      Table is turning on them now.

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    4. Table can never turn on men because many desperate women out there that is ready to manage just to bear Mrs.

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    5. Tried Saphire. They have always been there . Just that we’re hearing more about it now because of social media

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  12. Madam. You don't have any problem. Your indomie ambassador husband is just using reverse psychology on you instead of going to a hospital to solve his problem.
    Ask him to give you 3million Naira to do breast firming /augmentation.
    He is just trying to shift tour mind from his two mins sex to focus on yourself. He has a problem and should don't allow him to turn you to the problem. Does he want your breast to be strong like cancer breast or he wants lump on it? Tell him that other guys want soft breast. Please keep insisting on him getting to see a doctor cos no matter how your breast turns out he will still say that one part of your vagina is longer than the other one.

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    1. Yaba left escapee9 April 2019 at 16:20

      Trully, see how he just made her feel so insecure about herself, if her soft boobs triggers his quick ejaculation, then it goes to show he likes & it turns him on to climax... meaning hes lying.
      On the other hand, if he suffered weak erection & low libido, then he can claim the boobs turn him totally off.

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  13. Your husband has perfected the Art of turning an arguement. Well Poster the truth is he has a sexual problem...but like most men he would rather die than admit to u that its his fault and not urs. Way I see it, hes winning. U are now feeling hurt. Dont be. Thread with care. Have seen women with flabby boobs that their men worship sexually. So trust me its not u. Try turning the arguement .And also encourage him to seek help.Good luck

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  14. He is suffering from quick ejaculation after sleeping with ladies with STIs and he has the mouth to talk.He is scared of coming quick that's y he avoids romance especially ur breasts.Get a side boo of once in a while cos that man has no remorse.Conji fr marriage na bastard! Singles shine ur eyes.

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  15. your husband wants to distract you from the problem at hand.. he is a soft bully! there is actually nothing wrong in telling him he has a problem as long as you did not mock him, you wanted to find a solution for the problem i guess. so if your ex made your breast too soft, then he's ex made him soft down there period! you can use push ups to make your breast firm.. one thing yoy should never do is undergo surgery for another person, please do it for yoyrself.

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  16. He has low self-esteem. he wants to pull you down too.be proud of your boobs.

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  17. He shamed your breast because you lashed at him for being a 1sec noddle. You obviously didn't handle the situation smartly.
    Well you guys need to stop blaming each other & find a way to settle & find solution to your sex life. .. In case he is naturally a 1sec man & there's no solution, you must manage him & get sex toys to help your ministry.

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  18. tell him hes the one with a problem. He is a poor shagger!! No romance or foreplay? Even with flat boobs men still last 8 mins before cuming.

    Tell him to sort himself and stop projecting on you. Even men that take sugar still maintain a meaty, heavy, veiny blokos and pound your ponyor to the clouds.

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  19. Was he like this during courtship? If not stop complaining and learn to masturbate..I do that most time because I get my satisfaction around outer part of my private not inside....Don't kill your husband self esteemπŸ’ƒ

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    1. Hi, like i need to change my ID. I didnt know there was another Saphire here.

      But i so love that gem stone.

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  20. Which is why I encourage testing ur product before buying, even though it's wrong... A lot of these stories can be avoided. Ladies, please when U find the one, Explore! Explore!! Explore!!! All those annoying attitude Oga displays in marriage that U re willing to forgive will get U there faster, with something sweet to enjoy, after U make up...

    Poster, I am sorry, in ur own case, the deed has been done. If U still wanna be with hubby, please U both should focus on the solution. Ur words re tearing @ur self esteem. Start by building it up, encourage each other with ur words. U'd be surprised how enthusiastically open U both will be to exploring other options. Hehe.. i'm such an explorer, don't mind my many use of it.

    All will be well dear poster, do not panic just yet okay...

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    1. And the ones who pretended through drugs and enhancers nko?

      Or expired along the way nko?

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  21. First mistake; sex before marriage
    Second mistake: going for herbs -some of which can pack up the kidneys.
    3rd mistake: sending such a sensitive piece of information as a text; how about discussing it in the bedroom?
    4th mistake: Hubby's words about other women with firm breasts after 3 kids; either im don dey fork them or im forked them before una marry.
    5th mistake: this vex wey you dey vex so fit scatter everything
    6th mistake wey you wan make: you wan find wetin you go do ya breast? If oga (wey suppose be on top) care, na im go dey find wetin una go do.
    7th mistake; You talked about too much sugar, yes, e fit cause that thing, together with too much alcohol.

    8th mistake; ajuju n' ese okwu: but how about indomie, you dey give am too much indomie -cos e fit make am like that.
    Make una sit down yarn this mata together make e no scatter wetin suppose be good marriage Baba God don give una

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  22. Your husband is turning everything around and now blaming you for his 2 mins. He's manipulating you.

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  23. Stella I dont understand... How else is she supposed to let him know she isnt sexually satisfied? Its a question.
    All i saw was her husband trying to compare her with others, while she expressed unhappiness over their sex life. Abi someone cant tell a spouse that they are still not satisfied after him taking herbs?? How does he know how other mother's breast feel? If her ex has finished her boobs then his own ex has finished his sperm. Simple!

    Madam, seek medical help biko! And reduce sugar. Sugar reduction also means less carborhydrate... cos carbohydrate turns to sugar in the body so tell him about it. Cos all these stubborn men, when you are not watching he will down 5 bottles of coke and carry his 2 minutes noodles home. Stop having the conversation cos your husband is not the kind you discuss with before you get angry. Just book a doctor's appointment for SOS.

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    1. LMAO.....gbamest!!chikito,Men and defense mechanism like 5&6 since 19kokoro..

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    2. My dear, it may not even be just sugar intake. He may just have a lazy doodle!

      Wasn't it here we read a chronicle of a woman drugging her husband with Viagra?

      A number of men are terrible in bed whether or not they have health issues. Their pride won't let them learn how to be better or seek solutions but they expect their women to bend over backwards just to please them.

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    3. Lol.. Chikito, he's still got sperm though, only that he releases within 2 seconds of intercourse.

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  24. A soft bed doesn't mean that you were wayward, that is the nature of some breasts.
    Encourage your husband to seek medical help, that is the way to go for now, he has accepted his fate of behind a 2seconds man and wants you to leave him with it. The truth is that if he touch your breast before sex, he would ejaculate, his brain would give him a certain signal and he would cum and not be able to get his D up again, NOT because your breast is soft but because he is sexually weak.
    Do not do any surgery because of any man, please. Please, I want you to develop enough confidence and esteem because you would need them not just with your man but in life.
    Get yourself a dildo and do not hide it from him but use it only when he isn't around.
    May you be fulfilled in life. Best of luck.

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  25. Why are men like this? I wanna ask, does it have to do with the stature/size/physique of the man? Cos I feel this not lasting thing or not wanting to make love with their wife is getting way out of hand. Which kind life be this sef. My marriage is less than a year with a son and I am already tired. How can one go straight two weeks without sex with your so called husband all in the name of he is tired or not in the mood. When person start to cheat now, them go dey cry.

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    1. It is pathetic, i go straight three to four months without because he is based in another state, but the wicked man will come home and tell me he is tired. when he pities me and do, na one round o! In fact sef na that time my body just dey wake. No romance nothing, na to jus pour. Only God will help us and the temptation to cheat strong like no man biz.

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    2. See lamentation o.. πŸƒπŸ˜‚

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    3. Us women need to learn how to turn our men on ! Buy sexy lingerie, smell good, take the man out to dinner (If you can afford it), try out your sexual fantasies together ! Most important of them all if a man says he is tired let him let. Those I am tired days are the days I discuss past sexual experiences and fantasies with my husband. We live and giggle in those moments ! P.s. if he lives in another state tease the living day light outta him, sound horny on the phone and give him something to run home to ! Use your bottom power ladies !

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  26. Buy Kolaqalagbo for him na...shey Tunde Ednut dey advertise am....meanwhile...guys and their wahala...instead of him to go treat his *shortcoming* he's there putting blames on ur breast. Smh.

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    1. It’s been a while. Hope you are fine?

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    2. Yes Kiks, thanks for asking😘

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  27. See one chance. Aunty buy a vibrator and be using. Don’t let this man frustrate you.

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  28. This is what happens when a lady starts fuckimg around before marriage..their is NOTING as good as marrying a virgin, the fuck you give her is the fuck she knows, if you give a virgin one minute or two minute fuck...she will find her satisfaction in it....madam work on your psychology or very soon you will start fuckimg another man and the real problem will start when you caught.

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    1. Stay there if you give a virgin one or 2 minutes fuck with no orgasm, that is the fuck she knows. Rubbish talk. You must think virgins don’t know that orgasms come with sex

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    2. That is even worse. So many women that married as virgin cheat as hell because their husbands believe they never would cow they were married as virgins whereas woman wey don de dream of all styles of sexy and then has to endure your premature ejaculation, her head will begin to turnoninown.

      What you men need to do is take your time to pleasure your woman. So many women keep quiet because they don’t want to hurt your fragile ego. If all women open are honest, a lot of you men will commit suicide because your egos can’t take it

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    3. I was a 27yr old virgin but i had healthy and active imagination from novels and girls jists in the hostel.
      He paid my bride price. Wedding was in 6months. I took a taste. I knew. My father returned his dowry.

      Virgins are not dummies. Its an unbroken hymen not an isolated baby doll.

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    4. @ Sapphire, wise decision you made. Sex is just as important as every other factor to be considered in choosing a spouse.

      That's why I am team sex before marriage and unapologetic about it. I can't watch myself enter one chance!

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  29. Please oooh... I am just hearing this! Is breast supposed to be hard? Because mind is very soft and I am not wayward. Only about 15 guys have sucked my breast and not more than 21 have touched it.

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    1. Hahahahahaha....u are clown i swear!

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    2. Jesu! You mean 15 adult guys has gently touched,sucked and squeezed your breast? Then is your punany like well or just normal?

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    3. Hahahahha....you are funny

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    4. Ewoo!!!! πŸ€¦πŸ€¦πŸ™†πŸ™†πŸ™†

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    5. Haha haha haha haha haha. Bvs will not kill someone

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    6. Lmao πŸ˜‚

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    7. Abegi!! Mine is super soft and I married my husband as a virgin. It actually changed when I had to take drugs after I lost my baby to dry my breast milk, but we still do it wella. If I were you, I will stop having sex with him so he knows the gravity of the issue

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  30. He should man up and go to the hospital to seek medical advice.You should have asked him how he knows some women with standing breasts after 3 kids.Oomesi oro

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  31. Soft breast has nothing to do with breastfeeding nor body counts my breast after three kids go shock 18 yr old e stand wella and my body count is uncountable. I breastfed one of my kids for over a yr

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    1. Tuale!!! πŸ™Œ πŸ™Œ πŸ™Œ Mama d Mama!

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  32. Your husband is very manipulative..he is trying to turn the table around, just follow Stella's advise.

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  33. He ran away from your breast because he would cum even before penetration. Madam you no know what to tell him.

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      If you know, you know!!!! Hehehe

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  34. From experience, your husbands issue could be that he masturbated for so long before getting married. Its more like a psychological thing than a medical thing. He can start healing by controlling his mindset, wankers are always in a hurry to release and feel the excitement. If he learns to relax well and control his actions from the mind, he will improve

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  35. Did you give your husband details of your past relationships with guys?
    Maybe he is not sexually attracted to you and he is using your breast as an excuse.
    If he says that rubbish again,tell him to give you money to do a boob job since he wants a hard boob!
    As for the sex issue,dont disturb him again,ignore him and get yourself a dildo and a vibrator.When he is trying to sleep at night,bring out your gadgets and enjoy yourself,moan all you want and watch him with side eyes...that would crush him!!!
    If he wants to touch you,tell him to treat himself first that you dont enjoy his one minute thrusts and lack of foreplay anymore!!!
    Let's see how it goes...

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    1. Why would a normal person want to 'crush' their spouse?

      I really don't understand the advice you guys give sometimes. Very scary!

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    2. There's no need to hurt his feelings. She should insist he uses them on her.

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    3. If you don't have any advice for this poster,drink water and keep your miserable fingers off my comments!

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    4. Poster better don't listen to this advice. This are one of the bitter people here looking for home to destroy.

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  36. oh please! the man is wicked!

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  37. please Mummy Stella, two minutes man is not a small problem. This man should sincerely look for a solution to his problems and not drag his wife into it. The man is wicked. He doesn't Want to unite with his wife so they find a solution to his own problems now he is using reverse psychology on her. If the woman had sexual issues I'm very sure he would start having sex outside his home but unfortunately this is Nigeria and the woman will be critized from doing such

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  38. Soft breasts? are they supposed to be hard? and my husband is here dying on my own soft breasts.

    Madam, your husband is selfish and mouthy. Nothing is wrong with your breasts and don't you dare lose your confidence because of that. By the way, how did he know how other women breasts are?

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  39. Dear Poster,

    It is well with you.

    As it has been extensively said in above comments, there is nothing wrong with your breasts. The man just used that to bully you.

    Please have a heart to heart with him. Men are very sensitive when it comes to that issue.

    My own is this, dildo is equal to masturbation, which is equal to cheating, which is a sin before God and your husband.
    Irrespective of what people say, please don't go that route.

    Seek medical help, and above all, tell God about it. He created sex, and wants us to enjoy it in marriage. He loves you that much to listen and fix it.

    God bless you.

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    1. Nigerians spiritualize everything! Dildo isn't any sin madam. I will rather she uses dildo than sleep around. Lots of married "born again" collect prick and be speaking in tongues while doing it! Nonsense

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    2. Senseless comment, webdix. You're not well at all

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    3. Dear Anon18:58,

      The fact that the whole world does something doesn't make it right.

      That is exactly the reason I had to comment.
      God's standard is sure, let him that nameth the name of the Lord depart from iniquity. Except if you are not professing Christ.

      Self-service/ masturbation is SIN.

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  40. After d first round while not go for second round.
    I believe it will take him some minutes before he will be able to release in the second round.
    You can also masturbate him before he can start d penetration so that d penis will not be too sensitive.

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  41. Why are people telling you to get a solution.
    Isn’t he the one with the problem
    The chronicle where the woman fixed him the man started feeling confident and the first thing he did was send her away and marry someone else to enjoy the house the wife suggested he built. Suffering comes to nothing with these men. Let him be the one to feel shame, not you. All this wise and submission talk, chronicles have taught us that in real life, you end up looking foolish

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  42. Please note, what the man used was *Defense Mechanism* at best *Negative Psychology*... Reverse Psychology is a completely different thing entirely. Reverse psychology is doing or saying the opposite of what you really mean to get somebody to do what you originally intend. e.g if I want you to keep shouting, I'd tell you to stop shouting instead, knowing that you'd do the exact opposite which is what I want .

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  43. Hope he is not narcissist? I think you should be lacing his food with a lil viagra just like one BV does. As for your breast wahala he is using reverse psychology. Google up exercises on how to make your boobs hard, and please do it for you and not because of what/how one human being somewhere feels.

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  44. Stop fucking that man! The
    Him it’s a waste of your time so why bother? Oh And tell him he should go to those 3 women he was talking about and see if they will endure his 2sec self.

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    1. Are you minding these lazy ass man. He just wanted to hurt his wife with that nonsense comparison. Instead of him to brace up and find a lasting solution to his 2 seconds performance in bed.

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  45. mmm, marriage ND marital issues. God help us. but him making reference to your breast in that manner is not nice at all

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  46. Madam if you really want your husband to last long in bed,you should find solution. You said you have tried herbs.I want to recommend a herb to you. It's very cheap. There is one baba I tried one time. The baba sells inside the popular molue bus between ikorodu and ojota.it's just 100 naira.mix it with hot or ogogoro,your husband will lash you like mad. I tried it,it worked for me.cheers

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  47. for your soft breast, grate cucumber don't blend, mix with egg white, butter and flour, rub on your breast and wear thite bra for 2hrs, wash out with cold water, plz don't forget to share your testimony here after 2wks

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  48. Why don't you try using condom ? May be his amu is too sensitive and you reduce how you whine your waist

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  49. Imagine your husband is having problems, two minutes man but you're the one looking for solution, trying to get a standard breast.
    Better not kill yourself, let him go out and solve his problem and not let him drive you nut.
    I wonder why you no test well before buying market sef.

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