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Sunday, February 09, 2020

Boredom Eliminating Post

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  1. In some cases. In my case, my Male besties started catching feelings.

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  2. Yesssss..... if they both have sense tho

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  3. There ain't no settling this matter. ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ˜

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    1. Yeah,platonic relationship between a man and woman is possible but it is always one sided

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  4. Dunno really! But I used to have friends then who never made a move!can't tell if within them they wanted dating

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  5. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
    No: Mbanu. Friends get boundaries. Not after I escaped being raped.
    My DH's friends are not "my friends" they are "our family friends". Their wives are my friends.
    I know I won't lust after another man but I can't vouch for the men in this regard. SOME of them (without self control) think with their drilling rods. ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ˜Š

    For those my (Naija) Sisis that keep males as bff, I hail una o. Lion and goats chopping grass together. The day he rapes you, he will shift blame to Satan's dormut.๐Ÿ˜ข๐Ÿ˜ข

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    1. ANG you must be a really hot woman sha ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚ and by the way not all MEN are animals that lack self control, I empathize with you regarding your near rape experience and I understand how that would make you think like this. But let me tell you, there are some men out there that if you like, walk around naked they will not touch you! I have a friend like that; very, very disciplined man. One time I had to crash at his place due to certain circumstances and I was confident that he wouldn’t try funny business and indeed he was quite the gentleman. Sacrificed his bed for me and slept on the floor.
      Not all men are deranged creatures who think with their dcks

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    2. @Snarker
      Thanks for your input without shooting arrows. Apart from my DH,
      I won't stay in the same house with a man even if the house has
      12 rooms and each with burglary proof doors. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
      Ehhh talk about lions that don't eat goats inugo. Once they see
      big smooth nyanshes covered with clothes they will be dreaming and
      thinking how to uncover it. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚
      HOw many "have I known chronicles" have we read here, including last week???
      Okwa ezigbote ajuju o ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚

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    3. I so love snarKer!!! You really must be quite a woman!

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  6. If the ladies, married or not want to tell us the truth, those male best friends are either sex or flirting mates. Some of them are spare tyres. The ladies just put them on the side in case the big fish they are pursuing escapes (being trapped).
    ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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  7. Is very hard to see that, at the beginning of their friendship it could be possible but with time things will change. If both don't catch feelings for each other one will be catching feelings for each other. The only way out is both should set boundaries, do not be too close that you share every little secret.

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    1. @Madam B
      How, where and when?
      When he is full of lust, will he tell you?
      If he rips you apart when you are alone with him
      in your room, what will you do?

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    2. Anon 18.21
      If he is full of lust, then he is not your friend and as a woman you will know when a man is lusting after you, without him telling you.
      You should not be alone with a man in a room.
      Before I got married, i use to have a Male bestie, we were very close, we go to eateries together, he comes to visit me in my parents house because we stay on same street, we only sit outside my compound whenever he comes visiting.
      I remembered when a guy asked him to talk to me that he wants to marry me. My friend encouraged me to date the guy. My friend was so protective of me that he encouraged me not to give into sex.
      We were very close until he was sent abroad to continue his study of being a surgeon, we were still very close but we lost contact and his family has already moved out of the area then.
      We reconnected via Facebook, he is married now, he married a girl he was eyeing then on our street.
      He did not ever catch feelings or lust over me.

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    3. @Madam B
      Just like that chronicle poster last week knew and followed the man to his house.? Didn't she run out naked?
      And you won't mind if your husband has female friends, plenty of them and is chatting with them day and night?
      ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ๐Ÿ˜ฎ

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  9. Lead us not into temptation, deliver us from evil. Amen ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿป๐Ÿคท‍♀️

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  10. The question is, how many of you ladies when married will love to have your husband keep female friends?
    How many? ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿป‍♀️

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  11. Yes
    I've had such even on this blog. J, I hail o

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  12. hmmmmm, I'm a lady, married but catching feelings for my name friend and its mutual, but we know we can't get physical, but the feeling is outta this world

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  13. Judging by my own experience,
    I had a very close friend of over 14 years ,
    No strings attached his friends even used to mock him .
    We were super close n never for a day did he make a move .
    So yes its possible.

    And also it might be Impossible in some cases as I had another close friend that once told me he used to have feelings for me but it died a natural death ,
    Nothing ever happened btw us.

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    1. I also have a friend, we've been friends since 2004. Not until I got married his friends thought we were dating. Even his girlfriends thought we were dating.

      Nothing ever happened between us

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  14. It's possible. I'm saying for myself, can't say about the person above and below me.

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  15. I work in an industry where you have mostly males. The females you see are tea girls, receptionist and the likes. Most of my friends are males. I'm married. I'm even a counselor to some on outside work issues. Of course once in a while you come across those who want to cross the line- I just drop them and move on. But I do have some for years who are still there. I prefer male friends.

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    1. Females that actually prefer male friends: ๐Ÿคข๐Ÿคฎ๐Ÿคฎ

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    2. @18:41 And if the roles are switched, hope you won't fight your husband's female friends?

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    3. Anon 20:43. Thank you for the question. When table turn now, you see them spiting fire, calling holy ghost.

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  16. I'm not an advocate of being besties with guys cos i had 3 male besties at one point in my life and they all tried to hit. ๐Ÿ‘Ž๐Ÿป

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  17. It's impossible. One must be having feelings for the other.

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  18. To some women, possible. To MAJORITY men, not possible

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  19. It is possible, but very rare. I can attest to that of someone I know. As for me, the guys I made my bestie ended up catching feelings and that's how I'll made the friendship go cold...don't want to hear stories that touch

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  20. Yes ooo. I have one, 5yrs and counting. No one is catching feelings.

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  21. I'm not sure o. One person may be Catching Feelings and not make a move.

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    1. Exactly, catch feeling but not make a move.

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  22. It is not possible. Science said opposite charges attract each other.I work in a company that is Male dominated. My Male colleagues wanted to visit me.I told them point black that I don't allow Male visitors. One of our co-worker,a female was more accommodating than me .She allowed them to come,things went out of the way.Though she may be lucky.I think she is making out with one .If they succeed.I will say she got a jackpot because the guy is a husband material. More like the ladies men(will faithful to the core).The girl is more of a wayward (pH girls no dey carry last).I just pray that the guy don't fall the victim.

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  23. Except the guy is gay, if not I don't see a friendship without list, it could come from either side (the guy or the babe) most friendships like that are only still existing cos of mutual respect.

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    1. Exactly, mutual respect is what keeps friendship.

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  24. ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚my male friends all have feelings for me...buh I let them know that no matter what I see them all as my brothers and at such I can't feel same way for them๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿ˜ฅ๐Ÿ˜ฅ#BaeisBeulah

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  25. No,I don't think so. Most men usually get close ti a lady with an ulterior motive. They end up expressing their feelings along the line.

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  26. yes.... It's not everything that's related to sex.....

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  27. They can, but they have to probably already be married with families. With singles I don't think so.

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  28. Those of us saying it’s impossible, are u guy’s insinuating that Yvonne Nelson/John Dumelo, OC Ukeje/Lala A , she eventually was one of OC’s grooms men & Tonto/Swanky friendships were sexually into each other? May be some of u were either younger, in school or not religiously following d entertainment “grooves” then , but these three couples were besties & stepping out regularly together on d red carpet ,& made us believe they were platonic friends who were there for each other. I personally believed there were no amorous strings attached to their friendships & YES, it is possible for a guy & a lady to be too close for comfort without that sort of intimacy.

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    1. When did any of these three friendships become a yardstick for bestie(ship)? People that got to know themselves in adulthood. Anyway I believe it is very possible. I have a number of them. Most of them will try rubbish if you allow them yes, but a number of them are equally fantastic as just friends. Once you catch feelings unless our friendship is very tight, you are gone. If we are tight, I start giving you space. I won't have a problem with my husband having female friends if they are sensible.

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  29. Okay ladies, let me put it like this, if you get naked and invite your bestie to fuck, would he turned down the offer? If your answer is NO , then forget it. Friends are NOT supposed to have sexual feelings for each other, when such feelings are involved, then you guys are MORE than friends.

    Blessings

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    1. 90% will fuck the living day light out of you.

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  30. In theory, I can. But many men have a way of getting confused and silly. Before you can say "huh?" they've come up with fantasies and stories, and even expect you to feel flattered. RME. So, no. My bestie is my husband.

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