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Saturday, November 16, 2019

Boredom Eliminating Post

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  1. Absolutely!! To get their groove on.

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    1. My hubby would not. He finds it repulsive but lesbians fascinates him whil I hate lesbian porn. No meeting grounds so we don't.

      But it's good if you and your partner enjoy it.

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    2. CAN PORN REALLY SPICEN UP YOUR MARRIED SEX LIFE??

      "Hubby wants us to use pornography to spice up our sex life," a Christian lady wrote in. I had one advice for her, "Don't go there. There are healthier ways to spice up your sex life and porn isn't one of them."

      Our married sex life needs constant sweetening so it doesn't go bland and boring, and in that quest it's natural to look for ways to add a little spice, you know, break the ๐ŸŒ„stereotype, the usual. I am an advocate for bedroom creativity as long as it is healthy physically and spiritually for the married couple.

      I feel pity for couples who tilt towards porn as their life saver. Porn will rather break your sex life and marriage down and expose it to demons that come with it. Note this.

      It's amusing how a Christian couple would think that something as wrong as porn can be right under the marital☔ umbrella just because you are watching it with your spouse. If it is wrong for you to watch it when single, it is still wrong for you to watch it when married irrespective of the 'good' motive.

      Three things about porn - it's demonic, destructive and addictive, so how in the world can this 'evil' bring joy to your sex life? It will tear it down!

      ๐Ÿ‘‰When a couple builds their intimacy around porn, a time comes when they become so dependent on porn to be aroused to have sex. In other words, they can't get down to it without watching porn. Would you want your sex life to be controlled and manipulated like this?

      ๐Ÿ‘‰Imagine coming to a point where your spouse can't arouse you anymore unless you look at pornography or visualize it in your head as you make love to him or her; or you visualize yourself making love to the porn star while you have sex with your spouse. Now that's bondage. That's emotional infidelity.

      ๐Ÿ‘‰Porn corrupts the mind and the thought flow, fills you with lust and an insatiable desire for sex, lures you into extreme sexual adventure or infidelity. It pushes you to explore, to make impossible demands from your spouse cos you need her to act like that porn star.

      ๐Ÿ‘‰If you don't know this, know it now: most of those things you see in porn are not achievable in reality. It is what it is - acted. Staged. Made to feed and corrupt people's fantasies. Sex becomes a game, a playground where women are objectified rather than respected.

      ๐Ÿ‘‰Porn and masturbation go hand in hand. There is a story of a man who had become so addicted to porn and masturbation that he just can't get aroused by his wife any more. Not that he doesn't find her sexually attractive, rather his porn lifestyle has earned him an ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION.

      His system has been rewired to respond only to porn and nothing more. An attractive woman doesn't move him one bit.

      So if you are looking to porn to enhance your sex life, sorry...porn will destroy what is left of your sex life. If God's opinion counts at all in your marriage, then you should never consider using porn as an alternative.

      There are very good ways to spice up your sex life but porn shouldn't be one of them.


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    3. Gbam, you couldn’t have said it any better. Thanks for sharing.

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  2. Whatever rocks their boat.

    Thanks to all who wished me quick recovery yesterday. I feel better now.

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  3. It is actually! But my baby hates it ehn! She’ll be like omg! Does this one have parents? See how dis one is opening leg yakata! Ewwww! May God forgive them!.... perks of dating a Very God fearing lady! ๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜‹

    Kelvin Dat Edo Boi (Stellz Cousin)

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    1. A very godly lady. Is she your wife or an ordinary girlfriend watching porn and having premarital sex with you? If yes, then you don't know the definition of a godly lady๐Ÿšถ‍♂️

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    2. Lol you are so deluded, Godly but you guys are having sex, abi? Lmao .

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    3. Please what is you definition of "god-fearing?"
      Are you depraved in your sense of reasoning?
      Please stop this charade.

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    4. After you have finished pressing bwest for other ladies you go carry virgy Mariya? She must watch that porn by force ooo

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  4. Pastor Ang, come and answer ๐Ÿ˜
    Do you watch porn? Where are those sanctimonious bvs ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    1. It's not a matter of being sanctimonious, not everyone watches porn. I for one do not, as I do not want anything that will defile my mind or body.

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  5. Married BVs,get in here ASAP
    We need your input.

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  6. What's the purpose of watching it ?maybe we can start from there .

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  7. it brings unrealistic expectations from either the husband or wife

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    1. Thank you ๐Ÿ™‡

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    2. Oh, please enlighten me and make sure you have bible verses to back it up.

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    3. Slutty chic since you think otherwise, you might as well bring up the Bible verse to back yours up. Thank you

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    4. Because you are watching other people commit fornication

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    5. It's not a sin. Your heart knows when you sin far before the Whiteman brought us bible. We know good and bad. I don't feel porn between married couple is a sin.

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    6. Not only are you watching others committing fornication, you are abbeting it with your views the more you watch the more views you give this porn industry IIt's just like you don't help in sex trafficking by recruiting girls but you go to the hotels to have sex with those being traffiked. Biko what is the difference?
      If you watch porn you are part of the porn industry.

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    7. And please do well to let everyone know you contribute your daily quota to the growth of the porn industry by merely watching.

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    8. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ una dey vex o. Where did I write ☝๐Ÿฟ there that I watch porn?
      Anon said it’s a sin and I asked him/her to enlighten me. What’s wrong in wanting to know the correct thing?
      And just so you know, I DON’T WATCH PORN.

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    9. And that I don’t watch porn don’t mean I am better than those that love and watch it. People should do what makes them happy.

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    10. Wow Anon 20:27 you truly have a good point. Thanks for sharing.

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    11. Doing what makes you "happy" at what cost?


      Flippantly supporting rubbish behavior is not right

      ALL have sinned and fallen short of HIS Glory is not equals to do anyhow

      GOD wants us to trust and rely on HIM while aspiring and walking in Holiness

      Porn is filth, addictive, corrosive filth

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  9. The question here is, does being married make it right?

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  10. Why watch one when you can't act legitimate private one ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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  11. It is very bad. It is evil!
    Is it okay for any married couple on this blog for their daughters to spread
    legs and shoot porn?๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ
    That is the ajuju n'ese okwu.
    So whose daughters (and sons) will shoot the ones they will watch?
    Okwa ajuju oo
    1 Thessalonians 5:22 Flee from every appearance of evil

    Porn feeds lust which is a work of the flesh. Galatians 5:19...and when one gets addicted to it, that one is finished
    completely and completely finished
    except of course Jesus saves him.

    My DH's friend and wife went to a gynecologist and complained that
    the fire don dey quench for bedroom ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š
    Gyne say make them begin watch porn ๐Ÿ˜ฑ๐Ÿ˜ฑ. Wifey no too flow for the matter
    because she felt that men being swayed by what they see, her oga fit resign kpata kpata for her matter come dey on top of another ๐Ÿค๐Ÿค
    So she carry matter come... You know say dudes no dey seek help sharp sharp for this kin matter. Na wifey drag am go gyne. Okay we reason am. My DH come dey involved...we open Scriptures show them plenty -Proverbs 31...quite alcohol (aphrodisiac but takes away the performance ability etc.)...begin
    to go on fruit fasts to detoxify your system...godliness is profitable in all things etc. 1 Tim. 4:6-7
    Two months of quitting alcohol and fruit fast, madam come my house come dey vomit. Na me drive am go hospital o. People wey say them no go born again don dey expect bouncing ๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿป Na for car I ask am how come
    as you yarn say una never legitimize for more than 6 months... she yarn me say oga no dey gree commot from on top again o ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ of course NO shoot off
    ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    1. Thank you for this ,
      I've been wondering if it was right too as I find it weird

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    2. Exactly what I was thinking.
      If you watch it but won’t act it or like for your loved ones to act it, whose loved ones will act the one you will watch?

      Issa NO from me.

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  12. To learn how to better please themselves, I think so.

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  13. It is their legal right to learn new styles for legitimate pounding.
    but naija girls will steal it, watch it and steal fuck join.
    mgbo Naija girls, okwa nnee?
    Ajuju n'ese okwu

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  14. See question o. Aboki with hin own kettle na.

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  15. Married people answer. Will be reading comments.

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  16. I watch porn with my hubby sometimes while having sex, it spices things up hot hot. He even sends me porn to watch when he's not in town ๐Ÿ˜€. I love that man.

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    1. Which means they are four of you in that room. You just had an orgy lady.

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    2. And he will be watching it and playing away match when he is not around.
      Elena, porn is wrong. You and your husband are addicts already and cannot stop it
      on your own. YOu need the Savior; Jesus to help you out of this dungeon you have launched yourselves
      into.

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  17. If they like nah.... As long as they are doing it together!!

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  18. Depending on the couples ability to flee over indulging themselves. Some people don't just know when to stop.

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  19. Thinking you are a couple and it's okay is how you delve deeper into what you are not supposed to. A married woman cried about how her husband addiction to porn ruined their marriage. Porn has unrealistic depiction of sex. And is also how a lot of deviance are introduced.

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    1. Tell them ooo

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    2. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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    3. Not exactly, you have extreme porn etc and normal sex acts and positions which should be enhanced. Nigerians are extremely myopic and think they are the only ones out there with a view, therefore creating a narrow mindset. Do you realise that over a billion Indians are aware and practice the Karma sutra? Are you also aware that parts of Africa practice Kunyaza, where you are taught ass man how to make a woman climax by rubbing the penis continuously against the clit? What false assumptions does porn bring? Is it to shatter your comfort zone of a one minute man? While porn can lead to fantasising about other women which I don't support, men and women should be exposed to various sexual positions and styles, to help them make the most out of sex. How many of you women have squirted out of pleasure? How many of you women have had an orgasm? How many of you Nigerian women have been fucked till you think you are going to explode? On the other hand, how many of you are left hanging each night and aren't satisfied? We don't talk about sex etc, talk lest of going for Kunyaza classes as people do in Rwanda, Uganda etc. Most of us aren't travelled the world over and our Nigerian mindset makes us think we are giants of Africa. How you gonna please those big Tanzanian women with size 10 waist and 16 hips? You think only the dick would, you need to know the key pleasure points. They are videos on the Kamasutra and Kunyata that are educational, you buy them from established bookstores in the west such as waterstones. Talk much more of when you attend a Kunyaza class as when I did on a visit to Tanzania. All you see is Kolakolagbo advert, which I'm not sure has been tested in proper labs, in order for the men to perform.

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    4. Cont....

      To totally rule out the outside influence of any sexual images in enhancing the please of sex is wrong. Most of you women who are praising your husband's fail to realise he either learnt the doggy and other positions from an ex who learnt it off porn, or he learnt it off porn himself. That short clip he watched on game of thrones where the lady was positioned in a reverse cowgirl, led him to practice it on you. We come from a.society that acts as if no one has sex, and yet we have almost 200 million citizens who came about from banging. The point is that you cannot totally exclude visual imaging from an effective sex life. In other parts of the world, like India, east Africa etc, you actually go to classes where you are taught these acts. They are for matured minds and couples attend. You both sit and watch as they make the woman squirt etc. You think you woke up on day and learnt how to sit on him when he was sitting and started to ride. Little clips from across the years taught you that.

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    5. Cont..

      Men talk about how they have sex with women when having a drink, different positions etc,.thereby creating a visual image. Same way women get excided when they hear their fellow females talk of how this guy carried them and fucked them well and deep. Those that haven't experienced it will stylishly say "how can he carry you and fuck you, is that possible"? While hoping for an answer that they can practice with. These are all verbal descriptions that lead to visual stimulation. All humanity practice some sort of porn, be it descriptive of or verbal in nature. Even some women go home and ask their husbands to fuck them based on some new style they over heard their friends talking about. From hanging on the corner of bed doggy etc, we have heard and talked of these stuff and put them to use. As I said, in Nigeria we go all funny when we hear sex talk.

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  20. No, I don't subscribe to it...

    I believe some porn artists are on drugs when doing the act and that may be the reason for the excess energy. A husband or wife will watch without knowing there's more to it and expects his/her partner to do the same, when they can't deliver, they'll start having issues.

    I don't just like it! MO...

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  21. Interesting post..
    Na did post get me today๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

    Reading mode activated

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  22. Pornography can be the first step on a very slippery slope of falling into even more immoralities (Romans 6:19). The addictive properties of pornography are documented facts. Just as drug abuse requires a user to always up the ante to achieve the same high, pornography drags one deeper and deeper into hard-core sexual addictions and ungodly desires.

    The three main kinds of sin are the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life (1 John 2:16). Pornography encompasses all of those. It definitely makes us lust after flesh, and it is undeniably a lust of the eyes. Pornography is not something we are to dwell upon, according to Philippians 4:8. Pornography is addictive (1 Corinthians 6:12; 2 Peter 2:19) and destructive (Proverbs 6:25-28; Ezekiel 20:30; Ephesians 4:19). Having lustful thoughts is the essence of pornography, and it is offensive to God (Matthew 5:28). (Note: Lust is not the same as love, which is what you would feel for your husband or wife.)

    The Bible says that “Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral" (Hebrews 13:4). Scripture never says what a husband and wife are or are not allowed to do sexually. Husbands and wives are instructed, “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time (1 Corinthians 7:5a). This verse perhaps lays down the principle for sexual relations in marriage. Whatever is done, it should be mutually agreed upon. No one should be encouraged or coerced to do something he or she is uncomfortable with or thinks is wrong. If a husband and wife both agree that they want to try something (e.g., oral sex, different positions, sex toys, etc.), then the Bible does not give any reason why they cannot.

    There are a few things, though, that are never allowable sexually for a married couple. The practice of “swapping,” or “swinging/swingers,” or “bringing in an extra” (threesomes, foursomes, etc.) is blatant adultery (Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3). Adultery is sin even if your spouse allows, approves, or even participates in it. Pornography appeals to the “lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes” (1 John 2:16) and is therefore condemned by God as well. A husband and wife should never bring pornography into their sexual union.

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    1. Thanks for sparing me the stress of typing. God bless you.

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    2. Thank you for expatiating

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    3. ๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ

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  23. I don't watch porn and I'll never subscribe to watching porn...

    Why should married couples be watching porn?

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  24. Porn hinders emotional intimacy. It leads to objectification and not a meaningful interaction.

    Porn makes one less likely to be pleased with their partner’s physical appearance, affection, and sexual performance.

    Porn promotes selfishness, all about getting pleasure and not giving.

    Porn demeans women.

    Porn lead to marital dissatisfaction and distorts views of men and women and changes sexual attitudes and behaviors.

    Porn is a gateway to Infidelity

    Porn alters the brain. Scientists at Cambridge University recently studied the brain scans of porn addicts and found that they looked exactly like those of drug addicts. Just like other addictive substances, porn fills the brain with dopamine. And the more you view pornography, the more desensitized you become.

    However, pornography is a little different than some addictions. Most alcoholics want more and more alcohol. But porn addicts don’t just want more porn – they want different porn. What was once exciting and arousing no longer satisfies them, and they look for harder and harder core porn. That’s why porn can become so addictive and that’s why porn never satisfies.

    Often pornography users venture into progressively perverse content, which is why pornography is linked to violence and crime. This can be seen in the extreme example of Ted Bundy. (If you don’t know the story of Ted Bundy, I highly suggest watching his interview.)

    We are not animals who cannot control our desires and instincts so we should not live like them. Pornography is wrong, in all aspects, and I encourage everyone battling with it to go to the Lord in prayer.

    A ring does not make porn different or better. Its still porn. It still is dangerous. Have you read about Porn stars and the lives they had? About the diseases they got? About how they were so degraded and objectified? Do you really think that people that act porn are not humans but objects for your pleasure?? When you think of your child or relative being a Porn star, would you want to watch them, married or not? Does being married make it right?

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  25. It's irritating and disgusting to me. Sex can be enjoyed between married couple without watching porn.

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  26. According to my deeper life friend it's good. That's what they watched on their wedding night. In fact an older Couple in the Church recommended it. She told me this the day I caught her Watching porn. I was shocked. When She is in the mood she just starts playing the Video Oga Will sharply comply.

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    1. Don't worry, continue using your friend as your indicator of what's good or not simply because she attends deeper life.

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  27. There are some expectations you would want to achieve when you are watching porn. Porn stars oftentimes have multiple sex patners, hence they do and learnt different things from various partners. When you try those stuffs and your expectations are not met, then, problems arise. It's just better to not watch and just learn with your spouse. Then you figure out what works best for you.

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  28. Ok...I am married and very liberal and I agree with all the points above. I have grown, explored and matured. I don't subscribe to been to been told how to think. I find out for myself, learn and understand.....at a younger age I watched porn occasionally although I preferred watching ladies, Karma Sutra, soft porn they say....but I found myself feeling filthy afterwards and horrible. The feeling afterwards lingered for longer than the pleasure of watching the porn...do the maths...

    I got married... hubby and I would watch porn occasionally. We both low key didn't want to be accused of been rigid..until one day, I couldn't hide my disgust and hubby was relieved about it...he too found it off.

    In summary, thankfully BV'S have provided the biblical backing which I have checked out...but the practical side is that porn actually contaminates and distorts the kind of bonding a couple should be aiming for...it's an intrusion..if you get to the point where you need to watch porn to get your mojo on, then a big problem has been born...
    A friend's hubby could not get it on without watching porn, she didn't know until they were married...guy man will search for video and keep on stand by..when they are at it, he will go doggy and be watching his porn from behind and she didn't know...he always strategically positioned and muted his phone...the day she found out...that's another story for another day...

    So issa NO sorry.xxx

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  29. Ok...I am married and very liberal and I agree with all the points above. I have grown, explored and matured. I don't subscribe to been to been told how to think. I find out for myself, learn and understand.....at a younger age I watched porn occasionally although I preferred watching ladies, Karma Sutra, soft porn they say....but I found myself feeling filthy afterwards and horrible. The feeling afterwards lingered for longer than the pleasure of watching the porn...do the maths...

    I got married... hubby and I would watch porn occasionally. We both low key didn't want to be accused of been rigid..until one day, I couldn't hide my disgust and hubby was relieved about it...he too found it off.

    In summary, thankfully BV'S have provided the biblical backing which I have checked out...but the practical side is that porn actually contaminates and distorts the kind of bonding a couple should be aiming for...it's an intrusion..if you get to the point where you need to watch porn to get your mojo on, then a big problem has been born...
    A friend's hubby could not get it on without watching porn, she didn't know until they were married...guy man will search for video and keep on stand by..when they are at it, he will go doggy and be watching his porn from behind and she didn't know...he always strategically positioned and muted his phone...the day she found out...that's another story for another day...

    So issa NO sorry.xxx

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  30. Don't like porn. It has never moved me. Does not get aroused watching it.

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  31. Porn opened my life to tortue from evil spirit ,thank God i was able to trace that my life started fallen apart after seeing one on porn hub. I went for deliverance and also fasting , my life was restored. I personally have vowed never to watch porn.

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  32. Porn is good. Sometimes when I come, it doesn't mean that it is my wife that makes me come. During sex I fantasize that I am doing it with Naomi banxx or Jadafire, and the explosion is out of this world. Some husbands whose wives got fat after marriage need this fantasy to be able to get full erection. Sex is in the mind.

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    1. Describing porn as a need is already sounding like addiction and bondage

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  34. Porn is addictive , destructive and disgusting.It objectify you and your spouse.

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  35. It's okay for some couples and to some it's not. I prefer to explore kamasutra than watch porn with my partner

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