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Monday, November 11, 2019

Amebo Column - Some Husbands Have Cheating Wives And Vice Versa....

Amebo work no easy cos one has to 'chook' eye inside everything......









There is this couple I admire so much in the neighbourhood. They have a son of two years old. The are both big. Their baby is an 'orobo' baby.

As perfect as this couple appear, the wife cheats on her husband. To add insult to injury, she cheats with their neighbour who lives in the next flat. Funny enough, the guy she cheats with shares the flat with two other guys. It is no longer a secret and the only person in the dark is her husband.

She is self employed and leaves home at her own time while some days she stays back. When the whole affair began, she would sneak into her neighbours's flat and gist in the balcony with them. Later, she watched the guys play draught since they are always at home.

A very vigilant woman, you can say. She sits on a very low stool to observe when her husband will come back home and sneak back to their flat. She escaped by the whiskers the last time she pulled the same stunt.

Her hubby is a very dotting husband, takes good care of her and their child, has nothing to do with any lady in the neighbourhood but his wife cheats on him.

Her cheating partner sneaked into her flat one day. After the do, he helped her button her blouse with her massive bustline in the balcony. I weep for this nice man. Every other person prays he doesn't catch her soonest.

Imagine the whole scenario. I ask myself, why exactly is she doing this to a good man?
I will not drink water mind my business and may God help me not to hint the man one day.....

Na me -Amebo.

68 comments:

Miss Ess said...

That's the irony of man. The good ones gets the bad ones and vice versa.

SluttyChic said...

I pray he catches her soon.

💋Hey boo said...

Hmmm .. poor him.

Anonymous said...

Her husband might be a good man to the outside world and not to her. What if the husband havnt slept with her since after she birthed their son? "Woman shall not live by good alone"
All u men who do not take care of ur wives emotional need, na Saliu go help una out las las
#sinceitistheeraofcrazyhashtag #hereugo #towtowneedexercisealways #scratchmyclitiscratchurd**k

Anonymous said...

Her husband might be a good man to the outside world and not to her. What if the husband havnt slept with her since after she birthed their son? "Woman shall not live by good alone"
All u men who do not take care of ur wives emotional need, na Saliu go help una out las las
#sinceitistheeraofcrazyhashtag #hereugo #towtowneedexercisealways #scratchmyclitiscratchurd**k

The Most Complex said...

Her business. But one thing I know for sure is if she doesn't stop she'll be caught one day. No matter how you try to cover up as a cheat one day you must be exposed.

Reina said...

She has set herself up for an epic disgrace.

Imagine the rubbish.

And that neighbor that thinks he's eating free food. I just SMH. A major purging spree awaits him.

Zemzem said...

It could be many reasons why she cheats on him.I know many women that do it from does that have husbands that satisfys them in all aspects and those that have husbands who are found wanting in finance, care, support,understanding, sexual satisfaction and fidelity. So it all depends. Just know that men and women na the same. It's not easy to satisfy human wants and need.

Anonymous said...

Welldone Amebo ooo
Naija girls and sneaking out to collect fork, no be today story o. But when I yarn am, na so so bullets and arrows ndi uta go launch at me
Some say them dey go find SVD,
Shuooooooorrr, e get any rod wey get steel veins? 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
Okwa my ajuju be that o
I still dey wait for that bill wey go make DNA become compulsory 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
Once you mention DNA, the arrow shooters go get panick attack. Their guns go silent and their hearts will be the ones shooting "gbim, gbim, gbim"...😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
It is called conscience
What shall it profit you if you gain the whole world and lose your own soul?
Na Jesus ask that ajuju n'ese okwu oo

Mimi Love said...

Poor man!

pinklady Aka Veteran Side Chick said...

And she had to cheat on her husband with a neighbour?
She deserves to be caught and sent packing!
I am not against cheating but don't do it around....go far!
Shameless woman!

Anonymous said...

Abegiiiii.
Men also have their own. I am a Doting Wife,December will make 16years of Marriage.
Just Yesterday,we were in Church,doing Major PDA wen I leant over 2 do Amebo about my Shepard's Wife, how she has a dress sense/ standard. When Behold Darling Hubby of Mine was Chatting with a Lady that Called him " Baby" and he was replying how body.
When I asked him who called him Baby,Oga said " Babes we are in Church"
So instead of Disgracing my Ancestors, I jeje told him I was going Home/ wen Church closes,he shld call me 2 come/ pick them.
Since Yesterday, I 've not Spoken wit him.
November has bn From 1 crises to another,For the Love of God I 've bn Fasting and Praying for all this Problems to come to an End,Yet This Son of God is busy doing Suggestive Chats wit anoda.
So Please Amebo let the Woman do what ever makes her Sleep well at Night.
Her Marriage,Her indiscretions, Her repercussions!!!!!!!!!!!!

Orobo sexy said...

Nawah oo, but it's normal for a man to cheat and we keep forgiving. This life is very unfair to women.

DeHeroine 🌄 said...

insatiable woman I imagine the guys discussing her and every every chai! Don't bother hinting the husband 'fly wey no dey hear word na im dey follow dead body enter grave'

chika vincent said...

Abi the hobby no dey nack am well Na waooooo.....why doing it around Neigbhourhood is really bad kaiii....oga o..

****Bbjac**** said...

Na wa...o,neighbor for that matter

Tinalexy said...

Well you said you are Amebo and as much as i don't condone infidelity...eating egusi everytime is tiring jor!! My own rule is; cheat (either man or woman) but don't get caught or rub it in your spouses' face!!! Chikena

Anonymous said...

Made so by a woman that is supposed to be a wife

excited courtesy said...

Soon her husband will discover, he may option for divorce and go for a DNA test with the child.

The Most Complex said...

I still dey wait for that bill wey go make DNA become compulsory 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

Lol @ANG

Diamond said...

Why does good girls marry's the bad men and good men marry's bad women Chai
Odirokwa Mma o

Anonymous said...

@13:24
Madam, you are sowing and harvesting high blood pressure o.
See how easy it is for another woman, a stranger to break you home and heart
just by calling your husband "baby?"
If I catch you and that your husband together, I will even call him "sweetie".
I have been with my husband and another lady called him sweetie. . . and so?
Yes, if you encounter African Americans on the street, in the malls etc. all you will
be hearing is "sweetie, darling, baby etc.". Nobody gives a hoot!
You are fasting and praying and you are also creating and nurturing the problems by
not talking to him. You will finally drive him into the arms of another woman and drive yourself
out of his life and house.
Proverbs 21:19 Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging wife.

happy tutu said...

The husband should forgive when he finds out, women forgive when we find out. Some men dont touch their wives for months, some years, some haven't heard I love you for age.To even touch your wife breast is war, if you like dress to kill he will look else where. Abeg let her do what will make her happy and face the consequences when caught.

Blackberry said...

Who knows what she's going through? But she fuckup sha...her neighbour? Naaa

Push up said...

Stolen things can be thrilling until you get caught.
The woman is really trying herself. Sorry to the husband.

Miliki said...

Hai,ndi mmadu. @Tinalexy if you see cheat, you fit cheat? Obasanjo follow cause am sha

Tbabe said...

It's well.

Anonymous said...

Fabu Na so u carry gist of Neigbour wey dem use d man daughter do ritual. Na u talk say Na Uncle do am till now u still never complete that story! Lies lies lies. Which kind Neigbourhood b this ?

CFV 07067741104 Lagos, Greek Yoghurt, Parfait... said...

ANG of life 😂😂😂

Anonymous said...

I like trouble. If na me, I will drop anonymous letter to the husband with picture evidence. Then sit back and enjoy the drama. Wetin concern me?

Anonymous said...

All this sisterly marriages r sham.

Anonymous said...

I hope dey r not yahoo o And young boys can GOSSSSSSIP oooo! But who knows what she is passing tru. No one. I just felt pity for her

DOCTOR EESAH SULTAN HERBALS said...

For his wife to be cheating, there is an 80% chance that he is also cheating. You attract your kind. Naso e be 👌

Anonymous said...

@13:13
So, that's the license for her to fork another man?
If the husband hasn't been good to her, denies her sex like
you noticed (when you became a ghost inside their house),
how about divorcing the man and forking any available man on
the street?😮😮
Okwa ajuju oo.

Anonymous said...

You said they are both big but didn't include whether the husband has a pot belly or not. If this is so then the big belle would have reduced the size of the D thereby he finds it difficult to satisfy his wife even with doggy style, he will not get to the bottom of the pot of soup.😄😄😅

Anonymous said...

@14:38
I don't know what you mean by "sisterly marriages"
But if you mean anything related to Christ, then know it
girl that I am a Christian, saved by the blood of Jesus
and I have been blessed by God with beautiful, blissful a marriage I never ever thought
or dreamt about. 😊😊😊

Anonymous said...

I tell u

Tinalexy said...

@ Miliki...😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣...be careful what you wish for is my nickname sweerie "do me i do you thingy" you garrit?

Ogbebor Rhoda Rita said...

I pray he catches her son. Nonsense and cheating.

Fashion designer said...

On point

Fashion designer said...

Why cheat in the same compound. No shame?????

Ogbebor Rhoda Rita said...

Eii Osa!🙆🙆🙆

Anonymous said...

Anon 14:38, please let her be.
Stop downplaying it and making it look like she is crazy by looking for trouble where there is none!

You talked about the western world, we are not there, this is Nigeria. You talked about shopping malls and strangers calling pet names etc,
Her case is not the same!!

Even in your western world, I believe it will be abnormal for a girl to call your man "baby" in his private chat, and when asked for explanations, decides not to answer because of a flimsy excuse!

That behaviour he displayed up there is typical of a guilty man caught unawares, and buying himself time to think of a wonderful lie to tell!

There is no other explanation to such attitude.

She is hurting, she has a right to hurt and express it whichever way she can!

At least she is not nagging the man and shouting the roof down or destroying things!

Being a woman/wife in Nigeria is a difficult position biko!

Imagine fasting to better your household life, and the man is busy living his life with sidechicks.



Kamikaze said...

Sorry o Madam. Maybe men have their own but right now we are discussing Amebo's post and it is about a woman. Not a man.

mama triplet🕴🕴🕴 said...

anno 13:24 dont give up. the only solution is prayers my dear.dont give 5he devil d chance 2 wisk ur husband away. be calm towards him, but silently pray nd fast.den leave d rest 2 God.he will fight ur fight nd restore ur home. dis is from an experienced wife. my story loading

Anonymous said...

Esp since they appear to be getting bolder, they will get caught. Someone will soon spill the beans. Amebo come and tell us what happened when kasala don burst.

The Most Complex said...

Your last line hmmmmmm

SWAG LAFRESH said...

The woman sef. How can she be doing such in her neighborhood?

May God deliver her from the spirit of cheating

Anonymous said...

@15:34
You have joined her to jump into conclusion that she is his sidechick? 😮😮😮
With what evidence, just called him "baby?"
Please, Olympic games in Tokyo is next year and we need ladies' long jump gold medal so
badly . .. the last one was in 1996 by Chioma Ajunwa.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Anonymous said...

@Fashion designer
So you are designing for her a cheating partner somewhere outside the compound
and that one will be justified? 😮😮😮😮

Anonymous said...

I'm a beautiful married woman with 3kids, been married for about 12yrs now my husband sure dot on me but can't sexually satisfy me so instead of going out to cheat and get caught I opted for his friends and some far relative, please don't judge me because my husband sometimes send me to his business partners to help close deals since they'll finds me very sexually attractive and I want to believe hubby kind of have an idea that I sleep with them but careless as long as he closes his deal, the worst is his brother inlaw married to my husband sister how I feel guilty anytime I set my eyes on my sister inlaw but ehhh, my problem now is I don't know how or when to stop because I enjoy flirting with other people's husband especially those very close to my husband; I'm presently messing with one in my estate and the wife likes hanging out with me how I feel bad and she tells me how her husband drills her and her ponyo gets hot and my own us a 2mins man😏 another is a very cute friend of my husband goes to the gym almost everyday and dressses very well the wife is way older but niceee, my problem now is I've became addicted to very rich married men since almost all of them are my clients and always make out to me, from teasing them now to sleeping with all of them... My darkest story

Anonymous said...

@Kamikaze
Wawu!
Your fellow attackers will soon call you a man like they have called 🤐🤐
My Naija Sisis like to always convert every discussion to Sisi-dudes world war 3
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

deenity sealord said...

I pray she repents

deenity sealord said...

God this ANG!!!!!

Anonymous said...

She may be karma for her husband sha. Who knows the woman/women he may have jilted in the past. He may also be cheating on her.

Ada Nkanu(Eleganza) said...

That's my question too. Maybe her husband is not satisfying her but even at that...

Kamikaze said...

Yes my dear ANG! Everytime you cunningly call someone prostitute here, I will 'attack' you.
Lol.....

Leave me abeg. I am on vacation. I don't have strength for you.

Dante said...

good guys finish last.

Anonymous said...

@Grace
Jesus Christ is life!
😊😊😊

Oby O said...

See how the man became a saint all of a sudden..like you follow him around..this story is fake abeg

Anonymous said...

Wicked woman stay away from other women's husband.. that's why I don't allow any stupid fellow married calling my husband never!!! Can you imagine playing with your fellow woman and messing with her husband? Heartless bitch!! I pray you get caught and receive hot acid in your face and that your smelling pus-y.. that will surely be your KARMA

Anonymous said...

Very unfair to women especially in Nigerian marriages. Men can't take what they dish out all the time

Anonymous said...

You are right!

Anonymous said...

It is well with you girl. My best advice is for you to turn to Christ. He will make your life beautiful. Others might say you should divorce your husband. But is he being a 2mins man enough to divorce him or become a woman about town? Also, think of your kids. They usually suffer the most when couples put their personal interests first. youh

Anonymous said...

Real FABU.

Mao Akuh (Oriflame) said...

What if the man has silicon p***s.

#runsaway

Uche said...

Visit MFM. That is a strong demonic spirit that will continue if not chased out, until it finally disgraces you. May God help you overcome it, in Jesus' Mighty Name. Amen

Anonymous said...

May God give you a man you will really appreciate and take away every frustration and bitterness from you.