Show me a couple that have never had a disagreement or misunderstanding in their marriage and I'll tell you they are still in denial and being deceptive.
Given the different background, orientation and upbringing , there are bound to be some sort of friction in living together as one and if such friction is not quickly resolved, it may lead to a breakdown in communication and create a Berlin wall in the home..
The period of this silence may range from hours to days, weeks or even months depending on the gravity of the matter at hand and the willingness to quickly resolve issues.
Once a couple resolve the issues between them and release all the anger and pent up emotions,their love takes on a new meaning .......A Better path so to say...
Once a couple settles the differences between them,the intimacy and gbenshing is second to none.....Abi na lie i talk?
Once a couple settles the differences between them,the intimacy and gbenshing is second to none.....Abi na lie i talk?
The gbenshing nobi here o!
ReplyDeleteIt is always so HOT! like you can't just get enough of each other🙄🙄😁😁😁🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Why are you running? Biko come back 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteLol @ Jessi. Are you there? Or have ever been there?
Delete"Once a couple settles the differences between them, the intimacy and gbenching is second to none"..... Not in all cases.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you Nnuku nwanyi. It depends on what caused the altercation in the first place and how we handled it.
DeleteThank you.
DeleteI no know if u lie o. Not there yet
ReplyDeleteNa True talk she yarn 😄😄
DeleteNo Stella you no lie....but my issue now is that;that Berlin wall is building now with concrete in my home because of finance....i wasn't paid march salary as a teacher,i have brought feeding money from that march to may,yet my folks said i am not doing well!!!intact it is now bring money we laugh, no bring we frown lifestyle
ReplyDeleteLet whoever wants to frown frown. Abi what do you want to do now? Kill yourself or go into runs. After all you were bringing before
DeleteNot in every cases, altercation can bring resentment and anger into a marriage in some situations.
ReplyDeletehmmmmm I ve not been there yet.......
ReplyDeleteThis write up is the real deal.
ReplyDeleteThat's why I always act like the observer when a couple is having issues cos most times,they settle their differences
You no lie oh, couples do have misunderstanding and it's important to resolve it, the gbenching 🤩🤩🤩🤩
ReplyDeleteIt's not true abeg. For me am tired of the man I married. He's a terrible nag. Even the kids call him a nag. My first child would just do things in advance to avoid him. Complains when you pour water in the kitchen sink which still goes outside oh. Says only clean water can be poured into the sink. He won't Cook and won't let you cook in peace. Would keep telling you how to cook. Please oh don't add too much salt oh, don't spice it too much. When you don't add salt to taste he will complain that he's not feeling the taste of the food. Chaiii I don suffer. Fourteen years of being treated like a maid!!! I earn close to half a million yet this man won't let me just enjoy peace. Am planning to relocate. He'd be seriously surprised.
ReplyDeleteSome husband's won't let you make heaven no matter how hard you try so all my kids know I'd soon leave. He accused me of chasing away all my domestic staff imagine, the last left to go and learn trade. He was even the one delaying the girl because she was very helpful in house chores and I repeatedly told him that this girl needed to go improve on her self. I had to fire the poor girl after I got her a sewing machine. He feels he's the kingkong of the house. Am tired. You don't feed your family, you don't buy me clothes, I buy my kids beverage. The school fees you were paying was from a joint account oh. Pretended all through our dating days, I should have just walked away when I saw he was from a dysfunctional home with a very diabolical mother but I entered. Anyway God is still in control. But we need to revaluate if this will still work and we'd do that apart. So that we'd know for real who's deceiving who in this marriage. When we make up after a quarrel there's no making out just go and sleep. When you go to him to arouse him he'd tell you he's not in the mood and nothing you do excited him, but this same person comes to you and won't take a no for an answer even when he sees that you are tired from work. So I stopped going to him. Na wah oh.
I am weak🚶♀️🚶♀️🚶♀️, you are a strong woman
DeleteNa that relocation go make sense.
This one ....... NA WAAAAA.
DeleteFor the children to be aware of such in him and shy away, e don pass something else. Please just try and do you and be happy
My dear..the Lord is your strength
DeleteHmmm....may give continue to give you strength. You deserve to be happy.🤗🤗
DeleteSorry ma'am. May God strengthen you.
DeleteThis is serious... so sorry, ma'am... May God lead you...
Delete100% true. Even when it seem like you won't forgive eachother😁 this sweet gbenshing no be here
ReplyDeleteNot in all cases
ReplyDeleteIt doesn't work for me, i'm very sensitive to words.
ReplyDeleteNot there yet.
ReplyDeleteI'm getting ready for my own reconciliation gbenshing tonight after work......
ReplyDeleteIt all depends on the kind of issue oh. I believe there are some issues you'd have, let's take for example, DV, who ever fully recovers from that even after 'settling'
ReplyDeleteI agree with you, it really depends on the issue ...I can't look forward to a reconciliation gbenshing from a cheating spouse.
DeleteIt depends on the gravity of the misunderstanding.
ReplyDeleteUsed to be really hot with my ex, Kai, I like to offend him bfr we see so I'll get d most of him after settlement.
ReplyDeleteNow my fiance is insisting of celibacy bfr marriage, man is a V, I hope his deek game is like that of my ex or better sef, I love him so much but lord pls, let his deek game be banging 🙏
🤣🤣🤣🤣
DeleteAmen.
Melancholy
@Anon 15.12 please don't get carried with that word virgin before you enter one chance, take him to a lab for test please. My cousin almost enter one chance with one guy deceiving her that he is a virgin .
DeleteSo true I guess.Hope this can't be guessed she cos I'm still not dr
ReplyDelete@13:55 may The Lord God Almighty heal your marriage. I have been married for 6 months now and never pray to experience such a situation.
ReplyDeleteJust be strong.
Not all the time,gbenshing after quarreling about infidelity leaves a sour taste and a ghost in the bedroom......
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