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Thursday, June 06, 2019

Thursday IHN

Una well done oh!!!....









GIST FROM BECKY


Have this friend that was sick for more than 17yrs, we were teens when it started, initially we thought it was poison cause her feet were swollen and black, then she started having symptoms like someone with full blown AIDS. Each time she goes to the hospital, the doctors check her status without her consent. As she deteriorated we concluded it was a spiritual attack. My friend suffered for years.



There's no place they didn't go for solution, church,native doctor, hospital, spiritual houses all to no avail,money was spent. It got to a point she started smelling, as in she was alive and rottening. Her mum took her to the village cause 1. She was making the house uncomfortable for her siblings cause of the smell.

2. So that she'll die and be buried. Of course my friend was aware of the above reasons, she had given up on life, just like everybody had given up on her.


I went to visit her last two weeks, my God!!! She is getting better, the last time I went to see her before she traveled to the village, she smelt so bad, I couldn't hold back my tears. My joy knew no bound when I saw her, she's now walking, cooking for herself and even sewing....Wow wow wow.


During all this time,she didn't let go of the word of God, and as a result of that, she had a reason to live. She called her pastor in pH and explained her present condition, her pastor asked her to come to pH which she did, doctors were invited, they took the excreta that was coming out of her body to south Africa for test....guess what? It was ulcer(I've forgotten the name she called it).


 At this point I was angry, so all these years, teaching hospital, BMH, Nobsams and all the hospital she went to couldn't diagnose this, ahh, my friend suffered o. I said so its not spiritual, she said "for where". I remember her mum appeasing ........cause of this ailment. 

Anyway I thank God for her healing. Her church paid for the medication and two nurses that clean her. She's better now, though still on medication. Her problem is how she's going to pay the Debts her mum accumulated during the course of her ailment. This is a big testimony, our prayers weren't in vain.




Wait,are you telling me that Ulcer cannot be detected in Nigeria?Your friend had to go through this?Are you sure?This is really really scary!!!






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COMMENT SECTION


I'm 10wks pregnant and just found out my husband has been cheating on me. I feel like dieing right now. Where did I go wrong? 

All I have ever done was love this man for all these years. Lord!! no I don't deserve this. I feel like God should just take this child cos this man doesn't deserve him or her. O! My world. 

If I never trusted him this much I wouldn't have been this hurt. Stella, I'm so hurt couldn't sleep through out last night. Pls how do I deal with this pain in my heart? I need help.




High Blood pressure on top man matter?
Listen to yourself...So God should take your child growing inside of you because you married a sperm donor?will that make him love you?you lean so much on a man that if he moves you want to die?Do you love yourself at all?Live for your child and transfer all the love you feel for him to the baby..

Pray that God does not answer your prayer up there.....Hssssss!!!






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COMMENT SECTION



Good day my blog family. Please I need advise. I have been ttc for a while now. Hubby left a month ago after spending some weeks. There is a neighbour of mine, we attend the same church and she is concerned about my situation. 


she is giving me attitude cos I have not said a word whether I am pregnant or not since hubby left. Although I am not pregnant but her attitude is giving me a great concern. 

What should I do?




What you should do is stay away from her.....Jesus;WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? do you owe this woman any explanation?You have to update her on whether you took in or not?Maybe she is even the reason you are TTC!...go figure quietly




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143 comments:

  1. Rainy day
    Having cramps even after taking Feldene
    Another month gone
    I know my miracle will come
    I am a mother of beautiful children
    Say a prayer for me

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    1. You'll carry your own children. Amen.

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    2. Never had that thing called cramps, thanking God😎😎😎😎

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    3. Please Don't let your period make you discouraged as you may even be pregnant! Many women who were waiting on God actually got their period without realizing they had already conceived! This was my story! My period came that month but I was 6 weeks pregnant! Many women can testify to this. Let me tell you how my faith worked... anytime I start got period cramps I would tell God “ Dear God, this cramps will not make me discouraged, I know you’ve done it!” I would speak to my period and tell it to go away and decree that that month would be the last and even if it came that didn’t mean I wasn’t pregnant! If God did it for me, he’ll do it for you! Your miracle is now!

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    4. May God's countenance shine upon you. May your heart cry be fulfilled Amen.

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    5. Good day bvs,the woman praying to God because of her husband cheated on her, please that child in you will come out well and healthy God can't answer that your prayer, see is better you take Stella's advice.

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    6. You need not worry very soon you will smile.

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    7. You are a joyful mother,your miracle is here.

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    8. You will concieve, carry to full term and deliver like the hebrew women AMEN!!

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    9. U will conceive in Jesus name Amen

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    10. There is so much to be grateful for. You have husband, you are pregnant. Just thank God and tell him to change what you dont like. I was married for 2 years and some month, we TTC and God took my husband. No Husband, No child yet. And you have both and you are complaining. Cheating hurts but just forgive and pray to forget.

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    11. Thanks for your prayers and kind words. They mean a lot to me

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  2. I was so stressed all through this week. If a child is sick you get disorganised

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    1. Your husband has been very calculative, that's why he cheated for so long and you didn't know. What you need now is to also be calculative and emotions will get in the way of that. We keep learning everyday not to put our trust in man. I totally understand how you feel but please dont act out of that annoyance, disappointment or disgust.

      You need to get a grip of yourself and strategise on what you want to do after this. It is painful when we women come to the realisation that our husband does not respect us or love us as much as we do them, but I found out in marriage that love is never really balanced.

      You were TTC and now pregnant. My only advise for you is to cherish and love and protect that pregnancy with your life. I am married and TTC. I know the pains of TTC. Hence, to me, the safety of that baby is more important.

      They say people change, so your hubby may change for good. But if he doesnt, are you ready to live with such a man? The decision is yours to make. Mind you, he is only sorry he got caught.

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  3. Sometimes God will wait on purpose, not only so you will know it was His favor, but so no one will be able to deny the goodness of God in your life.@JoelOsteen

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  4. Stellz ddnt read so I can comment first😂😂
    Mrsladybug😎😎😎😎

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  5. Hi Everyone. Hope we are all good. IHN is here..

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  6. Make Room
    Jonathan McReynolds
    I find space for what I treasure
    I make time for what I want
    I choose my priorities and
    Jesus you're my number one
    So I will make room for you
    I will prepare for two
    So you don't feel that you
    Can't live here, please live in me
    I find space for what I treasure
    I make time for what I want
    I choose my priorities and
    Jesus you're my number one
    Yes Jesus you're my number
    So I will make room for you
    I will prepare for two
    So you don't feel that you
    Can't live here, please live in me
    I will make room for you
    I will prepare for two
    So you don't feel that you
    Can't live here, please live in me
    I will make room for you
    I will prepare for two
    So you don't feel that you
    Can't live here, please live in me
    Live in me yeah
    Please live in me God
    I will make room for you
    My will (you can move that over)
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    My ego (you can move that over)
    My plans (you can move that over)
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    See I, I will make room for you
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    Oh so I will make room yea
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    Help me move it all (you can move that over)
    Jesus I (you can move that over)
    I just want you know (you can move that over)
    That I will make room
    I find space for what I treasure
    I make time for what I want
    I choose my priorities and
    Jesus you're my number one

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  7. Oh mama! Sweet mama!! Sleep well.

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  8. Don’t give up on your dreams. Keep fighting

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    1. Keep fighting till the dream defeats you, leave the dream, try something else, then you can come back to the stubborn dream 😎😎😎😎

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    2. lady bug you right some how

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    3. She writes somehow or she writes senselessly?

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  9. Replies
    1. You never disappoint😎😎😎

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    2. 😃😃😃😃😃😃short commenter

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  10. Husband cheating

    Look ladies, when you get married and have children, do not think you've arrived.
    A lot of you were quite devoted to God; bible studies, prayers/fasting etc. But once you get married, you
    leave off all those.
    A lot of satanic agent are roaming about seeking to seduce men into sexual immorality and destroy families.

    Proverbs 23:27for an adulterous woman is a deep pit,

    and a wayward wife is a narrow well.

    28Like a bandit she lies in wait

    and multiplies the unfaithful among men.

    I've had first hand experience of what I wrote here and overcome it.Story for another day.

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  11. Make una no vex pls I want to ask Lekki Lagos people. Is this how breeze used to blow here? I nearly die for night, I come close windows around 1am. In the morning till now the breeze is talking and banging windows. It's too much.
    I will return back to awka once I write exam test on saturday.

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    1. Sea breeze and white sand together. Lekki is lagos london na enjoy the cold rush oga

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    2. D breeze too much. Hold it trouser o

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    3. 😀😀😀😁😁 enjoy the breeze wella before you go back jare.

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  12. Stay away from that monitoring spirit in human flesh u call a friend, haba, e concern her?

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    1. I just wonder, some people take this friendship thing too serious 😎😎😎

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    2. @Blackberry
      Are you in the amorc, I see the Rosicrucian sign up there?

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    3. You see still de ask🙄

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  13. Takkaballah Allahu Mina Wamikum.
    Alhamdullilah Robil Alamin for the successful completion of Ramadan that has come and gone, I pray Almighty Allah Grant us long life to witness more and accept it as an act of ibadah...Ameen.Masha Allah

    Congratulations lady🐞 on your new status.
    Nice Ankara up there Ola especially that blue one, may customers fall on all sellers.

    10weeks pregnant pls make yourself Happy, have you asked him? Is he remorseful? Is he ready to change when you have answers to all these there lies your decision.
    Good afternoon lovelies....


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  14. Don't be hurt dear...please take care of yourself and your unborn child....let this pain teach you to love yourself and the child..please be strong,it hurts and it will pass!!

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    1. Ify Ezenwata are u from Aguata in Anambra? That's my surname. What a coincedence

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  15. Sugar b events, that ur price no be for person on a budget. My two cents


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    1. Eka, spend this money now😏😎😎😎

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    2. We have low budget packages too...

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  16. Olori i need 41 sneakers. Na big leg i get i no kee person...my bro will be visiting soon. Mk he bring for me Abeg abeg

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    1. You can chat me up
      I promise you size 41 by next week
      I have device means of getting nice 40/41 to satisfy you my customers.

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  17. God bless the givers and the receivers

    Hurrayyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!
    My flight booking company coming soon
    😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

    Every hustle na hustle

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  18. Married to a cheating husband, so you want a child that many are praying for and eating and drinking all sorts to die because your horseband is cheating? I know it's not easy but hey! Have your child in good health and love and nuture him or her and have a best friend, your child can be your friend and bring you joy and happiness. You can actually talk to him, let him know you found out and hear what he has to say. Biko don't ever wish death on anyone not to talk of your child because of 'man'.
    The lady who's friend had ulcer, thank God for healing, her worry should be getting better and not the debt her mum incurred, I believe it will be sorted out.
    Lovely bedsheets....Wishing you radical sales.

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  19. Those Duvet and Bedsheets looks so nice and beautiful. May God grant you guys much sales.

    A lovely afternoon here from the Garden city. The month is already running out fast. Bless the works of our hands O Lord, let your Grace speaks for us. Able God, I need this breakthrough and testimony in good time Amen.

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    1. I'm very sure your Duvet and bedsheets needs changing, Abu na wrapper you dey use😎😎😎😎😎

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    2. Buggy na wrapper I dey use ooh. You go buy one for me?

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  20. Madam that got cheated on, calm down, if I had told u its just a matter of time, you for call me names. They slip up at some point in their lives, no matter how long it takes, one day, it might be now, 30yrs time, 5yrs time, 49yrs later, always be prepared, guys will be guys, u never catch your own yet, even though u are with his phone 247, u follow him like Shadow, sister chill, u go tire.

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    1. Blackberry, my husband adores me, he will never cheat on me, i satisfy him very well and he confesses

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    2. Good luck, nwa satisfier.

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    3. I just hate this general talk about all men cheat. Even if it is 5 out of 100 million, there a few men who don't cheat. They exist !!!! Not every man thinks about sex sex sex.

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    4. There are still faithful men out there
      My ex is one
      How I miss him!

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    5. I ve never cheated and I do not have plans to do that. so help me God!Thank you Jesus

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    6. I've heard ooooooo...😁😁😁 na una dey cry pass when calabash break.

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    7. I am a man and I don't cheat. Not because I am better than others. Cheating is too much work and I am lazy.

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    8. Marry me already this is why I'm so scared of Marriage. I'm a faithful woman, never double dated and I don't intend on ever doing that.

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  21. Beautiful products. Customers fall on us all. Thanks Stella.

    Good afternoon my people. How your wether dey?

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  22. Its not like ulcer is not detected or can't be detected in Nigeria, there are different types of ulcer. Something similar also happened to my friend, she visited different hospitals in the abroad for years and no doctor could diagnose her sickness until few years ago when a doctor suddenly ran some very Strange tests and boom, the results were out and she was diagnosed of a particular type of ulcer. She's been on treatment and feeling better now.
    Poster, I thank God for your friend's life and I pray her healing be permanent in Jesus name.
    You're a very good friend, God bless you.

    Pregnant poster with a cheating husband, please, speak to your husband and remove that negative wishes from your heart and mind. God will see you through. Protect yourself and your unborn child.

    Poster, ask your friend why she is acting weird towards you, maybe she's having her own personal issues, you'll never know if you don't ask.

    May you all succeed in your businesses.

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    1. And some people don't follow up in hospital. They come today, give them 2 weeks appointment you with see them till 9 months later. Then you start afresh then they disappear again. Going to different places.

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  23. Beautiful sheets


    Woman with cheating husband, don't ever use your precious child as a weapon against your husband.



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  24. Dear Olori Orente,
    Could you please make your wares bolder and clearer by using plain collages?
    The ones up there are a little distracting.
    Thanks ma’am.

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  25. Thank you Stella for the laptop post. God bless you.

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    1. There is a macbook pro, all white. Call the number.

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  26. Madam that's preggy, don't give yourself HBP, some men are just sooo foolish, last year, a guy that asked me out years back and i refused cos of I was dating someone else, called me up that he is in PH and will love for us to hangout, I told him no qualms mind you he is married with a pretty daughter, only for him to tell me straight up he'll like for us to date and that when I'm ready to marry, we will break-up, to say I was astound is an understatement, told Oga it won't be possible, Oga said I was too stingy that it's why I'm still single at my late 30's always acting all good and i shouldn't forget that we aren't holy, he that's cheating on his wife and someone that lies will still go to the same hell fire!!! (morals gone down the drain). I just smiled, but I won't lie I cried when I got home. Blocked the animal on all social media, I can't date multiple men at the same time and unfortunately I've only met foolish men, but its all good, once I'm 40 and i'm still unmarried, will buy sperm, get pregnant and rest. But then I was thinking, what if I married him, I'll be home thinking I married a good man, meanwhile he has a steady side chick.... thinking about it makes my skin crawl.

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    1. Just face GOD


      Look up and maintain your looking for a good spouse

      Don't let anything or anyone break your gaze or looking

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    2. Just hold on, your miracle will come.

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  27. Pregnant woman with cheating husband, please take care of yourself oooo be concern about your pregnancy and not one cheating

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  28. Stella I'm sorry if that prayer upset you, I have been refreshing if I could find my comment and get comforting words. My heart wants to explode I can't even eat.
    I trusted tomuch reason I'm so hurt.

    This has been going on for long and I'm just finding out. We have been TTC all these yrs. His been saying sorry but he disgust me right now.
    Pls who has gone through this? Help me out pls. I can't even eat. This is a man who always claims has no money, making me spend all I have every time only to read he sends her money. A lot I just cannot type now. I guess being a good wife doesn't pay one bit.

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    1. There is so much to be grateful for. You have husband, you are pregnant. Just thank God and tell him to change what you dont like. I was married for 2 years and some month, we TTC and God took my husband. No Husband, No child yet. And you have both and you are complaining. Cheating hurts but just forgive and pray to forget.

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    2. Na WA o, why are some men like this?😎😎😎😎

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    3. Young lady, you should be thanking God for finding out now. God really wanted to open your eyes. Your mumu days are now over. First, become extremely self centred. Register at the best and most expensive hospital you can find. Then do as little as possible around the house. Rest a lot and start demanding from him. If he can find money for a mistress he can find money for you. Now this is the most important bit. START SAVING!! Any money you are blessed with as regards the baby make sure you save it. BUild up your nest egg for the future. That man in not trustworthy and you need to deal with him accordingly.

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    4. Your husband has been very calculative, that's why he cheated for so long and you didn't know. What you need now is to also be calculative and emotions will get in the way of that. We keep learning everyday not to put our trust in man. I totally understand how you feel but please dont act out of that annoyance, disappointment or disgust.

      You need to get a grip of yourself and strategise on what you want to do after this. It is painful when we women come to the realisation that our husband does not respect us or love us as much as we do them, but I found out in marriage that love is never really balanced.

      You were TTC and now pregnant. My only advise for you is to cherish and love and protect that pregnancy with your life. I am married and TTC. I know the pains of TTC. Hence, to me, the safety of that baby is more important.

      They say people change, so your hubby may change for good. But if he doesnt, are you ready to live with such a man? The decision is yours to make. Mind you, he is only sorry he got caught.

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    5. Thank you everyone and Stella, I know you were upset cos you have never supported killing a growing child. I was just so hurt finding out. I have asked God to forgive me and show me Mercy, my little Angel deserves life.
      I'm sad at the kind of woman. He has turned me to.

      My mother-in-law called, I guess he called her cos I was parking my things. She wants me to come stay with her for a while till my head cools down.

      I'm wiser now, same thing she said to me. No man is worth dieing for, that I should be grateful I got to know about it. She is a very good woman and has never supported evil. She always tell me when I was TTC that I shouldn't drink agbo and die o! I should wait on God cos if I die her son will marry another within one month, lol... I feel better now.
      "I thank God for opening my eyes" I'm wiser now.

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  29. Pregnant madam with a cheating husband, pls keep your precious child, remember he/she belongs to you both and not him alone.
    If you decide to leave him, pls have it in mind that MOST men cheat except you want to be without a man.
    If you decide to remain with him after you must have had a heart to heart talk, pls let him wear protection all through your pregnancy and beyond, so you can protect your unborn baby from any STD he might contact from his side chick. Most of them don't change, they re-strategize.

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  30. Stella, its ulcer...the worst stage of it...like I said, I've forgotten the name of the ulcer. Maybe doctors in the house can explain better. Thanks for sharing.

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  31. How many bedsheets and duvets sellers do we have here? I see three adverts here today alone. Reminds me of those days when we used to have make up artists and cake makers all over the blog. Now everyone do their makeup by themselves and cake sef no too move like that again. Na bedsheets and clothes dey reign now. Life!

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    1. my dear na true talk.
      the way bedsheet dey spring up from everywhere ehhhh.
      atimes i just start laughing.

      Stellz thanks bosslady.
      you too much

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    2. It's the bandwagon effect, the moment people see that a particular hustle is making waves, everyone will shift to it until it becomes saturated and not profitable again, that's the human factor😎😎😎😎

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  32. Not had sex in 4 months, and I am not feeling horny. Am I normal?

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    1. Four months you said? What of us that are celibate over two years and counting. Dear you are normal. It's all about choice dear...

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    2. 11 years and I have not died.
      Once you realise that you are not an animal and can actually do without it.

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  33. Good afternoon everyone. Help me praise the Lord! My God has done I'm pregnant. I pray God will answer everyone ttcing in Jesus Name.

    Chill

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    1. Wooooow. Congratulations. I am so happy for u. U will carry to term and deliver.
      Amen to your prayers

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    2. Congratulations 😎😎😎

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    3. Congrats. This is permanent in Jesus Name

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    4. Thanks everyone. I appreciate

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  34. Good afternoon everyone. Help me praise the Lord! My God has done I'm pregnant. I pray God will answer everyone ttcing in Jesus Name.

    Chill

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  35. God bless you so much SDK
    I am really grateful.... To all my distinguish customers, from next week I will be having a lot of beautiful and cute size 40/41.You can order now as its first come.

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    1. How do we order what we have not seen?
      This 41, what does it look like?

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    2. Olori, my leg is big oo .size 42, can I get my size? We stay close to each other.

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  36. Pregnant woman....you are a wicked human being.
    What a prayer 💁🏿‍♂️
    You want God to take back his gift to you ontop a cheating husband.
    Gift a lot of women are looking everywhere for. You need to see what some ttc women pass through....the things they have to eat and all of that.
    You are indeed ungrateful.
    So without this man, you won’t survive?
    Mtcheeeeeew.

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  37. Beautiful items for sale! May customers locate you all.

    Pregnant woman with a cheating hubby, just take Stella's advice to heart. Look for things that will keep you busy.Take your mind off him. I know you are really hurt but the truth is, no man deserves the right to detect your happiness. I wish you well and a safe delivery.

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  38. Good afternoon people,

    Stella most Naija hospitals do not have enough equipments for some rigorous laboratory tests, hence most times people go abroad for proper medical check ups. May God provide for your friend poster to pay off the debt.
    Please the pregnant lady why would you utter such a devilish words on your unborn child I rebuke those evil pronouncments on that beautiful baby. Please women when are we ganna learn to only put our trust on God not mere man or husband, please dear try to be strong I know that not everyone can withstand cheating spouse but don't put your mind there. Please only be careful so that he doesn't infect u with STD.

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  39. So you want to kill yourself cos a man cheated on you? I know it hurts, but calm down! It's not the end of your life..

    Poster with the busybody neighbour, I don't get o. So you have to give her an update on your TTC journey every month or what? Hian!! Better ignore the hell out of her and mind your business..

    Beautiful Ankara designs..

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  40. If you are not emotionally mature,please remain in your father's house and grow more wisdom before you get married!
    Marriage is not zee world or telemundo lovey dovey,it is as real as fuck!
    How can a married woman like you become friends with her neighbour to the extent that you now seek for her validation?
    If her attitude changes towards you,why are you so worried?
    What makes you think she really cares about you?
    Is she your husband?
    Use this opportunity to end your relationship with her and stay your lane!
    @Madam,whose husband is cheating on,you need to wipe your tears and grow up!!!

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  41. Poster that her hubby is sleeping around without pitying his pregnant wife . Didn't you notice while dating?
    Some of you, the man will cheat on you several times while dating, you will keep forgiving him. Let me tell you, after marriage, his cheating will triple. Don't ever think he will change. A leopard can never change its skin. The same thing applies to a man that bears you, even if it's 'just' a slap, keep forgiving him inugo?
    After marriage, na blows and kicks.

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  42. Pregnant lady, please leave your innocent unborn child out of your husband cheating and try to borrow yourself some sense. You want to die cos your husband cheated on you? You must be very sick and stupid. Hanty TTC minding your business is a lucrative business. If she's giving you attitude return it back in full measure. Una doh

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  43. Enter your comment...pls am looking for a good hospital in ketu to Register for antenatal and also deliver there, Stella pls post

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  44. Wow!! Thank God for your friend. I got scared towards the end of your story, and amazed to hear it was ULCER. I can't seems to understand that though, I mean to the point your friend suffered stinking and began to rot? Anyway he who started the good job will complete it in Jesus name.

    Madam with the cheating husband , I understand your plight well enough,I won't start all the sermon of you want to kill yourself because of a man and whatnot.I know how excruciating the pain can be! I mean only you is wearing the shoes and definitely feel the discomfort. Pls, be guided in your speech about the unborn baby though, he/she doesn't have to share the brunt of your husband's offence. Trust me time will heal you,you'd get better. Hopefully ,when you have a clear head you'd have appropriate measures to deal with the whole ish. God will be with you and your baby.

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  45. 10 weeks pregnant, i am so sorry you feel this way. My husband annoyed me last week ( I am as far gone as you) and my inlaw kept calling and saying do you want to lose that child ? Calm down! (NB i left the house in anger) I said nah if their brother cared that much he wont do what he did. Las las i spoke to his other sister and she said THAT child is your priority forget man no one would love you like that child and it will be your focus. It is a gift from God, channel your energy on that child. Its not like if the child gets taken away you would leave your husband so just focus on the child.
    I will advise you to talk to God (not necessary prayers) but just talk to Him. Tell him why you angry if possible write a letter to Him it wont be immediate but you will feel better. I cant tell you what to do with your cheating husband but that child being taken away from you wont fix his philandering ways

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    1. Stop speaking to his people no matter your issues.be wise!

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    2. Please stop discussing issues with them!! One day things will turn..... you just making yourself a topic of conversation and you have opened the door to them to interfere.

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  46. Olori this your sneakers are fine.
    Nsk is very cold shoi

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  47. My dear pregnant lady, take back that statement and ask God for forgiveness. Having a child is very wonderful & one of the most beautiful things. Many are going round the state/world to have this. Don't be ungrateful.
    As for your husband, leave his matter for now and concetrate on your health and child. After delivery, you will be in a right state of mind to decide.
    Pls take care of yourself and child.

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  48. TTC is stress and worrisome, dear wives just be thanking God u have husband. Miracle babies will locate u

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  49. Retired slay queen, I hope all is well?
    Please come out.
    I miss you.
    I want to ask you about strobe cream.
    Yay or nay @14k?

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  50. Thanks for the blog visitor that gave me the lightbox yesterday..may God prosper your ways

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