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Monday, August 26, 2019

Amebo Column - Training Your Children To Be Voltrons....

Women please stop telling your children about issues you have with anyone abeg you...especially those of una wey like fight pass quarrel!!!








Why teach your child to disrespect and join you in fighting another adult?!

You may think, ehn my children are my defenders but you don't know the spiritual problems you are using your hands to cook for your children!

If you have any beef with anyone, Leave your kids out of the matter! Allow them greet the person!

Men are also on this table o! Cos some men sabi keep malice pass woman sef! Adults face yourself since you don't know life is too short to be bearing bitterness upandan!

If the kids of the person you are fighting with were formerly friends, let them be Because little by little, these kids will grow to imitate you and even become a better version and forget you in an old peoples home or one mud hut somewhere over a little rift they have with you. Teach them the beauty of forgiveness and show them how to ignore issues and move on!

Remember that you kids look up to you and whatever nature or character you display now,they become exactly like you and even become a better copy....or a worse copy!!!
If you get ear make you hear well now!!!

Na me Amebo

18 comments:

  1. This amebo dey yarn sense o
    No be only children. They have suicide squads among siblings in families. You quarrel with one, wait for the pack of hyenas to come for you.
    Don't you even see it in this blog?
    I am not talking about veteran associations o.
    😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

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    1. You are right about family. And the leader of that gang is ALWAYS the wicked greedy one

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  2. Na my mum get this post,she can keep malice for Africa ,if she catch you talking to whom she's not in talking term with like this,you are dead with curses

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    1. You & I must be twins or something. My mother will be the one to cause trouble, then play victim, but she wants you to fight others without hearing their side of the story and make unnecessary enemies. I told her to finish fighting her battles herself since she has energy to be starting them.

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    2. Do we have thesame mother? Mine small argument with dad we are not even allowed to tell him good evening well else she will show you pepper for not supporting her in the fight

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    3. Please arecwe sisters, I just realized you talking about my mum too. Such a bad character 😂

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  3. In this Nigeria its not wise to allow your kids be friends with an enemy family, that's how one allowed her kids to still visit n be friends with d kids of her beef mate, her kid returned one evening, developed stomach ache, stooling n said ****** gave him bread n butter, rushed him to d clinic , he didn't survive, the other boy said his mom gave him the. Read to offer his friend.

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    1. Lol. What if you're the bad, malicious one in whose house other people's children are not safe? Shebi the boy that was drowned in Abuja, his friends have parents that would have been praying against unfriendly friends. Meanwhile, their children are the unfriendly friends that must have learned that wickedness from their parents first.

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  4. Some kids can tell when their parents are quarrelling with someone, they don't need their parents to tell them to start keeping malice, in my home if my mum catches you greeting someone she is quarrelling with sorry is ur name, one thing is that after sometime the two parties will start talking to each other, in other hand you will be finding it difficult to start greeting the other family.

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  5. This is a pressing issue that needs to be addressed, nice one Stella.

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  6. It requires caution. Anyone who doesn't like you will definitely not like your children. So I suggest caution and discussing with your child to be respectful but should not have any close relationship with such a person or the children of that person. I have such an experience and it wasn't a pleasant one.
    So keep your children at arm's length

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  7. I thank God for the children God blessed me with. When I had issues with one of my neighbors that I normally help babysit their child for free. After the misunderstanding the stopped bringing the child around. My 7 year old told me one day, “mom go and bring Jayden whatever happened between you and the mom doesn’t have anything to do with him”. I weak. I had to explain that it wasn’t my call to go bring him but his mom’s choice to bring the child.

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  8. I also thank God my children do not take sides when I have a quarel with anyone (even though in my innermost I wish they support me).

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  9. My mother never once told me who was battling her, I could always tell from a young age and the truth is the unkindness they showed my mom, they extended to me and my siblings too. When I was young I'd only ignore them and be rude, now that I'm older I don't hesitate to tell them about themselves from beginning to end. I'm talking mostly about my father's family. I even had to tell my grandmother that if she continued to be rude to my mom, I would no longer greet her. And my greetings came with dollars so she tried hard to behave herself. My uncles and aunts CAN GET THIS SMOKE. They should come and beat me na.

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