Former Oyo First Lady Florence Ajimobi Reveals How She Reacts When She Catches Her Husband Cheating And Gives Marriage Advice

Former Oyo state first lady Florence Ajimobi had a conversation with her daughter, Abisola Kola Daisi on Instagram live,and revealed that she has caught her hubby,the former governor Abiola Ajimobi cheating on her several times but forgave him each time...

She also advised her daughter on marriage issues and how to turn a blind eye to a man's cheating ways. 

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Mum -Even on one or two occasions that I've caught him cheating,

Daughter Abisola -Doing what?


Mum -Cheating, cheating,and then he will apologize. And once he apologizes and it ends, I never go back to them again, I never Bisola, I never ever discussed it ..... what I'm saying is, to err is human, to forgive is divine. We are friends Even though as a wife, sometimes I fall below his expectations. Sometimes we do things that is even worse than cheating.



Daughter -Like what, What is worse? What can I do that is worse than cheating?


Mum- I know some women that build houses without their husbands knowing.
Having a relationship with the woman he loves is making love, it's not having s#x. So if you are cheap enough, give yourself to my husband, he will use you and go his away. He's mine and whatsoever is mine will come back to me. 

Daughter- (mutters 'wow' below her breath) and says out loudly " I agree with that"


Mum - I tell people it's my leftover you are eating, he's my leftover, I've eaten the better part of him, I get the chunk of the meat, eat the bone, it's none of my business


Daughter- Exactly!!!


Mum- As you are doing it hush hush hush, you are not enjoying it. Cos you are stealing, you are looking if somebody is there....... Am I going to be caught? He's my husband, he can't go anywhere else. If you don't love your husband you won't be jealous, a woman who doesn't love her husband will not care what he does out there. She doesn't care. Even when you see him, you don't care.


(Continues with her conversation) :

'' When I see my husband, you know, ahn ahn, I feel like dying. When I love him so much and I don't want to be seen as a failure to lose him to somebody else, so I fight for him. I'm always fighting for him, always fighting to get him back, and he knows. Do you understand what I am saying?

Sometimes, I see my husband... I can google the girl's name and then I just print out the picture and put it on the bed. When he comes back from work, he sees the girl's picture on his bed and he knows the girl.
"I put her name, I put her telephone number(Abisola exclaims "Yeeeh") and I don't say a word. I don't say a word. I've done it before, ask him. I print it out.
Because, when I see the phone, I use Truecaller, it will give me the name of the person. I'll google the name of the person.Even, one was living in America. I googled her, printed her picture, put it on the bed.
What do you have to say? And I left.


So, when he went into the room, he saw it on the bed. I don't know what happened. I wasn't there. I don't know what he did But, you know, he now came to me later that, "Can we discuss?" I said, "About what? Nothing to discuss" 'Do you want me to send her away?' I said, "Pay her off'."

Abisola - Mummy you are SAVAGE!!


Mum- I want to keep my home. So, where would I go? I'll go and be staying alone, when I've laboured all these while then somebody will come and enjoy? Never, It's not going to happen. Never! Never. Never! Never!