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Saturday, March 14, 2020

Saturday In House Gist -Protecting Your Spouse From Close Friends

Are you mindful of what you tell your friends about your partner or you trust them so much that you tell it all,all the time?






There is a school of thought that goes ''No matter how sweet or caring your Husband or wife is,don't tell your friends about them...Especially women,who hardly believe until they have confirmed...So if you are telling your girlfriends how sweet your husband is and how generous he is,they might want some of the action''

Do you agree with this school of thought?Did it happen to you or someone you know? Did you gist your friend about your man she she snatched him?Or you gisted your friend about your woman and she ended up in his bed?
Lets gist!

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    1. Me that I normally tell my friends that my boyfriend has a small dick and can’t do anything. I tell them he is very stingy and I don’t even know what I’m doing with him sef. I tell them I paid his rent and buy food for him.

      Whenever I mention his name, they use one eye to look at me like ‘what is this one saying’ but deep down, he makes me orgasm and gives the best head. He put me on monthly allowance and even cooks for me. He even puts my clothes in washing machine that I sometimes ask him to slow down so people won’t think I cook vegetable for him. Let me enjoy my thing in peace. I’m sure if he even ask anyone out himself, they will insult him.

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    2. I no dey talk oh. What happens in my house remains in my house. Not even my mama or siblings do i tell. We fight and make up without third party oh.

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    3. Yotomi why lie to us? If it's true you need to change your circle of friends...why must you even discuss your guy with them? Na wa o

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    4. Yotomi you sound childish.

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  2. The day I signed that dotted line I told myself I will never reveal anything that goes on in my home to any friend. No matter how close you're to me. My hubby is my mini god and I will always respect him and protect him outside. Most friends are wolves in sheep clothing. They're happy when you're sad and full of envy and jealousy when you're happy.

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    1. Then, they aren't your friends

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    2. Mini God...haaaahaa carry your into marriage
      Some men are baaad...when they notice this mindset they isolate you from family and friends and manipulate you till you become sub human and moronic.

      No one should be your mini God

      Respect a man but realize he is fallible too.

      Na so my mini God go carry my best friends sis recently not knowing who she was and the kiddo innocently followed a new toaster.

      If my friend didn't know his details and past atrocities we would have had a fight over a "mini God ".

      Bottom line. Watch your friends and decide where to draw the line with them . Watch your husband and decide where to draw the line with him

      No one can be snatched without his consent...nonsense!

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    3. that word mini god sounds one kind but i bet he is good to you..

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    4. Black Diamond your mindset is warp

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    5. Black diamond what u said is true..... I almost lost the happiness in my home when I let my childhood friend come visit.... From visit she said she cant go back.. From one day to 2 days to 3 days to weeks to months... My dear 6 whole months!!!!! You know bt just tell to leave your house like that and u be using style to tell them to leave. Yes that's the one. To make matters worse I saw the side of her I never knew all my life! She tells terrible lies against one person and say it's the other.. Then she will jam their heads and watch as the fight unfolds.
      I can't even begin to talk about the things she said about my husband, my sisters, and every menber of my family and she tells one person what will make him or her fight the other person.
      She will also go to my back and be texting my husband that am the cause of the problems in my house when it was glaring that her lies about the whole household was the problem. The day we Identified her as the problem that was when I told her to leave my house... Before she left my house was full of sadness and malice and I could see the joy in her eyes as a result. My dear February 13 2020 makes it exactly one year she left my home for good..... She's still wondering from one friend House to another and when they find out her nature they push her out. Currently since she left my home she has stayed in not less than 5 places... Not that she don't have someone in this Eko ooo.... But her brother leaves in the shop where he sells..she needs a tush house that befits her packaging!

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  3. Real Housewives inspired post. Only idle/bored women stay discussing their husband's prowess and generosity. I'm awaiting ANG's story, she always have one. 😁

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    1. Prof perxian slaughtering English but always quick to point out others mistake. You don't even know when to use has and have. what a pity Prof.

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    2. ANG didnt finish yesterday's story as she promised. Not fair

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    3. oh no!
      Now she will not come here with a story. You should not have mentioned her name

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    4. 15:03 Such a pity prof. 😭

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    5. Stella it depends oooo. If he's abusive I'll talk. I'll tell everyone who cares to listen

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  4. Let me grab popcorn🍿 and wait for comments. This should be very interesting 😊

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  5. I don't discuss relationship matters with "friends" I guard "us" jealousy. Cos in a bid to show off innocently what you are enjoying and how sweet he is, you are putting him in danger. Out of envy, they want to ruin your relationship. Some would definitely want to try out their luck with him, if he is lose, he will fall. But when he doesn't fall, there's serious problem.
    I love to keep it on the low for peace sake. No need awakening sleeping weak demons πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

    Sluttychic.

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  6. When I was dating my ex, my roommate kept telling me every minute how lucky and blessed I am. I always wave that topic off because my relationship isn't her business.
    One day, d guy sent me money and asked me to give my roomie 20k. I was like OK. I wanted to ask why but I knew I won't give her a dime so I didn't stress it.
    It was one day when we had a little misunderstanding she told me that did I think she didn't know about d cash my guy said I should give her.
    I was surprised because I thought it was only through my phone they communicate, I didn't know she has been selling me off. Like when I have a new toaster, she will tell him. She stole his phone no from my phone.

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    1. I don't know if i should chastise you or applaud you.

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    2. I'm sure you've learned your lessons. How could you allow your roommate access to your boyfriend? The signs are always there. They tell you how lucky you are and always try to get info from you.
      God forbid bad thing. I keep my relationship to myself. Not everyone is happy for you.

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    3. Wow! And he's now your ex?

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    4. Wow 😨 I hope your friendship with her is over?
      Cheap friend.

      Sluttychic.

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    5. Lol at perxian.
      Yes the relationship ended when I told my bf that I want to get my own place. It was impossible to avoid her totally and still live with her in d same house. She's someone that carries face when u don't tell her all your moves. She went ahead and told my ex that it was a man that got the place for me and all..
      We dated for 4 years before he relocated bkos he got a new job. All this while, we were getting married with mouth o. I got tired and told my friend one day that since the guy isn't ready, I will break up with him and date someone else. I didn't know she was telling him every every

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    6. So after the 20k incident you kept telling her things?
      I hope you have baptized your mouth now?

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  7. I think it depends on the kinds of friends you keep. When My friend had her push present I was the first person she called to rejoice with her. When her sweetheart bought her another car just because, she called me and you could tell she couldn't hide her excitement and wasn't sceptical about sharing because hey! I am not married. Though she pleaded with me to not tell a few other friends who were also married. So it depends on that particular friend Not everyone is jealous or scheming to take your man.

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    1. πŸ’―πŸ’―πŸ’―
      Emphasis on:
      1) depends on the sort of friends.
      2) Not everyone is jealous or scheming to take your man.
      I and my bestie have known each other for more than 25yrs..attended the same pry, sec, varsity.. We are sisters, just not from same mother.
      We are two peas in a pod.
      We are both married, thriving in our respective careers and acing through life whilst still genuinely supporting and loving each other.
      This whole asα»‹rα»‹ and snatching thingy doesn't apply to us.. Nah ah.
      So, I mean,.. Clearly depends. 🀷‍♀️

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    2. exactly.
      I have friends who tells me how nice and good their bfs are. They know I’m a sucker for love so when they have lovely stories to tell, they tell me.
      I just love love.

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    3. @sabella thank you oo.
      Someone is even saying that she is careful of her female friends who are single except the marriedone she trust .like married ones aren't the most cheating nowadays.

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    4. The issue is not whether you have or are a good friend. An adult woman should know to keep somethings to herself. It's just basic self respect.

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  8. During my days in the university,i had a childhood friend who was more or less like a sister to me, she is an orphan. I loved her so much.Whenever she's on holiday,she comes to my place at school,she was schooling in Benin whilst i schooled in Lagos. We used this opportunity to go to my boyfriends place together,cook together and also sleep together in his home o.Whenever she is stranded at school or had issues with paying her fees I compel my BF to help out,he does this without hesitation. After sometime my BF started restricting me from being friends with her ,i stood my ground and told him i would never stay away from my friend cos the person in question is a godly girl,she didn't have earlobe,we pray together even at my parents home...Long story short,my BF confessed to me ,that she leaves Benin to spend days at his house and they have fu**** multiple times,i called her to ask immediately and she opened up to me and said my BF started it.I stopped dating the nonsense guy and also stopped being friends with her.Right now,i don't entertain unmarried friends at all,If you must come visiting,come with your husband so as to avoid stories that touches the heart.

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    1. Aunty Rhoda come and see something here..

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    2. Lmao πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚ you don't entertain unmarried friends. Some of the married ones are even worse.

      Sluttychic.

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    3. wow some friends are wicked sha

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    4. What did I just read?

      Thank God you dumped both of them. The stupid guy too could not resist her if she started the whole thing, your so called friend too could not say 'No' of the guy started it.
      I applaud your bravery. Some girls would have dumped only their friend and continued with the man to 'pepper' her

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    5. I am single and hate being insulted please. That's why I dont visit my married colleagues and friends and they are all complaining that I am distant. Let me be distant than be seen as a problem or potential problem from someone I called a friend.

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    6. Well done babes πŸ‘ for dumping the two and not your friend alone.

      In my own case, my useless ex asked my friend out just because we spent a night together at his place and I was in the kitchen while I left the two of them gisting. You won't believe the motherfucker used that opportunity to ask her out. But I have the best friend ever. That was the end of the nonsense relationship oo even though he begged and begged. I cannot deal edakun. But my friend is still my baby girl for life.

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    7. @At anon 21:04 lucky you.I wish my friend did same though.It is well!

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    8. Please what happened to her earlobe?!!!

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    9. 01.48 the ear lobe probably wasn't pierced, could be for religious reasons e.g.not wearing earrings.

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  9. If I must tell u anything about my spouse, anything at all, it must only be the good stuff. No need airing your dirty linen in public.


    It's absolutely not recommended telling any outsider about your issues, be it ur pastor, parents, parents in law, siblings etc except that matter has totally gone out of your hands.

    Let's be honest, there are some things we should never keep to ourselves especially when violence is involved

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    1. True. Good stuffs.

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    2. Plural of stuff is just stuff not stuffs. Thanks and God bless

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  10. The only person i tell small is my mum

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  11. When I was a student, I found out that my friends had the habit of seeing my bf's without my knowledge. Now that I am married, they dnt know anything about me. I dnt advertise my family on social media, infact I live a very secretive life. Considering that some of them are still unmarried. I dnt want stories that touch.

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    1. As a man I really pity single ladies as people like you just see them as a social nuisance

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    2. Single ladies just marry...just marry ooo and avoid people categorizing you in a bad way like Anon 15.17 and many others . Na wa oooooo

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  12. There was a time like 9 years ago, me and my friend were talking about one babe from our high school that now sleeps around. Like she can sleep with anyone and we heard she’s good in bed.

    Anyway, her boyfriend(as of then) was with us when we were talking and was very interested in her escapades.

    A few hours later after I had gone back home, her boyfriend called me that can I please give him that Cynthia girls number? - I said for what he said haaa that one of his friends wants to sample her!

    Just imagine! I blatantly refused.

    Guess what??? My friend still eventually married him. Although I never told her About it, the guy was a known player and the first time he did something like that and Cheated, she eventually went back to him so I was not in the position to advise her again. Anyway now of course her marriage is cheating chronicles.

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    1. If your had told her she would have turned you to an enemy considering the fact that cheating is nothing to her. She opened her eyes and married a cheat, let her face the music.

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  13. Tell who exactly? Three is a crowd, remember. Do you reveal your bank account information? My partner isnt for public consumption and if I must, definitely a general and public thing.

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  14. I can't reveal what is going on in my home to friends, especially the type of friends are have, they are happy when you sad, I have seen the Good,
    bad and ugly so am always very careful

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    1. Ariella, you should not keep on being friends with those kind of people you know.
      You still refer to them as friends? People who rejoice when you are sad? They are dangerous people my dear.
      If I had a relative like that I would 'unrelative' the person

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  15. I dont have friends...i have families(in Vin Diesel's voice)

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  16. I and my friends don't discuss deep issues like that. I don't want to hear your own, pls don't tell me. Also, I won't tell you my own. We only discuss kids, our jobs, family affairs like upcoming weddings, etc

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  17. I've been a bad friend once. She was my friend's neighbor and we were all kinda close. I was just 20 yrs if dat can be an excuse. I stole her bf and slept with him. Told him things about her which he later told her but she didn't know I was d one who did it cus my friend's roommate was also my namesake. It still haunts me till today and I regret every of my actions den

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    1. BVs will finish you today..

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    2. Most of us at one point or the other have done things we are not proud of. As long as we are sincerely repentant and confess it to God, He totally forgives us and we should forgive ourselves too. So, please forgive yourself and move past it. The past is past but you have the present and future to live right.

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    3. EV, that's very true. A lot of people need to hear this so they stop beating themselves down and feeling guilty.

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  18. I don’t discuss my marriage with anyone, my husband is my gossip partner. I have very good friends around me but I don’t let our discussion center around my man.

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  19. I remember my colleague over a decade ago, her name is Mabel. We only worked one night together and that was it. She spoke at length about 4//5 suitors from London to Holland. I didn't really know what suitors meant at the time cos we are not from the same tribe. I kept asking why she would allow such, talking and travelling to meet these people from London. Anyway, long story short, I told her about my boyfriend that was a year older and how he supports me to pay school fees when I have plenty. I used her phone that night to flash him to call me back. Weeks later, my BF showed me a number I didn't recognise on his phone. He said the lady called and kept calling him different names and he kept saying sorry wrong number and she hung up. I called the number lo and behold it was my colleagues number I was shocked but I didn't say anything. 2/3 years later I saw her on my street, I was married and she was too. She lived few houses away and she invited me in. I saw her hubby and his friends and her 2 weeks old baby. She got married to one of her suitors but that one visit made me realise his clique and the nature of his business so I never visited again. Few weeks later she called me to tell me how hubby calls her a witch and how violent he gets at times even with the new born. Omo, I just mind my business o. My house is just 2mins walk to hers but I didn't bother stopping by since my last visit, not because of what she did to me but more about their clique that could get anyone into trouble for yonder.

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