Huh??????
1001 WAYS TO BREAK UP ADVICE NEEDED
This guy goes all the way to make me happy and he is waiting for me to say yes. But I am holding back because .....
1. He does street (provide account for fund transfer ) I even help and had saved him and others from life time imprisonment by hiding the very details needed to nail them. I was called in for questioning, but looking at me, you'd believe anything i say. So, I am thinking that's one of the reasons he wants us to get married.
2. I am holding back because I am no longer comfortable with the kind of life, I have told him to go legit, seeing he has made enough money.. he says he will but in a few years time. 🙄
3. He feels street if better than education as he has made enough cash on it by being able to put up a structure etc.
4. His role model is the likes of Nairamarley, he likes to smoke, drink and club but I am the opposite.
When we mer,we just wanted to be gbensh partners, but now it is leading to marriage talk, but I don't want. Everyone looks at us as the perfect couple.
I have been waiting on him to fuck up.. no he won't. 🤦♀️
Now, I am thinking of telling him that "I can't have a child for him" maybe that will scare him away..
please, if you have any suggestions, I will be reading.
PS. Money is not the problem, but I fear for the future.
*Suggestions on how to break up?This is first time oh..ah ah!!!
Just tell him you are HIV positive and he will NEVER call your number again...
Cheat!
ReplyDeleteWith naira marley as a mentor??
DeleteI doubt that would work.
Cheat on a street guy? Just become born again and no sex. Deny him sex and he will cheat then you vex and leave him.
DeleteNa today
DeletePoster listen hard to your instincts. If you continue on this path whatever happens to you is your business. Break up now or never. Don't you know belle fit enter? E get how this kind things dey be.
DeletePoster, please take several seats.
ReplyDeleteYou are his accomplice wether you agree or not.
All of a sudden, you don’t want to be with him 💁🏿♂️
You think you are better than him?
You both deserve each other. Mtcheeeeeew
Hian! E never reach to quarrel na
DeleteRead her for filth, Slutty. 😂😂
DeleteDear sluttyChic, why re you so angry?!!... she just said she sees no future in dirt and here you re wanting to play mind games with her, are you dating a yahoo boy and feeling bad someone sees a better future than crime?
DeletePlease eat your bile of hate is all you have to offer.
Royal tribe, I hope you are alright 💁🏿♂️
DeleteThat’s my own opinion, bile or hate, you can equally choke on it. Why are you crying? Are you the poster? Take your scrappy self out of here.
Who offend u dear?
DeleteTell him you're now a born again and can't continue with someone that has his lifestyle.
ReplyDeleteTell him you can only continue if he confess his sins to the police and also to the people he as duped.
Lemaaaoooo
DeleteAnyways poster, ghost him if you can.
Change locations, block numbers and stay off social media.
Again, if you can.
Una don rubbish this born again thing..arh arh
DeleteCan you just imagine? They really rubbish being born again
DeleteMtcheww!
ReplyDeletePoster you are his accomplice. You know a lot about him, you help him out, you are valuable to him, you think he's gonna just let you go?.
DeleteBabe open up and tell him you don't want such life as a married woman. No matter how sweet crime looks now, your end is near and you don't want to raise your kids in such manner. Tell him straight the reason you won't marry him, don't sugar coat it. Then you will know if that man really loves you or he's just keeping you cos you are useful to his business.
BabyOku, you re the babe!!!! 10 gbosa to you. No need to waste time or act drama.
DeletePoster you just have to take this advice.
DeleteStella oooo 🤣🤣🤣🤣...... poster you have made your bed, go and lay on it. Pray he doesn't kill you when you finally move on.
ReplyDeleteNo Stella, this type is the ride or die kind. He would feel that if he let her go, she will spill on him. His type will stalk her and never let her be in peace.
ReplyDeleteHmmm, if you can leave your present location the better. Becos such guys can become violent if you call it off.
ReplyDeleteTrue that, violent to keep his secrets secret. And if you are not an accomplice, he will fear that you will rat out on him.
DeleteSo your options are:
1) straight face talk
2) relocation
3) get born again and be in church and all other churches for every service, join the work force and be part of the pastor's protocol. In short, anything to keep you in church and close to God. It may even touch him to change his own lifestyle.
Tell him your infertile. This type of relationship if you like say the scariest of things, the man won’t go.
ReplyDeleteTell him the next time u are called for questioning, u telling on him,that u can't do this anymore...
ReplyDeleteAnd put her life at risk? Poster Please don't follow this advice.
Deletetell him you are now born again and will no more gbensh him - that guy will japaa!!
ReplyDeleteAhhh Stella your red pen is savage.
ReplyDeletePoster you need to handle this whole thing with maturity. Guys of the street doesn't forgive easily especially when they love you and also see that you can be relied upon.
OMG Stella and HIV breakups 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.
ReplyDeleteJust tell him you can't continue with him because of the kind of life he leaves. Simple!!!
Its obvious you are dating a G guy and it's not a big deal.
ReplyDeleteSince you desperately want to break up with him,you can tell him that you are sterile or have a terminal illness but the question is;will he let you go?
Think very carefully because he might harm you if he feels used and dumped.
Stella u b anoda,i don laugh tire for ur advice nd the pic that followed
ReplyDeleteUna see Naija Pharisee girls? You don dey chop blood money since and now you want to run away?
ReplyDeleteWell, those kinds of guy are not "ordinary civilians". They are well rooted in the evil they do with evil
kingdom backings (which you will hardly know). He drinks, smokes and clubs etc. so how did you collect this kind of guy?
Ajuju o
Or is it that you are now born again; you just repented from your sinful life?
Greed is the bane of a lot of my Naija girls. Just be sure that you are fenced with iron (well rooted in Christ) before you tell him off. Else,
you fit delete and be recycled o.
😯😯😯😯😯😯
2 Sam. 23: 6But the sons of Belial shall be all of them as thorns thrust away, because they cannot be taken with hands:
7But the man that shall touch them must be fenced with iron and the staff of a spear; and they shall be utterly burned with fire in the same place.
Tell him that you have madness in your blood, infact once you get to his house, show him serious madness. Break everything breakable.
ReplyDeleteLmaoo this is so funny. Please more fun chronicles like this. Hood niggas love hard and they always go for meek and naive girls that make them feel manly and powerful. Don’t mind him. Maybe try and find evidence of him cheating in the past, or be honest and say no. Be careful though. Even regular broke men react foolishly to rejection, talk less of someone who makes small money and may have dangerous connections
ReplyDeleteStella: can you do a post for yahoo girls? Not hearsay o, firsthand accounts
fire on the mountain..if you marry him na marriage with benefit be that o. Like you rightly said, you are the only woman whom he feels can put up with his lifestyle..what if you tell him bluntly that you can't marry him
ReplyDeleteif he has no threat on your life i.e you think he can kill you then tell him plain you dont want again. if he refuses then go cold on him. but let a member of your family know in case he wants to draw blood...a life with him is no good. street life is a high risk kind of life and always end up badly
ReplyDeleteSave the money but stop sleeping/ hanging out with him.
ReplyDeleteThen be on the look out for a new guy....if street guy happens to see you and new guy, just withdraw half the savings and give it to him, explaining that its over, you guys are diff genotype
tell him you have moved on
ReplyDeleteTHEME: DON’T BE AN ACCOMPLICE.
MEMORISE:
Who knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but have pleasure in them that do them. Romans 1:32
READ: Acts 5:1
MESSAGE
Today, we will be reflecting on an area of compromise in the Body of Christ which the Lord wants us to repent of. This has to do with partaking in other men’s sin, whether by supporting, celebrating or turning a blind eye to their misdeeds. The reason why The Redeemed Christian Church of God is perceived by some to be rigid on certain matters is because we are conscious of the possibility of being an accomplice to heresies. We prefer to give God the benefit of the doubt rather than take things for granted- after all, it is safer to be overly obedient than to fall prey to sin.
Today’s memory verse is strong food for thought for the Body of Christ. Through it, we understand that God’s wrath is revealed from heaven not only against those who commit acts that He hates, but also against those who have pleasure in those that do them. Some pastors would say, “what is my business if a man divorces his wife and marries another woman? It is their problem, not mine.” However, such pastors are not just witnesses but accomplices to joining of two spiritually incompatible partners through marriage, thereby approving of those who have gone against the Lord’s instruction in 1 Corinthians 7:10-11. May you not be partaker of sins you did not directly commit in Jesus’ Name.
In times past, we were taught that it was not enough to abstain from alcohol; we were also expected not to serve it to others to drink. Habakkuk 2:15 says:
“Woe unto him that giveth his neighbour drink, that puttest thy bottle to him, and makest him drunken also, that thou mayest look on their nakedness!”
This was how my old friend knew that a change had occurred in me after I gave my life to Christ. When I started serving them soft drinks instead of whisky and champagne, they thought I had gone crazy. Another area of compromise that makes believers accomplice to sin is when they allow fraud to be perpetrated under their noses and do nothing about it. There is a Yoruba adage which says, “The one who collects the stolen cruse of oil is as guilty as the one who actually stole it from the kitchen rack.” This same principle applies to those who allow their homes to be used for immoral acts. Although some young Christians would not fornicate, they allow their unbelieving friends bring their girlfriends to commit sexual immorality in their houses. In the sight of God, they are as guilty as those committing the act. The giver of the bribe is as guilty as the taker of it. Don’t be an accomplice to corrupt practices. The Lord is watching you, and He is coming back soon.
PRAYER POINT:
Father, please give me boldness to resist being an accomplice of evil doers, in Jesus’ Name.
BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: Judges 1-2
Ezekiel 22:6-22
AUTHOR: PASTOR E. A. ADEBOYE
HYMN 5: LET OTHERS SEE JESUS IN YOU.
1.While passing thro' this world of sin,
and others your life shall view,
Be clean and pure without, within;
Let others see Jesus in you.
Refrain:
Let others see Jesus in you,
Let others see Jesus in you.
Keep telling the story, be faithful and true;
Let others see Jesus in you.
2. Your life's a book before their eyes,
They're reading it thro' and thro'
Say, does it point them to the skis,
Do others see Jesus in you?
Refrain
3. Then live for Christ both day and night,
Be faithful, be brave and true,
and lead the lost to life and Christ.
Let others see Jesus in you.
Refrain
Stella's advice is the bomb very funny. Tell him you've been told that you have a short life span of 3months.
ReplyDelete🙆🏿♀️. Nooo before it comes to pass.
DeleteThis type of relationship may be difficult to end amicably, seeing as you know his secrets and all that. I hope he doesn't harm you. You did not see any cool and calm guy with a legit hustle to be 'friends with benefits ', it's this crook. You know what they say about birds of the same feather.
ReplyDeleteTell him if he won’t quit you’ll leave. He’ll choose money and you’ll go your way. I understand your predicament. Your spirit is telling you they’ll soon catch him best you run before his luck runs out and it probably well. Yahoo boys that don’t know when to quit are the worst
ReplyDeleteBe careful because this kind of people can be very aggressive if you break up with them just like that. They may be scared of you exposing them and kill you. So is either you relocate(some of them might kill your family self or harm them if you just leave in order to bring you back) or you just ... I don't know again.
ReplyDeleteSee how foolish you are ,you have eaten with him and now you want to back out,just watch your back, street guys don't forgive easily
ReplyDeleteStella is savage
ReplyDeleteposter what is so hard in telling him you are not intretested in the relationship and getting married to him?
ReplyDeleteopen up to him and threaten him with if you don't stop this your way of life i will end it up with you, give him like one month or two and if he is still doing it just walk away by giving him attitude, block him, stop taking his calls, avaoid him and his family. make sure your family memebers are awaer of your decision should incase of anything. Relationship and marriage is not by force oh.
Don't tell him you are HIV positive o, before he spreads the gist, but wait o 🤔 you are the total opposite as how, you were attracted to yahoo boy, e dey your body, anyway start pretending to be having spiritual attacks, and your family are taking it seriously (lie say one of your aunties na prophet), bros might think you are indirectly accusing him of what he didn't do and take off.
ReplyDeletePoster tell him you have given your life to Christ no more sleeping together and watch his reaction.
ReplyDeleteLook at this enabler. 😒😒
ReplyDeleteHe is street..ya think you re classy?
Y'all complement each other, you ain't slick.
Girl please, all of una na the same. I fear for your life if you break his heart. I will not waste my sense on you biko.
ReplyDeletetell him straight on...if he really loves you he will amend...but that will be difficult
ReplyDeletePoster talk truth? How many millions and iphones have you collected so far? You ain t going no where sis, send us IV and with matching lv and gucci pre wedding photos😂
ReplyDeleteLemme wait for the elders to say something.
ReplyDeleteJust ghost him.
ReplyDeleteIf u tell him ur reasons he will beg you and blackmail u emotionally.
Just harden your heart towards him and ghost him.
Tell him u have moved on.
If u can change locations then do.
Imagine if that guy proposes publicly,without him knowing you don't want.
Hmmm.shame would have been his name.
Just ghost him.
ReplyDeleteIf u tell him ur reasons he will beg you and blackmail u emotionally.
Just harden your heart towards him and ghost him.
Tell him u have moved on.
If u can change locations then do.
Imagine if that guy proposes publicly,without him knowing you don't want.
Hmmm.shame would have been his name.
@Poster you can tell him you wouldn't marry except she start something legit. But seriously sis you are his enabler, it will be hard to break up with him.
ReplyDeleteStella darling, i know you said that as a joke. And trying to be funny. I laughed but you see this is a sensitive thing.
ReplyDeleteAnyone with HIV will feel bad seeing that they will be rejected once their status is known.
Please lets give them confidence, because its not only by "gbenshing" one can get infected.
I love you and this blog sooo much.
Please permit me to say...."WE DIE HERE!!!"
Genotype
ReplyDeleteA street guys is always suspicious of his girlfriend friend even his wife. They don’t let go. He already said he does not want to stop soon. Repent for real and tell him you ve and let him see that you ve for real, then he will trust he will not hunt you.
ReplyDeleteTell him you are now a born again and you must Act like one. Change your dressing, character, etc. Attend church, join a unit in the church like ushering, choir, etc. Tell him No more sex and immoral stuff, no more staying together with him indoors, tell him to repent and also become a born again if he wants the relationship to continue. Act like a born again everywhere you go even your family house cos he will be watching you .
ReplyDeleteMemorise some good Bible verses that you will be using to preach to him, you can google them. Be serious and firm. Speak to him gently. Watch and see what happens.
If you tell him you have HIV or infertile or any other medical condition, he will take you to his doctor for tests.
Have a heart to heart talk with him and let him know that you are uncomfortable with the kind of life he lives and tell him you cannot go on with him except he changes for good. If he really likes you, he will try and make amend.
ReplyDeleteHave a heart to heart talk with him and let him know that you are uncomfortable with the kind of life he lives and tell him you cannot go on with him except he changes for good. If he really likes you, he will try and make amend.
ReplyDeletelook for admission abroad and run?
ReplyDeleteStella's advice is bae.
ReplyDeleteGood relationship with criminal... this generation is really morally bankrupt
ReplyDeleteNa Stella answer sure pass. The guy go release the bae immediately.
ReplyDeleteSave enough money, look for admissions abroad and run........
ReplyDeleteStellz please hiv thing is quite insensitive to people with the status nah.
ReplyDeletePoster, you are a lovely lady obviously. Please just tell him the truth. It’s your life you talking About here.