Una good Morning my Country people.......
Who wants to hear the Bambino tales today?These kids think that they are too smart oh....
So the Bambinos have two phones each,one expensive one and a very cheap one with no camera,the cheap one is for school cos they have lost so many good phones or it got broken out of playfulness.
I told one of them that they couldn't take the expensive phones to school...............OK nah!
When they were leaving for school,I felt they were too nice and my radar went off but i didn't think towards the phone.......After they had been gone for like ten minutes,i went back upstairs to do police control and all phones i said they should not take were there...........As i was turning an inner voice said ''Stella check the phone cases''..My Country people i did and the phone cases were empty...LMAO!
They had removed the phones and set the cases as if the phones were inside..
I was so shocked that i sat down and started cry-laughing!
They came back from school behaving like Lawyers with strong defence for their case....I am thinking of what punishment best suits their actions.....My Gosh!!!
Dealing with Boys is not an easy task at all at all my Country people!!!
Please send in your adverts,well prepared with your original photos or full advert as a photo meme.
Have a very beautiful day ....
lots of Kisses!!
If God Is Making You Wait
ReplyDeleteThen Be Prepared To Receive
More Than You Asked For.
#GoodmorningStella
#GoodmorningPeopleOfSDKville##
False hope!
DeleteFalse hope this early morning!
You're damn correct
DeleteWhat is damn correct? This is the kind of things that make people lazy and "waiting" on the lord, instead of pushing further to better their present state.
Delete👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
DeleteAfricans embrace religion tighter than they embrace reality, those waiting on God for healing of cancer or other terminal diseases huh? Abeg shift with ur quotes.
DeleteAnon 08:13 and 08:35 just shuush, just shut that gutter you call a mouth. There are so many situations you can't help but wait on the Lord. From your senseless comment, you sound like the wait is all about striving to change ones present state, like pushing to get better career-wise or business or a job.
DeleteThat comment up there spoke to me because i am waiting on God for a blessing of fruit of the womb. If you have nothing to comment you little devil, just keep it moving. Bye felicia
9:06.
DeleteNo be your mate de do IVF de carry their pikin? Keep on waiting on the lord, i wish you well
Sometimes u guys misunderstand someone, waiting on d Lord don't mean u should fold ur hands n wait while doing nothing, u work towards it n let God bless it....if u no bang, belly no go enter, so bang n further your treatment,explore options which is d work n let God crown ur EFFORTS (work) with success.
DeleteDoes ivf work for everyone? Be informed or stay away from comments that you do not understand.
DeleteAnon 09:18...this your comment was quite insensitive, show empathy. Even the IVF is not foolproof.
Delete09:18 that was a very insensitive statement. People like you, life has a way of teaching lessons if you continue this way.
DeleteGood morning everyone.
ReplyDeleteGood morning bvs.
DeleteSomeone should help me out here i saw gross salary as 123,954.00 in my employment letter, does it mean hat will be my take home every month? This is my first time. Thanks for your advise.
DeleteNo oh, dont start celebrating oh, its not your monthly salary!
DeleteIt is not your take home salary. All deductions will be made from it eg. Tax, pension, HMO etc. Your take home salary after the deductions may end up at 100-110k depending on their calculation.
DeleteGross salary means your stated salary before deductions.
While net salary is your take home after deductions
Thank you Omajenny, for the response, I also have a question , my office recently increased my salary to 120,000.00, but my take was 103,272, please how good can you explain this to me. they said they deduct tax and pension. I am not understanding. thank you.
DeleteMake sure they are paying your pension into the pension account you gave them.
DeleteAnon 09:26 Congrats on your new job. Still believing God for mine.
Delete@ Anon 11:06...They deducted PAYE (tax) and Pension from it before they arrived at 102, 272. You can request for your pay slip so that you can see the details. Secondly, you ought to have a pension account, they will credit your pension account monthly and you will see the amount there. In addition, if you are up to one year in the company, request for your tax payer's ID card. That is an evidence that they remit your tax to the government. Ask questions , It is your right. Go and meet the Accountant in your office.
DeleteAnonymous 11:06, the 120k is the gross increase in your salary. Apparently 103k is your net salary after the increase.
DeleteThat is after tax, pension and NHI has been deducted.
However, Make sure your are registered to a pension fund managers, and you receive the monthly alert showing your company pays in the stated amount monthly.
Some companies don't pay it into their staffs pension account after deducting it.
Father in heaven place us where we are supposed to be for divine encounter with a God sent today in Jesus most precious name... Amen.
ReplyDeleteGood morning all.
Amen ,I receive it
DeleteGood morning dear...
DeleteStella your kids are very funny, you think you're smart🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Amen, i receive
DeleteA resounding Amen.
DeleteI got a message from customs yesterday. They sent me a form and told me to fill it and send it back to the same email. Pls I want to know if any of their official email starts with info.******************** and ends with .wuse@gmail.com or is it a scam? Tho I applied for a job last month. I just want to know if it's legit or fake. I don't want to be scammed. Stella Darling pls help me post. It's urgent and I desperately need a job but I don't want to be scammed that's why I brought it here. God bless you and all bvs
ReplyDeleteThis looks fake
DeleteWhy are u coding d email? Who sabi u?
DeletePlay along until when they ask for money. then you back out. if they don't ask for money or recharge card or your credit card info, no shaking. you can never tell.
DeleteIt's fake, I have exprienced it before, they won't ask for money now, they will ask you after the completion of the form. You can play along.
DeleteI got the same message yesterday which i am yet to reply cos I didn't apply for any customs job
DeleteLet me rant here as no one knows me here,
ReplyDeleteEveryday, i wonder what Nigeria is turning into.
During my NYSC year(2018) i relocated to Anambra State. Due to the aforementioned, my details were not sent to the Anambra state education board alongside my mates (batch A).
When my set received their first bulk state allowance, i didn't get mine... I complained to the board, and I was told that i would be paid alongside batch B corp members, because my file came in late. I mentioned that i would have passed out by then, but they assured me that i'll still receive the bulk sum and subsequent monthly payments.
Despite passing out, i followed up with Batch B, i made all necessary payments, i ensured that the CLO cross checked my details at the Education Board, since they were expecting payment.
Yesterday, the Batch B corp members were given their first bulk payment (72k), and i still didn't get mine..
After enquiries, The people at the ICT room in Anambra state Govt Secretariat said my details wasn't on the list...details that were confirmed minutes before the list was taken to the ICT room... Apparently, someone who knew i reside in the far North had removed my name from the list, probably to divert the pay to his/her account knowing that i might not be able to come down to Anambra if i didn't receive the pay....
To think that i planned on using that money to start up a small business to take take care of my self while i await a better job ..I was born with a cleft of the soft palate, recently the cleft opened up Unexpectedly, worsening my speech issue (by increasing the nasal sound).
I had to go for an unplanned surgery (to reduce the nasal sound) using the money i've saved up...
Last two weeks, while still recuperating from the surgery, i had to borrow money to go write the NNPC aptitude test, with the hope that i'll be paid...well!!!...here we are!!!...
Worst Part? Everyone has turned their backs on me....No one is willing to help me fight for it (not that its their responsibility though)
I am a lady, i need to take care of myself, I want to fight for my money, I an done crying, i want to fight for a meaning to life..but how do i?
Does anyone know how i can? Can anyone give me any idea at all on how i can reach a superior power at the Anambra state government Secretariat? The office of the head of service.. Maybe a twitter handle, facebook page? Phone number? Anything at all, i just want to get my money as that's the only possible way i can get my life back on track financially...
Any suggestion? Please send me a mail. Crushedsadsoul@gmail.com
This your cry would have been more heard on twitter...tag Segalink who else again sex? Scratches head
DeleteSo sorry about all these. I pray you get all the help you need. It is well with you.
DeleteWhat I know is that NYSC will never owe any Corp member. I was posted to a nothern state & I redeployed to Delta State. While in camp in the north, I opened an account with UBA & was sent an account number which I didn't save. I got a smaller phone in camp & put my mtn sim & I was sent another account number which I saved. December came & I got no allowance, meanwhile I was already in Delta State.
DeleteWhen I got to the UBA branch in Asaba, I was told it was a wrong account number.
I made calls, pursued it & nothing came forth so I forgot it. One day, I had reasons to insert my mtn sim back into my android & that was when I saw the very first Account number sent to me. I compared & discovered the difference. I passed out of service & moved to Lagos. On my birthday december 23,2016, I got a call from one of the directors confirming my details & apologising. February 2017, I got alert of my December 2015 allawee.
If there has been no error in the forms you filled, I believe you should be paid. Please take care of yourself. ❤️
Yes, go to human rights station Abuja, Ahmed isah will help you get justice. You can call me for more info:0701 606 5083
DeleteStella dey really played you Lmao
ReplyDeleteGood morning folks do have a lovely day!
Shaurya is loving Mehek ok na! See his cyborg face
Don't mind shaurya, but I think aunty kanta is over doing it joor.
DeleteGood morning bvs
Kanta will still deal with him by telling him to transfer his money and property into Mehek's name and he did good morning to you too.
DeleteCassie is pregnant yay p.diddy thank you for freeing that young girl you be real destiny holder😁😁😁😁
My Zee world people are here!
DeleteGood morning guys.
Any woman that decides to be stupid and put her life on pause for a man has herself to blame, she tied her destiny to the man... not the other way around, dont you have sense or a mind of your own?
DeleteWho else follows the Venus Project and believes it'd come to pass?
ReplyDeleteYlE welcome back
DeleteThis yle you and ANG have similar problem o. Una go comment still come under your comment to hype yourself. Isn't this LSE low self esteem?
DeleteLol
DeleteEVANGEL DAILY MEAL DEVOTIONAL
ReplyDeleteThursday 13 June 2019.
TEXT:
John 14:1-4
TOPIC:
The Cure For Worry
KEY VERSE:
John 14:1
MESSAGE:
Toward the end of 1943, President Roosevelt, Prime Minister Churchill, and Joseph Stalin were scheduled to meet in Tehran, Iran, to discuss strategy in the war against Germany. As the three leaders prepared for the trip, made even more dangerous by the ongoing war, Roosevelt wrote to Churchill and expressed some concern over the meeting location. He feared that Tehran was in range of German bombers and they could be subject to attack. Churchill sent back this message: "See St. John chapter 14, verses 1-4."
Those nine words and the truth of the verses Churchill references, contain the cure for worry in any situation of life. Our faith is not that nothing will ever go wrong. Jesus spoke these words just hours before He was put to death on the cross; but He assured that God is in control and our eternal destiny is secured in Him. The more we believe in God, the less we worry. Troubled hearts reveal that we are not trusting Him as we should.
The reminder that Jesus gave to His disciples just before the crucifixion was that there is more than this world in our future. The burdens and troubles and trials of life are real but they are temporary. And the God who sees us through them has an eternity prepared for us. Nothing that anyone or anything in this world can do will change that. It is settled and secure according to the unfailing promise of Almighty God. Stop those worries now and hold on to God's solution to worries- the Scriptures.
CONTROLLING
THOUGHTS:
The Word of God is the solution for worry.
PRAYER:
Oh Lord, remind me to always search the Scriptures in times of worry.
BIBLE READING FOR A YEAR:
Jer.22-23; Matt.24:29-51.
Wetin be this again?
DeleteGood morning beeveeleons..🤗🤗
ReplyDeleteI remember when my Dad seized my MARIO (video game) with the carton..
When I gave him a month,started taking the accessories one after the other until I sold them all leaving only the carton n the gun in it.
2. Years after na only carton remain..😂😂😂😂😂
You guys ehn 😂😂😂
DeleteOla, this your selling skills, no be today eh start
Delete😁
Delete😁😁😁😁
DeleteGood morning
ReplyDeleteYour boys are just too smart. May God be your elbow o.😀😀😀😀😀
ReplyDeleteNaija blood de in them na.
DeleteI love the bambino tales 😂😂
ReplyDeleteI want babies like now so I too can have all these experiences you mothers are having.....great feeling.
So shall it be for you! Amen
DeleteSeconded...
DeleteA resounding Amen
Same here..
Amen. You shall have them and they will give you peace of mind.
DeleteMe too. I really want to experience that kicking in the stomach. Oh God! !
DeleteJust continue to trust God, have faith in Him. It will surely come to fulfillment. Ps 126:1-2
DeleteToo often you come here talking about how someone has changed and you used to like their comments but not any longer.
ReplyDeleteYou don't know anyone here, but you see their ID, you see a few of their comments, and you try to make them up in your head based on those few comments and you try to hold them to a standard you feel suits them or suits their ID. You elevate them to perfection in your eyes.
And then, they make few more comments and you come crying, forgetting that just as there are many parts to a whole, each human is unique and has a range of feelings and expressions and diverse experiences that shape them and their behavior.
What's my point? No one has the right or the effrontery, without knowing a person or their experiences, to talk about how a person has "changed" simply because their comments or behaviors on a BLOG do not suit their behavior in your head or do not suit how you feel they should behave in your small, limited mind.
Stop it, please. Just stop it. And that statement "you've changed o" is one of the most manipulative statements ever and a tool that people say so as to keep the other person under their control, and doing what they want.
Thanks for coming to my TED talk.
Theres nothing wrong in seeing a difference from a particular ID, abeg shift, dont enforce ur personal feelings on anyone, we could argue that as well.
DeleteThe Blessings of the Lord makes rich and adds no sorrow to it...
ReplyDeleteMay those things that brings us joy not cause us pain or sorrow in Jesus name Amen...
Good morning everyone...
Amen. How are you doing today?
DeleteMy dear Cynthia, I'm doing great and you? Thanks for asking...
DeleteMy regards to our Baby...
Amen.
DeleteHehehehehehe Stellastico your bambino tale got me rolling with laughter this morning. Your boys are a handful. Weldone!
ReplyDeleteI had a very interesting holiday. Counting down to TGIF.
So, the average Nigerian thinks once a woman leaves the four squares of school, the next thing is for her to land in a man's house, doesn't really matter how she gets there though, just get married. Now, a conversation between me and my darling friend.
ReplyDeleteHer: baby yo, sup with you na?
Me: baby boo, I dey o. What to do na?
Her: you Don finish school ba?
Me: yes my dear.
Her: wow. Very good. So, when are we coming to eat jollof rice?
Me: (clearly pretending not to understand) Bae, i cook jollof rice everytime, it's my favorite. See ehn, when you're ready to come eat, just let me know. I'd cook it so deliciously that you'd forget the way to your house after eating it. 😊😊😊
Her: nor be Wetin I mean be that. When are you getting married? What are you waiting for? Time nor dey o.
Me: (irritated)I am waiting for your husband my darling. Infact, it's your husband I want to marry, you know he's cute, I'd like to marry him. How about that?
Her: Haba na, e never reach like that!
Me: e don reach like that o. As matter of fact, hold him well o, because I'm coming for him.
Her: abeg nor vex o. I was just advising you.
Me: I know darling, and I appreciate it. (😎😎Chief advicer of the universe. Oshey!)
Getting married on its own isn't a bad Idea, But hey, how about I leave school, do something good for myself, like getting a job, doing something tangible for myself and family, grow myself a bit and build myself both mentally and physically before wearing that round steel. Moreover, No one rushed you, so I don't see the rationale behind why you should wanna rush me. And then Marriage isn't a pot of beans, you would have to make it work through the dent of hardwork. You will have to wear the full armor of patience, the golden helmet of perseverance, and the silver boot of endurance. The people around me, the society that sets the age limit of marriage for unmarried women, wants a WEDDING, but me, i want MARRIAGE! Not the mirage encompassed with chaos that people are rushing into these days. #rantover
I love the bambino tales.. Your kids are so smart 💞💞💞
Correct rant
DeleteI don't know why pple wont stop this culture of wanting people to go get married after school. Ig thats what the person wants fine, but why pressure pple to do otherwise? Beats me
DeleteMy dear the rate at which people pressure singles to get married is too much..
DeleteYour girlfriend is the real GOAT 😍😍😍😍💋💋💋💋.
DeleteRightly spoken...
DeleteThis made me remember my conversation with my grandfather yesterday. The old man called me & said my dad told him I've refused to get married. 🙄🙄
DeleteParents ehn..they're the same everywhere.
Goodmorning everyone may your day be fruitful.
ReplyDeleteGood morning. Stella your children too smart. Abeg no punish them just scold them
ReplyDeleteAbeg my people,how Una own senna tea(3 ballerinas) work for una sotey una purge come get flat tummy? I have drank this tea but even to poo normal no happen not to talk of to purge.Blackberry abeg show. Is there something I'm not doing right?
ReplyDelete2 sachets in a cup of water, last thing at night or first thing in d morning...if it doesn't purge u, then maybe ya tummy is made of stone 😁
Delete@Blackberry: where is it sold?
DeleteI'm not afraid of purging 😂
Its sold in the police station..🙄🙄
DeleteThanks my dear blackberry. I will try 2satchet from now cos I was doing one.I gave a little 2my man to drink in teacup,oga don shit like twice already.me nothing nothing.I hardly purge sha...
DeleteGood morning lovelies 💟💟💟
ReplyDeleteYou are the real mama boys. Training male kids is so hard.My mom in law has 4boys and she told me they toughened her. She said she once tied my hubby to the chair because he loves football too much. 😂😂😂
Give them the appropriate discipline because they disobeyed. Bambino's are really smart guys. 🙌
Stella your Bambinos use upgraded waffi brain for you
ReplyDeleteGood morning my people. Honestly ,I don't feel like going to work today but then I no get choice . Have a nice day people
ReplyDeleteGood morning bvs.
ReplyDeleteStella your Bambinos are way too smart 🤣
Good morning lovelies.
ReplyDeleteMay God bless our hustle today.
Shout out to all my customers.
Love you all.
@Stella,
Awwwww kids are wonderful. Kisses to u and them
pls what can be the cause of contraction pain without pregnancy, I have a 5year old son before so I know what contraction feels like but I am not pregnant, just exactly apart like labour pain. I am not pregnant, my tommy is flat and I see my period every month although there is issue of secondary fertility on ground.
ReplyDeleteIf you are doing family planning, check if it's the method you are using.
DeleteMaybe the family planning method you are using is not good for you
DeleteNo family planning, TTC for the second child to no avail
DeleteMadam go and see a gynecologist.
DeleteSmh
What time of the month does it occur? I'm thinking it might be ovulation cramps. Go see a doctor anyway
DeleteI have been coming across mbaise girls and they are endowed
ReplyDelete#GOAT™
Danny goodmorning.
DeleteHow are you?
Hahaha this anonymous everyday you ask Danny how he is, without any response.
DeleteContinue, I like your persistence. Don't worry, Danny will reply you soon.
I think he doesn't come back to read replies
DeleteLwkmd
ReplyDeleteStella your Bambinos surely inherited the waffy sense. Looooooool
If i hear say it wouldnt be funny to you, its good to be boss sha, even ur cough will make ppl laugh
DeleteBut that story is funny na
DeleteAnon so you woke up with silliness?
DeleteKeep it up 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
It suits you perfectly 😘😘
This drone generation can outsmart FBI so we keep learning from them. Let them explain why they chose to break the rules and if they aren't remorseful, they suggest their consequences. I got a Consequences Jar filled with possible punitive suggestions from them written in rolled up papers ed withdrawing certain priviledges, no outings etc. You pick from the jar, open the paper, read out the outcome and face the consequences. It's dropped back. The fear of Mom's Consequences Jar is the beginning of Wisdom.😁😁😀😀
ReplyDeleteThank you for this. Such a cool idea.
DeleteI like this. I'll adopt this when my daughter is grown. She's just a toddler at the moment.
DeleteI will practice this. Thanks
DeletePlease, MMI at what stage did you start using this method. I love it!
DeleteGood morning people! Stella ur bambino tales is so cracking. Have a blessed day ya'all!
ReplyDeleteJoin me to thank God. Yesterday, I went to pick OK sports tight,on getting there, I found out I was late. She has opened the bail and I was the only one. Though I was angry, I managed to pick only 2. I opened one of the zips in the second one. Lo and behold, I saw 2 10 pounds bills. Quickly paid and went home. Praise the Lord.
ReplyDeleteWow.. some ppl are lucky like that, chai the seller missed that one.
DeleteThank God for you.
DeleteWow! Congrats. It's good to go when they are just opening the bales, you would pick your stuff before the seller checks the pockets.
DeleteThank you to everyone, i got the messages. I have left the hospital to be seen in clinic with further testing. Nothing excites me more plus I miss my kids so much😥😥😥😥. Thank God for my partner that has been so supportive.
ReplyDeleteWho you be na?
DeleteYour healing shall be permanent
DeleteWhich story is this?
DeleteThank God for your health. Are you the bv who went in for surgery?
DeleteStella kisses 😗😗😗😗😗😗😗 to your Bambinos..Funny and Smart kids...
ReplyDeleteKeep it coming..
Good morning,
ReplyDeleteMeeting your Man's parents is not a guarantee he'll marry you or stay faithful.
ReplyDeleteAre you just realizing that?
DeleteEven after introduction has been done, he can still dump you
True. Again is the ladies that will start performing wifey roles immediately.
DeleteGood morning dear Stella, Teenage boys can be something else! The experience is full of fun and shouting. Any mother wey get boys dey wise by force ooo😂. I love Bambino tales because I have boys too. My son is not allowed to go to school with his phone but for where when he sees am still sleeping he moves even my iPad together with his phone. I don talk tire! In Sweden they no dey beat children if you do na social go settle you and your child.
ReplyDeleteLol@ wise by force.
DeleteCarry him inside, lock both the doors and windows and flog him
DeleteTrue @ Nkiru, my sister there is using Naija sense for them there to keep them in check, coded language things
DeleteGood morning BVs.
ReplyDeleteStella your kids are very smart.
Oriegwu. My aunty used to beat her children in the US when they were small. But first she will put holy fear in them about how social welfare will come and take them away, take away their mum and dad and so many things. Before she starts the main beating.
DeleteGrowing up, she was a terrorist to us, we feared her even more than our parents. So even the the fear of social welfare couldn't stop her from giving her kids the occasional knocks the Nigerian way.������
Chai 😂. For their small Bambino's mind they are smart forgetting that you are way smarter than them. Una good morning. May today be fruitful and favourable to us all. Amen
ReplyDeleteThere are several misconception about feminism or feminist. A feminist is some who advocates or believes in the social,economic,political equality of sexes, and not what people believe to be "a woman who is not submissive or a slay queen". We all have sisters,mothers,Aunties,and may have wives and daughters,would you be happy if any of these women in your life are treated unequally in terms of employment,appointment salary schemes because they are females?no. I am using the females because the conception has being held against the females Because of the name FEMINISM, you should know that feminism is about equality of the male and female sexes, there are societies too that favours the women more than the men. I believe in the equality of sexes for the betterment of my generation...my opinion and have a nice day
ReplyDeleteNigerian feminist are different!
DeleteYour opinion is the right one.
Deleteblackberry shut up...its not only amongst Nigerians people misconstrue that word. I saw a video yesterday of an African American lady who blamed her not being married with kids on her being a feminist. some women juat don't get it andjust join the bandwagon tobe stupuid. being a feminist is not being a man hater. its just desiring that women get equal opportunities. biblically God created men and women equall but with different roles. he made man head of the home and women to submit to that headship, but when they both play their roles as God defined it they will both be treating each other with love and respect the way God wants it...it is the wickedness of man and oppression to women that made feminism come to the fore..so feminism is not men hating or wanting to be equal to men as some people have wrongly interpreted it
DeleteAnon 12:12 you are the one that needs to shut up! If you don't understand a comment,ask for clarification instead of talking trash. Wonder what's eating you up so badly that you can't even recognize sarcasm when you see it
DeleteEnter your comment...I need divorce.women are terrible.
ReplyDeleteCeaser come n carry ya brother.
DeleteYou don marry?
DeleteLMAO 🤣🤣🤣 @ blackberry
Deletewomen are terrible yen yen yen...wetin you do her? una go look for trouble keep face like cold akamu dey claim victim
DeleteWhen people walk away from a relationship, please how do they do it, practically?
ReplyDeleteDated him for 4yrs now,I bliv in keeping d marriage bed undefiled. My first kiss was from him. Like he's my first everything.am a virgin ,he's not
But am not comfortable with making out with him, anytime I touch him,just to make him feel happy I feel empty,I can't pray, like I feel so so bad in fact we can finish one bottle of cream.
Yesterday he told me he was visiting, and I told him hope its not cause he wants to feel "gud'. And he told me, this tym I either give him sex or he cheats..
He's a gud man, but this sex thing. Hes pushing me and he doesn't want to talk abt it. After all pastors do it..nobody is holy.. Etc.
I want to walk away, yet 1day without him.. Please I need help. I don't want to keep hurting my conscience, we look innocent to others, inside the pressure for him to av sex or touch him na war.
And marriage isn't near self, I hope somebody understands my stand and tell me how best to walk out
Any guy who would give you an ultimatum because of sex is up to no good. You know what to do. It’s either you are giving in or you walk away. Nobody ever died from heart break.
DeleteMy dear, he does not love u. My boyfried and I are in a no sex relationship. He has been with other people before me, I have not. He says the love we share made his decision easier to go on this journey with me. There are challenging days but we are keeping on. He has never pressured me for sex.We have had our fair share of issues but its never been sex related. If he loved u truly, he would not pressure u this way. I suggest u move on. My dear have sex with him because u want to. Because u CHOOSE to and because u are ready. Not because he's pressuring u to.
DeleteThe fact that he is forcing you to bend your beliefs regardless of how it is making you feel guilty shows how
DeleteSelfish he truly is
How he doesn't care how you feel
Also his arsehole tendencies are coming to life
CUT HIM OFF!
KEEP WALKING
Anon that was talking about ghosts on yesterday's BEP, may God have mercy on you. I am not one. I am alive and thankful to my wonderful creator. Joy is also my name, please leave my comment alone. Kilode gan?
ReplyDeleteStella, your babies are just too funny. Forgive them but still caution them for disobeying your orders. Abeg, greet them for me.
Back to work. God bless prosper us today and always.
Good morning wonderful Bvs, see as my body dey pain me, since I come Lagos, my sister won use work finish me.
ReplyDeleteabeg ajah bvs were can I go and relaxe in ajah, apart from Novera mall
#HotMum#
Stella,Bambinos tales got me this morning.chai!i can't stop laughing.your Bambinos are very smart.
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone. Kids these days do have a lot of sense.
ReplyDeleteMorning Stellz
ReplyDeleteGood morning my neighbours.
Abuja is cold these days
#yawn#
Teejay good morning. Hope you are good. Have not seen your comment for some time now
ReplyDeleteLol @ cry-laughing. Your boys are very smart Stella, they always think of ways to outsmart you lol.
ReplyDeleteGood morning my people. God bless our day
Stella I love your Bambino tales.
ReplyDeleteYou boys are so interesting.
I sure say na you dem resemble with their smart moves😄
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣, SDK your bambinos inherited waffy sense from you.
ReplyDeleteGood morning everyone
This holiday that they gave these children is too much o. My daughter has been home since yesterday, to resume on Monday. Yesterday was June 12 holiday, today and tomorrow mid-term break. My movement is restricted. Arrrghhh!!!
ReplyDeleteStella your boys are very wise
Stella your kids are smart. Warri no dey carry last. Like mama like Bambinos.
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I get lonely sometimes but , i wont want to rush into just anyhow relationship or marriage.
ReplyDeleteOMG Stella those boys 😂 but
ReplyDeleteI think it's important for no to mean no in parenting. I don't have kids. But it's not love to over indulge children. You already gave them two phones. One for a few hours in school and then they get the other one for the rest of the time and weekends. That's a very fair deal and you should insist they keep to it or forfeit all for sometime.
Goodmorning everyone.
Your kids are smart! But they need to face the consequence for disobeying your orders. Find a suitable punishment that's not beyond the offence they committed.
ReplyDeleteGood morning all.
Is investing in bills advisable? If yes which bank should I go with. If no, what other options are good
ReplyDeleteGood day everyone. Wishing you all a blessed day!
ReplyDeleteStella punish their disobedience
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