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Thursday, October 10, 2019

Chronicle Of Blog Visitor Narrative -UPDATE

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This is from Wednesday Chronicle Poster
The drama got worse...........She dropped the update in the comment section.




''Thanks all for coming out to comment, it cant be easy, its so unfortunate that my chronicle was sent 3weeks ago, I've even thought Stella was not going to post it anymore until I saw her mail recently.


 Those that ask if I had tried talking to him, I did he never listens his mentality is a man should talk and the woman should listen when I want to say my own he will walk out angrily, did we attend counselling? of course we did, he even asked most question during the 3months program. Those that said I involve 3rd party I never did, he did, I only defend my self to people he decided to involve in the marriage.


Now to the new gist, a week after this chronicle was sent to Stella on the day of our tradversary,he locked me inside from morning till night without food or water and came back at night demanding food, when I told him there was no food, he started keeping malice, in the morning when I was about going to work I asked for the key he refused to give me my keys he later went and open the door and still refuse to release my keys, so I left So I won't be late for work...


 At about 11am in the morning I saw a WhatsApp msg from him telling me that he has pack out all my things and dump them at the event centre we used, that's when I called my mom and told her everything that's be going on and she started crying on the phone, my mom when to check the event centre and truly saw my things there


 She packed everything home, and said she wants to call my MIL and report to her but I told her she was sick and she shouldn't stress her. she called the siblings until the immediate elder sister picked the call and that one told my mother the marriage is too early for her to be reporting things and that their brother is their last born I should always learn to pamper him, my mother called my so called husband and that one started lying to my mom, So mom told him I know my daughter she is too quiet for her own good self, since you said she did all things why did you not report to me as her mother so I can take her on serious lesson of her life. he ended the call on my mom.


My mom called the best man herself and the man was angry with the whole situation, the next day I called his elder brother who told me he knows his brother is possessed and that his mother has refused to find a solution for him, in the Evening his mother called my mom and started telling her that no matter what I had no right to pack my things out of my husband house that my mother should tell me to pack the things back, my mom told her I didn't pack it out but his son did, she said I should have sit outside the house until his son changed his mind and reopen the door.


The next day I called her myself and she told me I should back my things back that what right did I have to report my marital issues to my mom, that once a girl is married she should not go back home that how much is food that I can't cook for my husband, then told me that I don't know husband is scarce and that his son is her baby I should always pamper him. Then I told her that if her son want me back that he knows where he dumped my load and he should go get it there ...

She angrily ended the call on me and refused to call me since three weeks that I have been out of the house, she called my uncle and reported and my mother reported everything to my uncle and they were all angry.

I became sick not knowing our one time s#xual encounter yielded pregnancy and I lost the baby three days after I was admitted.


While I was in the hospital the mother called again and I begged my mom not to tell them about my miscarriage that I want to move on from all this nonsense, then the mother started telling my mom that she asked me to move back to my husband's house three days ago and that I refused that I don't have respect that if I had respect I should have respected her and went back, then my mom said never in our tribe it's not done that a man packed his wife things outside and the wife will now use her hands to pack the things back, then his mother started asking my mom rudely if she has no shame? 

That she is very shameless to abhor a girl who went into marriage a month ago and keep such a person in her house that my mom was very shameless, my mum told her thank you ma, then she ended the call, then my mom was very angry and said she wants to call my brothers I started saying I can't bear that for now, so she called my immediate elder brother because he is more level headed among all of them, my elder brother asked me what Happened and I explained from the beginning then he said he never supported this marriage from the onset and do I know since they sponsored my wedding my so called husband has not called them to say thank you, and he even called, 4missed calls that he didn't return the call or flash him back...


I told him I was not aware. then my Brother asked me to move all my things to my mom's house and never look back and I told him I want to get my own apartment and he said he is not in support of that at all, that he knows it's shameful that I shouldn't worry that the Shame is just for a while that people will soon find new gossip and they will move on...


So for now I'm at my mom's  the past three weeks though still looking for money for an apartment as I'm yet to receive salary, and my mom and brother has been supportive and his family are still threatening brimstone that I must return back to their son. that's the summary of things for now''.



WOW...First off.....Your mail came in a week ago..I just checked the date it came in and i saved it.....Some mails float around for a while ,i don't know why but it does....

Second off,please do not go back....God just saved you from a life of horror with this man....It is good that he used his hands to end it....werey!!!

137 comments:

  1. OMG! That man cannot change....please move on fast.

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    1. I beg you with everything you cherish, don't go back to that man. His people know he is mentally unstable and probably just want someone to birth his kids and take care of him. That miscarriage is a blessing in disguise, if not you'll forever be entangled with this selfish and wicked family.

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    2. Ha! I'm short of words. This I beyond terrible. His mum obviously spoilt him with everything. What??! Please find healing & forgive yourself for this mistake. Learn your lessons too. It is well with your soul sis

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    3. D boy is obviously a spoilt mummy's brat!
      Pls dnt go back for ur own sanity.
      Let ur life come back to normal, a good sensible man will come ur way.

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    4. Thank God u hav sense not to take nonsense from anyone, some women would hav died there using their own money to feed d man n his girlfriend sef🙄 all in d name of marriage

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    5. Theres obviously something wrong with all of dem in that family.
      Let mama marry her son biko

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    6. Pls, I beg you with the name of God, pls do not go back.

      I felt the pain down to my core while reading this. I'm still begging u in the name of all u hold dear, pls do not go back

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    7. All I want to say in all sincerity is Glory to Almighty God for the miscarriage!
      Don't YOU EVER,or even contemplating going back to that crazy family, please use your tongue to count your teeth, enough of this RUBBISH!

      You are more than enough, you don't need him or the family. May God bless your kind supportive family and siblings, that's what family is all about.

      I totally agree with your brother's suggestion, do stay with your mom for now.
      Kisses and hugs.

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    8. Like your brother said, people will still find new things to talk about. You are not the first to walk away. True strength comes from knowing when to walk away. You have the support of your family and thats important. Focus on building your relationship with God and taking care of yourself.

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    9. God!!!! Mad family. I didn't bother commenting yesterday because I felt bvs already said it all. Poster please don't ever go back. God just saved you. Stay with your mom for now, forget what people will say. Hugs

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    10. Poster it takes a lot of strength and courage to walk away! I salute you!! I know it is not easy. I was the anon that told you to get on birth control. Stay strong my sister.. Focus on healing not gossips or stares or what people will say! You will get through this!! You will survive this!! Next one year or two maybe rough but you will come out a diamond!! Please don’t let anyone pressure you into settling for less.. it is better to spend your life alone than be in bondage!

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  2. Just wow!!! How did you end up in that messed up family, with stupid entitlement and and lack of respect?
    Please stay away from that family, you don’t belong there.
    No matter who they bring from wherever to beg you, do not go back. You are better off without that man.
    She went ahead to tell you “husband is scarce” see finish.
    So you are expected to swallow every nonsense he and his useless family dish out in the name of being married? God just rescued you from bondage. Don’t make a mistake.

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    1. Totally messed up...

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    2. Baby husbands have no business getting married. Period!

      They want to shame you. They want to break you. They want you to lose yourself just to have husband's house to stay. They have forgotten that this is 2019. Divorce/separation is nothing to be ashamed of. Wicked, evil people whose evil plans will fall on their heads.

      Poster, you are not alone. I have been through this similar shit, even worst.
      I left and I'm happier. Things will get better. better men will come, as i am finding out now. Your joy will come. Your glow will blind them.

      Dont ever think that what fate has befallen you. Again, you are not alone. Leave to live! That family is messed up. They can harm you.

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    3. I just read your earlier story. Its so painful, this man just married you to ruin you.

      I want to give you a hug.

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    4. That family is the most useless in Nigeria...like seriously.... Please face front and never look back

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    1. Why are you such in a hurry to move out of your mother's house?? Won't you save the money to stand up on your feet and get your emotions back?Unless your mum's place is really far from your place of work.
      And I think you were forming good girl and wife material things and they saw you like a mumu and you did things that gave them that "see finish" things.In the course of dating did you tell your husband things about you and your family/secrets that shouldn't have been said that made him and his family members have this kind disregard for you and your family?? If yes,let this marriage be a lesson to you and move on.I have to tell you that no man deserve your past/present and future secrets and mistakes including that of your family.
      And for the records a broken marriage is not the worst thing to happen to any man/woman.Count this one as a loss and start looking for how to divorce properly with good evidence and facts.And it is not something to want to hide yourself or run away.Some people you think are happily married and will gossip and laugh at you are looking for guts to leave their unhappy and miserable marriage too.

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    2. Pls Don't go back to that house. Because if do so, they'll use you to turn amala. Tell your brothers the ones that are not level headed, you'll draw strength from there, the marriage done kpafuka, that is the bitter truth. And be very grateful it happened at this early stage, when kids are not involved. Just thank God.

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    3. The guy's mother said food is cheap, yet her son can't afford it. They were looking for a family to drain. The man thought his only responsibility is to chop food provided by the wife and fork. Tueh! Poster never consider living in bondage.

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  4. Stay in your mother’s house for now please. You are safer there, till you decide on what step to take next. Truly, people will talk but they will get tired after a while.
    Thank God you had a miscarriage, you are free from him.
    In whatever you decide to do, please Don’t even think of ever going back to that man. No be only him be werey, his entire family minus one are wereys. They are toxic.

    Which one is baby of the house so he should be pampered, shoro niyen?

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    1. In suspect that husband of yours has skoi skoi and the family were looking for who to marry him off to. Unfortunately you were available and maybe desperate.

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    2. Exactly my thoughts... Stay in ur mothers house o.. U need to be around your family n try not to keep late nights... That man is mentally deranged..he might stalk u and harm you if u go stay on ur own... Please be very careful

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    3. Exactly my thoughts... Stay in ur mothers house o.. U need to be around your family n try not to keep late nights... That man is mentally deranged..he might stalk u and harm you if u go stay on ur own... Please be very careful

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  5. Some mails float in that place Naija girls call Stella's "sperm" 😊😊
    All I can say about these abundant drama is that this dude showed his
    omume "character" before you carry head chook inside this mirage wey you
    call marriage.
    Advice; seek God, give Jesus your life to guide you so that you do not
    jump into this kind of quagmire again inugo? And do not mind arrow shooters.
    🌹🌹🌹🌹

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  6. I have not been able to close my mouth since I opened this update.

    Hmmm... So sorry for your miscarriage. It is well...

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    1. I dint even wait to finish, you married a stupid, childish, immature, manipulative fool. If you go back to that marriage you will be a slave until the day you die.
      Tell them goodbye, how can they be refering to an adult as "last born" that needs pampering? His mother spoilt him so she should live with her son.
      What kind of man takes his wives things to an event center? Your husband is a mad man, walahi you must be cool, cus such men never go for crazy girls.

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  7. If you think the man has a mental health issue his family is not telling this poster, gather here for selfie.

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    1. Her mom passed on the mental illness to him. They are all mad people

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    2. My thoughts

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    3. Selfie time o

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    4. Narcissism raised to the power of infinity. Mental health evaluation is a must!

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    5. Wait lemme raise my bumbum small

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    6. Lol at selfie time

      This family =hellfire
      The real eternal damnation

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    7. Wait for me o🏃🏃

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    8. Very likely. There’s someone I know that passed through similar thing. The family packaged the man for her, the man dresses up in the morning like someone going to work, he will go to his parents house, they were responsible for his finances. Her eyes became open when he wanted to drop their second child in a well, that was when some people hinted her about the man’s condition. She took to her heels and never looked back.His drugs? He takes them at his parents’ place. Some family can be very selfish

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    9. Anon 17:20 say what? Drop his own child in a well?.... I don't know why most Africans still hide mental illness and think it's a shame.

      Please if your are reading this and you have mental health issues, seek professional help and take your medications. Tell anyone you are going out with once the relationship is becoming serious and teach them how to manage you in times of crisis, be open about your meds. If they love you, they will stay. Don't go coercing anyone's child into a situation they haven't bargained for.

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    10. Has d selfie been taken already?? Abeg photoshop me in it.. 😂

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    11. I know someone that passed through a similar situation.Her family found out later that the man had some mental health issues

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  8. This is so pathetic. If this is what truly happened. I will say do not back back for now until things cool off, your husband is probably a Mummy's boy. Marriages have their moment, there is no perfect marriage dear. For now keep praying, he might come back begging later, but the choice is yours.

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    1. Oh, she can go back to him later after things have cooled off? “Marriages have their moment”
      Kai.....what won’t I read here?

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    2. Are you Mad???

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    3. Abeg this one is not a moment thing but as it is a lifetime thing. The guy has Serious mental illness. Na werey alaso o

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    4. 15:58
      Apparently.

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    5. Hey michohay, just shut up! May God give you wisdom and understand Amen.

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    6. Very credible question @15:58

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    7. What kind of advise is this? U are one of d people dat die in d name of say u want to keep ur marriage.

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    8. How can you advice a human being to go back to such a situation?

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    9. MICHO WETIN ARE YOU OK??? Did you not read the first chronicle where she stated that he has been begging??? For four years now, misbehave today, beg tomorrow. What I don’t understand is how you this poster condoned such utter rubbish for this long? What were you expecting?

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    10. @Slutty chic and the rest anonymous persons, are you guys married? I am sure you guys aren't. It takes someone who is experienced in marriage to give a credible advice. Which marriage doesn't have moments, and it depends on how they both handle the issues. Like I said, if you understand what I wrote the guy is obviously a Mummy's boy and not matured. For now there is pressure for her to go back from the mother in-law and probably others that's why she is updating us, it will definitely cool off because presently the heat is on(you can't be angry forever. Lastly I advised the choice is hers to make if the guy comes back to his senses.(coming to beg and which he may not) Don't be surprised tomorrow she tells us there was a family meeting and the guy was shedding tears, wailing that he was possessed and has gone for deliverance. Women are very emotional, that was what the guy used to get her into marriage even when the signs were obvious before engagement. Like is said earlier and I am repeating again "It will definitely cool off, and the choice is hers to make" SHIKENA!!

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    11. Pray 🔥!
      Please this suggestion no follow at all.

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    12. @michohay, I don’t need to be married to know exactly what to say to a married woman.
      Some singles are even more sensible than some married ones.
      I won’t even take such in a relationship, talk more of a life long institution.
      I have principles I abide by. With all that the poster wrote, my dear, there’s no marriage in the first place.
      You are the type that would encourage your daughter to remain with such an abuser.

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    13. @Nectar, reous or whatever you called yourself, I am entitled to my own opinion, it's left for her to take. Telling me if I am not ok is not right do you understand. You all should be mindful of the kind of words you use don't come here insulting someone because of comments they gave, pls give yours and sign out.

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    14. Micho whatever, I'm married, and I never see these type of issues oh, and I will never see in Jesus.
      Only God knows what you re enduring in that your marriage.

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    15. Michohay abeg rest. U sha nor dey make any sense here. Na only witch dey advice person to commit suicide and that is what u just asked the poster to do. So permit me to ask, u be witch?

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    16. Michohay, you are definitely entitled to your opinion.However you need to think deeply and be sensible when giving it. Advising poster to go back if her husband comes begging falls under senseless advise. We are talking mental illness here. I heeded an advise like yours 'when he came begging'. It didnt work. Leorpads cant change o.

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    17. You guys aren’t understanding MichoHay
      I do
      She actually means well
      Insinuating that now that things are hot hot it’s easy for her to say she’s not going back but what if things cool off and he comes back wailing like a bush baby, will she make the right decision then??

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    18. @Tessbaby Na you give me witch chop? @Slutty chic no worry you go soon marry, and I pray you don't come and give us Chronicles. @Anonymous 18:21 My marriage isn't perfect either but we settle issues amicably with maturity. In as much as the posters husband could be childish, I also strongly believe there are somethings the poster is not telling us about herself, she get her own for body. Don't believe everything you read on Chronicles until your hear from the other party. (mind you I am not in support of the guys actions and behavior)

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    19. No be only are you married yen yen yen. See mummy advise you dey give person. She should waste her youth in the name of moments. People leave bad marriages and find true love in the arms of a deserving partner.
      Continue suffering and smiling. Madam moments. I repeat, you are definitely not ok.

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    20. @Micho whatever you are a DEEPLY miserable soul. One of the ones who marriage validates. I have so much pity for your type. Tufia!

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    21. @Scarlett thanks, leave the rest that are giving emotional reaction thinking it's advise. Whatever is going on with the couple is still fresh,I repeat when it cools off they will both decide what they want.

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    22. @Nectarious, and Chikito thanks for the insult. It's people like you that over react like the posters husband. When you can't exhibit maturity and insulting someone because they made a point or gave their opinion.

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  9. Thank God for yourself and family.

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  10. Hmmmm this your husband has serious mental health issues and his mother will only send him to his early grave! He should be in a mental health facility on daily medications

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  11. My darling please don't go back to him. He is a very useless man and his mum is the one that doesn't have shame not your mum. God bless your family for having your back. I am happy you are free from having a child for him. Just keeping making yourself happy till a better man comes.

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  12. OMG! That man is kind of sick and his mama is aiding him. So pathetic.

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  13. They all sound crazy. The man, his mother, his siblings. What a family! Please don't go back. It will get worse. They are an abusive family and to them it's normal.

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    1. They're crazy!!!
      They dont just sound it they're a it!!!

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  14. No matter what happens,please dont go back,the drama is too much.
    Thank God for your family

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  15. I beg of in the name of God and everything you hold dear to you please and please don't go back to that idiot and his shameless family. It's a matter of time the shame will be forgotten soon.

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  16. First of all,that marriage is a sham!
    If you go back to that mistake you call a husband,you might not survive it.
    Continue to stay with your mum,block all of them and tell your mum never to answer them!
    God has finally liberated you,move on and learn to trust your instincts!
    Sorry.

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  17. Reading this chronicle is like I was reading my own story. I managed to stay there for 2 years before I finally left. It has been 3 years now and I am happy. Poster should never look back. Each tear, there is a lesson.

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  18. Are you fucking kidding ma?

    While you stay away, get a police whatever so they won't harm you.

    Crazy senseless entitled evil family.

    Sorry but congratulations on the miscarriage.

    I truly hope you won't go back cos if you die there ehn OYO to your corpse.

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    1. Yes get a restraining order...

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  19. That miscarriage is the last sign that you need to move on with your life abeg. Can you imagine the nonsense, I blame you sha because you saw all these signs and still accepted to marry him.

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  20. This man and his family are like toxic waste. You shouldn't have married him at all!

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  21. Pls stay away from this family. They are no good. Ati oko ati ana, they are all insane...

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  22. Oko buruku se fe,ana buruku ni o se ni. You are married into a bad family, my dear pls move on.. God's got your back.

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  23. Wow. The only thing I’m happy for you most right now is that you have a supportive family. I’d suggest you tell the rest of your brothers cause someone like that your husband and his family, the next thing they will start doing is threatening you which may turn physical.
    May God keep and protect you. Your husband is mentally ill I’m sorry to say. And the truth is half of Nigerian men are like this, just that their wives are stomaching things like this.
    Sad news is he will never ever change. Cause this behavoiur is something that must be occurring from when he’s a kid for his mom to see nothing wrong in what he did. I’m so sorry your marriage is going this way.

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    1. That’s how my ex and his family is o. The mother wanted to entice me with material things. Was even planning on us going on a US trip this December. But I just knew the niceness was too much. Thank God he scattered the relationship with his own hand. Mehn the guy is sick upstairs. Common if I mistakenly brush someone that pass by me, he says I’m flirting. If I go out, I’m going out too much. If I don’t go out, I don’t have social life. Coming from someone with only one friend. If I dress up too nice, who am I dressing up for. If I answer call, who’s that? Even if it’s from my family.
      No time o, when he did the last one that broke the camels 🐫 back I said “ope o” I pick race.

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    2. The mum was pampering him as 'last born'. Not dealing with the situation. Maybe she passed it on to gim

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  24. My dear in all things give thanks to God. Even for the miscarriage!!!! This family would have been a thorn in your flesh, they could have been one bad headache. For the love of God don't go back please!!!! Move away from that bad rubbish called marriage before you will die for nothing. You will heal. Don't go back. Marriage is not ticket to heaven. That husband of yours is possessed honestly, he thinks he is the best thing that happened to you. Biko don't go back.

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  25. I'm just curious, in the 4 years you dated this child,did you notice any sign of this mental illlness in him.
    Did you notice the behaviour of your in laws? That they did not like you?
    Some of you will register to answer 'Mrs'.
    Surely its better to remain a toddler than marry a toddler or a mad man?
    It is well with you.

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  26. your family should do and return their bride price . than get a lawyer to file for annulment of the marriage. what nonsense ???

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    1. period...no stress

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    2. Quickly NNE!! Return the bride price, the earlier the better. Before they will kill you for nothing. He is sick honestly!! Value your life.

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  27. All I see is a mentally deranged man that forced a woman on. Now yu don't have any baby yu better run for your dear life....beg ur parents to return the bride price dat was paid for your own good o. Let me not even talk about yoruba people and that their submissive.... submissive....respect ....respect nonsense. I know one and I ran with my 2 left legs. ...now he's after me telling me rubbish, about him not being able to live without me...all those emotional blackmail thingy.

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  28. I met the previous one very late yesterday and going through all the comments I felt nothing could be added but I'll add mine now.
    Sis flee and don't look back. Just a month marriage and fire and brimstone is falling?
    See, there's no shame in walking away from an abusive and terrible man. If anyone tells you otherwise, tell them they're free to give their daughter or even themselves to him and see if they'll walk away with their lives.
    I can't believe that a supposedly honeymoon stage is generating so much rancor. God forbid evil! Your village people really woke up to do this and you provided an enabling environment by accepting to marry a man whose skion skion wasn't hidden.
    As you walk away, go into prayers that God should spiritually disentangle you from his life because you made a covenant on an alter as you exchanged vows. Break whatever it is holding you together both spiritually and physically and move on.
    His mother should continue to enable his bastardized behavior. I pity the unfortunate girl that will marry his lousy and wicked ass.

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  29. People are going through drama o, you should condone a grown man being wicked to you for no reason as far as am concerned. I wish everyone had a mum like mine, she for use her hand reset his brain. Unfortunately men like him don’t end up with the person that fits them, his kind of person needs a woman that will deal with him and make him gentle. If a man has mind to pack your things don’t go back on your own excepts he asks then you’ll weigh his reasons and see if it makes sense. if it’s a woman behaving like this one can excuse it on being too emotional but men are usually more calculative.

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  30. That miscarriage was a blessing. Do not be sad about it. Please close that chapter of your life. File for divorce and move on with your life. Let people gossip, they will get over it. Don’t ever ever go back and never compromise yourself for anyone else again.

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  31. These families always want to marry off their mental cases on innocent unsuspecting women. Ladies when the family is too overly eager for you to marry always turn your antenna up. The mother is angry because she will now have to take her head case back. Since your ppl paid for the wedding don't give a care. God did not put you on the planet to be tied to a mental case. Have you done fasting of prayer and thanksgiving for the miscarriage? Have you thanked God for sparing you a lifetime tied to your greatest misery. Your ancestors and God loves you more than you know it. They sent you clear warning and you did not heed, they made it so you could leave sooner rather than later, and the innocent was taken. Your family is supportive and have your back. Never forget their goodness to you. You have much to be thankful for, you are blessed beyond measure.

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  32. This is so pathetic. As in, so so pathetic. I believe your ex husband is mentally unstable, and his mother isn't helping matters.
    Thank God you have a supportive mother and brother. God will turn your ashes to glory. It is well with you.

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  33. OMG this guy is possessed...That family is wicked they knew this useless Agavu Efulefu has mental issues and still allow him marry...Poster are you sure this is the same guy u dated 4 years ago?? Imagine a family decided to hand over their 'problem' for another woman to suffer...Thank God you had a miscarriage..

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  34. Funny enough I just finished reading the said chronicle and I can’t imagine what you need advice on.
    You know what to do. If you like do it. If you like don’t.

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  35. Poster if you know what God just saved you from, you will be so grateful to your creator.

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  36. there is nothing to be ashamed of, in Yoruba saying "Oko buruku she fe amo ano buruku ko she ni" meaning it is good to marry a terrible husband but it is so bad to have a terrible in-laws. Your mother-in-law is very terrible. you family nice self. poster please dust yourself and pick up your life. Thank God you lost the pregnancy.Better husband better pikins

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  37. Please tell your mum to be a brave woman and forget this marriage, people will talk that your marriage failed, let them say! This relationship is not healthy at all. Focus on your self and please don't come back and inform us that you went back or else you know you will end up in a WRONG way.

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  38. Thank God for your life.


    This too shall pass and be a story of celebration.

    God is still in the business of turning our mistakes into miracles.

    Plenty Hugs and Kisses.

    Please move on and do not ever go back.

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  39. wow my dear,your write up rings a very familiar tune with somebody i used to know,and the characters you mentioned fit the exact description,i may be wrong but i hope its not who am thinking it is...my dear the guy is cursed,his family are all cursed nobody can love you more than yourself, give yourself a container load of self love you truly deserve it,your special and no other person can ever be like you, forget the past its history and like history books remain in the book shelf,forget self pity,thats for loosers, forget blaming yourself, he was never your husaband and will never be,i wish you were in the same city with me i would willingly share my apartment with you till you heal,its heart wrenching, i truly know what your going through and beleive me you are a strong woman,please 🙏🙏🙏 am on my knees dont give any listening ear to his family members especially his conniving mother,his mother knows his problem and trust me its foundational,his family just uses you as a dumping ground for their problematic son,i will drop my contact details with Aunty Stella in case you need someone to talk to at anytime, trust me love will find you and yes it wll be perfect as a baby's smile,dont beat yourself up, dust yourself up and please carry your head up and chin out because your a queen and will certainly will belong to a king that knows your true value

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  40. poster never you ever go back to that man, family or marriage again. The family are treating you like you are begging them to marry you. Thank God you lost the pregnancy else you will be in for ages. It will be hard at the beginning but very soon all will be in the past, look for what make you happy and move on.
    Please block all his family members, do not let any of his family members to spoil your mind. Block them both on calls and social media.

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  41. Poster, I read your story yesterday, I saw all the replies from bvs and was satisfied. Please do not go back there, if eventually you get pregnant again for this man, you will cry every day of your life. This marriage has failed, that man has failed you, But God hasn't failed you.
    Dust yourself up, love yourself more, pray harder, take a walk, go out more, enjoy your life, and most importantly always give thanks to the Almighty God for saving you from that hell fire called marriage. You for see shege.God was watching over you all this while.
    Even if he comes back do not listen to him, his mom, pastor or any body that will bring up reconciliation between you both,. My dear Ruuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnn.

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  42. You need to end it officially by getting a divorce so that it doesn't tie you down when you see someone worthy. The Lord is your strength

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  43. dayo would have done same but thankGod
    i quickly took a work,his mum said i should hold on that we should be praying for him...yimu im gone, a guy of 42 behaving like a child,never been married no child,he pratically told me he is got alot of fallout from ladies of my generation and i told him to go and marry his own generation lady nau!im done rushing my own will come God willing.

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    1. Ewo. I know this person you are talking about. Same name same age. That guy is bad news. Told me the same thing. His exes are always the problem. He never accepts he’s the one at fault. Omo thank God we dated for a very short while and I saw the real him. Very insecure, childish and rude. I pity his next victim.

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    2. Ewo. I know this person you are talking about. Same name same age. That guy is bad news. Told me the same thing. His exes are always the problem. He never accepts he’s the one at fault. Omo thank God we dated for a very short while and I saw the real him. Very insecure, childish and rude. I pity his next victim.

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    3. Jezeez! ThankGod for this platform ooooo, I wish I know how to reach u,God will not give any single person here searching a monster for a husband..my prayers

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    4. Lol I’m definitely sure it’s the same person. Lord I knew I wasn’t the problem. And he can twist shit to make it seem you are the one at fault. He even came with his stupid I miss you text afterwards. Gave it back to him hot hot. I honestly wish he can change if not he’ll remain single forever.

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  44. Chi'mooo... (screaming with my hands on my head)
    And I read today's own with plenty food in my Tommy. Shebi I said it yesterday, that man is a psychopath. I believe his elder brother that said he is possessed by evil spirit.
    Poster count it all joy o. God saved you from this psychotic man. Ika ayachasi ka akwa (you for fade like cloth), you for old eee because of by marriage experience.
    I take the God of whatever you believe in to beg you, do not go back to that man. Block him and his entire generation. And dont mind those trying to guilt trip you into going back by saying that it's too early. Like I said yesterday, it's too early for you to die too.

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    1. Not everything is evil spirit my sister. The guy is just a spoilt brat. His mom knows. His family knows. They are just looking good who to put all the burden on. Honestly I just pity the girl.

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  45. If u go back, he will strangle in your sleep, he's mad.

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  46. And to the single 38 year old anons that engaged me on my comment yesterday on the first part of this Chronicle drumming up support for the boy husband, I hope you make out time to read this part 2.

    Another unanimous agreement from Bvs. Run, poster. Run.

    The greatest thing one can do is to make heaven and not marriage!

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    1. I've read it ma/sir, thank you. My stance remains the same. How can she tell me she didn't see all these tendencies in the four year courtship? She probably ignored the warning signs. That's why I suggested she continues doing whatever she did that kept him till he proposed( which was allowing him get away with his madness), she should therefore keep doing it now that they're married. SHE indulged him thus far, we didn't.

      Reread my yesterday's comments Batik abi tie and dye or whatever you call your self. I was airing my view not competing with you, ok? It's up to poster to take my advice or not so drink some water and relax. I made it clear that I could never be in her shoes. Everyone has a dealbreaker. He must have been showing one or two of these symptoms before marriage but poster was blinded by marriage. Now that she's married, her eyes come clear. I was just encouraging her to give the marriage a chance. The age of the marriage is two~ ~three~ ten young for what they are experiencing.

      I was only advising her to hang in there a little, put her best foot forward and see if the guy would change. She should put in some effort to keep the marriage she so desperately 'wanted'. When he was dishing out the madness little by little before marriage, what was her reaction? She's either dumb or got very low self esteem.

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  47. Why are some men bad luck?

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  48. May God bless your supportive family

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  49. Please do not move back! My niece left her 3 month marriage and I now glad she did. She got married the 1st time in her late 20s. She didn't rush because she dated the guy for over 4 years. She is better off now. I stayed in my marriage and wish i had the courage to leave in my 30s. I am now in my mid 50. God saved you. You can have a second chance!!

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  50. Stay with your mum till you feel better and for safety. That your husband has mental health issues and his family is aware.

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  51. Thank God for the kinda family peeps you have, they are the real MVP. No need to torture the man or anything, just let everything go. I am so happy for you babe. Pls do not go back to him and his family. I understand your concern not wanting to stay with your mum because of the gossip and your ex husband coming to look for you there, you can go stay with an aunt or a friend that understands for a while to cool off.
    Though you still have to separate from him legally to be totally free but that can happen later on when you are fully back on your feet.
    Be strong gurl! God gat you always.

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    1. Please don’t stay with any extended family before your eyes will see more whem!! They will turn you into glorified housemaid because of your condition.. come back from work with chores waiting for you.. please manage your mothers house until you can afford your own

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  52. Nne, please go back t your horseband house because 'HUSBAND IS VERY SCARCE.' But at your own peril. How una dey take meet, date, court and marry this kind men? My own love no blind, e tear eyes reach back. Me when like myself die na him one son of a fucking bitch go come enslave? Them never born the great grand father of the grand, grand mother when go born him mama. Na him and him family go run, I no need assistance, rubbish. Marriage never even start na him all this rubbish dey happpen; marriage never start na him I go use my own money dey cook for man, for this Buhari dry season? Man wey no fit provide for wife, na child e go provide for? No be even financial abuse alone but emotional, mental and..abuse. Na wa oooh, I no fit shout.

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  53. Family of monster. You guys dated and you never saw signs to flee? If you ever make a mistake of getting pregnant again, you won't forgive yourself. See how they are dragging you when you never get child together abeg, them go drag your spirit and soul join if you born for this possessed family. Please RUNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN

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  54. Why do I have a feeling that this was all planned out because he had to beg you all that while.... anyway, it doesn’t matter take time to heal. God is your strength.

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  55. The mother plus the brother plus the son are all mad. You don’t know what God saved you from, even the miscarriage is a blessing in disguise. Pls don’t go back, even if he brings the entire country to come and beg you.... imagine he dropped your stuffs at the event center, many are mad, few are roaming. just move on and don’t care about what people will say, like your brother said very soon they will find something new to talk about. E-hugs to you.

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  56. Hey Girl, don't go back, the man is mentally unstable, multiple personality disorder, bipolar, maniac depressive, one or all of the above...take a walk and don't look back...shame to anyone who guilt trips you on this...be selfish for once.

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  57. My love, Please im begging u seriously please don't go back to that useless man. You don't even deserve to be in that useless family of his..please dear, no matter what don't go back abeg. .. Family of doom... Please move on with your life, A better Man will come. im begging you again., DONT GO BACK NO MATTER WHAT


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  58. RUN, RUN, RUN. Even when they come begging, cos they will, please FLEE
    You are worth more than that psychopath and his family. You deserve the best sis, never settle for less

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  59. Why do parents with psychiatric problem like to marry off their sick children to some naive girls. They are always looking for whom to carry their cross. Poster run for your life.

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  60. Poster you married a man from an animal kingdom called family. Thank God, God took his seed back because the torture would have been so much to now have a child look like your EX HUSBAND. Pls ex don’t waste your time and life going back you will be doomed if you make it alive I doubt. What a traumatic experience. Hmmmm

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  61. I bet there was a guy treating you right that you rejected bc women love the fantasy of bad boys. Good for you. Nobody forced you to marry him. You ladies should continue pursuing excitement and it will end up like this. That's your cup of tea. Leave us alone!

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  62. This one and my ex are on d same WhatsApp group.A mature man behaving like an infant;It looked perfect from the outside but only my prayerful mum could see the real deal and she kept frowning from the beginning till it ended and I got my peace back.In my own case he was spoilt by his elder sister who "claimed" she liked me but was always quick to blame me whenever we fell out(which was mostly bcos of side chics)..and luckily for me it never ended up in marriage.Op ur very lucky for d miscarriage oo.Let it go.U dodged a bullet.

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  63. That man has mental issues and his family knows it. Please do not go back no matter what. You deserve better Sos

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  64. He is their last born and should be pampered?

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