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Thursday, July 25, 2019

Thursday In House News.........

Oh Lord,please send down the rain!!!!....See heat!!

I am just here wondering..if people say cold weather is a good time to gbensh upandan,what is the hot weather good for????...LOL

This section will be back on Monday...

Ndewo Nu.......








RE-CHRONICLES -AT A CROSS ROAD


Hello Stella I'm the poster of the chronicle you posted yesterday.
I sent it to you last week Monday and I was really expecting you to post so I can get a constructive and blunt advice from bvs because I know how they can help in resetting people's brain but you did not post,so I thought you did not receive it.


My friend and the wife moved in the following day when I had no choice than to oblige.you know I'm this type of guy who is extremely soft and I see it as an offense to say NO to people which is my biggest weakness.the most painful part of it,is that my friend know that part of me so very well that was why he was able to do that because he knew I will never say NO. My mentality is this I always believe people should know what is right and what is wrong.


This past week has been unbelievable,when he moved in I was not home I just dropped the key for him so he can be able to get in.you won't believe when I got back I couldn't believe if I was in my right sitting room,he put up is portrait and awards he won when he was in school.even if I was coming with someone they would have never believe it is my apartment. The loads they brought nko..even my kitchen was reshuffled and I was just there smiling sheepishly. They had to bring in a boy about 16 years who runs errand for them. But he comes once in a while sleep over and go back the following morning.


No privacy for me anymore, I can no longer use the fan or open the window and I hate heat so much. I told him since he has a wife he will need privacy so I left the bedroom for them and now sleep in the sitting room,thinking he will understand that but no he will still come to the sitting room put off the fan and close the window saying because of the baby.I will just be saying in my mind but the bedroom is there now why can't you stay with the baby there why bring the baby to the sitting room again.


Anything the wife's cook I eat and the most annoying part of it is that she serves the husband enough food than me,I thought it was a mistake the first time but I later found out it is done on purpose,I dont have a problem with that.
On Saturday I went for my morning exercise,I got back and I noticed there was no sign of breakfast,I dont know what they plan on having because I'm not that breakfast person. When it was around 2pm I just sensed that they had eaten before I got back,I know my friend very well he can never stay that long without eating.he was feeling guilty that I had not eaten and he came to me guy you never chop,na that small rice wey remain me and my wife chop,I told him I'm fine that if I was hungry I would get to the kitchen to get something.Mind you I wasn't expecting the wife to cook for me, the first night they moved in,I was the one that made dinner,it was my friend who said to me that I shouldn't bother cooking anymore my wife will be doing the cooking.


My friend is now the chief commander of my house,the most funniest part of it is he will be saying I will redesign the house,I go buy AC,e get many things wey I wan do for this house ooo,if I get money I go do everything. I will just be looking at him like what do you want to do in the house again who is squatting between us nitori olorun.


He was staying in a single room self contained and after the wife gave birth he made up is mind of moving, I usually tell him then do the little you can dont dream of a range over car when you have the money for a beetle car. He was dreaming of 2 bedroom when you know you can't afford it.the rent of his former place expired April and I told him to pay for six months then within that period he will be looking for another apartment but he did not listen,squander all the money he had with him.the caretaker told them to leave the house and he fall back to me.


When I thought of this I think it was well planned from day one for him to move to my apartment eventually.
I don't have the zeal to go back home when I'm done at work,I just go home sleep like a visitor and get up to start the day.I thought he would see through how I have been since he moved in,but guyman no send at all,only the wife noticed. She asked me a question one day that ever since they moved in that I have not carried the baby,I felt so bad that it was true but I tried covering for her not to suspect. After I start carrying the baby my friend will be stylishly saying I should babysit for them.


These all happened in the space of just one week and I'm drained and fed up already.so I have concluded to move to my grandma's house which is just 30mins drive to my base till I get another apartment.






Oga is something wrong with you?I feel like slapping the shit out of you for being so 'mumu-ish'...like what da fvck!!!!


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SHIFT IN PERSONAL VIEWS


I have read certain books and watched some movies which even though the theme of the work has a different perspective from my beliefs, the writer succeeded in gaining my sympathy. My sense of what is right was overshadowed by the sense of pursuit for happiness and I'm reminded that not all things are black and white, some have been woven into each other and become grey.


Tyler Perry's 'Temptation' and Jojo Moyes, ' Last Letter From Your Lover' are my focal points.

Rarely does any wife set out to cheat on her hubby, but some lacking ingredients in a marriage can create room for infidelity.


I remember hubby asking me if I could cheat on him in the course of watching the movie and I sincerely told him ''never say never, because no one is infallible.'' God knows I would never cheat on him, but I refused to see myself as better than those who have made the mistake of being unfaithful.


'Last Letter From Your Lover' also saw me rooting for Jennifer and Anthony. Jojo had a sympathetic reader in me and even though Laurence was the one betrayed, I felt very little pity for him. I felt justified in my lack of pity for him when his flaws of hiding the truth from his wife and his mining company health hazard to his workers were exposed.


I am team 'no one is good except God' even if we are good in one area, we still fall short in other aspects. We are all just striving to be better and we should not condemn those who are yet to rise to our standard.
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201 comments:

  1. Hello my neighbours.. It is so freaking hot here.

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    1. Thank you Stella for posting my advert yesterday πŸ˜˜πŸ˜˜πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

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    2. Stella come to jos, it's been raining since morning and the cold no get part two. I don drink hot coffee tire. I love jos but ndi Boko haram don't want it to develop.see sweet weather, see fresh very cheap fruits and vegetables, see constant light. Thank you Lord.

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    3. Chronicle poster of yesterday, see your life now. These people are toxic abeg. See how they've reduced you from house occupier to squatter with grandma, with his stupid poor financial management abilities. And this is just one week o. The sign out meme is for people like u, people carrying the weight of the world on their heads when problem is not their own. Mr. Nice Guy. Ekpele o

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    4. Poster that allow his friend put up with him; why can't you express yourself?

      You can tell the guy how you sincerely feel without being nasty. Since he doesn't want to use his brain to know you aren't comfortable in your own house, then let him know. How will you leave your house & go stay at your granny's place?

      Na wa o, this your soft heart get as e beπŸ™„

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    5. Talking of hot... That "brown skin girl" lyrics is so lit; as in πŸ”₯.

      By the way, if you have bleached (toned) your skin yea, the song ain't for you!

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    6. @allure yes I was expecting him to use his brain and know that I'm not comfortable with it but because he believes no matter what he does I will just accept it, imagine he saw some cash in my wallet and it was then he said guy my baby food don finish sef I dey find how I go get money buy baby food today sef,he knew I will oblige to say how much and give him...that was how I parted away 3k this morning.

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    7. Chronicle poster, women don't like men that can't express themselves. The earlier you talk, the better. Sit the guy down n ask him what are his plans for the future. That you can't be sleeping permanently on the sitting room chair cos you already have back ache. Tell him you need privacy. Be serious when speaking to him. Say these in the presence of the wife so if the guy doesn't have sense to code, the wife will. I have read some chronicles that are worse than yours because the people didn't talk early. Open your mouth and be a man! Grandmother's house ke? Will they ever leave if they know you have an optional place to stay? You better remain there and open your mouth. Don't behave like a maga/mumu. You are not the only person in the world with a soft heart😠

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    8. Stella, please send a link of this post to the chronicle poster's email . Seems he didn't see when you posted the chronicle

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    9. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars25 July 2019 at 17:15

      Oga Poster, some people don't have sense. And some even when they know the right thing expects you to spell it out for them. So why will you give him money for baby food? Are you the Father.

      Pls I am looking for a loan can I send my account details? I promise to pay back. Even if I don't pay I know you won't mind. No be so?

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    10. Seller of Television,you are not ready to sell,once you take a good out of the store even if it's same day it has become second hand thereafter,not to talk of Tv of over a 4 months ago( that's if you're being sincere) That Tv should go for half price,provide the receit and i will pay you half the amount if you ready to sell,my niece Tv just broke down,plan on buying her another one.

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    11. God bless the givers and the receivers

      Cheers 😘

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    12. Chai God..see as man weak!πŸ™†‍♀️

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  2. Please bvs is there any thing one can do to avoid having cancer?just within a year three people I know have been diagnosed with the sickness. What can one do to avoid it please?Stella please post let enlighten ourselves

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    1. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars25 July 2019 at 17:17

      Stay off anything sugar. Stay off carbonated drinks. They help. If you google, you will find some things.

      Take warm water with lemon in the morning. And you can also take soursop its a fruit.

      Pls don't be afraid and stop thinking about it.

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    2. If those people are your family members it's best you visit the hospital now.
      The earlier the better.
      The cause of cancer is not entirely known so how can you even prevent it?.

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  3. What you’re believing for, what you’re dreaming of, may not have happened for a long time. This is not the time to get discouraged; this is the time to stir up your faith. You are closer to seeing it happen than you’ve ever been.@JoelOsteen

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    1. Do you still bake?
      Just add Joel Osteen to your blog name like this.... Joel osteen fluffy cake πŸ™„ or JOFC πŸ’πŸΏ‍♂️

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  4. People are watching you
    Please permit me my Naija Sisis to share something with you
    It is due to the things I read a few days ago here.
    When my DH, then fiance told his parents that he has found a lady to marry.
    The parents told him, we know that you will go ahead whether we support you or
    not. But we must ask questions to know if we will follow you. So when they landed at my
    town, the first family they entered told them that "that girl? Can your son bear her
    preaching? How rich is your son because she turned down a lot of rich people...?"😯😯😯😯
    My in-laws answered, well, our son preaches too, so that one is no problem, they can sort themselves out. As for riches, when we get there. They asked all the "akwuna questions" and there were none. It was DH that told me all these.
    Okay, I was there when some families came to my autnties house to inquire about a girl that lived in that neighborhood. The Man FIL asked, what is she known for. My auntie (not wanting to spoil things) said, she is a very good girl. The MIL asked, will you marry her for your son? The son was there o. Then my auntie said "no", and when asked "why", her answer was; "she brings in different men who are not her brothers for I know all her brothers...etc.". The FIL answered, that every person they met had said same things about this girl...
    When you gather men into your houses, or you are seen always in hotels etc. just remember that you are being watched.
    Luke 14:1 One Sabbath, when Jesus went to eat in the house of a prominent Pharisee, he was being carefully watched.

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    1. ANG very good write up, but i came to realized one thing, a man that is meant for someone, even if they tell her the girl is a prostitute oga won't care at all oh. My friend dated a guy that turned her to a roughian kia. Even imprinted massive tattoo on waist and breast, that relationship scattered and my friend lost guys cos of that tattoo, who will take such a woman serious

      Until she met a good, Godfearing man that didnt just care, they begged this man, that my friend is not just a prostitute but also a fighter for where? Today they are happily married with 2boys. It God's grace ANG

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    2. And...so?

      Did he marry her or not?
      Is the girl still single?

      Not to take away from your tale but hoes are wifed up every now and then..in fact, every Saturday.

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    3. @14:37
      Also consider that when some dudes walk away, it may also be that their parents refused to be towed along.
      How many Naija men can say no to their parents; especially their moms and stand by it (side eyes to the west)
      😊😊😊. Those things we overlook are serious and that is the way Nigeria is. Okay, one woman yarn them (about me) say;
      "...that girl, na asampete (precious), she came to the bus stop to help me load my tomato inside her boot while
      I waited at the bus stop for hours and the conductors refused to drive me with it...".
      This was an old woman o whom I managed to recollect that I was driving back from church and saw her under the sun
      with baskets of tomatoes.... I did not do it because I wanted to "grab a man" πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚. I did it because it was
      my nature, she needed help and I do buy things from her etc.
      If you are the tiger in your street wey dey fight everybody, even the ones wey no find you come, those "monitoring
      spirits" go yarn o.
      If you dey sneak out to collect fork for nights in every available space in town, them go yarn o. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
      That "little old woman" wey you no dey great fit be the bridge or wall between you and that "abroad dude"😊😊 you don
      dey dream all ya life o. And if you dey sneak out at nights dey shak chilled kai kai... πŸ§—‍♀️πŸ§—‍♀️πŸ§—‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️πŸƒ‍♀️
      make I run commot o, before arrow shooter go show.
      😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝

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    4. @Perxian
      Where have you been my able attacker? I don dey miss ya attacks tey tey
      😝😝😝😝😝😝
      Yes, "every Saturday...hoes are being "wifed"..." just like divorces and separations
      are happening EVERYDAY. They don't even wait for Saturdays inugo?
      And let me also tell you that a lot of "hoes" know where to "tie dudes" and draw them
      like puppets. In this world, you have to choose where to belong. It is not being WEDDED,
      it is STAYING HAPPILY AND PEACEFULLY MARRIED.

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    5. It is the aftermath of the marriage that matters. Some marry 'Mary amaka and regrets afterwards. Nobody will come out and talk about what they are facing in their marriages

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    6. ANG enough already.
      You’re right, it’s good to do good and be nice to people, it’s good to obey God’s laws and stay away from sin but God will have mercy on whom he will have mercy. ( this isn’t a free card to misbehave though)

      Remember that all have sinned and fallen short. It’s not your good deeds that made God bless you with a good man, marriage (even a fantastic one) is not a reward for good behaviour. It is the mercy and Grace of God that spoke for you.
      Remember that, be grateful for your blessings and only correct people in love, not in a sanctimonious manner.
      Peace.

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    7. @ P.S, thank you jare. You will know a true Christian from a joker. Honestly, I can never ever take whoever is behind that moniker serious. The message and the mode of passing the message is all shades of wrong.

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    8. Abeggi...It's enough with all these your hypocritic messages..Don't you have anything to say other than being critical of girls? With all your preaching, people go think say na president you marry. If your life is good, thank God, drink water and keep cup. You don't know others stories. What works for you won't work for others..

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    9. @18:01 aka 18:38

      Yes, I don't know other people's story until they tell it. That is why we are in this blog. Tell your own stories.
      In your mind, only those who married "presidents" are to be celebrated or have "made it' Okwa ya?
      Thank you . Ngwanu, go and snatch Naija president from Aisha inugo?
      Please teach me the right way to pass the message okay? I do not claim to know it all.
      😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

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    10. FyI I am not annon 16.38. I am annon 18.01, so much for being smart.

      As a Christian, there are better ways of passing one's message. If pastors were preaching the way you do, nobody will even give their life to christ. All you do is criticise and judge, your approach is nothing to write home about, not encouraging. Go and read your bible and if truly your aim is to win souls for christ on this blog not condemn, adopt a more sensible and empathetic approach while conveying your message.

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    11. @21:18
      Sensible and empathetic?
      Oyibo ka isuru.
      Those "pastors" you mentioned there are not my mentors and I do not report to them.
      This is the "empathetic" person I report to, let's read him;
      Matthew 23:13“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites!
      You shut the door of the kingdom of heaven in people’s faces. You yourselves
      do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to. . .
      25“Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites!
      You clean the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full
      of greed and self-indulgence. 26Blind Pharisee! First clean the inside
      of the cup and dish, and then the outside also will be clean. . .
      33“You snakes! You brood of vipers! How will you escape being condemned to hell?

      When you read me on this blog talk about "Pharisees", I talk about those you hide under Christ,
      chant his name and in the next post extol greed, fornication, apostasy, debauchery, and indecency etc.
      I actually began my "yarns" on this blog because of such people. So I an't gonna change at all. And as
      for "judging". I have no business "judging" those who out rightly live to gratify the flesh and boast about it.
      In fact, if you've noted well, the slutty and co are my "friends" on this blog. 😊😊😊
      Those who crucified Jesus aren't the prostitutes and robbers. It is the religious folks.
      As a matter of fact, I don't go to church at the moment 😯😯😯😯 and I don't have anything against doing so.
      So read about those to "judge" and please study your scriptures very well and pray for me not to miss heaven:
      😊😊😊

      1 Corinthians 5:12What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church?
      Are you not to judge those inside? 13God will judge those outside.
      “Expel the wicked person from among you.”

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  5. Hi one big and happy family ...


    ...Good News. It's another batch of SDK Data giveaway!!! πŸ€‘

    If you are interested, please send your request to my official email address sdkblogmatters@gmail.com

    1.Send Your NUMBER and NETWORK because the data will be sent directly to your number.
    2.Also attach a munch or screenshot of your previous comment.

    Alright kisses everyone. #TbT

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    1. we that don't have screenshotable phone nko

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    2. Beloved, you were right. Laura ikeji get belle. This your nwa girl don reach graduation level.

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    3. Beloved, I want airtime plssssss .

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    4. Hi beloved, I want data o. Is it this particular comment we will screen munch?

      Thanks Stella, may your pocket never run dry, amen

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    5. Beloved pls can those who have gotten in the first or second batch reapply?

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    6. Madame Koinkoin25 July 2019 at 17:50

      Belove abeg make this data reach me this time.make I answer present for the first time.

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    7. You don't need to apply anymore, let others have a feel inugo? God bless SDK.

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    8. I have sent once or twice but nothing

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    9. Hello Beloved, please I need the data o. I have never won any data giveaway.

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  6. Sco pa tu na ma?

    Who knows or has seen one female LASTMA officer at that Ilupeju bypass before u get to that Railway?? Oh my lawd! That’s is the sexiest officer ever! My days! Anytime I drive pass I go just Dey shake like Jelly! God Dey!

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. You always strike me as a pervert, i don't know why

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    2. Na this leg you go use marry that love of your life okwaya?

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    3. Kelvin, I thought you are taken already, why still shaking like a jelly fish at the sight of endowments?

      ANG, You need to add NAIJA men to your preaching.

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    4. Shining the ANG is a youngman in his 30s, a correct blog male visitor. The intelligent bvs know he's the one , they're waiting for him to slip firstπŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€

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    5. My only crime is that I shake like jelly! But if u see this babe otele and bwest! Chioooooo! Ajuju ne se Ukwu! πŸ˜ͺ

      Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    6. @ shining, why are you like this? Shaking like jelly fish cracked me up.

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    7. Nor be you wan marry?

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    8. Yep.. That lady is extremely neat.. You can't pass by and not notice her.. The dignity in labour.. 🌟

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  7. End note is 100% fact.
    Hello ihn
    Hi all

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    1. Send some over here..😁

      ATTENTION BV CHICHE..
      You can contact me if you are still interested in the Ok gowns, saw you comment late from Tuesday's IHN..

      πŸ’ƒπŸ’ƒ

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    2. Ihn is here,mehhnn,oga poster in your own house again,u are taking all this rubbinsh are u jaze or what is better you tell that friend of yours to leave ur house before August ,infact am So so angry reading this ur post . lovely things customers locate u guys.

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  9. @SCHENGEN VISA POSTER. Go to nairaland there is enough information there, just check under travel. You don’t need any agent to fill your form,aΔΊl the process are there.

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  10. @ Poster who has handed over his house. Please are you for real? I never knew that there are men like this...

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    1. There are plenty of them like that oo,my husband is 1 of them but I resert his brain well. I can't leave like a squatter in my own na because of his friends. They'll borrow and not return the money, when we are in need nobody will be there to help us... I hate that nonsense!!

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    2. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars25 July 2019 at 14:27

      He has actually handed over his house. And he is not getting it back.
      Am appalled at how he fell flat at his friend's schemes.

      Poster, your friend saw through you and played it well. Unfortunately he is not a true friend but a user. Pls don't renew your rent so you can start looking for another place. This your friend has no plans to move. And like someone said he and his wife have no shame.

      And you just lost a 'supposed friend'
      Your relationship will never be the same again.

      The truth is this your friend will not have done the same thing for you .

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    3. Naso. This apartment is already a goner. Start looking for another apartment and do not bother renewing the rent on this one. Also start moving your stuffs (gadgets et al) from the apartment till none of your stuffs is left behind. Ire o!

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    4. @14:24 if I had a gf or fiancΓ©e it would have been better cos I know if he sees my meekness as mumu its never possible for him to see my gf as mumu too.

      @lady T I realised the apartment is gone that is the reason I made up my mind to move to my grandma's place pending the time I get some cash to rent an apartment.

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    5. It's alright. Go and stay with your grandma before you start bathing the baby every morning before you will be allowed to go to work. Why don't you carry the baby indeed.

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    6. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars25 July 2019 at 17:25

      Dear poster, I ask you a question, is this how you are going to continue? Every time someone asks for a favour you will just let go? Grow some balls na. Heaven will not fall and God will judge you a sinner. That's not how meant for it be. You are enabling your so-called friend remain irresponsible. My take ...

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    7. Poster, please you need to hire a babe or sister o.A girlfriend that will show them shege or let your sister come and visit you (where she go come sleep na, in the floor?). Kai, this is outrageous!
      It's paining like you're my friend

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  11. That TV, how mush last? U never need cash yet jooor! Haba! No naaaa

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. Kelvin pls that is the last price. I can show you the receipt of it. I bought for 550k Less than 6 months ago. I desperately need to pay my bill that's why i had to remove 100k to sell for 450. Pls call me if you're interested in buying. Thank you

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  12. I don't pity this guy at all!
    You never see anything,very soon,your friend and his wife will make you lose your job,drag you to their level and leave you empty!
    Ntorr!
    If you like,don't give them one week to leave your house and severe that fake friendship!

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    1. Unbelievable πŸ’πŸΏ‍♂️
      Who does that?
      The manner in which they came is annoying.

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    2. Veteran oooo,that was why I had to move away asap to avoid all that you stated.

      Slutty thats how I'm programmed ooo...to even face the guy tell him sef I can't I'm just dying in silence.

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    3. Exactly, who needs this kind of toxic friendship? Friendship wey dey kill person softly, dey choke person for throat.

      A useless friend and a shameless wife that deliberately made themselves homeless so that they can go and squat with you.

      I feel like body slamming you oh. God knows I don't want or need these kind of friends.

      A senseless idiot deliberately taking advantage of your so called friendship. He doesn't have money to renew his rent but he has plans to pimp your house, buy AC, dishing orders or did he sponsor your education or give you one of his kidneys? I am trying to understand why he feels so entitled.

      You will make a very bad husband. You can't even stand up for yourself so is it your wife you will stand up for if the need arises? ChickenπŸ“πŸ“πŸ“πŸ“πŸ“πŸ“.

      Mr I must please everyone at my own detriment, I hope your grandma chases you !!! Go and continue squatting in your own house.

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    4. Poster saying that is how you are doesn't cut it. Fine you have already let the house go, but from now on begin to grow a pair and toughen up. Don't be waiting for the wife you marry to be the one to fight your battles for you. Start learning how to say no and mean it now. I am rooting for you and I wish you the best. And please identify the toxic people in your life and cut them off. Don't give them an inch. Ok, bye.

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    5. Poster I can understand you, I use to be like you before, a friend teach me to say no and mean it. One day you will reach the stage where you will insist that your farmland should not be turn to a major road

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  13. Sdk don yarn igbo give my Naija girls?
    Whether weather dey hot or cold o
    Whether e dey freezing or boiling o
    As long as ATM dudes dey drop or promise "abroad",
    My Pharisee Naija girls go dey collect fork, snatch, sneak out of
    husband/mama them house to steal fork, go to "gospel crusades" in
    hotel rooms, and all the side chickening jigi jigi.
    The only place and time them no fit fork na for expressway ground,
    but for inside car/boot them dey do am even if na for express o
    😊😊😊😊 I for yarn more 🀐🀐🀐🀐 but make I hide my smooth nyansh bcos them
    don dey approach with arrows o

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    1. You are a man! stop pretending to be a woman while shaming Nigerian women

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    2. @Mummytwins
      You are a woman because you added "mummy" to your blog ID okwa ya?
      Greet your twins for me inguo?
      😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
      Thanks for shooting your "arrows'. Ndi uta.

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  14. Abeg Stella, speak for una side. Its been raining cats and dogs plus elephants for Abuja since morning. I dey house wit my daughter, no work or school for us,I can't come and kee myself for these rain biko. Our hell hot season was February and March, I wept daily cos of vibrating heat,so now we okay.

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  15. Oga whose friend moved into his house.
    Please if you can afford it, leave the house for them, remove your things and leave the house for them. Rent another house far from them. Let me see how they will renew the rent when it expires.
    Instead of him to go and rent one room face me I slap you, he is looking for big things. Don't even think of helping him to renew the rent when it expires.
    And most importantly, get yourself a serious woman, if you had a wife, serious girlfriend or fiance, what he did would not be possible because your woman will not agree. Please try and fall in love and get a serious woman or even get married, all those rubbish will stop. Just get a sensible, strict and firm, woman, she will be the one helping you to say 'NO'

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    1. Apt!!
      Poster pls take this advice.
      Leave the apartment for them so you can have peace and sanity. Don't renew the rent.
      Get a serious woman too. My uncles wife helped him reset his brain. That is how his friends and even some family members were using him. I so much love the woman, Aunty B

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    2. Even woman sef they take advantage of my kind of person, take advantage of it and run along...wetin man go do,that's why I decide to my stay single pending when the girl will come knocking..... I'm planning on moving next week.

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    3. No oh, let him stay single. Any babe that marries him will suffer, he will bring all his family members and friends to live with him.

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    4. mr poster pls rent me for 1week as a fake girlfriend i swear down they will run and leave in 2weeks...im.bolied on your behalf ah ah what nonsense and ingredient

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    5. Poster. I am not sure how rent works in Nigeria but you better find yourself a firm gf, either fake or real to reset your brain and help you evict them. Is this how you will continue inconveniencing yourself ? If na juju i pray your eye will clear

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    6. @16:24 how much will that cost me
      😬😬😬😬😬😬😬

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    7. wont take a penny from u....i hate nonsense

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    8. All of you saying “leave the house for them, don’t renew the rent and rent another one”, are you seeing the bigger picture/problem? He’s unable to say NO! Even if he moves to Panya and not renew the rent, when it expires, his friend will move all the way to Panya to squat with him(he might even be the one to foot the moving bills for the friend’s entire family to join him wherever he’d move to).. Man up man!!!!

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    9. There are so many of us he can rent, your friend will be the first to suggest moving out within a week

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    10. All of you saying “leave the house for them, don’t renew the rent and rent another one”, are you seeing the bigger picture/problem? He’s unable to say NO! Even if he moves to Panya and not renew the rent, when it expires, his friend will move all the way to Panya to squat with him(he might even be the one to foot the moving bills for the friend’s entire family to join him wherever he’d move to).. Man up man!!!!

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  16. Stella thanks so much..... I really appreciate you always♥

    Mr good Samaritan.... You are in a big situation for real
    So you are now the visitor in your house.
    Your friend knows your password bajebaje. See me furious on your behalf. Choi. For you to regain your sanity.... Go get another apartment.They really got you big time.

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    1. He should man up and ask them to leave within a specified time.
      Though they will still try to emotionally manipulate him.

      Mr Poster, don't kill yourself just cos you are trying to be nice to selfish, unfeeling people

      This handshake has definitely gone beyond what is normal.

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    2. @ Orente lol they really did and I'm just at work just thinking about the whole ish,I'm planning on staying at work this sef

      @longrich that's my problem I can't just do what you are asking me to do,seriously I'm finding it real hard to do.

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    3. Poster, so you will be sleeping at work???
      Abi you will go inconvenient your grandma
      My parents once help like this and the outcome was not good at all. Your mumu Don do now.

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  17. Stella that your signout meme is for me
    I resent my husband andb i have told him several times that the way he talks to me as if I'm his help is bad. He insults me and sometimes mentions my relatives. I resent him. I don't pray for him anymore, I don't even care about him anymore. I just live with him because of my child and because of our society. Also, he doesn't beat me. But I notice he is going down everyday. His business is not doing fine anymore, we barely get by. But I don't even care. I'm just looking at him. Sometimes he will be lamenting almost crying, I will just be saying in my mind, 'you have not seen anything ' as long as you keep treating me badly, you won't progress. Lobatan. Mind you, I am not a witch, I just have a string spirit that punishes whoever wrongs me.

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    1. Anon 14:21, you are definitely not a witch. There are some people like you out there. If their spouse treats them badly, they no no peace

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    2. Please sit him down and talk to him.
      Tell him what he does that makes you sad
      Resentment leads to sad events. Pray together and bless him. Start afresh please.

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    3. It's a bible principle. You can find it in 1 or 2nd Peter 3. Men who don't treat their wives well don't have the favor of God and their prayers will not be answered .

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    4. Olori it can only work if he is in agreement. I don't know when some men will learn.

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  18. @Lumiere Tasty food;about the issue you are having with your ID,kindly download another browser like "PUFFIN" OR "MICROSOFT EDGE WEB" then sign in to "BLOGGER.COM" before visiting the BLOG to comment..

    If your ID can't sign in;go to Blogger.com and click on reset password,then sign it..

    Hope this helps..

    @MARTINS ABOY

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  19. Oga house poster, I bet ur siblings will never try this shit wit u neither ur wife. You are meek and mumu outside but ur sibs and wifey go dey hear am from u. You're the type of friend others friends use to do juju bcos u no go ever talk. I bet he told his wife u are squatting, see how he is making yeye of u. Of cos,u will go frustrate ur mama and sibs than say kpem. I need to go the babalawo them go tie ur sense. Better, wake them up and read the riots act,give them conditions, pull down those pixs and relegate them to a corner. Also give him 3months to get his shits together. Common man up.

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    1. I detest men like him abeeg
      It's your type that give your wife unnecessary and avoidable problems in marriage. 'You can't say no' my foot, I'm sure when you marry, you won't also say No to your friends and family that would want to come into your space to inconvenient your wife and children..... Radarada

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    2. Seriously I wish I can @sparkle

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    3. See yaa mouth...yeyeyeyey,I wish I can koo, I know u can nii. Just be my boo for a while,let me help ur life.

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    4. My dear the worst man to marry is A man who can not put his foot to the ground ooo.
      This one is a baby in a man's body

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    5. Lol @sparkle

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    6. Just put there things outside look your door or better still change the lock and go to your granma place for something,i hate friends that take advantage,what if you dont get a new apartment and what if the area you see a house is not good enough.I repeat through their things out and lock up your house till they leave,your friendship is dead already

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  20. Yesterday poster that is sleeping with 3 married men,yours is even better,I'm sleeping with a married man and his wife and none of them is aware. They are both good in bed and I wonder y they are cheating with each other.even the wife pays more,she even got me a car on my last birthday. Things dey happen for abj o

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    1. Abuja wey opportunities full .
      You people are just destroying your souls up and down.

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  21. Posterpls try and be a better host
    You don’t care if they cook but you’re wondering if they ste without saving for you. You carry face sotey they come they explain wetin dem chop come ask you why you no carry pikin
    What you’re doing will spoil the friendship. Help well or don’t help at all

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    1. You must be the friend or someone like the friend. Mtsheww out of everything he said that was the only thing you saw, a user like yourself.
      Nonsensessssss.

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    2. What a stupid comment. The LEAST they could do is feed him. After all they took over his house.

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    3. @anon 14:24 you got it wrong, did you read where I said I'm not a breakfast person and I NO I did not carry face sotey he see am I was sorting some paperwork when he came to meet me...so because I helped them I should wake them up every morning ask what they will eat and make the food for them listen to yourself now.

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    4. You're a very useless person for this comment. Haba! Somebody moved into his house, will not allow him be , his taking over everywhere and this is all you've got to say?
      Poster please gimme their number, lemme help you tell them. Kai, I'm so pained by this because I've once been in this situation.

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    5. Ewu spotted at 14.24!!

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    6. Whet did they take over? They.m came to sit in the parlor so because you are helping they should stay in their room and never come out. The wife served her husband food. If you wanted more you should have said so
      How can you live in a house with a baby and they have to say ah you’ve nver carried him. Soon you’ll say the friendship scattered. Nothing you’ve mentioned here is serious. Ignore bvs and go and be a gracious host
      I didn’t say ask what they will eat
      Let them eat and you eat your own
      Stop reading meaning into things

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    7. Poster that must be your squatting friend up there. How are you sure he is not the one that buys the foodstuffs?

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    8. Entitled squatter spotted @ 19.28!!!

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  22. Stella the weather is not so hot here infact we're enjoying cool breeze

    ah! Poster sorry it already late. Every advice you read on your chronicle yesterday is the truth but unfortunately you have let them in already. Your 'good' friend just took advantage of your simplicity. and you're already thinking of leaving the house for them...wonderful

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  23. @chronicles poster, you are big fool if you can't do it call your girlfriend to do it for you or rent it out to someone else

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    1. Yes I know I'm a fool but I have NO girlfriend.

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    2. Poster you must try to change for your own good and that of your future family. You can do it. A psychologist may help you unravel why you are the way you are and give you steps on how to become more assertive.

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  24. CHRONICLE POSTER

    That your mouth...start using it well, talk weitin u no want for your own house. That your brain if you have it...start using it too.

    Better sit down with your friend and find out how long do they intend to squat with you. Tell him for how long you can be able to let them stay if they can't come up with straight dates.
    Of you intend to move out, have you found the place yet and how many months do you have left in this place before you can move out? Now you wana go and inconvenience your grandma, for the old woman to be cooking and boiling water for you abi? Abeg abeg I hate nonsense. Have you thought about the fuel that you'll have to use now if you move to your granny's? What about traffic sef, what if you lose your job because of traffic delays and overstress?
    Thw wife dey give hubby plenty food and you buy boy get little..you better tell them you will cook for yourself they shouldn't bother.

    Anyway I'm tired. Better listen to advise if you wana liv long

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    1. I stylishly told my friend yesterday that they shouldn't bother with my food after giving me one yeye food last night I just told them I already eat at work where as I didn't... So I told the wife not to stress herself cooking for me since she is taking care of the baby.

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    2. Anon u are fooling urself.
      Those people do not care how u feel.
      Woman wrapper.

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  25. More sales to the marketers.Mr nice guy sorry for you o

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  26. Guy, to avoid quarrel since you've given them your house, move to your grandma's place, if they ask, tell them u are giving them privacy. Imagine they eat n clean mouth while u d original owner goes hungry coz no free space to cook...shine your eyes o.

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  27. Mr nice guy, I don't pity you at all, in fact this is just the begining. Shebi you are their Jesus..stop complaining and carry your self impose cross biko.

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    1. @phinite you are mean ooo try pity me small now
      😬😬😬😬

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  28. @chronicle poster, are you okay? i used to be like you until i learnt my lessons. Do you have a girlfriend? Oya start bringing her home. She should take over! Since the wife of your friend has no brain. Some women are beyond shameless and stupid. When you are in such situation sef, you should thread carefully.
    And tell him to take off his pictures and awards! Nonsense! Shameless couple.

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    1. Don't blame his friends wife. You don't know what her husband told her. He may have told her he is the owner of the place orv that he is the one that rented the apartment for him. Let the poster just move out for them.

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    2. I don't have a girlfriend

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    3. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars25 July 2019 at 17:35

      Get one. Or rent one. Don't you have female friends with no strings? They can help you treat this shit. That guy is not your friend. Friends don't drain each other. They help...am so pissed by this.

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  29. Oga accommodation ish,I want to believe you starting a fiction story book;who does that?if you aren't writing a story book,I'm so sure they are coming to join you in your new apartment when your friend gets 'tired'of your mini flat they are in presently.

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    1. @orire its not a fiction oooo it is happening presently,I have given up already jare

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    2. Orire is making sense. Poster if you don't change they will follow you to the new place you rent. 😝 But jokes apart you need to learn how to be strong so you can survive in this wicked world.

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  30. You this mumu man, are you that daft??? These people are not your friends. I have been in your shoes and can categorically tell you that they will drain you dry and say the nastiest things about you. Your best bet is to leave the pace for them but terminate your agreement with the landlord and give him notice, or else you will be paying their rent till kingdom come. Your friend is an entitled ingrate and you are a very very daft man.

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    1. Only me all this name have mercy now...before I lose my sanity and I get drained totally thats why I'm running cos right now I'm totally fucked.

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    2. You are not totally fucked. Just be determined to change. Ndoo ooo. It is well. This is not the worst thing that can happen to you. It happened so you can learn and avoid something worse in future.

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    3. Ndi dem crying out yesterday that he should be kind blah blah, shey una see wetin the rest of us dey try talk?

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  31. Invasion of privacy!!
    Poster, you are not smart and I feel so sorry for you.
    All I can tell you is that you should move out of that house and leave them there.
    Kai... why are you not my brother?

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    1. Slutty oooo oya adopt me as your brother I know very well na slap you go use reset my brain.

      😬😬😬😬😬

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    2. πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ poster, you have been adopted. So do as I say πŸ’πŸΏ‍♂️
      Abandon that house for them, pick your things stylishly from there to your grand mum’s.
      When the rent expires, let’s see what he will do.

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  32. RE-CHRONICLES -AT A CROSS ROAD

    I feel so bad Stella posted late,I'm sure you wouldn't be experiencing this now.

    Where are the BVs who said he should help the friend,hope you can see why the rest of us said he shouldn't! Like I said the other day,you don't have to experience something before you have an opinion;we read,hear and see a lot.

    I jokingly said you won't be able to put on your TV and see now you even after leaving the room for them,you can't even put on your fan.

    Since you want to go to your grandma's,give them an ultimatum before you go.Don't go visiting,don't stock your kitchen.Let them leave before you get back be it a month or two.

    Imagine the audacity! putting up pictures and awards in a house you are squatting in.My royal butt is pissed!

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    1. You think he would have listened to all the advise that he got yesterday?

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    2. @nkay I would have gotten one or two things if the chronicle was posted last Monday.
      @beevee yes I would have cos I would have learnt how to be manipulative like not picking is calls and a avoiding him like I saw in a comment yesterday or even create a lady and say she is my new gf.....I saw all that yesterday and it would have helped but at that time I could not think of anything to do.

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  33. Chronicle poster, you put yourself in this situation so it's kinda hard to feel sorry for you. This is a very big mistake and it will bring out ugly sides of both of you.

    You don't even seem like a tolerant person cos it's just 10 days and you are already complaining all over the place which begs the question. Why did you agree to this in the first place? 😞😞

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    1. He didnt say Yes, neither did he say no.
      His friend capitalized on his indecisiveness and moved in.

      Hi Perxian😊

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    2. Abi not even up to a month...

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    3. Hi, shiningLongrich. Hope you good, sis?

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    4. Thank you longrich!

      Perxian he did not wait for my response and I knew I couldn't refuse him that was why I sent it as a chronicle last week knowing fully well I will get an answer of how to go about it but it wasnt posted and the following day he sent a text guy I dey move come your side today ooo help me drop key,what would you have me do perxian.

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    5. Poster, I want you to be firm and not let them walk all over you because you can't say no.

      Tell him the arrangement is not working, period.

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  34. You are a pushover and a people pleaser. Since you have now gone to your grandma's house kindly take all your clothes away from that house. And block all their numbers so they won't be able to reach you to beg for food or money. Also, don't let them know where you currently live. Friendship OVERRRR!!!!;;

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  35. That guy that let his friend and wife plus kids into his house...hmmmm I use to be like you,they know you are soft and they are riding on your mumurism!!...they are not going anywhere anytime soon,you will end up leaving the house for them because you know your friend well but not his wife....him and his wife no get the same character you know!!

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  36. when people have the perfect plan of chasing you out of your own house so they can occupy the house but you cannot decode because you think everyone is like you. You will be the one to eventually move out for them which is what they had in mind moving in with you. Act fast if you like your house or be ready to leave it for them.

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    1. Already leaving the house for them

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  37. Poster ,I can relate with that *can't say NO* thing . From this narrative of yours I think your friend is seriously inconsiderate, and he's beginning to take your generosity for granted. Pls man up/be firm and claim back your position/authority as the owner of your apartment. Set rules, if your friend finds it difficult to go by your rules let him excuse you. Lean on me no mean press me die abeg!... I'm really pissed ,if indeed your friend did all you said ,obviously he's such an inconsiderate ingrate. Mtchewwww!

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  38. To the good hearted man, you prefer to inconvenience your grandma, than to take back your home? Please talk to him the same way you did when you agreed to this sham agreement. Give him ultimatum, let your woman handle the issue for you. He's a user and not a friend!

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    1. I feel if I talk to him I might offend him,that's my problem @annie

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    2. Lady T/worth more than a thousand dollars25 July 2019 at 17:41

      Is he not offending you? Common on of course he will be offended but so what? He should start being responsible and stop lording over you and your house. Arrrregggggghhhh

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    3. And he has not offended you? Na wa ooo. Me ooo, I don advice you finish, since yesterday till today...... I don waka. Please learn how to take care of yourself and don't be a fool. 🚢🏽‍♀️🚢🏽‍♀️🚢🏽‍♀️🚢🏽‍♀️

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    4. My problem is your mindset. Are you aware that you can't please everybody and that even this yoir friend that you are housing and feeding can still talk I aboit you? You need to have a total mindset overhaul. Be a man!

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  39. Dear poster, you haven't really told us the connection that binds you and your so called married friend together. I just can't believe it that a full grown man, his wife and baby will come and squat with you and take over your house just like that. Your excuse is: You don't know how to say no. Until then, I rest my case.

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    1. @15;12 there is nothing that bind us together oooo we dont have any secret together. We have been friends since our uni days....no attachment nothing we are just very good friends before this happened. So it is not what you are thinking.

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  41. Thank you Stella for posting my advert.God bless you..

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  42. hahahahahhaha poster this your story na lie joo....inukwa..adonbelive it.....person carry wife and pickin move into my house com hang things for wall? me i wan come run go my grandma house? house wey i pay rent for? i have nothing to tell you oga. happy staying with grandma

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    1. No be lie oooooo he dey happen right now...I don even call am say I no dey come house this night till Saturday morning just now..

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  43. Dear Poster, kindly tell your friend that you are no longer comfortable, that you willingly to talk to house agent to help them look for a place

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    1. Him talk sey he nor fit talk... πŸ™„

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  44. Pele poster that’s accommodating a friend; this is a very bad decision you have taken. Igbo adage says akidi ama oke ani. (some one that doesn’t have boundary) My hubby’s friend that’s an ingrate that he harbored before we married wanted to try cunny man way of coming to sleep in my house again? As we are married so? Saying in same city? O budi onye ala? He’s married oh, but he and the wife cannot stay in their house. The wife often comes to sleep with their baby in her sister’s house(her sister stays in same vicinity with us) and this my hubby’s friend will follow the wife like a little baby sitter and come and be looking for where to sleep.

    He started sleeping with another of my hubby’s friend house till that one got tired and refused; he slept temporarily with another friend same vicinity that one too got tired. I live three bed room flat believe me even if I live in a duplex I wouldn’t allow him in. He can come visiting but to sleep over naa.

    So, he called my hubby as he’s on his way home from work and hubby called my bro in law that came for business trip to seek for advice and bro in law kuku give me phone. Na so I scream like mad woman on my hubby and even called the elder sis join. The sister kuku called him and warn him to disease from such. Though, hubby later told me he was seek for advice on what to tell him and didn’t want to disturb or make me angry as am pregnant.

    This my hubby’s friend stayed with my hubby for 5years and exhibited a very selfish behavior then. (Both of them were job seekers doing small jobs then) He wouldn’t contribute for cooking, my hubby will bring money for cooking and still cook for him. Whenever their soap finish, he will buy soap and keep in his box but he was using hubbys one always. Hubby head no correct na him go kuku go and bring out the soap out and start using. Tissue will finish he will buy and keep in his box.

    Whenever hubby doesn’t cook, he go kuku go outside and eat. But, hubby will manage and go buy indomie and see him eating in a buka. He’s story plenty abeg. When hubby got a good job, he usually comes back every weekend he will give him 3k that was in 2013. He wouldn’t even thank him for his mind is small.

    When he got a job as a safety officer, my hubby called him sat him down and adviced him save guy man told my hubby I quote ‘when there’s nothing to save. He’s salary was 4k per day. This guy takes his clothes to dry cleaner, eats in posh restaurant by the time the contract finished after 1 yrs 6months, he wasn’t able to save. Barely after one month, he called my hubby for foodstuff by then we are married. He want completely broke. Abeg I don tire.

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    1. Any friend that feels entitled is not a friend. If I call them parasite now, Stella nor go post.

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    2. But why are our people so entitled? Imagine a grown adult oh!!!

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  45. The chronicle poster is just like me....people pleaser,you never see shomtin sha...chronicles still loading

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    1. I tell you. I had to learn the hard way. In fact I am still learning and getting stronger by the day. Not that I am inconsiderate now, but I don't just allow myself to be used anyhow like before. There is peace in learning to say no.

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  46. Lmao.... Omo see broda broda wey mumu
    Just move out of your house cause its obvious they came to take over....
    Catwalk out of post 🚢🚢🚢

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  47. Poster abeg give us update o. We need to know how this ends. Its not gonna end well though. Report them to your grandma, or your mum, pls or your girlfriend!!

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  48. I hardly comment here but this Mr over nice guy poster has dragged me out of my silence. Uncle! ki lo fa gbogbo oshi yen? Being nice doesn't equal being foolish. It seems you make a lot of money that's why you are thinking of renting another place( me i am available if you have money to dash out o since you can dash house out all in the name of a fake friendship). I wish i had your number so i can talk some sense into your head and that your mouth will open immediately.

    Haba, that guy is not your friend! I repeat... HE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND!!! He is a user and a parasite. Like who moves into someone's house and puts his stuff up? I can swear he has started bragging that he has gotten a new place and he is living the life.

    Since your mouth has been sealed shut and you are so lucky to have too much money and grandma's house close by, Congratulations!
    1. In case you decide to open your mouth, tell your so called parasitic friend to pack up his stuff and maintain his lane like a borrow borrow tenant and he should maintain the room given him and stop intruding on your own space. Tell them you are not interested in carrying babies cos you are exhausted at the end of the day and you need your breeze and sanity.Then start inviting your female friends over, every once in a while or host your colleagues in your house.

    2. If you have decided to pack out, please inform your Landlord that you are not renewing your rent and you are not responsible for the tenants occupying the space. If you have to do affidavit in court, go and do it! Then do not leave any of your stuff in the house for them! DO NOT! Start packing up your things every weekend, gradually! Since uncle parasite wants to change and redecorate the house, he should use the money he is dreaming of to furnish it.

    3. When you are finally out of their lives, change your number but don't delete their numbers from your phone in case they call you so you wont have to pick. Then block them off your phones, social media pages and chat apps as well. Let your office security know that this person is not allowed in as a guest to see you. Cut off ties with them and don't give your new address to anyone that knows them or ties you together!

    Abeg, you don't need such bad energy and parasitic relationship in your life. Being kind and generous should not be taken advantage of.

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    1. Poster I came back again just for you please read anon 16:28 very well.

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    2. Wow...thank you RJ na your type I dey find make I marry...😬😬😬😬😬

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  49. Men like yesterday's chronicle I avoid like a plague!
    They would frustrate you with their lack of firmness and inability to say no!
    I actually hate such men because if you are a woman who doesn't tolerate all these and you come into his life, everyone would resent you for trying to do things right and they would never speak up in your favour, never!
    Look at how he was saying that he's waiting for a woman to fight on his behalf, me AB!
    NEVER
    Pathetic

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    1. Anon 16:30 I concur

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    2. Anon 16.30 Honestly, this is another thing to look out for in future partners.

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    3. Very pathetic man... all over IHN stressing on his inability to be firm and take a stand on issues that concern his life and taking pride in it.
      Looking for girlfriend to fight your battles and offend people on your behalf as sugar that you “is”.
      God forbid having such as a husband. Your mates are protecting and providing for their wives, you’re looking for woman to fight for you... Well done oh.

      Oga. Listen well. No woman wants to be with a spineless fellow, and that’s what you are. Spineless.
      Strap on a pair and take back your life!
      You want to leave them there? Fine. Be sure that they will come stay at your new place eventually if you don’t read them the riot act now.
      Will you run forever?
      Well you just might since you have no liver.


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  50. Oga that allowed his friend to inconvenience him in his own house. Stand up for yourself, dont allow your friend to walk over you.

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  51. Chronicle poster, you need slap , as in correct slap, how can you be this foolish huh
    That guy is not your friend! He is a leech and a liar!

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  52. Poster of yesterday. Please move out of that house fast and cut off with that friend. I was wondering if there is something that your friend knows about you that he is using to have a grip over you. Please pack out of that house fast and break every link with the exploiter you call your friend.

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    1. He has nothing he is using against me.

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  53. Mr poster reminds me of a friend that squatted with me and took over my space. She went out one day and I helped her pack all her things.When I was donee packing,i just called her to come carry her stuffs and that was the end of the nonsense.

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  54. Poster, please take every experience in life as a lesson including this one you are currently facing.

    First you know you have a problem with saying no to people so learn about assertiveness and boundaries. It’s not a good character trait as I have been this way before. In fact I still got into another situation recently because of poor boundaries and blog visitors gave me correct advice to reset my brain. Work hard on this character flaw, the world out there is not thinking about you, just themselves.

    Secondly, this situation is already on the ground so criticising you isn’t helpful. Most of the advice in the comments is for you to move without renewing the contract or to just ask them to leave. All of the advice is good.

    All I can say is act quickly as it can only get worse from
    here and be prepared for a bad reaction from him/them.

    Good luck.


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  55. Uncle chronicle
    You don't know the lies he fed his wife concerning the apartment. He must have told her he rented it for you. Just leave the house for them. Get a serious girlfriend so that they won't come and force you to pay the rent when it expires. Let the landlord be aware that you won't renew the rent so that they can deal with your friend directly after it expires. Terminate your agreement with the landlord after you have removed all your things. Then make sure you explain everything to his wife so she won't see you as a bad person when the shit happens

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  56. I pray that nobody close to me falls into the hands of someone like that Onye oma CY poster. Mr Good Samaritan. Your type will not stand up for your woman no matter what when you can't even stand up for yourself. Tufia, biko man up. If na me sef, I go drive them away, I'm not going to look for any place. Stupid friend "enemy" and his senseless wife. How do you pack your things to a friend's house? they're both shameless, foolish and senseless. You don't even love yourself. you need to love yourself for you to be able to love others. You can't say No to people abi? Please I need a kidney, give me yours so I can sell, I'll pray for God's blessings on your life afterwards. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww. this thing is vexing me to my bone marrow. For your information, that human being is not your friend o. You better wipe his memory away from your head. he's a user.When you finally decide to move out, if you like leave everything you have in your house for them o, and go and start life afresh. Allow the guy scoop your brain with spoon and convince you to leave everything for them as you can't say No na. The shameless couples deserve nothing. Nonsense and ingredients

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  57. Akα»₯kọ ifo. Like husband like wife. Which kind story be this one wey you dey yarn? What exactly is he explaining to his wife? how did he get money to rent a mini flat for his friend when he lives in a self contained with his family? OK, let's say he told his wife he rented the place for his friend, how did she feel coming to stay in a one bedroom apartment with a grown man bringing all her family? Biko, the man and his wife are shameless. They both know what they're doing jare.

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  58. @Poster who has handed over his house...Common on,are you for real? This is beyond a weakness oh

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  59. Thanks so much Stella for posting my distress sale. May the favour of God never depart from you.

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  60. I can't believe you are actually going through that in ur own home

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  61. @poster this is the reason why you dont have a woman in ur life, because u are simply spineless! Ur type nahim women dey cheat on. Who wants a dead beat man as a husband. Mtchewww.

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  62. Poster don't leave the house for them, tell them to leave. Don't you have a girlfriend?? You're just too calm mbok

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  63. Poster that accommodated his friend I believe you have learnt your lesson. I will advise you stay in your grandma's place. Move your things to your grandma's place, inform your landlord that you WILL NOT RENEW the rent. PLEASE don't rent any apartment until your so called friend secures a house for his family. Learn to put your self first. It is not selfishness it is loving oneself.

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  64. The poster with the illegal immigrants is no different from my husband...my husband accommodated a tenant that was sent out of the same compound by the landlord for sometime and when this guy was leaving he left his bags( one big Ghana must go and two boxes). I've called this guy to come pick his property but he has refused to show up, Im so tired of seeing this load yet my hubby has nothing to say than the guy will come for it...its over 4yrs now..very soon I'll be left with no choice than to burn it because I'm so tired of complaining...its so depressing when one has a man that cannot express himself or make decision.

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