She gave an insight into choosing to stay celibate in the past four years, not for any religious reason but to avoid heartbreak and being in a bad relationship and also talked about her mum who is currently suffering from a brain disorder; dementia.
She emotionally noted that a time would come when her mum would forget everyone and everything and would become what is medically termed "a vegetable"
She went further to say that considering the state of her mum's health, wouldn't it best to have children now so that her mum would have these beautiful memories of her grandchildren before she literally forget?
She shared these questions and challenge in a video on her Instagram page.
*Na wah!!!
Yes Uriel, please give your mother beautiful children so she can be fulfilled.
ReplyDeleteThat’s the joy of every parent, to carry their children’s children.
Break celibacy and have babies.
Beautiful children from the gmelina trees?
DeleteWill you impregnate her?
Why not talk about marriage first?
**** will she marry herself ?
DeleteI wonder. So children are now a woman's only trophy. Intentionally bringing kids into a dysfunctional setting just to satisfy her mum??? Na wa for this generation...I swear.
DeleteMarriage first not kids first
DeleteUrial, your mother just wants you to be happy and healthy. Mentally and physically. Your decision to be celibate to avoid heartbreak is good enough for her than to start stressing yourself on how to bring a child into this world without a proper foundation and I’m not talking about marriage. You need to be mentally and financially prepared to have a child and not because you think it’s what your mother wants, if you have a child without being prepared the stress on you, your child and mother would be too much. she just wants your love and happiness which you are successfully providing for yourself.
ReplyDeleteUriel your mother has lived her life. You need to live yours according to God's word and truth. Your mother will not help you raise your children. You need to think carefully. If God wills it and you find a good man to marry then have your children in a two parent household as as intended from the beginning. Yes I said it!
ReplyDeleteCan these girls stop these rubbish?
ReplyDeleteIt is only evil that you learn from the whites.
Why not talk about adoptions if you and your mom
are in desperate need of kids to love?
The people you learn these thrashes from adopt, they
even come to Africa to adopt but you in your selfishness
do not, why?
So what if she wants biological kids ?
DeleteHmmmmmm
ReplyDeletethis girl uses her mom for sympathy.its a form of illness.nothing else can justify the way she involves the poor woman in every single thing.if u comment that her wig is too brown,she will rope her mom in the response.
ReplyDeleteWell since you're celibate, you can do ivf or iui.
ReplyDeleteI really dnt like how she put out her mom to the public thou. But I love the bond btw them. Pls hv kids if u want darling.
ReplyDeletewe share the same sentiments.
DeleteMe too.
DeleteAll the time. Her mum this, her mum that.
DeleteNot enough reason to become a single parent, have you tried dating again? Forget about heartbreak and give love a chance, the next person might be your better half and you can have kids in a balanced and stable home.
ReplyDeleteI’m single and frantically searching.
ReplyDeleteHmmm...
ReplyDeleteBut can't someone, a lady have good friendship with the opposite sex without
ReplyDeletesex? Must one date/have sex before marriage. I am just talking about how I got
married. What causes these heartbreaks is when ladies give in to the pressure to have sex.
It is a great blunder.
Uriel I don't like how to tries to always garner attention with your mom's condition, am afraid, everything is not as bad as you pain it with her.
ReplyDeleteBut she said she is not ready to marry a man that does not have money. I remember after my youth service I got a work but was not married then. My mother always told me " do what other women did just for procreation, if you are waiting for a well to do man before you marry, you might wait tire. I took her advice married and had my son , the rest is a bigger story. If she desperately need a baby she can marry a man that she love to have her babies, if the marriage did not work, she should move on. The worst is to be caught up by menopause.
ReplyDeletemenopause menopause menopause menopause menopause
DeleteThis menopause that is feared more than devil sef, is just a biological state. Peoole live fulfilled lives after menopause.
I read online and so many men use it as a weapon against women. THERE IS LIFE AFTER MENOPAUSE, SOME WOMEN EVEN EXPERIENCE A BLESSED AND GREAT LIFE AFTER THE MENOPAUSE SEF.
I TAYA
Please encourage her to marry if she sees a young promising man.Why must she be a single mother, she has the opportunity.
Deletethis thing she does with her mom on instagram is wrong.she use her for clout
ReplyDeleteI dey tell you. always on the news saying trash just to get sympathy from people. getting tired of my mum this my mum that. she is doing what she is suppose to do as the only daughter abi nah me go do am?
DeleteI dey tell you. always on the news saying trash just to get sympathy from people. getting tired of my mum this my mum that. she is doing what she is suppose to do as the only daughter abi nah me go do am?
DeleteToo much
DeleteDON, TEEJAY is "far far" better than you. You have so much hatred for your fellow citizens. You've had nothing good to say about/to anyone. Why are you like this?!
DeleteBut it's no ones business, like non of you feeds them
Deletewhatever makes you happy just do it.
ReplyDeleteIs she the only child of her mum ?
ReplyDeleteJust asking because I do not understand this pressure she is building for herself.
Why would you spend money on something you can get for free?! Uriel live your life, in my experience, unconventional lifestyle keep only people who do not really love you away,leaving enough room for those that truly love you. Have kids if you desire it.
ReplyDeleteI just love this babe.
ReplyDeleteAwww
ReplyDelete